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What does it say about a person when he or she can't cope with change?

It sends me off the deep end. I can't cope with it well.

by Anonymousreply 304/01/2013

You're a conservative.

by Anonymousreply 104/01/2013

It means you don't have a developed sense of how to cope. Basically, you have not developed the "tools" for it. I used to be this way, and it crippled me. I hated anything that changed, and I would cry and worry and get really depressed. I was in therapy for a while, and learned some mechanisms. Even the really simple ones (stop and take a breath, don't take an action immediately) can be monumentally helpful when dealing with change.

by Anonymousreply 204/01/2013

Even the Buddha recognizes that this (change) is the root of all suffering. So don't be hard. Learn to breathe through it. I myself hate change.

by Anonymousreply 304/01/2013
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