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Is My Man Cheating?

I was snooping on his work laptop while he was taking a shower and I noticed a nesting doll like trail of New Folders and after like 10 there was a folder named CP that I couldn't open without a password.

I know he works with a guy named Chris P-something. I wouldn't really think it was his type, but it makes sense with this being his work laptop.

I'm guessing he's got pics of him ... or do you think they've made videos or taken pics together?

I can't stop thinking about what kind of files he has of this Chris dude that he needs to hide?

Should I just ask him about it, or start spying? Or forget about it? Forgetting about it seems unlikely to be honest.

by Anonymousreply 5404/01/2013

Ask him about it.

by Anonymousreply 103/31/2013

Go boil a bunny.

by Anonymousreply 203/31/2013

Probably. But then again, you could just be paranoid and fucking things up as usual.

by Anonymousreply 303/31/2013

How come you were snooping on his work computer when he was in the washroom, OP? Did you suspect him of something in the past or did he do something in the past? If not, this appears to be an invasion of his privacy.

by Anonymousreply 403/31/2013

Not cool not trust one's mate. You deserve what you find out.

by Anonymousreply 503/31/2013

CP probably stands for child pornography. Don't hesitate. Call the FBI this second then get back to us and let us know how it all turned out.

by Anonymousreply 603/31/2013


by Anonymousreply 703/31/2013

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by Anonymousreply 803/31/2013

Oh for fucks sake

by Anonymousreply 903/31/2013

Well, I'll give you a point or two for a novel approach to this EST. What with planting the CP seed amidst the topic of snooping on your boyfriend.

OP is hoping that we'll suggest that CP stands for child porn, and that there will then ensue a hurricane of concern and outrage, quickly driving the thread to max out.

But hey, if you all want to play along, go for it.

by Anonymousreply 1003/31/2013

R10. Wannabe Jessica fletcher

by Anonymousreply 1103/31/2013

What r8 said.

by Anonymousreply 1203/31/2013

Maybe he's developing a top secret cure for Cerebral Paulsy...

by Anonymousreply 1303/31/2013

Maybe he has a Cunning Plan.

by Anonymousreply 1403/31/2013

If you were suspicious enough to snoop your relationship was heading for the toilet anyway. What made you snoop in the first place?

by Anonymousreply 1503/31/2013

You're drawing a lot of conclusions, OP. Do you have suspicions that he's not being honest? Be upfront and honest with him about your feelings and come clean about going through some of his files. If he gets overly angry and defensive that's definitely a red flag.

by Anonymousreply 1603/31/2013

My mother used to say, "Don't go snooping. Chances are you'll find something you won't like."

by Anonymousreply 1703/31/2013

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by Anonymousreply 1803/31/2013

CP does refer to child porn. Is your BF stupid enough to download it? Hope he doesn't have access to any kids.

by Anonymousreply 1903/31/2013

Cock Pictures!

by Anonymousreply 2003/31/2013

Chicken Parmesan. He's looking for the perfect recipe to surprise you with a nice dinner. You don't deserve him, you suspicious bitch.

by Anonymousreply 2103/31/2013

Why would he keep anything lascivious on his work laptop given it's company property anyway? Don't companies remotely monitor how it's used so that dipshits don't abuse it with stuff like the OP is worried about?

by Anonymousreply 2203/31/2013

Put a key logger on his laptop, find out his password, and then confront him.

by Anonymousreply 2303/31/2013

Have you been castrated, OP? Why do you care so much?

by Anonymousreply 2403/31/2013

OP I like stalking my boss at Meetups! It doesn't mean he's cheating on his wife with me, yet.

by Anonymousreply 2503/31/2013

You bitches leapt to child porn that quick you have issues

by Anonymousreply 2603/31/2013

[quote]Forgetting about it seems unlikely to be honest.

I have no idea what this sentence means, but I do think it's too late for snoopy OP to worry about being honest at this point.

by Anonymousreply 2703/31/2013

Your man is not YOUR PROPERTY. OP, you sound clingy and I can't blame your partner for craving a little space.

by Anonymousreply 2803/31/2013


Insert a comma between "unlikely" and "to be honest."

Now read it again.

by Anonymousreply 2903/31/2013

I'm with mom would say, "When we snoop, we get our feelings hurt."

by Anonymousreply 3003/31/2013

r28 needs to die in a grease fire.

By the time you've suspected him of cheating, it's too late. That train has already left the station.

Perhaps you've had a great relationship and he loves you. Except that he's a greedy pig who wants more and will always want more.

Always practice safe sex. Ya never know.

Don't bother with counseling or therapy. Nothing will heal this festering blister. Find someone who loves you and is honest. You're worth it.

by Anonymousreply 3103/31/2013

Clearly he is no longer your "man," OP.

by Anonymousreply 3203/31/2013

R28 is, in fact, correct.

by Anonymousreply 3303/31/2013

He's into fat guys.

by Anonymousreply 3403/31/2013

Jesus Christ OP, you're so insecure you have to inject yourself into his work life?

You're a fool.

by Anonymousreply 3503/31/2013

As R13 said, it does indeed stand for Cerebral Palsy. Here's the kind of picture you'll find inside that folder...

by Anonymousreply 3603/31/2013

If I were your boyfriend OP you wouldn't have to worry if I were cheating or not. As soon as I found out you were snooping like that I'd be gone. If you don't trust the guy don't be with guy. It's not hard to figure out.

by Anonymousreply 3703/31/2013

I was snooping out of boredom. I had Netflix up but we were going to watch a movie once he got out of the shower, so I didn't want to start anything. So I just started playing around on his computer and you know.

But I was able to guess his password. It was his last name plus the month and day he was born. It was something something LLP Certified Public Accountants. I don't know why the folder was just CP.

by Anonymousreply 3803/31/2013

Oh I see trouble ahead for these two.

I remember when I had an obsessively compulsive jealous boyfriend. It started with mild put-downs he'd do to me in front of others if he saw me having fun socially.

It did not end well.

by Anonymousreply 3903/31/2013

I'm very sorry, OP. My ex and I had a cell phone mix-up. I saw everything. It was a 25 year relationship, based on lies. Posted about this on the gay marriage thread, so go there if you want more about my own story. It could be just a misunderstanding, but usually when there's smoke, there is fire. Good luck. Confront him on everything ASAP. Get passwords, etc.. If he has something to hide, he does not deserve to have you as his boyfriend. Trust me. Believe in yourself first. Nothing else matters.

by Anonymousreply 4003/31/2013

It stands for Cunty Partner. He's keeping a file on you.

by Anonymousreply 4103/31/2013

2 bits of bad news OP. Your man is dyslexic. And he has penis cancer.

by Anonymousreply 4203/31/2013

People who snoop deserve to find the worst.

by Anonymousreply 4303/31/2013

Pollyanna ignoramuses deserve HIV.

by Anonymousreply 4403/31/2013

[quote]But I was able to guess his password. It was his last name plus the month and day he was born. It was something something LLP Certified Public Accountants. I don't know why the folder was just CP.

You're a cunt.

by Anonymousreply 4503/31/2013

can someone explain how to do a nesting trail of folders culminating in one that is password protected?

by Anonymousreply 4603/31/2013

If he "believed in himself first" he wouldn't be snooping on his boyfriends computer.

by Anonymousreply 4703/31/2013

I want to have r14 's babies.

by Anonymousreply 4803/31/2013

R46, you simply create new folders within each new, um, new folder.

by Anonymousreply 4904/01/2013

Thread closed nothing to see here.

by Anonymousreply 5004/01/2013

OP you can undo feeling suspicion - but you can't undo the fact that you sat there snooping through your boyfriend's work files and trying to figure out his secret WORK password until you succeeded. That was a horrible invasion of his professional space. Those may be guarded files for a reason. Your jealous impulses are deep-rooted and you need to confront where they come from (you, your past, or things he has done).

I hope a) I'm never again in a relationship with someone like you (already was) and b) You're never in a relationship with someone in the legal, medical, or accounting fields (too late!), for the sake of their clients and colleagues.

by Anonymousreply 5104/01/2013

Doesn't it occur to you OP that, as you're both gay men, he might peruse DL on occasion?

by Anonymousreply 5204/01/2013

OP now deserves Corporal Punishment.

by Anonymousreply 5304/01/2013

Smell the overreactive self-righteousness off Pollyanna Prisspot at R51!

by Anonymousreply 5404/01/2013
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