Is My Man Cheating?
I was snooping on his work laptop while he was taking a shower and I noticed a nesting doll like trail of New Folders and after like 10 there was a folder named CP that I couldn't open without a password.
I know he works with a guy named Chris P-something. I wouldn't really think it was his type, but it makes sense with this being his work laptop.
I'm guessing he's got pics of him ... or do you think they've made videos or taken pics together?
I can't stop thinking about what kind of files he has of this Chris dude that he needs to hide?
Should I just ask him about it, or start spying? Or forget about it? Forgetting about it seems unlikely to be honest.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||04/01/2013|
Probably. But then again, you could just be paranoid and fucking things up as usual.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||03/31/2013|
How come you were snooping on his work computer when he was in the washroom, OP? Did you suspect him of something in the past or did he do something in the past? If not, this appears to be an invasion of his privacy.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||03/31/2013|
Not cool not trust one's mate. You deserve what you find out.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||03/31/2013|
CP probably stands for child pornography. Don't hesitate. Call the FBI this second then get back to us and let us know how it all turned out.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||03/31/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 8||03/31/2013|
Well, I'll give you a point or two for a novel approach to this EST. What with planting the CP seed amidst the topic of snooping on your boyfriend.
OP is hoping that we'll suggest that CP stands for child porn, and that there will then ensue a hurricane of concern and outrage, quickly driving the thread to max out.
But hey, if you all want to play along, go for it.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||03/31/2013|
R10. Wannabe Jessica fletcher
|by Anonymous||reply 11||03/31/2013|
Maybe he's developing a top secret cure for Cerebral Paulsy...
|by Anonymous||reply 13||03/31/2013|
Maybe he has a Cunning Plan.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||03/31/2013|
If you were suspicious enough to snoop your relationship was heading for the toilet anyway. What made you snoop in the first place?
|by Anonymous||reply 15||03/31/2013|
You're drawing a lot of conclusions, OP. Do you have suspicions that he's not being honest? Be upfront and honest with him about your feelings and come clean about going through some of his files. If he gets overly angry and defensive that's definitely a red flag.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||03/31/2013|
My mother used to say, "Don't go snooping. Chances are you'll find something you won't like."
|by Anonymous||reply 17||03/31/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 18||03/31/2013|
CP does refer to child porn. Is your BF stupid enough to download it? Hope he doesn't have access to any kids.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||03/31/2013|
Chicken Parmesan. He's looking for the perfect recipe to surprise you with a nice dinner. You don't deserve him, you suspicious bitch.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||03/31/2013|
Why would he keep anything lascivious on his work laptop given it's company property anyway? Don't companies remotely monitor how it's used so that dipshits don't abuse it with stuff like the OP is worried about?
|by Anonymous||reply 22||03/31/2013|
Put a key logger on his laptop, find out his password, and then confront him.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||03/31/2013|
Have you been castrated, OP? Why do you care so much?
|by Anonymous||reply 24||03/31/2013|
OP I like stalking my boss at Meetups! It doesn't mean he's cheating on his wife with me, yet.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||03/31/2013|
You bitches leapt to child porn that quick you have issues
|by Anonymous||reply 26||03/31/2013|
[quote]Forgetting about it seems unlikely to be honest.
I have no idea what this sentence means, but I do think it's too late for snoopy OP to worry about being honest at this point.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||03/31/2013|
Your man is not YOUR PROPERTY. OP, you sound clingy and I can't blame your partner for craving a little space.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||03/31/2013|
Insert a comma between "unlikely" and "to be honest."
Now read it again.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||03/31/2013|
I'm with r17...my mom would say, "When we snoop, we get our feelings hurt."
|by Anonymous||reply 30||03/31/2013|
r28 needs to die in a grease fire.
By the time you've suspected him of cheating, it's too late. That train has already left the station.
Perhaps you've had a great relationship and he loves you. Except that he's a greedy pig who wants more and will always want more.
Always practice safe sex. Ya never know.
Don't bother with counseling or therapy. Nothing will heal this festering blister. Find someone who loves you and is honest. You're worth it.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||03/31/2013|
Clearly he is no longer your "man," OP.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||03/31/2013|
R28 is, in fact, correct.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||03/31/2013|
Jesus Christ OP, you're so insecure you have to inject yourself into his work life?
You're a fool.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||03/31/2013|
As R13 said, it does indeed stand for Cerebral Palsy. Here's the kind of picture you'll find inside that folder...
|by Anonymous||reply 36||03/31/2013|
If I were your boyfriend OP you wouldn't have to worry if I were cheating or not. As soon as I found out you were snooping like that I'd be gone. If you don't trust the guy don't be with guy. It's not hard to figure out.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||03/31/2013|
I was snooping out of boredom. I had Netflix up but we were going to watch a movie once he got out of the shower, so I didn't want to start anything. So I just started playing around on his computer and you know.
But I was able to guess his password. It was his last name plus the month and day he was born. It was something something LLP Certified Public Accountants. I don't know why the folder was just CP.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||03/31/2013|
Oh I see trouble ahead for these two.
I remember when I had an obsessively compulsive jealous boyfriend. It started with mild put-downs he'd do to me in front of others if he saw me having fun socially.
It did not end well.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||03/31/2013|
I'm very sorry, OP. My ex and I had a cell phone mix-up. I saw everything. It was a 25 year relationship, based on lies. Posted about this on the gay marriage thread, so go there if you want more about my own story. It could be just a misunderstanding, but usually when there's smoke, there is fire. Good luck. Confront him on everything ASAP. Get passwords, etc.. If he has something to hide, he does not deserve to have you as his boyfriend. Trust me. Believe in yourself first. Nothing else matters.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||03/31/2013|
It stands for Cunty Partner. He's keeping a file on you.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||03/31/2013|
2 bits of bad news OP. Your man is dyslexic. And he has penis cancer.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||03/31/2013|
People who snoop deserve to find the worst.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||03/31/2013|
Pollyanna ignoramuses deserve HIV.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||03/31/2013|
[quote]But I was able to guess his password. It was his last name plus the month and day he was born. It was something something LLP Certified Public Accountants. I don't know why the folder was just CP.
You're a cunt.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||03/31/2013|
can someone explain how to do a nesting trail of folders culminating in one that is password protected?
|by Anonymous||reply 46||04/01/2013|
If he "believed in himself first" he wouldn't be snooping on his boyfriends computer.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||04/01/2013|
I want to have r14 's babies.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||04/01/2013|
R46, you simply create new folders within each new, um, new folder.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||04/01/2013|
Thread closed nothing to see here.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||04/01/2013|
OP you can undo feeling suspicion - but you can't undo the fact that you sat there snooping through your boyfriend's work files and trying to figure out his secret WORK password until you succeeded. That was a horrible invasion of his professional space. Those may be guarded files for a reason. Your jealous impulses are deep-rooted and you need to confront where they come from (you, your past, or things he has done).
I hope a) I'm never again in a relationship with someone like you (already was) and b) You're never in a relationship with someone in the legal, medical, or accounting fields (too late!), for the sake of their clients and colleagues.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||04/01/2013|
Doesn't it occur to you OP that, as you're both gay men, he might peruse DL on occasion?
|by Anonymous||reply 52||04/01/2013|
OP now deserves Corporal Punishment.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||04/01/2013|
Smell the overreactive self-righteousness off Pollyanna Prisspot at R51!
|by Anonymous||reply 54||04/01/2013|