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Can penetrative sex inflict physical and psychological abnormalities on a person?

After he's had penetrative sex in his 20's, he's had a lot of unexplained physical and psychological abnormalities.

I don't understand why he feels this way, maybe psychoanalyzing him would help him.

Here are his posts from the other thread:

Well, that certainly happened to me. I have horrible psychological genetics, with so many family members suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, depression, and psychosomatic disorders. My family is also extremely religious, which in itself is a symptom of mental disease, I've come to believe. I had a complete breakdown 20 years ago, when I was 25, after my first sexual experience with another man, and I've honestly never recovered psychologically, despite years of therapy and meds. The rest of my 20s, entire 30s, and now half my 40s have pretty much been one blurry mass of anxiety and one psychosomatic disorder after another. I feel trapped, and have come to the conclusion that I will live the rest of my life this way. So, OP, your statement definitely applies to me.

I had my first (and only) penetrative sexual encounter on July 3, 1993, and have been sick and filled with anxiety ever since. No joke. I experienced a major mental collapse right after, complete with severe panic attacks and unexplained, sometimes debilitating, physical symptoms and issues over the years that could never be explained via a physical exam or blood tests. I've essentially been sick every day for the past 20 years. I've been tested for everything in the book. I thought it was chronic fatigue syndrome, but my doctor ruled that out. I was so desperate at one point I even went to one of the top infectious diseases specialists in the country, and he gave me a clean bill of health. The consensus is that I have a very intense mind-body connection. I really have no friends...I can't make plans, since I never know how I'll feel from day to day. I can't date or have a bf, both because of how I feel and my fear of having penetrative sex again. I don't live life...I just survive from day to day. Fortunately, I am able to work, which has been a great escape. Weight training and finally finding the right mix of meds that has made my anxiety somewhat tolerable have taken the edge off somewhat, but I know whatever this is I have will stay with me for the rest of my life. I used to cry and pity myself all the time. The meds, for good or for bad, have made me numb to sadness (and most other emotions), so I don't feel anything most of the time.

Below is linked to the original thread

by Anonymousreply 2003/26/2013

It usually relieves them right?

by Anonymousreply 103/25/2013

What in the world are you talking about, OP?

by Anonymousreply 203/25/2013

I'm no doctor, but it sounds like possible toxic shock syndrome.

by Anonymousreply 303/25/2013

I think I understand your question. Yes once you've been penetrated it's hard to control ones limbs. I also experience uncontrollable speaking in tongues and sometimes throwing in a yodel or two. Sometimes just the sight of a stiff "one" will cause me to walk like a slithering side winder until the image is out of view. If that image follows me it get worse and I walk like a side winder in heels. I also experience the moistures. It's similar to the anticipated raptures, only more anally slathery. You ain't never the same after some good bung hole lovin'. Did I mention it's been known to cure a stutterer?

by Anonymousreply 403/25/2013

This could become the very definition of The Dick of Death.

by Anonymousreply 503/25/2013

I thought I had lockjaw after being penetrated, but after a while everything loosened up.

by Anonymousreply 603/25/2013

OP, you might want to have him pull out of you BEFORE you start posting here. He's cutting off your oxygen.

by Anonymousreply 703/25/2013

Everyone, the posts I have posted in the OP is from this thread, he is R1, 16, and 17. I'm posting this because I find his case very strange.

by Anonymousreply 803/25/2013

Is this where the man go up into the man?

by Anonymousreply 903/25/2013

Uh, OP is posting about another person's issues, and quoting them.

Just in case it's not clear to some of the mouth breathers out there.

Anyway, OP, it's plain that this person - likely a troll but let's play along - has severe psychological disorders that include schizotypal personality disorder with Axis 1 traits that include social anxiety and a measure of obsessive traits. The association of a triggering event is not unheard-of with such cases, where a traumatic response to an occurrence - in this case the penetrative sex - becomes mythologized and distorted to explain the spectrum of symptoms that, alas, were burgeoning without it.

by Anonymousreply 1003/25/2013

I use to like penetrative sex. I'd tighten my butt up so it was impossible to penetrate, all the while my top would be getting blue in the face adding more and more pressure. Then, all of sudden without warning, I would relax and my stud would rush in and bang his head on my head and I could act all pushed out of shape (no pun intended). Then I would tighten up again and my stud couldn't get his penis out and would begin to panic and plead for me to relax again. But one day I got too confident and pulled this guys penis out by the roots and he won a small claims court judgment against me.

So, now I just kick back and read books.

by Anonymousreply 1103/25/2013

R11, 12-year-old assholes of any retentive capacity ought not disgrace themselves by posting on an adult site.

And if 12 is only your mental and emotional age, then how about you impale yourself on a bedpost and stay out of the DL?

by Anonymousreply 1203/25/2013

Whether it's self-inflicted or not, I still feel sorry for someone who is living such a tortured life.

Whoever this man is - I wish him peace.

by Anonymousreply 1303/25/2013

Any traumatic experience can result in symptoms like phobias, allergies, illness, or physical pain when it's not dealt with, handled, or resolved properly.

by Anonymousreply 1403/26/2013

This thread is making me horny!

by Anonymousreply 1503/26/2013

Jesus Christ. What kind of thread couldn't have been written by 15 y.o. Jesuit seminarian who fears penetrative sex?


by Anonymousreply 1603/26/2013

R10 is completely wrong. For one thing, a schizotypal person would not find the workplace to be an escape. The workplace induces stress because of the forced socialization. Second, the guy said that meds helped him and there are no meds for schizotypal people.

by Anonymousreply 1703/26/2013

I think the answer is that no, consensual anal sex can't cause all the symptoms described. But religious mania, allied to deep-rooted anxiety about the fact you're gay and liked it up your butt, but now think you're going to hell, can cause exactly what is described.

by Anonymousreply 1803/26/2013

Diagnosis: Mary!

by Anonymousreply 1903/26/2013

Yes, op. It's often referred to as being "turned out."

by Anonymousreply 2003/26/2013
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