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Why do straight guys like it when girls kiss girls?

I don't get it but I see a lot of lesbian in the media targeted at heterosexual men.

by Anonymousreply 3904/21/2015


by Anonymousreply 103/15/2013

As one raging heterosexual guy put it: "Pussies are great, two even better!"

by Anonymousreply 203/15/2013

They deny that women would love each other without a man and insinuate themselves into their fantasy.

Little do they realize that two lipstick lesbians would kick their bloody ass if it were a true situation.

by Anonymousreply 303/15/2013

Elsewhere, it's been stated that str8 guys fanatsize that (real) lesbians have wild testosterone-fueled sex, just like they would if they were one. Meanwhile, str8 women who are into male-male romance stories fantasize that two guys are soulful ,and romantic ALL the time, they way they would be if they were one.

by Anonymousreply 403/15/2013

R3 thinks he's an armchair psychologist and makes sweeping generalizations.

by Anonymousreply 503/15/2013

R5, that means that R3 is perfectly at home on DL.

by Anonymousreply 603/15/2013

R5, Please don't insult other posters. Some of us truly appreciate others' honest opinions.

R3, I had a friend that was thrilled to be in a 3-some, until he was asked to leave his own bed and sleep on his couch, in the other room.

by Anonymousreply 703/15/2013

Puh. Straight men, and men in general, think the penis is the center of the fucking universe, and that two women kissing are just dying to have a MAN come in with his DICK and give them some REAL fucking.

Meanwhile, statistics show that 62% of women have never had an orgasm just from a man fucking them.

Men are idiots.

by Anonymousreply 803/16/2013

R8, have some class. Quit putting your crazy on display and keep your mental problems to yourself.

by Anonymousreply 903/16/2013

r8. the stupid dyke. go away

by Anonymousreply 1006/28/2013

R8 you're soooo right that it hurts lol

by Anonymousreply 1106/28/2013

I don't get straight men getting turned on by two women. It's beyond me--especially straight men who are turned off by homosexuality. Yet they like watching two women together.

While two men together are hot as hell--but straight men hate watching them.

Even though it's not my thing, I don't hate watching a man and a women. But straight men can't seem to watch two men together. I don't get it.

by Anonymousreply 1206/28/2013

Male privilege - men are brought up to see themselves as the superior sex, so two women aren't going to be threatening - they view it as that the women aren't 'serious' and really just want penis. shrug.

I know for a fact that it's not true of all men though - I had a straight male friend who said that lesbian sex did nothing for him even though he was a major porn addict.

by Anonymousreply 1306/28/2013

For the same reason many of us gay men are turned on by two guys kissing. I think it's incredibly hot, almost as hot as sex itself. The object of sexual desire times 2. No intervening member of the (undesirable) gender is involved.

by Anonymousreply 1406/29/2013

R14 gets it.

by Anonymousreply 1506/29/2013

Old taboos die hard. Straight men get turned on by two women having sex, for the same reasons straight women get completely turned on by the very idea of M/M sex. There's something forbidden, erotic, titillating about it. At least that is their conscious or subconscious view. Many a homophobe loves to watch same sex people going at it.

by Anonymousreply 1606/29/2013

Is it really true? I remember watching porn with straight guys in high school and college, and when the girl/girl scenes started they hit the fast forward button or wandered off to get a beer until the inevitable point where the boyfriend/husband/plumber/pizza guy would catch them at it and give them the hard fucking they so obviously craved.

by Anonymousreply 1706/29/2013

R12 because they're straight and they love pussy, so what's better than pussy x 2? It makes sense to me

Som of the deluded gays on the DL must've never had straight guy friends growing up, they fucking LOVE lesbo porn and it's looked at as the ultimate fantasy/hot scenario for their wives or girlfriends to dyke out.

It's because the norm

So of course straight guys are gonna be repulsed at 2 dudes having sex

They don't even wanna see the guy naked is straight scenes let alone 2 guys.

It's just the way it is

by Anonymousreply 1806/29/2013

We may never know. The mind of a straight guy is a mysterious thing

by Anonymousreply 1906/29/2013

Why wouldn't they?

by Anonymousreply 2006/29/2013

They're not that into it. It's one of those things that caught on as being a big fantasy for straight men, but in reality most of them prefer women who like fucking...oh I don't know....MEN! Real straight men find lesbian sex boring or a novelty at best.

by Anonymousreply 2106/29/2013

It's about seeing what they love the most(women) but two of them going at it. It has to be femme lipstick lesbians though. Not those butchy, fugly man things with tats BUT Playboy porno types.My straight friends basically like seeing two beautiful women going at it because it's what they are attracted to but at double the fun.

For the dyke @ R8, how about all those crazy lesbians that watch gay male porn. Does that mean you like cock? No it's some crazy reason to do with exploitation etc so on.That makes no fucking sense to me. at least with straight guys, there's an attraction to women however with dykes they are supposed to be strictly without dickly!

by Anonymousreply 2206/29/2013

R18, Some straight guys don't want to see another guys' dick at all, and especially not in a sexual context. The 2nd dick = unwanted competition/comparison.

Just the idea of watching 2 girls together is fascinating to see how they turn each other on and what they really do together. Depending on the man's religious background, he may or may not want 1 of the girls to be his actual girlfriend/wife.

by Anonymousreply 2306/29/2013

Straight men like seeing "lesbian" porn where the two women just have sex because they are being paid. The women are attractive, with fake tits. Does anyone here think for a minute that they would love to watch a documentary about Michfest?

by Anonymousreply 2406/29/2013

R24, LOL; a doc on Michfest.

Aren't the girls doing porn usually very high/drunk/on drugs? By the way, not all straight men like fake tits. They don't feel real.

by Anonymousreply 2506/29/2013

R17 what kind of "straight l" guys are these? I've always hung out with and worked with predominantly straight men and when I tell them I'm gay most of the reactions I get are "that's cool I nevet would have thought it, but I'm straight and lesbians are HOT" or something to that effect

On fact I think I've only knoen 2 straight guys who watch porn and aren't into lesbo sex, and one of them admitted to our coworkers that he though lesbian sex was boring and thay all the guys started making fun of him calling him GAY!

Saying stuff like you just want to see a dude's hairy balls and it's OK you can come out, Sam's (my name) gay too!

It's become normal behavior for women in our society

Male homosexuality on the other hand....

by Anonymousreply 2606/29/2013

R26, Still thinks it's the issue that straight men don't want competition when it comes to their sexual fantasies, and that's what watching another man means. Even in straight porn, the stud is portrayed as having a better body and being a better lover. Watching 2 girls, he can decide which one he'd rather be with, if not both.

by Anonymousreply 2706/29/2013

It's the norm for straight male culture to love seeing 2 girls together, hell it's even encouraged

My old straight roommate used to subscribe to Maxim and I'd browse through it and there was always articles on threesomes and how to get your girl to hook up with another girl etc.

I can't imagine Cosmo articles aimed at women with headlines like how to get your guy to hook up with other guys.

That's every woman's worst nightmare

I truly believe that the reason that straight men think lesbians are hot, and generally don't mind the butch ones, ever if their not hot is the #1 reason why gay men will never be fully accepted in society

by Anonymousreply 2807/01/2013

The straight male finds the female body attractive. He also finds the male body at best neutral and at worst repulsive partially due to his nature, societal norms, and anti-gay sentiment. Hence, there is nothing more visually appealing to us than two female bodies. Women kissing and making out appear pretty much the same regardless of which gender they are kissing and with lesbians we can fantasize about them without images of the male body getting in the way.

Lesbian kissing or sex scenes are not ultimately as emotionally fulfilling to us as straight scenes because despite the arresting visual imagery we cannot insert ourselves into one of the two female roles. The lesbian womans kiss and some of the foreplay is the same as with a man, but then anatomical differences force the types of sex to depart. Basically a lesbian kissing scene is the perfect tease with a ton of foreplay for a male. There is no equivalent to the male penis or ejaculation in these scenes, but is an equivalent to the kissing and body contact and therefore we can get turned on, but not emotionally or physically fulfilled. To get off we would have to imagine ourselves somehow inserted into the scene and therefore would not be climaxing to the scene itself, but our potent imagination of a different scene all together.

I guess maybe one of the woman having a strapon dildo could make her more relateable, but that might just be papering over the psychological effect of the physiological differences. I'm not sure. I don't watch much lesbian porn or porn at all for that matter. I prefer to enjoy the figments of my imagination without any images of foreign bodies male or female interfering with us. Its more emotionally fulfilling to me than twisting a character not meant for me around.

However the one time two girls have kissed in front of me I was turned on. I knew they were both straight or in hindsight bisexual though and had a crush on one of them. They both had at least pretended to have boyfriends. The one had supposedly had sex with hers. Knowing the guy she was in a relationship with my fantasies focused on the other. I guess my mind legitimately or not didn't have two much of a problem with either girl interfering with my fantasies. We may just not be equipped to be jealous of an attractive female body or think of two girls together as taken. I think they were just acting, but maybe their kiss didn't escalate to a relationship because the straight vuys didn't take it seriously.

by Anonymousreply 2901/11/2015

They're imagining a menage a trois, stupid.

by Anonymousreply 3001/11/2015

Because porn tells them to like it

by Anonymousreply 3101/12/2015

Because they fantasize they can get in on the game and then have 2 woman pleasure him.

by Anonymousreply 3201/12/2015

They get off on women getting 'dirty'.

by Anonymousreply 3301/13/2015

OH MY GOD--I so do not care about this topic.

As of 11:08 PM PST, Datalounge seems to be broken or fucked up or some damn thing.


Unless, of course, you're incapable. Then... well... bless your little ol' hearts :)

by Anonymousreply 3404/21/2015

It's targeted at women as much as men, if we're talki about marketing/media purely. Women largely cream out and dislike guys missing but find women in sexual situations with each other appealing. There is a very high rate of bisexuality in women which marketers are appealing to.

by Anonymousreply 3504/21/2015

Why are so many "straight" women attracted to kissing another women? Answer: most women are bi. Do not shame bisexuals.

by Anonymousreply 3604/21/2015

Many straight women enjoy watching two men kissing.

by Anonymousreply 3704/21/2015

R36 they do it because they know that straight guys are turned on by it. It's a way to attract guys attention. Lots of straight women will do anything to attract the guys attention.

by Anonymousreply 3804/21/2015

I've known more than one straight couple where the women was either as into the bisexual schtick or *demanded* that she could be with a woman on occasion. There are many women that are using male attraction to lesbian sex to their advantage; they are attracted to women, so, more sex for them! Clever girls.

The rate of female bisexuality's increase has been exponential with women's lib. It could be that women are hardwired to be attracted to both sexes, only now they can act on it publicly. Combine that with more women in powerful positions, and you see "straight" women that are finding they are more flexible if the right woman comes into their life.

It may be an interesting future for women's sexuality. Women have been historically required to look for a mate to take care of them. If, say, half the women of the world continue with this mindset while the other half pursue careers, there could be more and more of the former that marry the latter. When you consider the studies of women that are attracted equally to a woman or man, there may soon be a lot more women bedding down with well-off, professional women rather than dudes with empty bill folds.

by Anonymousreply 3904/21/2015
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