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Traits/statuses about a man that you find unappealing or a turn-off?

For me, it's the married man. BLECH.

by Anonymousreply 3403/01/2013

Homosexuality! I will not have sex with a gay man!

by Anonymousreply 102/28/2013

Are you joking R1? I can't tell.

by Anonymousreply 202/28/2013

New Year's Day public intoxication. Deal breaker.

by Anonymousreply 302/28/2013

Rudeness and cheapness.

by Anonymousreply 402/28/2013

Tiny nipples is my shallow turn-off.

Other turn-offs are Republicanism, greed, selfishness, and poor communication skills.

by Anonymousreply 502/28/2013

Smelly feet.

by Anonymousreply 602/28/2013

Flat nipples and/or completely smooth upper torso. Obsession with anal sex is a turn off.

by Anonymousreply 702/28/2013

Bad grammar, spelling, punctuation, and word usage, OP.

by Anonymousreply 802/28/2013

Guys who don't listen and are not good listeners

Guys with worked out upper bodies and a flat ass

by Anonymousreply 902/28/2013


by Anonymousreply 1002/28/2013

I cannot abide poverty.

by Anonymousreply 1102/28/2013

I'm trying to get over my issue with gayvoice. If he has a non-masculine voice, it wilts my dick and there's no hope of turning it around.

by Anonymousreply 1202/28/2013

If he expesses contempt for the poor and unfortunate of the world.

If a man hasn't known something resembling hard times, we will never understand each other.

by Anonymousreply 1302/28/2013

Femme behavior and/or voice. I'm sorry, I am just not sexually attracted to a man who is not masculine. And I am far from self-loathing.

Cigarette smoking. Excessive drinking. Drug use of any kind, with the exception of occasional (emphasis on 'occasional') pot smoking.

by Anonymousreply 1402/28/2013

Stale poppers. Have some respect for yourself, people.

by Anonymousreply 1502/28/2013

Poverty, bad teeth, and stone washed denims.

by Anonymousreply 1602/28/2013

I like R16. Sounds like a chapter heading.

I watch to see how the guy treats people, esp. service people. I always thought it says a lot about a person.

So I guess any guy who treats a waiter badly.

Shallow? Um, I don't mind femme guys, I like all different body types and coloring, so I guess I'd say bad grooming. Like noticeably bad, like two-inch toenails and stuff like that.

by Anonymousreply 1702/28/2013

R9, did you say something?

by Anonymousreply 1802/28/2013

nasty voices - no deal, it's the single most important physical trait for me. I can't go on dating sites because I HEAR them. it's pointless. I need to hear the voice speak.

Also, married jerks, not time for them.

by Anonymousreply 1902/28/2013

Yes, R14, you are far from self-loathing. You're shallow as fuck, but not self-loathing!

by Anonymousreply 2002/28/2013

Long hair on the back of the upper arms is a turn-off to me. Hobbit-patches gross me out too.

by Anonymousreply 2102/28/2013

R9, what about guys with muscular upper body and chopstick like legs?

The real turn off?

drum roll ...

facial wasting

by Anonymousreply 2202/28/2013

What's "Hobbit-patches", precious? What's "Hobbit-patches"?

by Anonymousreply 2302/28/2013

Greed, self-absorption, rudeness, conservatism, incuriosity, emotional stinginess, big butts, flaming mannerisms, and long hair.

by Anonymousreply 2402/28/2013


by Anonymousreply 2503/01/2013

Guys with more than a couple tattoos, or large tattoos.

Piercings beyond ears, or plugs in the ear.

Shaved genitals: manscaping.

Christians or fundamentalists of any kind (except I have a thing for Orthodox Jews).


Hair dyers. (Comb-overs go without saying.)


Anyone in the closet.

by Anonymousreply 2603/01/2013

Any guy with a dick smaller than 8.5 inches. Sorry, but guys with dicks smaller than that have no confidence and cannot fuck worth a shit. If a guy whips out anything smaller, he is shown the door immediately and will never have the privelege of seeing me again.

by Anonymousreply 2703/01/2013

R27 You type like a whore. I'll wager that you could drive a semi truck through your anus without hitting the sides, butt slut.

by Anonymousreply 2803/01/2013

The slim or wide shape of a guy's fingernails and toenails. Elongated nail shape (especially toe nails) are a deal breaker. Good width is mandatory.

by Anonymousreply 2903/01/2013

Unmanicured nail beds.

by Anonymousreply 3003/01/2013

Combovers, gray or graying hair that is thinning yet is long enough, especially in the back, to pull back tightly into a dorky pony tail thus making him look like somebody's old Aunt Mabel.

by Anonymousreply 3103/01/2013

Big Dick, Bigger Wallet.

Beauty fades, a nice cock and bank account are forever.

by Anonymousreply 3203/01/2013

Oops, I meant those are my turn-ons.

Turn offs: Obese, little dick, poor.

by Anonymousreply 3303/01/2013
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