The one we don't want representing the gays.
Who's the most embarrassing homosexual?
|by Anonymous||reply 115||02/22/2013|
Crocker was an embarrassing fame whore who, when the androgyny thing didn't get him that reality show, just became a ho.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||02/19/2013|
Chris Crocker for sure, out of this list.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||02/19/2013|
I didn't know Pee Wee Herman was gay.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||02/19/2013|
Tom Cruise. Bitch be crazy.
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|by Anonymous||reply 5||02/19/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 6||02/19/2013|
I'll second that R5
|by Anonymous||reply 7||02/19/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 8||02/19/2013|
Tie: Elton John, Bobby Trendy and Fatrez Hilton.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||02/19/2013|
The guy on youtube who screams when he learns princess Diana died.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||02/19/2013|
Where's Perez Hilton??
|by Anonymous||reply 11||02/19/2013|
There are far worse. Start with the late not-so-great Roy Cohn. The kind of gay I truly despise and he has plenty of latter day cousins.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||02/19/2013|
Johnny Weir Rupert Everett
|by Anonymous||reply 13||02/19/2013|
What's wrong with Johnny Weir?
|by Anonymous||reply 14||02/19/2013|
Senator Lindsay Graham, R-SC
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|by Anonymous||reply 16||02/19/2013|
Perez Hilton. Actually, he's am embarrassment to humanity (I wouldn't limit it to gays)
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|by Anonymous||reply 18||02/19/2013|
what's really embarrassing is that we get our straight acting and appearing knickers in a twist. it takes balls to not give a fuck about blending in.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||02/19/2013|
Chris Crocker at least has become hot (as long as he doesn't open his mouth).
Richard Simmons was never hot. And unlike Crocker, he does the gay equivalent of a minstrel act to amuse the heterosexuals.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||02/19/2013|
Oh, I don't know..why do you ask me these questions?
Any of the queens on 5 Gays, 1 Girl.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||02/19/2013|
Lyndsey Lohan - she's hopelessly fucked up and will never be anything but a fool.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||02/19/2013|
Well, I don't know....Chris Cocker COULD be a wonderful spokesperson for a new generation of upstanding,respectable gay men.
But you gotta knock the dick out of his mouth first.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||02/19/2013|
Tom Bianchi within the community, George Michael externally.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||02/19/2013|
It's not that there’s an insufficient number of gay men, it's that they're different. The point I'm trying to make is that this particular generation tied on a mask. There was a break in the culture. But additionally, the idea—and not just the idea, the actual life of homosexuals—changed immeasurably because of the acceptance of homosexuality. And that was because of AIDS. No one ever says that. Or how AIDS caused gay marriage. I mean, it would never have existed. You could pretend to your family that you were straight, but you couldn't pretend you weren't dying. And also, people became scared, not just of AIDS, which was a sufficient reason to be terrified, but also because—and this is the other thing no one ever says—the way that AIDS spread, by which I mean the rapidity, which was caused by a level of promiscuity that never existed before or since. And I really believe that people made these kinds of bargains with themselves. You know, I'm not saying I have this on the record but from what I could see from the people I know who survived that era, it was like, “don't kill me and I won't do this anymore.” Also, most straight people never thought about gay people before AIDS, which is why I could publish this stuff, go on a national television show and never be asked about it, in the way you are asking me about it. They would focus on other things. And after AIDS, I think that [homosexual] people were afraid of a kind of official response to AIDS, like they would be arrested, or put in jail, all these kind of things, which are not unlikely things, by the way, and so they made up a lie. "We're just like you. We are just like you, we're exactly like you." But of course, they were not exactly like straight people. They were nothing like straight people.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||02/19/2013|
The straights will never regard Lohan as gay anyway, so no embarrassment there. Most embarrassing bi, maybe.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||02/19/2013|
The return key is your friend, r25.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||02/19/2013|
All those drag queens on RuPaul's Drag Race.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||02/19/2013|
Richard Simmons is himself, for better or for worse.
I actually think he's got a sweet spirit. But his femininity and his over the top qualities are what we fear in ourselves.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||02/19/2013|
[R5] ya him
|by Anonymous||reply 30||02/19/2013|
Ross Matthews. There's nothing wrong with very feminine gay men, but this guy is a walking minstrel.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||02/19/2013|
This is the part where that troll enters and says something to the effect of, "How can another gay person embarrass you? You have internalized homophobia and deep-rooted shame!"
|by Anonymous||reply 32||02/19/2013|
Didn't Mario Cantone talk about marrying a woman at one point?
|by Anonymous||reply 33||02/19/2013|
R29: I saw Mary Martin interview Richard Simmons on PBS in the early 1980s. It was embarassing because of his huge ego, not because of the qualities you mention. Simmons clearly knew who Martin was, but did not care.
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|by Anonymous||reply 35||02/19/2013|
Agree Simmons seems like a very sweet person, but...
|by Anonymous||reply 36||02/19/2013|
OP, you and your terrible poll are an embarrassment.
Andy Dick? Did you create this poll in 2003 and leave it in a drawer somewhere?
|by Anonymous||reply 37||02/19/2013|
Why does everything on this site have to be so negative? Here's a list of men I am happy to share a sexual orientation with, intellectual heavyweights all: Michel Foucault, Pier Paolo Pasolini, Marcel Proust, Roland Barthes, John Maynard Keynes, Rainer Werner Fassbinder, Jean Genet, Ludwig Wittgenstein.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||02/20/2013|
wait im changing my vote to Perez Hilton.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||02/20/2013|
There's such an embarrassment of riches right here on the DL. Why look outside for talent?
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|by Anonymous||reply 41||02/20/2013|
The "pray the gay way" types and Perez Hilton.
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|by Anonymous||reply 44||02/20/2013|
As hideous and desperate as Perez Hilton, Crocker, Simmons etc. are, at least they don't seem to have the humourless ego and dull self-absorption that the above three have. Savage is a racist, bi-phobic, self-promoting ass who thinks he has saved gay youth by making vanity videos about how aspirational his 'trendy' upper middle class lifestyle is while Brad and Andy are reality whores with delusions of class and 'refined masculinity'.
These types of toxic attention whores and self-professed 'experts' are the reasons why gay kids are killing themselves, not the cliche 'ugly' femmes like the queens in OP's poll.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||02/20/2013|
Jason Russell of Kony 2012
|by Anonymous||reply 46||02/20/2013|
I forgot about Dan Savage. That's one I'll add to my list.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||02/20/2013|
The worst by far was a gay activist named Luke Sissyfag, best known for verbally assaulting President Clinton. He later did a 180° change and began speaking out against gays.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||02/20/2013|
I was friends with Luke during that time. He was way over-the-top in his attitudes towards (against) heterosexuality - and I am a queer socialist radical, and was then too. He was so far in one direction that it never really surprised me that he flipped so far the other way, let us say 170 degrees (as I believed he at least still called himself gay). It meant that his ethics weren't consistent. Born-agains of any stripe have very labile personalities and I don't trust any of them, particularly born-again Christians.
On the other hand, he got the message out there. Too bad he couldn't have stayed consistent.
A real hero for my money is Peter Tatchell. His politics have been consistent for many years.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||02/20/2013|
Kevin Spacey still hasn't come out.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||02/20/2013|
Drinking game alert!!!
Andy Cohen is not on the list?!?
|by Anonymous||reply 51||02/20/2013|
Lyndsay and Andy are bisexuals, not homosexuals.
I vote for MHB.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||02/20/2013|
Sorry R45 but you have it backwards. If gay kids are killing them self its not from the likes of Dan Savage or Andy Cohen.
Those guys fit the mainstream mold of men that look straight but openly gay. Therefore, mainstream accepts that as tolerable.
It's the Richard Simmons, Parez Hilton, Bobby Trendy types that straight world has a hard time with.
The kids that show any of those traits in school are the ones that get constantly tormented, beaten up and harassed. Those are the ones most likely to kill them self.
It boils down to this: Straight guys dont want to be seen as weak.
Fem guys disturb their idea of what a man is, some to the point of anger, hate, and even wanting to take them out of the group.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||02/20/2013|
R45, you sound like one jealous bitch. Dan Savage really? Can tell by your post you want what he has and have have spent some time thinking about it.
I am proud to call Dan one of us.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||02/20/2013|
Miss Rafael Nadal-Armstrong
Billie Jean King
Everyone involved with associated with Skate Canada
|by Anonymous||reply 55||02/20/2013|
Elton John owns this thread. Vile Rush Limbaugh loving right wing geezer.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||02/20/2013|
[R51] Dip Shit alert, what part of OTHER don't you understand?
|by Anonymous||reply 57||02/20/2013|
My vote will always go to Rosie O'Donnell.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||02/20/2013|
Ms. bobbie trendi
|by Anonymous||reply 59||02/20/2013|
Kevin Spacey, he's just pathetic.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||02/20/2013|
R55, why Rafael Nadal?
|by Anonymous||reply 61||02/20/2013|
Holly near and Tom Robinson
|by Anonymous||reply 62||02/20/2013|
It's a tie between Charles Nelson Reilly and Ryan Seacrest.
|by Anonymous||reply 63||02/20/2013|
Richard Simmons just seems mental.
|by Anonymous||reply 64||02/20/2013|
If you didn't know who he was, could Savage "pass" as a straight guy?
|by Anonymous||reply 65||02/20/2013|
Come on, can you picture Dan Savage with a girlfriend or wife? It's about as hard as imagining Morrissey or Elton John in straight relationships.
|by Anonymous||reply 66||02/20/2013|
Good one, R62.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||02/20/2013|
I don't get the closet cases being listed. OP asked who we don't want representing us, which means openly gay people. Oprah Winfrey and the "pray the gay away" types don't claim to represent us since they don't even acknowledge that they are one of us.
My vote is Perez Hilton. Drives me nuts that he's many people's only example of an openly gay man.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||02/20/2013|
Larry Craig would head my list, among the living. Roy Cohn, among the deceased.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||02/20/2013|
Adam Lambert. Just go sway.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||02/20/2013|
Gay men who don't say "I'm gay"
[quote]My vote is Perez Hilton. Drives me nuts that he's many people's only example of an openly gay man.
You have nobody to blame but the huge number of gay men who hide in the closet. You should direct your frustrations at them.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||02/20/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 73||02/20/2013|
Mario Cantone, but not because he is a flammer. Its just that he is so loud, such a ham and he's not funny. He seems to be stuck in a time warp. Bette Davis impersonations? Really?
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|by Anonymous||reply 75||02/20/2013|
R20, he IS hot now, isn't he? Amazing.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||02/20/2013|
Ken Mehlmann and any member of the Gay Republicans / Log Cabins / GoProud crowd.
Perez Hilton and any famewhore (Bobby Trendy, Andy Cohen, and Chris Crocker come to mind).
Tom Cruise and any closet case who just look and act crazy, because they can't accept themselves.
|by Anonymous||reply 77||02/20/2013|
At least Jason Russell (KONY) is cute.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||02/20/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 79||02/20/2013|
Jeffrey Dahmer and Aileen Wuornos own this thread.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||02/21/2013|
I am. I lost my fabulousness and am constantly shunned by all the homosexuals in my small town.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||02/21/2013|
Richard Simmons, Perez Hilton, and Bobby Trndy make even this gay person IN FAVOR of gay-bashing.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||02/21/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 83||02/21/2013|
Her Holiness, Pope Benedict
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|by Anonymous||reply 85||02/21/2013|
R81 I know exactly what that's like. I never had a "fabulous" persona. I'm straight acting; not self-loathing, internalized homophobic, or ashamed to be gay in anyway. I just don't fit into bitchy cliques. People like us should have our own group-seriously. I'm considering posting my name, I've done it before and I not afraid.
Anyway, I think George Michael reflects upon us the worst. With his arrests soliciting sex in public restrooms he represents a distasteful, vile throwback to gay life pre-Stonewall. Actually post-Stonewall until about the 90's. He makes look like everything we worked so hard to overcome.
|by Anonymous||reply 86||02/21/2013|
I agree with R77's list but would add the ex-gay proselytizers.
|by Anonymous||reply 87||02/21/2013|
Perez Hilton for sure. he's foul.
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|by Anonymous||reply 89||02/21/2013|
Either Richard Simmons or Ted Nugent. I can't decide. Can't stand either one of them.
|by Anonymous||reply 90||02/21/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 91||02/21/2013|
Richard Simmons (because, unlike Crocker, people who know the horrid creature is.)
|by Anonymous||reply 92||02/21/2013|
Funny...I posted on a Richard Simmons thread the other day that he embarrasses me and I was attacked for it!
|by Anonymous||reply 93||02/21/2013|
Dan Savage. If he isn't self-loathing, he should be.
Luke Sissyfag "got his message out there"? Who the hell is he?
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|by Anonymous||reply 95||02/21/2013|
What r62 says (cos it can't be said enuf)
|by Anonymous||reply 96||02/21/2013|
John Wayne Gacy
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|by Anonymous||reply 98||02/21/2013|
One hundred reasons to loathe this self-loathing thread.
|by Anonymous||reply 99||02/21/2013|
I have little respect for any gay or lesbian who does not 'come out', stand up and be counted. Many of those Hollywood buttlicks stay in the closet and use the excuse that coming out will hurt their career. Bullshit. Look at Neil Patrick Harris, Elton John, Ellen Degeneres, Zachary Quinto, Sir Ian McKellan, Rob Halford, George Michael, Cherry Jones, Alan Cumming (love that name), Cynthia Nixon, Wanda Sykes, Rachel Maddow, Simon Callow, Kirsten Vangsness, Melissa Etheridge, Lily Tomlin. Their careers have not suffered one bit after coming out (or at least hinting to the public about their sexuality). I have NO respect for John Travolta who, even after being outed countless times by those "in the know", still claims to be a heterosexual, pussy-hound, family man. Ridiculous. His coming out would not tarnish his career or name at all. That's my beef!
|by Anonymous||reply 100||02/21/2013|
What bothers me (and maybe I am just projecting here) is the display of unhappiness I see when closeted celebrities go off the rails and become Tom Cruise clone freaks with image control issues and those crazy eyes that scream: I'm happy in the closet and you better agree, or I am going to kill you!
It's like with fat people. Whenever I see an overweight person I see someone who has issues he or she tries to avoid by overeating. The same goes with closet cases who go out of their way by acting happy and content.
But this is more pity than embarrassment.
|by Anonymous||reply 101||02/21/2013|
Luke Sissyfag is Google? I'm very impressed by his message--thank god he got it out!
|by Anonymous||reply 102||02/21/2013|
R102 Is all you saw the Google home page?
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|by Anonymous||reply 104||02/21/2013|
I have to go with R5. He seems to lack any redeeming qualities.
|by Anonymous||reply 105||02/21/2013|
That guy Samwell who did that awful song "What What (In The Butt)" on YouTube. Embarrassing!
|by Anonymous||reply 106||02/21/2013|
R104, maybe this link will work.
|by Anonymous||reply 107||02/21/2013|
I think Bret Easton Ellis should be on this list. His homophobic tweeting has been ridiculously shameful and offensive, and has given other homophobes a bandwagon to jump on.
|by Anonymous||reply 108||02/21/2013|
Bitchy old Elton John. I was proud to have him as family in his early years (1969-1975-minus Croocodile Rock), but he's become so bitter than I can can't stand to have him "represent" us.
|by Anonymous||reply 109||02/21/2013|
Not to mention that Dame Elton whores himself out to the likes of Rush Limbaugh.
|by Anonymous||reply 110||02/21/2013|
Good one r108. He really should be on this list.
|by Anonymous||reply 111||02/21/2013|
R110 - Precisely. I meant to mention that in my tirade. Thanks!
|by Anonymous||reply 112||02/21/2013|
And out of those named r100, how many are leading ladies/leading men? How many carry movies?
You can have a career as a comedian or a supporting role but otherwise? No.
|by Anonymous||reply 113||02/21/2013|
R113 That's why delusional check joe had a better career than Ian McKellen.
|by Anonymous||reply 114||02/22/2013|
Andrew Sullivan, hands down.
|by Anonymous||reply 115||02/22/2013|