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What is your expectation in your boyfriend?

For me, he has to be capable, confident and caring. What about you?

by Anonymousreply 3002/14/2013


by Anonymousreply 102/11/2013

Be who he purports to be -- by thought, word, and deed.

No lying ever!

There will be pop quizzes!

by Anonymousreply 202/11/2013

Trustworthy (big with me), considerate, and intelligent with a good sense of humor. Good looks would be nice but I would date an average looking guy if he fit the bill personality-wise.

by Anonymousreply 302/11/2013

People always say that, but look at any gathering of gay men and the guys who aren't lookers are generally ignored. Men are superficial creatures and it is difficult for these plain guys who could potentially be good partners to even get noticed.

by Anonymousreply 402/11/2013

Attractive face, nice features.

Interests beyond me. Independence.

Always has our relationship in his forefront of thought. Most important.

Job, phone, and vehicle.

by Anonymousreply 502/11/2013

1. Nice cock 2. Trust fund 3. Not too bright

by Anonymousreply 602/11/2013

I know what you mean R4, and it's a shame. I guess with me because I grew into my looks after being a plain, gangly kid through my teens I've experienced both sides of the coin and don't judge based on looks alone. It's funny because I've had some guys I've ended up liking who were just okay in the looks department say they were afraid to approach me because they thought they'd have no chance.

by Anonymousreply 702/11/2013

I hate when someone uses the word "confident". It sounds so Fifties Housewife. Because what you want is them to give YOU confidence. And that's weak.

What is confidence anyway, except a false sense of security?

by Anonymousreply 802/12/2013

That he gives me jingles for my pocketbook and my songs.

by Anonymousreply 902/12/2013

Sometimes it's braggadocio, R8.

by Anonymousreply 1002/12/2013

Also, it's too vague R8. Confident in what? Sexually? Socially? Physically?

I take it to mean, please don't show me any baggage or insecurities until I know I like you. It turns me off.

by Anonymousreply 1102/12/2013

R8 clearly lacks confidence.

That "false sense of security" is visible in your body language, words, reactions..everything. It is one of most noticeable and important qualities about a person. In dating and life in general.

by Anonymousreply 1202/12/2013

Considerate, empathetic, humble, loyal, trustworthy, practical, intellectual curiosity/educated, ambitious, Liberal/Democrat, funny, and genuine.

by Anonymousreply 1302/12/2013

I require the following:

1. He generates a good income.

2. He is highly skilled in sucking dick.

3. He is versatile.

4. He is caring and loving.

5. He is optimistic.

by Anonymousreply 1402/12/2013

I don't need his apology. What I do need is an accurate, truthful and believable account of certain things that he did. Not for me, for him. He can't move on with his own life until he squares this with me.

by Anonymousreply 1502/12/2013

It's vital that he have the ability to understand that although I can love him with all my heart and soul, I have a strong sexual appetite that needs feeding outside the relationship. And of course be a great dad to our daughter. My long-time bf encompasses both of these qualities luckily.

by Anonymousreply 1602/12/2013

Honest, loving, accepting, sweet and kind. Good intellect, good in bed, progressive. Thinks I'm funny. And luckily, he is all those things.

by Anonymousreply 1702/12/2013

R16 is the "cake and eat it too" type of boyfriend.

Go ahead on, son.

by Anonymousreply 1802/12/2013

R8, it means comfortable with himself. He is relaxed, not uptight, not nervous, not defensive. He likes himself and is not afraid to be who he is. He doesn't hide who he is because he naturally expects to be accepted. This is what confidence is.

It's not false. The false kind comes with arrogance and is just another face of insecurity / fear. Confidence comes with self-acceptance.

by Anonymousreply 1902/12/2013

Thanks for the syphilis, dear. I gave you and our daughter AIDS... Hope you both like it!

by Anonymousreply 2002/12/2013

That's nice.

by Anonymousreply 2102/12/2013

A willingness to communicate.

That's been the only trait that has led me to successful relationships.

by Anonymousreply 2202/13/2013

expectations are resentments under construction

by Anonymousreply 2302/14/2013

Don't we all know R16 from the "Just to be clear, my bf and I MAKE LOVE; we FUCK our tricks" thread?

by Anonymousreply 2402/14/2013

Haha, I thought that too, r24. Talk about a troll with an agenda.

by Anonymousreply 2502/14/2013

capable of what op?

by Anonymousreply 2602/14/2013

Must have his own squirrel costume.

by Anonymousreply 2702/14/2013


by Anonymousreply 2802/14/2013

If it ain't Taylor Lautner, keep on walking. Nothing for you here!

by Anonymousreply 2902/14/2013

he must have a nice, moist, warm and inviting anus and a musky nutsack

by Anonymousreply 3002/14/2013
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