Things straight women have to do sexually now
Eat out their man's ass; take it anally; deep throat til she gags; finger his prostate; do his friends while he watches...
And of course, shave her twat to look like an 11-yr. old's.
Is refusal of these things a deal-breaker, i.e. he'll find someone who will?
|by Debi||reply 144||02/13/2013|
You're dreaming, Debi. Or you're just a big fat doormat.
It's a deal breaker deary. There are so many sexually permissive ladies these days a man doesn't have to look too far to get his kinks. You a have a hairy puss there are ten more that shave that bush.Don't deep throat suck and swallow trust there are gazillion out there that will.
Oh one piece of advice you should use two fingers to stimulate his g spot...it just feels better.Or sticking your finger up his rear(if he's so inclined) while blowing him will definitely score some points. Use some lube for that if you must.
[quote]do his friends while he watches
R5 Honey you need a translation for that? Debi's man pumps his baloney pony while she sucks off his best mate.
Women are kinky as shit too. Plus, women are adults who don't have to to anything they don't choose to do.
It's better to be single than to be a doormat.
Oh, please. It's oral once in a blue moon when he's behaving, and anal a few times a year (his birthday, Valentine's Day, maybe our anniversary).
And even then I want a new Marc Jacobs bag or a small but nice piece of jewelry. And dinner out.
The rest of the list is ridiculous, OP.
|by Debi||reply 10||02/09/2013|
A woman friend of mine broke her engagement because of her fiance's porn problem. Good riddance. She didn't want to deal with some sort of Allen West "you will be my personal porn star" bullshit.
|by Debi||reply 12||02/09/2013|
Actually, R11, I'm a 25 year old gay man. I just happen to actually know straight people in real life.
I see you're also R4 - what a giant surprise.
|by Debi||reply 13||02/09/2013|
This topic if pretty funny because I was just reading an article about a woman who started a website called "makelovenotporn" because all the younger guys she dated were pulling out all these porn movies and expecting her to also. She realized that guys were their getting their sexual techniques from looking at porn which is unrealistic. So this site allows people to post themselves having "real" sex and others to view it.
|by Debi||reply 14||02/09/2013|
If it's that hard just to find a man to fuck you, imagine what you have to do to get him to marry you.
|by Debi||reply 17||02/09/2013|
I remember back in 2001, there was this group of fundie women who were having a conference to explore more alternative forms of sexuality to keep their men from looking at porn. Basically, they were trying to expand their horizons into the porn-ish as part of their duties as wives.
9/11 hit so the story on their conference was pre-empted, but as much as I dislike fundie women, I felt very sorry that they felt the need to do all that.
|by Debi||reply 18||02/09/2013|
[quote]Women are kinky as shit too.
They most definitely can be. I've known a bunch of women who've said that they initiate these things with male partners, if the partners don't beat them to the suggestions.
|by Debi||reply 19||02/09/2013|
What? No double penetration?
|by Debi||reply 21||02/09/2013|
R20 I completely agree with you and believe you.
My question is what took so long for women to act this way? If I was a woman - especially an attractive woman with my own job and source of income - I would definitely be the biggest slut on the planet! So many hot men who are straight - whether married or not - would be available to me - cops, firemen, business men, etc. therefore they would be crazy not see what they look like naked and have no-strings sex with them.
|by Debi||reply 22||02/09/2013|
"No one posting in this thread actually has any straight friends."
No, they have straight male friends who brag endlessly the way guys do. Did any of you SEE any of this? No, because 95% of what they say is bullshit.
|by Debi||reply 23||02/09/2013|
"If I was a woman - especially an attractive woman with my own job and source of income - I would definitely be the biggest slut on the planet!"
But getting something for yourself would be number one. Servicing, being a slave and a servant to any man is unfulfilling. You might as well be a dependent housewife who must do it to get husband to buy her a fur coat.
Straight women are not like gay men.
|by Debi||reply 24||02/09/2013|
Several sad old ghettoized eldergays in this thread. Women don't use kinky sex to bargain, they participate because they enjoy it. Men are not just looking for a hole to use, they want intimacy and closeness too. People have way more sides to them than what your crude generalisations would have it.
Now, "honey," don't trip on that caftan on your next Virginia slims and Mai Thai run!
|by Debi||reply 25||02/09/2013|
[quote]Men are not just looking for a hole to use, they want intimacy and closeness too
|by Debi||reply 26||02/09/2013|
R25 I hope you tripped in that caftan and burned a hole in it with your queeny little cigarette!You seem to be an eldergay wannabe if anything else....
Straight men are looking for intimacy?! HAHAHA! They are looking to get laid like gay guys.Women do use sex to get what they want. They might enjoy the sex BUT have you seen how many hot girls fuck fugly guys with deep pockets?
|by Debi||reply 27||02/09/2013|
Okay, you guys are clueless, so I'm gonna help out. Here are the answers to OP's questions:
Eat out their man's ass: No, unless very drunk and lacking proper aim during a bj.
Anal: rarely, if at all. Women get nothing from anal, so it's only a novelty at best.
Deep throat til she gags: Nope. It's boring and it hurts. Half way, the rest with hands. Oral is only required a few times a year once married.
Finger his prostate: No. Gross.
Do his friends while he watches: Ha! We wish. That's our fantasy, not his. Straight men are very jealous.
Shave her twat: yep, but we like it too. It feels a lot better.
Is refusal of these things a deal-breaker: Nope. For LTR's straight men want an attractive woman to show off to their friends much more than they want a whore in bed.
Maybe he'll satisfy the above kinks elsewhere, but more likely through watching porn.
|by Debi||reply 28||02/09/2013|
R28 Getting his kinks elsewhere means he'll be exploring glory holes OR getting fucked,sucked and licked by other girls!Straight guys are not that vanilla. Most of them would have a harem if they could afford it....
|by Debi||reply 30||02/09/2013|
[quote]Most of them would have a harem if they could afford it....
But they can't. We control the bank accounts.
|by Debi||reply 32||02/09/2013|
uh uh no way hit the road jack off
Love me for my brains and boobs. Or else, get out!
|by Debi||reply 33||02/09/2013|
[quote]Straight guys are not that vanilla
Well, no, not the ones you meet at glory holes, R30. But, then again, they aren't really straight are they?
|by Debi||reply 34||02/09/2013|
R28, You must not know a lot of straight women. And before you go claiming that women I know are sluts, consider that these acts are what we consider good and necessary on here.
|by Debi||reply 35||02/09/2013|
Drink cum that's farted out of another woman's ass.
|by Debi||reply 36||02/09/2013|
Straight guys are getting these ideas - and expectations - because in this day of the internet they are watching gay porn.
|by Debi||reply 37||02/09/2013|
R35 honey, I would never call your friends sluts. That would be rude and judgmental.
Your friends are liars.
|by Debi||reply 38||02/09/2013|
Hey I'm straight and some of those I really enjoy doing, a few my man finds distasteful, and others he wants to fantasize about but not actually do. You shouldn't generalize as not all men have the same tastes sexually. You didn't even include the men who are into feet and shoes, or some type of lingerie.
My advice is to find out what his kinks are long before you go to bed, and then decide whether or not you want to continue the relationship. In the "old days" wives encouraged their too kinky men to "pay for it" elsewhere.
|by Debi||reply 39||02/09/2013|
[quote]They'll blow a guy who they fancy just because they can. A friend of mine got his dick sucked in the student center of a NYC area University by a woman who put her coat over her head when she was blowing him.
R20, you realize this is not AT ALL the same thing as straight women "having" to do certain things or be kicked to the curb, which is the aspect of the OP's post that I was disputing, right? I NEVER said that there aren't sexually adventurous women, just that it's delusional to think that most straight men can - or WANT to - get away with treating all of their girlfriends like sexual slaves under the threat of "replacing" them if they don't comply.
|by Debi||reply 40||02/09/2013|
If you wear a thong or a skimpy bikini bottom then shaving or waxing is de rigeur.
|by Debi||reply 41||02/09/2013|
R38, Women don't/can't typically lie their way through a lengthy and comfortable, sexually explicit conversation. The vast majority of them don't hide discomfort well, in this area.
|by Debi||reply 42||02/09/2013|
R42, I could. But that's because I've been here for ages.
|by Debi||reply 45||02/09/2013|
Exactly R44. No straight man worth having is going to ditch his beautiful, smart, funny, sexy girlfriend, who he also happens to LOVE, because she won't put a finger up his ass. How absurd.
|by Debi||reply 46||02/09/2013|
Only stupid girls have to degrade themselves in order to keep a man (until he grows tired of the pussy cumrag). Smart girls know how to play mindgames to make him do stuff and keep him for all eternity.
|by Debi||reply 47||02/09/2013|
"If I was a woman - especially an attractive woman with my own job and source of income - I would definitely be the biggest slut on the planet!"
There's a pretty good chance you'd get beat up, stalked or raped at some point; it would all be blamed on you and your promiscuity! Of course, you'd be called a "diseased whore" by both gay and straight men alike.
|by Debi||reply 49||02/09/2013|
If you think your partner is too kinky (male/female) for you don't be with them. It's not hard to figure out.
|by Debi||reply 50||02/09/2013|
[quote]There are some guys that have two sets of books! One for their wife and one for their accountant. The accountant makes sure he has enough funny money to party, go to strip joints and a "side piece."
Are you a time traveler from the 1950's, R43? We know exactly how much our husband's make, how much we make and we're the ones who take all the docs to the accountant, or in many cases file the joint tax return ourselves. We aren't sitting idly by while the "man of the house" tells us not to "worry our pretty little heads" about all those complicated tax matters. You are way out of touch. Seriously, you must be from the Mad Men era. Or you watch to many old movies.
|by Debi||reply 51||02/09/2013|
[quote]"If I was a woman - especially an attractive woman with my own job and source of income - I would definitely be the biggest slut on the planet!"
Because companies are known to keep women with what they consider questionable repuation to represent their company, brand, or whatever. Yeah, good thinking.
|by Debi||reply 52||02/09/2013|
[quote]Straight guys will fuck around with other girls,go to strip clubs, hit the champagne room where they get blown,private booths at straight places and once in awhile go to a glory hole to get sucked off.
Thank God, now we don't have to do it.
|by Debi||reply 53||02/09/2013|
R51 I was right you are a hausfrau! I know someone who is fucking around on her husband. Her sleazebag husband has two sets of books. He didn't trust her. In addition, my old boss was fucking the secretary who did the books...even she didn't know about or handle all of the company's money.Both males and females are fucking around and there is no two ways about it.In addition, just because your husband seems faithful he could be going to the champagne room at a strip club to get blown. and he just might because he certainly isn't getting any noticeable kinks at home!
|by Debi||reply 55||02/09/2013|
I see the "Women get nothing from anal sex" troll is here again. Yeah - nothing but fantastic orgasms.
|by Debi||reply 56||02/09/2013|
Looking at this entire thread so far, I guess all it proves is that most gay men have very little knowledge about what straight women do to straight men during sex.
To be honest, because I really enjoy watching straight porn stars James Deen and Carlo Carrera, based on what I see the girls do in the straight porn in which they routinely appear, I just figured most girls do everything now anyway.
|by Debi||reply 57||02/09/2013|
Self-loathing is pitiful in all its forms.
|by Debi||reply 58||02/09/2013|
[quote]In addition, just because your husband seems faithful he could be going to the champagne room at a strip club to get blown. and he just might because he certainly isn't getting any noticeable kinks at home!
Honey, who ever said he was faithful. Let him get his kinks elsewhere if he wants. I don't care. To me strip clubs are just live porn. I'm no church lady myself, to be honest. He isn't going anywhere and our relationship, as well as our family finances, are secure.
R56 is a she-male with a prostate.
|by Debi||reply 60||02/09/2013|
R57 nailed it. Porn is not real life.
|by Debi||reply 61||02/09/2013|
r57 Anyone who learns how to fuck from porn (straight or gay) and assums ALL people will do everything they see in those "movies", is an idiot.
|by Debi||reply 62||02/09/2013|
[quote]because I really enjoy watching straight porn stars James Deen and Carlo Carrera, based on what I see the girls do in the straight porn in which they routinely appear, I just figured most girls do everything now anyway.
Do you have any references other than porn?
|by Debi||reply 63||02/09/2013|
And, R55, R51 was correct that you are a time-traveler from the 1950s (USA, I'm guessing). If that late.
|by Debi||reply 64||02/09/2013|
Yes, R62. Idiot describes most teenage boys.
|by Debi||reply 65||02/09/2013|
#28, no wonder you're sitting at home on a Saturday.
This girl's gonna get dinner & a movie (nsfw).
|by Debi||reply 66||02/09/2013|
Lots of generalities on this thread. There's no behavior or attitude that is shared by all women, all men, all gay men, or all straight men.
|by Debi||reply 67||02/09/2013|
young women now will suck a cock like a pro...and (I find this disturbing) getting anally fucked.
It happens all the time.
Which is why the "MY ON THE DL STRAIGHT FUCK BUD OF MINE" threads are a fucking joke. Those guys aren't straight, and to now say that they will let you suck them off because the gf or wife won't? Dude just needs to go in a bar. He WILL find a woman to suck him off.
|by Debi||reply 68||02/09/2013|
LOL @ R66. He's napping on the couch.
BTW, fuck dinner and a movie. I hope that whore got cash--a lot.
|by Debi||reply 69||02/09/2013|
I'll do some of that stuff. Women like sex too. And if some guy thinks I only want it in the missionary position,well, he can tell his story walking. I don't watch porn so I dont know what guys "expect" but I'll do whatever feels good. I'm not promiscuous, but I'm quite willing to get my freak on for someone I'm dating. If they suggest anything that's not up my alley I just no. No one has ever weirded out and left because I've drawn the line at something. There are so many different things you can do, I don't see why it's so hard to believe that women are doing a lot of it willingly. We don't have to "do these things now", we've always done them to varying degrees. The porn industry didn't invent kink.
|by Debi||reply 70||02/09/2013|
A friend who is a straight woman asked her husband what he wanted for his 40th birthday. His response: anal sex. She divorced him.
|by Debi||reply 71||02/09/2013|
Lots of women do anal r71. And others just don't like it. Divorce is a massive over reaction, she could have just said " not my thing babe" so my guess Is they had bigger problems and this was her excuse to get out.
|by Debi||reply 72||02/09/2013|
R71 She should've bought him a gift certificate for a hooker for his birthday.
|by Debi||reply 73||02/09/2013|
These you have right:
Eat out their man's ass; deep throat til she gags; finger his prostate
|by Debi||reply 74||02/09/2013|
If you're deep throating and your gagging, your doing it wrong.
|by Debi||reply 75||02/09/2013|
Straight chick, do you not have your own stuff you want a male partner to do like eating you out and performing like a circus animal?
|by Debi||reply 76||02/09/2013|
What a ridiculous thread.
|by Debi||reply 77||02/09/2013|
I rarely gag on it, but sometimes I pretend to so it makes him feel like a "big" man. I don't really care that much for him going down on me but if he makes the effort once in awhile that's what counts. I give him head all the time so I know it isn't equal but that doesn't bother me because he is a good guy.
I figure my boyfriend watches porn and that's where he gets his ideas.
|by Debi||reply 78||02/09/2013|
Straight chick, how do you get the shit off of your fingernails?
|by Debi||reply 80||02/10/2013|
I'm always up for anal and oral, but no no to vaginal! A good Mormon girl saves that until marriage. So stick it in my butt, but just know I may slit your throat afterward.
|by Debi||reply 81||02/10/2013|
If you think "straight chick" is being honest, your IQ must be - 10.
|by Debi||reply 83||02/10/2013|
Boys on average have 5 years of exposure to porn before they have sex with an actual, live human being (age 11 vs age 16). Of course it fucks up their expectations!
The internet is a wonderful thing, but it has also screwed up our society in many ways we are yet to fully understand.
|by Debi||reply 84||02/10/2013|
I have a straight chavvy gf who shaves her twat, wears makeup everywhere, bleaches her hair, & put fake tits in that her bf did not want.
I just think the ONLY women that do the above are chavvy chicks.
|by Debi||reply 85||02/10/2013|
What is this anal sex bullshit? Not everyone, gay/straight & men/women get off on it. Porn is made for men and since women are often more accommodating (or subservient, if you will) they'll be bullied into providing anything to their male sexual partner no matter how little the women themselves get out of it.
Some women like anal sex but the majority get nothing out of it. Tell me exactly what great sacrifices/efforts do straight men make to keep women sexually happy - close to none or none.
|by Debi||reply 86||02/10/2013|
I'm a straight white woman married to a Muslim from Jordan (I know, I know -- not welcomed on this board, but I love I here), anyway, he's never asked me to do any of those things in OP's post, and takes me at my word when I say I'm too tired for sex.
Yeah. Pretty easy going.
|by Debi||reply 87||02/10/2013|
[quote]Women are far more promiscuous than their mothers and grandmothers were.
|by Debi||reply 88||02/10/2013|
You don't know my grandmother: married three times by age 30. She was a rich & wild NYC glamour chick in the 1940s.
|by Debi||reply 89||02/10/2013|
If I really love a guy, I'll be in the mood to do the things on OP's list, except for doing his friends while he watches and gagging on deep throat. I won't even pretend to gag. If he wants a gagging woman, and/or to watch other people do me, he's just taking an excessive power trip, and I'm not at all into that. Luckily, I've never had to actually deal with this issue.
|by Debi||reply 90||02/10/2013|
[quote] "If I was a woman - especially an attractive woman with my own job and source of income - I would definitely be the biggest slut on the planet!"
If you WERE a woman, you would immediately be given female hormones, which would cut that raging libido in half--or perhaps even in quarters.
|by Debi||reply 91||02/10/2013|
[quote]Women are far more promiscuous than their mothers and grandmothers were.
SOME women--not all women. If I had to hazard a guess, I would say that there are far more asexual women than there are men.
For instance, I'm a healthy woman in my early thirties--athletic (run 30 miles per week, dance, kayak, etc), and sex only crosses my mind about once a month.
|by Debi||reply 92||02/10/2013|
[quote]I've never had to actually deal with this issue.
Few of us have, R90. OP is just a jealous, shit stirring loser.
|by Debi||reply 93||02/10/2013|
"Eating pussy darling. That hole can be stinky!"
Honey, how often do we get over this? Ass smells worse so stop trying.
|by Debi||reply 95||02/10/2013|
R82/94, we know your line already. IQ = 4 and not afraid to shown it!
|by Debi||reply 96||02/10/2013|
R94 pussy does not stink in a healthy, well-groomed woman. If there's an infection or it goes unwashed then, yes, it might smell but hopefully there aren't too many women who let themselves go like that.
|by Debi||reply 97||02/10/2013|
"I'm a straight white woman married to a Muslim from Jordan... he's never asked me to do any of those things in OP's post"
Look-up 'Madonna/Whore Complex'. He's not doing the nasty things with YOU.
|by Debi||reply 99||02/10/2013|
Straight guys are not that difficult. Straight guys are an incredibly simple beast. Give 'em regular pussy and a blowjob every once in awhile and they don't need porno sex.
|by Debi||reply 100||02/10/2013|
R99, Like most of the posters on this thread, you show your foolishness when you generalize about straight male and female sexuality and practices.
|by Debi||reply 101||02/10/2013|
Men have to shave their bodies to get girls to fuck them.
|by Debi||reply 102||02/10/2013|
Girls? Are these men pedophiles?
|by Debi||reply 103||02/10/2013|
Do straight girls really eat out their men's asses? Oh my!! Straight men aren't usually good about keep that area clean, if you know what I mean!
|by Debi||reply 104||02/10/2013|
Men are either horny or hungry. If your man doesn't have a hard on, give him a sandwich.
|by Debi||reply 105||02/10/2013|
I don't think anyone male or female should do anything they aren't comfortable doing - if the mate is unhappy, then there are compatibility issues.
If you feel that not doing something for your mate will result in them finding it elsewhere -then there something wrong with the relationship.
Some comments on this thread - especially regarding how sex determines the power in a relationship ... odd.
|by Debi||reply 106||02/10/2013|
Sometimes I wipe his bum with a baby wipe before I put my tongue up there.
|by Debi||reply 107||02/11/2013|
I don't know any girls that are into rimming. (At least, not that they're admitting.) It sounds like a great way to get a nasty e coli infection.
|by Debi||reply 108||02/11/2013|
My ma aways said a man would be happy just to have a hole in the ground to pleasure himself with. They're simple beings.
|by Debi||reply 109||02/11/2013|
R109 Your are correct. Straight women do not have to do anything. They just have to show up. The men folk will find a way to enjoy themselves.
|by Debi||reply 110||02/11/2013|
I am so happy to not be a straight woman.
The suffragets must be so proud. All their hard work has come to this.
|by Debi||reply 114||02/11/2013|
Come to what, R114? The ability to choose who we consider worthy and what we do/don't do in bed? Yes, I'm sure they WOULD be very proud.
Did you even bother to read the thread? It's been made very clear repeatedly, by several posters who actually ARE straight women (so they don't have to wildly speculate) that we do exactly as we please--no more no less.
|by Debi||reply 115||02/11/2013|
OP forgot about golden showers and light scat. Get with the program!
|by Debi||reply 116||02/11/2013|
Oh 115 is so right. Some gay men have no idea how dirty some women can be. Straight women know what men are watching online and how they want to partake in everything they see.
What gay men don't realise is that the spouses of wealthy men, those spoiled bitches ARE doing every imaginable kink out there. Some women have it all covered but those envious gay men want to believe they have something straight women don't.
Here's the thing...There are women out there who will do absolutely anything and it means so much more to straight men to find such a woman. They're not secretly pining for a gay man to satisfy them when so many women know the deal. Anything a gay man can offer a woman can offer. Deep throating and hitting the prostate simultaneously is not some big secret. Sorry Queens.
|by Debi||reply 117||02/11/2013|
R117 Some guys tire of women's nuttiness/craziness and in a few cases they will turn to guys.The key word is a few....
Look I've heard female colleagues talk about their sex lives right next to me and it's disgusting. They scream sexual harassment but can talk about getting laid whenever they want.And the things these girls do....it's scandalous.Blow jobs anal, that's what we gay guys excelled in and now are watching straight girls get their kink on. I once talked to a girl who was a virgin(she lost it when she got married) and she told me all if not most of her friends would screw around on their boyfriends and have one night stands.
|by Debi||reply 118||02/11/2013|
Look at all these jealous fags lusting after masculine straight men
|by Debi||reply 119||02/11/2013|
Haha, you're cute.
Here is how a straight woman bags a man:
1) Being hot to his standards, which are usually lower than you think.
2) Thinking she's hot, being confident.
3) Being pleasant, smiling.
4) Putting out at all. Like vaginal sex in 2 or 3 positions and be prepared to touch his dick. Anything less would seem weird/prude/not appreciating him.
I guess there might be some guys for whom no oral would be a deal breaker, especially in the beginning of a relationship. Hardly a reason for divorce. No anal being a deal breaker would fall in the category of weird fetish or porn addicted creep. Not a usual problem for straight women.
Pussy hairstyle: A possible MINOR point of import at the beginning of a relationship. If she is hot he won't care. Definitely less important than more generally visible forms of styling and grooming.
Men want a woman who they want to fuck, want to spend time with and, last but not least, want to present to the world as their conquest. If she is hotter than his friend's girlfriends and fun to be around, she can get away with pretty much no sex, should she be so inclined, and still expect a proposal.
|by Debi||reply 120||02/11/2013|
Let me guess, r120, you're a gay man with a wild imagination.
|by Debi||reply 121||02/11/2013|
How about straight men who are into "foot jobs?" Or "tit jobs?" Or having the female dress in special sexually provocative outfits, to the man's taste? Or role-play scenarios? Not all men have the same interests, and it's up to both partners to find sexually and psychologically and intellectually compatible mates. Many men and women will sacrifice "perfection" in one area for desirability in another.
|by Debi||reply 123||02/11/2013|
I really like the word "now" in the heading. As if all this stuff was "discovered" by straight people last Monday. It's nice to believe that your mother never blew your dad isn't it OP? Do you really think he never tried to stick it in her ass? You don't think dear old dad never watched some pron on the old VHS?
Do you also believe in Santa OP?
|by Debi||reply 124||02/13/2013|
Your being a smartass really fails, because everything you imply is completely wrong r124.
1) Things change. Including sexual trends. 2) Only a small minority of our parents ever had anal sex. I can tell you like to believe yours did...
|by Debi||reply 125||02/13/2013|
ITA @ R125. My mom who is 77 y/o says that even oral sex is something very few women did back in her day. According to her, only whorish, dirty girls did it. She was a good catholic girl who was a virgin on her wedding day though, so who knows.
|by Debi||reply 126||02/13/2013|
Pegging. Maybe not "have to" but a lot of guys go nuts for it.
|by Debi||reply 127||02/13/2013|
Since anal het porn went mainstream about 1988, every het guy now wants to do anal with a woman. At least once. But usually a lot more. It's their Everest of sex. And if they haven't done it they feel they've missed out.
|by Debi||reply 128||02/13/2013|
It's surprising that straight men would want to go there, R128, considering how homophobic many of them are. You would think they would be afraid to ask/suggest it out of paranoia that their partner will think the have certain.....leanings.
|by Debi||reply 129||02/13/2013|
R128 Anal and blow jobs with a women have no gay connotations to straight guys since they are doing it to women and with women.My straight friends want to mix things up with their girlfriend they ease them into it.
R126 A girl was considered a big slut back in the day if she gave you head. It was far easier to have traditional vanilla,missionary sex with a girl than it was to get blown. Now the opposite is true.
|by Debi||reply 130||02/13/2013|
How about those men that ate pussy way back when? When you give a little you might get a little, and I don't mean cash.
|by Debi||reply 131||02/13/2013|
R131 Well it has to be reciprocal. There is at least one culture in the US in where a man eating out a woman is frowned down upon BUT a guy getting head is OK. Even that is changing bit by bit because of the changing dating scene these days.
|by Debi||reply 133||02/13/2013|
It's funny. I've been watching Downton Abbey on PBS. It's set in the early part of 1900's. The men on that show get up to all sorts of sexual shenanigans and their behavior is excused with a "boys will be boys" wink and a nod. The women, OTOH, so much as step out on a harmless date unchaperoned and their reputations could be ruined for life.
A hundred years later, we're still living with a lot of sexual inequality. It's no wonder women are reluctant to do anything that could be considered "whorish" even if they'd secretly like to try it.
|by Debi||reply 134||02/13/2013|
R134 That double standard is really changing. Women are far more promiscuous than they were in those times. After birth control came along and a media that celebrated sex on TV,in movies and music things are quite different today. To some of these young girls a blow job is almost like a handshake!;)Well not exactly but it's very common to its relative infrequency in the past.
|by Debi||reply 135||02/13/2013|
I don't have to do any of that. And I don't work outside the home.
|by Debi||reply 136||02/13/2013|
R131, that "scene" changed in the 1970s. How old are you, 14?
|by Debi||reply 137||02/13/2013|
Add ... be supportive of him in his political career as a anti-woman Republican senator.
|by Debi||reply 138||02/13/2013|
R120 is correct. If a woman is hot, she doesn't have to do anything freaky. My brother hasn't had a blow job in 15 years (since he got married). They have sex once a month. He complains constantly, but would never cheat even though he gets hit on regularly. He loves her, and thinks that she is gorgeous (even though she is quite average at her age).
|by Debi||reply 139||02/13/2013|
OP and so many on this thread are making utter dumbasses out of themselves. Sex was celebrated and publicly ritualized in quite ancient times. And what do you think early prostitutes were doing? Giving out kisses on the cheek? Even today, the taboos and rituals across cultures are not uniform.
And your theory applies to straight women only? Okay.
Asserting that the practice of sexuality has categorically gone from less kinky to more kinky--when you're really referring to a perceived trend in your own culture and in your own concept of time--makes you sound like you've never left your house.
|by Debi||reply 140||02/13/2013|
I had a good friend (female) who worked a phone sex operator back in the mid-'80s. She told me once that no matter what the guy said he initially wanted, or how the conversation started, about 80% of the time, it ended with anal sex. She always thought that was hysterical.
Now, obviously, these are phone sex clients from the mid-'80s, and hardly a comprehensive sampling of current hetero male tastes. But it does suggest that R128 has a point.
|by Debi||reply 141||02/13/2013|
Yes, they want to try anal sex but it does not mean you have to let them. A finger can feel nice but a penis? That's more like torture...unless your man has a pencil dick.
|by Debi||reply 142||02/13/2013|
I have a friend that gave up her ass to get an engagement ring. She had a few drinks and took a muscle relaxer because she was so nervous. They are married now, and haven't had anal since.
|by Debi||reply 143||02/13/2013|
"A hundred years later, we're still living with a lot of sexual inequality. It's no wonder women are reluctant to do anything that could be considered "whorish" even if they'd secretly like to try it."
To be a woman is to be constantly criticized by everyone. You're either sex-negative or a diseased whore who deserved to be raped/beaten/murdered because she was sexually adventurous.
Embarrassing how many gay men jump on this misogynistic train.
|by Debi||reply 144||02/13/2013|