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"There is nothing more masculine than two dudes having sex."

True or false?

by Anonymousreply 14103/02/2015

depends on who they guys are

by Anonymousreply 102/05/2013


That's why some chicks love it.

by Anonymousreply 202/05/2013


Unless it's Asian gay porn where a guy seems to willingly take on a female role, even moaning like a woman.

by Anonymousreply 302/05/2013

Too true.

by Anonymousreply 402/05/2013


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by Anonymousreply 602/05/2013

It's the ultimate act of masculinity.

by Anonymousreply 702/05/2013

Only if they douche!

by Anonymousreply 802/05/2013

Who are you trying to convince, yourself?

Someone else? And why?

by Anonymousreply 902/05/2013

I've been saying this for awhile. Man sex is all about testosterone, aggression, poundin and grunting. There is no feminine element no female screaming and moaning. It's sheer hairy, manly masculinity.

But I do hate when I see gay porn and the one dude taking it is making "female" facial expressions like he's a chick.

It's a major boner killer.

by Anonymousreply 1002/05/2013

Still think it depends on the guys. I was in a group once with one of the guys (complete with the stereotypical sssss's) kept yelling for someone to SSSSSShove ssssssome big cock in my pussssssssy. It never, ever shut up. Somehow figured out how to be bossy even with a cock in his mouth. Completely unmasculine and a total turn off.

by Anonymousreply 1102/05/2013

Actually, a better quote would be "A man hasn't truly experienced sex as a man, until he's fucked in the ass."

Spoken by the late, great Derek Jarman.

by Anonymousreply 1202/05/2013

Of course, R11.

It's ridiculous to say otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 1302/05/2013

Ridiculous statement.

Having sex is a neutral on the gender scale. Both genders have sex, so it's neither masculine nor feminine.

by Anonymousreply 1402/05/2013

[quote]Man sex is all about testosterone, aggression, poundin and grunting.

I agree

by Anonymousreply 1502/05/2013

We beg to differ.

by Anonymousreply 1602/05/2013

Would someone PLEASE advise how to make a reply using the blue box quotation such as in R15's post?


by Anonymousreply 1702/05/2013

r10, that is so appalling. Real sex is love. Obviously you have never been made love to.

by Anonymousreply 1802/05/2013

R16 and I give a fuck to what straight guys think.

Most of them are unhappy pussy whipped and emasculated.

I know a straight guy who can't even have a Facebook page because his wife won't allow it. WTF.

by Anonymousreply 1902/05/2013

Nothing more masculine? Try watching men fighting for the alpha male position and the winner fucking the beta and use him as a cum bucket in order to establish his alpha male status.

It's not about the sex, but about establishing a power hierarchy (yeah, right).

by Anonymousreply 2002/05/2013

R20 - mmmmmm cum bucket

by Anonymousreply 2102/05/2013

There is sometimes something more masculine than two dudes having sex: two women having sex.

by Anonymousreply 2202/05/2013

[R11] Ain't that the truth!!

by Anonymousreply 2302/05/2013

R18 dude I've been in a relationship for over a year now and I care about him.

To say youre in love is. Too girly for me.

Which reminds me quit acting like a girl and be a man and dominate.

by Anonymousreply 2402/05/2013

[quote]Would someone PLEASE advise how to make a reply using the blue box quotation such as in [R15]'s post?

Put the word quote in between simple brackets [] and place all that in front of what you are quoting. Then everything will be on a blue box until you change paragraphs.

For more help, click help on the main page

by Anonymousreply 2502/05/2013

The masculine troll is as tedious as the effete troll.

by Anonymousreply 2602/05/2013

Only if it's two tops.

by Anonymousreply 2702/05/2013

I agree with R26.

Stop with your hyper masculine bullshit schtick, R24. Like R26 says, its really tedious and tiresome.

And just so you know, it's 2013, not 1953. John Wayne died a long time ago and so did the culture he represented.

"To say youre in love is. Too girly for me."

So many pathologies at work here I don't know where to start. You're obviously young, stupid and quite immature.

by Anonymousreply 2802/05/2013

It depends on the masculinity of the dudes involved.

by Anonymousreply 2902/05/2013

[quote]Put the word quote in between simple brackets [] and place all that in front of what you are quoting. Then everything will be on a blue box until you change paragraphs.

Thanks much, R25. I hope this works!

by Anonymousreply 3002/05/2013

[quote]I give a fuck to what straight guys think. Most of them are unhappy pussy whipped and emasculated.

Horseshit. Straight men are the happiest people on earth. Why wouldn't they be? They're at the top of the food chain--the most exalted, privileged, worshipped beings in the universe.

by Anonymousreply 3102/05/2013

Is R19 a parody?

by Anonymousreply 3202/05/2013

R24 and all the other "masculine dudes" who populate this board: If you want a real study of masculinity, and not the caricature you're portraying, read about Joe Flacco.

Quiet, determined, at the top of his game, and not trying to calm his deep insecurities by fucking anything and everything that moves.

by Anonymousreply 3302/05/2013

[quote]There is nothing more masculine than two dudes having sex.

That doesn't even make sense. Yes, there is. How about THREE "dudes" having sex? Or two dudes biting on bullets while having sex?

Men can be very feminine so, no, two men having sex is just....two males engaged in the sex act. No generalizations can be made.

by Anonymousreply 3402/05/2013

Actually one study just recently indicated that (out) gay men tend to be happier than their straight counterparts for what it is worth R31.

by Anonymousreply 3502/05/2013

A man who fucks a male is a double male!

by Anonymousreply 3602/05/2013

True. Except when girly twinks do it.

by Anonymousreply 3702/05/2013

"Poking doesn't count."

-E.M. Forster

by Anonymousreply 3802/05/2013

Proud masculine gay is the lamest troll on DL this week.

by Anonymousreply 3902/05/2013

R17, at the head of the Thread Watcher, to the right you'll see (Help). That will take you to an Overview of DL... at the bottom you'll see instructions like these:

[bold] Post Formatting:

[quote]paragraph will be quoted up to carriage return

[bold]this text will be bold[/bold]

[italic]this text will be in italic[/italic][/bold]

by Anonymousreply 4002/05/2013

true, unless one or more is a gayling then the masculinity factor is mitigated by the incessent shreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeking.

by Anonymousreply 4102/05/2013

Thanks, R40, but I had already visited the "help" function several times without my specific question being answered.

I think R25's help did the trick.

Thanks again.

by Anonymousreply 4202/05/2013

R42, your specific question is answered quite clearly at the bottom of the help page, under "Post Formatting". What the hell is your problem?

by Anonymousreply 4302/05/2013

R43, I have visited the help page several times. The "blue box quotation" info was not there.

"Post formatting," such as using bold and italics that I read about and learned how to use from the help page, is not the same as reply quotation.

Did it occur to you that the help page has been changed and/or updated since I last visited there? Hopefully you don't often waste time returning to a dry well. Sometimes a "personal touch" is preferred.

Since I've given free advice on DL ranging from housekeeping matters to expert accounting & personal finance tips, I did not "have a problem" by asking other courteous DL users who might be knowledgeable about and willing to help with my quotation query. Someone kindly did help and I properly thanked him/her twice.

Obviously, you have a problem with blind aggression and anger. Please consider professional help, if necessary, to also remove the stick lodged in your rectum. You have wasted too much of my time by butting into others' affairs when you didn't know the details; I've been kind enough to give you an explanation.

In the future, please refrain from being a meddling ignoramus. Have a nice day.

by Anonymousreply 4402/05/2013

There are a lot of things more masculine that two dudes having sex.

Just a few examples:

--a man who gets up every day to go to a job he hates to support his family

--a man who will die for a cause he believes in

--a man who will walk through fire to protect those he loves

by Anonymousreply 4502/05/2013

R45 you BORE us.

by Anonymousreply 4602/05/2013

R45 is correct.

by Anonymousreply 4702/05/2013

There was a great Will Arnett line on 30 Rock about this subject.

He was talking to Jack about how there is nothing easier than sex with a woman. Sex with a man, you have to win!

I forget the exact quote but it was something like that and completely funny.

by Anonymousreply 4802/05/2013

R46, that's because you are not a masculine man. You are a wimp who has sex with dudes.

by Anonymousreply 4902/05/2013

r45 could get a job at Hallmark! What a load of crap!!

by Anonymousreply 5002/05/2013


by Anonymousreply 5102/05/2013

R47 and R45 are mysangist straight fish who want to control men and force them into lives they dont necessarily find interesting or enjoyable. They are comfortable alternating playing the role of shew and being bitter at the lives they live because of it. They enjoy being bitter and blaming their state on someone else instead of looking at the choices they have made.

by Anonymousreply 5202/05/2013

R52 is an mental and emotional cripple who thinks masculinity is based on dick size, how far he can shoot a load and how many sex partners he can run through.

Judging from his post, obviously has some unresolved mommy issues. And last but not least, spends way, way too much time watching porn.

by Anonymousreply 5302/05/2013

LOL@ mysangist fish R53 who think she is clever and can "wound" or "cripple" some male by saying he has "mommie issues." wooooooo....

What a sad frau you are.

by Anonymousreply 5402/05/2013


by Anonymousreply 5502/05/2013

Yes, I agree, men on men is the ultimate in masculine sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 5602/05/2013

Is PMG the same troll who on another thread was praising Middle Eastern men for being "real men" by dominating women, "keeping them in line," and not allowing them to be full citizens? Or is that yet another sexist troll?

by Anonymousreply 5702/05/2013

R57 dude I'm not sexist and no it wasn't me.

What's wrong with my user name proud masculine gay?

I've had plenty of homophobic straight people tell me that I changed their attitudes and perceptions about gay men and that they look at gay men differently now.

On Thursday I'm playing hockey at Skatezone on my day off with my straight buds.

I would love it if more gay guys were into the stuff I was into.

The gay rights movement need more people like me, even though flamers will never admit it and yet they're always hitting on me at gay bars, interesting.

by Anonymousreply 5802/05/2013

Trolldar R52/R54. He is quite the scholar.

by Anonymousreply 5902/05/2013

Yes it is..and a hot sex tape of Richard Simmons fucking Ross Mathews would confirm that

by Anonymousreply 6002/05/2013


by Anonymousreply 6102/05/2013

Maybe that wasn't you, r58, but your views on how men and women should act are pretty dated. I thought you even admitted as much on another thread - you said you got it from your dad, who was sexist and homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 6202/05/2013

"On Thursday I'm playing hockey at Skatezone on my day off with my straight buds."

Yet in your post at R19 you say: "I give a fuck to what straight guys think. Most of them are unhappy pussy whipped and emasculated."

It would be interesting to hear the reaction of your straight hockey buds when they find out about what you really think of them. Sounds to me like you're just a run of the mlll, standard issue two faced bar fly queen.

"I would love it if more gay guys were into the stuff I was into."

There are. They're called the Gay Games and they've been around for 20 years. Just about every major city sends a delegation. Perhaps you should stop being so full of yourself (the gay rights movement needs more people like me) and check it out.

by Anonymousreply 6302/05/2013

don't you have some fibromyalgia to tend to R59

by Anonymousreply 6402/05/2013

Don't like when it gets "shitty" between friends

by Anonymousreply 6502/05/2013

So getting fucked up the ass by another guy is the height of masculinity?

by Anonymousreply 6602/05/2013


by Anonymousreply 6702/05/2013


Three dudes having sex is 33% more masculine than two dudes having sex.

Four dudes having sex is 50% more masculine than two dudes having sex.

Five dudes having sex is 60% more masculine than two dudes having sex....

by Anonymousreply 6802/05/2013

please take your mysangist heterofeminist matriarchal frame to the appropraite thread. WE do not define ourself in relation to the Brunhilda fraufish.

by Anonymousreply 6902/05/2013


Why? I thought this was a funny thread.

by Anonymousreply 7002/05/2013

"So getting fucked up the ass by another guy is the height of masculinity?"

I wouldn't say its the height of masculinity but I also don't see why there's anything non-masculine about it.

The reason it is seen as non-masculine is because we tend to think of only women as getting fucked.

The reason we only think of women as getting fucked is because we are conditioned to think of sex based exclusively on a false model of heterosexuality.

The reason we are conditioned to think of sex based exclusively on a false model of heterosexuality is because of the political, religious and social institutions which have perpetuated such a false construct.

All of which is manufactured and has nothing to do with nature or the natural experience of being male or female.

To those of us who define masculinity and femininity with great respect to men and women and with an open heart and mind, there is absolutely nothing not masculine about a man experiencing anal pleasure.

In fact, male anal pleasure is emphatically male as women don't have prostates.

Therefore for a man to embrace his prostate and welcome the pleasure that can be brought to its stimulation by among other things, being penetrated by a penis, is by definition a masculine expression.

Prostate stimulation by anal penetration is clearly not a feminine expression because no woman has ever experienced it or could ever possibly experience it.

by Anonymousreply 7102/05/2013

Mary, it's so deliciously masculine I just want to squeal with delight!

by Anonymousreply 7202/05/2013

R63 I waa generalizing and I meant to say who cares what the average straight guy thinks about gay sex?

As for my friends, family or people close to me I care, but then again I wouldn't be friends with them if they were homophobic.

On Thursday while getting my gear on I'm not gonna blurt dude I just fucked the best ass last night after I rimmed him.

There's a time and a place for everything and I don't wanna put out their a negative and false image of gay men as creepy and sex obsessed.

Where are all these so called gay guys into sports? My boyfriend is but even he's not as hardcore as me virtually every gay gut I met could care less, but they're all about Glee and Project Runway. I rather stab my eyes out than sit through that bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 7302/05/2013

[quote]on Thursday while getting my gear on I'm not gonna blurt dude I just fucked the best ass last night after I rimmed him.

Why not, that's exactly what your straight buds do? They constantly brag about the women they fuck. If you're so 'straight acting' and accepted, you should feel comfortable bragging about your exploits the same way they do.

by Anonymousreply 7402/05/2013

"Where are all these so called gay guys into sports?"

Are you dense, PMG? I told you where to go. See the link below.

I do hope you drop the "the gay rights movement needs more guys like me" bullshit. Many of the athletes at the Gay Games have been competing for years AND fighting in the trenches for gay civil rights and they might not take kindly to some newbie with a Messiah complex.

by Anonymousreply 7502/05/2013

[quote]"Where are all these so called gay guys into sports?"

They're everywhere, winning first place in competitions as demanding as wig throwing, sprinting in stilettos and synchronized finger snapping

by Anonymousreply 7602/05/2013

R74 don't call me straight acting, I hate that stupid ass phrase.

Some of the guys I'm playing with are friends of friends and I barely know some of them and some of them I haven't met yet.

We're there to play hockey and have a good time, not makr a political issue.

The fact that they know me and will respect me as an openly gay man should have enough impact.

Maybe certain homophobes will think twice if they see an obvious gay dude walking down the street and they were gonna yell insults to them. Maybe they'll think one of my good buds is gay.

by Anonymousreply 7702/05/2013

Would a masculine dude ever call someone "Mary" or even acknowledge that word in that sassy context? I have never heard a masculine guy use that word in that context.

by Anonymousreply 7802/05/2013

This thread is making me horny. Really, it is.

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by Anonymousreply 8003/04/2013

OP, i would think three dudes having sex would be more masculine.

by Anonymousreply 8103/05/2013

[quote]your specific question is answered quite clearly at the bottom of the help page, under "Post Formatting". [bold]What the hell is your problem?[/bold]

No! The real question is "What the hell is YOUR problem, R43?" Your constant over-the-top nastiness outweighs any gay-bashing from Fundies who wander into DL.

If someone posts a question about their web browser, you bash them if they don't have something equal to yours.

You post hundreds of photos in the photo threads every week but if someone's photo doesn't meet your standards, you bash them and ORDER them to stop. Your nastiness even got a thread deleted the other day.

You're seething with hate and can't seem to stop bashing people over and over. Hitting trolldar on one of your nasty posts indicates your bashing has become a major part of the DL.

To quote you, R 43, "JUST STOP!"

by Anonymousreply 8203/05/2013

There is def nothing more smelly..

by Anonymousreply 8303/05/2013

The title is incorrect. The correct title is: "There is nothing more masculine than two dudes...igniting their farts with lighters while spread eagle".

by Anonymousreply 8403/05/2013

Any thread with that huge douchebag "proud masculine gay" posting in it should be trashed immediately.

by Anonymousreply 8503/05/2013

r85, I take those posts as humor. They seem deliberately exaggerated. And they're a welcome relief to the constant agenda of many around here which is to smear gay males as prissy, femmy, silly, pathetic, unattractive, annoying and stupid.

by Anonymousreply 8603/05/2013

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by Anonymousreply 8904/15/2013

I don't know if there is nothing more masculine, but it does get my panties damp. Especially when the guys are "my type"!

by Anonymousreply 9004/15/2013

I remember one William Higgins movie where they had 100 guys sucking dick in a big circle around a pool.

by Anonymousreply 9104/15/2013

The ability to endure pain without crying is definitely masculine. Bottoms are the epitome of masculinity.

by Anonymousreply 9204/15/2013


Three dudes having sex is even more masculine!

by Anonymousreply 9304/15/2013

Only if they are dressed as construction workers r93.

by Anonymousreply 9404/15/2013


by Anonymousreply 9505/06/2013

In order to be masculine, it has to be two masculine dudes doing it.

by Anonymousreply 9605/07/2013

Imagine having sex with this guy and then rephrase the thread, OP.

by Anonymousreply 9705/07/2013

Proud Masculine Gay, I'm another masculine man into all the major sports. Watched the Knicks trounce the Pacers today, then OKC lose to Memphis (don't have a shot once Westbrook went out). Lakers are my time, but all really care about now that they're out is that Miami loses! Hockey's my least favorite sport, being from LA an all, but our Kings did win the Cup last year.

We're out here, PMG, other masculine gays who truly love sports and not just Super Bowl parties. But we're hard to find.

Oh, and the DL hates us. Better to keep it quiet around these parts.

by Anonymousreply 9805/07/2013

Two football players is hot.

by Anonymousreply 9905/16/2013

Y'know something, I'm also a proud masculine gay. But proud of both parts of that description, and awake enough not to put up with shit being left at anyone's doorstep. So I have no time for, and no brotherly feelings towards "masculine" gays who want to put down other kinds of gay man. It takes a lot of guts to be openly sensitive, or a slightly feminine man, or a full-on drag queen, or any other sort of 'out there' gay guy. And I can value you all. What I want is the space to be me, and to defend your space to be you. Masculine gays who say shit about other gay men are just straight bullies with cock in their mouths.

by Anonymousreply 10005/16/2013

Well said, R100

by Anonymousreply 10105/16/2013

Riding the Hershey Highway.

by Anonymousreply 10205/16/2013

Thank you, R100.

by Anonymousreply 10305/16/2013

[quote]Would someone PLEASE advise how to make a reply using the blue box quotation such as in [R15]'s post?

Type this... [quote] first, then cut and paste what you want to put in the box. The [quote]will disappear and your sentence will appear in the box

by Anonymousreply 10405/16/2013

It takes "guts" to act prissy or be a drag queen, r100?? What a load of crap. All it takes is a total lack of awareness combined with a resentful ignorant fuck-you attitude. You know those fat women at Walmart stuffed into lime green spandex with rolls of fat squeezed over the top? That's the SAME mentality.

by Anonymousreply 10505/16/2013


I really recommend that you read the following, especially as your internalized homophobia is co-occurrent with your misogyny.

Aosved, A.C. & P.J. Long (2006). Co-occurrence of rape myth acceptance, sexism, racism, homophobia, ageism, classism, and religious intolerance. Sex Roles 55: 481-492

by Anonymousreply 10605/16/2013

I'll stick with reality and honesty r106. Not interested in joining your cult.

by Anonymousreply 10705/16/2013

Nope. Two diesel dykes.

by Anonymousreply 10805/16/2013

Carriage return? Isn't that when the horse and buggy get back to the stable?

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by Anonymousreply 11008/15/2013

Two brothers having sex is even hotter!

by Anonymousreply 11108/16/2013

What's really the best is when a submissive little bottom (think Tucker Vaughn or the cockgobbler Congressman Aaron Schock) is presenting himself to the alpha male.

by Anonymousreply 11208/16/2013

True R112 - but how masculine is it when you are the (previously) happy, submissive middle-aged bottom and your (younger) Latino fuckbuddy intensely wants to fist you, saying "I want to shove an arm up your cunt"?

I have not submitted yet but let me tell you I don't feel so masculine these days.

by Anonymousreply 11308/16/2013

and nothing more feminine than two FEMININE gals having sex!!

by Anonymousreply 11408/16/2013

Guys fucking is really really hot

by Anonymousreply 11508/16/2013


by Anonymousreply 11609/03/2013

Totally masculine and manly!

by Anonymousreply 11709/03/2013

[all posts by flame bait troll #11 removed (violent racist homophobic right-wing misogynist), ISP notified with full text of all posts.]

by Anonymousreply 11809/23/2013

So is eating pussy.

by Anonymousreply 11909/23/2013

OP is Rudyard Kipling, now in 156th year!

by Anonymousreply 12009/23/2013

Brothers should do it

by Anonymousreply 12109/23/2013

[quote]I'll stick with reality and honesty

More like ignorance.

by Anonymousreply 12209/23/2013


by Anonymousreply 12309/23/2013

Chris Colfer and Richard Simmons having sex is very masculine.

by Anonymousreply 12409/23/2013

Uh no

by Anonymousreply 12509/25/2013

whoa bro

by Anonymousreply 12611/26/2013

True of white bottoms too. At least many of the ones I have plowed. Not talkin about porn.

by Anonymousreply 12711/27/2013

I watch gay porn and straight porn and I can't tell you how much hotter gay porn is. It's not even close. Even if the guy is hot in straight porn.

by Anonymousreply 12811/27/2013

Gay sex is often very masculine imo. A guy taking another man's dick up his ass makes all the prissy straight guys who are terrified of anyone touching their asses look really prissy.

It's one of the bravest physical sexual acts you can do.

by Anonymousreply 12911/27/2013

Also imo vintage gay porn totally trumps all the more recent, Eastern European fake moaning and groaning dubbed-up gay porn (though there are some very hot guys).

by Anonymousreply 13011/27/2013

That's an interesting way of looking at it and I agree r130! Most straight men are very insecure with their masculinity/sexuality, I find them pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 13111/27/2013

I like appreciative moaning to let me know I'm doing a good job. Don't give a shit whether it is "masculine."

by Anonymousreply 13211/27/2013

Only if they are white, non twinks.

by Anonymousreply 13311/27/2013

This is like trying to convince someone who doesn't like pizza that it is the best food in the world.

by Anonymousreply 13411/27/2013

[quote]Would someone PLEASE advise how to make a reply using the blue box quotation such as in [R15]'s post?

Click on the HELP link in the upper right-hand corner of the page. Look for the section called "Post Formatting". It will explain how to quote from someone else's post.

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by Anonymousreply 13801/27/2015

Please, it's.......what's that word? GAY!

by Anonymousreply 13901/27/2015

Eka Darville is charming

by Anonymousreply 14003/02/2015
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