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How do women fake arousal, especially when they're with an unattractive man?

Men can tell when women fake orgasm. Is it because their vaginas stay dry or is it something about the vaginal walls not squeezing and contracting? Or uterus or whatever.

How do gold-diggers persuade ugly men that they want them?

by Anonymousreply 2701/29/2013

Oooooooooooooh. Aaaaaaaaaaaaah.

by Anonymousreply 101/28/2013

[quote] Men can tell when women fake orgasm.

No, they really can't. They're too concerned with their own pleasure, and once they've cum, it doesn't matter to them what the woman has experienced.

by Anonymousreply 201/28/2013

Wet doesn't necessarily mean sexual arousal. I can get wet by looking at a slice of cheesecake. Just shake your legs a bit and they think that they're God's gift. Men are easy.

by Anonymousreply 301/28/2013

"Or uterus or whatever."

You wouldn't know where to stick it if you had a flashlight and a map.

by Anonymousreply 401/28/2013

Men are very vain. Straight men think the world is their oyster. If they are rich on top of that,they really think so. They are not really concerned with partners' arousal. All a beautiful gold digger need do is meet their needs, which are all centered on themselves. A few gyrations and moans, some lovetalk about how potent they are, coupled with a willingness to do as they wish sexually and Bingo!

As for the gold diggers, they think about the gold. That is very exciting.

by Anonymousreply 501/28/2013

[quote]They are not really concerned with partners' arousal.As for the gold diggers, they think about the gold

that's it

by Anonymousreply 601/28/2013

So straight women want the world to be their oyster R5?

by Anonymousreply 701/28/2013

They are never paying attention. If they did they would be able to feel the difference. There are rare men who actually CARE if their women get off.

by Anonymousreply 801/28/2013

I have a now transgender friend who said he had to fake it with his wife sometimes when he was married. He said it was actually fairly easy - they didn't want kids so he would pull out before "coming" and fake it into a towel. Not sure how he hid the non-evidence from her.

by Anonymousreply 901/28/2013

R9, womyn are the victims here.

by Anonymousreply 1001/28/2013

who the fuck cares about this question. no one fucking cares.

by Anonymousreply 1101/28/2013

Men believe what they want to believe.

That's how.

by Anonymousreply 1201/28/2013

[quote]Men can tell when women fake orgasm

From what I can tell, men are really easily fooled.

And frankly, even the Sherlock Holmes of bad lays could be fooled, if they were looking for wetness. There's lubricants, all she'd have to do is use one.

by Anonymousreply 1301/28/2013

Men have no idea HOW women really have orgasms, so faking is easy.

by Anonymousreply 1401/28/2013

And...when a woman is young, they can lubricate any old time.

by Anonymousreply 1501/28/2013

wetness does not mean arousal. It's hormonal and if that particular day your chemical breakdown isn't functioning, you'll need lube, plain and simple. Some women just don't get that wet, aroused or not. An asute male lover would understand the "signs" like erect nipples, the sutble way the upward curve of her body meets yours, the quiver of her body with every lick against her clit. The actual release is another story. It doesn't always happen since for most women, its more than the physical act of lovemaking. Her excitement can be so much more than just your touch. In my experience with both men and women, it's not that easy for a woman to fake orgasm everytime if you pay close attention. As many others have posted, most men don't pay attention, therefore it's an easier fake. Much more difficult for a man to fake it but I've seen it in porn, never in person.

by Anonymousreply 1601/28/2013

What does artificial female lube smell like?

by Anonymousreply 1701/28/2013

Straight men don't give a shit about women.

by Anonymousreply 1801/28/2013

Oh, for Pete's sake.... like this, OP.

by Anonymousreply 1901/28/2013

Get on your back, point your heels to Jesus and think of handbags.

by Anonymousreply 2001/29/2013

[quote]How do gold-diggers persuade ugly men that they want them?

No actual persuasion is necessary. Just dress, look, and act reasonably sexy, and his idea of the "relationship" will take a stronghold in his imagination.

by Anonymousreply 2101/29/2013

[quote]How do gold-diggers persuade ugly men that they want them?

A gold digger by definition is excited by the money and not the physical appearance.

by Anonymousreply 2201/29/2013

Eh, R23, I think there are worse instances of woman-hating on here.

A relationship (even if it's not really one) involves two people. Neither party is more dumb or manipulative than the other in this particular dynamic.

by Anonymousreply 2401/29/2013

Women cant even tell when a man comes half the time. Especially, as mentioned earlier, when pulling out, or even in a condom.

by Anonymousreply 2501/29/2013

As long as a woman fakes her orgasm close to when the man has his orgasm they, mostly, don't notice since they are caught up with what's going on with their orgasm. Also, a lot of men just assume that the woman orgasmed.

by Anonymousreply 2601/29/2013

I don't know, OP, but I thought they'd been successfully faking it for thousands of years.

by Anonymousreply 2701/29/2013
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