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Forgive me if this is a stupid question but... lesbians have top/bottom sexual distinctions? In my (maybe naive) mind I would've figured a more versatile type situation between two women.

Inspired by one of the Jodie threads in which people are speculating she's the dreaded bossy bottom.

by Anonymousreply 301/22/2013

Not a stupid question. (That's "What do lesbians do, anyway?")

Some do, most don't. Older women, butch women sometimes peddle the tiresome "I'm a this, you're a that" strictness. Younger women, hardly ever.

Some really femme women flirt as if they're bottoms and then become really aggressive tops.

95% of the times, it's one big cartwheel.

by Anonymousreply 101/22/2013

Wow,r1, impressive reply!!!!

by Anonymousreply 201/22/2013

OP, all humanity aside, two voracious button-holes find a way to be twiddled and with all the kissing in the world it's always a guess as to who's in charge. Except, as noted, with role players, although the ageism R1 spouts is the sort of thing one expects from a non-committed, maybe-I'll-marry-a-man-eventually-because-I'm-so-cool asswipe.

Notice how it's the butches and oldies who are tiresome, but the apparent femmes are okay even when they switch into the top role.

Lose the bigotry, Sister.

by Anonymousreply 301/22/2013
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