Would you consider masturbation an inherently homosexual activity?
After all, in the case of men, you're stroking and stimulating a cock, making it feel good. I know in the case of heterosexuals they are most likely fantasizing about a woman - but I'd argue the physical act of stimulation is 9 times out of 10 more responsible for the orgasm.
Seems to me this explains a lot about the roots of homophobia and masculine fear of homosexuality - for the great, vast majority of men the very root of the sexual experience is homosexual, not heterosexual.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||12/28/2012|
I think str8 guys love their penises, too, OP.
Just not anyone elses.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||12/24/2012|
Precisely, OP. I've thought this myself for years. Some fundie preachers say pretty much the same thing as their basis for why one shouldn't masturbate.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||12/24/2012|
What do you think all those soccer Moms are doing with their copies of "Fifty Shades of Grey?"
|by Anonymous||reply 3||12/24/2012|
Really, op? You're really gonna make me respond to this?
|by Anonymous||reply 4||12/24/2012|
OP...No. Everybody does it.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||12/24/2012|
No - bringing yourself to orgasm is not gay, but doing so with another of the same sex is.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||12/24/2012|
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|by Anonymous||reply 7||12/24/2012|
Females masturbate too. Is the whole human race homosexual?
OP...masturbation is exploring and releasing one's feeling of sexuality. Homosexuality is being attracted to another human being of the same sex--not being attracted to your own genetalia.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||12/24/2012|
[quote] I'd argue the physical act of stimulation is 9 times out of 10 more responsible for the orgasm.
Mary, OP, I had a sister who claimed to be able to cum hands-free whilst being rogered by Latino cagemeat. She is the 10%!
|by Anonymous||reply 9||12/24/2012|
No, OP. You're ridiculous.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||12/24/2012|
This is the dumbest thread of 2012
|by Anonymous||reply 11||12/24/2012|
$18 for this??
I know gays love to seduce straight guys, but this belief is frigging ridiculous.
Straight women must be lesbians.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||12/24/2012|
No, because you're fantasizing about an object of desire when you do it. If that object is female it is not a gay activity.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||12/24/2012|
OP...not everyone is gay no matter how much they wank.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||12/24/2012|
Certainly not saying that jerking off makes you gay. Just that you're arguably engaging in homosexual conduct, totally different. Should have realized I'd set off the moron literalists who love to stomp around threads acting like know-it-alls.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||12/24/2012|
I think you make an interesting point, OP.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||12/24/2012|
All guys (whether gay/straight/bi) love big dicks (whether it's their own or experimenting with buddies as kids or comparing sizes during gym showers). Wasn't there an article posted not too long ago that revealed that one of the biggest search queries men used when searching for porn was big dicks?
|by Anonymous||reply 17||12/24/2012|
I know from conversations with them that straight guys are obsessed with comparing their dick size to other men's, so I'm not in the least bit surprised that would be the top search query.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||12/24/2012|
There's a female lesbian comic, Ashley Linder, who makes the exact same point in one of her jokes.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||12/24/2012|
I think most of you are misunderstanding the OP's point, which I agree with (although his wording could've been clearer).
I've had men and women jack me off...and it feels very different. The hand's texture, muscle, intention, and overall energy feels quite opposite when given by either a man or a woman.
I'm certain for SOME straight guys the feeling they've grown accustomed to with respect to their own hand on their cock is one so private and enjoyable that ANOTHER male hand would be almost too similar, and jarring, to them, and that self-intimacy can't (and shouldn't) be replaced or substituted with a different male hand than their own.
I think that's what the OP was saying. The root of homophobia for SOME straight guys might be this very basic concept of another man not deserving the right to touch their junk, as such right is reserved only for themselves.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||12/24/2012|
The OP and  are ridiculous. Most sex actually happens in the brain
|by Anonymous||reply 21||12/24/2012|
[quote]Most sex actually happens in the brain
Which is ACTUALLY triggered by nerve endings in the PENIS, which feels different in the hands of a woman vs a man...and is tied to other intimacy issues in THE BRAIN...
|by Anonymous||reply 22||12/24/2012|
Sometimes when I can't fall asleep and have gone to bed before I'm tired, I lay awake in my bed stroking my big cock. When everyone is asleep I put on my slippers and go down to the kitchen to get some Crisco from the pantry. Father keeps the house cold at night. As I slip back under my blankets I look at the stars and wonder how many other guys out there are enjoying the same experience.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||12/24/2012|
Mastubation is not homosexual conduct. Webbie, just ban the dumbfucker/OP already!
|by Anonymous||reply 24||12/24/2012|
If your fantasizing about fucking a dude or looking at nude guys--then yes, masturbation is a homosexual act.
Someone can have sex with a person and fantasize about being with someone else, to make the sex act possible. It is quite common, either by straight couples who are interested in sex but not the person they are with, homosexual couples who are interested in sex but not with the person they are with, and straight hustlers interested in getting paid for gay sex, or homosexual guys looking for legitimacy in a heteronormative sense by getting involved with a woman.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||12/24/2012|
[quote]The root of homophobia for SOME straight guys might be this very basic concept of another man not deserving the right to touch their junk, as such right is reserved only for themselves.
This statement is equally ridiculous as the OP's post. EVERY MAN MASTURBATES, period, except for a TINY percentage of COMPLETELY fucked-up Catholic types (less than 1% of the American populace). It has NOTHING to do with sexual orientation, PERIOD.
Let it go, hon.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||12/24/2012|
Yes, OP. Also salivating, self-flaggelation and wiping your ass.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||12/24/2012|
You're really reaching OP. Stop being a desperate straight chaser. Not a good look.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||12/24/2012|
R26, you are really stupid to think I'm saying masturbation equals homosexuality, after reading that.
Really really stupid.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||12/24/2012|
The act itself is a tension relief mechanism. What makes it sexual is the visual stimulation (mental images, magazine pictures, porn clips or scenes, fetish stuff like underwear or shoes, etc.) men use in order to climax.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||12/24/2012|
Stop trying to make gayness the center of the world, OP. It s not.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||12/24/2012|
That 'masturbation is / makes you gay' rethoric is so 'everytime you masturbate god kills a kitten' or 'you can go blind from masturbating too much!'.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||12/24/2012|
Masturbation IS homosexual behavior! Give that masturbator a lobotomy!
|by Anonymous||reply 34||12/24/2012|
[quote] Stop trying to make gayness the center of the world, OP. It s not.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||12/24/2012|
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|by Anonymous||reply 36||12/24/2012|
Isn't a str8 guy washing his ass an inherently gay thing?
|by Anonymous||reply 37||12/24/2012|
OP you sound like a Jehovah's witness. That is exactly what they think and ban the activity for being homosexual.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||12/24/2012|
Depends on how deeply he washes it r37
|by Anonymous||reply 39||12/24/2012|
Correct, R39 and the number of soapy fingers entering the veil of pleasure. One can be considering perfunctory.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||12/24/2012|
I'm a just a washin' my azz, quite deeply.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||12/24/2012|
If you cum in the potato salad, does that make you a chef?
|by Anonymous||reply 42||12/24/2012|
I once masturbated with a guy who was HIV poz. He was one one sofa, iMon another. We didn't touch, but seeing him cumpoz sent me over the edge. I'd like to touch a poz man, jerk him and have him cum ON me, Is that wrong?
|by Anonymous||reply 43||12/24/2012|
R43, you need counseling, dude. Your life and health are in danger.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||12/28/2012|
Masturbation is a homosexual experience for me, but certainly not for everybody. I suspect it gives me much more pleasure than a heterosexual person. I love to watch myself in a mirror while I massage my hairy chest and just enjoy my whole body. I love the feel of my body and especially the way it feels to fondle and stroke my genitals.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||12/28/2012|
Masturbation is a male thing, aparently. I've watched horses and other male animals masturbate to orgasm (No, I'm not sexually into animals...I was raised on a horse farm/cattle ranch).
|by Anonymous||reply 48||12/28/2012|
Female primates such as the Bonobo masturbate.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||12/28/2012|
I think you raise an interesting theory, OP. I Googled your original statement and other message boards have had similar conversations.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||12/28/2012|
Even straight men playing with their asses is not a homosexual activity. Gay men are not the only ones with prostates.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||12/28/2012|
It's only "a homosexual activity" if it's done correctly, honey.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||12/28/2012|
The root of any attraction is one's perception of one's self...
|by Anonymous||reply 53||12/28/2012|
It's a well known fact that straight men do not use their own, masculine hands to masturbate, they use the hands of female mannequins they buy from people who work at department stores
|by Anonymous||reply 54||12/28/2012|