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adrocles and the lion

do you have this with guys?

I meet a big threatening brute of a guy, all macho bluster and am nice to him, mainly pro forma but why not, right?

Subsequently he melts and becomes my bestest buddy being all vulnerable and sensitive around only me.

Am I the only one?

by Anonymousreply 412/02/2012

I get that a lot too, OP. Usually, they end up becoming my defenders against any anti-gay comments or behavior they believe to be directed at me. Ironically, they, not I, are the ones perceiving the anti-gay element.

by Anonymousreply 112/02/2012

It has happened to me and think the conclusion in this case is "don't judge a book, or man, by its/his cover". I wouldn't count it as a bad thing if a man like that shows his truer, better colors.

by Anonymousreply 212/02/2012

Never happened to me.

by Anonymousreply 312/02/2012

[quote] Ironically, they, not I, are the ones perceiving the anti-gay element.

I've seen that too, kind of the big chip on the shoulder thing, which i just don't have.

by Anonymousreply 412/02/2012
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