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I just found out that my boyfriend of 6 months doesn't have a passport

I don't want to sound like an elitist, but who in the fuck am I dating and how do I get out of this?

by Anonymousreply 3911/26/2012


by Anonymousreply 111/25/2012

Wow, you sound like an asshole. Please break up with him so he can move on and date a guy wh isn't a shallow fuck.

My boyfriend didn't have a passport when we met either, but since then he got one, and we've been to Europe 3 times together.

by Anonymousreply 211/25/2012

You're an asshole OP

by Anonymousreply 311/25/2012

Hopefully he'll soon realize that you are indeed an asshole and shallow fuck and make plans to travel with someone more interesting than you.

by Anonymousreply 411/25/2012

Standards, OP.

Cut him loose, you will be doing the right thing.

It's not your job to educate an untraveled boor.

by Anonymousreply 511/25/2012

Dump him immediately, OP. You need someone cultured who can accompany you on your annual holiday to Cancun.

by Anonymousreply 611/25/2012

I have a passport but no driver's license. My passport *is* my I.D. Do you think I'm beneath you as well, OP?

by Anonymousreply 711/25/2012

What is his background and how old is he? There is a big difference between never wanting to experience other cultures and never having had the opportunity.

by Anonymousreply 811/25/2012

I went years without a passport because I was in the military it wasn't required to go abroad.

r8 is right. We'll need details.

by Anonymousreply 911/25/2012

In the marry, kill screw game I know where op falls for me.

by Anonymousreply 1011/25/2012

What did you serve him for Thanksgiving dinner, OP? Did you go with the seven appetizers and six pies?

by Anonymousreply 1111/25/2012

r7 should get a state issued id. passports are for intering countries...and in many areas you with be subject to arrest without proper id. No, a passport is not proper id.

by Anonymousreply 1211/25/2012

Where were you planning on traveling with him before you found this out?

by Anonymousreply 1311/25/2012

Horrors! Quick the smelling salts!

by Anonymousreply 1411/25/2012

Betrayal is such a hurtful thing.

by Anonymousreply 1511/25/2012

I'm 83 and don't have one either. What's your point?

by Anonymousreply 1611/25/2012

From the Galloping Gourmet thread:

Somebody trolldar'd the OP a couple months back and busted him for starting three or four threads at the same time as 3 or 4 different personas. One was a Galloping Gourmet thread in which the GG announced one of his many breakups with his imaginary bf; in another, the OP and his bf were still together, but OP was bitter about staying home sick while his bf attended a bbq; and in yet a third thread, OP and imaginary bf were blissfully happy together and had just spent the weekend visiting OP's dream town somewhere in New England.

by Anonymousreply 1711/25/2012

R7, like you, I have a (well used) passport, but no driver's license. I do have a driver, however. I suspect that OP would be willing to date me on that basis. All the more reason not to date him.

by Anonymousreply 1811/25/2012

I don't need one.

Jealous, bitches?

by Anonymousreply 1911/25/2012

OP, you're an idiot.

That is all.

by Anonymousreply 2011/25/2012

My stuck up boyfriend freaked out when I told him I don't have a passport. Who the fuck am I dating and how do I get out of this?

by Anonymousreply 2111/25/2012

Can't believe I wasted 6 months of my life with this elitist bitch.

by Anonymousreply 2211/25/2012

"Who in the fuck am I dating?"

A guy without a passport..!!!!

Get a grip, MARY!

by Anonymousreply 2311/25/2012

When I found out my BF didnt have a passport we worked through the emotional trauma and then we got a passport

by Anonymousreply 2411/25/2012

He can always get a passport so that part of the situation is easily remedied.

Not sure there's any remedy for your lethal combination of pretension and lack of character, OP.

by Anonymousreply 2511/25/2012

R21... Break up with the OP, you're too good for him.

by Anonymousreply 2611/25/2012

[quote]No, a passport is not proper id.

Er, WTF?

by Anonymousreply 2711/25/2012

I dated someone for a few months before I realized he had spent every semester in college in residence (never been abroad, never traveled anywhere), and then, later, that he had only started a prestigious MFA program but never completed it.

While not dealbreakers themselves, they signified the beginning of the end for me. The guy was dishonest and a complete fraud.

by Anonymousreply 2811/25/2012


by Anonymousreply 2911/25/2012

R28. So your bf lied and said he traveled a lot when he didn't. If that's the situation with the OP, it would make a big difference and I would stop making fun of him.

by Anonymousreply 3011/25/2012

And THIS is why I love you cunts.

by Anonymousreply 3111/25/2012

Help him get a passport then. May be his best chance to get the fuck away from you

by Anonymousreply 3211/26/2012

Take it down a notch, OP. So what? I actually do want to go travel but I can't really afford the fees right now and have an issue with my birth certificate. You could go your whole life and not experience all of the US, you don't have to go anywhere actually do experience different cultures and people. I've honestly never had any food that's not soul food, American, Mexican, or Italian. There's so much even here to see because many cultures are here as well as abroad. Places are wonderful but they are special because of what is attached to them.

by Anonymousreply 3311/26/2012

Don't worry, OP. A passport isn't needed for your weekly repast at the Olive Garden.

by Anonymousreply 3411/26/2012

Elitist Snooty Traveller just tossed this one out there with minimal effort. Dud. 1/10.

by Anonymousreply 3511/26/2012

Approximately 38% of US Americans have passports. Many of them don't have maps.

by Anonymousreply 3611/26/2012

Somewhere in the neighborhood of 33% of Americans hold passports.

If you whittle that down to the percentage of that 33% who are gay, and then of those who might actually be interested in the OP, the number gets miniscule.

You can't afford to have such high expectations OP. Better unclutch.

by Anonymousreply 3711/26/2012

OP is why I don't date anybody. Fuck you all!

by Anonymousreply 3811/26/2012


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