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Would you date a Middle Eastern man?

Like someone from Iran or Jordan? What if he was completely closeted to his family or even betrothed? Would you risk it?

by Anonymousreply 13812/15/2013


by Anonymousreply 110/10/2012

Sure, why not?

by Anonymousreply 210/10/2012

Of long as he is a hot hairy bottom.

by Anonymousreply 310/10/2012

Unfortunately, they tend to be emotionally/physically abusive. I don't think I've ever met a gay Middle Easterner, but I live in an area where a lot of gorgeous girls have boyfriends from Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan, etc. Without fail, the guys are beating them, caught up in shady businesses, and prone to being verbally abusive in public settings.

by Anonymousreply 410/10/2012

Yes, yes, yes...

by Anonymousreply 510/10/2012

Those aren't Middle Easterners, R5. They're all uncut.

by Anonymousreply 610/10/2012

Yeah. They are fucking hot!

by Anonymousreply 710/10/2012

I've had 2 guys from the Middle East. Both had really big cocks and both had serious issues about their sexuality. I really don't discriminate when it comes to dating, everyone has a shot if we gel.

by Anonymousreply 810/10/2012

Middle Eastern? Yes, of course. Closeted? No freakin' way!

by Anonymousreply 910/10/2012

I wouldn't turn down a bit of a rough fuck.

by Anonymousreply 1010/10/2012

I dated a Turk does that count? he liked me to whip him & spit on him.

by Anonymousreply 1110/10/2012

The two Iranians I've known are always in danger of being deported. Both emigrated with families that fled with the Shah.

They were lovely men, but Americanized British accents made everything sound melodramatic.

by Anonymousreply 1210/10/2012

if he's hot, intelligent and fun to be with, without a doubt.

by Anonymousreply 1310/10/2012

That sounds hot, yes! He'd ask me to be discreet as a stick my finger in his ass whenever I please.

by Anonymousreply 1410/10/2012

Would I have to were a burka?

by Anonymousreply 1510/10/2012

were a burka?

by Anonymousreply 1610/10/2012

I'd love to fuck a middle eastern man then bust on his ass

by Anonymousreply 1710/10/2012

Probably not, there is nothing quite like a white American male (native born) and I mean that generally in a positive way. I did meet a Palestinian once with a very nice, spankable ass but somehow I think the accent kept getting in the way. One hates to generalize with stereotypes, but don't alot of them tend to be rather hysterical? Not that hysteria isn't anything new to American culture, especially recently. My guess is that, among other things, a white native born American male, as I am, would "get me" more than someone who is not. I have a few somewhat specific ideas about sex that I think American men would be best at understanding, one of which is the uniform fetish for cowboys, cops, mailmen, baseball players (can't get much more American than baseball as far as that goes).....

by Anonymousreply 1810/10/2012

When did "date" begin to describe what goes on between 2 or more gay guys? Or Lesbians for that matter..... I can't quite get rid of the image that a "date" is something a high school boy and girl, equally zitty faced, do at the movies or something.

by Anonymousreply 1910/10/2012

Creepy post at r18

by Anonymousreply 2010/10/2012

Neurotic dumbass at r20....

by Anonymousreply 2110/10/2012

What is wrong with the word "date"? Some people do date and don't just fuck, it is possible, out of billions of people on the planet, it does happen.

by Anonymousreply 2210/10/2012

R19 is a moron.

by Anonymousreply 2310/10/2012

Date? "Date" a closeted and possibly betrothed Middle Eastern man. What an idiotic notion. Hell, no. Fuck? Hell, yes.

by Anonymousreply 2410/10/2012

Yes, I would date a Middle Eastern man when he's well adjusted (no self loathing conservative with anger management issues) and there's chemistry between us.

by Anonymousreply 2510/11/2012

R6 there are plenty of uncut arabs in the Middle East - they are called Christians - the levant is full of them.

Arabs are great to have sex with, especially the Lebs and Syrians, just dont fall in love with them.

by Anonymousreply 2610/11/2012

A middle eastern man? fuck yes. if he were closeted? sure. not if he were betrothed though. I only date single guys. A lot of middle eastern guys are fucking hot. Obviously I'd have to like the personality too though.

by Anonymousreply 2710/11/2012

The vast majority of Middle Eastern men are Muslim, R26. Even some of the Christian ones from Lebanon, the only Arab country with a significant Christian population (no, I don't count the Copts as a significant minority) are cut. At least the ones I've seen naked.

Chances are those guys weren't Arab, R26.

by Anonymousreply 2810/11/2012

r23 sounds like some useless self absorbed frau cunt with shit for brains. I think she must have been the bitch who mindlessly cut me off in traffic on the freeway--YEAH, BITCH DON'T LOOK OR ANYTHING, THE WORLD WILL JUST STOP FOR A DUMB-FUCK CUNT LIKE YOU!!!!

by Anonymousreply 2910/11/2012

wont date them but will suck them and get fucked by them hahah

by Anonymousreply 3010/12/2012

am I the only one who knows out and proud MIddle-easterners? Gay, and gay, Turks, Lebanese, even an Egyptian.

by Anonymousreply 3110/12/2012

Where are the out middle eastern men? Even on adam4adam and manhunt, I don't see many of them at all. In browsing profiles, I've seen some israelis and some persians but hardly any arabs or turks.

by Anonymousreply 3210/12/2012

I prefer my Middle Eastern man, like all my men, to be CUT.

by Anonymousreply 3310/12/2012


J'DORE Arab cock.


by Anonymousreply 3410/12/2012

R31, I just talked to them, like out, like in a bar. people still do that.

by Anonymousreply 3510/12/2012

HUGE PENISES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 3610/12/2012

R34, MARY!

by Anonymousreply 3710/12/2012

Only an Americanized one with good hygiene habits, second generation type guy. A native one, like straight off the boat? Oh, HELL NAW... They wipe their asses with their hands, and they REEK of some truly funky body odor.

by Anonymousreply 3810/12/2012

this one

by Anonymousreply 3903/09/2013

I used to hook up with a guy from Amman, Jordan in the saunas here in London - all he wanted was poppers up his nose and fucking you for hours. Suited me at the time, till I realised there was nothing else in it for me.

by Anonymousreply 4003/09/2013

If he looks like this, oh yeah dude!

by Anonymousreply 4103/21/2013

pics please

by Anonymousreply 4203/23/2013

I would. I've met some great Iranian & Turkish men. I'm sure there are good men across the Middle East. They are handsome, know about good cuisine, and are very smart.

by Anonymousreply 4303/23/2013

Do Israelis count? If so, I dated one and he was hot!

by Anonymousreply 4403/23/2013


by Anonymousreply 4503/23/2013


by Anonymousreply 4603/23/2013

I had two friends. Their names were Hani (Palestinian) and Arie (Israeli). This was 1974. Hani and I worked together and Arie and I slept together. I had a crush on Hani, who was really hot, and he'd come by my place, but he never put out. I'd tease him and he'd act all shy and cute. Hani and Arie were polite to each other. Arie had fought and been wounded in the 1973 War so they were on opposite sides. Eventually, Hani and I lost touch and Arie ended up being my first boyfriend (7 years). I liked the way he tortured the English language. He said everything backwards, like towelpaper and walkside. I was his first homo relationship. He gave up a lot for me, and even though he was macho looking he was like a little kid inside. He looked like Omar Sharif, total bottom, amazing ass, dark hair, green eyes, hairy chest, mustache. Gave me anything I wanted. Looking back, we should have tried to work it out.

by Anonymousreply 4703/23/2013

How is he doing now, R47? And was Hani actually gay?

by Anonymousreply 4803/23/2013


by Anonymousreply 4903/23/2013

Wow. More pics of guys like those in r46 and r49. Hot!

by Anonymousreply 5003/23/2013

Not if they were closeted. Why would I date a closet case if I'm not in the closet?

by Anonymousreply 5103/23/2013

There's plenty more here.

by Anonymousreply 5203/24/2013

I'd be afraid I'd end up like Sally Field in Not without My Daughter.

by Anonymousreply 5303/24/2013

Sadly, no. They tend to be physically and emotionally abusive (very possessive).

by Anonymousreply 5403/24/2013

[quote]I'd be afraid I'd end up like Sally Field in Not without My Daughter.

Bwa-ha ha...

He's doing great R48. Lives on Kings Road in WeHo and works as a travel agent for rich people in Beverly Hills.

Hani wasn't gay as far as I know. I tried. Two different cultures. I should have tried to get him drunk. He looked like one of those pics above. Once I got him to change in my apt. into some jeans. He caught me watching and blushed and turned around, showing off his tight round ass. Arie didn't say much, but he didn't like me hanging around with him.

by Anonymousreply 5503/24/2013


by Anonymousreply 5603/24/2013

I'll ask the standard DL questions:

How large is his cock?

How much money does he have?

Does he have a nice condo?

Is he a top?

How large is his cock?

Oh large is his cock?

by Anonymousreply 5703/24/2013

Hell yes, gorgeous men.

by Anonymousreply 5803/24/2013

Are there any Middle Eastern dudes that are NOT hairy?

by Anonymousreply 5903/24/2013

We need a thread devoted to pics of HOT Middle Eastern dudes. Can someone start such a thread?

by Anonymousreply 6003/24/2013

Only if they were white Christian and didn't stink. So that leaves all mid east people out.

by Anonymousreply 6103/24/2013

The multifaceted nature of your ignorance is really breathtaking, R61

by Anonymousreply 6203/24/2013


by Anonymousreply 6303/24/2013

I'm in love, r63.

by Anonymousreply 6403/24/2013

All the men on that tumblr are my dream men. Middle Eastern men are my ideal physically (as long as you can shut them up about discussing politics and the role of women in society--and I mean ALL of them: Israelis as well as Arabs).

My total fantasy is to be mercilessly fucked and manhandled by a hot Israeli/Turkish/Egyptian/Kuwaiti/Jordanian/Armenian/Libyan/Iranian/Iraqi bodybuilder for hours.

by Anonymousreply 6503/24/2013

I agree mid east guys stink. No water over there, but why don't they wash when they get here?

Plus Mohammedians have to shave their pubes.

by Anonymousreply 6603/24/2013

Middle Eastern men don't all stink in terms of body odor. It's their personalities that are foul.

by Anonymousreply 6703/24/2013

Probably. Of course it depends on individual, but I find Middle Eastern men and Arab men very attractive. Not all, but many. I am blond with blue eyes, so I guess opposite attracts.

by Anonymousreply 6803/24/2013

They have impeccable beards.

by Anonymousreply 6903/24/2013

I hear ya, R69.

by Anonymousreply 7003/24/2013

Probably not if he's Muslim. Maybe, if he's cut. Definitely if he's Jewish.

by Anonymousreply 7103/24/2013

They're off my list. I prefer uncircumcised men.

by Anonymousreply 7203/24/2013

I did - three times. Never again.

I had to stop and realize that I was fetishizing the Arab man. I was looking for something exotic. I found it, but, man, the toxic situations I found myself in with them. Drama queens, sexually fucked up, schizophrenic. Macho shits on the surface, but submissive in the bedroom, and then they hate you for it. I look back and do not remember the hot sex.

I haven't had the same situations with other guys.

by Anonymousreply 7303/24/2013

Are most American men born in the 1980s circumcised? I can understand why those born between 1967 and 1972 might not be, but what about the millenials (whom I am too old to have sex with except a couple of times, and they were both circumcised)?

by Anonymousreply 7403/24/2013


by Anonymousreply 7503/24/2013

R74: I was born in the 80s and I'm circumcised.

by Anonymousreply 7603/24/2013

Pakistani dudes are so hot. Beautiful eyes.

by Anonymousreply 7703/26/2013

I've been with several Muslim men from the Middle East over the years but never again. In fact, I never mess with Muslim men, regardless of where they come from. Somehow that religion fucks with people's minds more than any other, and that's saying a lot.

Now, a nice Jewish boy from Israel would be fun. They tend to be civilized.

by Anonymousreply 7803/26/2013

[quote]Would you date a Middle Eastern man?


[quote]Like someone from Iran or Jordan?

Yes, those are countries in the middle east.

[quote]What if he was completely closeted to his family or even betrothed?

No, I wouldn't date anyone who was closeted to that degree, unless they were planning to come out in the very near future.

[quote]Would you risk it?

Risk what?

by Anonymousreply 7903/26/2013

[quote]Only if they were white Christian and didn't stink. So that leaves all mid east people out.

Why do you even bother with the "Christian" part when you clearly hate "Stinky" Jesus himself... or are you another moron who thinks Jesus was born in Sweden?

Honestly, poor Jesus. He's got a collection of the dumbest motherfuckers following him. No wonder the guy doesn't want to come back. Look at the idiocy waiting for him.

by Anonymousreply 8003/26/2013

No, they have too many issues - but I'd let him fuck me.

by Anonymousreply 8103/26/2013

Yes,I would!!!! I have seen some very fine Iranian guys!!!

by Anonymousreply 8203/26/2013

I get hit on my Middle Eastern guys all the time, I have very blue eyes and they seem to really love that. One guy I met, Sammi, was from Saudi Arabia, he was hot and hung huge. I took him home and when we go tin the door he was on me. After ..we talked and he told me he was going to have to go back to Saudi Arabia unless he could get married. How it would be great if we could be together and if I had a sister or knew someone. I did not so he moved on quick. LOL

by Anonymousreply 8303/26/2013


by Anonymousreply 8403/27/2013

Of course webmaster would let this thread go on. If the question was about Israelis, it would have been deleted along with many responders. Typical.

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by Anonymousreply 8604/06/2013

I despise that awful t-shirt.

by Anonymousreply 8704/06/2013

It would really depend on the guy and his circumstances. Some very-good-looking closet case ... NO! A *secular* muslim guy who's generally a great person, and whom I find attractive, sure.

by Anonymousreply 8804/06/2013

I don't date men who are closeted or married, be they Middle Eastern or otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 8904/06/2013

I would hope you would never date a married man just because.

by Anonymousreply 9004/07/2013

I don't think most of you have thought this through. If his family finds out about you, they have you killed. Is that worth the trouble?

by Anonymousreply 9104/07/2013

[quote]If his family finds out about you, they have you killed.

Do you really think we're going to move to Riyadh or Mecca to find them? There are plenty right on the streets of Los Angeles.

by Anonymousreply 9204/07/2013


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by Anonymousreply 9504/14/2013

muscle shirt

by Anonymousreply 9604/17/2013

pics please

by Anonymousreply 9705/06/2013

r6, Muslims circumsize their boys just like Jews.

by Anonymousreply 9805/06/2013


by Anonymousreply 9905/10/2013

yes, of course

by Anonymousreply 10005/20/2013

Middle east? Sure. Islamic, no.

by Anonymousreply 10105/20/2013

Not a fucking chance!

by Anonymousreply 10205/20/2013

You'd have to lower the grease quotient in your hair, Anwar.

by Anonymousreply 10305/20/2013

r101, believe me, at first you think there is a difference. But take it from someone who has been with both Muslim and Christian Arabs: there ain't an iota of difference in how fucked up these guys are sexually and emotionally.

by Anonymousreply 10405/20/2013

Bradford Anderson has apparently opted to go on a month-to-month contract basis instead of renewing a long-term one.

by Anonymousreply 10505/20/2013

has anyone here grown up in a country in the middle east and be able to describe what the sexual culture is? do teenagers know that the girls won't be having sex with them?

by Anonymousreply 10605/20/2013

If he's an Israeli.

by Anonymousreply 10705/20/2013

If he's not from the Middle West, I'm not interested!

by Anonymousreply 10805/22/2013

I'd let a Middle Eastern man terrorize my ass!

by Anonymousreply 10905/22/2013

Just for the record, where does the Near East begin and end?

by Anonymousreply 11005/22/2013


by Anonymousreply 11105/22/2013

Eslam Elmasry

by Anonymousreply 11205/30/2013


by Anonymousreply 11305/30/2013

Pakistani dudes are fine.

by Anonymousreply 11406/03/2013

No but I would let them fuck me.

by Anonymousreply 11506/03/2013

From Turkey to Iran R110

by Anonymousreply 11606/03/2013

Nassim Sahill

by Anonymousreply 11706/22/2013

@117, wow what a hot hunk. And yes, I would date ME man, find them attractive (not all, but many).

by Anonymousreply 11806/22/2013

Pakistani men stinks as much as indians

by Anonymousreply 11906/22/2013

Arabs are so hot.

by Anonymousreply 12006/29/2013

Middle Eastern men tend to be attractive, but they're fucking psychotic. Any gay male would be a fool to take on the drama that accompanies ALL Middle Easterners.

by Anonymousreply 12106/29/2013

No, I would never, ever, EVER date a Middle Eastern guy. They are emotionally unhealthy, psychologically unstable, devious, creepy beyond anything imaginable, weird and latently violent.

I made the mistake of trying to "date" one and becoming briefly involved with another one. I met the people in their environment and I wanted to run away as fast as possible.

R104 is completely right.

by Anonymousreply 12210/22/2013

i have dated a Persian guy who was born in Canada and was out and stuff. pretty good and everything. even had a threesome with me (me (i am white), him and another Persian guy. Pretty fucking great stuff.

by Anonymousreply 12310/22/2013

I live in a college town. During my senior year I went to a gay night at a club here with my partner and we met a really nice gay guy from the middle east. He was there with a friend. He was extremely scared because he wasn't out at all except to his friend. I can understand why. There's a lot of middle eastern men who attend this school and they mostly all seem very macho and heterosexual. Anyways, he was really sweet and if I had been a gay guy, I would have been into him.

by Anonymousreply 12410/22/2013

i grew up with a lot of persian jews, and no, i probably wouldn't date one- maybe if they were 3rd generation american and even then i'd be very wary. from what i've observed, from toddlerhood, arab-culture boys (muslim and jew) are not disciplined, but indulged, simply because they are men. so they grow up into immature, emotional tyrants, never understanding when they don't get their way, and only capable of acting out violently when faced with challenging situations.

yes, i'm lumping an entire culture together, and their are exceptions to the rule, but i've been around enough persian headcases to know it's a broad pattern within the culture.

by Anonymousreply 12510/22/2013

Middle East people stink. That's because they have no water and don't bathe. They smell AWFUL.

by Anonymousreply 12610/23/2013

Is he rich?

by Anonymousreply 12710/23/2013

[quote]Middle East people stink.

Depends. There are all sorts of hygiene practices that I find makes Middle Easterners cleaner than their South Asian/North African neighbours. Lebanese guys, with shaved body hair and all the parsley, lemon, and floral things they eat, smell lovely.

by Anonymousreply 12810/23/2013

Agree with R125. Turks I like.

by Anonymousreply 12910/23/2013

Yes, why not?

Not if he were closeted or betrothed, same as for someone from anywhere else.

by Anonymousreply 13010/23/2013

r125 hit the nail on the head. I worked with a young Muslim guy of Lebanese descent, he's second generation American, for a couple of years. He was very cute and constantly talked about women, even though I knew he was gay or bi, by the way that he looked at me and approached me when we were working alone. He was a complete cunt when something went wrong or something unexpected happened. We joked that he was bipolar because as soon as something went left it was like this evil tyrant came out of him and he would snap. I was not surprised to learn that he lives with his parents and is still very spoiled. I know it's a huge generalization upon guys from this culture, but I could never deal with that.

by Anonymousreply 13110/23/2013

Azz Matinee

by Anonymousreply 13212/14/2013

My only experience with a Middle Eastern man culminated with him silently coming in my mouth without so much as a "by your leave".

Yes he was handsome but also incredibly selfish,inconsiderate and disdainful..I could just tell he thought I was a sub species for even sucking his cock.

by Anonymousreply 13312/14/2013

Something very sweet and erotic about these two.

And the Disneyesque, chirping birds only add to the atmosphere.

by Anonymousreply 13412/14/2013

Happy Holidays...


by Anonymousreply 13512/14/2013

r135, that was the sweetest thing ever.

by Anonymousreply 13612/14/2013


by Anonymousreply 13712/15/2013

WTF I see stereotyping too much in here WTH. First of all I'm middle eastern and I live in Canada and I'm out and proud and I think all of you should get your facts straight.

(We stink) Haha that's so funny, you Americans take a shower once a month or sometimes a year unlike us, we take a shower 2 times a day honey.

(We don't have water over there) This is even funnier than the last one haha. Don't watch anti-christ channels such as CNN, FOX or BBC because those who actually brain washes you. Honey, we have skyscrapers that are taller than yours.

To all people who said that they wouldn't date us, my respond to you is = do you think that middle eastern men would look at your freckle face, seriously go get some tan you look like you have cancer.

Our men always make it in the final 3 in beauty pageants for men in the world. We are the most attractive men on earth deal with it and die with your jealousy. + An extra fact -- Jesus was middle eastern and the truth hurt for some ignorant.

This is really makes me sad and angry at the same time ... I came here hoping that I could have a better life as a gay man and I thought that no matter where you come from, you are part of the guy community but all I got is discrimination and hate .. pretty frustrating.

by Anonymousreply 13812/15/2013
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