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Adoptive Mother Wins Full Custody Over Birth Mom In Landmark Same-Sex Ruling

In what is believed to be the state's first such ruling for a same-sex couple, a New York judge has awarded full custody of a child to her adopted mother rather that her biological parent.

The New York Post reports that Manhattan real estate attorney Allison Scollar defeated television producer Brook Altman for custody and decision-making authority of a six-year-old girl after a brutal court battle.

Manhattan Judge Gloria Sosa-Lintner praised Scollar, 50, as "the more responsible parent looking out for the child’s best interests, not her own interests” while describing Altman, 47, as having behaved "more as a friend or older sister than a responsible parent."

Acknowledging Altman as the girl's biological parent, Sosa-Lintner nonetheless added, "This does not give her an automatic priority over the adoptive parent. This is analogous to a father getting custody of his own child, where only the best interests of the child are paramount."

Though Altman (who credits reportedly include Martha Stewart's TV show) plans to appeal the decision, Scollar said she was relieved. "Love doesn’t just come from biology...It’s a step closer to the gay community being acknowledged as parents," she said. "The law needs to catch up to diverse families — and it has."

The move comes at a time when same-sex parenting continues to be a divisive issue, both culturally and politically. In June, sociologist Mark Regnerus published a study which claimed to find disadvantages for children raised by same-sex parents, though the results have since been deemed "flawed" by a number of high profile social scientists.

In August, the American Family Association's Bryan Fischer sparked the ire of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community after he called for an "Underground Railroad to deliver innocent children from same-sex households," and has previously cited the Penn State child abuse scandal as evidence why LGBT parents shouldn't be allowed to adopt children. Meanwhile, openly gay "My Best Friend's Wedding" star Rupert Everett has reportedly been on the receiving end of hate mail and death threats after he, too, criticized same-sex parenting.

by Anonymousreply 310/01/2012

Holy shit, I knew this Brook Altman. I havent seen or heard from her in like 20 years or more, but I recognized the name and Googled her image and sure enough, there she is. And even though I dont know what she is like now, if she is even remotely now like she was when I knew her, the judge made the right decision.

by Anonymousreply 110/01/2012

This is an amazing outcome. I wonder if it'll have a ripple effect.

by Anonymousreply 210/01/2012

Is she related to Robert?

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