35-year old woman sentenced for sex with 3 teen boys
Aug 6, 2012
The Associated Press
OSHKOSH, Wis. - A 35-year-old Oshkosh woman who pleaded guilty to having sex with three teenage boys has been sentenced to just under two years in jail.
Tessa A. Gray apologized to the victims and their family in court Friday.
Gray faced more than 80 years in prison. But as part of a plea deal she pleaded guilty to charges of repeated sexual assault of a child and sexual intercourse with a child. She was sentenced to 21 months in jail.
According to a WLUK-TV report, prosecutors had argued that Gray should be treated no differently than a man in a similar situation.
Gray's defense attorney says his client continued the sexual contact out of fear the boys would stop being friends with her daughter.
The boys were 14, 15 and 16.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||01/20/2013|
If a man did this to teen boys or teen girls he would have gotten a much longer sentence.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||08/06/2012|
21 months, wow...seems very light.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||08/06/2012|
Teen boys are not good at sex. Why are all these women molesting them?
|by Anonymous||reply 5||08/06/2012|
There are 14/15/16 year old boys all over the world praying for this sort of 'abuse'.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||08/07/2012|
The sentence would be much higher if this were a male abuser.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||08/07/2012|
Looks about a decade older, too.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||08/07/2012|
What are you talking about R12? Taking what too far?
|by Anonymous||reply 13||08/07/2012|
Taking what too far R12???
|by Anonymous||reply 14||08/07/2012|
R16, you seem to be the one with issues
|by Anonymous||reply 17||08/07/2012|
[quote]Boys are sexual creatures and were meant to explore and have sex. What this women did is wrong. It needs to be consensual but there is nothing wrong about sex with young boys wahoo are entering their manhood.
R16 is really creepy.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||08/07/2012|
R19, you're an idiot. You don't know whether these boys are traumatized or not, so stop it with the "They're so lucky!" nonsense.
It would be one thing if they were 17 or 18, but one of them was as young as 14.
And stop it with the 'frau' name-calling. That shows your level of ignorance.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||08/07/2012|
[quote]here is nothing wrong about sex with young boys wahoo are entering their manhood.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||08/07/2012|
[quote][she] continued the sexual contact out of fear the boys would stop being friends with her daughter.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||08/07/2012|
Three teen boys having sex with a hot older woman.
Man these kids will be scarred for life
|by Anonymous||reply 26||08/07/2012|
I [bold]do[/bold] know R21 because I was one of these boys.
I was having sex at 14, 15 and 16 with guys my own age AND with older guys.
I have turned out to be a stable, educated, productive, responsible, 6 figure earning, horny and well adjusted member of society.
So stop your shameful banshee screaming.
The woman was an idiot but the boys will certainly not be harmed in any way.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||08/07/2012|
R27, who cares about you? Your experience does not translate to everyone else.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||08/07/2012|
I love how "6 figure earning" immediately invalidates the possibility that R27 might be a fucked up human being.
Because we all know the more you earn the better your morals....
|by Anonymous||reply 30||08/07/2012|
It would have been national news, R5.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||08/07/2012|
R27's quite right... In half the civilized countries of the world, it's legal for young men to have sex at 15. No, I don't want to do it, but this hysteria that sets in is ridiculous. And, as mentioned repeatedly above, if this was a man with a young girl it would be regarded as worse, but if this was an older man with younger men he would go to prison for a very long time.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||08/07/2012|
R27 is not right - the situation is different in every case and there are teenage boys on record who have said experiences like this were traumatizing.
Casper Van Dien has talked about something like this that happened to him when he was a boy and said he was sexually abused by his babysitter, so there's a fine line sometimes.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||08/07/2012|
She was doing it so they would be friends with her daughter? Wasn't this the plot of an SVU episode with the girl who used to be Sydney on "Melrose Place"?
|by Anonymous||reply 35||08/07/2012|
For some reason I think the posts about these boys being scarred aren't from guys. Guys don't get scarred from sex. They just move on .
|by Anonymous||reply 36||08/07/2012|
Well, they can't get pregnant, R36, but they can get STD's or HIV which can be hard to "move on" from.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||08/07/2012|
I can't wait for the Lifetime movie called 'Daughter, may I sleep with your friends?'. You just know Tori Spelling is gunning for the mom role.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||08/07/2012|
Another rapist behind bars.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||08/07/2012|
Dr. Drew says situations like these are indeed traumatizing to the young boys.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||08/07/2012|
Those warts on her face make her look like she's living in a gingerbread house fattening up little kids in order to feast on them.
Come to think of it. I am surprised David DeCoteau never made a Hansel and Gretel version with two hot male twinks trapped half naked in an old cougar witch's sex dungeoun.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||08/07/2012|
While it's possible for a teen to be seduced by a much older woman, and not be negatively affected, it could go the other way too. I've tried to date men that bragged about their introduction to sex at a very young age (one was 9.) They did not equate sex with love, like, caring, or even affection. There was an expectation of sex on the first date. The guys ended up with girls that were agreeable, rather than those that where truly compatible. If the two were young but closer in age and actually liked each other, I didn't see as many sexual hangups.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||08/07/2012|
yes r6. men get so much better with age.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||08/07/2012|
Nobody ever molested me as child, and I'm incredibly screwed up. Terrible self-worth issues, and a complete inability to maintain a relationship, coupled with constant suicide fantasies.
If I had been molested, I'd be able to blame that for all my problems. Sadly, I wasn't, so I have to assume responsibility.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||08/07/2012|
[quote]Not one of those boys will be damaged, disadvantaged or altered in any way. If you were male you would know that.
You can't speak for anyone but yourself, asswipe. My (male) boss was seduced by an older woman when he had a paper route. He was about 45 years old when he told me about it and said he wished it hadn't happened.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||08/07/2012|
If they were hot, I can't blame her.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||08/08/2012|
Oh please! Even I know that this is a straight teenage boys dream.
Boys brag about this type of experience, it raises their stock amongst the other guys. Until today I've never heard anyone suggest that teen boys who like girls would be traumatised from living out this very basic fantasy.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||08/08/2012|
r51. You know the old saying 'careful what you wish for, it might come true'.
One's bragging rights (now) are another shrink's bread and butter (later).
|by Anonymous||reply 52||08/08/2012|
Really R52? There are straight men who have to go to shrinks because they had sex with an older woman in their mid teens??
I need to get in on this shrink-racket.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||08/08/2012|
I keep mis-reading this thread title as: "woman sentenced TO have sex with 3 teen boys."
|by Anonymous||reply 54||08/08/2012|
Oh please! I came from an all-boys school and there are these 3 cougar-type teachers there and nearly every one of us (except the gays) fantasize making out with them. Seriously, it's every young boy's fantasy and saying that it would screw them up is an exaggeration. If they are molested against their will then THAT would have a negative impact on them but if its consensual, then I don't think it will.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||01/14/2013|
What is it with white women and boys & dogs? I've read 3 stories of bestiality today. Someone at work even showed me a website for that mess. Yuck! Really?!
These adult women preying on their kids' friends or teachers preying on their students. If these were men the public would be outraged!!
|by Anonymous||reply 56||01/14/2013|
[quote] Real kids have real sex with growing adults.
Growing as in getting fat or growing as in becoming enlightened? wtf?
|by Anonymous||reply 57||01/15/2013|
Oh my God these three teens will be scarred for life.
After they're done bragging to their friends and spending all the money they get from their lawsuit.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||01/15/2013|
Lets all hope she's raped and murdered.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||01/15/2013|
Lol at "Daughter, May I Sleep With Your Friends?"
|by Anonymous||reply 60||01/15/2013|
"These adult women preying on their kids' friends or teachers preying on their students"
96% of sex offenders are male. What is it with white men and young girls or boys?
"Lets all hope she's raped and murdered."
Yes, let's hope someone who never murdered anyone will be murdered!
|by Anonymous||reply 61||01/15/2013|
These boys will certainly not be "traumatized" by consensual sex.
However, they may well be traumatized by the histrionic reactions of their mothers and other sex-negative fraus.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||01/15/2013|
R62, don't make light of it. There are many boys on record as saying that an adult woman sexually assaulting them did affect them in their lives.
You don't know if you haven't lived it.
|by Anonymous||reply 63||01/15/2013|
"Three teen boys having sex with a hot older woman.
Man these kids will be scarred for life"
"Hot?" She has WARTS on her face. If you consider her hot you must be blind or retarded or willing to fuck anything. Or all three.
|by Anonymous||reply 64||01/15/2013|
"These boys will certainly not be "traumatized" by consensual sex.
However, they may well be traumatized by the histrionic reactions of their mothers and other sex-negative fraus."
Oh blow it out you ass, you slimy pedo.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||01/15/2013|
R55 is a straight man. We will not tolerate his presence here.
|by Anonymous||reply 66||01/15/2013|
[quote]These kids were 14 and up.
They were underage.
They don't have to be 8 years old for it to be sexual assault of a minor.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||01/15/2013|
[quote]If you consider her hot you must be blind or retarded or willing to fuck anything.
yeah, pretty much anything.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||01/15/2013|
There is a woman in Texas who has sex with FOUR 18 year olds and she still got 30 years in jail!
It was because of the moral aspect of the sex.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||01/15/2013|
[quote]I'm not creepy at all. I am sexually liberated and enjoy sex with all ages.
I wish I was liberated.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||01/15/2013|
If they're 18, wouldn't they be adults, R70?
|by Anonymous||reply 72||01/15/2013|
Yep but it is Texas, they look down on group sex like that.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||01/15/2013|
That bitch's mugshot is further proof that teenage boys will fuck anything.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||01/15/2013|
"Not too sure about this. If Angelina is Cleopatra, she needs a director who can flesh out the camp."
The boys may not be harmed in any lasting way. Neither might girls that age who have sex with a 35 year old.
But it is understandably illegal. Unless of course we want to argue that there shouldn't be such a thing as an age of consent. Which is fucking preposterous. Of course there should be.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||01/15/2013|
[quote]They were underage.
In some places, not others.
Don't make yourself sound even more idiotic by pretending these were little boys.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||01/15/2013|
R70 and R72, in the Texas case the woman was their teacher. It is illegal in Texas for any teacher to have sex with any student, no matter the age of the student. It really had little to do with the age of the boys.
|by Anonymous||reply 77||01/15/2013|
Women be hoes. Stop messing with kids ya trash. How da hell did that bitch get off so easy? That's funking bullshit. I hate cunts.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||01/15/2013|
You know what straight guys are thinking? She did those boys a favour.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||01/16/2013|
I don't see what the big deal is.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||01/18/2013|
[quote]If a man did this to teen boys or teen girls he would have gotten a much longer sentence.
And, rightfully so.
When men get caught with teen boys, DLers always freak out and trumpet how much teen boys are horny and they themselves were sexually ready and would do anything to get laid at that age, and would never be victimized, and the older guy is being screwed.
So, it has to be the same for teen boys fucking women.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||01/18/2013|
Why the fuck was this thread reopened?
|by Anonymous||reply 82||01/18/2013|
We punish people for breaking the fucking law. Whether or not the victim is traumatised has very little to do with it. This woman is sick. She should not be around children. God only knows what else she's into.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||01/18/2013|
There isn't a straight teenage boy alive who wouldn't willingly be "abused" like this.
|by Anonymous||reply 84||01/18/2013|
I think those of you insisting that a man would automatically get a longer sentence must not pay much attention to local news. When I turn on my local news, it's not uncommon to hear reports about rapists sentenced to short sentences or released early. For instance, in my area last week, a man convicted of several counts of rape (rape rape, not statutory) was released after only 4 years. And of course, one of the very first things he to celebrate was... rape again. He is now back in jail, but who knows for how long?
Shit like this happens all the time.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||01/18/2013|
That's what 35 looks like in Wisconsin?
|by Anonymous||reply 86||01/18/2013|
When I was 16, I seeked out sex with a guy I knew was 30. I felt pretty damn proud of myself at the time, Most of my friends thought it was pretty cool to have sex with someone older (20-30). I was not traumatized by the event and have no hard feelings against the 30 year old.
On the other hand, my partner also had sex with an older man when he was 16. He had a ton of issues back home (poverty, abuse) and was majorly depressed. What he basically needed was an adult telling him that things could get better in his life instead he found one that basically comforted him in the hopes of getting laid. This added to the depression my partner felt as a teen.
Lots of teens are lonely and are looking for love and understanding, and instead some adults take advantage of that.
Odds are that there three teens are probably bragging about this (I sure did!), but that's not always the case. Reminds me of the Elmo guy and how he was sleeping and seducing all those troubled teens.
I'm 29 now and the idea of sleeping with anyone under 21 makes me feel like I'd be taking advantage of them. I remember how stupid and easily manipulated I was around that age...
|by Anonymous||reply 87||01/18/2013|
She didn't want them to stop being friends with her daughter... that's her excuse?
Why didn't she just tell her daughter to put out herself. That's honestly sounds like it was a chore for her, and now she is going to jail.
|by Anonymous||reply 88||01/18/2013|
[quote]She didn't want them to stop being friends with her daughter... that's her excuse?
Yes. Because the most important thing in the world today is to be popular with all the males. It's the number one goal to strive for for young women and screwed up older women.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||01/18/2013|
"There isn't a straight teenage boy alive who wouldn't willingly be "abused" like this."
Oh, I think there are some straight teenage boys who would balk at having sex with an ugly older women, or even an attractive one. Some teenage boys, believe or not, don't have the hots for these types, these female sexual predators who go after boys as young as 12 or 13.
|by Anonymous||reply 90||01/18/2013|
It's really not always about trauma to the "victim" but about responsibility on the part of the adult, and, you know, breaking the law and all. The law casts its net broad in the case of sex with minors as to protect those who would truly be victimized. We're not going to trust all adults who have sex with teenagers to always make the distinction between teenagers who would be victimized and injured and those who wouldn't. That some adults get punished for having sex with truly willing teenagers, as a result of the broad net, so be it.
If you don't think there can be victims or simply that the net shouldn't be cast that broadly, then work to get the law changed. Quit whining whenever some older gay man or woman gets caught with boys or young men. You're right, they're not all victims. But, it doesn't matter.
It's just another case of no one ever wanting to take responsibility for anything. Fine, you say it's a stupid law, but it's still the law and there's a risk to breaking it. Breaking it, and then using the "stupid law" defense, is really no defense at all.
|by Anonymous||reply 91||01/18/2013|
Those who have a problem with this, five questions:
!) Do you think there should be no age of consent?
2) Do you think the age of consent should be lower than 14?
3) Do you think the age of consent should be applied differently to young males than it is to young females?
4) If the answer to the third question is yes, then why?
5) If the answer to the third question is yes, how would you defend such a policy against a claim of sexual discrimination?
|by Anonymous||reply 92||01/20/2013|
Those guy must have been desperate.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||01/20/2013|
[quote]Real kids have real sex with growing adults.
It's very important for growing adults to have real sex with real kids. Helps build strong bodies twelve ways!
|by Anonymous||reply 94||01/20/2013|
A man would have been punished a lot more than this cunt. I am so sick of women getting away with shit.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||01/20/2013|