Minus all the drama of the thing, the flakiness is off the charts.
First date: friend of friend, wants to have phone sex before we meet, demands that we meet, then flakes out at last minute.
Second date: flaky professor who is not completely over the ex - though breakup ended over a year long period terminating 9 months ago. Posts an ad to have short term relationships/hook ups. Now wants to keep me around to date later when she's not all fucked up wanting one night stands (offered the option of the one night stand or this.) But she's not even having the one night stands! I like her, she's interesting and funny, but what are her odds? Two dates with this one so far, another one probably soon.
It's most mysterious. I always used to just meet people in person and if I liked them, asked them out. You have to get through their little glowing screen first now. And through that particular little looking glass, they all seem flakey.
And these aren't 23 year old baby dykes. These are grown women, obsessing about astrological signs.