Yahoo frau with gay hubby
Ok, so to make a long story short, yes i knew my husband was bi before me met and it didnt bother me. But now as being together for several years i am starting to think he is just plain Gay. So im going to list all the reasons why i think, and PLEASE tell me whether you think that im just crazy and he is just plain bi, or wether his emotions have gone gay.
1. My instincts tell me he is just gay 2. We dont barely talk at all unless its about his male work buddies. 3. He begs me to do cocaine sometimes (yes its wrong blah blah) and then when on it turns into a TOTAL flamer..shows NO heterosexual ability. 4. He no longer in the last two years has had any interest in pleasuring me orally AT ALL. 5. He always wants a wam bam thank you mam sex. 6. He thinks im dumb for wanting to wear lingerie, or role play.. but then turns it around and says its because "i dont ever want to" which is crap because i know he just has NO INTEREST. 7. He always stares at hot guys on tv no matter WHAT IS going on, but if a commercial comes on he stares like a dog at a steak...
8. He never really looks at women but im thinking he is just respecting me.. 9. He has been caught with porn which he knows i dont like ... but NONE of it was ever two girls, or just a girl.. it was always boy girl or boy boy... 10. Whenever anyone talks about gay stuff wether on tv or in person he has PEAKED interest. 11. Sometimes i fake things like oh i went to the store and there were two gay guys practially making out int he isle.. and he will THEN want to listen to me like CRAZY,,, and ask questions and blah blah blah.. 12. Whenever i ask for 'sexual' things, he kind of acts like its a chore, or like he would rather die (no i am NOT fat or unattractive) we have spoke about it , and he wont give me an answer, its always "its not you ok!" 13. He is SOOO angry inside, he is sometimes physically and VERY emotionally abusive. He will even throw stuff over a simple tiny little argument.. its just he is SO unhappy and angry inside. 14. When i told him that his ex gay"friend" that they use to do "THINGS" with got a girlfriend he said "OMG IS SHE PRETTIER THAN YOU!! YOUR JEALOUS ARNT YOU!?!?" i was like "oooommmmggggggg..."in my head. knowing in my heart he wanted to cry that his friend didnt secretly love my husband. 15. We HAVE TO WATCH EVERY SINGLE leonardo movie there is !!! he is IN LOVE with him. 16. When i say i dont care if he is gay.. i have no problem with him even moving a gay lover int the house.. all he says is "Why just so you can screw the guy?!" and im like, no, he would be GAY. 17. When i tell him to just be honest with me and open up and i dont care even if he is GAY, he will freak out and scream and get so defensive about not being gay. 18. He would make comments like "ive just had a lot of women and im bored with it" and "if we ever divorced i would just move in with kevin. (His gay friend)
ok, so thats 18 EXAMPLES, i can think of at the moment.. but im sure there are millions more.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||02/09/2013|
"We don't barely talk at all" Oh dear. Nice try frau troll.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||02/07/2012|
He just sounds like an average guy in a bad marriage, in this one an average bisexual guy in a bad marriage. It's like his wife is blaming some essential "gayness" rather than working through tehir communication problems together.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||02/07/2012|
Uh what, R6? A straight man would NEVER say, I've had a lot of women, so I'm bored with sex with females. Nevah!
|by Anonymous||reply 7||02/07/2012|
Sounds like he wants a divorce but wants her to initiate it.
I mean, she's given him permission to have a bf and he's still unhappy.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||02/07/2012|
OP doesn't understand that the entry level for gaydom at DL is much, much lower than the empirical evidence detailed above.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||02/07/2012|
I think this goes on in small towns and smaller cities. A lot.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||02/07/2012|
The illiteracy bothers me more than anything else about this story.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||02/07/2012|
OP just idly copy-pasted and then posted a link, R11. "Understanding" doesn't really come into it.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||02/07/2012|
OP, you lost me at
[quote]We dont barely talk...
No wonder he doesn't talk to you.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||02/07/2012|
Total EST. No gay guy in his right mind is in love with DiCaprio.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||02/07/2012|
Yahoo link two years old.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||02/07/2012|
[quote]13. He is SOOO angry inside, he is sometimes physically and VERY emotionally abusive.
Noting that she places this all the way down at #13 in her list of 18 things about her husband that concern her, I can only conclude she's got a pretty long list of things about herself she ought to be even more concerned about.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||02/09/2012|
[quote]OP, you lost me at "We dont barely talk..."
Actually R15, you were lost long before that. OP didn't write this. The fact that you can't comprehend that it's copied and pasted from someone who wrote to Yahoo indicates you were lost from the start.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||02/09/2012|
Reminds me of the Cosmo story I read while getting my hair cut. Some "woman" (Cosmo writer making shit up) claims to be happily married to her gay best friend. They met while college and he fell in love with her and he's so, so hot in bed and they have great sex.
Cosmo needs much better writers.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||02/09/2013|
Face facts. Your weird sexual tastes have turned him off. It's over. Dump him and move on to someone more accepting of your lingerie fetish, darlin
|by Anonymous||reply 24||02/09/2013|
Dear Abby is no longer with us, dear.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||02/09/2013|
It's just a disgruntled DL eldergay posting on Yahoo pretending to be a female.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||02/09/2013|
What's the occasion for bumping this thread? Its exact one-year anniversary?
R26, you do realize there's a vast Internet beyond DataLounge and its eldergays.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||02/09/2013|
Yeah right sistah. Bi. No such thing sweets. He craved cock before he met you and craves it now.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||02/09/2013|
If this post is real then you are a pathetic cunt OP. Desperation in women is beyond belief.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||02/09/2013|
Gay men don't fuck women. Straight men don't fuck men. Bisexuals fuck both.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||02/09/2013|
[quote] A straight man would NEVER say, I've had a lot of women, so I'm bored with sex with females. Nevah!
Straight men all over who want out of their marriages are saying that to their spouses as we speak.
If women are stupid enough to believe them then it's on them.
The Yahoo spouse just sounds like he doesn't want his wife anymore.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||02/09/2013|
You want what you can't have. Marriage makes sure of that.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||02/09/2013|
Being with a woman who refuses to use apostrophes is enough to drive any bisexual man into the arms of guy and away from the parasitic, uneducated lummox to whom he is married.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||02/09/2013|
[R29]Please get the reading of the original post right before you start on people, otherwise you just sound like an even trashier Sharon Osbourne with a foul mouth.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||02/09/2013|
R35, Read it again and the poster still sounds like a pathetic cunt. Obviously she's not the only one.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||02/09/2013|
Looking at the issues some posters seem to display, the person being quoted in the original post has it easy in comparison.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||02/09/2013|
there was a woman on yahoo who was worried that her boyfriend watches tranny porn. she was scared that he was gay.
That question peaked my interest and so i said most girls watch lesbian porn.
She later said that she watches lesbian but is calling her man gay and saying it is alright for women to watch lesbian porn but men should not watch two men.
Bisexual females have to easy and this b*tch is a hypocrite
|by Anonymous||reply 39||02/09/2013|
[quote]there was a woman on yahoo who was worried that her boyfriend watches tranny porn. she was scared that he was gay.
Male or female 'tranny' porn?
|by Anonymous||reply 40||02/09/2013|
Why was this old thread bumped?
|by Anonymous||reply 41||02/09/2013|
[R40] wtf do you think, shemales.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||02/09/2013|