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Thom Bierdz wants a boyfriend!!

Any takers?

by Anonymousreply 19305/28/2013

He's out there but seems like a nice sad about his schizophrenic brother killing their mother,later committing suicide, coupled with a repressed Catholic upbringing.

by Anonymousreply 101/27/2012

I like you Thom, but please quit posting the videos. Ok?

by Anonymousreply 201/27/2012

That video sure as hell isn't going to help his cause.

by Anonymousreply 301/27/2012

I love what he said about dinner being ready!

Boyfriend: Babe, is dinner ready?

Thom: Hmmm, I didn't hear the microwave beep, so, I guess not.

by Anonymousreply 401/27/2012

Oh, THOM!!

by Anonymousreply 501/27/2012

Thom/OP, you've got to stop starting these threads about yourself all the time. It's really obnoxious.

by Anonymousreply 601/27/2012

he seems sweet

by Anonymousreply 701/27/2012

I'll be his boyfriend. He's hot, and I kinda like a little crazy.

by Anonymousreply 801/27/2012

Only if he opens those floodgates of cum.

by Anonymousreply 901/27/2012

Always thought he was hot - but he's getting a bit weird , in his older age. But for 50, he's a hot daddy.

by Anonymousreply 1001/27/2012

Mother was Italian , father was Polish .....must be magnificent

by Anonymousreply 1101/27/2012

Thom is one of the nicest men I ever met ~ I know he can be "off" ~ such a good soul ~ his eyes are so beautiful

by Anonymousreply 1201/27/2012

He's hot as fuck and seems really nice, I'd do him in a heartbeat.

by Anonymousreply 1301/27/2012

R1, it was a different brother who committed suicide.

by Anonymousreply 1401/27/2012

he's making fun of himself here, he's sweet seeming and I'd totally go out with him, if I lived in bumfucke Cali

by Anonymousreply 1501/27/2012

He needs me. I'd like a chance to fix his life for him.

by Anonymousreply 1601/27/2012

R14 oh. That is even sadder :( For all he's been through he's doing better than most would, I think. He looks great too.

by Anonymousreply 1701/27/2012

The tragic chest tatoo is a deal breaker.

by Anonymousreply 1801/27/2012

W - E - I - R - D - O

by Anonymousreply 1901/27/2012

I've never heard of him, who is he?

by Anonymousreply 2001/27/2012

R20 he was Phillip Chancellor on Young and The Restless.

by Anonymousreply 2101/27/2012

What's with the fake deep voice and the peculiar accent??? He never sounded like that when he was on the soap. The video is He off his meds? Or is this some sort of parody of Sinead O'Conner?

I have to agree with R19...there's something wrong there.

by Anonymousreply 2201/27/2012

I love the chair anyway.

by Anonymousreply 2301/27/2012

Thanks for this OP! Funny and sad. It reminds me of a few lonely people I know who slowly slipped into psychosis as they aged.

by Anonymousreply 2401/27/2012

I find him a sad and lonely older man who still needs the constant attention like that of a damaged soul. He just can't accept the fact that he's not 20 anymore, idolized and important. Poor dear, I pity him. I sure don't want to become an eldergay like him.

by Anonymousreply 2501/27/2012

Also, I wonder what his old cast members think when they see this pathetic behavior? Sadness, indifference, disgust? I think Jeanne Cooper keeps in touch.

by Anonymousreply 2601/27/2012

It is REALLY sad. The video is sort of heart breaking. He looks horrible, he burps (!),'s incredibly embarrassing and he seems oblivious.

by Anonymousreply 2701/27/2012

Has anyone told him there is hair color for men now? He doesn't have to use shoe polish.

by Anonymousreply 2801/27/2012

His big gig was on a soap. That was the highlight of his career. If he can't get over that, it was a blessing he never had a hit movie.

by Anonymousreply 2901/27/2012

His paintings sure have gotten a lot better.

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by Anonymousreply 3101/28/2012

He never made much of a play for me.

by Anonymousreply 3201/28/2012

He's quite batshit crazy, isn't he?

I find him attractive, but I'd be too afraid to find him hovering over me while I sleep, staring at me with those crazy eyes.

Then he'd let out a slight laugh, and whisper, "go back to sleep." At which point, I'd run screaming from his cabin in the dark woods.

by Anonymousreply 3301/28/2012

Well, of course, he's strange. He's isolated out in the woods in a cabin. It's called stir crazy.

by Anonymousreply 3401/28/2012

And I'm surprised none of the basement dwellers here haven't already chartered a plane to join him!

by Anonymousreply 3501/28/2012

He seems totally okay to me. you guys must lead very very dull lives.

by Anonymousreply 3601/28/2012

He could still do porn. Apparently he can drown a man with his load.

by Anonymousreply 3701/28/2012

Apparently his load is really creamy and thick. He shoots ropes and ropes of the stuff.

by Anonymousreply 3801/28/2012

I didn't realize he's so short. He seems like he'd be taller than 5'9".

by Anonymousreply 3901/28/2012

he seems too handsome, too talented, and too wealthy NOT to have a longterm bfriend.

is it just that he's nuts?

by Anonymousreply 4001/28/2012

I don't think he's wealthy. Before he returned to Y&R a couple of years ago he hadn't had an acting gig in twenty years. He paints and does well enough to survive, but wealthy no way.

by Anonymousreply 4101/28/2012

R36= Hannibal Lector.

by Anonymousreply 4201/28/2012

He's managed the remarkable feat of being even MORE delusional and bat shit crazy than his onscreen mama Brenda "Well Hello" Dickson.

And if you've read/seen anything post-Y&R from Brenda, especially the news updates re: her divorce, you know her ties to reality are thin and tenuous, indeed.

by Anonymousreply 4301/28/2012

I don't think he's crazy. I mean, he's got some mental health things going on in his family genes for sure, but I think he's more eccentric than anything. Plus, it's not as if he's a total mountain man. He's living in a resort area that's an hour from Los Angeles.

by Anonymousreply 4401/28/2012

Agree with R44. I'm another one who knew him pretty well "back in the day" (early to mid 90s) and found him very sweet -- and very opposite of nuts, especially considering what he went through with that brother. A good conversationalist, inquisitive, not even very "actor-y" really, and very kind. (He also had a nice boyfriend then too, not sure where he went).

He may look scary and intense but, trust me, CBS wouldn't have let him be near that set if he was really unstable. I think he's just having fun and caring less and less what folks think, also not so new -- I mean, he made a film about his mom's murder using Barbie dolls and briefly changed his name to "Zoey Drake" at one point so he's eccentric artist type for sure.

But still love you, Thommy boy. Man, he was gorgeous at his peak.

by Anonymousreply 4501/28/2012

He still is handsome.

by Anonymousreply 4601/28/2012

Proof that it doesn't matter how unstable, ill, unemployable or otherwise out there a guy is…if he's hot, you will find some bitches to fuck him!

(A theory, mind you, that's proven every Friday night at every gay bar in the world.)

by Anonymousreply 4701/28/2012

I don't think he's crazy either. Don't think the video is sad either.

by Anonymousreply 4801/28/2012

If this were 30 years ago, he wouldn't have a problem. Too bad he turned into a paunchy psycho.

by Anonymousreply 4901/28/2012

So we're here sitting in our homes posting shitty things that we pay 18 bucks to post. Reading threads like "Let's Pretend We're Grease 2", and Joni Mitchell's vagina. He is living in a beautiful woods making a funny video about wanting, egads, a boyfriend and he's the crazy one?

by Anonymousreply 5001/28/2012

I'd do him, he's got character, unlike a lot of those boring sods you find on Grindr or in bars.

by Anonymousreply 5101/28/2012

The only annoying thing about him is that he spells it THOM.

by Anonymousreply 5201/28/2012

R50...yes, cunt. That's right. He's crazy. Watch the video again. Anyone who thinks THAT'S not crazy is totally nuts themselves.

by Anonymousreply 5301/28/2012

R53 you sound more crazy and angry than anything he said in his video.

by Anonymousreply 5401/28/2012

I always like seeing Thom. His book was quite good and he seems to have a sense of humor. The "Thom Bierdz Thread Of The Week" is a bit much though. (hated the new chest tattoo as well)

by Anonymousreply 5501/28/2012

[quote]Anyone who thinks THAT'S not crazy is totally nuts themselves.

you sound nuts

by Anonymousreply 5601/28/2012

R54/'re idiots. Seriously. If you can't see from that video that he's struggling with mental illness, then you're either the most pathetic fanboys on Earth, or you're off your meds too.

BTW...just saying "you sound crazy" as a retort is REALLY lazy gay comeback. No imagination, no creativity at all. It's pathetic.

If you watch his videos it's clear that something is wrong. No question.

by Anonymousreply 5701/28/2012

He seems lonely and eccentric to me, not crazy.

But then, I'm a lot like him, except I was never famous and I'm not as good looking as he is.

But I'm a former NYer who lives in a rural area now and makes art and music.

And I would love to have a bf, but I'm not going to share my life with just anyone who comes along and of course most people don't want to live the way I do, so I'm lonely and eccentric, and people probably think I'm crazy.

by Anonymousreply 5801/28/2012

yeah, the deranged, "He's GOT MENTAL ILLNESS"-troll confuses eccentricity with insanity.

He's fully functional, he seems happy, He's obviously fine.

those who scream, "INSANITY" have never actually encountered it

by Anonymousreply 5901/28/2012

I hit "troll-dar" for r59 and, my oh my, did I learn quite a lot!

by Anonymousreply 6001/28/2012

Does Thom enjoy titty fucking man boobs?

by Anonymousreply 6101/29/2012

[quote]and briefly changed his name to "Zoey Drake"

It's not quite Barbara Seagull, but it's up there.

by Anonymousreply 6201/29/2012

I think he is still a good looking guy. He does need to cut his hair and get rid of the bread though. He seems like a manly mountain man who is a top,which many gay men would give anything for. I get the vibe that he would treat his partner like gold. I wouldn't mind to be his, and I would take orders from him within a heart beat. So he has a lot of qualities going for him ,but he is still single? There seems to be some issue with this guy if a guy like that can't find someone.As a general rule, Lake Arrow Head has been a resort area for years. Movie stars in the 30's, 40's and 50's used to go to Lake Arrow Head. However, it looks like where he lives it seems more secluded. A lot of people don't want to live in the woods where he lives. There are rattle snakes, scorpions, black widow spiders etc. so someone who really likes the out doors would fit right in with this stud. I think over all, if someone is going to date this guy, that person should really take it one step at a time and feel him out if he has some screws and bolts missing or he is just off the wall in a fun way.

by Anonymousreply 6301/30/2012

Yikes! In those videos, was he drunk, drugged, crazy--or some combination?

Vaguely remember him from that soap. He didn't act (or dance) well but was sort of a cutie. Then he looked a bit like Tom Cruise, albeit a buck-toothed TC.

I'd sooner date Lindsay Lohan now, and I'm a gay male.

by Anonymousreply 6401/30/2012

[quote] He also had a nice boyfriend then too, not sure where he went

Did you check the back yard, or under the floorboards?

by Anonymousreply 6501/30/2012

I watched the other videos of him on YouTube and they were done last year. He seems so interesting, talented, very handsome, and a capable actor. That one video that OP posted shows a man that seems like he is near a mental breakdown or something is not right. However, when you watch his other YouTube videos, he seems like he was just clowning around in OP's video link? I don't know the man personally so I don't really know what to make out of it. One brother murdered his mother and he is in jail for the rest of his life, and the other committed suicide.So does he have any famliy left that checks up on him?

by Anonymousreply 6601/30/2012


by Anonymousreply 6701/30/2012

[quote]He does need to cut his hair and get rid of the bread though.

yeah, all those carbs make him look paunchy

by Anonymousreply 6801/30/2012're kidding, right? Those other videos show a guy who has some serious issues.

by Anonymousreply 6901/30/2012

no issues for me

by Anonymousreply 7001/30/2012

R70, he might have been kidding. I communicated with him on Facebook and he seems very, very nice.

by Anonymousreply 7101/30/2012

he seems nice in the videos. Tell him I'd date him, and I can cook

by Anonymousreply 7201/30/2012

What was the story behind his brother murdering their mother?

by Anonymousreply 7301/30/2012

[quote]Does Thom enjoy titty fucking man boobs?

I would be very afraid of any pearl necklace that you would get from Thom. His loads are legendary.

by Anonymousreply 7401/30/2012

For R74

"At 21, I moved out to L.A. with the intent to be a movie star," Bierdz says proudly, "and at 24, I was on the number 1 soap opera." Bierdz's nightmare began three years later, in 1989. He had just quit his three-year gig on The Young and the Restless in order to pursue his big-screen ambitions. He was in the backyard of the Hollywood house he shared with his then-lover when the phone rang. It was his sister calling from Kenosha.

More than 15 years later, Bierdz is silent for a long moment before he recounts the news he got that day: "My youngest brother, Troy, had beaten my mother to death with a baseball bat, and he was on the loose and probably coming for me."

His mother had spent years trying to get help for her youngest son. "From the time he was 15 to 19, Troy was acting up," says Bierdz. "My mother took him to 40 different therapists. Two said he was schizophrenic. Thirty-eight said, 'He's just an antisocial teenager.' She didn't know what to believe. Troy had animal-killing diaries. He'd made threats. He would kill insects and make devil signs with the sugar." When Phyllis Bierdz world manage to get her son into an institution, he'd commit some act of violence that got him sent to jail. Once there, he'd slit his wrists in order to get sent back to the mental ward. Nobody could--or would--step up to deal with Troy's situation. "Nobody would take him; he was too much trouble," Bierdz recalls.

He tried to intercede. "I took Troy out here [in Los Angeles] the year before he killed her, when I was on the soap opera," Bierdz says. "But I kicked him out 'cause he was not following my rules," such as keeping the job Thom snagged for him. Instead, Troy lit out for Kenosha, and his mother let him move in with her again.

Troy Bierdz was arrested in Laredo, Texas, a week after he murdered his mother. The family surmised that Troy was headed to kill his father, Tom, who had divorced Phyllis in 1974. "He hated Dad second and me third," Thom says. "He hated the fact that I was gay. But [also I] pushed him to do better--like my mother, I was making demands of him to get out of his head and do something with this life that would require work. I think he was so lazy, in essence, that he wanted to get rid of whatever would make him work."

by Anonymousreply 7501/30/2012

"like my mother, I was making demands of him to get out of his head and do something with this life that would require work. I think he was so lazy, in essence, that he wanted to get rid of whatever would make him work."

Oh yes...that's exactly what a seriously schizophrenic person needs. To be told that he's lazy and to pull himself up by his bootstraps. No wonder he turned into a sociopath. He clearly had no one to help him, just attacks on someone who was mentally sick.

by Anonymousreply 7601/30/2012

Thanks, r75.

by Anonymousreply 7701/30/2012

Forget THOM... Yikes

by Anonymousreply 7801/30/2012

he kind of seems like the type of guy whose boyfriend they find in a trunk of a car somewhere

by Anonymousreply 7901/30/2012

Thom's a very nice guy; I don't think there's a mean bone in his body.

But I really don't think he 'quit' Y&R.

His acting wasn't what they needed.

Killing him off was a tragic repeat of what happened to his father (Phillip II) and it created conflict for Nina and Jill and Kay.

Bringing him back from the dead had so many holes in it.

Sure, maybe it makes sense that he'd want to get away from Kay and Jill and Nina to go live the gay life down under, but Phillip walking out on his son made absolutely no sense.

by Anonymousreply 8001/30/2012

A shitload of people who have known him attesting to his sanity and kindness (including me) and some of you still want to think he's nuts?

Again, he would have every right to be after all he went through but... no. He's a good guy and would weigh high on the "Sane" spectrum, especially on this board.

by Anonymousreply 8101/30/2012

Thanks, R81. I do think people on here are harshly judging him. I'd love to hang out at his cabin with him... maybe give the fireplace ting a whirl...

by Anonymousreply 8201/30/2012

Thom, call me 212-387-4689

by Anonymousreply 8301/30/2012

will do

by Anonymousreply 8401/30/2012

R81, I said he was kind; I didn't say he was sane.

by Anonymousreply 8501/30/2012

[quote]he kind of seems like the type of guy whose boyfriend they find in a trunk of a car somewhere

You're not up for adventure I take it?

by Anonymousreply 8601/30/2012

This is R71, I forgot to say when I communicated with him on Facebook I brought up his video on YouTube about his issues facing his mid life crises. I told him look, I just turned 41 two months ago, and I don't mind maturing at all. I still have a lot of living to do,and I truly feel great. Also,I told him I don't shovel BS nor give cotton candy answers. I'm really honest and I'm not a phony. I pointed out to him that Kate Hepburn went on a skate broad down a steep hill in her 80's. My message to him was a lot longer and said other things. He sent me an email and he thanked me.He said I really made him feel a lot better,and my message helped him. So, made he was going through depression as far as aging and his career. In Hollywood, age and how you look is everything, and actors and especially actresses go through a lot of pressure. I told him that I truly think he is very handsome and a stud as far as I'm concerned. He said you are very sweet thank you.

by Anonymousreply 8701/31/2012

that's really nice, a DL'er with a heart for once.

by Anonymousreply 8801/31/2012

That skate broad was one of the best lays I'd ever had! To this day, every time I pass that steep hill, I get wet.

by Anonymousreply 8901/31/2012

R80, Yes the whole Cane passing as Phillip thing was soooo lame. Anyway I wish they could have developed the story with his son Chance more...but Chance was annoying as fuk, so they should have developed a love interest for Phillip. Rafe the lawyer has never had a love interest other than his one encounter with Adumb, who was just using him. He will probably never even get a storyline, he's been MIA for months.

by Anonymousreply 9001/31/2012

R90, Yani Gellman is on Pretty Little Liars, so he's still working.

And should be thankful to be gone from the POS show, that is, Y&R.

by Anonymousreply 9101/31/2012

Oh I didn't know that, good for him. Thanks R91.

by Anonymousreply 9201/31/2012

He is one Facebook. Hey! send him a message he is very gregarious! He has over 500 people so he had to make a second website which is Thom Bierdz 2.I did and like I said, he is a pure gentlemen and a sweet heart. I wouldn't mind to be his one and only.

I get the vibe that he seems to be 100% top? Does anyone no if he is a top or bottom?

by Anonymousreply 9301/31/2012

R81...oh yes. Your anonymous message board posts about "knowing" him are just the kind of data that assures me you're telling the complete truth. Do you also "know" him from sending him a Facebook message?

Lots of horny eldergays flying to his defense, undoubtedly because he looks like a twink by comparison. Sorry, but he still comes across as pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 9402/01/2012

so do you

by Anonymousreply 9502/01/2012

I eat old people's excrement.

by Anonymousreply 9602/01/2012

WOW - This weeks Soap Opera Digest (dated March 6 2012) has a two page article on Thom…specifically on his search for a boyfriend.


The caption under one photo: "I am not desperate or needy."

Among his pearls of wisdom:

"I would love to spend time with a ruggedly handsome man."

"Facebook is my only social life. All day, I am on Facebook."

OK, these aren't crazy things. I just think it's highly odd that the magazine would essentially run a personal ad for him. A little cray cray.

by Anonymousreply 9702/25/2012

On dirait le Unibomber.

by Anonymousreply 9802/25/2012

R97, what do you expect? There are only four shows left.

Interesting though to see how far we've come -- 20 years ago there's no way a soap star would come out in a magazine or say he's looking for a b.f.

I think Thom has a good heart, but saying he's not 'desperate' or 'needy' is like saying I'm not the Church Lady.

by Anonymousreply 9902/25/2012

I'm really surprised this thread hasn't been deleted. Someone posted their phone #.

Of course if it's a fake #, I guess it doesn't matter.

I think I'm developing a crush of Thom. I want to cuddle with him and take care of him.

by Anonymousreply 10002/25/2012

New video...

Wow. (And not in a good way)

by Anonymousreply 10103/09/2012

I wouldn't want to be his boyfriend but I would seriously love to fuck him.

by Anonymousreply 10203/09/2012

I love him. I'd totally shack up with him in his cabin.

by Anonymousreply 10303/09/2012

R94...I know you do, hon. I know you do.

by Anonymousreply 10403/09/2012

I'd love to make love to him, all night long, any way and every day.

by Anonymousreply 10503/09/2012

I know him too and he is a very nice guy. He's eccentric, yes, but he's a sweetheart. What he's doing with his art and his videos is kind of performance arty. For a former soap star he's a bit out of the mainstream; for a performance artist who makes outsider art, he's as normal as can be.

by Anonymousreply 10603/09/2012

Is he a top or a bottom? I get the vibe he is a top. He likes Ruggedly handsome guys? Well? that leaves out a lot of people.

by Anonymousreply 10703/10/2012

He has beautiful eyes. I think in a lot of his videos he is just having fun ,and he is just goofing around. I don't take his videos like he is trying to be serious. I think people need to lighten up!

by Anonymousreply 10803/10/2012

He's my type of crazy. I moved to a small house on the water, have my little studio. Works for me.

by Anonymousreply 10903/11/2012

[quote]a performance artist who makes outsider art, he's as normal as can be.

One of my all-time favorite DL sentences. It's like you've just said he's normal for psychotics.

by Anonymousreply 11003/11/2012

A LOT of mentally ill people on this thread. If you think that's "normal", you're off you're meds. Ditto to people saying he's doing performance art, and that's he's a "sweet" guy. I'm always amazed at how many mentally ill people there are here. Though it could just be one guy dumping his cookies a lot.

by Anonymousreply 11103/11/2012

The tattoo on his collarbone is a deal breaker. I don't care how big his schlong is.

by Anonymousreply 11203/11/2012

R110= exactly correct.

by Anonymousreply 11303/11/2012

The tattoo is hideous and bizarre. The video of him singing "Amazing Grace" in the tub...he's WAY off his medication!

by Anonymousreply 11403/11/2012

This is going to sound like a stupid question, but is this Thom on Silverdaddies? The name is different, the age is younger, and the state where this person lives in is a different state. But the photograph looks like a spitting image of him. Could he have changed the information because he doesn't want people to know its him? Well, just check out the link and see for yourselves.

by Anonymousreply 11505/06/2012

What R112 said.

by Anonymousreply 11605/06/2012

That is not Thom, R115 ... nor is it a "spitting image" of him.

by Anonymousreply 11705/06/2012

Looks Like his brother

by Anonymousreply 11805/06/2012

He's an accomplished - author? painter? too, I think I read somewhere. or maybe just the book about his brother. He was pretty good on Y&R; years later they bring him back from the dead, make him gay; then after a while, he's off the show - maybe recurring?

I didn't realize till someone wrote upthread that, in addition to his one brother killing their mother (that is literally the most horrible thing I can imagine), another brother killed himself? I wonder how Thom Bierdz keeps going. I admire him immensely. Yes, the video is a bit unfortunate, but to be able to go through life at all with such tragedies...

Actors are loath to admit how much they (a) need attention, (b) aren't 20 anymore. Maybe he could meet a nice, slightly starstruck businessman...

by Anonymousreply 11905/06/2012

I agree R117 the image at R115 doesn't look ANYTHING like Thom.

However, we all now know what kd lang would look like with a penis.

R119 you're right about the family tragedies re: Thom. It sounds like he's had it rough. And he's human. I wish him the best.

I just think it's alternately sad and funny that he's as "human" as he is in a very public way. It does come off a bit desperate and starfuckery - and more than anything, deeply needy.

That whole finding-a-boyfriend-by-public-appeal didn't work for Sinead and it will end in tears before bedtime for Thom.

by Anonymousreply 12005/06/2012

Thom... if you like a boyfriend with dempth, here he is :)

by Anonymousreply 12105/28/2012

Thom seems kind of desperate. Will Y and R use him anymore after these recent videos?

by Anonymousreply 12207/06/2012

R50 made me LOL. Hard.

by Anonymousreply 12307/06/2012

Seems like a nice if not slightly eccentric guy. Big dick too. Why can't he find a man?

by Anonymousreply 12407/06/2012

That bush seems out of control.

by Anonymousreply 12507/06/2012


by Anonymousreply 12607/06/2012

WOW! R122! Now he is going too far! To do that freely for everyone to see? UHM? Something is wrong with him.

I read his book that is a bit autobiography ,but mainly about his brother murdering his mother. It is interesting and bit strange too.One of the disturbing things to me that he stats in the book is that he mentions his exboyfriend had a pet,a small monkey at the time who loved and clung to just to his exboygfirned.Whenever Thom tried to pet the monkey or go near the monkey, the monkey got angry at him. Thom said in his book that one day he got into a low period that he had enough of the monkey's dislike and lack of love for him. So, he put his hand on the monkey's face and put the monkey under water . However, he didn't go so far as killing the monkey. Also, he felt extremely bad after he attacked the monkey ,but he felt hurt because the monkey didn't love him like the monkey loved his exboyfirend. Apparently the exboyfirend left him after that.

BTW, Thom always seemed like a big top to me ,but after reading his book, and reading about his previous boyfriends, he seems like a 100% bottom. I think that is one of the reasons why Thom may have an issue finding a boyfriend because he comes off like this bear, outdoors men top and probably he gets the most attention from bottoms than tops?

by Anonymousreply 12707/06/2012

I used to think Thom Bierdz was so hot when he first played Phillip in YATR. Now, the tats and beard, just too trashy for my taste.

by Anonymousreply 12807/06/2012

Who wants a boyfriend anyway? They are messy, and you have to clean up after them.


by Anonymousreply 12907/06/2012

I feel the same way, R128.

Posting this video to YouTube shows a real lack of judgement on his part. Too much mountain air I guess.

by Anonymousreply 13007/06/2012

What's with that saggy underwear at R122's link? It looks like he wore them all day, slept in them, then got up and made the video.

by Anonymousreply 13107/07/2012

Pube bump!

by Anonymousreply 13207/07/2012

i'm frightened.

by Anonymousreply 13307/08/2012

It's a cry for help!

by Anonymousreply 13407/08/2012

Brenda Dickson needs to make an intervention for her son.

by Anonymousreply 13507/08/2012

Very sad. He knows deep down that his time has come and gone. He is a lonesome middle age man, living in isolation in Arrowhead someplace and will never achieve the WEHO celebrity star statue.

by Anonymousreply 13607/08/2012

The video @ R133 is just silly. He's having a bit of fun with a play on words. Have always liked Thom and I'd take his morning wood (at any time of the day, actually). But I don't want to live in a cabin in the woods. A little bit of crazy is okay. He seems to own it.

by Anonymousreply 13707/09/2012

R136,I was similarly thinking what you have stated.I think the video link at R122, is a man who is going to extremes because he is very lonely and wants a lover and a friend to share his life with very, very much. I still think he is hot in a bear way. If he was with me, I would make him save the beard off,and make sure he is cleaned up.

by Anonymousreply 13807/09/2012

BTW, I have communicated with him on Facebook and he seems like such a sweet heart and pretty normal. If you are on Facebook, say hello to the guy because he is really friendly. He is on there a lot.

Like I said before,I think one of the issues he has is that I think he is a bottom, and they guy screams top to me and I'm sure to many others. He seems so manly!

by Anonymousreply 13907/09/2012

I think the video in R133 is cute. I don't think its scary. I just think the guy is just clowning around. I notice he does a lot of clowning around in most of his videos.Now, the video at R122, he is gone too far in that one. Like I have said before, it seems like he really wants someone to share his life with.

by Anonymousreply 14007/09/2012

Posted on his Twitter...

by Anonymousreply 14107/11/2012

That's kind of funny R141. I like him.

by Anonymousreply 14207/11/2012

He should hook up with Gus Maddox.

They could make wonderful cabins together from repurposed wood and then rent them out to fat gay nudists who don't mind bugs.

by Anonymousreply 14307/11/2012

He's crazy as a loon!

That song (@R133) is pretty catchy (in a naive, outsider-artist way) but what's with the pretend guitar playing? He can't make chords, he just scrapes across a couple of the strings in an open-tuning. It would get old fairly quickly ("Here's another one I wrote...").

There's gotta be some schizophrenia there. No big deal once you got used to it.

I'll be singing that song all day now, dammit!


My morning wood...

by Anonymousreply 14407/11/2012

OMG, six months and 143 posts and no one has commented on his horrible art work? I've seen better fan art created by teenage twitards. Seriously, that's exactly what it looks like to me......creepy photoshop manips made by a slow witted, slash loving fangurl.

His artwork would be right at home on this site:

by Anonymousreply 14507/12/2012

I wrote him a message on FB telling him how I admired that he was his own man. He wrote back that he appreciated my attention.

He's sex on a stick to me, I'd become a slathering fanboi if it were not for the fact that he lives in the sticks (and indeed, his art sucks ass, and not in a good way)

by Anonymousreply 14607/12/2012

I agree, his art is rather creepy to me.

by Anonymousreply 14707/13/2012

it's nightmare-inducing. But I love his little morning wood song. I don't get why he doesn't learn a few chords on this guitar though.

by Anonymousreply 14807/13/2012

I want a boyfriend, but just because I'm missing a front tooth no one wants. I can't wait for Universal Health Care so I can get a new chopper.

by Anonymousreply 14907/13/2012

Why don't you just knock them all out to give better bj's, R149.

by Anonymousreply 15007/13/2012

It is so pathetic how he keeps bumping this thread.

by Anonymousreply 15107/13/2012

He's really lonely, we sympathize

by Anonymousreply 15207/13/2012

I don't know if I'd want to be the boyfriend of someone who shares all his romantic business on his facebook page and YouTube videos on a daily basis. He's too much of an open book.

by Anonymousreply 15310/06/2012

He'a got a boyfriend now

by Anonymousreply 15410/06/2012

I was thinking about purchasing one of his paintings. I'm not an art expert, but was wondering what you guys thought of his artwork. He seems to have a lot of clients and I'm wondering if this means the art is good.

by Anonymousreply 15510/06/2012

Naked again...

by Anonymousreply 15612/16/2012

Bush in the bush bump

by Anonymousreply 15712/16/2012

Silent Night...

He should take the hint.

by Anonymousreply 15812/24/2012

I'd take him, while lying on my back. . .

by Anonymousreply 15912/24/2012

Thom in bed with another man...

Actually, this is Thom Bierdz and Jeffrey Patrick Olson in 'Old Dogs & New Tricks'

by Anonymousreply 16012/24/2012

Is he a top or a bottom guy?

I think he can be both, but i just wondered what he is in bed most of the time...

What do you think?

by Anonymousreply 16112/24/2012


by Anonymousreply 16212/24/2012

He looks great for 50. AND he's hung. I'd do him in a heartbeat.

by Anonymousreply 16312/24/2012

Me too, he just can't sing

by Anonymousreply 16412/25/2012

I spoke to a guy who used to date him. He told me that he would hold Thom's balls in his hand while blowing him and apply pressure to his perineum, and that this made him shoot enormous amounts of cum. He told me Thom was one of the most sexual guys he'd ever been with. It really surprises me to hear that he is still looking for a boyfriend.

by Anonymousreply 16512/30/2012

According to his fb page, he's in a relationship :-(

by Anonymousreply 16612/30/2012

I wonder if Christian Jules tried to get with him, or he is he still fucking the guy who plays his brother?

by Anonymousreply 16712/30/2012

I think he is the gay man's dream.

Actually i'm a woman and i remember when my grandparents were watching 'The Young and The Restless' and he happened to appear i was thinking 'How a man can be so beautiful and attractive?' I couldn't get my eyes off of him. He was so young and gorgeous!

As i found out later by seeing his photos he grew up so goddamn well. He is still so charming and attractive.

by Anonymousreply 16812/31/2012

How is Thom, anyway? More about his big cock and huge loads, please....

by Anonymousreply 16901/12/2013

R167. I don't think they are still together.

by Anonymousreply 17001/12/2013

Goofy and sexy. I'd totally hit it.

by Anonymousreply 17101/12/2013

I remember somebody posting that his cock was amazingly thick, and that he literally covered a dinner plate with his load.

Someone posted that when he came, it was like a geyser shooting everywhere.


by Anonymousreply 17201/12/2013

all the stories we've heard about Thom is all oral(and someone doing oral ON HIM). Does he do anything else? Or is he one of those it's all about pleasing me gays? If so, I would be sad. Is he a top, bottom, vers??? INquiring minds need to know!!

by Anonymousreply 17301/12/2013

I agree he just seems silly and goofy. But who knows for sure. If he were like that 24/7, I'm pretty sure I'd run for the hills (no matter how big his dick and his loads might be ....)

by Anonymousreply 17401/12/2013

I worry he might be going stir crazy in his cabin in the woods.

by Anonymousreply 17501/25/2013

That video at R175 is seriously fucked up. How does a person actually become that weird?

by Anonymousreply 17601/25/2013

That video ought to be good for business!

by Anonymousreply 17701/25/2013

I want to swim in his milky loads.

by Anonymousreply 17801/25/2013


by Anonymousreply 17901/26/2013

Not only gays but also women find him extremely likeable and charming.

by Anonymousreply 18001/29/2013

Watching his videos makes me cringe. He tries hard to be funny and outrageous and it doesn't come off naturally.

by Anonymousreply 18101/31/2013

Agreed, R181

by Anonymousreply 18201/31/2013

Thom seems like a nice enough guy, but his artwork is truly awful.

by Anonymousreply 18302/10/2013

Do you think his close friend Jeanne Cooper has ever been up to his cabin in the woods? Does he have friends? How does he pay the rent?

by Anonymousreply 18402/10/2013

I want his milky loads inside me quite deeply.

by Anonymousreply 18502/10/2013

r168, there's nothing worse than overgeneralizing for a gay man.

I am not remotely attracted to him. He's not my type.

by Anonymousreply 18602/10/2013

The irony of the Thom Bierdz and Tom Cruise names.

by Anonymousreply 18702/10/2013

he's probably reading this; Thom's a good guy who was dealt some tough breaks.

I hope he finds love and happiness.

I hope we all do.

by Anonymousreply 18802/10/2013

I agree. If Thom is reading this, he should probably reconsider youtube posting while drunk. I also know he's a really nice guy who actually works really hard at what he does. He has had an amazingly difficult life and I also hope he finds the man of his dreams. But please Thom, take a sober look at some of the videos before you post them.

by Anonymousreply 18902/10/2013

Maybe Thom is harboring the rogue LA cop killer Christopher Dorner up in his semi-remote cabin.

At least having someone to talk to would help with the cabin fever.

by Anonymousreply 19002/10/2013

Now I feel bad. I made a snarky comment in the spirit of DL. If he's reading this, nasty comments about him are not cool since he's a good guy.

Sorry bro. Just remember it is DL and don't take it personally. Nothing said here should have any meaning in your life other than to laugh at!

by Anonymousreply 19102/10/2013

i would love to b his husband!

by Anonymousreply 19205/28/2013

He has a big, beefy sexy BF now. Former Marine, I think. Thom posts about him all the time.

by Anonymousreply 19305/28/2013
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