Serving up this steaming pile of
Celebrity Gossip
Gay Politics
Gay News
and Pointless Bitchery
Since 1995

No One Hot is Gay

Deal With it Bitches!

by Anonymousreply 29212/16/2013

Fat and friendless, table for one?

by Anonymousreply 112/28/2011

Guess I've been deluded all these decades. Poor poor OP.

by Anonymousreply 212/28/2011

Sad but true.

by Anonymousreply 312/28/2011


by Anonymousreply 412/28/2011

Even all our hot gay porn stars turn out to be straight. What chance do we stand in Hollywood?

by Anonymousreply 512/28/2011

not really but i believe that all the hot guys are actually bisexual. the real "hot gays" that i've encountered seem to be much less attractive and if i have to pick two random good looking guys, one bi and one gay, it's almost certain that the bisexual guy always looks better than the gay guy.

by Anonymousreply 612/28/2011

Gay men can be hot, but they do tend to ruin it bu being so girlie and excessive feminine grooming.

by Anonymousreply 712/28/2011

I don't know, OP. This gay guy and his big fat cock is packing some serious heat.

by Anonymousreply 812/28/2011

Malachi Marx is straight, married and with kids, R8

by Anonymousreply 912/28/2011

Well, the guys who seem to be attracted to ME certainly aren't hot, but I know the elusive hot gay actually is out there. Guys like Reichen are dolts, but I'd concede that he's hot. And then there's Ricky, Matt Bomer (yes, he's gay, so idiot fangurls go away), Luke Macfarlane, Cheyenne Jackson (not my type, but still hot), Zachary Quinto (yes, I think he's hot... well, certainly cute), Thom Bierdz (totally my type), Christopher Sieber (another totally my type)... Not a definitive list, and I know some of my picks wouldn't be others' picks as well, but it's idiotic to say there are no hot gays.

by Anonymousreply 1012/28/2011

Nope he is straight r8, married with two kids and having gay sex on camera was so revolting to him, he said he went home and puked. I think he was actually worse and more offensive than Cody Cummings, eventually he had to quit.

by Anonymousreply 1112/28/2011

R9, please post a link for the "married with kids" claim. The "straight" claim is standard fare for porn sites like RB.

by Anonymousreply 1212/28/2011

Gays spend too much time grooming themselves.

They try way too hard and seem desperate.

Straight guys don't give a shit. THAT'S HOT!

by Anonymousreply 1312/28/2011

R10, none of those people you mentioned are gay. They all appreciate their gay fans, and aren't bothered about being attractive to gay men, but they are all straight.

by Anonymousreply 1412/28/2011

Matt Bomer and Justin Clynes are, bu so few gay men in the public eye who are for the sake of a better word, "heartthrobs" are constantly on a heterosexual PR blitz it is impossible to know for sure who is really gay.

by Anonymousreply 1512/28/2011

R13 straight guys are hot until you rim their stinky assholes

by Anonymousreply 1612/28/2011

Wow r8 , r9 & r11 are too quick for you!


by Anonymousreply 1712/28/2011

that ricky guy from puerto rico is damn hot.

by Anonymousreply 1812/28/2011

It is so sad but true, although I would amend it to say "no one openly gay is hot." All the hot same-sex oriented dudes are closeted gay or bisexual. Either way, they are on the DL or bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 1912/28/2011

I thought Ricky was from Cuba.

by Anonymousreply 2012/28/2011

Almost all openly gay dudes had no choice but to be open because they are effeminate. All the mainstream masculine bisexual and gay dudes have the option of being closeted, and 98% of time they take the option.

by Anonymousreply 2112/28/2011

Flamers are NOT HOT.


by Anonymousreply 2212/28/2011

I eat old straight men's excrement.

by Anonymousreply 2312/28/2011

Colton Haynes and Matt Bomer.

by Anonymousreply 2412/28/2011

Well Matt Bomer is not officially openly gay. But yeah I guess he is gay, but he is a very rare exception.

by Anonymousreply 2512/28/2011

Colton Haynes is hot, ostensibly masculine. Hopefully, he will start a trend.

by Anonymousreply 2612/28/2011

I'm going to admit to something that really embarrasses me. This guy moved in next door to me. He is gorgeous. Great face and body. Funny and charming. He is the total package and I lusted after him for months. I wanted him in me so deeply that my hole would quiver when I got near him. Then I discovered that he was gay and all of the lust just left. I no longer wanted him or really cared all that much about him. I stopped going out of way to see him or chatting him up.

Now I love being gay. I'm out, proud and all of that jazz, but the fact that I wanted him when he was straight and didn't want him when I learned that he was part of the tribe really, really bothered me, but I couldn't help it.

by Anonymousreply 2712/28/2011

Hate to have to say this but OP seems to be spot on. Maybe the hot ones are the closet cases. Pity.

by Anonymousreply 2812/28/2011

This has to be one of the most stupid, homophobic and altogether idiot posts and threads of 2011.

by Anonymousreply 2912/28/2011

Malachi Marx wrote a book about being a gay for pay escort, was it ever published? Here is an interview were he talks about how straight he is and how much he hates gay sex.


by Anonymousreply 3012/28/2011

What a bunch of sad, lonely people in this thread.

by Anonymousreply 3112/28/2011

To be known as a traveler on the "Hershey Highway" is the greatest disgrace that can befall a man, despite all the PC bullshit.

Sisters by the millions marry fish by the millions in order to hide their 'story'.

by Anonymousreply 3212/28/2011

The self-loathing and pathetic straight male worship never gets old, does it?

by Anonymousreply 3312/28/2011

I guess this is all why my close friends are hot buff straight dudes and some closeted bisexual dudes. At least, I get to be around hot dudes all the time, even platonically.

by Anonymousreply 3412/28/2011

r30, he hated gay sex so much he did dozens and dozens of times on camera. Retired and then came back for more. He doesn't sound self-loathing at all.

by Anonymousreply 3512/28/2011

Brodie Sinclair is bi

by Anonymousreply 3612/28/2011

R35 he just needed money, what's so difficult to grasp?

by Anonymousreply 3712/28/2011

I hate to break it to you, R30, but this hot gay guy, Malachi Marx, is also smart and knows how to make his porn career last in this era of "straight"-idolizing gay men. In fact, he just made yet another comeback earlier this month. Not only can gay guys be hot, then can be downright cunning as well.

by Anonymousreply 3812/28/2011

R34- and that makes you a deeply homophobic gay man. You don't even appear to know it or you are a troll. R31 and R33 are on target.

by Anonymousreply 3912/28/2011

We need more openly gay and bi dudes like Michael Fitt

by Anonymousreply 4012/28/2011

Malachi also escorted for so he must have puked a lot in his lifetime.

by Anonymousreply 4112/28/2011

please be bisexual at least

by Anonymousreply 4212/28/2011

He is not straight [R8,11]! I'm watching his video right now and he's looking right at me! I know he wants me!!

by Anonymousreply 4312/28/2011

Justin Clynes is gorgeous, but is he gay? I've googled him and he really there is very little info. The gay claim comes from a guy that thought he saw a younger skinny version of him in a gay bar years ago.

I guess it is just gay men make up such a tiny % of the the pop, 1-3%, so the % of those men that are going to be hot through out the entire population of America is going to be minuscule.

by Anonymousreply 4412/28/2011

There are hot guys who like to have sex with guys everywhere. But people like r33 resent the hell out of them. Of course people like r33 seem to make up about 90% of DL.

by Anonymousreply 4512/28/2011

Please be gay or bi!

by Anonymousreply 4612/28/2011

Being bisexual is not being gay. Bi guys seem to leaning towards sex with women and ltr with women. All bi guys end up straight, yeah lots of hot guys are bi, but it's irrelevant since bisexual men are a bunch of muff munching twaty weirdos that end up living conventional hetero lives and maybe succumb to the odd shameful gay shag in a dingy 5$ an hour motel .

by Anonymousreply 4712/28/2011

My type, whatever his identified orientation.

by Anonymousreply 4812/28/2011

r37, the fact that real straight men don't fuck other men multiple times, even for money. Like someone said he's just playing dumb self-loathing queens like yourself.

by Anonymousreply 4912/28/2011

r46, someone stuck an air pump up his ass and forgot to turn it off. His sexual orientation no longer matters.

by Anonymousreply 5012/28/2011

I (and millions of others) suspect T.O. is bi.

by Anonymousreply 5112/28/2011

how about heteroflexible dudes?

by Anonymousreply 5212/28/2011

[quote]Colton Haynes and Matt Bomer.

Came in to say the same thing. In terms of gay actors I think Colton Haynes and Matt Bomer are both unquestionably gorgeous.

The majority of men of straight...ergo the majority of hot men are straight. This shouldn't be news to anyone.

by Anonymousreply 5312/28/2011

So, how does ubermuscle bottom Marc Dylan identify? Bi?

by Anonymousreply 5412/28/2011

Yes, because straight guys like Jim Belushi and Tim Allen are sooooo hot.

by Anonymousreply 5512/28/2011

After having sex with a hot straight guy, what could you possibly talk about? Football? Please. I will continue to hang with gays.

by Anonymousreply 5612/28/2011

Taylor Lautner is hot and gay. Gavel down.

by Anonymousreply 5712/28/2011

What is OP on? Rock Hudson and Montgomery Clift were the hottest gay men on the planet in their prime!

And as for present day gays,the home improvement guys,John Gidding and Eduardo Xol are just two openly gay men who look like men!

There has to be more. Who's is the guy who owns a basketball team who's openly gay?

Pic of John Gidding:

by Anonymousreply 5812/28/2011

r56, of course. I am a huge football fanatic. Watch ESPN all night after work. You act like only straight dudes love sports. Not so in the United States.

by Anonymousreply 5912/28/2011

I agree that this thread is sad and it's mind-boggling that anyone would buy into OP's premise. Just a ridiculous assertion.

by Anonymousreply 6012/28/2011

R59 is a boring lout who wastes 1/3rd of the year getting fat in front of a TV, watching out-of-shape men push each other around a field. Get a real life with unique interests.

by Anonymousreply 6112/28/2011

So true, Mary OP!

Sissies hate other sissies(unless the less hot sissy gets her fudge packed by the more hot one, then it is ok!) the same way that fish hate other fish...because they are all basically women!

by Anonymousreply 6212/28/2011

John Gidding is cute. I could definitely wake up to that smile everyday.

by Anonymousreply 6312/28/2011

r61, you must have a problem with 85 percent plus of American men and huge percentage of women too. No wonder you developed such a subculture outsider mindset.

by Anonymousreply 6412/28/2011

R6 and R7 nailed it, I also find bisexual men to be hot, some gay men are hot to me but they are not the twink or pretty boy types that you see in 99% of gay porn like in Sean Cody or Corbin.

by Anonymousreply 6512/28/2011

R64 - You say "Subculture Outsider Mindset" like it is something to be ashamed of.

Only a banal bear like yourself would think that watching football at a beer bust and eating hotdogs from a crock-pot is worth defending.

I have not subjected myself to a football game for over 30 years. While you are getting fat in front of the tv, I am enjoying things like skiing or shopping.

In fact I did all of my holiday shopping during a Bronco game and hit all the sales with no crowds or hassle.

You my friend are wasting your life.

by Anonymousreply 6612/28/2011

This is where you meet straight-identified and heteroflexible guys.

by Anonymousreply 6712/28/2011

R67 they're not "straight" at all except in their own minds, heteroflexible is just another term for being bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 6812/28/2011

actually, r36, I work out four times a week, including shooting hoops and sometimes playing football. I have a 30 inch waist, 5 percent bodyfat, ripped abs, so I am not in danger of getting fat. Ya see, I not only like watching sports, but I play them too. Sports are great for fitness and making friends. Try it.

by Anonymousreply 6912/28/2011

I'm not sure what r45's point is. Sure, there are hot guys who like to have sex with guys everywhere, but if they like to have sex with guys, then they're not straight.

by Anonymousreply 7012/28/2011

R69 - Banal, unable to think for himself and assumes that others cannot have friends if they do not join team sports. Baaa Baaa. You are a sheep and should have your gay license revoked.

by Anonymousreply 7112/28/2011

r71, your notions of what it means to be gay or bisexual are archaic, myopic, and plain erroneous. You are spouting off outdated stereotypes that link sexual orientation to pasttimes interests, which makes you sound profoundly ignorant and outdated.

by Anonymousreply 7212/28/2011

r71 is rabidly jealous of r69, who sounds very hot and traditionally masculine.

by Anonymousreply 7312/28/2011

R73 and R71, who cares if I am masculine or feminine, I just don't want to be banal and if it is outdated to think that being gay means thinking for one's self, then I will be outdated and not wasting my time watching televised sports.

by Anonymousreply 7412/28/2011

r70, of course they're not straight in the literal sense of heterosexual, but surely you're not too dense to recognize that "straight" has become nothing more than a code word for "not a prissy urban clique type who speaks with a phony accent and uses annoying mannerisms."

by Anonymousreply 7512/28/2011

Actually, R69 is doing what it takes to be accepted in the gay world, or at least the part of the gay world that most of want to be part of (as much as we deny it).

by Anonymousreply 7612/28/2011

r74 is clearly ordering his life based on longstanding resentments. Not much different from the kid whose mother made him eat spinach at age 9, and as a 40 year old says he hates it and refuses to give it a chance.

by Anonymousreply 7712/28/2011

R76, exactly he is a sheep, not thinking for himself just trying to fit in with the team. He would waste away and die if he had to actually do something on his own, like a triathlon.

No, R76 will continue being a banal bear.

by Anonymousreply 7812/28/2011

Wow, this thread is just filled with self loathing, sad people. Just wow. Plenty of gay men are hot. You think Cheyenne Jackson is not hot? You think Ricky Martin is not considered hot by plenty of people? Christopher Sieber WHEN he was thin was hot. Neil Patrick Harris is a cutie.

Rock Hudson was a dreamboat. Montgomery Clift was a dreamboat. Richard Chamberlain was a dreamboat.

The OP's very premise is grounded in self loathing. If you find someone sexy UNTIL you discover they are gay, you need psychological counseling. Or help in dealing with the self loathing. Seriously. Very seriously.

by Anonymousreply 7912/28/2011

R79, I love myself and, if I were single, would never date a straight acting man. Gay all the way for me, and no wasting time watching televised sports.

by Anonymousreply 8012/28/2011

Between the gay men complaining that no hot men are gay and the straight women complaining that no hot men are straight, one could completely lose one's mind.

by Anonymousreply 8112/28/2011

r80, you are obsessed with being antisports.

by Anonymousreply 8212/28/2011

R82, No you are obsessed with me and want to possess me, but you cannot.

by Anonymousreply 8312/28/2011

Peter Berlin turns 69 today. He was the founding face of gay lib and shockingly beautiful.

by Anonymousreply 8412/28/2011

Society at large has a pretty big boner for gender conformity. Straight men certainly seem to place a very high premium on conventionally feminine women. It's probably no surprise then that most gay men tend to be hot for conventionally masculine men, and I'm sure all the messages we receive about how gay men are inherently unmanly and disgusting only encourages the fetishization of all things bro.

I think every group (straight guys, straight girls, gay guys, gay girls) tends to harbor a certain amount of groupthinky animosity towards its pool of potential mates. I think most of that comes from a frustrated sense of entitlement and an inability to see beyond some of our bullshit cultural tropes: madonna/whore, prince charming, corbin fisher/caftan and earrings, and the U-Haul dating narrative.

by Anonymousreply 8512/28/2011

r84, was he masculine?

by Anonymousreply 8612/28/2011

r83, whatever dude. I am sure you are NOT my type.

by Anonymousreply 8712/28/2011

People who bought gay porn were notoriously consevative when it came to how they wanted their models groomed. Which is why the hippie movement isn't reflected in the body beautiful mags of the '60s. Lengthily tressed Berlin broke the mold by sheer force of his beauty.

by Anonymousreply 8812/28/2011

i have a friend of mine who works in the gay porn industry and he told that the whole gay for pay thing is a big lie.that's the way studios makes money.While it is true that many of those guys do have girlfriends,it doesn't mean that they are 100% straight.The whole gay sex for money is just a myth that the gay community has created and that studios have known how to use it well.

Someone here recently posted a video in which Nacho Vidal appears kissing a guy in the mouth.This guy still says that he is straight,the same thing with Charles Dera.So just because someone has sex with the opposite sex doesn't mean that they are exclusively straights.

by Anonymousreply 8912/28/2011

Datalounge: Home for the Damaged.

by Anonymousreply 9012/28/2011

I would think all thinking people realize gay for pay is a myth. You can't be truly heterosexual and repeatedly, willingly engage in hardcore sex acts with multiple members of the same sex and be heterosexual.

by Anonymousreply 9112/28/2011

More gays are hot than not. Eat me bitch. Fuck off..............

by Anonymousreply 9212/28/2011

All these references to 'famous' people is not representational.

It's much harder for a 'hot' gay guy to become a star than it is for some ugly queen. That's how the public like gay people to look.

I've known many 'hot' gays in my life who are way 'hotter' than any famous homo I could google and post a pic of. In fact you can see many more 'hot' men, gay or straight, walking around a big city like London in a day than you would see if you watched TV or went to the movies at the end of it.

by Anonymousreply 9312/28/2011

Come again, OP?

by Anonymousreply 9412/28/2011

But the point is that bisexual men are far more likely to identify as straight, and the ones that do identify as bi are far, far more likely to prefer women, and to commit to one.

by Anonymousreply 9512/28/2011

It's possible Justin Bieber is gay. That would destroy OP's theory.

by Anonymousreply 9612/28/2011

The HELL you say, OP!

by Anonymousreply 9712/28/2011

Bradley Cooper does not self-identify as gay, and certainly will never publicly identify as gay, either. So what's the point, r94?

by Anonymousreply 9812/28/2011

This thread should've ended after the first mention of Ricky Martin.

by Anonymousreply 9912/28/2011

R84 Peter Berlin is now a crackhead, into meth, and not in good shape to say the least but he's been using stimulants since the 70s.

He's also a very boring narcissist and not even what you'd consider hot, handsome, or even cute.

Berlin also seems to fetishize black men and talks about the bisexual Robert Mapplethorpe who was not only sexually attracted to black men but was racist.

R95 That's not true. I have bisexual male friends and they either prefer men and date and have relationships with men yet are still sexually attracted to women, or they are pretty equal and can have relationships with both genders.

by Anonymousreply 10012/28/2011

[quote]It's possible Justin Bieber is gay.

We can only hope. It would cause a meltdown among the olderlies here.

by Anonymousreply 10112/28/2011

[quote]It would cause a meltdown among the olderlies here.

Excuse me, R101, but we do not refer to them as "olderlies." The politically-correct term is [italic]eldergays[/italic].

If they're dead, then we refer to them as [italic]yestergays[/italic]. Sheesh.

by Anonymousreply 10212/28/2011

At what age does one become an eldergay?

by Anonymousreply 10312/28/2011


by Anonymousreply 10412/28/2011

I don't think it's an age thing r103, it's more of a mindset. Whenever they start bitching about hot boys being "too young" and blathering on about how they only like "real men" etc. then you know you're dealing with one.

by Anonymousreply 10512/28/2011

More examples of hot gay men,please-excluding porn stars of questionable sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 10612/28/2011

[quote]At what age does one become an eldergay?

Not quite sure, but it's something like the microwave popcorn rule: if it's been more than 3 seconds since the last pop, it's done.

by Anonymousreply 10712/28/2011

"it's almost certain that the bisexual guy always looks better than the gay guy."

ROFLMAO. Most bisexuals are not hot, except according to the bi trolls.

"Nope he is straight [R8], married with two kids and having gay sex on camera was so revolting to him, he said he went home and puked"

Please, anyone who is truly repulsed by having sex with a guy does not become a gay porn star. All the gay porn stars are bi or gay, no one truly straight is going to make a living out of fucking guys.

There are tons of hot gay guys - Revolta was a worldwide heartthrob when he was young, Tab Hunter and Richard Chamberlain were gorgeous guys, as were Rock Hudson, Monty Clift, etc.

by Anonymousreply 10812/28/2011

"But the point is that bisexual men are far more likely to identify as straight, and the ones that do identify as bi are far, far more likely to prefer women, and to commit to one."

This is not true. Most out bisexuals are not very interested in women, if they were they would just identify as straight and fuck the occasional guy on the side. I don't know any out bisexuals who have had recent affairs with women, they all call themselves bi because they kissed a girl once in fifth grade.

by Anonymousreply 10912/28/2011

R47 SAME WIth bi chicks

by Anonymousreply 11012/28/2011

I thought my bf was exceptionally hot until he admitted to me that he was, indeed, gay. Now, I can't even get it up anymore. He made me a permanent bottom.

by Anonymousreply 11112/28/2011

Straight female and the hottest men I know are gay and very masculine. The straight men over 35 are schlubs.

by Anonymousreply 11212/28/2011

Bi chicks are especially hot.

by Anonymousreply 11312/28/2011

Peter Berlin is/was ok-looking. Not particularly hot or jaw-dropping. Perhaps for the subset of people that like that blond straw hair type guy that I hear was sort of big in the 70's but not in the current pervailing sense of hottie. He's no Mike Branson, Channing Tatum, Jason Taylor, or Cam Newton.

by Anonymousreply 11412/28/2011

The point is we have to go back 50 years and pick 2 actors from over 5 decades to debunk the THREAD TITLE.

There are hot gay men (and I do not count bi guys as gay men), but they are just extremely rare.

by Anonymousreply 11512/29/2011

Lee Pace Richard Armitage

Hot, gorgeous and gays.

by Anonymousreply 11612/29/2011

Richard Armitage is not gay, he has a ltr girlfriend for some time now.

by Anonymousreply 11712/29/2011

The reasoning goes south on this thread when you talk about famous people only.

There are plenty of hot gay men.

by Anonymousreply 11812/29/2011

There are lots of goodlooking gay men, but I think a lot of people lose their attraction to many openly gay men because of the non-physical attributes many openly gay men display that are thought of as non-masculine, such as speech patterns, musical interests, voice, or athletic interest. I don't think people are saying openly gay men are not as physically goodlooking as non-openly gay men, but people don't find gay men as attractive for the aforementioned reasons.

by Anonymousreply 11912/29/2011

Bingo, R119.

Even though it is a bit of a stereotype.

by Anonymousreply 12012/29/2011

R52 Heteroflexible is just another word for being bisexual.

R47 is your typical biphobic fag. Being bisexual doesn't mean that a man or woman is heterosexual anymore than it means a gay man or lesbian is somehow ever heterosexual.

Bisexuals can and do wind up in LTRs with the same gender too. I have lots of bisexual male friends who actually are bisexual and they're partnered to other bisexual men.

by Anonymousreply 12112/29/2011

Op doesn't get out much and it shows.

by Anonymousreply 12212/29/2011

SO many damaged people posting here. I am just not sure what world most of you live in.

by Anonymousreply 12312/29/2011

Whether it is a good thing or not, masculinity is strongly correlated to male attractiveness in our (and just about every) society. So, the more people widespreadly think you are masculine, there is a good chance people will find you attractive as a male. There are exceptions of course, but we are talking in general here.

by Anonymousreply 12412/29/2011

One man's saucisson is another man's poisson.

by Anonymousreply 12512/29/2011

R112 IS A flaming queen

by Anonymousreply 12612/29/2011

[quote]Richard Armitage is not gay, he has a ltr girlfriend for some time now

Having sex with women means nothing. Boycott "The Hobbit" as it contains coward cases.

by Anonymousreply 12712/29/2011

OP has obviously never met Johnny Weir

by Anonymousreply 12812/29/2011

Or richard simmons!

by Anonymousreply 12912/29/2011

I know we're all supposed to be one big happy LGBT community and all but I've never understood the desire to lump bisexuality into the mix. I mean, can we be real for a minute? The vast majority of bi men are disproportionately attracted to the opposite gender and thus have ltrs with women. Sure, they may hook up with guys on the side from time-to-time but how is that comparable to the gay experience? I know I'm not supposed to feel this way but I always involuntarily roll my eyes whenever I hear someone bring up the scourge of biphobia and that it's actually harder to be bi than gay.

by Anonymousreply 13012/29/2011

With bigots like you R130 I can see how it's a lot harder for bisexual men and women than it is for us gay men and lesbians.

Gays, when they’re not eagerly cruising bisexual men on Grindr, bath houses, and chat-rooms, are too often keen to denounce the ‘dishonesty’ and ‘double lives’ and ‘repression’ of bisexual men – because they have the temerity to not be just like gay men.

No not all bisexual men wind up in LTRs with women, and most are either single or are in LTRs with men, and even if someone is with a woman so what? Most gay men are not out and are completely closeted and are married to women or have been in the past, or were once in a relationship with a woman.

by Anonymousreply 13112/29/2011

Biphobia and claiming that bisexuals somehow are not or should not be a part of the LGBT community are all just as bad as homophobia is.

I'm a gay man and I've been out for decades and I'm ashamed and embarrassed at how bigoted some of my fellow gay men are when it comes to bisexuals and bisexuality. Who are you to tell someone that they're not bisexual or that an entire sexuality and community of people does not exist? How would you know since you're homosexual and not bisexual?

To all of the men here who claim that there's no such thing as bisexuality, that bisexual men are always really gay men, or that bisexual men should be avoided:

You're no better than Conservative Republicans, how some Christians (the born again type and Westboro Baptist church) are, and you're bigoted just like these people are towards us gay/bisexual/queer men.

It's going to be 2012 and you're still just as hypocritical as some straight people are towards gay men and everyone who is not heterosexual, and yet you do this to bisexual men. One would hope that you're not a tiresome old queen who talks out of his ass about something she knows nothing about when it comes to bisexuality.

There are a whole shit load of latent bisexuals masquerading around as gay men because they are ignorant of the fact that bisexual doesn't only mean an equal attraction to both genders and you do not have to fall in love with both genders to be bisexual. Or they're too scared to admit being bisexual because they've invested so much of their time and energy cultivating a gay male identity.

Also there are some gay men who are highly bigoted towards bisexual men. Just like there are some lesbians who dislike bisexual women and trans women. These factors are also reasons why men and women who are bisexual yet call themselves gay or lesbian do not want to come out.

The dirty little secret that never gets addressed in the so called "gay" world is the fact that many gay men do go through a second coming out and re-identify as bisexual. These men may still overwhelmingly prefer men, but their orientation and identity are not exclusively towards men. And how their attraction to both sexes manifests differently as well. The ridiculous protest that "well it just happened that one time, it doesn't mean anything, it's not going to happen again" belies the fact if you really were gay it wouldn't have happened in the first place and to now assume that it would never happen again defies basic logic.

If a man or woman is bisexual they're still bisexual even if they're partnered to the same gender and only have sex with the same gender for the rest of their life.

It's always weird to be corrected by someone (e.g., [R26]) who is wrong in their knowledge of a subject. I've found that if you dare to even allude to someone not being not quite "gay" (in other words bisexual) then you get the typical apoplectic reaction--oh no, no, no, he's gay, he's definitely gay, absolutely, no question about it, and on and on and on. So many gay men are so fucking bi-phobic it's unreal--and it's usually because they don't understand the concept in the first place and they've made no attempt to do so.

I do have to say this though. A good number of men who say they are gay aren't fully gay. They only say they are gay because they want a relationship with a guy. But a good number of them if they can't find a guy when they are horny will just have sex with a woman and they're sexually attracted to women but just want sex with women not relationships with women like they want a relationship with a man. This makes them bisexual.

Try studying human sexuality sometime guys instead of just cruising for dick online.

There's nothing wrong with being bisexual. To the bisexual men reading this ignore the haters replying to this blog. Not all gay men are bigoted like a few of them are here.

by Anonymousreply 13212/29/2011

[quote]I do have to say this though. A good number of men who say they are gay aren't fully gay. They only say they are gay because they want a relationship with a guy. But a good number of them if they can't find a guy when they are horny will just have sex with a woman and they're sexually attracted to women but just want sex with women not relationships with women like they want a relationship with a man. This makes them bisexual.

Hear fucking hear, my good man.

by Anonymousreply 13312/29/2011

I do have to say this though. A good number of men who say they are gay aren't fully gay. They only say they are gay because they want a relationship with a guy. But a good number of them if they can't find a guy when they are horny will just have sex with a woman and they're sexually attracted to women but just want sex with women not relationships with women like they want a relationship with a man. This makes them bisexual.

Thank god there is an intelligent man on here for a change!!

by Anonymousreply 13412/29/2011

Richard Armitage is not gay in your dreams, fangurl!

by Anonymousreply 13512/29/2011

[quote]There's nothing wrong with being bisexual. To the bisexual men reading this ignore the haters replying to this blog. Not all gay men are bigoted like a few of them are here.

You're a lying sack of shit. OF COURSE there's nothing wrong with being bisexual. But stop acting like there's all this "hate" and "bigotry" from homos toward bis. It just ain't so.

by Anonymousreply 13612/29/2011

Call me crazy but I find Sean Maher (Firefly) very hot.

Mike Doyle (formerly of L&O:SVU), too!

by Anonymousreply 13712/29/2011

Mike Doyle is gay? Always thought he was hot, but in a sexy sort of way. Here's some nude caps of him.

by Anonymousreply 13812/30/2011

No one is saying bisexuality isn't a valid or real sexuality, well I'm not. I believe there are men that are bisexual.

If you say I am biphobic, I might agree with you, but I wasn't always. I had no issue with bisexuals, but I was not so much as burned as had a gallon of gasoline poured over me and set alight by a bisexual bf.

It was disastrous and I was deeply hurt and humiliated by a bi guy who did the common thing and threw the fag under the bus for a woman. And it more so the way he did it. I promised myself I would never get involved with a bisexual man ever again.

And it seems many of my gay friends have had similar experiences at the hands of bi guys and their heterosexual pursuits.

Phobia's aren't inherent in us, they educated to us and bisexual me have educated many gay men in the ways of biphobia. If gay men are biphobic it's bisexual men's own fault.

by Anonymousreply 13912/30/2011

Mike Doyle is sorta hot looking but he's only about 5'5". I've seen him in person and I tower over him. I suppose I would go to bed with him if he begged me, but not really my type.

by Anonymousreply 14012/30/2011

who is Mike Doyle?

by Anonymousreply 14112/30/2011


Go spent some time on Outsports. Yeah. And also read about a rugby player called Gareth Thomas who just came out last year.

Yeah. Only straight men like sports and gay men like barbie dolls.


by Anonymousreply 14212/30/2011

Don Lemon is pretty goodlooking

by Anonymousreply 14301/01/2012

You don't have sex with a hot straight guy, R56. You have sex with a gay guy who tells you he's straight and you believe him because you were born yesterday.

by Anonymousreply 14401/01/2012

You *didn't have sex...

by Anonymousreply 14501/01/2012

So it's somehow a bisexual person's fault that a gay man gets way too posessive, needy, and clingy and that he can't get over a relationship ending? Dude you have issues and major baggage about people, and make up excuses to be nothing but a total bigot and spread bullshit and hate about bisexuals to say the least R139.

Good job blaming other people and an entire sexual orientation for your own problems and issues over the fact that you get totally butthurt, become a total drama queen, and go crazy because someone ends a relationship with you and decides to date someone else. Break ups happen and it's not "throwing a fag under the bus" when a bisexual man ends a relationship with a drama queen like yourself who loves to play mind games.

Then again if a gay man dumped you you'd still find something wrong with him when it's your own problem. Who was the bisexual that LOL broke your heart? It doesn't matter since we all go through breakups in life and blaming someone's sexual orientation and an entire sexual orientation on the fact that you got dumped is childish but what else can we expect from a lot of gay men?

The laughable example of how when a bisexual man ended his relationship with you and then wound up dating a woman is a joke. I'd hate to know how much of a bitch drama queen you get when a bisexual man or gay man breaks up with you and then winds up with a different man. It wouldn't be surprising if a black man dated you and then dumped you and then you said how one should never get involved with black men since they'll just dump you and end a relationship.

Of course like a lot of gay men with issues you're a professional victim and a bunny boiler with baggage about your ex's no matter what their sexuality is. I'm gay and there's no way in hell I'd get into a relationship with someone as immature as you R139 or someone who shouldn't be in any sort of relationship at all with anyone and who is a total bigot towards people who happen to be bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 14601/02/2012

I see hot gays everywhere I turn. Except when one of these turns make me look into a mirror.

I wonder which fate is worse? OP's or mine?

by Anonymousreply 14701/02/2012

tim tebow is very hot

by Anonymousreply 14801/02/2012

r146 reads like a fangirl.

by Anonymousreply 14901/02/2012

136, yeah there is a lot of actual hate and bigotry from gay men towards bisexuals.

Just read R139's reply and the replies of other gay men here on DL who have major issues and self hate for themselves and project this onto bisexual men and even other gay men like R47 who even went as far as to falsely claim that bisexuals somehow aren't really a part of the LGBT community or that they shouldn't be included, and that bisexual men and women are somehow really straight which is all bullshit.

There has also been bisexual erasure and biphobia from certain people in the white gay male media who write about how bisexual men somehow magically don't exist, and these media whores completely support a biphobic, and homophobic scientist who is a eugenicist who wants to find a gene that shows that a child will be born not heterosexual so parents can abort it and have a hetero child instead. No this is not some crazy conspiracy, look up Dr. J. Michael Bailey.

I wonder when the homosexist members of the LGBT movement will finally acknowledge that bisexuals and bisexuality exist, that bisexuality is as legitimate as being gay or lesbian. and that the civil and human rights gains that have been made for LGBT people would not have been made without the involvement, commitment, hard work and sacrifice of bisexuals.

by Anonymousreply 15001/02/2012

I don't find men who are nellie or total queens to be hot at all.

R142 is correct there are some masculine gay men but many gay men are femmey.

by Anonymousreply 15101/03/2012

Completely wrong, R151. "Femmy" gays are only more easily identified than "masculine" gays. It doesn't mean that there are more of them, though. It's just a lot harder to identify the non-femmy gays, that's all.

by Anonymousreply 15201/03/2012

r152, is correct. masculine gay and bisexual guys rarely are open about their orientation.

by Anonymousreply 15301/03/2012

You guys are all really good at ignoring the troll.

This thread has nothing to do with bisexuality, and there have been like three essays written on the topic in this thread now.

by Anonymousreply 15401/03/2012

If only more openly gay guys were like Mark Sanchez.

by Anonymousreply 15501/04/2012

Oh get down off your high-horse and can the self-righteous bullshit r146. 90% of bu men will always choose straight relationships over gay ones, they all value straight relationship over gay relationships.

Bi men are these perfect men with no issue or hang=ups. I have not a met a bi guy i haven't instantly disliked, that's even before knowing they are bisexual men.

by Anonymousreply 15601/04/2012

That's bullshit R156 I've met a lot of bisexual men who are in same gender partnerships with other bisexual and gay men, and they value a same gender relationship over an opposite one since they're in a relationship with someone of the same gender.

I'm gay and I haven't met a bitter queen like yourself who I haven't disliked.

by Anonymousreply 15701/05/2012

r156, you are ignorant.

by Anonymousreply 15801/05/2012

So what if bi men tend to eventually marry women? That is their right. Get over it.

by Anonymousreply 15901/13/2012

If this thread read: No One Hot is Gay in the UK, then you'd be on to something. I was in London for 4 weeks, boring as shit and for all the crap they UKers throw at USers for a closeted celebrity culture, they are a bunch of morons, no one famous is openly gay in London, in fact it seems UK tv is more homophobic than US tv.

by Anonymousreply 16001/13/2012

I dont find UK dudes hot period.

by Anonymousreply 16101/28/2012

There are lots of hot guys in the UK, just none of them are gay. The gay guys in the UK are very stereotypically gay, very femme.

by Anonymousreply 16201/28/2012

Bi men eventually marry - and then fuck around with tons and tons of guys behind her back. The number of guys increases ten fold.

by Anonymousreply 16301/28/2012

This is the typical straight man...

The guys that are hot...are "straight". Gay guys claming otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 16401/28/2012

another straight guy...

by Anonymousreply 16501/28/2012

straight dude

by Anonymousreply 16601/28/2012

I think it's just the fact gay men are only about 1% in the UK, and that is according to the last Gov. stats. So the number that are gonna be hot and gay is just non-existent. It's sad but true, no one hot in the UK is gay.

by Anonymousreply 16701/28/2012

straight dude

by Anonymousreply 16801/28/2012

Some people's taste is all in their mouth. ugh

by Anonymousreply 16901/28/2012

straight dude

by Anonymousreply 17001/28/2012

Really? You all know for sure someone is straight or gay just by looking at them?

Is there a little thermometer on them showing their straightness vs gayness?

Presumptuous bitches.

by Anonymousreply 17101/28/2012

Bull shit, R168.

by Anonymousreply 17201/28/2012

downlow black dude R168.

by Anonymousreply 17301/28/2012

hot darn. straight dude

by Anonymousreply 17401/28/2012

straight dude

by Anonymousreply 17501/28/2012

It's the fantasy that these hot "straight" guys have to be straight. Some asshole gay men do not find other gay men attractive - because they are repulsed by homosexuality in general. They *need the "straight" to be attracted to begin with.

by Anonymousreply 17601/28/2012

it doesn't help (for superficial attractions) that the UK doesn't have the gym body culture that the U.S. has.

by Anonymousreply 17701/28/2012

find out his orientation

by Anonymousreply 17801/28/2012


by Anonymousreply 17901/28/2012

find out his orientation

by Anonymousreply 18001/28/2012

Wasn't R175 one of the prissy model dudes from JDMA?

by Anonymousreply 18101/28/2012

If the one on the far right identifies as gay, it would disprove the OP's claim.

by Anonymousreply 18201/28/2012


by Anonymousreply 18301/28/2012

I've got the best gaydar in the known world. If I fancy a guy he always, always turns out to be straight.

by Anonymousreply 18401/28/2012

Wish he were gay

by Anonymousreply 18501/28/2012

find out his orientation

by Anonymousreply 18601/28/2012

If only

by Anonymousreply 18701/28/2012

we need to recruit more like this

by Anonymousreply 18801/28/2012

This guy has popped up on the net a lot, Justin Clynes, why can't a guy like this be gay.

by Anonymousreply 18901/28/2012

Maybe Daniel Sunjata is bi

by Anonymousreply 19001/28/2012

He did a solo video for a gay porn studio, but I suspect he is straight.

by Anonymousreply 19101/28/2012

This isn't a picture thread. Stop posting pictures.

by Anonymousreply 19201/28/2012

the posting pics guy is a mental case.

by Anonymousreply 19301/28/2012

Could Willie Gomez be bi?

by Anonymousreply 19401/28/2012

I think Talvin DeMachio is gay.

by Anonymousreply 19501/28/2012


by Anonymousreply 19601/31/2012

I thought my hot friend at the gym might be gay. Turns out, he is very straight.

by Anonymousreply 19702/04/2012

OP=ugly child molester.

by Anonymousreply 19802/04/2012

Between the millions of gay men complaining that only straight men are hot, the millions of gay men complaining that straight men don't care of themselves and look like shit, and the millions of straight women who complain that only gay men are good looking, you could go stark raving mad - a tribute to the way "Madison Avenue" makes us all feel like shit.

Congratulations, America for buying in to the buzz that makes us think we will never be good enough, thrive to look and be different and spend our life's saving getting there. That's where they want to keep us and we love indulging them.

by Anonymousreply 19902/04/2012

R199, you don't look anorexic to me.

by Anonymousreply 20002/04/2012

R199 can demonstrated (visibly) that he can withstand the social pressures to look good. Bully for you.

by Anonymousreply 20102/04/2012

Jim Belushi as a SERIOUS bulge. Damn. I would totally try some of that. His face isn't that bad.

by Anonymousreply 20202/04/2012

[quote]I thought my hot friend at the gym might be gay. Turns out, he is very straight.

Which means he's very gay.

by Anonymousreply 20302/04/2012

r184 ditto for me and women

by Anonymousreply 20402/04/2012

straight men are masculine with no drama

by Anonymousreply 20502/04/2012

[quote]straight men are masculine with no drama

You have very, very little experience around straight men. You have no idea.

by Anonymousreply 20602/04/2012

I fancy straight chicks because they are feminine with nice personalities

by Anonymousreply 20702/04/2012

Matt Bomer: finally a masculine hotΩ openly gay dude

by Anonymousreply 20802/13/2012

uh Matt is known as a big ole girl in real life!

by Anonymousreply 20902/13/2012

proof, r209? you sound jealous and defamatory. and effeminate.

by Anonymousreply 21002/14/2012

He may flame a bit, but he is very handsome.

by Anonymousreply 21102/14/2012

[quote] straight men are masculine with no drama

Everyone has drama. But if you think gay drama is "bad", deal with a straight man, who's been taught by society to hide his feelings, not express emotions, and not develop his personality or emotional IQ in any way.

You'll get a whole shitload of drama. You'll just never, EVER see it coming. And when it does, it will be quick and violent, like a summer thunderstorm.

Lather. Rinse. Repeat.

Sorry, I'll take a gay man who knows who he is and isn't afraid to express emotions, no matter where he lies on the masculinity scale, ANY FUCKING DAY.

by Anonymousreply 21202/14/2012

Hot and gay: Matt Bomer, Ben Maisani, Kellan Lutz, Ricky Martin, Zach Quinto, Zac Efron

by Anonymousreply 21302/16/2012

Colton from Survivor. Hubba hubba, soggy mussy.

by Anonymousreply 21402/16/2012

Bomer isn't technically out. After Elton hasn't confirmed or denied the story.

by Anonymousreply 21502/16/2012

Cheyenne Jackson!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 21602/17/2012

wasn't it on video?

by Anonymousreply 21702/20/2012

Turns out Ricky Martin is more bi than gay, so take him off the list.

by Anonymousreply 21803/23/2012

On the contrary, MOST hot numbers are homosexuals.

They just don't want anyone to know about it.

by Anonymousreply 21903/26/2012

If the allegations are true, Carl Pavano could be one of the few males who are gay and masculine. Of course, even if true, he is more likely bisexual, not gay.

by Anonymousreply 22003/30/2012


by Anonymousreply 22103/31/2012

Actually, OP...I've found that most gay men are much more attractive than most of the straight men I've come in contact with. Gay men seem to care more about their physical appearance than do breeders; particularily the breeders that are married.

by Anonymousreply 22203/31/2012

Gay men take better care of themselves, partly because they have more respect for their partners (or potential partners). The stereotypical straight man has no respect for his partner. He looks, dresses, and acts like a slob yet still expects to be able to land chicks whenever he wants (and gets angry when it doesn't happen).

by Anonymousreply 22303/31/2012

I wish there were quarterback-types that were openly gay. Just a lack of masculine dudeish guys in this society that identify as gay.

by Anonymousreply 22404/13/2012

Jim Parsons is a sexy beast. I would so many naughty things to him if I could.

by Anonymousreply 22504/13/2012

We need a dude like Eric Decker to identify as gay publicly. IT would change the negative effeminate image of gay males.

by Anonymousreply 22604/20/2012

Or somebody like the Rock.

by Anonymousreply 22705/03/2012


by Anonymousreply 22805/24/2012

one of the worst threads ive read online. congratulations everyone

by Anonymousreply 22905/24/2012

[quote]Jim Parsons is a sexy beast. I would so many naughty things to him if I could.

Oh please he's thin but has a gut, he's balding, he has gayface and he's disproportionate.

If he was a regular 'mo he'd never see any action that he didn't get by paying for it.

It's funny how 'mos will do any straight guy or any gay guy if he has money. If Parson was a non famous gay, you'd be leaving the bar alone

by Anonymousreply 23005/24/2012

That Roberts anchorman on MSNBC is hot.

by Anonymousreply 23106/01/2012

There are more hot and beautiful straight men because there are more straight men, period.

by Anonymousreply 23206/01/2012

Yeah, there are about 16 times more heterosexual men than gay and bisexual men, at least based on self identity.

by Anonymousreply 23306/01/2012

I think the BIGGEST tragedy about being homosexual is that it is non gender conforming which means Unattractive and doomed to a sucky life.

Im a lesbian and I have to admit that for me to find a woman attractive, she has to be truly feminine, ie submissive in some way and this is related to being attracted to men. A truly feminine woman or truly masculine guy will always be attracted however little to the opposite sex because lets face it, being attracted to men is a big part of being a proper woman and same for men being attracted to woman.

Thats why gay people can never find a gay guy truly attractive, because to be truly attractive that means the guy needs to be masculine, and part of being masculine is that of being attracted to women. To be truly ggender conforming one must be somewhat however slighttly attracted to the opposite sex. That means they cant be gay.

And I agree, the hottest men and women are always bisexual or straight (not saying they're all hot, most bi women are actually really ugly) but on the whole they can encapsulate that true masculinity or femininity

by Anonymousreply 23406/01/2012

Oh my dear....NO.

First of all, sexuality and gender conformity are not the same thing. The circles do not match on your Venn diagram. Second, gender stereotypes are not always most attractive. A slim blnd girl with no muscles can be hyper feminine without being attractive to either men or women. Similarly, bodybuilders often turn people off. As for basing your view of their attractiveness off their attractiveness to opposite sex....haven't you made up your mind about attractiveness long before you know how they interact with opposite sex?

by Anonymousreply 23506/01/2012

You must be gay, OP.

by Anonymousreply 23606/01/2012

How can it be that no one hot is gay yet every gay guy I know thinks he's hot?

by Anonymousreply 23706/01/2012

Bodybuilders are not the masculine ideal, they are an extreme body type, at least heavy weight bodybuilders are. The masculine ideal is the Men's Fitness/Soloflex physique. Lots of lean, ripped muscle, but not so much that guys have to wear special fat clothes or walk funny.

by Anonymousreply 23806/01/2012

please don't cite Jim Parsons as a counterexample. It doesn't help.

by Anonymousreply 23906/02/2012

R234 needs major therapy and so does the OP.

by Anonymousreply 24006/02/2012

They don't appeal to everyone but there's some hot gay celebs in no particular order:

1. Cheyenne Jackson

2. Matt Bomer

3. Ricky Martin

4. Gareth Thomas

5. Zachary Quinto

6. Neil Patrick Harris

7. B. D. Wong

8. Scott Evans

8. Jake Shears

9. John Amaechi

10. Bryan Batt

11. J.P. Calderon

12. Adam Lambert

13. Darryl Stephens

14. Thomas Roberts

15. Gavin Creel

13. Dustin Lance Black

14. Tom Ford

15. Don Lemon

16. Jonathan Groff

17. Luke Macfarlane

18. John Barrowman

by Anonymousreply 24106/02/2012

It gets very tough when you look for public figures that are both hot and masculine.

by Anonymousreply 24206/06/2012

Richard Armitage is hot, masculine and gay.

by Anonymousreply 24310/21/2012

R241 Great list, here's more...

19. Chad Allen

20. Sean Hemeon

21. Colton Haynes?

22. Anderson Cooper

23. Robert Grant

24. Reichen and Rodiney

25. Adam Lambert's BF Sauli

These ar just some names I can think of off the top of my head.

by Anonymousreply 24410/21/2012

Most good looking buff shaved men leave me cold. Often there is something about the seemingly ordinary guy next door that boils my blood.

by Anonymousreply 24510/21/2012

26. Lee Pace

Also, this whole thread is just down right depressing.

by Anonymousreply 24610/21/2012

27. Matthew Mitcham

28. Sean Lockart aka Brent Corrigan

29. Charlie David

There are a ton of hot gay guys that vblog on youtube...and, they often have hot gay friends that pop in.

by Anonymousreply 24710/23/2012

30. Orlando Cruz (first out gay boxer)

by Anonymousreply 24810/24/2012

Shawn T. (beachbodies), who just married his BF.

by Anonymousreply 24910/24/2012

Shaun T is the hottest most masculine athletic openly gay dude in the nation right now, unless he identifies as bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 25010/24/2012


by Anonymousreply 25110/26/2012

As a child we believed that men became homosexuals because they were too ugly to get fish. How shocked we were when we learned that in reality its the beauties who are usually homosexual (even if they also fuck fish)!

by Anonymousreply 25210/27/2012

There are a lot of hot bi dudes though.

by Anonymousreply 25311/04/2012


by Anonymousreply 25411/11/2012

Matt Dallas

by Anonymousreply 25505/30/2013

Lesbians complain about the same thing and looking at the out ones, I have to think they might have a point since very few are hot. But I figure that the out ones may just care less about image and are less likely to stay closeted, plus they can't do so good a job of hiding.

by Anonymousreply 25605/31/2013

You have never seen this lady in a suit then

by Anonymousreply 25705/31/2013

[quote]How can it be that no one hot is gay yet every gay guy I know thinks he's hot?

You can say that again. I have yet to meet a gay guy, with the exception of myself who really is hot, who doesn't think he's the bell of the ball.

by Anonymousreply 25806/01/2013

[quote]bell of the ball

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 25906/01/2013

Darren Young is out now. and HOT.

by Anonymousreply 26008/15/2013

I used to think that myself, that the very best lookers were straight and most gays I saw were trolls.

But now I'm starting to think that the top 1% of hot gay people/people overall are in Hollywood/some entertainment field. Never trust someone who says they want to be an actor or a singer - major ghey! Usually...

by Anonymousreply 26108/15/2013

Matt Merrell, is beyond gorgeous and openly gay.

by Anonymousreply 26212/16/2013

is he masculine? any links to videos of him?

by Anonymousreply 26312/16/2013

What a horrible, self-loathing thread.

The average staright guy on the street and suburbs isn't all that either.

by Anonymousreply 26412/16/2013

The average straight male is Jim Belushi.

by Anonymousreply 26512/16/2013

Here is a video of Matt

by Anonymousreply 26612/16/2013

Brian sims, district 182 rep

by Anonymousreply 26712/16/2013

No one hot is straight.

by Anonymousreply 26812/16/2013

Matt Merrell must get a huge amount of dick.

by Anonymousreply 26912/16/2013

I hate to admit it, but I find even the most frumpy of middle-aged straight guys hotter than the primped and preened gay ones. I think straight metrosexuals are unattractive too BTW.

by Anonymousreply 27012/16/2013

What about the ones who call you a faggot and vote against gay rights, R270? I think those straight guys are the hottest.


by Anonymousreply 27112/16/2013

This Matt Merrell, what does he do?

by Anonymousreply 27212/16/2013

R269 Hasn't Matt been dating Andrew Oldershaw for a long time now?

by Anonymousreply 27312/16/2013

I hope Malachi Marx ends up working a shitty job. What an asshole.

by Anonymousreply 27412/16/2013

Even hotter, R271, are the [italic]gay[/italic] ones who vote against gay rights.

by Anonymousreply 27512/16/2013

Is this thread about real people or just celebrities? The title offends me (as designed, no doubt) so I haven't read it.

by Anonymousreply 27612/16/2013

I just shot the biggest load of my life, R275! I LOVE those fags! But, I hate fags. I'm torn. I love fags but I hate fags. But, LOOOOOVE straights. Str8s!

by Anonymousreply 27712/16/2013

why are you still here?

by Anonymousreply 27812/16/2013

Nothing gold can stay.

by Anonymousreply 27912/16/2013

Laurie & Max, hot gay model couple.

by Anonymousreply 28012/16/2013

This must be a generational older people problem.. Go to any major city (LA, NYC) and it's a coin-toss as to whether the hottest young men are gay or straight. In fact, I'd say proportionally, gay men are hotter than most of the overweight sad sack straight guys who let themselves go after college (their mid-20s) and have big 'ol beer bellies.

Amongst younger men, in fact, it's getting harder and harder to tell which guys are gay and which guys are straight..

by Anonymousreply 28112/16/2013

I agree r281.

by Anonymousreply 28212/16/2013

R7 hit it right on the head. There are some extremely hot gay men out there but most tend to ruin it by overdoing the grooming thing. Manicured and waxed eyebrows look bad enough on a woman, but they are hideous on a man. Even a lot of butch gay men do this and it is a travesty.

Trim them a little, if need be, but for the love of all that is beautiful, don't shape and wax them. Ugh.

by Anonymousreply 28312/16/2013

I agree. Leave the eyebrows alone. I would rather see a natural unibrow than a landscaped pair of brows. There's even this queen in my office that completely shaves his off and paints them back on with an eyebrow pencil. It is scary. They are waaaayyyy too arched and he looks like a serial killer clown.

by Anonymousreply 28412/16/2013

LOL, 284. We have a guy in our office that wears tons of foundation and eyeliner. He would be a gorgeous guy without them, but he insists on wearing that crap. I saw him once without it and wanted to say something, but it wasn't my place so I left well enough alone. The guy is in his 40s and I guess he thinks it makes him look younger... no, it makes him look like a cross-dresser.

by Anonymousreply 28512/16/2013

Matt Gordon is gay and gorgeous, really sad to hear about all his troubles though.

by Anonymousreply 28612/16/2013


What troubles? Is he a potential DL fave?

by Anonymousreply 28712/16/2013

[quote]I agree. Leave the eyebrows alone. I would rather see a natural unibrow than a landscaped pair of brows. There's even this queen in my office that completely shaves his off and paints them back on with an eyebrow pencil. It is scary. They are waaaayyyy too arched and he looks like a serial killer clown.

The point of this thread is just to be that right?

by Anonymousreply 28812/16/2013

We need a "Hot Bi Dudes" thread since they would not fit into this thread.

by Anonymousreply 28912/16/2013

[all posts by pathetic racist, sexist, anti-semitic, homophobic flame bait troll removed (but you might want to not encourage it in the future because it will be back because you keep giving it what it wants and it really does not believe any of the things it types), ISP notified with full text of all posts.]

by Anonymousreply 29012/16/2013 closeted gays and lesbians are stereotypical too.

by Anonymousreply 29112/16/2013

[all posts by pathetic racist, sexist, anti-semitic, homophobic flame bait troll removed (but you might want to not encourage it in the future because it will be back because you keep giving it what it wants and it really does not believe any of the things it types), ISP notified with full text of all posts.]

by Anonymousreply 29212/16/2013
Need more help? Click Here.

Follow theDL catch up on what you missed

recent threads by topic delivered to your email

follow popular threads on twitter

follow us on facebook

Become a contributor - post when you want with no ads!