Erik Rhodes Bullied Gay Kids at School and When One Calls Him OUt About it He Calls Him a Fag
Charming POS. No wonder he's a party favorite of Bryan Singer's.
"I really didnt come to terms with being gay until i was out of high school. Had plenty of GF’s and didn’t really have to hide anything, i honestly believed i was straight.
My twin brother and i tortured the gay kids in my high school. Which was weird when years later i ran into 2 of them while out at Limelight in the city… This one comes running up to me screaming “you have to be fucking kidding! You made my life hell”. To which i could only reply, “I’m sorry, i didnt know”… of course he forgave me then tried to hook up with me…typical fag.
Trust me i could sit here and say “it does get better” and be part of that retarded movement but no, i dont think it gets better, i just think after awhile you stop giving a fuck.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||08/19/2013|
I can't believe that such an accomplished and brilliant young man would behave in such a callous manner.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||11/23/2011|
He sounds like a smug, self-loathing prick. A true ugliness of the heart.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||11/23/2011|
He hates himself as much as anyone. Read his blog. He talks about how fucked up he is.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||11/23/2011|
After reading his blog, he is one hell of a drama queen. What does he have to be so melo-dramatic about? Is it yet just another form of his narcissism?
|by Anonymous||reply 18||11/23/2011|
Gee, R16, go to any magazine or newspaper. The beautiful female is used to sell all kinds of stuff. Amazing!
|by Anonymous||reply 19||11/23/2011|
My only response is, "Why did R18 hyphenate 'melodramatic'?"
|by Anonymous||reply 20||11/23/2011|
Melodrama is in the original post where in infers that he currently calls those he bullied 'fags'.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||11/23/2011|
He's very handsome to my eyes, but the muscles are ridiculous and spoil him.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||11/23/2011|
He didn't bother to look up 'homophobia' before answering that question.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||11/23/2011|
Erik Rhodes is a sulky little emo trapped in the body of a juiced-out GG'd up whore. Loves the attention he claims to hate.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||11/23/2011|
A gay bully's just deserts.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||11/23/2011|
My high school bully was a big buff guy like this. He was a football player and he hung out with jocks. He used to phycially assault me at the lockers and say, "You look like a fag. I bet you're a cocksucker."
A year after graduation he walked into a gay bar I was in, apologized, and asked me to (slow) dance with him. I accepted.
The worst homophobes are closeted gays. Look at Roy Cohn!
|by Anonymous||reply 27||11/23/2011|
[quote]Melodrama is in the original post where in [bold]infers[/bold] that he currently calls those he bullied 'fags'.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||11/23/2011|
I'm happy you and Karofsky made-up, Kurt. WHET Blaine though?
|by Anonymous||reply 29||11/23/2011|
Isn't he the one who is supposedly certifiably insane?
|by Anonymous||reply 30||11/23/2011|
He's evil and his defenders are even worse.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||11/23/2011|
he's a sick puppy, have mercy on his tormented soul
|by Anonymous||reply 32||11/23/2011|
He's too stupid to be evil.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||11/23/2011|
He has a twin brother? Does his brother do porn too? Have they ever done a sex scene together?
|by Anonymous||reply 34||11/23/2011|
That took a whole 34 posts to finally get asked.
Dataloungers, you're slipping.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||11/24/2011|
Is the twin brother gay?
How could he not know he was gay all the way through high school, considering how gay (not mannerisms...his addiction to cock) he is now.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||11/24/2011|
Who is this guy and why should I care?
R13 and R16 nailed it, people will still like this guy because he's hot or because they think he's hot.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||11/24/2011|
But what about bullies who pick on fat, nerdy, black, Chinese, 4-eyes, beanpole, midget?? Are they all compensating for their own latent fat, nerdy, black, Chinese, beanpole, midget, 4-eyed self?
|by Anonymous||reply 45||01/17/2012|
r45, yeah, what about them?
Bullies use threats and violence to seperate themselves from the weak groups they otherwise would be part of. A closeted bully can very well attack all sorts of "outcasts" to lash out.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||01/17/2012|
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|by Anonymous||reply 48||01/17/2012|
Miss Rhodes is now living the life of luxury in Italy with his sugar daddy. Lucky whore.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||01/17/2012|
I can't think he's hot anymore after reading his blog. Total boner killer. Porn stars should be seen, not heard.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||01/17/2012|
Is it true his asshole has turned inside out?
|by Anonymous||reply 51||01/18/2012|
Funny, I never thought he was that goodlooking, pretty much average.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||01/18/2012|
Physically weak and sensitive is not exclusively a homosexual trait. Mitt would surely beat up any nonconforming or non-pack stray male. He is surely lupine.
See how he punishes dogs.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||06/15/2012|
You all make me sick. Bullies are entitled to forgiveness after all they are the true victims. Anybody who wants to inflict pain and suffering are not healthy on the inside and are polluting their souls. Mr Rhodes was damaged and all you can do is spit on his corpse.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||06/15/2012|
I used to tease other suspected gays and other losers too, I was kind of mean but not a real bully. I didn't have the heft to be a bully and didn't like fighting. I feel pretty bad about it now but honestly it was just a survival mechanism, like look over there, a bigger loser than me! Awful, I know.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||06/15/2012|
[quote]Cunt at [R56] - thank your lucky stars that you never met this "gay one"...
You're right I never know what to do when guys run off crying to their mommies.
[quote]I hope [R56] gets hit in the head with a ball, preferably a boulder.
First of all I doubt you could lift it. Then you certainly couldn't throw it, unless you threw it like a girl.
Face it I'm gay and I'd beat the hell out of most of you. Stop mincing and man up
|by Anonymous||reply 65||06/15/2012|
R56/R65 is the anti-fem troll who got slammed by the WM a couple months ago. He's back spewing the same homophobic bullshit.
Rhodes had a repulsive side to him that probably came from expressing his internalized homophobia, just like R56/R65.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||06/15/2012|
... gives them a priceless lesson about the realities of life and that self-worth is the only answer because other people cannot validate you. Get it, r70? Maybe you enjoy the Its Get Better campaigns telling you it's wonderful to be a victim but I don't need anybody to hold my hand and wipe my tears. I choose self-empowerment through knowledge of reality.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||06/15/2012|
[post by racist shit-stain removed.]
|by Anonymous||reply 72||06/15/2012|
Erik Rhodes Insults a Little Old Lady
|by Anonymous||reply 73||06/15/2012|
R75, yes you have to defend them but not through giving them some warped promise that respect will come from the world. You have to teach them to respect themselves, then they are untouchable.
|by Anonymous||reply 77||06/15/2012|
R77, exatly. You are 100% correct.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||06/15/2012|
He was seriously troubled. No doubt about that.
It's easy to judge someone else without having to confront or admit our own guilt and remorse on an anonymous message board.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||06/15/2012|
r80. It's about power and alpha dog status.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||06/15/2012|
Anonymous asked Are u going to join the Amy Winehouse, Whitney Houston club anytime soon?
Erik replies The funny part about that was that i had a needle dangling from my arm when the news of Whitney came on the TV. I thought… “well this one is for you, dumb bitch”
|by Anonymous||reply 85||06/15/2012|
Does anyone know where on Long Island he was from? It keeps saying he was born on Long Island, but I'm curious the town as I grew up there.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||06/15/2012|
[quote]In time, I forgave them but the scars remain.
That's odd. I thought when you (genuinely) forgive people that it will heal the wounds (and frees you) from the traumatic past? I thought that was the main selling point for the whole forgiveness thing.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||06/16/2012|
Thanks for the input, Pollyanna, at r93. The real world is a bit more complicated than that.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||06/16/2012|
[post by racist shit-stain removed.]
|by Anonymous||reply 97||06/16/2012|
straights call masculine gay men "faggots" as well, r97
|by Anonymous||reply 98||06/16/2012|
There's a word for you, R99, but it isn't used much in high society . . . outside of a kennel.
|by Anonymous||reply 100||06/16/2012|
This guy was a piece of work, but sadly, there are gay men just like him still alive.
|by Anonymous||reply 101||06/16/2012|
Same old tired bullshit from R97.
|by Anonymous||reply 102||06/16/2012|
Erik Rhodes . Or James naughtin. I knew him personally. This is my Take on him in as little words as possible: a victim Of incest, sex addict in the highest form, narcissistic, self absorbed. SOCIOPATH. Disloyal, insecure, manipulative, sadistic as well as masochistic. I've never loved a man as much as I loved him. But a true sociopath wants your pity so he can work you like a fucking puppet. Go ahead and fall victim to his trickery, he gave a shit about no one but himself. His sexuality came from an extremely dark place. If you knew of the severe sexual abuse this man experienced, the idea of seeing him as an object of sexual desire would cease entirely. It did for me. If you knew of the thousands of sex partners he's taken, without limits or boundaries, because his boundaries were compromised at an early age. this man was so broken, and this was before the porn, or the crystal meth. I'm not sure we pity is the answer, that was his weapon of choice. But I will say this- his mother and stepfather should be ashamed that they created a monster, someone incapable of giving or receiving love. Someone obsessed with sex, and who betrayed him at an early age. You contributed to his self destructiveness,And the pain he caused so many others. I cannot help but love James Naughtin. But it came at the price of my own sanity. Some people are too toxic to engage any further. Nonetheless, may his internal suffering be over.
|by Anonymous||reply 103||06/17/2012|
That's okay. You're SOOOO hot Erik. I forgive you. You can throw every homosexual in an oven for all I care! I want to suck your cock! Or, I did at least! You are fascinating!
|by Anonymous||reply 104||06/17/2012|
Wow. Is R103 copied from antoher site/posting or is that posted here ?
Interesting to possibly be hearing from someone who claims to know (and still love) this guy. Pretty much describes what I expected. Sounds like Erik was (obviously) troubled from an early age .... but also btought a lot of trouble and pain to those who tried to care about him.
|by Anonymous||reply 105||06/17/2012|
Men generally think with their dicks, gay or straight. Righteous gay men call it sexual politics/ sexual liberation. Whatever.
Being a male myself, I prefer an alcoholic beverage. My dick shuts up and I can get on with life.
|by Anonymous||reply 106||06/17/2012|
Incest ? If so why does his twin turn out fine
|by Anonymous||reply 107||06/18/2012|
I have discovered he died some days ago and it really made me feel strange. I live in Brazil and I'm a christian - i've been trying to give up on homossexuality for a year or so. I used to watch his videos and stuff. There was even a video of him as a teacher in which he tops and bottoms. It was one of my ex-boyfriend's favorites (because he said it was cool seeing a big guy like him doing both). I unfortunately relate to James/Erik a lot because of an acid relation between my sexuality, looks, and inner reality. Shoot, I don't wanna die like him, but I'm as well as him I'm addicted to sex to the highest level, can never keep a relationship going without cheating, wrecked up my ex's mind because of a blend of jealousy, envy and mistreating, and I'm totally addicted to juicing/steroids and my body. What I look from the outside only depicts a small portion of me since I do act like a whore sometimes when I manhunt almost everywhere, but when I'm all by myself I wish I could be different. I hope God forgives me for being this kind of person, since I have been trying hard to change it 'cause I don't like being like this - just like James/Erik sometimes loathed being like that. I hope I could get to talk to someone who really knew him in person so I could talk some more ask about his true belieds... Best regards
|by Anonymous||reply 108||06/20/2012|
I'm not saying that all gay men are bad people. I'm saying that I related to him on that point where you don't wanna be like that but you still can't change that destructive behavior. That's why I feel like knowing more about him - so I can find out if he used to feel that dualistic way of thinking himself like me.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||06/20/2012|
In feel like I understand most any situation, even if I don't agree or feel the same way. However, I have trouble understanding when somebody intentionally hurts themselves to the point of suicide or when people kill other people.
I understand some destruction to ones body in persuit of fun or a high but I don't understand ppl like Erik. There is something I am missing. In hindsight the blog was all about documenting his slow, intentional palth to suicide. he was so twisted and sick. WTF happened to him and why did his twin turn out so normal?
|by Anonymous||reply 114||06/20/2012|
[quote]i've been trying to give up on homossexuality...
Is this 1950?
|by Anonymous||reply 115||06/20/2012|
can we let him rest in peace, he was a good friend. i wish i could have done more to help him.. you guys don't get it, people who hurt others are hurt themselves.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||06/20/2012|
Ya know what? All this does is confirm what everyone thought was actually going on with these type of guys in our youths.......their overbearing and obnoxious displays were nothing but a cover-up for deeply rooted insecurity about their sexuality. So next time you see someone acting like this in a school or work situation, your first thought about what's really eating at this guy and motivating him to be a complete moron is probably going to be spot on. Such a sad commentary on how society almost forces some people into mental illness.
|by Anonymous||reply 118||06/20/2012|
I knew James back when he worked as a stripper on Long Island. He was all of 19 and even though I could tell he didn't have the best home life, he tried to be kind and nice to everyone he met. We all make mistakes when we are young, he was no different. I hope he is now at peace and I hope his brother finds peace and comfort in knowing how much his twin loved him.
|by Anonymous||reply 119||11/17/2012|
Oh, well......he IS dead, and I don't think it was a "good" death. Heart attack, due to steroids, in his sleep, about 0530, June 2012. And boy, he was a miserable unhappy lout. BUT: he did not call the guy a fag because he called him out about teasing him, he called him a fag because he hit on him. a couple of losers. And, that is that.
|by Anonymous||reply 120||08/05/2013|
"Erik Rhodes .Or James naughtin. I knew him personally. This is my Take on him in as little words as possible: a victim Of incest, sex addict in the highest form, narcissistic, self absorbed. SOCIOPATH. Disloyal, insecure, manipulative, sadistic as well as masochistic. I've never loved a man as much as I loved him. But a true sociopath wants your pity so he can work you like a fucking puppet. Go ahead and fall victim to his trickery, he gave a shit about no one but himself. His sexuality came from an extremely dark place. If you knew of the severe sexual abuse this man experienced, the idea of seeing him as an object of sexual desire would cease entirely."
I think this is Chi Chi talking. Was he whored out as a child? This whole thing doesn't sound right.
|by Anonymous||reply 121||08/13/2013|
Why did you bump this thread up again eight months later, r120?
|by Anonymous||reply 122||08/13/2013|
R16 You really needed four paragraphs to say "good looking people get more attention"? I think I understand why you claim you know the bar scene. You sound like a typical drunk.
|by Anonymous||reply 123||08/13/2013|
Honey, do you realize you're trying to be cunty towards a poster from eight months ago? I don't think you're going to do a lot of damage at this point.
|by Anonymous||reply 124||08/13/2013|
Erik Rhodes bullied me at school. Then he died.
|by Anonymous||reply 125||08/15/2013|
Watching an old dvd of his now. For a homophobe, he seems to like putting the dick up into the other man. And having the other man put his dick up into him.
What kind of trauma did he suffer as a child? Steroid injections?
|by Anonymous||reply 126||08/19/2013|