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Anyone here have any Str8 male friends who liked to get "pegged" by their wives/girlfriends?

Inquiring minds wanna know.

by Anonymousreply 12506/04/2015

What does "pegged" mean?

by Anonymousreply 111/01/2011

Well then they're not straight then are they?

by Anonymousreply 211/01/2011

"Pegging" = ass-fucking with a strap-on

by Anonymousreply 311/01/2011

so interesting. 100% gay here and have no desire to get fucked.

So i believe you can be 100% straight and crave anal penetration but not be attracted to guys.

by Anonymousreply 411/01/2011

They're still having sex with a woman, not a man, R2.

by Anonymousreply 511/01/2011

then why do they want to be fucked up the ass by a penis like object then R5 Gaydegayitygaygay is what they are .

by Anonymousreply 911/01/2011

[quote]fucked up the ass by a penis like object then

Well you certainly can't be fucked by a vagina-shaped object, can you? Don't be so dense.

by Anonymousreply 1011/01/2011

Prostates are not exclusive to gay men, R2.

If it feels good, people will do it.

by Anonymousreply 1111/01/2011

[quote]So i believe you can be 100% straight and crave anal penetration but not be attracted to guys.

Of course. It's when they start sucking the dildo that I get suspicious.

by Anonymousreply 1211/01/2011

Oh wait R10 I get it now that's why they do it. This desire to be fucked by a large phallic object by a seemingly straight man is perfectly natural then.Thank you for clearing that up.

by Anonymousreply 1311/01/2011

I suspect that any straight man with such proclivities would not be anxious to discuss his experiences with friends.

by Anonymousreply 1611/01/2011

I don't think this really has to have anything to do with being gay - unless the object was truly a penis. In this case, I think it has more to do with loss of control, being dominated, being fully submissive to a woman and actually, being used.

Could be gay related, but doesn't have to be.

by Anonymousreply 1711/01/2011

I used to work with a guy who was at least straight in practice, though we had a pretty flirty relationship. He told me that he had a suitcase full of anal sex toys that his girlfriend used on him.

Like many "straight" guys, he had enough gay curiosity that after a little alcohol to loosen the inhibitions, he let me know that he could probably be had. Didn't go there, though.

by Anonymousreply 1811/01/2011

Thank you proving my point R18 "Straight" their ass they are. At the very least they have to be bi.

by Anonymousreply 1911/01/2011

It really is as simple as that R11.

It is so sad when gay men don't understand what being gay means. Being gay means you are attracted to men (and not women). It has NOTHING to do with whether or not it feels good when your prostate is stimulated.

by Anonymousreply 2111/01/2011

R21, of course. BUT...men who are gay want their prostates stimulated by MEN. Men who are straight want their prostates stimulated by WOMEN. That's it. End of story. A LOT of gay men fail to understand this. They are not stimulating the prostates of straight men as much as this turns them off.

by Anonymousreply 2211/01/2011

I didn't prove your point, R19. I just gave one anecdote about one guy who was functionally heterosexual in practice, but who also had some level of bi-curiosity. I have no idea if he ever actually followed through.

I think there are plenty of men who are not sexually attracted to other men, but who also like to have their prostates pleasured.

by Anonymousreply 2311/01/2011

No sweetie. A single example can not ever do that.

by Anonymousreply 2511/01/2011

One of my oldest, straightest male friends has admitted to liking it when his wife fingers his ass during a blow job.

He had never had it done before, and she just sort of surprised him with it....now it is part of their day-to-day.

And there is nothing gay about him at all.

by Anonymousreply 2611/01/2011

I know two quite well. We've even compared notes whn drunk. They're still straight though

by Anonymousreply 2811/01/2011

R27, you are THAT hot. I agree.

BUT...these were not straight, bisexual or gay. deal with it, babe. I know it pains you and it lowers your ego about how hot you are, but you need to realize that these were gay or bisexual men who not only fucked you, but lots, and LOTS of other guys too. You just never knew about it.

by Anonymousreply 2911/01/2011

bi and in denial the lot of them.

They remind of men in prison who go gay for the duration of their sentence "cuz it doesn't count when you're inside".Yeah I bet it doesn't

by Anonymousreply 3011/01/2011

These sexual scientists who call themselves "straight" have many test tubes, and many labratories that only employee men. They are experimenting often, always, and forever.

by Anonymousreply 3111/01/2011

I heard Prince Albert got pegged by Pink during a threeway with Christina Aguilara after one of the World Music Award shows.

by Anonymousreply 3211/01/2011

R30, those guys have gay sex in prison, and out of prison. You know it.

by Anonymousreply 3311/01/2011

Wow. How completely clueless some of you are. 99 times out of a 100 a straight man will not admit to another man if he likes even a finger in his ass.

It usually is the female that will talk about it with other women.

R11 speaks the truth and if some of you can't grasp that then you are truly dim and shortsighted.

by Anonymousreply 3411/01/2011

Is a lesbian who gets fucked by a woman wearing a strap-on straight? Does a gay man who only tops, putting his dick into "vagina-like" mouths and asses, secretly want to be straight?

Your sexuality does not change the myriad ways your body can experience pleasure. Sad that these straight guys are more open minded than some queer men.

by Anonymousreply 3511/01/2011

Men who seek out sex with men are gay or bisexual. Period.

by Anonymousreply 3611/01/2011

[quote]Does a gay man who only tops, putting his dick into "vagina-like" mouths and asses, secretly want to be straight?

That makes no sense.

If a straight man is into kink, like having his ass fingered, he will seek out a female to do such things. No men.

by Anonymousreply 3711/01/2011

I'm not disagreeing with you, R37. I'm replying to the argument that by allowing a phallic sex object to give him pleasure, he is automatically gay.

by Anonymousreply 3811/01/2011

I could contribute I guess, but I can't get past cringing at the idea of a woman't long fingernail up in my cooter.

by Anonymousreply 3911/01/2011

all I know is your all GAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.

by Anonymousreply 4011/01/2011

R39, if you're going to stick your fingers into someone, male or female, it's only polite to trim your fingernails. That's why most lesbians have short fingernails.

by Anonymousreply 4111/01/2011

I've been told by straight guys that they love getting nailed. So, yes to OP's question, but even more: they want the woman to command him. Smack him around, dominate him, and let him know what a filthy and shameful whore he is. And, yes, straight men love this.

by Anonymousreply 4311/01/2011

[quote]I suspect that any straight man with such proclivities would not be anxious to discuss his experiences with friends.

they are if they're uptight douchebags. a lot of straight guys aren't that way

by Anonymousreply 4411/01/2011

I have a straight female friend who loves assplay but instead of a guy penetrating her, she gets off on fingering them (which then she works up to dildo play). I don't think any of her boyfriends have ever said no to the dildo. Apparently she takes her time getting them used to getting fingered during oral before she moves onto something bigger. In real life shes really sweet and caring yet I wouldn't be surprised if she had a secret dominating side in bed and thus attracts men into that type of control from a woman.

by Anonymousreply 4611/01/2011

Yes.

by Anonymousreply 4711/01/2011

ive seen 1 or 2 "straight couples" on Cam4 but most that i come across are guys alone with dildos and high on meth or something I still have a problem with the "im straight and self suck" guys. I saw one doing himself- sucking and i thought i dont think that is still straight..more like bent jajaja

by Anonymousreply 4811/02/2011

Francis would if you could get rid of the wife part.

by Anonymousreply 4911/02/2011

R11 is correct. I have straight male friends who did tell me how they liked to have their GF or wife rim them, massage their prostate with a finger or two, and a few told me how they took a vibrator but they didn't get "pegged" or fucked by a woman with a strapon dildo.

by Anonymousreply 5011/02/2011

Whether they know it or not, most men need some anal

by Anonymousreply 5111/02/2011

R45 is correct, those men and women who are having same or even opposite gender sexual experiences are bisexual, not gay or lesbian.

Secondly you don't have to be gay or bisexual to enjoy internal prostate stimulation.

I've met straight people who think that I take it up the ass but actually I don't like receptive anal sex.

by Anonymousreply 5211/05/2011

Honestly if a girl asked to peg me.. I would drop my pants down and bend over(;

by Anonymousreply 5302/15/2013

I do! He's almost 400 pounds and is named Larry and he used to work in the storeroom at a local Marshall's before he got canned.

Do you still want to hear the details?

by Anonymousreply 5402/15/2013

Prostates are exclusive to gay men. If a guy wants to exclusively have sex with women, then he's straight, even if that means he's constantly taking it in the ass.

by Anonymousreply 5602/15/2013

*aren't* exclusive to gay men.

Whoops.

by Anonymousreply 5702/15/2013

[quote]then why do they want to be fucked up the ass by a penis like object then

That's one of the dumbest things ever posted at DL. OTOH, maybe r9 likes to get fucked with a snow shovel or washing machine.

by Anonymousreply 5802/15/2013

I know a writer of a very well known show that is into this

Its something to be said though, when I first met him he pinged so hard! Mind the pun.

by Anonymousreply 5908/14/2013

Let me guess, R59, it's Matthew Weiner, right?

by Anonymousreply 6008/15/2013

I always give props to straight guys who are willing to try anal play/prostrate stimulation. A lot are too freaked out to even see if it is something they might like. Rather sad really, the guys out there who might love it but never have the balls to even see.

by Anonymousreply 6108/15/2013

Cam4 is full of straight guys who bang themselves with various objects for cash but don't want or experience men.

They can be EXTREMELY homophobic, too.

by Anonymousreply 6208/15/2013

Straight men who tend to be submissive at times, enjoy a finger or tongue massage, or a dildo up their ass, or even getting pegged. More dominant types like to do it to their women.

by Anonymousreply 6308/15/2013

Simon Pegged!

by Anonymousreply 6608/15/2013

r9 That is like saying lesbians that use strap ons actually like dick. That would be a bizarre and homophobic. While I think it is strange for a straight guy to want to be penetrated, jumping to the conclusion that he is gay is hypocritical.

by Anonymousreply 6808/15/2013

I have two very open-minded straight male friends who have no problems discussing the fact that prostate stimulation gives them mind-blowing orgasms. They're not into *only* being pegged, however; more like their gfs sticking a couple fingers up their bums while the girls are being fucked.

I do have one rather "prim" female friend who came to me a few years ago, rather mortified. (Imagine a blonde version of SATC's Charlotte.) I was half expecting her to confess some horribly sordid deed, but it turned out all she wanted was advice on selecting a "small" anal device, since her new-ish bf had recently confessed his enjoyment of prostate stimulation to her. I whisked her off to the nearest "female pleasures" store and helped her pick out a "starter model," along with an explanation of the basic of lube. (It hadn't occurred to the poor dear that men, unlike women, do not self-lubricate, never mind that women only lubricate "up front.") It seems he rather enjoyed her initiative, but alas, they broke up shortly thereafter for unrelated reasons.

by Anonymousreply 6908/15/2013

Back in the Dark Ages, aka my early 20s when I still dated guys here and there, I dated a guy who was very submissive, and in the spirit of adventure, he agreed to let me peg him. He ended up really enjoying it, asking me to do it a few more times, and being really embarrassed about it every time. He's still straight and married to this day, nearly 15 years later, and to my knowledge has never dated a man and is very happy with his wife.

He would have the most violent, spine-curling orgasms whenever his prostate got massaged with that dildo. He barely needed any other stimulation, and he said that the orgasm was very different than the ones he had with just a vagina, hand or mouth. I thought it was interesting, in a sort of scientific way.

by Anonymousreply 7008/15/2013

The guy Spencer on Big Brother right now has often said on the 24 hour thread of having thoughts of strap ons.

by Anonymousreply 7108/15/2013

Very interesting, indeed, my dear old lesbian, r70.

I believe they exist, but are extremely rare. Most of my platonic friends are straight men and lesbians. I've met a precious few guys who are genuinely bisexual. They are emotionally attached to women but like certain guys on an aesthetic basis and are absolutely not interested in receiving prostate stimulation.

Not one of my current straight male friends, no matter how liberal, open-minded, or kinky, has ever told me that he's interested in being "pegged". A few have tried it, but it wasn't something they'd want to pursue again, and certainly not with a male.

I did meet one male co-worker in the Dark Ages in 1980 before there was religious stigma against homosexuality. We were both young, great looking, and horny. He was very handsome, short, and had a cute bubble-butt. He attracted a lot of top gay men and really wanted to understand and try homosexuality.

We got drunk and stoned and I fucked him a few times at his behest. I prefer being a bottom. He eventually got into it physically, but is just not into guys. He absolutely loved it when I gave him blow jobs but his eyes were always shut tight and he was clearly thinking about one or more of the Charlie's Angels. We never kissed; I think that would have grossed him out.

None of my other straight male friends has ever expressed an interest in being "pegged" either by their gf's/wives/or other guys. Meanwhile, I love prostate stimulation, but half the fun comes from the intimacy of being with another guy; it just wouldn't be the same with a woman with a dildo. While I could probably orgasm, it's not something I'd choose to do regularly, and that's I suppose what makes me gay.

I strongly believe that I am biologically gay. There might be a small element of "preference" but that's uncomfortable.

You and I might have some fun stories to exchange, but isn't it nice to just feel happy and natural to be with someone of the same gender? It goes on way beyond plumbing and physics.

by Anonymousreply 7208/15/2013

R60 'When God closes a door...'

by Anonymousreply 7308/15/2013

R68, As a doctor friend once explained, many men love having their prostrate stimulated. It has nothing to do with being straight or gay.

by Anonymousreply 7408/15/2013

Yes. This is one of the main topics of conversation among straight guys.

by Anonymousreply 7508/15/2013

actually, i've had straight friends ask for advice about this, they all seem to be into it

by Anonymousreply 7608/15/2013

Giving up control to a female and letting her do as she wills is my pleasure from pegging. Yes it feels that good that I will follow orders and be rewarded. And for that time my stress levels are non existant.

by Anonymousreply 7703/01/2014

Younger men are getting away from the idea that all anal play is gay. They hear about what feels good and they want to try it.

by Anonymousreply 7803/01/2014

lol #75

by Anonymousreply 7903/03/2014

Ha! Former Aston Villa goalie Stefan Postma loved to be pegged. He jilted his girlfriend who put up a tape on the interweb in retaliation.

NSFW, obviously.

by Anonymousreply 8003/03/2014

I am gay but based on the straight porn I watch (where the guys are hot) the women eagerly lick the asses of Manuel Ferrara and Ramon Nomar.

Therefore it only goes to figure that if women are already into licking straight guy's asses, in reality pegging is the next logical step.

by Anonymousreply 8103/03/2014

bump

by Anonymousreply 8203/05/2014

A lot of straight guys don't mind if a finger is stuck up their ass while their ladyfriend is blowing them but a strap on? I don't think so.

by Anonymousreply 8403/07/2014

Unlikely to be gay, just secure in their sexuality and want to have adventurous sex. Rare to find a 100% straight individual at any rate.

by Anonymousreply 8503/21/2014

I have a friend who let his girlfriend fuck him with a dildo. He kept begging her to let him fuck her ass and she told him the only way that was going to happen if he would let her fuck him with a dildo first. He let her do it! He said it didn't feel that bad and he kind of liked it. He did say that he fucked the shit out of her ass after.

by Anonymousreply 8604/04/2014

I also have a straight friend who has been fucked by his girlfriend with a dildo. I was shocked when he told me one drunk night.

by Anonymousreply 8704/05/2014

I'ma a straight male and the first time I let a girl fuck me with a strap on was to make her give up her asshole. She told me if she let me in her ass she got to buy a strap on as close to my size as possible. (Not little at all...8) Anyhow, I was hooked after that. It's not easy asking but it's most definitely worth it if you find a girl who's down.

by Anonymousreply 8905/20/2014

My research has shown that 92% want it - that is, straight men who want something up their butt: 55% of those don't care what it is, 31% want something dick-like, the rest want a real dick.

Of the 86% who want a female doing the work: 50% of them are afraid to ask, 40% ask but are refused, the remainder get the action and love it

Responses are somewhat suspect in this section. Does not account for the 95% who are already doing it themselves.

by Anonymousreply 9005/20/2014

A strap on in a straight guys ass, is the gateway, to wanting to know what a real flesh & blood penis feels like.

by Anonymousreply 9105/20/2014

I'm dying for a hot bi-chick to bust my ass cherry

by Anonymousreply 9206/19/2014

Not so much a friend as a (now former) coworker...she mentioned she was ordering a strap-on in the mail. I asked some time later how it went, she said he didn't like it. I think she felt kind of bad for revealing so much, so I never brought it up again.

by Anonymousreply 9306/19/2014

r94 = Queen of Denial

by Anonymousreply 9506/19/2014

got to read this

by Anonymousreply 9606/19/2014

You've got that right, R91.

by Anonymousreply 9706/22/2014

[quote]I'ma a straight male and the first time I let a girl fuck me with a strap on was to make her give up her asshole. She told me if she let me in her ass she got to buy a strap on as close to my size as possible. (Not little at all...8) Anyhow, I was hooked after that. It's not easy asking but it's most definitely worth it if you find a girl who's down.

It's not because you let girls fuck you up the ass with dildos that I think you're gay. It's because you're posting on Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 9806/22/2014

Why do women let guys do it? There's no prostate so it's a lot of pain for nothing.

by Anonymousreply 9906/22/2014

They like getting the index finger shoved up their asshole to ejaculate, I know that much. As soon as the old finger goes in, they cum without hesitation.

They are oblivious to the fact their asses are like cunts!

by Anonymousreply 10006/22/2014

Clorox cleans the residual poop.

by Anonymousreply 10106/22/2014

Well everyone here whines on about the stimulation of the prostate, so as all men have a prostate, why not. Personally it doesn't cut it for me and just feels weird.

by Anonymousreply 10206/22/2014

HOT STRT8 Ramon Nomar sweat-fucks a big-boobed blonde. This fucker is one hot stud.

by Anonymousreply 10306/23/2014

he's hot as hell, but he doesn't get pegged, shoot

by Anonymousreply 10406/23/2014

So I've had sex with a man before. I'm not exactly attracted to men, but I do enjoy getting fucked. I can see how this may be conflicting. However, because most women are turned off by a "bi" man, and most assume you're gay if you enjoy getting fucked. Honestly I'm really only attracted to women, but since I can't find one to fuck me, I've resorted to a man to do the job. It's somewhat similar to a kid in college just wanting to get his rocks off, but not being able to find an attractive partner, and ends up bringing home the not so attractive girl at the party simply because she will actually sleep with him and get the job done. Men sometimes view the world simply based on utility. I know some of you will instantly dismiss this and call me gay, but that won't change the fact that I'm still only attracted to women despite having had sex with a man. And there is such a huge double standard. because if a girl was to hookup with another girl, people say she's just ding it for attention or merely experimenting. if a guy does the same thing he becomes branded. but this is how our society works. And this is why I'm posting anonymously. because once you are "branded" gay, it nearly impossible to find a woman who will be interested in you unless they don't know you.

by Anonymousreply 10508/06/2014

They're all on Craigslist begging for a top. They can't go on Grindr, etc. because they have to remain anonymous.

by Anonymousreply 10608/09/2014

Didn't some whore say she pegged Alec BALDWIN?

Any other male celebrities who are allegedly straight known to be up for a good pegging?

by Anonymousreply 10708/09/2014

Hot pegging video! Enjoy!

by Anonymousreply 10808/09/2014

I love getting pegged and Im straight

by Anonymousreply 10912/23/2014

I worked with a guy who told me his girlfriend used to fuck him with a strap on.

He liked it and they would do it often.

Why he was telling me this I don't know but he did.

He was a freaky little guy.

by Anonymousreply 11012/23/2014

R108, that is hot, and frankly, most of the straight men I know well would find it hot too and would love to be ass fucked every night.

by Anonymousreply 11112/23/2014

My husband nearly throws a rod if my finger gets too close to his hole. I am pretty sure that many straight men would love assplay were it not for their fear of it signaling something in their own little minds. I don't mean to cast any aspersions towards my gay friends here, but someone did ask, and most of you guys will admit that straight men have a deep seated fear of being latently homosexual.

by Anonymousreply 11212/23/2014

There's definitely going to be some sort of stigma attached to it unless the couple are into other kinky things. I know most straight guys don't mind a finger- they view it as very sexually adventurous.

To pick up on a thread from earlier... lots of straight guys experiment in their teens and twenties. They're curious about what gay sex feels like, if men give better blowjobs than women, what a man's ass feels like and some are even curious about having an intense orgasm while getting fucked.

But very few of the otherwise straight guys I messed around with at that age turned out to be gay. And while it's pretty easy to seduce another 22 year old, it's not that easy to seduce a 32 year old. People stop experimenting.

It's sad that women can go back and forth across the gay line without any flack, but for guys, it's suck one dick and you're gay. Forever. Sort of like vampires.

by Anonymousreply 11312/23/2014

^^It's also, I learned, a way for a certain type of guy, who thinks he is incredibly liberal and open minded, to prove that, so that he can say he tried gay sex once and it wasn't for him, but he understands it.

by Anonymousreply 11412/23/2014

Is there any woman out there who would like to peg me?

by Anonymousreply 11501/03/2015

r105, gay top guy here would love to meet someone like you for NSA fucking. How do you find guys?

by Anonymousreply 11601/03/2015

My wife and I have been doing this for a while. I love the feel and the fact that she is dominating me in that situation. It takes time to get into a good rhythm back there, but with patience it is quite erotic. To those that say that I, and everyone who likes this are gay, that is just your hillbilly backwoods, uneducated, stuck back in time, dumbass mentality. By your reasoning if you like to get blow jobs then, because that is a staple in the gay community, you must be gay. I am repulsed by the thought of a man in any kind of emotional or sexual manner. I wish that you would learn to oull yourselves out of the dark ages and learn to experience the multitude of ways you can experience pleasure, rather than scared that your latent homosexual tendencies will eventually take over. I am straight, love getting pegged by MY WIFE and am not ashamed.

by Anonymousreply 11703/15/2015

Why would any straight guys tell their gay friends about this?

Unless they're looking for some action.

by Anonymousreply 11803/15/2015

I would love to find a woman near joplin that would peg me. Any takers?

by Anonymousreply 11905/11/2015

I am a female who really doesn't like putting sexual orientation nor gender labels on my self.. But anyways, I am dating a woman currently(never been w/ a man, and I am in my 40's), this is the first true long term relationship I have ever had, most the others were temp booty-call affairs.. Well she is a self proclaimed lesbian, and doesn't seem to fond of men in general, but she does massages for a living, body-rubs; and almost all of her clients are male, and yes she gives them the happy ending, but never lets them penetrate her. She has told me she gets a right many men wanting her to peg them w/ a strap-on...lol. Yeah, she does that. So yes, lots of str8 men do like it i the ass. One wanted her to fuck him with a broom, handle end, of course, because he was raped by his step dad that way and claimed he liked it.. she turned that one down. Another showed up with butt beads made of golf balls.. it didn't work to well. But you know what they say.. the customer is always right.

by Anonymousreply 12005/11/2015

This is largely a generational thing. I've seen guys on this board claim that none of their male friends would admit to wanting to be fingered while being blown...Whereas today's younger generation (under 30), guys are less worried about being open about ass play, or anything sexual for that matter.

I bet more guys would be into getting pegged if they gave it some time. As a gay guy, it took at least 10-20 times getting fucked before I learned how to process it and eventually enjoy it. Straight dudes who may give pegging a chance probably don't have the incentive to give it multiple goes until they figure it out.

by Anonymousreply 12105/11/2015

i am a mature man (saxonyman@web.de) and i like it get pegging. the problem: it is very difficult to find the right partner

by Anonymousreply 12206/02/2015

[quote] today's younger generation (under 30), guys are less worried about being open about ass play, or anything sexual for that matter.

It's a whole new world out there.

by Anonymousreply 12306/03/2015

it's a hole new world out there too!

by Anonymousreply 12406/03/2015

And more and more guys are discovering the ins and outs of pegging.

by Anonymousreply 12506/04/2015
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