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If a straight guy offers to have sex with you as long as straight porn is playing in the room

Would you do it?

by Anonymousreply 24202/19/2013

Yes.

Yes.

And... yes.

by Anonymousreply 110/29/2011

no

by Anonymousreply 210/29/2011

I don't know. It seems a bit degrading.

by Anonymousreply 310/29/2011

Considering that I like to jack off to straight porn sometimes, then, yeah, now problem.

As long as he likes to get fucked.

by Anonymousreply 410/29/2011

Nope, want a guy to enjoy having sex with me. Not to fake it!

by Anonymousreply 510/29/2011

Why not?

by Anonymousreply 710/29/2011

Oh hell yea! My favorite males are those "Curious/Bi" guys that just want to get off. When I was around 16 or so, I had a friend who was a jock on the football team and very...very sexy. One night, while we were watching porn (Straight) at his house while his parents were away...he pulled out his dick and began to jack off. That's all it took...I sucked that beautiful cock for many years even after he got married and used that wonderful tool of his to father 4 children. 30 years later...we are still friends, but he doesn't "Do that" anymore; pity as he is a hot man now.

by Anonymousreply 810/29/2011

Would I? The better question would be how many times have I?

by Anonymousreply 910/29/2011

I've had a couple straight guys over. I blew them while I showed a straight porno on the TV. They just wanted a mouth, and I just wanted a dick.

by Anonymousreply 1010/29/2011

Only if I wanted to have sex with the guy. I like straight porn a lot myself and could certainly get into having sex with a hot guy - no matter how he defines his sexual orientation - while hot straight porn was plaing.

However, I would suggest that the guy approaching me, a male, for sex, is either gay or bi, not straight. By definition.

Your question seems to imply that I would want to have sex with just any "straight guy" who made this proposition. I can assure you that I don't want to have sex with just any guy, whether he's gay, bi or straight.

by Anonymousreply 1110/29/2011

He certainly would not be getting fucked, which is fine with me, but he probably won't give oral or kiss either.

by Anonymousreply 1210/29/2011

Hi Momma/Noodles!

by Anonymousreply 1310/29/2011

If you think Momma or Noodles would be asking this question you need to hand in your DL license.

by Anonymousreply 1410/29/2011

I'm with R11 yes I would do it. I'm not into watching porn while I have sex but then again I'd be having sex with a man.

Hypothetically I also don't like having sex with just "any guy" as I have my certain type.

I also have never met any actual straight or heterosexual guy who has or wants to have sex with another man, these men are at least bisexual or gay.

by Anonymousreply 1510/29/2011

Y'all some hoes up in here.

by Anonymousreply 1610/29/2011

Y-E-S

by Anonymousreply 1810/29/2011

If the guy is hot, I sure would. I need cock. There's something exciting about bringing a straight guy to orgasm who may never had a blow job before.

by Anonymousreply 1910/29/2011

How about a video answer?

by Anonymousreply 2110/29/2011

Straight men don't have gay sex.

by Anonymousreply 2210/29/2011

I've had three who did in my long career.

by Anonymousreply 2310/29/2011

Bisexual or gay men. Not straight men.

by Anonymousreply 2410/29/2011

Why do gay men believe these are straight men they are fucking? What's the psychology behind it? Is it really self-loathing? Or is it a form of narcissism?

by Anonymousreply 2510/29/2011

it's fresh meat r25

by Anonymousreply 2610/29/2011

I wouldn't. Why would I want to be used like that?

by Anonymousreply 2710/29/2011

This happens to me all the time, especially with younger guys. They're the ones doing the pursuit, and who have scenarios in mind all laid out, and then the screen comes on splayed pussy and the sound of a woman's voice squealing to the slap-slap-slap of it all plays in the background.

If I observe them watching the porn, I invite them to devote their full attention to it - and I split. Since I'm not into servicing in these situations with the guy less than invested in what's going on, I can pass on the appeal of phony straights and the porn boost.

I guess this isn't really what the OP is asking - I've never had a straight guy say he needs straight porn. The truly straight(ish) guys I've had sex with - horny, Ecstasy-wild, experimental, or just feeling the need for company with a body - were focused on the sex, not on anything else.

by Anonymousreply 2810/29/2011

[quote]I also have never met any actual straight or heterosexual guy who has or wants to have sex with another man, these men are at least bisexual or gay.

Only if they want to suck YOUR dick. Or kiss, or get fucked.

They're not getting turned on by your looks, that's what the straight porn is for.

BTW, straight guys have been fucking farm animals for thousands of years.

Any port in a storm.

by Anonymousreply 2910/29/2011

Yeah, why not?

by Anonymousreply 3010/29/2011

Is he hot?

by Anonymousreply 3110/29/2011

Yeah, I don't care if he's straight. I'm getting off and don't care if he does.

by Anonymousreply 3210/29/2011

Why is he offering, OP? Is he just curious or are you paying him?

by Anonymousreply 3310/29/2011

"I like to jack off to straight porn sometimes"

What do you like about it? Why watch it?

by Anonymousreply 3410/29/2011

R29 not all hetero men are into having sex with farm animals.

Any guy who has sex with another man and it's not prison rape and he seeks out a male partner-despite the whole not sucking dick, bottoming for anal sex, or kissing is clearly NOT hetero or straight at all.

by Anonymousreply 3510/29/2011

I never understood why this is suppose to "ungay" everything, when this happens in porn, as if you can't see the big man you're having sex, for what's playing on tv.

by Anonymousreply 3610/29/2011

It's also no surprise that so many gay/bi pretend to be straight to get gay men who would otherwise not be attracted to them..because they're gay.

by Anonymousreply 3710/29/2011

In a New York minute.

by Anonymousreply 3810/29/2011

Then there are men who are so uncomfortable with their sexuality and want what they can't ever have that have the #1 fantasy of actually having sex with a real heterosexual man.

It's not just bisexual and gay men who are younger or just coming out either who are like this.

by Anonymousreply 3910/29/2011

There's a guy in my building who I don't find especially attractive. But he gives amazing head. So every now and then, I pop by, he puts a (gay) porn film on, and I watch the video while he sucks me off. It's kinda the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 4010/29/2011

No.

by Anonymousreply 4110/29/2011

Eh, sure. Why not -- so long as he's really hot.

by Anonymousreply 4210/29/2011

I've done it before. I have a straight buddy I suck off regularly. I've actually posted pictures on DL. He was the buddy who wanted me to bring a sandwich as well :). He watches str8 porn while I suck him. He actually sometimes watches videos he has made of himself fucking women.

Amazing cock - I mean absolutely amazing cock. Amazing enough for me to travel from west Chelsea to the lower LES. NYers will understand what kind of commitment that is.

And the guys saying it's degrading and a bad thing are just completely out of touch. Some of the hottest sex can be completely degrading.

by Anonymousreply 4310/30/2011

R43, it can also be degrading to convince yourself that the man you are with is straight when he is really not.

by Anonymousreply 4410/30/2011

LMAO no guy that has sex with another man even if it's getting sucked off is actually hetero or straight, who actually believes that?

by Anonymousreply 4510/30/2011

Most of DL, it seems, R45

by Anonymousreply 4610/30/2011

Why only 1 guy? As the straight guy to invite some of his buddies over, then suck off each one. Nothing better than a stomach full of the semen of at least 5 straight men. With the fear of AIDS and STD's with all the slutty gay men around, I think straight men are an untouched resource for the kind of sex gay men enjoyed in the 70's....no condoms, just raunchy exchange of wonderful fluids!

by Anonymousreply 4710/30/2011

Why do some of you want to suck straight cock anyway?

Let's assume for the moment that these guys are straight (and that's a big if). Even if they are, why do you want to suck something that has been inside a pussy?

by Anonymousreply 4810/30/2011

R49 not to mention licking an asshole or rimming it.

I'm not into rimming at all and I don't understand why lots of people of all orientations are? There are so many other places on a man I'd rather lick or put my mouth instead of his asshole.

I have friends who got different types of Hepatitis that way.

by Anonymousreply 5010/30/2011

hell yeah i've done. Had a regular FB for about 5 years, off and on. Hot dude, 5'8, 140, shaved head, smooth tight body, got more muscular as the years went on.

he was pretty messed up (he used to show up high on something) and he'd always want str8 porn playing. He would tell me he was str8, he'd mention his gf, but in bed we did a lot. Mostly I would service him, but then he'd service me, he would kiss though not a lot (he only intiated it once).

He loved to get rimmed and would rim me. The two times we had a 3 some he found another guy to come over who fucked him bareback.

So yeah, not sure how "str8" he really was, but he definitely thought he was and always used the str8 porn.

by Anonymousreply 5110/30/2011

For all those who insist on coming in here and proclaiming again and again and again - HE'S NOT STRAIGHT, HE'S GAY IF HE'S HAVING SEX WITH GUY (and by the way, I have to assume you are the same people who proclaim to kids on Christmas morning there is no Santa Claus, no Tooth Fairy when they get money, and walk into churches screaming there is no God) - it doesn't matter. At the end of the day, what they truly are is irrelevant. It's what they think they are, who they define themselves at that moment in their own head - if they see themselves as straight, then that's what they are - and that's what sets up the dynamic that gets people off. No one needs the gay / straight identity police to come in and try and kill others get-off buzz.

by Anonymousreply 5210/30/2011

R52, so all of the closeted and in denial gay men who are married to women who proclaim that they are LOL "straight" yet hook up with men on the down low are really actually straight/heterosexual then. *rolls eyes*

by Anonymousreply 5310/30/2011

god, you refuse to understand because you are so intent on being right - gay or straight, the reality when you are with that man, doesn't matter. It's what he thinks he is, even if it's the wrong label. He BELIEVES he's straight, that's all that matters when having sex with a 'straight' guy.

by Anonymousreply 5410/30/2011

These men are either bisexual or gay.

Why would any actual straight guy seek out sex with a bisexual or gay man when there are tons of women out there for him to either pick up, date, or pay to have sex with him?

The only straight guys who actually have sex with men are the ones in prison that get turned out as someone's prison bitch, and gang raped by other inmates.

by Anonymousreply 5510/30/2011

r8, r10, How did you guys navigate the issue of who was gay and who was not?

How was this kept hidden?

Have others here "fooled around" with "Straight men" who went on to marry and have children?

by Anonymousreply 5612/19/2011

No. I have too much self-respect to put up with such nonsense.

by Anonymousreply 5712/19/2011

What r55 said.

LOTS of delusional queens on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 5812/19/2011

Sure I'd do it with a "straight" guy providing there was a certain amount of chemistry and I was at least fairly attracted to him. And if--and this is a big if--if he was not expecting me to do all the work and only service him.

I expect a fair amount of mutual participation. He doesn't have to a every sexual act if he's not comfortable with doing certain things--but he cannot just lay there and do nothing. I'll help him along, but he has to participate somewhat.

by Anonymousreply 5912/19/2011

I just posted this in another thread, but I'm a gay male who loves watching straight porn, so it wouldn't be a problem at all.

by Anonymousreply 6012/19/2011

What R1 said.

yes. absolutely.

In fact, did it before. It was hot.

Would totally do it again.

by Anonymousreply 6112/19/2011

Agree with R55, except that all the ones in prison are having Gay sex, not just the ones who have "feminine" role.

by Anonymousreply 6212/19/2011

Stop bumping up these old threads you shit eating queen!

by Anonymousreply 6312/19/2011

R63 stop trying to control the board you fucking hall monitor.

by Anonymousreply 6412/20/2011

oNLY if the dude is very hot, STD-free, muscular, and has high morals.

by Anonymousreply 6512/20/2011

Sure, why not? No one is getting hurt.

by Anonymousreply 6612/20/2011

Yeah in my teens I gave a straight friend a blowjob while he was watching straight porn. I even let him put a blanket over me so he didn't have to see me going down him.

by Anonymousreply 6712/20/2011

Absolutely. I do it regularly, though I am not sure I would call it sex. Perhaps "one way sex" is a more accurate description. I have a married bud who likes to get serviced while watching straight porn. He's in good shape and has a huge cock and I basically suck him off and rim his ass (after a shower). He says his wife is bad at one and won't do the other (guess which). So I am providing a "service," I guess. He eats, shoots and leaves as it were. A good time is had by all.

by Anonymousreply 6812/20/2011

If the guy was majorly hot and those were the only conditions possible.

by Anonymousreply 6912/20/2011

It depends on the guy, but straight porn doesn't bother me.

by Anonymousreply 7012/20/2011

I once went out with a guy who back in college would let his straight roommate fuck him doggy style while the guy looked at a straight porno magazine resting on his back. At first I laughed, but after thinking about it a little while, I had to admit it is kind of hot.

by Anonymousreply 7112/20/2011

I had sex with "straight" men when I was younger. They do not respect you. I know that for DL that probably does not matter, but I would not have sex with them now.

by Anonymousreply 7212/20/2011

Wonder if this is the same OP as the rimming and blow job of straight men OP.

If so, another dolup of information: these are not straight men. They are probably at least bisexual, most likely they have enough homophobia that they cannot have sex with you unless the straight porn is on- not for them, but for you. I mean, they're straight dude.

by Anonymousreply 7312/20/2011

Would you blow Chaz Bono if straight porn was playing?

by Anonymousreply 7412/20/2011

I have necked with a guy and sucked his cock until he got hard and then he fucked my ass

by Anonymousreply 7512/29/2011

hhh

by Anonymousreply 7612/29/2011

R74, Chaz Bono still has a twat. There's no peen to blow.

by Anonymousreply 7712/29/2011

Only if the sound was turned down and "Liza with a Z" was blaring in the background.

by Anonymousreply 7812/29/2011

Does the pope shit in the woods?

by Anonymousreply 7912/29/2011

What's with the "hetero guys have sex with men!" trolls bumping up old threads?

If a guy is actually hetero or straight he's not going to have sex with men at all.

by Anonymousreply 8012/29/2011

hell yah i love suckin dicks well i gues if he was in to it i tied a guy up and liced him a bit it wass good now hes gay

by Anonymousreply 8101/04/2012

i wish i was brave enough to do that

by Anonymousreply 8201/04/2012

Yes, but that would not convince me he was straight.

by Anonymousreply 8301/04/2012

I don't have time to read through all of the posts but is there an offer on the table?

by Anonymousreply 8401/04/2012

To most straight guys, they go along with the thinking of Dulcinea who said, "One pair of lips is like another." So it doesn't matter if the lips wrapped around their dick belong to a woman or a man. They figure that they're not gay because they're not doing the sucking.

by Anonymousreply 8501/09/2012

[quote]To most straight guys, they go along with the thinking of Dulcinea who said, "One pair of lips is like another." So it doesn't matter if the lips wrapped around their dick belong to a woman or a man. They figure that they're not gay because they're not doing the sucking.

When are you going to figure out gay porn isn't real life. Now wash the Cool Ranch Dorito dust off you fingers, change your caftan, and take a bath.

by Anonymousreply 8601/09/2012

Hilarious

by Anonymousreply 8701/09/2012

If it's "service only", he's really hot and he is abusive and nasty, sure!

by Anonymousreply 8901/09/2012

[quote]You do know you're just being used as a masturbatory aid, right?

While a frau like you can't be expected to comprehend, r88, some men enjoy sucking a cock. There are many reasons they may have for wanting to do this, but it's a waste of time to explain to some frigid Brigid.

Just like [italic]One pair of lips is like another[/italic] for a straight man in need of a blowjob, [italic]a nice dick in the mouth is like another[/italic] to a guy who enjoys sucking a cock.

As long as frigid fraus refuse to suck their husband's cock, straight men will be looking for free blowjobs outside the home.

by Anonymousreply 9001/09/2012

r90, if a woman were attracted to you, would you let her suck you off as long as gay porn were playing in the background?

by Anonymousreply 9101/09/2012

I have. At least 20 times.

by Anonymousreply 9201/09/2012

Probably not. I'd feel sorry for her

by Anonymousreply 9301/09/2012

IF she is hot and you are both single, why not?

by Anonymousreply 9401/13/2012

LOVE the straight guy that wanted the suckee to bring a sandwich along.

by Anonymousreply 9501/13/2012

I have hot straight friend that is so cool. He is a college football player, and one time at a party, we made out. It was hot. Also, I like it that sometimes he calls me "big daddy" in a rural good ole boy drawl.

by Anonymousreply 9601/13/2012

R85/90 HI MOMMA NOODLES! So much slash fiction on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 9701/13/2012

[QUOTE]I can assure you that I don't want to have sex with just any guy, whether he's gay, bi or straight.

That does seem to be a widespread attitude these days. It sure didn't used to be that way. They did have to register a pulse however, at least recently.

by Anonymousreply 9801/13/2012

LMAO R86 jeez there are tons of pathetic queens on here who never got over their pining and lust, and pipe dream about their straight male friends.

I have never met any straight men who have or who wanted to have sex with a guy even if str8 porn was playing on a TV/computer, or if they were horny and no women were around they'd just jerk off alone or try to pick up a woman who is slutty-they wouldn't go to some guy.

If a guy is having sex with you or wants to and claims that he's "straight" it just makes him either bisexual or gay and closeted/in denial.

by Anonymousreply 9901/13/2012

I have a craving for roast beef all of a sudden...

by Anonymousreply 10001/13/2012

[quote]I have never met any straight men who have or who wanted to have sex with a guy even if str8 porn was playing on a TV/computer

Don't complain to us just because you have a limited circle of friends. Maybe you need to get out of your mother's basement more often.

by Anonymousreply 10101/13/2012

r98, gays were desperate and out of control in the past. They can be selective and moral today.

by Anonymousreply 10201/13/2012

R101 I'm not complaining.

It's just a myth/fantasy that straight men (aside from in prison where they're raped) actually have sex with men.

FYI I don't live with my relatives and have not for decades.

by Anonymousreply 10301/13/2012

Don't worry about it being degrading, OP. You've already degraded yourself by accepting the conceit that he's straight yet wants to have sex with you.

by Anonymousreply 10401/13/2012

The "down deep they're really gay" argument doesn't jibe with my experience. My three straight guy experiences were eyes wide open: one tried it once, another a few times and the third many times, and yet I am totally certain they are straight otherwise. (Their grandchildren and great-grandchildren would agree - I just put that in the illustrate how many years they've had suddenly to have an epiphany and come out.)

by Anonymousreply 10501/14/2012

Deep down they're really bi. There, is that better?

by Anonymousreply 10601/14/2012

[quote]When are you going to figure out gay porn isn't real life. Now wash the Cool Ranch Dorito dust off you fingers, change your caftan, and take a bath.

Why would they change their caftan and [italic]then[/italic] take a bath? Will they be putting on yet another fresh caftan after the bath?

I agree with a poster upthread. I would have had no problem doing it when I was younger. Now, not so much.

by Anonymousreply 10701/14/2012

Why are queeny fags so jealous of masculine dudes who get off with straight masculine dudes. Maybe if you didn't look and act like a fucking girl and faggot you would understand. Take your jealousy and fuck off.

by Anonymousreply 10801/14/2012

I get off with masculine dudes. Not interested in any other kind. And I like to believe that the guys with whom I'm getting off are also getting off with a masculine dude. What I do not believe is that anyone in those beds is straight.

Read your posting, R108. That's not the posting of a masculine dude. That's the posting of a bitch.

by Anonymousreply 10901/14/2012

R102 Sadly, I think you are completely right. (sez R98 )

by Anonymousreply 11001/26/2012

Been there - done it. I didn't feel degraded (to the poster who thinks it is a degrading situation). I knew deep down the guy was playing on all sorts of psychological levels - he wanted a homosexual experience, he wanted the straight porn to protect his (performance of) heterosexuality, he was having his cake and eating it too. But he was fucking hot and I wasn't passing up the chance.

by Anonymousreply 11101/26/2012

Here's my take on it, and I have had LOADS of experience with this subject.

I am very good looking, very masculine, and just look "straight" (no flames please).

It's so easy to hook up with fellow gays. They love straight acting guys. It's the truth.

And, straight guys who are "curious" (yes, they do exist) gravitate towards gays who won't "offend" them by being too gay. Yes, it's a homophobic thing, I get it. But it is what it is.

They then drink a little too much, the sex talk comes up (EVERY guy wants to talk about sex), and then the flirting starts.

Let them flirt with you. Flirt back. Next thing you know, they'll be in your hotel room, or apartment, or even theirs with their tongue down your throat. They'll then even want to play with your dick if its big and nice looking.

But, alas, they all want to fuck me. Not interested.

I have been with several "straight" guys through the years. There is no question that some are indeed on the DL and are truly gay cocksuckers.

But others...they ARE straight since they identify as straight and love their girlfriends or like to fuck pussy. But it doesn't mean they're not sexual.

There are BILLIONS of men in the world. How is it so hard to fathom that SOME really do like to experiment sexually. They just like sex and a big ole dick doesn't scare the shit out of them.

Liken it to women who go down on women "for fun".

There ARE some hot straight guys like this too.

And yes, they are rare. I believe most are hiding...but YES there are some who just like sex.

by Anonymousreply 11201/26/2012

If a straight guy wants to suck me off, I don't mind if straight porn is playing in the room. Of course, he ceases to be straight the moment that he has that desire. Did the post mean that I was supposed to suck him off without reciprocation? It's one thing if there turns out to be no reciprocation, but it's quite another if that's supposed to be the understanding in advance.

And if we're talking about fucking, there's no way he's straight.

by Anonymousreply 11301/26/2012

If the gay guy is hot and pretty enough he can have all the straight dick he wants. Straight guys are fluid when it comes to really hot guys. The ones here who keep ranting that they aren't straight are obviously very femme very ugly and just overall unattractive and very gay and faggy. They will never be able to attract a straight guy.

by Anonymousreply 11401/28/2012

straight dudes are hot

by Anonymousreply 11501/28/2012

I think some gays here take for granted they can get blown anytime they want when they're in a relationship. A lot of straight guys aren't so lucky. So I have no problem believing that some straight guys will get blown by a gay guy if he feels desperate enough for it.

by Anonymousreply 11601/28/2012

If he were even remotely attractive, absolutely. I would have no moral or ethical qualms about it. In a heart-beat.

by Anonymousreply 11701/28/2012

The way some of you talk about hot straight guys makes you sound exactly like the straight guys whose views of women is informed almost entirely by pornography.

You're really turned on by the idea that your butthole is so powerful that it turns previously unattainable men into desperate sex zombies. Also like those guys, you're completely uninterested in mutuality. You're into the idea of tricking or arm-twisting some guy into fucking you. You couldn't care less about being what he desires; he's just the object you get to desire and consume.

by Anonymousreply 11801/28/2012

R118, you got it wrong in at least one way.

I don't care about my asshole. I don't want anyone to fuck me.

It's about me sucking their cocks.

by Anonymousreply 11901/28/2012

I don't care about most straight dudes, just the hot buff muscular ones who look like quarterbacks, running backs, and hockey players.

by Anonymousreply 12001/28/2012

All across this nation there are millions of straight married men who like to get blow jobs but their wives stopped giving blow jobs once they were married. Thousands of them turn to the ClosetShut group at Yahoo to find out how to hook up and keep it secret from their spouse. They still see themselves as straight but they simply have a need for something the wife won't provide.

by Anonymousreply 12101/28/2012

Ew, why?

by Anonymousreply 12201/28/2012

They can see themselves as whatever they want, R121, but if they're seeking sex with other men, they're not straight. If their wives won't provide oral sex, they could get it from other women. But that's not what they're seeking.

by Anonymousreply 12301/28/2012

Straight guys would never allow another man to touch his cock. Straight guys even have big problems with MMW threesomes.

Why are gay men obsessed with straight men? It's creepy.

by Anonymousreply 12401/28/2012

I think there is confusion with straight guys and straight-acting guys. One likes pussy, one doesn't. Big, big difference.

by Anonymousreply 12501/28/2012

[quote]Why are gay men obsessed with straight men? It's creepy.

I think its just the guys that want to suck cock, like r119.

Im not interested in any "straight" dude unless he is going to spread his asscheeks and let me have my way with him. I couldn't care less about getting some guy off just because his gf/wife wont suck his dick.

by Anonymousreply 12601/28/2012

Personally, I'm willing to have straight porn playing in a room, but only if I'm having sex with a man at the time.

by Anonymousreply 12701/28/2012

I should say, "some gay men", R126. I'm not into straight guys at all. I laugh at "straight" guys who claim to be straight yet fuck/get BJs from guys. I laugh at the gay guys who believe them too.

And, if a guy's GF won't suck his cock, then he'll find a woman who will. Not a man.

by Anonymousreply 12801/28/2012

It doesn't matter unless the straight dude is very hot.

by Anonymousreply 12901/28/2012

All I can say is that I'm 100% gay and you couldn't pay me to let a woman suck me off .... Even if a gay porno was playing on the 60 inch TV.

by Anonymousreply 13001/28/2012

There are bi guys who lead predominately straight lives. I don't understand what you people find so difficult to believe about this.

Straight women can make out with other women, but apparently you feel gay male sex is so inherently disgusting that no straight guy could ever do anything with another guy, even if drunk and in private.

Please.

Yeah, no REALLY Straight guy is going to go seeking sex with other guys. But human sexuality is a lot more complicated than a binary "black or white", straight or gay switch. There's a lot of shades of gray in there. Some guys have sex for money (doesn't matter who with, their turn on is money). Some guys have sex for the attention (doesn't matter who from, they crave and are turned on by attention). There are a lot of fetishes and desires out there. It's weird, wild, wonderful, wacky, and complicated.

So get over it.

If a guy who is predominately straight in real life, is really hot (turns ME on physically) wants me to suck his dick while he watches straight porn... well, MY fetish is cock and sucking on them. If we satisfy each other for that moment, who are you to judge?

by Anonymousreply 13101/28/2012

Heh, R130. Funny.

But on a serious note, gay men don't ever get desperate enough to need to find a woman to suck their dicks, and women in general are never deseprate enough to suck a dick that they'll go after a gay guy. It's not the same thing at all.

by Anonymousreply 13201/28/2012

[quote]There are bi guys who lead predominately straight lives.

aka corwards.

by Anonymousreply 13301/28/2012

R133, that's hardly fair. Or true.

by Anonymousreply 13401/28/2012

R32, why is he funny? I'm the same way.

If a straight guy wants his cocked sucked, there are lots of women he can turn to who will suck his cock. Probably a few he already knows.

by Anonymousreply 13501/28/2012

desperate? I am NEVER desperate enough to have sex with someone I don't find attractive or hot. I don't get the notion that desperation will make you have sex with people you are not attracted to or desire. Masturbation works very well when a hot person is not available.

by Anonymousreply 13601/28/2012

sorry, R132.

by Anonymousreply 13701/28/2012

It's ego-driven fantasy. "I'm so hot and pretty and desirable and irresistible that even straight guys can't turn me down!"

Yes, there are bi guys who lead predominately straight lives, but that's different than being straight. However, to suit the purposes of their fantasies, many gay men need to believe that these men are straight.

by Anonymousreply 13801/28/2012

I think the claim that women are 'prudes' in bed is just BS to drive the point that straight guys have gay sex, or will turn to guys for BJs/anal. Which they don't.

Do some gay guys see themselves as prostitutes?

by Anonymousreply 13901/28/2012

A woman would surely suck his cock, but she's going to want dinner and a follow-up call.

by Anonymousreply 14001/28/2012

[quote]Do some gay guys see themselves as prostitutes?

Yes, except they dont get paid. They gratify themselves by simply being receptacles for guys that arent really interested in them. Not that anything is wrong with that, its just not for me.

by Anonymousreply 14101/28/2012

[quote]It's ego-driven fantasy. "I'm so hot and pretty and desirable and irresistible that even straight guys can't turn me down!"

100% truth.

by Anonymousreply 14201/28/2012

[quote]I don't get the notion that desperation will make you have sex with people you are not attracted to or desire.

Your ignorance and failure of imagination does not change reality.

by Anonymousreply 14301/28/2012

R143, a straight man will never, ever turn to you for you sex. Ever. Just an FYI.

by Anonymousreply 14401/28/2012

R144 has never met a sex addict, a drug addict, or been to prison.

by Anonymousreply 14501/28/2012

R144 - exactly. A straight guy on meth would let an ant eater suck his cock and an elephant fuck him in the ass with his trunk if he thought an eight ball and a glass pipe were in the back bedroom dresser drawer.

by Anonymousreply 14601/28/2012

R144, these men who have gay sex in prison, had gay sex before they went to prison, while in prison, and after prison. If you think they magically stopped having gay sex once they got out, you are dumber than I think.

And, gay or bi guys don't use drugs are or sex addicts? News to me.

by Anonymousreply 14701/28/2012

R146? Shut up.

by Anonymousreply 14801/28/2012

"Then there are men who are so uncomfortable with their sexuality and want what they can't ever have that have the #1 fantasy of actually having sex with a real heterosexual man."

Exactly. The straight guy fetishists are self-loathing gays

by Anonymousreply 14901/28/2012

R149 exactly right too.

by Anonymousreply 15001/28/2012

There's a world of difference between being willing to help a guy out and suck a predominantly straight guy's cock, and "fetishizing straight guys".

Jesus, you guys are like broken records.

by Anonymousreply 15101/28/2012

"My three straight guy experiences were eyes wide open: one tried it once, another a few times and the third many times, and yet I am totally certain they are straight otherwise. (Their grandchildren and great-grandchildren would agree - I just put that in the illustrate how many years they've had suddenly to have an epiphany and come out.)"

Gay guys can have grandkids. And some gay men NEVER come out.

"If a straight guy wants his cocked sucked, there are lots of women he can turn to who will suck his cock"

You are really overestimating the ability of most straight guys to get laid. Most straight guys aren't going to get tons of offers from women unless they are rich or super handsome

"Why are queeny fags so jealous of masculine dudes who get off with straight masculine dudes"

You can get off with "masculine dudes" who aren't straight. Labeling people as "fags" just makes you look like a self-loathing Republican.

by Anonymousreply 15201/28/2012

"You are really overestimating the ability of most straight guys to get laid. Most straight guys aren't going to get tons of offers from women unless they are rich or super handsome"

Exactly. And how many women out there are begging to suck dick without any strings the way some gay guys are?

by Anonymousreply 15301/28/2012

FUCK YES. And whoever says no is a LIAR!!

by Anonymousreply 15401/28/2012

A dick is a dick, no matter who it's attached to as long as the owners are goodlooking. Tastes just as good whether they're gay or straight.

by Anonymousreply 15501/28/2012

R152 and R153, it's obvious you have very little experience around young straight guys and the booty calls they have. Girls can be fuck buddies just like guys. I know a lot of girls who are fuck buddies to guys. You both are desperate to paint women as sexless, which is completely false. Straight men will never, ever fuck another man. But, if you are desperate to believe they do because you want what you will never have, and are repulsed by homosexuals and homosexuality, then by all means.

by Anonymousreply 15601/29/2012

R156, unless the guy is incredibly hot and/or rich he won't have a lot of success putting out a booty call to straight women, especially if it's only to get serviced. Those calls will go unanswered, believe me. The girls you claim to know who are "fuck buddies" to straight men are probably hookers. Sorry.

by Anonymousreply 15701/29/2012

How desperate are you guys?

by Anonymousreply 15801/29/2012

22 year old college girls are horny too. Hookers? How old are you? 40s? 50s? I think seancody and fratpad, and all that creepy shit where gay guys parade around as straight guys fuckin each other has really deluded old gay dudes. That shit ain't real.

by Anonymousreply 15901/29/2012

r159, they aint lining up to just suck dick at your beck and call. You gotta take out these girls and buy them drinks.

When I was in college, I had to be drunk or high (and dudes had to bring over the shit) or taken out to be banged by anyone. I was easy and had sex a lot on the first date but I needed you to earn it.

I even had regular hookups(I won't call boyfriends, but I think they thought of me as their girlfriend)I didn't call till Thursday because they got paid on Friday, to set things up for the weekends. There were no dates in the week when I knew you were out of cash.

Ocassionally, I would get a call, "are you free tonight, can I come over" however getting a blow job was not on the menu for a booty call.

by Anonymousreply 16001/29/2012

R160 has it right and she made it a lot easier than most of us. It's a rare woman that just wants to suck a dick NSA.

by Anonymousreply 16101/29/2012

I have a straight married fuck bud who plans to bring two of friends over for Super Bowl weekend and I basically plan to serve them beers and blow them while they all watch the game. I pray they treat me like a bitch and are verbally abusive.

LOVE.STRAIGHT.COCK.

by Anonymousreply 16201/29/2012

I love straight broads!!!

by Anonymousreply 16301/29/2012

R162, are you a nelly gay or "masculine" gay?

by Anonymousreply 16401/29/2012

[quote] "If the gay guy is hot and pretty enough he can have all the straight dick he wants. Straight guys are fluid when it comes to really hot guys. The ones here who keep ranting that they aren't straight are obviously very femme very ugly and just overall unattractive and very gay and faggy. They will never be able to attract a straight guy."

R114 [italic] NAILED [/italic] it, that's why their responses are so vociferous.

by Anonymousreply 16501/29/2012

A straight guy would consider banging a fat chick before he ever lets some dude near his cock. He wouldn't even consider it to begin with.

I also love the misogyny of the gay guys who refer to women who are fuck buddies or have random hook-ups with guys, friend or not, as hookers. What are the gay guys who do this? Self-loathing.

The notion that straight guys have gay sex is only found among old gay dudes. I never my friends talking about married fuck buddies or straight guys having gay sex. Even the websites that feature "straight" guys having gay sex is run by creepy old gay dudes.

by Anonymousreply 16601/29/2012

Haha, R165! I don't give a fuck if you actually think you're fuckin a straight guy. But, I have every right to laugh at you.

by Anonymousreply 16701/29/2012

I've known enough straight guys who strip for other guys (and let guys paw all over them for the attention and money) that I know for a fact some of you are just really over-the-edge on this one.

What you say is true of HOMOPHOBIC guys, but not all guys are so disgusted by gay guys as you seem to think.

by Anonymousreply 16801/29/2012

R167 quite obviously isn't [italic] getting [/italic] it and hasn't had ANY cock - straight or otherwise - in long LOOOOOONG time. (If ever).

by Anonymousreply 16901/29/2012

If a straight guy said he liked this, I'd consider it:

by Anonymousreply 17001/29/2012

It's not the young single straight guys who are looking for blowjobs from men, it's the married guys who suddenly find their wife doesn't want to suck their cock. For them to go to another women is like cheating so they settle for a quick hook up with a gay guy where there is no emotional involvement needed. They view that as not really cheating.

On top of that, there are the guys with pregnant wives and the wives who are too busy with the new baby. Add in the wives going through menopause and you end up with a smorgasbord of straight men desperate for a blowjob.

by Anonymousreply 17101/29/2012

No, R169, I agree with them, and you love italics don't you, ya flame.

These guys are gay or bisexual claiming to be "straight", but there is a sucker (pun) born every minute.

by Anonymousreply 17201/29/2012

R171, gay or bisexual men don't marry women? And, these guys would seek out women for head, not some disgusting old man from craigslist or cruisy troll from the gym.

by Anonymousreply 17301/29/2012

[quote]It's not the young single straight guys who are looking for blowjobs from men, it's the married guys who suddenly find their wife doesn't want to suck their cock. For them to go to another women is like cheating so they settle for a quick hook up with a gay guy where there is no emotional involvement needed. They view that as not really cheating. On top of that, there are the guys with pregnant wives and the wives who are too busy with the new baby. Add in the wives going through menopause and you end up with a smorgasbord of straight men desperate for a blowjob.

...That's a lot of creepy thought put into gay married men. You have a lot of time on your hands.

by Anonymousreply 17401/29/2012

r114 same for straight chicks! they flirt with femme lesbians or bi chicks, recoil at bulldykes!!!

by Anonymousreply 17501/29/2012

[quote]The ones here who keep ranting that they aren't straight, are obviously very femme very ugly and just overall unattractive and very gay and faggy. They will never be able to attract a straight guy.

It's clear that you're talking about the poor wretch at r172 - r173 - r174. Probably hasn't had sex with a human in decades, if ever.

by Anonymousreply 17601/29/2012

Straight guys like Youtube. Show them this:

by Anonymousreply 17701/29/2012

R172, what does it mean to be 'bisexual' if in their lives they're only ever with women, they desire women, they need to watch porno with women in it to get off... even if for whatever reason they're getting head from a guy once or twice in their life?

You're kind of shrill and extremist... and your simplistic view of human sexuality and sexual behavior doesn't seem to jibe with available evidence.

You're also kind of judgemental... and strangely one-sided. So if a gay man has sex with a woman once (for whatever reason), he's STRAIGHT? Please.

by Anonymousreply 17801/29/2012

[quote] It's not the young single straight guys who are looking for blowjobs from men, it's the married guys who suddenly find their wife doesn't want to suck their cock. For them to go to another women is like cheating so they settle for a quick hook up with a gay guy where there is no emotional involvement needed. They view that as not really cheating.

On top of that, there are the guys with pregnant wives and the wives who are too busy with the new baby. Add in the wives going through menopause and you end up with a smorgasbord of straight men desperate for a blowjob.

And the unicorns. Don't forget the unicorns.

by Anonymousreply 17901/29/2012

Good lord Momma Noodles has been clearing her cookies like mad on this thread!

by Anonymousreply 18001/29/2012

r8, HOT HOT Story. Wonder what it would take to get him to "do that" again?!?!

by Anonymousreply 18101/29/2012

depends on the guy and my mood

most often I am a 'connector' and not an 'objectifier,' but if I was in the right mood and didn't like the guy too much I'd probably do it.

by Anonymousreply 18201/29/2012

I love the grampa at R176! He's a cunning old coot.

by Anonymousreply 18301/29/2012

I love the irony of R178's post too.

by Anonymousreply 18401/29/2012

ty r26, LOL!

by Anonymousreply 18501/29/2012

r162, Tell us more!

by Anonymousreply 18601/29/2012

[quote]It's just a myth/fantasy that straight men (aside from in prison where they're raped) actually have sex with men.

You think all the prison rapists are gay?

I'm curious what those who think that a consensual sexual encounter with another man can only happen if both men are gay make of men who are interested in transexuals.

by Anonymousreply 18701/30/2012

I wonder how many of the gay men in this thread who insist that no straight man could possibly choose to have sex with another man have had sex with women.

I find it curious when someone who accuses others of being self-loathing for having any sexual desire for straight men also argue that it is impossible to be straight and have gay sex. What this says is that they see gay sex as so abnormal that only a man who is wired to want it exclusively would ever try it. No THAT is self-loathing.

by Anonymousreply 18801/30/2012

I watched the show Bad Sex on Logo, and there was a gay guy (on of a few) Ryan?, who was a sex addict. He was kinda fug. He claimed to have sex with a straight guy. I laughed. I now had a picture of what an actual gay guy looks like when who claims to have sex with straight guys. I assume many of these gay guys are lonely, probably fug, have emotional problems, and have vivid imaginations and fantasies. Now, I just consider the source, and let them believe whatever they want. I just smile and nod.

by Anonymousreply 18901/30/2012

Miss R180 has a VERY short memory and is about to have her ass handed back to her on a plate for the umpteenth time.

by Anonymousreply 19001/30/2012

[quote]I wonder how many of the gay men in this thread who insist that no straight man could possibly choose to have sex with another man have had sex with women.

Finally! Someone with a brain on this thread. I'm gay, gay, gay and had sex with five different women while I was in the closet. It doesn't take much to get your dick hard and once it is, it will stay hard with stimulation or the proper thoughts.

I'm not saying that there is some stampede of straight men fucking gay guys. I am saying that it is very possible or may happen more often than you think.

by Anonymousreply 19101/30/2012

[quote]I wonder how many of the gay men in this thread who insist that no straight man could possibly choose to have sex with another man have had sex with women.

There is no heavy societal pressure for straight men to have sex with men as there is for gay men to have sex with women. In fact, quite the opposite.

Of course, a straight man may be capable of experimenting and trying mansex once or twice to see what it's all about, but any "straight" man who keeps going back for more and more ain't straight.

by Anonymousreply 19201/30/2012

Those guys do, R192. They come back for more and more. Not straight kids who experiement when they are 14 years old and think "this is wrong" the entire time.

by Anonymousreply 19301/30/2012

[quote]but any "straight" man who keeps going back for more and more ain't straight.

I agree, unless he is doing it for pay. Do you reject the concept of the bisexual?

I also not sure about all-male environments. I really don't know whether otherwise straight men will indulge in the homosex when they have no access to women for prolonged periods.

by Anonymousreply 19401/30/2012

[quote]unless he is doing it for pay.

He's still gay/bisexual. Not straight.

by Anonymousreply 19501/30/2012

R194, I think many gay men are not attracted to "gay" or "bisexual" and they need the "straight" to feel attracted to the guy. These guys are gay or bisexual. Just, not in the mind of the gay guy - because they are repulsed by homosexuality, and they are "SO hot" that even straight men go for them.

by Anonymousreply 19601/30/2012

I disagree. Whores of any kind are motivated by money. They are rarely attracted to their clients so what difference does it make if the client is a man? Think of what a massive industry female prostitution is. For men, there is not a similar market of female clients, so they go where the money is.

by Anonymousreply 19701/30/2012

I'm sorry, R197, I do not believe these guys are straight. They are whores yes, but gay or bi whores. But, you can think they're straight! I know some gay men assume straight is "hot".

by Anonymousreply 19801/30/2012

[quote], I think many gay men are not attracted to "gay" or "bisexual" and they need the "straight" to feel attracted to the guy.

I do find a bisexual man to have an added level of attractiveness, but I'm not sure why. In part I think there is something similar to why so many straight men find lesbian sex so hot. The bisexual is seen as a more sensual and sexual being.

But it might also be a reflection of self-loathing.

by Anonymousreply 19901/30/2012

[quote] I know some gay men assume straight is "hot".

Many of us started out attracted to straight men we could not have, though in this case we were the forbidden fruit.

by Anonymousreply 20001/30/2012

r201, I am also more attracted to straight women, then bi women and very little for lesbians. Dykes repulse me!!

by Anonymousreply 20101/30/2012

[quote] "we were the forbidden fruit."

No pun, intended of course.

by Anonymousreply 20201/30/2012

Pun quite obviously intended.

by Anonymousreply 20301/30/2012

Slits always sound like bleating sheep out to slaughter in porn flicks.

Pourquoi?

by Anonymousreply 20401/30/2012

I like crushing straight dudes by saying they are not hot enough to attract me. I am very picky, so few guys tempt me.

by Anonymousreply 20501/31/2012

I have a feeling this is the type of gay man who thinks straight guys have gay sex...

by Anonymousreply 20602/01/2012

OMG, that is hilarious R206.

by Anonymousreply 20702/01/2012

I love him. I'm almost tempted to answer the ad. He needs a reality TV show.

by Anonymousreply 20802/01/2012

What he needs is not a reality TV show. It's a reality check.

by Anonymousreply 20902/01/2012

It doesn't matter what you SAY, it's what you DO that matters. I ain't a label freak but those are the guidelines I go by. If it walks like a duck....

That said, it seems to me the scenario outlined is one of mutual deception/denial. The 'straight' guy wants to hold on to the facade of straightness but the gay guy needs that facade just as much (to feed the fantasy that he's getting something special/that no one else has gotten yet?). In the end two consenting adults with a mutual (if unspoken) understanding. I'm not personally offended by it on that level - but in the context of a homophobic/heterosexist society I certainly get why some are irritated/bemused/whatever by what this scenario represents.

by Anonymousreply 21002/01/2012

I love straight dudes.

by Anonymousreply 21102/04/2012

I might do it, depending on the guy. It would also help if he's willing to bottom.

by Anonymousreply 21202/04/2012

R210 must be a real BLAST at parties.

by Anonymousreply 21302/04/2012

The "scenario" may be mutual deception/denial in some cases but it's often not that complicated.

Some men like to have their cock sucked and don't care who belongs to the lips.

Some men like to give blow jobs and don't care if the cock belongs to someone who claims to be gay, bi, or straight. They simply enjoy giving pleasure.

Too much of this thread is dripping with Christian marriage vows -- one partner with one person for the rest of your life. A few years into that and the man realizes those vows are bullcrap.

Let's not forget that LONG AFTER civil marriage contracts began, the churches got involved (a great money-making scheme for the priests). In those days, life didn't last 50, 60, 70 years.

by Anonymousreply 21402/04/2012

r214, just because you devalue commitment and monogamy doesn't mean everyone else must.

by Anonymousreply 21502/14/2012

I have this multi-year straight fuckbuddy who I could never give up because he has the same perfect little swimmer's body he had at 19. He likes to lie prone so he can look at a magazine with picures of big tits. That's just fine with me.

by Anonymousreply 21603/24/2012

If he were really hot? Absolutely.

Because actually getting to suck off a hot guy is a lot better than beating off to internet porn wishing you could suck off a hot guy.

It's not like I'm getting any action from GAY guys.

by Anonymousreply 21703/24/2012

Honey, no STRAIGHT man is going to have sex with another man, even if "straight" porn is playing in the room. Straight men don't have sex with other men. That's been debated so many times here it's ridiculous, but it's just a fact that straight men don't fuck guys.

by Anonymousreply 21803/24/2012

R218, straight guys who are desperate for money will let you jack them off. I know this much for a fact.

by Anonymousreply 21903/24/2012

R219, that "straight" guy you jerked off has probably been with more guys than you.

by Anonymousreply 22003/24/2012

He's hot and he knows he can make money exploiting gay guy lust, so yeah, he's probably let other guys jack him off. But he's not jacking off, sucking or otherwise having sex with guys. He's engaged to be married. On HIS time (when he isn't being paid), it's all women. For all intents and purposes, he's "straight" (even if he might be a Kinsey 1... more likely he's just turned on by money, as he's pretty materialistic).

by Anonymousreply 22103/24/2012

R221, his poor wife. Does she realize how my he he's going to cheat on her with men over and over and over again. Like, he's already doing? I feel sorry for these women who are lied to by closeted gay men so ashamed of their homosexuality that they use women. So sad. Homophobia damages not only gay men but women to.

by Anonymousreply 22203/24/2012

women too.

by Anonymousreply 22303/24/2012

MY pussy stinks!

by Anonymousreply 22403/24/2012

depends on the guy...and the straight porn is a plus for his side.

by Anonymousreply 22503/24/2012

As long as his ass is clean, I'll fuck him. I don't like gay porn anyway.

by Anonymousreply 22603/24/2012

This thread is hilarious. It's filled with delusion, fantasy, loneliness, fiction, lack of self-respect, and homophobia.

by Anonymousreply 22703/24/2012

R222... he's not having money problems any more. He's not hanging around gay guys any more. He's not seeking money any more.

by Anonymousreply 22803/24/2012

R228, his poor wife. Women who marry gay men their marriage never ends well. Closeted gay men marrying women, when will that end?

by Anonymousreply 22903/24/2012

Well, good thing he's not gay then. He's never DONE anything gay, and needed straight porn to get hard.

by Anonymousreply 23003/24/2012

R230, his poor wife. All that betrayal with men. The cheating, the lying, the seeking out men for sex or sex acts. His poor wife. Women marrying gay men...sad.

by Anonymousreply 23103/24/2012

YEESSSSS

by Anonymousreply 23203/24/2012

His poor wife his poor wife his poor wife his poor wife his poor wife.

by Anonymousreply 23303/24/2012

I used to wonder - how do straight men think? What is going on in there? Finally figured it out - nothing. And unless they've been abused by a priest (combining lust, faith and authority betrayal,) they don't have any opinion/feeling/guilt at all about what they may have done with their dicks.

by Anonymousreply 23403/24/2012

Sure, why not? .. Sounds pretty hot to me.

by Anonymousreply 23503/24/2012

My former roomie was "straight" and let me fuck him when he didn't have rent money. Bare and cherry. I liked it. A marine with a hot body. I shoudlnt have kicked him out.

by Anonymousreply 23603/24/2012

[quote]His poor wife his poor wife his poor wife his poor wife his poor wife.

Reminded me of a post in one of the Yahoo M2M groups:

My wife and I haven't had sex in nearly fifteen years. I've had my own bedroom for most of those years. Last week, we had sex in her bedroom, in her bed. It was the first time we had sex in her room in over fifteen years. Thank God she wasn't home.

by Anonymousreply 23703/24/2012

R20 Don't talk about your mother like that you disturbed queen

by Anonymousreply 23803/24/2012

I jack off to straight porn.

I would enjoy having sex with a man I wanted to have sex with while straight porn was playing.

Whether that other guy would consider himself to be straight is another question entirely; and a question for himself to answer about his own identity; it has nothing do with me.

by Anonymousreply 23903/25/2012

Yes

by Anonymousreply 24002/19/2013

No way.

by Anonymousreply 24102/19/2013

This is fantasyland OP. Straight men do not have sex with men except under very extreme circumstances e.g. rape.

You're referring to bi men.

by Anonymousreply 24202/19/2013
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