Are we supposed to believe that this guy is truly hetero? I think he is hiding in plain sight. The media (ie his publicist) tried to make him out to be a womanizer but at 42yrs old has never been married or linked to a woman other than dates.
I'm going with gay.
|by Anonymous||reply 102||11/07/2012|
If he's not dating any women, that's one thing, but WTF is with this "married" bullshit? What is with this antiquated notion that a guy (particularly one who is as gorgeous as he is and has many options) should be married? Why, so he can then fuck around behind the wife's back so you can then bitch about how unfaithful he is?
|by Anonymous||reply 1||05/18/2011|
God, I wish he was. He is my all time favorite hot actor. Loooooove him!
|by Anonymous||reply 4||05/18/2011|
He isnt married so he just has to be gay. Sweet Jesus. Did it ever occur to you he might not want to be married? I think he is having himself a pretty sweet time w/o the bonds of matrimony to get in the way of his relentless pussyhounding.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||05/18/2011|
R1 simmer down boy. Sorry, but 42 yrs old and not ever married does raise questions, regardless of if it upsets you or not. Clearly you are an old spinster yourself and this is a touchy subject.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||05/18/2011|
Saw him once at a party in New York. Half the women in the room went up to him at some point and he was polite and friendly each time, but he remained surrounded by men the whole night.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||05/18/2011|
R7 here again - same goes for you R6.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||05/18/2011|
No, I'm actually married, R7, but how many times do we have to go through this nonsense where some guy is married (see: Tiger Woods), then fucks around and everyone is "shocked" and "disgusted," and wonders why he ever got married since he's only as faithful as his options (c. Rock)?
As I said, if he has no g/f, that's one thing, but to actually go through marriage? Why? Hugh Grant isn't married. Is he gay?
|by Anonymous||reply 10||05/18/2011|
He's gay. Just look at his apartment. That's proof enough for me.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||05/18/2011|
Forget marriage - has he ever dated a female?
|by Anonymous||reply 12||05/18/2011|
Dated? Why yes, look at he and Aniston!
|by Anonymous||reply 14||05/18/2011|
r11, He lives in a loft full of out-of-place traditional furniture...screams *straight* to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||05/18/2011|
[quote]He lives in a loft full of out-of-place traditional furniture...screams *straight* to me.
Are you kidding me?! LMAO. No. Words.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||05/18/2011|
It looks like a museum, R17.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||05/18/2011|
Yikes! His apartment looks like an Arhaus showroom.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||05/18/2011|
You know that nearly every celebrity hires *designers* don't you? And who are these designers? GAY MEN...grip it hon.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||05/18/2011|
I think OP meant to say that GB has never had a serious relationship with a woman and THAT's a red flag, not the he's never been married. %0D %0D When a man reaches 40 and hasn't had a single serious relationship of some duration with a woman, that spells GAY, GAY, GAY. Sorry, but it's true.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||05/18/2011|
R4/5/16/21 certainly is quite defensive about Gerry being straight. What's up with that? Are you on his PR team? Sorry, but seems like your opinion is severely in the minority here. Why don't you run along to the Leo DiCap thread and claim he's straight.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||05/18/2011|
at this point coming out of the closet is probably the only thing that will give his career a (short-lived) revival.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||05/18/2011|
r23, I'm not refuting Gerard's gayness, if indeed it is true. I'm refuting the argument that his loft is a sure tell all.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||05/18/2011|
He lives in frickin Chelsea. And uses the words "elegant" "gorgeous" and "retreat" to describe what he was going for. Case closed.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||05/18/2011|
Sorry, girls, he's straight...
The Oscar After-Parties
Dressed in a Gucci tuxedo, ladies man Gerard Butler focused all his attention on a new woman: Barbra Streisand when they crossed paths at the Governor's Ball. The two talked for a long time while Streisand's husband James Brolin entertained the gathered crowd waiting for a word with the singing legend.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||05/18/2011|
The mere proximity of Babs will evaporate any lingering straightness. Hiya Jason!!
|by Anonymous||reply 29||05/18/2011|
Wow, that's a "bachelor pad"? Maybe a "confirmed bachelor pad."
|by Anonymous||reply 30||05/18/2011|
I think he is even more gay than Keanu Reeves, if that's possible.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||05/18/2011|
Only second hand gossip but there are a few people out there I have come across on forums over the years that SWEAR up and down there was an old Butler interview where he basically said 'I am bisexual' or dropped heavy hints that he went both ways. The poster/s also claimed they tried to find this interview in recent years but it has since been pulled and is unobtainable despite exhaustive searching.%0D %0D They claim that back when Butler was just a UK actor of only minor repute he was pretty much free to say what he wanted and it went under the radar until he got to Hollywood and got CAA-ed up or whatever agency he signed with. %0D %0D Just passing along the story, dunno if it has actual substance. There was a rumour he was shacked up with some producer guy in Hollywood (a young jewsish guy I think, dark-haired, can't bring his name to mind, maybe Vincent?). They have been friends a long time. Some people claim it's more than that and that the female dates are standard bearding. %0D %0D Basically it's a big old who knows. %0D %0D
|by Anonymous||reply 33||05/18/2011|
His apartment as well...he definitely has a refined eye.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||05/18/2011|
At one point, there was some sort of statement released - that claimed the interviewed mentioned by r33 was a fake. The statement appeared for a time on one or both of those god-awful fan sites of his (the ones where fraus plan conventions to meet and talk about how he helped them rediscover and unleash their sexuality). The statement, like the original interview, seems to have vanished.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||05/18/2011|
I love his apartment. I would gladly give up some head and ass Mr. Butler to spend a weekend in that joint.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||05/18/2011|
That apartment looks like it was imported from a Paradise Valley AZ home.%0D %0D I don't get it. As far as the gay from the apartment, I don't get that either. More of a overly guy thing, way too....oh, I get it.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||05/18/2011|
I first became obsessed with Gerard when I saw Dracula 2000. Damn he was sexy in that role.
Then I went out and saw everything he had ever been in up to that point.
The Atila The Hun movie was pretty good too.
Lost interest when he became to Hollywood-y and started dating all those "stars".
|by Anonymous||reply 38||05/18/2011|
Oh really, that's interesting r35. Good update, I hadn't heard that as am not a fan in general. I like the actor (he was great in Rock n Rolla with Tom Hardy) but it's good to know I hadn't dreamt that piece of info up because it was some time ago now.%0D %0D My take on that would it is typical Hollywood agency panic, dredging up something from the past and refuting it so it doesn't cause ripples down the line, but in doing so bringing it to everyone's attention again. That's really sadly typical of an agency at work. I bet some gay flack even typed up the denial. %0D %0D It's a good job some of us have long memories.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||05/18/2011|
I loved him til that horrible movie with Hilary Swank.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||05/18/2011|
Alan Siegel is the assistant turned producer guy r33 talked about. He is openly gay and married to a male fashion designer. He and Butler are friends not lovers.
There was an old TMZ video where he and some women were walking on the streets in New York and the guy asked him the type of women he liked and he replied with something like how could you assume i liked women. He seemed cool.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||05/18/2011|
When he was on Leno or one of those shows he talked about being a young man visiting his father in Toronto (I think). He talked about how much fun he had when his father was out of town. %0D %0D Imagine...before the herps (alleged), the bloat...
|by Anonymous||reply 42||05/18/2011|
That bisexual interview was a fake.
Not saying he isn't gay though.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||05/18/2011|
Brit here who's followed his career since 'Young Person's Guide to Being a Rockstar'. I'm not saying he isn't gay or bi but the interview you're talking about didn't exist and he never had a reputation in the UK of being anything other than straight. It wasn't as if he was out here and in there or anything.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||05/18/2011|
I thought i saw an interview on one of our late night shows and it seemed like he was sawing he liked boys and girls. Maybe i'm getting him confused with Bardeem?
|by Anonymous||reply 45||05/18/2011|
The article in question was in USA Today,circa 1999-2000 r33. No open declaration of bisexuality but it stated something along the lines of not being interested in dating anyone and prefered to remain a bachelor...%0D %0D Obviously he was very 'green' then-a newcomer to playing the Hollywood game.%0D %0D It's out there somewhere...
|by Anonymous||reply 46||05/18/2011|
This thread is hilarious! I think the "fraus" would be amused to know that you all discuss G in the very same way and about the very same topics as they do! Turn on your gaydar: does he really set it off just because he hasn't been married? Mine is finely honed and he doesn't set mine off. I think he's a free-thinking, free-speaking Scot whom the Hollywood types STILL have trouble corraling. Whoever said 'you're only as faithful as your options' was right. If I looked at that face in the mirror every day, I'd be doing just as he does. And frankly I don't care who or what he's sticking it to, I only know it isn't me. LOL
|by Anonymous||reply 47||05/22/2011|
R47, if Gerard Butler was fucking women we, the public, would get some info about them, it's not like Gerard is shy or hides from paparazzi.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||05/22/2011|
I had a recurrent phone sex thing a couple of years back w/ a guy who sounded awfully like him (Scottish accent and all)... same age and was supposedly located where Butler was filming a movie... or so he said.
There was NEVER a suggestion by me or him that it was Butler, but man o man the details fit... and I'm good at pegging accents.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||05/22/2011|
haha.. everyone (guys and girls) who's ever spent this much time debating this guy's sexual orientation, has most definitely got the hots for him. P.s. he's bloody cute and all of you dissing him here anonymously would probably melt into mush if he ever spoke to you.. and not because he's a celeb, but because he's a damn charming guy who knows what effect he has on folks..
|by Anonymous||reply 50||05/28/2011|
Not at all - it just an interesting topic to chew over.%0D %0D I am surprised people can be so dismissive of an interview (however it was couched) that apparently now doesn't exist that had to have an official PR declaration it didn't exist THEN some time ago. %0D %0D I'm not actually bothered what he is, he's a good actor and I think a good guy but the Hollywood wheels just intrigue me.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||05/28/2011|
A year or two ago, he was shooting a movie in Belgrade. A friend of mine who was part of the local crew told me that a local escort agency kept a number of high-end call girls on call for him, at any time of the day, in case he needed to be serviced .
|by Anonymous||reply 52||05/28/2011|
Shoved back into the closet after one "revealing" interview.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||05/28/2011|
gerry doesn't like men or women, he prefers the hoffed animal, and i hear he had a fling with this chap at one time....
|by Anonymous||reply 55||08/21/2011|
I remember watching the gag reel on that shitty movie he did with Katherine Heigl. Every time he tried to say a line and cracked up, the giggles that came out of his mouth were SO queeny!
|by Anonymous||reply 56||08/21/2011|
Just out of curiosity...how is a straight guy allowed to decorate his appartment?%0D %0D A single plasma screen TV, in front of an ugly recliner chair, a poster of a sports team logo and/or picture of tits on the wall, fast food packaging strewn about, an air mattress on the floor in the bedroom, and a fridge with beer and ketchup in it?
|by Anonymous||reply 57||08/22/2011|
I don't think the fact that he's never been married is proof that he's gay (or anybody else) but, the fact that he's never been in a long term relationship (and for argument's sake I consider 1 year+ "long term") is proof to me that he must be gay. Hell, I don't think he's had a relationship that lasted 4-5 months or longer than a few dates. He's either gay or has some very serious issues.
Plus, his "relationships" all seem fake. Some people here have said in other threads and I couldn't agree more that when a relationship is REAL and not for PR (whether the people are really gay or just media whores) the paps catch them doing daily, normal things like all couples and also when a relationship is real, couples don't like the attention that much. I think that's the best test if someone is gay - better than gossip, relationships past, gay face, gay voice, interpreting couples pictures and "chemistry" and so on.
I vote for GAY GB.
P.S A lesser possibility is that he's asexual (yeah, such people exist) or his junk doesn't work (either a physical problem or psychological).
|by Anonymous||reply 58||08/22/2011|
So, OP, ten years from now are you going to say that anyone in NY who isn't in a gay marriage must be straight?
Or, put differently:
Does anybody think about the bullshit coming out of their mouths anymore?
|by Anonymous||reply 59||08/22/2011|
You folks who think only gay people live in Chelsea are dead wrong.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||08/22/2011|
He picked up my hot (female) secretary in a bar and she said the sex was pretty incredible. Never heard from him again.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||08/22/2011|
Where is the proof that he is gay? he looks like a womaniser to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||08/22/2011|
[quote]He picked up my hot (female) secretary in a bar and she said the sex was pretty incredible. Never heard from him again.
Where did this supposed meeting happen? LA? NYC?
|by Anonymous||reply 63||08/22/2011|
[quote]Why care if a celebrity is gay or not? Whatever he does in his personal life, it's HIS business. What does it have to do with you queens?
This a gay gossip board, in case you haven't noticed. And what does it have to do with you if we speculate on his sexual preference?
|by Anonymous||reply 66||08/22/2011|
R65 - are you one very stupid troll.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||08/22/2011|
I haven't had a relationship longer than a year either. Should I be questioning my homosexuality? Personally, I know a lot of straight guys that just have sex with women and never ever have girlfriends. Without evidence of relationships with men, it isn't a solid sign of being gay. Not saying he isn't though.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||08/22/2011|
He's made some awful films, horrid! I think he is gay and when he was making Gamer with Michael C. Hall, did they have an affair?
|by Anonymous||reply 70||10/13/2011|
I don't find him attractive in any way, except in interviews, he seems like a nice guy. Anyway, does anyone really think he dated Aniston? That's just stupid.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||10/13/2011|
A year or more ago there was a blind item about a hearthrob guy that had a reputation as a womanizer. This man had such bad herpes his doctor advised that he should not have sex with anyone. Ever. For some reason at the time I was convinced this was him.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||10/13/2011|
I think it was bullshit. You could always wear a condom.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||10/13/2011|
I doubt he is gay... he seems comfortable with this gay paparazzi and even jokingly asked him out on a date.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||10/13/2011|
I couldn't give two shits about Butler. I'm interested in Hall.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||10/13/2011|
He was shooting a movie in Belgrade a year or two ago. What I heard from the people who were there is that a local escort service kept a few girls on call for him, "should Mr. Butler require any special services at any time of the day or night."
|by Anonymous||reply 77||10/13/2011|
Yeah, its always "what I heard" about Butler and women but never anything substantiated. The guy is gay. Deal.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||10/13/2011|
If he has got to his 40s without marrying why should he now - then the marriage would probably fail in a few years and he has to hand over a hefty part of his income - lots of rich men just do not marry now. Same with Clooney, Keanu, Hugh Grant and others ..... they get what they want from dates or escorts and their male coteries.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||10/13/2011|
I'm thinking the only straight in that sentence was, Hugh Grant.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||10/16/2011|
I'm the one at r12 (I think) that talked about his apartment and that was the huge clue he was gay. It's not the furniture but Arch Digest has pix of his place and he has a big ol' NAKED Michaelangelo mural scene on his ceiling - it's the HUGE NAKED GUY WITH THE PENIS touching the guy who's supposed to be G-d.
Then the other CLUE is the pic of what's her name (ex lover of Kennedy father) from Sunset Blvd from that movie on his wall.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||10/16/2011|
Was thinking very straight, then saw the loft photos.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||10/16/2011|
where are the loft pictures?
|by Anonymous||reply 83||10/16/2011|
R17 His loft apartment looks like he had his mother decorate it. The straights do that sometimes. So, he might actually be straight.
What do I know, really?
It is somewhat far out that he has never been linked to any lady on the long term at all. Hell, a month! A year! Nothing. He is just known as the fellow who dates a lot and nothing more. At his age that is just a wee bit more interesting that his not having married yet.
|by Anonymous||reply 84||10/16/2011|
"He is just known as the fellow who dates a lot and nothing more."
What are you talking about?
He doesn't date at all.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||10/16/2011|
Gerard Butler has been hiding in plain sight since he the moment he landed Attila!
|by Anonymous||reply 86||10/16/2011|
What r85 said. He only "dates" on the red carpet or when it's obvious it's a photoop.
|by Anonymous||reply 87||10/16/2011|
Dates alot? Yeah...the invisable girlfriends. Alot of gay actors have them. You never see a picture of them. No one ever knows their name. Invisable girlfriends.
|by Anonymous||reply 88||10/16/2011|
I know a woman who had a one night stand with him.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||10/16/2011|
He sounds more like a commitment-phobe than anything.
I realize he's an actor, but some of them are straight, aren't they?
|by Anonymous||reply 90||10/17/2011|
For what it's worth, I say he pings.
Watch him describe his catered prison meal in Law Abiding Citizen and get back to me.
Oh and I'm forty-four, never married, haven't had an LTR in over twenty years, and I'm straight as an arrow. Just into sex with women, and want nothing else to do with them.
|by Anonymous||reply 91||10/17/2011|
[I realize he's an actor, but some of them are straight, aren't they?]
|by Anonymous||reply 92||10/17/2011|
he wrecked the phantom of the opera movie.
Tell me how you're gonna have a Phantom who can't sing.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||10/18/2011|
He looks like total shit now.
|by Anonymous||reply 94||12/26/2011|
[quote]wishful thinking queens
Nobody wants him honey!
|by Anonymous||reply 96||12/26/2011|
Ultimate proof - check the quote near the end of this reproduced article (original link gone, taken over by new URL). No straight guy would say that. Case closed.
|by Anonymous||reply 97||12/26/2011|
R97 What does it say? I don't like clicking on links because some end up having viruses.
|by Anonymous||reply 98||12/26/2011|
Marriage is not a goal for everyone in life, gay or not.
|by Anonymous||reply 99||12/26/2011|
I dont get the fascination with this guy. Horrible actor and ugly as fucking sin.
|by Anonymous||reply 100||12/26/2011|
R98 Here is what it says
[quote]Sensitive soul that he obviously is, Gerry was put out when a well-known director implied recently that he was gay: "My sexuality is my own personal business, but as for the rumours about my alleged affairs with certain actors - not true," he said.
|by Anonymous||reply 101||12/26/2011|
Gerard Butler...he is maybe gay and i don't say 'maybe' if i'm not 80% convinced about it. He is in the closet probably. C'est la vie...
|by Anonymous||reply 102||11/07/2012|