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Another Thread About Women''s Breasts

Sue me if you don't like it.

I've been watching a lot of straight porn lately, and for all the fuss straight guys make about women's tits, they don't seem to actually have much of a role to play during sex. In porn the guys hardly even look at them, much less caress, fondle, lick, suck, whatever, them, so what's the point?

Is this just a porn thing? In real life what do straight guys actually do with them? Do they pretend to nurse? That seems like it would be pretty silly for the woman to sit there having a grown man suck her nipples. Do they use them as handles? Seriously, from the woman's point of view whatever the guy does must seem ridiculous while it's happening, right?

by Anonymousreply 5711/20/2013

It's true. If they are not high and perky, whether big or small, men are not interested.

by Anonymousreply 105/10/2011

Of course R1 talks nonsense.

by Anonymousreply 205/10/2011

I have a straight female friend who told me her husband wanted to nurse when she was lactating, not on a regular basis so much as just to try it out. She didn't think it was peculiar (and yes, she let him.)

by Anonymousreply 305/10/2011

r1 is clueless. Most straight guys say they love them any way they can get them with a flat chest or totally deflated, grandma tits being the exceptions.

I think there's not much breast play in man-on-woman porn because it tends to be all dominant male pounding an orifice...male pleasure only. They leave the detail work to the lesbian scenes.

by Anonymousreply 405/10/2011

There's just not enough places for breeder sex to be the focus on the web. That's why we now have to do it on DL, I guess.

by Anonymousreply 505/10/2011

Hurry or you'll be late for school.

by Anonymousreply 605/10/2011

Yes it's a good idea to ask questions about straight men and their relationship with women's breasts on a gay gossip board.%0D %0D You're sure to solve the mystery here.

by Anonymousreply 705/10/2011

LOL, you guys are funny. It's good to learn about other people and all kinds of experiences.%0D %0D As a woman, I can say all the fools I've shagged had no idea what to do with my tits and used them as playdoh.%0D I actually think a gay man would know better what to do with them than a straight man. Breasts are basically nipples on top of a bun.

by Anonymousreply 805/10/2011

Str8 porn is geared towards str8 mens visual desires and fantasies. So you end up with lots of hardcore penetration shots, and the women tend to have large breasts or implants, this is a huge turn on for str8 men. Women's breasts are very sensitive to touch and stimulation so they play an important role in foreplay and sex. For the record most str8 guys know what to do with breasts, if they don't all you have to do is tell them what you want and they will most certainly accommodate you. Brought to you by a str8 woman.

by Anonymousreply 905/10/2011

I suspect the reason you don't see more tit play in str8 porn is that the women's breasts are all "enhanced" and they're hard as rocks. You'll notice in str8 porn that most women's tits barely jiggle when they're getting their pussies pounded. If they do move, it tends to be just up and down, much like a bag of water would slosh around.

by Anonymousreply 1005/10/2011

Well. Let me tell you people something.%0D %0D I know gays and a lot of them DO enjoy women's breasts. Whether it is the idea of them, or the look, or that it's different than their own shit, or maybe because they've played with them BEFORE...%0D %0D they are interested in them. Lots of gay men like titties and you know it.%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 1105/10/2011

Most of the men I've been with think nipples are radio dials and want to play tittie twister, which does nothing for me. A lot of straight men don't have a clue what to do with a woman except stick their dick in and pound. I don't know whether they honestly don't know or just don't care.

by Anonymousreply 1205/10/2011

Straight men are morons. If they realized how much of a turn on it is for most women to have a man's mouth on their tits they would get laid A LOT more.

by Anonymousreply 1305/10/2011

[quote] I suspect the reason you don't see more tit play in str8 porn is that the women's breasts are all "enhanced" and they're hard as rocks.

But they could still push them together and fuck them, and leave a nice pearl necklace when they cum.

by Anonymousreply 1405/10/2011

r14, please don't confuse what porn stars are paid to pretend to be thrilled by with what women enjoy in real life.

by Anonymousreply 1505/10/2011

Porn is for the visual -- everything is done so you can *see* what's going on, you can see the body parts. In reality, if sex is being done right, you can't see much of anything because his head is buried in her crotch or over her's unfortunate that young straight guys get all their info from porn.

by Anonymousreply 1605/10/2011

As a gay man, I can honestly say I have NEVER wanted to touch a woman's breast (i.e., tit, hooter, fun bag, bazoom, rack, or whatever)

And I haven't.

Not disgusted by them, just totally uninterested.

I feel blessed somehow ....

by Anonymousreply 1705/10/2011

As a gay man with very sensitive nipples, I too wish and wonder why there isn't more attention paid to tits in straight porn. I would imagine a lot of women get off on it as much as I do.%0D %0D When it does occur in porn and a hot guy is giving a pair of hard nipples the attention they deserve - I get very horny.%0D %0D Something about a hot guy going crazy from lust, whether it be over a guy or a girl, completely turns me on.

by Anonymousreply 1805/10/2011

[quote]I know gays and a lot of them DO enjoy women's breasts

I'm sure you're an expert on the gays, Debbie.

by Anonymousreply 1905/10/2011

Large girly breasts only get in the way and spoil the silhouette of a really darling frock.

by Anonymousreply 2005/10/2011

OP, should a gay man be worried about such things? Gay men in my experience usually aren't into boobs if they are attached to a woman.

by Anonymousreply 2105/10/2011

yeah r21 as opposed to when they are attached to a man.

by Anonymousreply 2205/10/2011

Is it 9 1/2 weeks where the guy teases the woman by slowly making her nipples hard with an ice cube? I don't care if you're gay as a goose, that scene is pretty fucking hot.

by Anonymousreply 2305/10/2011

[quote]Seriously, from the woman's point of view whatever the guy does must seem ridiculous while it's happening, right?

Yeah, pretty much.

I just don't get what all the fuss is about. I mean, I can understand why str8 guys are attracted to my tits, but most of them are absolutely fucking obsessed! Always wanting to touch and squeeze and suck, and I mean always. And titty fucking is kinda weird imo, cuz wouldn't a pussy feel better?

Unfortunately, I get almost nothing out of breast stimulation, I mostly find it boring and don't consider it appropriate foreplay.

by Anonymousreply 2405/10/2011

According to a few straight guys I know- they all love the look of plastic boobs, but to feel or touch them? No thank you. Also a lot of women with fake boobs will say that they have very little sensation in the nipples.

However, with natural boobs, nipples (obviously) have sensation, and guys LOVE to fondle and suck them.

Just to see fake boobs get squeezed, you're waiting for them to pop...

by Anonymousreply 2505/10/2011

[quote] please don't confuse what porn stars are paid to pretend to be thrilled by with what women enjoy in real life.

Who cares what women enjoy as long as I get off.

by Anonymousreply 2605/10/2011

[quote]It's true. If they are not high and perky, whether big or small, men are not interested.

Wow, how completely out of touch are you with the world of straight guys, eh?

Guys who are into big boobs do not care if they are high and perky. They just want them big.

by Anonymousreply 2705/10/2011

I had the biggest crush on Mickey Rourke during his 9 1/2 Weeks days. Yes, R23, that is a hot scene. That movie still makes me so horny!!

by Anonymousreply 2805/10/2011

For some reason, women with smaller breasts have more sensation in their nipples. I can climax from good nipple stimulation alone and the guys I've been with find it odd but erotic.%0D One of the common side effects of breast enlargement is the loss of sensation in the nipples. I can't fathom women giving that up to get larger knockers.

by Anonymousreply 2905/10/2011

R26 = straight married guy with a bunch of kids.

by Anonymousreply 3005/10/2011

I hate to see fake breasts in porn. They look so hard and painful.

by Anonymousreply 3105/10/2011

[quote]Porn is for the visual -- everything is done so you can *see* what's going on, you can see the body parts. In reality, if sex is being done right, you can't see much of anything because his head is buried in her crotch or over her's unfortunate that young straight guys get all their info from porn.

Exactly. That's the main reason there's so much anal and doggy-style in porn, so much contorting so that the front of a woman's body is visible to the camera most of the time. It has very little to do with real life sex.

by Anonymousreply 3205/11/2011

Wasn't there a relatively recent thread about women's breast? If so, can anybody bump it? I can't remember the thread title, thanks!

by Anonymousreply 3308/08/2012

The guys I've been with have always paid lots of attention to my tits. I was with one guy who wanted to tit fuck me most of the time. Even when we did other stuff he had to pull out and come all over my tits. I'm a G cup btw. I sometimes feel like men prefer my tits to me and I'm just along for the ride. Women never make me feel that way.

by Anonymousreply 3408/08/2012

G cup? My sympathies to you and your back, R34.

by Anonymousreply 3508/08/2012

I'm actually okay so far which surprises me. I have wide shoulders & a pretty solid ribcage, maybe that's what saves me?

by Anonymousreply 3608/08/2012

I was a small D when I was heavier. That was the one nice thing about being chubby. When I lost weight, my boobs shrunk a lot.

I couldn't imagine being a G, though. How tall are you?

by Anonymousreply 3708/08/2012

I'll second what R12 said. Radio dials indeed.

I have a few gay male friends that love the look of big tits and one will even cop a feel every once in awhile. Of course he's usually drunk when he does.

by Anonymousreply 3808/09/2012

what is it about gay men and breast. This male employee comes out of his office whenever I walk by. I thought he was gay but after taking notice to this routine, it was somewhat of a turn on. Until my lesbian friend slapped me in the head and stated he's very gay haven't you noticed. one can dream

by Anonymousreply 3901/16/2013

Don't gay men enjoy having their nipples sucked and played with? Helps if the man knows what he's doing and is sensitive to his partners' needs and desires and mood, otherwise it can be very uncomfortable.

Same with this straight chick.

If a gay man admires/appreciates/is attentive to female breasts and nipples, does that mean that he's really bi?

by Anonymousreply 4001/16/2013

To OP, you sound like the least imaginative lover ever. I have known men who love to get their nipples caressed.

by Anonymousreply 4101/16/2013

tits tits tits

by Anonymousreply 4211/20/2013

thats a porn thing

in real life, it turns women on to have their breasts fondled and nipples sucked because of all the nerve endings (they're more sensitive than men there)

its really good for foreplay and i enjoy them

by Anonymousreply 4311/20/2013

A big pair of boobs is most guy's fantasy of a ripe pair of man melons. Though they'll never admit it. Ass, the preferred orifice.

by Anonymousreply 4411/20/2013

My sister has size Gs and she's 5'7" and a size 8. You don't have to be fat to have big tits.

Mine are Ds and the women who are attracted to me tend to go right for them, but it never really bothered me. Because they're big, I enjoy having them squeezed, hard. The nipple-sucking I can do without, but the women I've been with can't get enough.

by Anonymousreply 4511/20/2013

Men - and women like to grab stuff.

by Anonymousreply 4611/20/2013

R45 - You don't have to be fat to have large boobs, but boob size often tracks with weight. Mine does.

by Anonymousreply 4711/20/2013

Watching a woman kiss, lick and suck on another woman's tits is hot hot hot.

by Anonymousreply 4811/20/2013

I ,like mine to be carassed, not harshly squeezed.

by Anonymousreply 4911/20/2013

What is this dial breasts like its a radio? Totally not cool or a way to get another date.

Listening dumb straight guys?

by Anonymousreply 5011/20/2013

R29, you're way, WAY off. I have nips sensitive enough to climax with touch, and my breasts are huge. Nipple sensitivity is not related to breast size.

by Anonymousreply 5111/20/2013

R12 - as a gay man, I can say that most gay men don't know what to do with men's nipples either. Mine are super sensitive and wired - I can almost get off on touching them.

However, most gay men think they're pull or chew toys and it fucking HURTS! I suppose there are some people who are into that - but I've had more than one guy pinch or bite my nipples as to draw blood. And they bleed a lot.

I know I'm in the minority for men to have such sensitive nipples and it's such a bonus, so I just have to put up with teaching guys how to do it.

by Anonymousreply 5211/20/2013

[R4} money. Nailed it exactly. Real life, nips electrical circuit to clit. In porn, it's endless pounding of the pussy, but females like erogenous play with tit massage, pulling and clit massage--while getting plowed if possible and if special, all while with a vibrator in the ass. Of course. Sluts.

by Anonymousreply 5311/20/2013

Also,the state of arousal dictates the amount of pressure, where to apply on the mammary--full hand massage of the whole breast or just a nipple pull (a huge favorite of current partner)--have be be responsive, intuitive, whatever. User feedback dictates but losing control and just doing what feels right no matter how gentle or film seems to work. Women sense the lust and just about anything wild and passionately honest horn dog activity is appreciated. Biting.

by Anonymousreply 5411/20/2013

I actually like a little flop, if the boobs are largeish.

by Anonymousreply 5511/20/2013

As a bi woman I want to say most straight men are completely clueless as to how to handle tits. They like how they look and feel but don't know what to do with them.

I always thought that ironically, a gay man would know way more what to do with a woman's breasts than a straight guy since gay men like nipples and know what to do with them and generally, that area of the body. Unfortunately, gay men aren't interested in tits sexually.

by Anonymousreply 5611/20/2013

Women know how to handle em.

by Anonymousreply 5711/20/2013
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