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Do you think that gym management are aware of the sexual activity that goes on in their gyms?

Last night, I was telling a straight personal trainer who's an acquaintance about gym sex, and he seemed shocked. He said he doubts that goes on in the gym where he trains, one of the Bally's clubs in NYC. Do you think management and trainers are aware of what goes on? It's hard to believe, at least when it comes to some of the gyms in NYC that are essentialy glorified bath houses, that they're clueless.

by Anonymousreply 60008/12/2013

Everyone knows. Sexual activity or at the least--sexual cruising--in gym showers, saunas and steamrooms is kind of an unspoken secret. It happens in some gyms more than others. Sometimes it can be rampant; sometimes it can be minimal. But a sexual element of some sort when men are naked together has been a factor since the Greek and Roman days.

by Anonymousreply 101/16/2011

please, if you couldn't get cruised in the steam room, probably a quarter of all gym memberships would be dropped. sex sells, and gym owners are more then willing to take your money for it.

by Anonymousreply 201/16/2011

and Bally's is the worst ...everyone of them is a bathhouse.

by Anonymousreply 301/16/2011

The nacreous layer of permacum on the floor was my first clue.

by Anonymousreply 401/16/2011

Wait, really?! All gyms are like this?

by Anonymousreply 501/16/2011

please GYM ATTENDANT. The first person I saw playing at my gym WAS the gym attendant. And I have personally fingered and fondled front desk personal and have seen certain trainers play musical steam room chairs.

by Anonymousreply 601/16/2011

This must be one of those NYC-centric threads.

by Anonymousreply 701/16/2011

R7, it's common in Chicago too.

by Anonymousreply 801/16/2011

The Ballys in downtown SF was THE hot spot for steam room cruising.%0D %0D Then they renovated it, and removed the steam room.%0D %0D I think the spot now is Club One Fillmore.

by Anonymousreply 901/16/2011

I belong to Bally's and have to be to all the locations in the NYC and Westchester. Cruisiest one is 55th St. A total bath house. I don't think anyone works out there! The guys are more subtle in the Bronx locations (Riverdale & Fordham), but a ton of cruising goes on there. They have a heavy Dominican clientele and so many are on the DL. Btw, a chunk of the then dance downtown and escort on the side. Ironically, it's been my experience that the Chelsea locations is one of the least cruisy. Guess it doesn't help that there's no sauna. It was shut down years ago by the board of health.

by Anonymousreply 1001/16/2011

Why can't elderly trolls have sex in bedrooms like normal attractive gay men do?

by Anonymousreply 1101/16/2011

I would be shocked...SHOCKED! discover any sort of sexual activity going on in the steam room of a gym!

by Anonymousreply 1201/16/2011

I thought the Bally's location on 55th had closed. I will definitely have to check it out. Thanks for the heads-up!

by Anonymousreply 1301/16/2011

I'm tempted to reactivate my Bally's membership just to use it as a bath house every other month or so. They sent me an invitation to reactivate it for less than a hundred dollars a year, fixed on renewal.

by Anonymousreply 1401/16/2011

Pretty sure 55th St is still open. It's really notorious. A lot of the guys are troll-ish, but there are some hotties there. Once sucked off this muscled black guy with what must've been 10-11 hard inches. We'd flirted on the gym floor in the Chelsea location, but never did anything. First time we saw each other at 55th, we had some fun. Traffic was light that day so we weren't caught. I found out later that he's on the DL and a huge pussy hound with the ladies.

by Anonymousreply 1501/16/2011

Never been to Ballys on 55th, but its IMPOSSIBLE that it could be any more cruisy than NYSC on 23rd. Any NYSC in NYC is bad enoigh, but that one takes the cake. Full blast orgies in the suanas, steam rooms, showers almost daily.

by Anonymousreply 1601/17/2011

Wow. This definitely doesn't happen at my gym. I've been there a year and have seen fewer than 10 guys naked. No steam room/sauna, and probably 10% of the guys use the showers. The majority are under 30 muscle-heads who leave right after they're done lifting.

by Anonymousreply 1701/17/2011

I doubt the owners of The Club FtLauderdale have any idea.

by Anonymousreply 1801/17/2011

Bless you, R4 ! I always get such a laugh, when I read that immortal line.

by Anonymousreply 1901/17/2011

Worked out at NYSC tonight. Usually head on home afterward, but decided to sauna and steam afterward. Tons of action and flirting going on. The person I feel sorry for is the maintenance guy who picks up the towels. Guys leave their cum-soaked towels in the sauna and in the corners of the showers. Ick.

by Anonymousreply 2001/17/2011

How about the rest of us who use those towels the next day and wipe our faces with it. No laundry is going to clean them that good.

by Anonymousreply 2101/17/2011

[quote]How about the rest of us who use those towels the next day and wipe our faces with it.%0D %0D Yum!

by Anonymousreply 2201/17/2011

R21 = idiot du jour

by Anonymousreply 2301/17/2011

yall some gym hos

by Anonymousreply 2401/17/2011

r16 is right on the money. I walked into the steam room which was tiny, 8 or 9 guys in there all pulling on their dicks. even the guys standing had their dicks out. Only some were playing with the others however. Mostly it was just solo action, and it was not under the towels. There can be more action there than at the west side club. The NYSC on madison and 36th is similar but not as overt. I worked out there one weekend very early in the am, and there is this overly muscled queen who must walk around for hours in and out of the steam and sauna with a raging hard on without a towel. Otherwise I jerked and sucked in the showers with a few great looking guys.

by Anonymousreply 2501/17/2011

The Public Sex Troll hasn't missed a week in 10 years. Quite an impressive record. Why not step away from the computer more and actually have sex? Surely you could find someone.

by Anonymousreply 2601/17/2011

There is no sexual activity at The Mission Fitness Center in Mission, Texas.

by Anonymousreply 2701/17/2011

and My pussy stinks

by Anonymousreply 2801/17/2011

R23 works in laundry.

by Anonymousreply 2901/17/2011

the 23rd and park NYSC was simply scary- its so out in the open, and its only a sauna (not a steamroom) and there was no hiding anything! I'm all up for fun in the lockerroom but discretion!

by Anonymousreply 3001/18/2011

r26 is actually the one who can't get any sexual satisfaction so he doesn't want to read about others who are having a good time.

by Anonymousreply 3101/18/2011

In San Francisco Golds is the bathhouse gym. Sex everywhere in the Castro location.

by Anonymousreply 3201/18/2011

What about Equinox at 50th St? It once had its own thread here. I went to check it out -- all the trainers seemed straight, some were in great shape.%0D %0D Low-key cruising (not like at, say, David Barton) but it was so busy that I don't think anything could have gone on.

by Anonymousreply 3301/18/2011

Genuinely straight people might honestly be oblivious to what goes on in showers and steam rooms.

I travel a lot for work and my co-workers (around my age...late 20s, early 30s) are always telling me which hotels have nice steam rooms or saunas. I'm also careful to stay away because of the stories from DL (nacreous layer of permacum!), but their minds aren't even thinking of stuff like that.

by Anonymousreply 3401/18/2011

I guess guys who have gym sex aren't interested in ever having a boyfriend or a decent reputation. You do realize, don't you, that you get a bad reputation for those kind of activities?

by Anonymousreply 3501/18/2011

Why would you care?

by Anonymousreply 3601/18/2011

The general manager at my gym gives the best head, and loves to be fucked on one of the benches in the locker room.

by Anonymousreply 3701/18/2011

R35 yes, because in a city with millions of people everyone knows if you have a wank with a hottie in the shower.

by Anonymousreply 3801/18/2011

The PST is not the sex in the gym troll

by Anonymousreply 3901/18/2011

I hate it when the seniors take Viagra and parade around like we want to see that. Hunched up old men with wood is not pretty.

by Anonymousreply 4001/18/2011

I've never encountered that, and I go to an extremely gay gym (12th street, in Philly)

by Anonymousreply 4101/18/2011

"is actually the one who can't get any sexual satisfaction so he doesn't want to read about others who are having a good time."%0D %0D The operative word here is read, as in that's all these old farts, like R31, are doing is reading about sex cause that's the closest they going to get to it in the rest of their lifetimes.%0D %0D Its always the old trolls and pudgy middle aged closet cases doing this shit.

by Anonymousreply 4201/18/2011

I hear rumors all the time about my gym, but in 15 years of going at various times 24/7 I have never seen anything beyond what might have been some cruising. No contact ever.

by Anonymousreply 4301/18/2011

At one of the gyms in NY, my friend once walked into the steam room to find two guys fucking raw. In the same gym, I once encountered one guy fingering another guy in one of the bathroom stalls whose door doesn't close all the way. Trashy!

by Anonymousreply 4401/18/2011

It must be different in Manhattan. Here in LA, at the Y I use, I have never seen any sex. That said, I know that there are guys who spend a lot of time in the steam room. I might mention that I have good reasons to think that several of he management workers and the trainers are gay.

by Anonymousreply 4501/18/2011

And why were you telling him this, OP? Are you trying to get him to put a stop to it?

by Anonymousreply 4601/18/2011

It is odd that YMCA directors and leadership are fundie Christians while their showers and steam rooms teem with the homosex. YMCAs are listed on cruising-for-sex websites, the subject of Craigslist postings, etc. Yet the leadership acts like Ys are wholesome, family-friendly places. My friends who go to our local Ys -- in a mid-size, very fundamentalist community -- say nobody bats an eye at the sex goes on. Is management really unaware of it -- or do they just ignore it to maintain member counts?

by Anonymousreply 4701/18/2011

Believe me it does not happen in every New York Gym. I%0D %0D go to the NY Health and Racquet Club on 23rd street; there is no public (or private) sexual activity. It is very straight-acting and gets a better class of men. None of the trash R44's friend unfortunately experienced.%0D %0D Now there is definitely eye contact going on, but that happens everywhere and is hotter, IMO.

by Anonymousreply 4801/18/2011

A gym where you'd expect there to be a ton of crusing and hooking up is 19th St. Gym, just because it's in the heart of Chelsea. I worked out there a few times, and while there are looks exchanged, the locker room is tame beyond belief. There's no sauna or steam, just a couple of very compact showers with curtains that make it impossible to hook up. I expected to see some hard core locker room hookups there, but nothing. I was almost disappointed LOL.

by Anonymousreply 4901/18/2011

The NYSC Crown Plaza upstairs locker room was just remodeled, for the worse I fear. %0D %0D First of all, the lockers are bigger, but there's fewer of them and the layout means you are all up in someone's business no matter what (maybe not a bad thing, but I don't care for it).%0D %0D And the steam room has been replaced w/ a well lit sauna who's glass door is right by a heavy traffic area. I don't forsee much action happening there now.%0D %0D Also, shower curtains have been replaced w/ translucent doors, so no inviting anyone into your shower w/ you or even putting on a little show.

by Anonymousreply 5001/18/2011

Ballys practically encourages sexual activity. Their showers are mostly curtainless stalls that face each other, making JO and whatever else very easy, esp. in those gyms with light traffic.

by Anonymousreply 5101/18/2011

[quote]the NY Health and Racquet Club on 23rd street; there is no public (or private) sexual activity. It is very straight-acting%0D %0D Most of the NYHRC's are more straight (compared to other gyms in NY), even the one on 23rd, which technicaly is in Chelsea. But, there is a lot of eye-contact cruising going on in the sauna on 23rd.

by Anonymousreply 5201/18/2011

R43 What gym?

by Anonymousreply 5301/18/2011

I was browsing Craigslist and it seems like a majority of the missed connections ads are posted by guys who saw other guys at the gym.

by Anonymousreply 5401/18/2011

[quote]It is odd that YMCA directors and leadership are fundie Christians....

Link please, Miss.

Maybe when it was founded over a hundred years ago.

by Anonymousreply 5501/18/2011

Few of them even reference Christian anymore.

However the ones with the MOST sex are typically in the midwest in conservative christian areas. White married daddies give awesome head at the Y.

by Anonymousreply 5601/18/2011

"the NY Health and Racquet Club on 23rd street; there is no public (or private) sexual activity. It is very straight-acting"

I laughed out loud when I read this. At *night* - yeah, it is packed to the gills with frat boy douchebags. But during the day and weekends is a COMPLETELY different story. I've had fun there on a few occasions - and I've walked in on others doing the same.

by Anonymousreply 5701/18/2011

"The mission of the YMCA is to put Christian principles into practice through programs that build healthy mind, spirit, and body for all."

by Anonymousreply 5801/19/2011

Of course they know. That's why the saunas and steamrooms are continually closed down and notices go up about it.

I think your trainer may have to say that for liability purposes, OP. Either that or he is new or extremely naive. Or perhaps you are not at a NYC gym.

by Anonymousreply 5901/19/2011

Any Chicago guys remember the Bally's on the top floor of Illinois Center (corner of Michigan and Wacker)? That was definitely a bathhouse with a gym attached. All of the shower stalls faced each other without curtains and the steam room had a double door, so you could hear the outer door open a few seconds before the inner door, giving plenty of warning -- not that it mattered since everyone was there to cruise. It made today's NYSC, even 23rd & 8th, look tame.

by Anonymousreply 6001/19/2011

Not only are they aware, but some clubs are designed to facilitate it.

There are some clubs that clearly have mirror and shower placement to make cruising easy.

by Anonymousreply 6101/19/2011


by Anonymousreply 6201/19/2011

I just got back from the gym. Anyone want to smell my finger?

by Anonymousreply 6301/19/2011

I thought of this thread this AM - this guy was standing stark naked at one of the four sinks. I just walked past and snickered to myself. I wonder if he's one of the posters on here. But he's gorgeous so I doubt it.

by Anonymousreply 6401/19/2011

What is the etiquette if one stumbles upon a couple? Do you leave? Do they stop? Do they let you watch?

by Anonymousreply 6501/19/2011

R65...sometimes they leave, sometimes you leave.

Some stop, some do not.

Some want you to watch, some do not.

So the answer to all of your questions is depends.

by Anonymousreply 6601/19/2011

I always say, "Sorry, guys," turn around, and leave them to their fun. I know some other guys offer to serve as a "watcher", to warn the two men when someone is about to enter the steam room.

by Anonymousreply 6701/19/2011

And how often does someone freak out and complain to management?

by Anonymousreply 6801/19/2011

I know a troll (not me, seriously) who got banned from a gym (fitworks) for masturbating in the shower. The gym staff didn't see it but they believed the nearly hysterical, clearly shaken guy who saw it.

I know the guy who did it (acquaintance, not friend). He said he didn't have the nerve to ask for his money back so he still pays the monthly fee and does not go to the gym. I asked why he doesn't go to another location but he said he's afraid to see the guy who reported him.

by Anonymousreply 6901/19/2011

What are the women's locker rooms at gyms like?

by Anonymousreply 7001/19/2011

some straight men get freaked out at just being cruised in the locker room. And they complain to the management.

by Anonymousreply 7101/19/2011

I have a feeling that you are all old queens that do yoga positions in the steam room to present your holes. Now that is something to complain about.

by Anonymousreply 7201/19/2011

For you NYers, does anything go on at the Equinox on 53rd?

by Anonymousreply 7301/19/2011

Not at the 53rd St equinox but the 63rd Street one is practically a sex club.

by Anonymousreply 7401/19/2011

I love these threads.%0D %0D I can vouch for the fact that there can be some really hot guys cruising and messing around in these situations. Sometimes it's frustrating though when you get a troll that lingers. In those situations, the troll likely got lucky one day, years ago, and is still trying his no avail.%0D %0D But the average to hot guys all mess with each other, and stop when a straight guy or old troll or obese person walks in.

by Anonymousreply 7501/19/2011

I never see any sexual activity at my gym. Maybe sometimes some furtive glances but that's it. (To be honest, it's more fun that way.)%0D %0D But there are plenty of gay men that work out there including Graham Norton (in London).%0D %0D I do like flirting with the straight men and they appreciate the attention. I saw a gay friend of mine there last Saturday afternoon whom I hadn't seen since the new year and I went instinctively went to kiss him on the cheek, as we would any other time in the morning during the week, and not only recoiled from me but he threw me a "What are you thinking, freak...!?" It didn't surprise me, he's such a little bitch, so I punched him a few times in the arm. Thought he was acting like an idiot and I said, loudly, "WHO are you afraid of here?" He said something about it being too public. Same gym, different time.%0D %0D Never seen any sexual activity though.

by Anonymousreply 7601/19/2011

I used to belong the NYHRC. First, the 13th Street location is an old man's sexual nirvana. Second, at the Cooper Square location, a masseur offered me a free massage then proceeded to tongue-fuck me and swallow my load. Third, I rarely walk in on flagrant sex acts, but one of the few times I did was at the NYHRC 23rd Street location. Two rather hot boys were sucking each other off. I just watched.

by Anonymousreply 7701/19/2011

Don't know if mgmt is aware of hanky-panky, but there's a coin-op dispenser of condoms, lube, and poppers in the locker room at my gym.

by Anonymousreply 7801/19/2011

Couple of years ago, this troll was thrown out of Ballys at 106th & 3rd for JOing the sauna. I was in the sauna when he was JOing and a straight guy who was in there freaked out. He got a bit over-the-top about it, with hysteria bordering on homophobia, and claimed that the guy probably has AIDS! The troll in question IS gross, but I did feel a bit sorry for him listening to this probable phobe go off on him. %0D %0D %0D That gym has open showers facing each other that get little to moderate traffic most days, and one day said troll went to the back shower stall, bent over, and motioned to me (I was in an opposite-facing stall) to fuck him. I assume he wanted it raw, since none of us had condoms.

by Anonymousreply 7901/19/2011

Love this thread. Only one time in 18 years of going to different gyms did I witness some overt cruising. It was in Bally's in Peabody, MA. I was in those open showers and I swear there were 5 hot guys staring at me and getting hard. None of them jerked off, but I got hard as well. Never happened again.

by Anonymousreply 8001/19/2011

Those of you not getting action (or even witnessing it) at the gym must be ugly as sin. I'm a pretty average guy and I've seen cruising/overt action at every single gym I've been to (and participated a few times, of course).

by Anonymousreply 8101/19/2011

I nearly fooled around with a hot guy in NYSC last week. Only the two of us in the sauna. Stares at first. He made the first move and started rubbing his cock thru his towel. He was standing look-out at the door. I was too nervous to do anything. I'm such a pussy. In theory I'd like to participate, but when push comes to shove, I get very nervous and can't get hard.%0D %0D %0D btw, does NYSC purposely put out towels that are impossible to fully get around your upper legs if you have more than a 28-inch waist or have anything other than the flattest of asses?

by Anonymousreply 8201/19/2011

"I was in those open showers and I swear there were 5 hot guys staring at me and getting hard"%0D %0D %0D r80, did you accidentally wander into a gym for the legally blind?

by Anonymousreply 8301/19/2011

Yes, r82, and I give thanks for that every time the blonde twink at my gym heads for the showers.

by Anonymousreply 8401/19/2011

I like the idea of gym sex but it also scares me to death getting caught

by Anonymousreply 8501/19/2011

The hottest is when a guy opens one valve and gets only a 1/3 hardon. Shows some heavy sizemeat and exits... Best if the nuts are proportionate

by Anonymousreply 8601/19/2011

R82 the towels are not THAT small. I am sure they can handle up to 34 inches. They are 36 inches long.

The reason they and other gyms use them is because they are fucking cheap. The smaller and cheaper they are the fewer that will be stolen.

by Anonymousreply 8701/20/2011

I've got a 33-34 waist, and the towels fit around my waist just fine. The problem is that I have a meaty ass and big thighs from doing squats, so they don't wrap fully around my upper legs.

by Anonymousreply 8801/20/2011

R88 so what?

Why does it need to wrap around your thighs?

by Anonymousreply 8901/20/2011

I'm the bane of all your gym nellies. I'm a bear, sorta. 5'11" and 200 lbs. Not a twink, and only here am I considered morbidly obese. Normal, white boy cock. The towels do not wrap all the way around me, so I don't even bother. I just walk naked to the showers and then back to my locker. I just don't care.

by Anonymousreply 9001/20/2011

R90 Bear or hog?

Seriously if that is all muscle good for you, if it is not all muscle then you are obese.

by Anonymousreply 9101/20/2011

R91, BMI works out to be in the overweight range, not obese. You do not get to define a medical term all by yourself. Besides, pigs don't have as much hair as I do.%0D %0D My problem is that I have all muscle legs from biking all my life (except recently) and a flabby torso due to two shoulder surgeries. Not that I am moderately healed from the second surgery, I am back in the gym working it off.%0D %0D To top it all off, I'm 46. So, a middle aged, overweight white guy walks around the locker room naked. I'm your worst nightmare, and I love every minute of it.

by Anonymousreply 9201/20/2011

I'd cruise you, r92. ;)

by Anonymousreply 9301/20/2011

R92 you are not a worst nightmare, you are probably bared seen as much as you love it most folks are more interested in their mirror image than they are of you.

I bet 9 out of 10 men from your gym would not be able to id you in line up.

by Anonymousreply 9401/21/2011

I noticed this evening that for the first time, at least the first time I've seen, the maintenance guy was wearing latex gloves to scoop all the discarded towels. Maybe he read this thread LOL!

by Anonymousreply 9501/21/2011

91: Skinny. 20ish. Tres femme. Hands wave constantly when he talks. DREADS getting old. Eats "healthy" (i.e, will not go near a cheeseburger)and "adored" Natalie Portman in "The Black Swan."%0D %0D Give me that bear anytime, lol.

by Anonymousreply 9601/21/2011

Towels fit just right at my gym.

by Anonymousreply 9701/21/2011

my god, who is that, r97?

by Anonymousreply 9801/21/2011

[quote]91: Skinny. 20ish. Tres femme. Hands wave constantly when he talks. DREADS getting old. Eats "healthy" (i.e, will not go near a cheeseburger)and "adored" Natalie Portman in "The Black Swan."

Wrong, but you guessers are always making shit up. Muscular 30's, masculine, never do the hand thing. Eats healthy in that my cheeseburger will be grass fed grass finished beef but I am going ot have that burger. Never saw Black Swan and am not even sure who Natalie Portman is.

by Anonymousreply 9901/22/2011

[quote]Muscular 30's, masculine, never do the hand thing. Eats healthy in that my cheeseburger will be grass fed grass finished beef but I am going ot have that burger. Never saw Black Swan and am not even sure who Natalie Portman is.

r99, you forgot: MARY!

by Anonymousreply 10001/22/2011

I forgot nothing...Mary is an expression I do not use.

by Anonymousreply 10101/22/2011

I'm a younger dude and I workout everyday, and I don't cruise. I know what cruising is, and I am cruised, but I don't respond to it. I know I am in the minority because I am just a gay guy who only uses the gym and that's it... but, I was curious, if you didn't cruise, were some how not worthy of friendship, something serious, or even just genuine conversation with gay men at gyms? I feel most gay men at my gym don't speak to you, - only cruise you. If you don't respond, they don't show interest in all. But, they still cruise you. They don't give up. I did meet one gay guy out of many years of working out, but he wore a wedding ring so nobody assumed he was gay... But, the gay men I know who fuck/suck at the gym or in the parking lot, they are all in clicks and hang out (fuck). Has anybody else not into cruising and this kind of "exile" - haha from the other gay/bi men at the gym?

by Anonymousreply 10201/22/2011

My bad... r101 uses manly words like "buddy" and "stud" and "dude" when he's taking it deep.

by Anonymousreply 10301/22/2011

**Is anybody else not into cruising and experienced this kind of "exile" - haha from the other gay/bi men at the gym?%0D %0D ...sorry. I didn't fix my edit.

by Anonymousreply 10401/22/2011

Yes, R102. I've never hooked-up with someone from the gym in all my years of working out, even though I've been cruised thousands of times. Once you start fooling around at the gym, your desirability drops like a stone. %0D %0D Everyone knows who the gym sluts are, and they develop a bad reputation very quickly. Nobody wants a bf with a bad reputation.

by Anonymousreply 10501/22/2011

R105. your gym seems normal. You're lucky. My gym, Lifetime Fitness, the gym sluts have many friends and seem rather liked. The gay men who aren't into random sex are ignored or talked about in a negative way. %0D %0D There was this guy, I was probably cruising me now that I look back, who I liked however. He was always stairing at me in person or through the mirrors, he would always work out near me, follow me, he was sweet to me too when we chatted. This went on for months - almost a year, everyday. So, finally, I wanted to get to know him more and I told him. This guy freaked out. He told all of his friends and they were all homophobic, and so now he ignroes me like crazy, but still stairs at But, I heard he gets his cock sucked by another male member, who claims to be straight. I am really confused by this guy. But, stuff like that I am talking about. Just normal stuff of friendship/relationship. %0D %0D I would love a gay friend to work out with. That would be awesome, but where I live - they don't exist. It's no big deal.

by Anonymousreply 10601/22/2011

**Who was probably cruising me now that I look back,%0D %0D I can't type today.

by Anonymousreply 10701/22/2011

When I joined a first gym and was in the lockerroom to change I wondered why all the guys were looking at everyone else. I wasn't out and clueless. This was the Bally's in Hollywood. Obviously I know now everyone was cruisting each other. I only used the lockerroom a few times and never went in the sauna so I didn't get to witness any action.

by Anonymousreply 10801/22/2011

Gym sex is fun, and anyone who is prudish about it and judging others over it is nobody I want to associate with OR cruise anyhow.%0D %0D That said, there's a time and place for it, and discretion and consideration are hot. No need to make others uncomfortable about it. I've never been caught cruising, and I don't engage if I think that I will get caught. %0D %0D All the above said, I actually switched to a non-cruisy gym a couple years ago, just because I don't want the distraction. I need to spend more time in the gym, and my switch worked for me. But I wouldn't judge the cruisers at all for cruising. I do, however, judge the few people who LIVE in the sauna, and NEVER get action, and are gross, and NEVER LEAVE...which makes it more awkward for the true shower users and the discrete cruisers.

by Anonymousreply 10901/22/2011

r102 = the stairmaster

by Anonymousreply 11001/24/2011

Locker room vista

by Anonymousreply 11101/24/2011

That is one of the nicest photos ever posted on DL. I wish more men looked like that.

by Anonymousreply 11201/24/2011

the management at my gym sucks dicks on call

by Anonymousreply 11301/24/2011

I got pretty good head from one of the trainers last night. He kept staring at me on the mirrors while I ran on the treadmill. Followed me into the steamroom and went for it.

by Anonymousreply 11401/24/2011

True story: couple of years ago, I met one of the NYSC sale guys online. I guess he was online chatting when he had nothing else to do. He tried to get me to come down to his club location, pose as a prospective new member, and let him take me on a tour of the gym (for appearances' sake). Then we would retire to his office, with blinds on the window, where we could suck each other off. He sounded hot, but I never took him up on it.

by Anonymousreply 11501/24/2011

R99 / R101 you come across as lifeless.

by Anonymousreply 11601/24/2011 amazing that you can make that determination via the net based on two posts.

by Anonymousreply 11701/24/2011

I just trolldared R117, and I have to agree with R116. Lifeless.%0D %0D You've made more than two posts darling.

by Anonymousreply 11801/24/2011

I'm pretty lucky. One of the very hot trainers in my gym works out before his clients come, and she showers in between. His body is sick.%0D %0D %0D Most of the showers have curtains, except for two in the back, and he always takes one of these stalls. I don't know if it's because he likes putting on a show or what! Whatever the reason, I'm just glad he does. I take one of the curtained stalls across from him. Thankfully these curtains have holes in them to peek through. The gym has no sauna or steam, so the showers get little traffic, which means at least one of the stalls across from him is always vacant. This sounds a bit stalkerish, but I've got his routine down to a tee.

by Anonymousreply 11901/24/2011

does he jack off for free?

by Anonymousreply 12001/24/2011

R119 your post is confusing is the trainer male or female?

by Anonymousreply 12101/24/2011

Yea but you have to keep the scorecard to map his progress.

by Anonymousreply 12201/24/2011

No, but I jack off, all the time to him. I'm blind as a bat without my glasses, and I wear them in the shower when I know he's there. They keep getting fogged up, but whatevs! He is just my type. Black, heavily muscled, extremely handsome, and a big ole dick swinging between his muscled thighs. He's blazing hot and he knows it. Again, he's in an open shower and I've got a curtain shower with peek-a-boo holes. It's my perfect storm for JO.

by Anonymousreply 12301/24/2011

Funny what we see as hot. I find pale white men with copious amounts of body hair and small penises to be very hot.

A muscular dude with a big one...I would pass.

by Anonymousreply 12401/25/2011

This is happening in every gym I trained in many pats of the world. Muscle adn sex go together - it is man to man who care if you are str8 or gay, married or single - just enjoy the male company and the incredible release of tension in the company of men who know how to make you shoot cum the way you really want to. It is nothing to be embarrassed about - all men wank and like to suck cock. It is a male "thing". So, be good at it and enjoy it at low risk and high pleasure.

by Anonymousreply 12501/29/2011

[quote]I'm pretty lucky. One of the very hot trainers in my gym works out before his clients come, and she showers in between. His body is sick.

Did he have HIV?

by Anonymousreply 12601/30/2011

bump because the front page is so fucking boring today and maybe a little sex will inspire better threads.

by Anonymousreply 12702/03/2011

dildos were found int he locker room at my gym

by Anonymousreply 12802/03/2011

R115 can you tell us which location?

by Anonymousreply 12902/03/2011

I live in NYC and there is a TON of sex and cruising going on at all the gyms. I've been going to the Equinox for quite some time now and I've seen and participated in countless encounters.

One of my favorites was at the Equinox on Greenwich Ave. It was mid week and on the quiet side. After working out, I went into the steamroom, and it was empty. After a minute or so, two hot guys came in and sat on either side of me. They began making eye contact with each other and after a little self groping, they began to maturbate. I was absolutely in shock (not prudish at all) as both these guys were freakin' HOT! Eventually, they both shot off roughly at the same time on to the floor. When done, they quickly wrapped their towels and exited the steamroom. The last guy to leave turned his head, smiled and winked at me. I almost shot my load right then. Damn...

by Anonymousreply 13002/03/2011

r126 you are a freak.

by Anonymousreply 13102/03/2011

Anyone who is having sex, jo or otherwise, has no right to privacy in a public area and shouldn't cop an attitude when someone watches.

I work out at David Barton. I have seen two of the front desk guys making out, jacking and sucking each other in the steam room. I sucked one once and hand my finger up his butt when he shot.

by Anonymousreply 13202/03/2011

R130, if you go back to that Equinox gym steam room, be careful you don't slip on the nacreous layer of permacum.

by Anonymousreply 13302/03/2011


by Anonymousreply 13402/12/2011

I've seen gym staff members engaging in sex in the steam rooms. I was sitting in the corner of the steam room and it was pretty steamed up. The prissy queen from the front desk didn't realize there was anyone else there and started blowing the other guy in the steam room. I took great delight in standing while he was mid suck and letting them know by my presence that I witness the encounter. Now he runs when he see's me coming to the front desk. Don't care who sucks whom

by Anonymousreply 13502/26/2011

They are ALL whores at DBG. King Troll frequents it now. A lot of old queens frequent it now and are so obviously out of place, but they are quite obviously going to procure the "talents" of the muscled whores there. So blatant.

by Anonymousreply 13602/26/2011

Does it make me a slut if I check for online cruising postings and cruising possibility (segregated steam/sauna rooms, etc.) of a gym when I'm considering joining it? Not that it's the only factor in my decision, but...

by Anonymousreply 13702/26/2011

R135 was that at DBG? I have fooled around with a front desk guy there before as well in the steam room.%0D %0D Which front desk guy are you talking about?%0D %0D And what guy is King Troll?

by Anonymousreply 13802/26/2011

R138 Yes it was David Barton Gym. That place has a schizophrenic attitude towards sex in the spa area. A large part is based on whether the staff thinks you're hot and you bring a hot sleazy vibe or a trollish sleazy vibe. It's all kinda sad.

by Anonymousreply 13902/26/2011

R92 has me MOIST! Yum!

by Anonymousreply 14002/26/2011

Is that queen [italic] EVER [/italic] at the front desk? Is she an intern or what? I can't imagine her being paid. Well, you know what I mean....

by Anonymousreply 14102/26/2011

given that gym saunas and steamrooms are frequently shut down by the board of health and the management for sexual activity, I would say - call me crazy - that the management would have to be aware that people are sexual active in them.


by Anonymousreply 14202/26/2011

Is there a NYSC in the city that is not overrun with trolls? Has anyone ever seen any action at the b&t locations? Queens? Staten Island? Long Island?

by Anonymousreply 14303/03/2011


by Anonymousreply 14403/16/2011

R135, which front desk guy was it? Wonder if it's the same guy I played with once in the steam room.

by Anonymousreply 14503/18/2011

Bally's in East Providence, RI and North Providence, RI.

Both cruisy places. I will say North Providence is the crusier of the two.

When I was working out at the North Providence location I attracted a lot of attention from black an Latino guys. Never did partake, it's just a little too tacky in my book.

by Anonymousreply 14603/18/2011

Hi, What does a tramp stamp with biohazard symbols on each butt cheek represent? The guy is really cute but I'm wondering if this is an advertisement that he may be HIV positive. Any help is appreciated.

by Anonymousreply 14703/18/2011

What? Are you so naive - men with hot muscle of any sexual inclination respond to nude steamy muscled flesh. It is natural and normal and has been since man has been man. The Greeks and Romans accepted this as normal, why should be do different? It is natural and manly, nothing to do with being gay. There is nothing wrong being gay but not only gay guys favour beautiful masculine men. It is a matter of getting pleasure from a man who knows how to please in a way no woman will ever be able to do - rough, yet passionate and fulfilling. Be natural and all your inhibitions will disappear. Enjoy being male and forget what the artificial society dictates.

by Anonymousreply 14803/19/2011

Thank you, R148.%0D %0D The hysteria is about men (gay or straight) not willing to deal with basic male sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 14903/19/2011


by Anonymousreply 15004/04/2011

Chelsea Piers- what's the story there? My company is relocating to that behemoth of a building on 27th and 11th and I was thinking of joining...

It being 'chelsea', I have never heard anything about that being a hot place for steamroom action... it seems in chelsea its all about NYSC... are folks just really serious about their workouts there???

by Anonymousreply 15105/18/2011


by Anonymousreply 15209/02/2011

[quote]t's common in Chicago too

What isn't common in Chicago, darling?

by Anonymousreply 15309/03/2011


by Anonymousreply 15409/03/2011

love and laughter

by Anonymousreply 15509/03/2011

What gym doesn't have sexual activity? That would be a very short list.

by Anonymousreply 15609/04/2011

But what do you do with your earrings and caftans during the hookup? Won't they get in the way?

by Anonymousreply 15709/04/2011

All's I can say is : EEEWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 15809/04/2011

[R153] Your ability to land a gentleman friend without a gallon of Raspberry Ripple or a stack of twenties, perhaps?

by Anonymousreply 15909/04/2011

[quote]What? Are you so naive - men with hot muscle of any sexual inclination respond to nude steamy muscled flesh. It is natural and normal and has been since man has been man. The Greeks and Romans accepted this as normal, why should be do different? It is natural and manly, nothing to do with being gay. There is nothing wrong being gay but not only gay guys favour beautiful masculine men. It is a matter of getting pleasure from a man who knows how to please in a way no woman will ever be able to do - rough, yet passionate and fulfilling. Be natural and all your inhibitions will disappear. Enjoy being male and forget what the artificial society dictates.

I know, and I got semi hard reading your post, but the ancient Greeks only accepted it within the boy learning about manhood context, so it was really not that accepted.

by Anonymousreply 16009/04/2011

Pat Boone pushes his towel-wrapped ass toward a naked guy in a steam room.

by Anonymousreply 16109/05/2011

I work out at the NY Health and Racquet Club during the day since I got downsized, and I NEVER see any sexual activity during the day!

I thought this would be one of the few advantages of being unemployed, but even sightings of personal trainers without their shirts are rather rare.

I am so disappointd - especially since I have yet to see some of their hottest trainers shirtless, including a spectacular Latino with a smoking hot body and another well-built stocky African-American guy. I would also add they are all very-straight, and there just never seems to be any sexual activity there.

by Anonymousreply 16212/28/2011


by Anonymousreply 16312/29/2011

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

by Anonymousreply 16401/19/2012

I workout at my University's gym. I have never seen anything sexual happening there -- which is perfectly fine by me.

The men's shower is your typical 12 showerheads in one room. There is one co-ed sauna next to the warm pool.

I am very happy with the non-sexual environment and the price ($19/month for membership to use all 5 campus facilities, all fitness/spinning/yoga classes are $3).

by Anonymousreply 16501/19/2012

"I workout at my University's gym. I have never seen anything sexual happening there -- which is perfectly fine by me."

I'm guessing your university is not Penn State

by Anonymousreply 16601/19/2012

Not only does management know in some gyms the mirror placement encourages it.

by Anonymousreply 16701/21/2012

I was at NYSC last night at Madison and 36th, looked down in the shower and spied the corner of a Trojan Magnum wrapper on the tile. If there is anybody left who reads this and thinks that sex at the gym doesn't happen, think again.

I was extremely turned on by this for some reason. I've never participated, though I've been propositioned. I can't help but think there's something a little too free about hooking up at the gym. I've never seen any couples as some of you mentioned and I'm not sure what I would do if I did.

by Anonymousreply 16802/14/2012

that pic at r161 is from Life? Nobody noticed that the guy off on the right had his dick hanging out?

by Anonymousreply 16902/14/2012

r162, NY Health and Racquet Club is probably the straightest of all the gyms in NYC (relatively speaking), so you don't see a lot going on there. NYSC, on the other hand.... The NYSC at Madison/36th is kind of mixed, but a LOT of hot guys work out there. The NYSC on 23rd/8th is a total gay sex club.

by Anonymousreply 17002/14/2012

OH gawd today at the gym...some one had dropped a used, soiled kotex right in front of the cardio equipment. I felt so bad for the kid that had to clean it up, disgusting.

Ladies if you are working out so hard that your pad falls out you need to cool it.

by Anonymousreply 17102/14/2012

Any hot new gym stories?

by Anonymousreply 17203/24/2012

R70, none of this shit goes on in women's locker rooms except in porn movies.

At the YMCA in Nashville, there's a big sign on the wall warning male members that this kind of behavior can get then kicked out.

I only wish you guys didn't scare the straight guys out of the locker room because they schlep their personal crap all over the gym and store their bags, keys, money clips, iPhone and everything else on the equipment.

by Anonymousreply 17303/24/2012

A North Carolina man has sued the YMCA, alleging that it tolerated sexual activity at his local branch. One of his two lawsuits says YMCAs have become known as a place for homosexual acts and seeks certification as a class-action suit against the local Y and the national YMCA organization.

Maybe this thread will become part of the evidence!

by Anonymousreply 17403/24/2012

The hottest, sweetest trainer at my gym was field suddenly. I have no idea why. Any suggestions? It was actually an employee gym that's also open to the community. Mostly seniors cine it's a small gym with limited hours. Serious gym rats go the Y or 24 hour fitness.

by Anonymousreply 17503/24/2012

R175....maybe we do know why but without you telling us what trainer, what gym and what city we can't help you.

by Anonymousreply 17603/24/2012

R169 we noticed, but he is an old fat troll so we quickly looked away and then washed out our eyes.

by Anonymousreply 17703/24/2012

[quote]there's a big sign on the wall warning male members that this kind of behavior can get then kicked out.

There's a similar sign in NYSC gyms as well. You see how effective that is.

by Anonymousreply 17803/24/2012

It's sexual addicts like you people who give the rest of us a bad name. I don't want to step in your cum or smell your shit in the locker room.

by Anonymousreply 17903/24/2012

R179 are you suggesting that toilets be removed so that you do not smell shit?

by Anonymousreply 18003/24/2012

I'm a member of NYSC too, r178, and I've never seen any signs.

by Anonymousreply 18103/24/2012

I've seen signs like that in some NYSC but not all. I guess maybe it was a response to some complaints at some locations.

by Anonymousreply 18203/25/2012

The Bally's in King of Prussia PA was a hotbed of sexual activity during the 80s and 90s. The steamroom was right next to the showers and it was very easy to hook up. Some of the straight boys complained and the bathroom was reconfigured and the steamroom was relocated to the pool area - complete with window.

by Anonymousreply 18303/25/2012

Do the trainers every partake in the action?

by Anonymousreply 18403/25/2012

Forgot to mention that the Y in Nashville also has a sign up that foul language on the gym floor will not be tolerated. It's actually kind of nice working out in a place where guys aren't shouting fuck this and fuck that 24/7. LOL.

by Anonymousreply 18503/25/2012

r177 i misstated my question, which was: Was that sauna pic really published in Life magazine? Seems odd they would publish a pic of some naked guy in a popular national magazine.

by Anonymousreply 18603/25/2012

Bump after watching the locker room attendant bust two trolls and threaten to get the manager if they didn't stop wanking each other in the sauna.

by Anonymousreply 18704/24/2012

Bally's!!?? Couldn't have been the one in the 50s circa 1995. Served steamed wieners everyday.

by Anonymousreply 18804/24/2012

Various YMCAs in San Francisco, especially the one on Steuart Street (I hear; haven't lived there in 4 years)

by Anonymousreply 18904/24/2012

R72 has me laughing hysterically; love it!

by Anonymousreply 19004/24/2012

Chicago here, but havent seen any action yet, where?

by Anonymousreply 19104/24/2012

I manage a high end gym and we don't get many complaints about overt sexual activity in the locker rooms. The only time we have had to expel a member was a middle aged crazy lady who was caught several times openly masturbating in the steamroom and showers.

by Anonymousreply 19204/24/2012

I used to go to a very straight, non-gay, gym in the San Fernando Valley and I was amazed at the amount of stuff that went on in the steam room and the spa.

by Anonymousreply 19304/24/2012

I've been thinking about joining the 24 Hour Fitness Denver-Lowry, and after reading this thread I did some Googling. Sure enough, it's listed as a cruising spot. Supposedly Sunday afternoons and latenights are best. (Why Sundays? Are the str8 guys watching sports on TV?) Now I'm really curious.

by Anonymousreply 19404/24/2012

That's pretty funny, R194. That's the gym I go to. But I go early in the day and never see any sexual activity. There's too many people in and out.

by Anonymousreply 19504/24/2012

[quote]a big sign on the wall warning male members that this kind of behavior can get then kicked out.

What is the wording on the signs? Fellatio-Free Zone! No Suprise Anal Allowed! No Cumming in the hot tub.

by Anonymousreply 19604/25/2012

NYSC has to walk a fine line: a lot of their members are NYC gay men who either partake in sexual activity (steam room or sauna) or don't want a police-state thing where staff constantly looks at its gay members with suspicion.

But they could get sued if they do not take reasonable steps to cut down on it. So they put up signs and peep into the sauna every so often. It is funny in there if you are part of a j/o group, it's all wank-wank-wank-STOP, someone new came in and we do not know if he's a wanker (so to speak). Then ascertain that he is, wank-wank-wank-STOP, someone new comes in again, or the gym attendant is peeking in. It is a never ending wankus interruptus.

by Anonymousreply 19704/25/2012

[quote]One of his two lawsuits says YMCAs have become known as a place for homosexual acts and seeks certification as a class-action suit against the local Y and the national YMCA organization.

I remember that case -- all surviving members of the Village People received subpoenas to testify. (kidding)

by Anonymousreply 19804/25/2012

Does anybody know if the NYSC in Harlem is cruisy?

by Anonymousreply 19905/03/2012

I've hooked up in many different NYSCs.

Never seen staff partake. Attendants are definitely aware of it in the locker rooms, but I've never seen them cross that line. Maybe they do, I don't know. It's always peak times when I'm there, so they're always busy.

Some gyms are more than others. One of my friends got in trouble once for it, but I don't know exactly what that means. I'll need to ask him.

by Anonymousreply 20005/03/2012

I once saw an attendant brush off what he saw when he caught people fooling around. He seemed to encourage it. I think he got some on the side. 86th st I think.

by Anonymousreply 20105/05/2012

BSC, the Boston equivalent to NYSC has a sign in the locker room now saying that they will be monitoring the steam and saunas more because of inappropriate activity.

As I was walking to the showers I saw an attendant open the sauna and say "could you please cover up sir?". He then went back a few minute later and threw them man an extra towel. ( the guy had been cruising me).

by Anonymousreply 20206/29/2012

It's in their brochures

by Anonymousreply 20306/29/2012

Someone asked that the NYSC troll thread be revived...NYSC and troll and this is what comes up at google.

by Anonymousreply 20407/13/2012

anybody know of anything going down at planet fitness on 27 street nyc?

by Anonymousreply 20507/28/2012

[quote]I used to go to a very straight, non-gay, gym in the San Fernando Valley and I was amazed at the amount of stuff that went on in the steam room and the spa.

Tell us more.

by Anonymousreply 20608/04/2012

Most of these posts are bullshit fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 20708/04/2012

[quote]It is funny in there if you are part of a j/o group, it's all wank-wank-wank-STOP, someone new came in and we do not know if he's a wanker (so to speak). Then ascertain that he is, wank-wank-wank-STOP, someone new comes in again, or the gym attendant is peeking in. It is a never ending wankus interruptus.

R197. Your post made me laugh. How true...haven't we all been involved in Wankus Interruptus?! It's annoying, but it's one of the challenges of your job as a gay man.

And then it can get rather hot (I mean sweating to death) when a troll walks in and won't leave so that Wankius Interruptus can become Wankus Continuous leading to Wankus Climaxus.

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by Anonymousreply 20910/23/2012

an NYSC member here and it i've been going to the tribeca and park slope locations recently. the T steam room has some "tension" but i've never seen or experienced anything. PS on the other hand, is very interesting. last eve was the first time i went after work and watched as the same group of guys rotated from steam, shower, and sauna. two made moves in the room towards me...the same two that i had seen before (weekend) so they def are trolling hard. either it's a jacked up steamroom, or mngmt was trying to control things because it kept going back and forth from blazing hot to no steam at all. guys kept having to fiddle with the controls.

by Anonymousreply 21010/23/2012

R60, I never went to that Bally's, but I used to go to the one at Washington & Wabash back in its heyday in the early 90s. Talk about blatant action. I walked in on full-on orgies in the steam room many times. One time, two guys were fucking bareback in the middle of the room with a crowd playing around them, and they didn't even stop when the door opened. Good times.

by Anonymousreply 21110/23/2012

does anything go down at spa castle? when's the best time to go there?

by Anonymousreply 21210/24/2012

Thank for telling him so he can alert them & ruin it for everyone

by Anonymousreply 21310/24/2012

[R211] I experienced that Bally's too, including one of the trainers sucking cock and taking it up the ass in the sauna. With the showers around the corner and way in the back of the locker room, it was a free for all in the stalls.

by Anonymousreply 21410/24/2012

They don't care so long as nobody complains. I've been a member of Equinox, NYSC, 24 Hour Fitness, and Ballys in NYC at different times over the past dozen years. Staff was involved at Equinox that I knew of anyway.

Just don't be nasty and try to play with those not interested. I may like to play but not with everyone and not every time I'm there.

by Anonymousreply 21510/24/2012

It isn't just in the big places - even the Bally's in East Providence, RI is pretty cruisy.

by Anonymousreply 21610/24/2012

I once blew the manager of the equinox on columbus circle in the sauna one morning. it was hot

by Anonymousreply 21710/24/2012

Ready for the sauna

by Anonymousreply 21811/12/2012

Fortunately the NY Health and Racquet Club - even in Chelsea on - has none of this going on. It explains why they were named NY's Best Gym. I go there to work out, period.

by Anonymousreply 21911/12/2012

People who engage in sexual activity in public places should be banned and arrested. They are dangerous sexual predators who lack respect or self-control.

by Anonymousreply 22011/12/2012

Pic of R220:

by Anonymousreply 22111/12/2012

More Los Angeles area stories please.

by Anonymousreply 22211/12/2012

More NY area stories please.

by Anonymousreply 22311/12/2012

r222, the 24 hour on Pico in BH is pretty cruisy. They have a VIP locker room that also has its own sauna and is totally private and you can hear the main door open first. I've seen plenty of stuff in both saunas and shower. Including a pile of shit in the regular showers. Seriously...who the f does that?

by Anonymousreply 22411/12/2012

[quote]Including a pile of shit in the regular showers. Seriously...who the f does that?

Tony Thomas, the son of Danny Thomas.

by Anonymousreply 22511/12/2012

Just saw this thread by its been going on for a while. LOL

Sure Mgmt knows.. many gyms have signs now that say as much.

If you work out in NYC or LI at a gym like NYSC or a similar gym, you cannot be surprised by this thread if you shower there or want a steam depending on the time. Ive see it a gazillion times, mostly just that dopey walk back and forth between the sauna-shower-steam rooms 20x hoping someone follows you LOL. I have never seen outright sex...but i have seen the ever popular and subtle dick pull/semi showoff to see who looks, and the the inevitable JO. It is what it is...if you just want a steam/sauna and you have no interest in it, instead of making a scene all you have to do is just be like dude not interested. It ends right there.

Ill admit a few times i've joined with a dude if I thought he was hot and it was safe. Just some light JO. It is what it is, exciting etc. I'm sure gay dudes do it but I have to say its a LOT of str8t/bi closeted guys where it is an outlet for them.

What can you say, I totally understand the 100% str8 guys hating it who just want to steam without all that..but I also know a lot of 100% str8t guys in NYC who just realize its part of going to a gym in NY and if you don't get into that you just say no and that's it. But don't be fooled.. it is all over and a ton of closeted guys

by Anonymousreply 22611/19/2012

I haven't done it in a while, but I've hooked up at my gym in NYC. It's pretty cruisy. My only rule has been (and always been) that I must work out for at least an hour before I cruise. There's a lot of guys who go to the gym and never leave the locker room.

by Anonymousreply 22711/19/2012

i don't think there is anything wrong with some level of play as long as everyone present and involved is ok with that. what always shocks me is how far some guys will go with complete disregard for how fast the door can swing open and someone will walk in. there's no denying it when someones head is down in a lap

by Anonymousreply 22811/19/2012

This basically never happens in all-female gyms. The lesbian hookups take it to a classier setting.

by Anonymousreply 22911/19/2012

I think they know, but money talks. I don't bother with the sauna at my gym. I go the weekly pool/sauna party, clothing optional, for men in NY city. It's called BANYA MONDAY. Plenty of hot naked dudes in the pool, Jacuzzi, steam room, saunas, showers, etc.

by Anonymousreply 23011/24/2012

R230 is right, it's a good time, tons of guys of different ages and body types.

by Anonymousreply 23111/24/2012

I'd do it.

by Anonymousreply 23211/24/2012

r229...a U-Haul lobby is classier?

r230 is the Banya Party's online marketing guru.

by Anonymousreply 23311/24/2012

R233, You're obviously not familiar with the classy, femme and FIT variety of woman up for a lesbian fling. I know it's hard for you to comprehend that nice, pretty, homo/queer/curious females exist. But you'll be fine. Just sit with it for a little while and breathe. Gross, who DOES do it in U-Haul lobbies? Oh, that's right. Fat, sweaty gay men. Truck stops, same thing.

by Anonymousreply 23411/24/2012

i've never heard of banya it similar to the bottom area of spa castle? or cruisier?

by Anonymousreply 23511/25/2012

I'm with you 235.

by Anonymousreply 23611/26/2012

R218 lick his hairy hole

by Anonymousreply 23711/26/2012

Can someone explain Spa Castle?

by Anonymousreply 23811/26/2012

Spa Castle is a spa in College Point, Queens. It is modeled after both Asian and European style spas. The ground floor contains men's and women's facilities that include tv lounge, beautiful locker rooms, a wet area including Asian sit-down showers and stand up open showers, tubs of 7 different temperatures, sauna, steam room and body scrub area. These areas must be used nude and you know what tends to happen in heat with nude people. But it is a family place, people bring their kids, etc.

Very mixed crowd, different ages, races, body types. Two more floors are co-ed and require you to wear a uniform they provide. There's body services, food, a bar, a gym, rooftop pool, several saunas.

It's a fun place and a great escape from this toilet of a city.

by Anonymousreply 23911/27/2012

So is spa castle very cruisey? Are the guys hot? When is the best time?

by Anonymousreply 24011/27/2012

[R240], i went on a thursday evening and there were a lot of guys there. definitely some cruising, along with one guy flat out jerking off and all the guys really just there for the experience. i had some under water action that lead to a brief moment in the wet sauna. all in all, it's not the type of place to get it on. more the tension and dance of it all...which i actually really enjoy. the guys ran the full gamut...some really hot, some average, and a few really nasty. the ages and races also varied. there was also a whole crew of young hasidic guys which was very interesting to watch.

by Anonymousreply 24111/28/2012

I haven't been to Manhattan Plaza Health Club in 3 1/2 years. Should I rejoin? What's the scene like there now in the locker room?

by Anonymousreply 24211/28/2012

The locker room attendant at Equinox at 19th St. used to blow me on the mornings I went there. Good times.

by Anonymousreply 24311/28/2012

Any gyms in Chicago with action?

by Anonymousreply 24411/28/2012

Is it possible for a good looking white guy to get any action at NYSC 125th St.? There's so much hot black cock to be had, but they seem to only want one another. I've tried, but no takers. What's the deal there? I worship black cock, so it's been pretty disheartening not to be able to get any there.

by Anonymousreply 24511/28/2012


You're being too subtle. You need to bend over and show them your hole. That's the only way they're going to know that's what you're looking for.

by Anonymousreply 24611/28/2012

Bump for gym sex

by Anonymousreply 24712/07/2012

You NYC queens are quite something. You'd be amazed at what goes on in gyms (major chains) in the fucking San Fernando Valley.

by Anonymousreply 24812/07/2012


by Anonymousreply 24912/08/2012

Don't give up 245. You'll luck out one of these nights.

by Anonymousreply 25012/10/2012

i really like the tension of a steam room filled with guys, especially when they all have been coming and going from the room and it's clear what's up. something dirty doesn't always have to happen, but the watching and waiting for someone to be the first to make a move is exhilarating

by Anonymousreply 25112/11/2012

[quote]Last night, I was telling a straight personal trainer who's an acquaintance about gym sex, and he seemed shocked.

"But it's wrong! SHOCKINGLY wrong!"

by Anonymousreply 25212/11/2012

I fucken jerk off at the ymca and got sucked off at the y

by Anonymousreply 25312/16/2012

I upgraded my NYSC membership to passport recently, which means I can go to any location, and not just the one near my home in NJ. This week I started going to a location in NYC near my job, and I can't believe the amount of sex that goes on. Tonight, three guys were taking turns fucking this one guy in the middle of the steam room, while a bunch of guys stood around them jerking off. At first I was fascinated by it, but that fascination quickly turned to stomach-turning sickness. I ran out and stayed in the sauna, where thankfully nothing was happening aside some harmless stares and some tugging. That's good enough for me. btw, I didn't notice any condoms on the guys who were screwing.

by Anonymousreply 25401/10/2013

R245, Go in and yell "anyone in the mood for an Oreo cookie?" You'll be sandwiched between 2 hot black guys in no time

by Anonymousreply 25501/10/2013

r254, which location was it?

by Anonymousreply 25601/10/2013

[r254], which location in NYC was this? And which gym in nj do you go to? It is shocking how much more goes on in the city than in nj.

by Anonymousreply 25701/10/2013

yummy all those hairy hunks fucking

by Anonymousreply 25801/10/2013

muscle jock boy with the cute turned up nose walked into the steam room with full hard on and started to

by Anonymousreply 25901/10/2013

Just joined Curves as part of my New Year's resolution. Any action there?

by Anonymousreply 26001/11/2013

Curves? Isn't the steam room where hey hide the donuts?

by Anonymousreply 26101/11/2013

there's always something going down at the NYSC steam

R254 i've never seen it get to that though, where are people taking it that far?

by Anonymousreply 26201/11/2013

A lot of shit used to go down at the W.94th St. location. For the past year, the homophobic Latin thug maintenance guy does spot checks of the sauna and steam area, and he'll report any hint of "inappropriate" behavior. So not so much goes on there these days. I think a lot of the NYSC sluts have moved down to 80th St.

by Anonymousreply 26301/11/2013

things get interesting at the irving pl nysc during lunch time

by Anonymousreply 26401/11/2013

The management at NYSC at 14th St and 5th Ave knows the score. I went there last night. The shower curtains are so short they barely covered my ass and junk. They really want to be sure there's only one person in each stall.

But it didn't stop people from playing. Two guys didn't even bother closing the curtains and were watching each other jack off. One of them was hot. A compact muscular guy with a hairy chest and massively thick cock. I got to touch him a bit in the sauna. He shot in the steam room.

by Anonymousreply 26501/12/2013

started to what R259? started to what???

by Anonymousreply 26601/12/2013

The Food Stamp chef just trashed NYSC 80th for the 'Seniors on Cialis'.

I laughed out loud at a straight guy commenting on the crap he has seen.

by Anonymousreply 26701/12/2013

...and NYSC 80th has closed the steam room. They had so many complaints and now gone...for the moment.

When the complaints about the closure outweigh the complaints about the trolls it will re-open.

by Anonymousreply 26801/13/2013

a funny tweet: Wesley Taylor ‏@WesTayTay The real predators, Chris Hansen, are in the locker room/steam rooms at my gym. Bring your camera crew. They are not kidding around.

by Anonymousreply 26901/13/2013

New York needs more gay saunas.

by Anonymousreply 27001/13/2013

wheres the action in CA? specifically los angeles.

by Anonymousreply 27101/13/2013

Fly over state here. Fucked untold guys in the stream room. Fucked several in the tanning room. Had a 3 way in the tanning room also. Got hand jobs in the jacuzzi, Mutual JO in the showers. Seen guys stand in the door of the Sauna to block the view while guys played in the back of it.

Isnt that what gym wet areas are for?

by Anonymousreply 27201/13/2013

R272, describe your junk for us.

by Anonymousreply 27301/13/2013

Just got back from Vegas and enjoyed the parade and play at the resort spa over the weekend. The big Consumer Electronics Show was just ending so no shortage of dorks & engineer-looking conventioneers walking from sauna to steam and back again. Lots of wedding bands on these out-of-towners but that didn't stop the play in the "meditation room" or the crotch grabbing in the sauna.

One teenager gave me quite the jerk off show in a sauna but I opted for a friendly IT guy in from Orlando. Told him we could go up to my room, which we did, to fool around in comfort.

by Anonymousreply 27401/13/2013

Of long as they getting their membership money they don't give a fuck! And besides, what is a gym for?

by Anonymousreply 27501/13/2013

I wish I belonged to a gym like this - I would alert the management immediately, each and every fucking time.

by Anonymousreply 27601/13/2013


Just got back from Vegas too... which spa were you at?

by Anonymousreply 27701/13/2013

R272 About 7 cut thick. 6'2" 185, fit, 35, married.

by Anonymousreply 27801/13/2013

r276, in many of the gyms, the managers and/or personal trainers partake of the fun.

by Anonymousreply 27901/13/2013

[quote]Fly over state here.

I cannot imagine the level of troll in a fly over state when you consider that someone described as hot would be quite average on the coasts.

The guys who play in the sauna at my gym in DGB in NYC are usually quite hot.

by Anonymousreply 28001/14/2013

Not just LA and NYC - the biggest cock I ever sucked was when I was 16 in the changing room of our local gym/racketball club in Toledo Ohio. I always saw this guy there, skinny about 18 with an arm sized hard on every time he was in the locker room. I worked out late one night (lol worked out meaning I used the universal equipment next to the pool) around 7:30. When I went in to shower and change, I heard one other person. I went to my locker and who comes walking out but giganto dick and sure enough he was hard and showing. His locker was next three down from mine so he was right near me. I was just staring at his dick. As he came over I said "hey I think we are the last two in the club" and laughed a little to break the ice. He just said "cool." Never being shy I said "I got to tell you man you got a huge dick." He got a little shy and awkward and said "yeah I guess," but he was not putting on any clothes he just kept toweling off. I asked him if I could touch it and he sort of moved closed not saying a word. I took that as a yes and reached out and grabbed the biggest thickest cock I have ever seen (I was 16 now 40). I just leaned in closer holding it, saying damn man that's awesome and he was not pulling away so I just opened up and starting blowing him right there in the locker room. I think he lasted about 3 mins and I barely got more than 1/4 of it in my mouth. He shot a huge load in my mouth, got all freaked out, threw on his clothes and booked outta there. Never saw him again.

by Anonymousreply 28101/14/2013

R281 is a total whore who started out being a whore young...

I'm jealous.

by Anonymousreply 28201/14/2013


by Anonymousreply 28301/15/2013

Hey 277, it's me 274, and the hotel was the Palazzo / Venetian. They have a great gym & spa there, "The Canyon Ranch Spa," and I would say that during about 50% of my visits there, I see guys following each other around, or guys quickly moving away from each other when I enter the sauna or steam-room.

I've also enjoyed a hand-job at the Mandalay Bay's nice spa (in the steam room), and a great shower make-out session in the spa at the new Cosmopolitan Hotel. Lots of hot "strait" guys strut their stuff there.

But I hear that the action at Ceasar's Palace can't be beat in terms of Vegas resort spas.

Regarding this thread subject, this is Vegas, and the young guys who staff these resort spas know what's going on and don't give a damn.

by Anonymousreply 28401/16/2013

Slutty vegas spa visitors should have their own thread.

by Anonymousreply 28501/16/2013

Just had a hot conversation. Co-worker, a straight, married guy always hits the nearby gym during lunch. He comes back and asks me and another co-worker what we do if we had been in the scenario he was just in...

He was in the steam room with about 9 other guys. 2 of the guys started jerking off and slowly but surely the other guys started joining in. Co-worker was completely stunned shit like this goes on and asks us what we would have done.

I say that I would have just gotten up to leave (total lie).

Other co-worker says he'd leave too. Then he says he doesn't understand why the other guys joined in. Like he was seriously wondering how they'd get turned on if they're straight. He then changes his mind and says he'd probably stay and just go about his business. He then thinks about it some more and says, he guesses that he'd be intrigued by the whole thing and watch and if he somehow got aroused, who knows, he might be tempted to join in.

Co-worker who was in the situation said he didn't know what to do and just sat there. He didn't want to disrupt anything going on.

I found that so fucking hot. Especially the co-worker who kept thinking about it and ended up considering joining in.

They're both straight and good guys and the conversation was just so matter of fact, which made it so hot.

Jerking off in the steam room with guys who might be straight gets me going... but now knowing that a lot of them were straight and what the thought process is behind it is really damn sexy.

by Anonymousreply 28601/17/2013

I never cared either way. I'm not particularly intrigued, yet not repulsed.

by Anonymousreply 28701/17/2013

surprised there's nothing on here about david barton chelsea. been a member a few years and the shit ive seen in that steam room. damn. the best way i describe it to people is like being in a porno....and most of the time it involves a porn star or two that you've seen in action at home...

by Anonymousreply 28802/02/2013

Gym sex is for married men who are afraid to be seen going into the local ABS.

by Anonymousreply 28902/04/2013

Gym sex is awesome for a number of reasons. Developing friendships with your favorite gym sluts outside the gym is great, too. I've gotten to know some really sweet, masculine, hot guys--bi/closeted and openly gay alike.

And it can certainly be totally safe. It can be "look, but don't touch" if that's all you want. It can also mean fucking raw in the steam or shower if that's your thing.

It can also be fucking frustrating as hell when no one wants to make the first move, or if there's some sort of consensus that nothing will happen until the fat old troll leaves (which he may never do). NYSC at 14th & 6th is usually the biggest waste of time in that regard.

94th & Broadway is pretty hoppin', though. Irving Place or SoHo are your best bets.

by Anonymousreply 29002/04/2013

Looking for someone to come take this load. Str8 white male. Meet me in the showers. Take my load and go. No talk. No BS. My only time away from her is when I am at the gym.

by Anonymousreply 29102/05/2013

Bump for more gym sex.

by Anonymousreply 29202/21/2013

i go to the gym during the day when i'm on break. the exact time tends to fluctuate from day to day by 30 mins to an hour. i'm always surprised to see a lot of the same troll faces cruising around the locker room at any time of day. don't these jerks have jobs??

by Anonymousreply 29302/22/2013

I'm going to NYSC today in Manhattan for a great upper body workout, and I will definitely be hitting up the wet areas afterward. I will be shooting my load. I'm 33, fit, handsome, and hung. Will you be there?

by Anonymousreply 29402/22/2013

Steam Queen!

by Anonymousreply 29502/22/2013

Is that what they're called, R295? I guess I know a few of them from certain NYSC locations. I'm definitely not queeny, though.

by Anonymousreply 29602/22/2013

I haven't heard steam queen before, but I like it. I've heard an old sauna troll referred to as a saunasaurus.

by Anonymousreply 29702/22/2013

weht kirker?

by Anonymousreply 29802/22/2013

[quote]The big Consumer Electronics Show was just ending so no shortage of dorks & engineer-looking conventioneers walking from sauna to steam and back again. Lots of wedding bands on these out-of-towners but that didn't stop the play in the "meditation room" or the crotch grabbing in the sauna.

Married men love to get away to conventions.

by Anonymousreply 29902/22/2013

Gym management at mine are all horned up cock suckers so they love it and occasionally join it!

by Anonymousreply 30002/22/2013


by Anonymousreply 30102/22/2013

I've not really seen any action at my gym. Thank goodness, there are an abundance of seniors when I go. Years ago though in the early evening I had a particularly sweaty workout and went to shower. A taller blond with a toned but lanky body came in and began showering right next to me. My gym has an open shower area, no stalls or curtains or dividers. We were obscured from view of people just walking by and he began boning up. I noticed and started boning up too. Then I realized I was in a public gym and got the fuck out of there.

by Anonymousreply 30202/22/2013

I have been doing the "sauna/steam room" quickies for the last 12 years. Initially it was fun and i got very addicted. Now it is a curse. I cannot pull myself out of the addiction and have to suffer the wordless rejections and humiliations that unfortunately are part of the game and i am not getting any sexier with age. I forgot the art or mathematics of dating at bars and on the net. I need help but cannot get any. Suggest anyone reading this and into gym qcuickies to stop before it is too late.

by Anonymousreply 30302/23/2013

Stroking in the steam room is one thing. Cumming in the steam room makes you a dirty slut.

by Anonymousreply 30402/25/2013

Anyone else with experiences/stories to share?

by Anonymousreply 30503/14/2013

"the homophobic Latin thug maintenance guy does spot checks of the sauna and steam area"

I'm sure he's doing all kinds of gay things in his private life. The virulent homophobes always do.

I work out at home, so have only been to the gym once in my entire life (guest of a friend). I went to the sauna, and I was shocked to see everyone masturbating. All guys in their 30's and 40's. I didn't join in, although it was clear that it was a normal occurrence there. I went to another sauna, which was more sedate - a few hard-ons, but no sexual activity. A Marine-looking blond guy came in, took one look at the hard-ons, and went to complain to the front desk. A guy came downstairs, and half-heartedly told the excited guys to 'cool it'. I don't know what happened in the other sauna. I felt like I had just gotten an education on gym life.

by Anonymousreply 30603/14/2013

I should add that I had just turned 20 when that happened. I guess it's like that in all major cities - I was in Dallas at the time.

by Anonymousreply 30703/14/2013

There was a very eager beaver in my gym the other day. This muscled guy maybe late 30s, nice body was a horny cocksucker. He started sucking this younger skinny kid, mid 20s. Some cute guy came in and sat down next to the kid and the kid started stroking him while the cute watched the muscle guy suck away. The cute guy came getting a hand job and the muscle dude slurped that up.

I always find it interesting the cock sizes of all involved. The mid 20s guy probably had the biggest, maybe 7.5. The muscle guy was more average about six. I think it's hot seeing a big guy, physically, suck off a smaller dude.

by Anonymousreply 30803/15/2013

We used to bust the light bulbs for ambience in the steam room.

by Anonymousreply 30903/15/2013

More stories please.

by Anonymousreply 31003/15/2013

They just put in a very brite light in our steam room gym. It looks like a tanning booth now. Someone must have noticed.

by Anonymousreply 31103/18/2013

I am a fairly recognizable actor and belong to Equinox. I can say there is sex going on but not excessively. I avoid the shower/steam areas and just shower when I get home. However I have cruised and been cruised many times at the 50th st location. I will meet up with someone later on that day for more discreet hookups. Works better than a gay bar for me. To answer the OP, I'm certain that management knows.

by Anonymousreply 31203/18/2013

r312, if you are recognizable, give some of the guys in the locker room a thrill sometime and strip down and let them see you naked. Guys have a lot more respect for people who aren't afraid to show it off. It will give you some nice press in gay NYC circles.

Whatever you do, don't do the towel dance when you change. You will be talked about forever. George Snuffleupagus or whatever his name is from Good Morning America is a known towel dancer.

by Anonymousreply 31303/18/2013

r313, what kind of guys are you talking about? certainly, not the vast majority of guys of any sexual orientation. perhaps the tiny minority of guys who somehow admire inappropriate public exhibitionists and people with disorders.

by Anonymousreply 31403/18/2013

r314, you don't live in NYC, do you?

by Anonymousreply 31503/18/2013

r314, being naked in a locker room is hardly an act of "inappropriate public exhibitionists." Go back to Victorian England.

by Anonymousreply 31603/19/2013

R313 George never does the towel dance.

I see him at the gym several times a week...where did you get that bit of fiction.

by Anonymousreply 31703/19/2013

Will NYSC at 80th ever take care of the troll problem?

I and a host of others have left the chain due to the trolls.

by Anonymousreply 31803/19/2013

Go back to Victorian England.

even in victorian england guys wouldn't have cared about nudity in a changing room.

by Anonymousreply 31903/19/2013


Out of curiosity what about the trolls bother you?

by Anonymousreply 32003/19/2013

I WISH my gym manager knew about sexual activity.

He's the hottest guy at my gym. A hot young daddy type.

by Anonymousreply 32103/19/2013

[R318], the trolls are definitely annoying, especially the really desperate ones who ignore even the most blatant of signals. at the same time, i can't help but feel bad for them. what other options do they have?

by Anonymousreply 32203/19/2013


Last time I was at 80th one of the trolls 'accidentally' opened my shower curtain, the third time this particular troll had played that trick.

The sauna was empty I turned it up and went in. Troll followed. I closed my eyes to ignore him, in about 5 minutes he had inched closer and had his hand on my ankle.

I jerked it away, left and joined Reebok.

by Anonymousreply 32303/19/2013

The trolls at 80th are particularly aggressive and creepy. I'm so disgusted by the overt sexual behavior at the city NYSC's that I now try to work out at the Westchester locations (Dobbs Ferry and Scarsdale) on my way home from work in Mount Kisco.

by Anonymousreply 32403/19/2013


Yeah, I mean, I feel bad for them too. But I hate the guys who get something going and then get pissed off that a troll or someone else in the room wont leave. That's sort of stupid to me. If I feel like messing around, I don't have a choice but to let a troll watch.

by Anonymousreply 32503/19/2013

R325 you have a choice, don't feed the trolls. If you let them watch they will want more and more and more.

by Anonymousreply 32603/19/2013


Point is, either way, I have a choice. If it bothers me that someone else is in there, I can leave. If I want to mess around in a public place, I can't complain and whine and get huffy that someone I find undesirable is in there and won't leave.

by Anonymousreply 32703/19/2013

People who act on their need to have sex in public places, including the gym, are damaged and possess a ton of psychological issues. Mentally healthy people don't do this sort of thing. Just common sense. Call me a pearl clutcher or whatever, but these people need psychological help.

by Anonymousreply 32803/19/2013

R328, there's a lot of space between damaged, mentally unstable people and pearl clutchers

by Anonymousreply 32903/19/2013


by Anonymousreply 33003/29/2013

r328, you sound like the people who have always described homosexuals in the same exact terms. They are idiots and you are too. Amazing how people can buy into such arbitrary nonsense.

by Anonymousreply 33103/29/2013

I've been away from New York the last few months. Any hot action going on at any of the NYSC? Any locations overrun with trolls or that have gotten shut down for locker room hyjinx?

by Anonymousreply 33203/29/2013

I occasionally suck off the gym manager in the showers. He's a hot little muscle mary, nice uncut cock.

by Anonymousreply 33303/29/2013

ListeningToBeethoven? Really? Today has been a Bach day.

by Anonymousreply 33403/29/2013

I said NYSC not NPR.

by Anonymousreply 33503/29/2013

They do spot checks at 94th St. NYSC. The maintenance guy is a virulent homophobe from what I hear. One of the trainers plays around occasionally. He's married with kids. One of the guys who teaches one of the classes plays around a lot. He's on the femme side, but has a beautiful body. Some of the guys who play regularly are married or with gfs. They come to the club together, and some of these guys will fool around in the sauna after a workout. I don't play myself...just not my thing, but I do like to watch occasionally.

by Anonymousreply 33603/29/2013

R322 both.

They are doing aggressive spot checks, one of the clubs had a member take legal action against them because of the aggressive trolls.

by Anonymousreply 33703/30/2013

Which club is that?

by Anonymousreply 33803/30/2013

[quote]Some of the guys who play regularly are married or with gfs.

You mean nasty, cheating closet trash. Good luck at the clinic next time you go.

by Anonymousreply 33903/30/2013

It's interesting to read these thread about gym culture. I live in a town with no gyms, just hiking trails, river kayaking, and ocean beaches to keep in shape. When I see posts like R339 with "Good luck at the clinic next time you go," it reads like some bitter old woman who hasn't felt the warmth of another body in decades.

by Anonymousreply 34003/30/2013

I have played before at my gym. It is mostly stroking and mutual stuff. Sometimes it leads to sucking. I have never seen anyone fucking. I have sucked dick on three different occasions and one of them I will never forget.

It actually was a threeway. The one guy in the middle worked the front desk at the gym. He was about 26, lean tight body and a 7.5 inch dick. I was watching him suck on this other tall lanky dude next to him with a fat 8". Both of these guys were totally hot, but I won't go on, because you would never believe me.

Anyway, I just casually started playing with the guy in the middle, stroking his cock. Since he didn't mind, I started sucking a bit. After that I just continued to watch him suck the other guy and stroke his own cock while I played with his ass. He came that way.

That little scenario made up for about three months worth of dry spell nothingness in the steam room.

by Anonymousreply 34103/30/2013

Why don't you pervs just go out and give blowjobs in church? Church is always open, ya know.

by Anonymousreply 34203/30/2013

Oh, and at the same gym there is this lean totally muscle guy who is a complete steam room slut. He doesn't do much with other guys, but he has very sensitive nipples and enjoys getting his pud pulled. He is like a puppy, because is someone is aggressive enough, he just lifts his leg and lets you play with his ass. I guess he gets off on being pawed. He kind of looks like Christopher Eccelston.

by Anonymousreply 34303/30/2013

"Why don't you pervs just go out and give blowjobs in church? Church is always open, ya know."

Actually, it's not, which shows you don't know anything about whores OR saints.

by Anonymousreply 34403/30/2013

My best friend and I are members of the city’s oldest (well over 100 years) men’s athletic club. The pool and sauna are clothing optional; it’s nice to swim and not worry about storing a wet swimsuit. You know who is swimming in the next lane by their body hair pattern. There are some goings-on in the sauna. Some members are freaked out by it, but the general feeling is “If you want to go in, go in. You can participate or not.” Local celebrities like TV personalities and retired pro athletes are members, as are the mayor, judges and major local business leaders. In twenty years, I’ve never heard of any of the well-known members getting frisky. But, I’ve seen most of them walking around naked. They have their “followers.” It’s always fun to watch new members realize they are seeing a “celebrity” full-frontal. It’s like they are star struck. My best friend is the longtime weatherman at a local TV station. He is SO well hung, he gets a reaction every time. He jokes about it. “They’re going to go home and tell their wives about it. I’m propping up our ratings.” I have heard about his size from others who aren’t members of the gym. I wonder what it’s like to have a reputation like that.

by Anonymousreply 34504/01/2013

I was at my favorite NYSC branch yesterday and walked in on two guys playing in the steam room. They immediately jumped and stopped. I told them to relax, grabbed my crotch to show them I'm cool, then they went back to playing. Sometimes I like a little show.

After this three other guys came in separately at different times, all of whom I've seen play before. (One was an incredible whore, bringing people into shower stalls with him.) Apparently in the past few months they've all entered into committed relationships or become celibate or something. They gave the guys the "I know what you were doing look" but didn't give them the OK to play. Apparently these two weren't hot enough to play in their steam room. Judgy queens.

by Anonymousreply 34604/02/2013

Men playing around in saunas and steam rooms has gone on, still goes on, and will go on as long as there are saunas and steam rooms.

In the late 1980's, I worked as a lifeguard at one of the prominent YMCA's in Atlanta. There was ALWAYS stuff going on in the steamroom and sauna, not only at that Y, but also at the ones in Decatur and Dunwoody, as well as the one downtown off of Spring Street-it was an old, run down Y a the time, since closed, that may as well have been designed to be a bathhouse-the pool and showers downstairs, with the sauna and steamroom upstairs. At night and on Saturday, the downstairs showers were pretty much an orgy. No one batted an eye, or complained. At the one where I worked, the manager would sometimes walk through, cover his eyes and say something along the lines of "okay, guys cut it out!" in a rather joking way. They were perfectly aware of what went on, and it was tolerated because the men doing it were often the older, rich, and very prominent members. There were even a couple of the young trainers who were being quite obviously used by escorts by a few of the older men.

The same was true of the Y and other posh health clubs in DC in the 90's and Naught's.

Never gonna stop it, and why should they? What's the harm?

by Anonymousreply 34704/02/2013

prisspots will have apoplectic fits, that's why

by Anonymousreply 34804/02/2013

I would agree that when it is with the consent of all in the room it is fine.

However it must cease if someone comes in and does not consent.

NYSC on 80th has lost a ton of members because the trolls terrorize the straight men, grabbing ankles, opening shower curtains etc. I am surprise no one has sued them yet.

by Anonymousreply 34904/02/2013

It's the trolls that do ruin it for everyone. NYSC on 36/mad has a sign up now that says if staff or member catch you they will call the police "no questions asked" and you can explain yourself to the police.

by Anonymousreply 35004/02/2013

r347, just because something has always occurred and will continue does not mean it should not be punished. Wrong is wrong, no matter how inevitable it is amongst a certain subset of people. I am glad my gym has no tolerance for such revolting behavior and will prosecute all who engage in such disrespectful behavior.

by Anonymousreply 35104/03/2013

R351 sounds really fat.

by Anonymousreply 35204/03/2013

Do birds fly? Where ever men work out, sauna, shower in gyms, clubs etc there will be varying degrees of hanky panky. Has always been so will always be so. I have been going to public and private clubs since the early 70s and nothing much has changed. Some say it is a function of dirty old geezers, but in my experience about 20 to 1 it is horny younger men, the better looking ones among them.

by Anonymousreply 35304/03/2013

R351 lives in a very uptight bubble. He thinks sex is nasty, dirty, etc. Offends him. Interesting, isn't it?

As you get older it sort of takes on the same meaning as laughing, taking a crap, sneezing, swallowing, crying- just another physical need and action. The difference is that you can do it with someone else or alone. That's all.

While I realize if everyone had sex in gyms things could get out of hand- but I would ask R351 why it is wrong and why it should be punished? I think asking people not to do it is the best approach. One or two time offenders need not lose memberships- perhaps only serial "offenders". Otherwise the gym might lose significant membership! Hell, the West Side Y in NYC would close.

Perhaps R351 is a troll if night in his glass bubble.

by Anonymousreply 35404/03/2013

[quote]I closed my eyes to ignore him, in about 5 minutes he had inched closer and had his hand on my ankle. I jerked it away, left and joined Reebok.

That's wonderful R323. No doubt a loud "No!" would have ended the troll's approach, but you really taught him a lesson that he'll never forget. The minute you flounced out of that sauna, he knew he had gone too far without your uttering even one word. Congrats! The best part is that you can relate the unfolding of this colorful drama to all the people you'll be meeting at Reebok. That's a major success.

by Anonymousreply 35504/03/2013

R351 I have to sk what yr doing on DL when you describe guys naking out as wrong, revolting and disrespectful ?

by Anonymousreply 35604/03/2013

I'm curious as to how a gym can revoke someone's membership for something like this because how do they prove you were doing it? It's one member's word against another's.

by Anonymousreply 35704/03/2013

r354, I think your public sex is nasty, dirty, gross, repugnant. Like most normal people, I view sex as a private, personal matter that is great when shared in the confines of intimate, private environments. Your public sex compulsions should be treated, not indulged.

by Anonymousreply 35804/03/2013

R358 so are you against porn too?

by Anonymousreply 35904/03/2013

Have you ever had sex when totally naked, R358? Do you make sure you're under a blanket while having sex?

by Anonymousreply 36004/03/2013

I am, R359, it's total degrading filth

and yes, R360, I do, and ALWAYS with all the lights out! We can't have people even knowing what might be going on at that time of the night.

by Anonymousreply 36104/03/2013

Most gyms in LA are too dirty for this kind of shit. I mean, not clean to the point you don't want to "hang out". And a lot of old trolls swingin' their tired pachyderms, acting like they're waiting for a bus, nude. They might as well be whistling innocently. It's simultaneously "naughty" and pathetic. It might be different if they were actually attractive, at any age. There's one famous actor in that herd, too. He is in many big films but comes across as retarded. I will not name him because I almost feel sorry for him.

by Anonymousreply 36204/03/2013

R362 What gyms in LA does this even happen in? I've been hard pressed to find any in the area that offer non-coed Saunas/Steam Rooms.

by Anonymousreply 36304/03/2013

Yeah, it's bad enough they are acting like desperate perverts, but it is even worse that they are not even hot. If you are gonna act crazy and freaky, at least be hot.

by Anonymousreply 36404/03/2013

You would think that since they are already at the gym they would work out a little and maybe try to attract the type of guys they seem to want instead of just flashing, following and harassing them.

by Anonymousreply 36504/03/2013

R357 thus the problem.

One of the biggest trolls in NYC named 'kind troll' has streams of complaints about him for ankle grabbing, following men and jerking off, opening shower curtains etc.

He has been terrorizing NYSC at 80th for a decade and management refuses to eject him (despite the loss of members) because they never catch him in the act.

They are idiots if you ask me, once 100 complaints know there is a problem.

by Anonymousreply 36604/04/2013

r366, what does this king troll look like? I go to 80th St once in a while. Agreed that most of the guys are trollish and aggressive, but curious as to who this guy is.

by Anonymousreply 36704/04/2013

King Troll is older fattish, with an marine haircut circa 1960, purple brithmark.

White hair stands up thinning. He has a big organ and expect that if he shows it men will love him and they never do.

Sits in a corner of the sauna, staring, jacking, and gets aggressive if no response (there never is).

by Anonymousreply 36804/04/2013

I work out at home so I don't have to deal with this nasty shit.

by Anonymousreply 36904/04/2013


by Anonymousreply 37004/07/2013

The NYSC on Madison and 36th has officially turned into a sex club. I see the same guys there every time I go whether it's morning, noon or night. One is kinda hunky but has a huge spare tire. If he did more cardio and less cruising he wouldn't have to suck cock in a steamroom.

I complained to the lifeless manager on duty and he said 'oh. is something going on down there? we can't do anything about it.'

by Anonymousreply 37104/07/2013

It's obvious the manager doesn't want you to complain, R371. If you're not propositioned, why do you care?

by Anonymousreply 37204/07/2013

Um, maybe, R372, because he knows what's appropriate in public and what isn't? It's a gym, not a bath house. Lots of people - gay and straight - actually go the gym with no interest in watching other people get it on or advertise their availability. It's really pretty simple.

by Anonymousreply 37304/07/2013

If it's "really pretty simple", then why is it still happening, dear? Why has it happened throughout history, in any place where men congregate nude? Stop it with your powers of persuasion, and then get back to us.

by Anonymousreply 37404/07/2013

Yeah, lots of things have happened through history, darling, and if that's good enough to justify your vulgarity, rock on. But make no mistake: it's a vulgar way to behave and you're vulgar if you do it. It's that simple.

by Anonymousreply 37504/07/2013

It's weird that the 36th and Madison NYSC ignores complaints from members since they stuck a big sign on the steamroom door saying if you're caught doing anything inappropriate you're going to have to explain it to the police.

Or maybe it's not so weird.

All I know is I'm tired of waiting in line for a shower because the steamroom diva's go back and forth back and forth back and forth.

by Anonymousreply 37604/07/2013

Bitch/R375, I've never hooked up with anyone in a gym or sauna before. I'm just more realistic about what to expect there, and about what kind of behaviors I can change with my own attitudes and efforts.

Join reality, hon. Because reality ain't going anywhere.

by Anonymousreply 37704/07/2013

And you just keep striving for the lowest common denominator. You're going places!

by Anonymousreply 37804/07/2013

It's going on in every mens gym.

by Anonymousreply 37904/08/2013

R379 to some degree.

At Crunch it goes on, however no creepy old men grabbing ankles. Stuff happens, and if a new person comes in and is not going for it, it ceases.

by Anonymousreply 38004/09/2013

I got my juicy on last night at NYSC 23rd St. Deliciously muscular black man fucked my facepussy with a 10 inch magic stick. That steamroom has such a variety of mans, I could live there taking it from a different type of guy each day. A pakistani with a tight swimmer's build heads my menu tonight.

by Anonymousreply 38104/09/2013

[quote]if a new person comes in and is not going for it, it ceases.

That sounds reasonable.

by Anonymousreply 38204/09/2013

This Saturday at d Barton, OMG! There is this sexy guy who takes my spin class - tall blond, cross between matthew mcconaughey and Patrick Wilson. he wears those tank tops with the low cut sides that open reveling his pink nips and tight lean golden body when he bends forward on his bike. Anyway I've seen him before and I know he is an exhibitionist horny fuck. Hell stand in the locker room with his ass hanging out forever. No towel dance for him.

He was sitting in the steam room legs spread. Another guy sat down next tohi and his legs kept getting wider and wider. Unfortunately the steam started and I lost a clear view but the sounds coming out from that corner. The wet bologna slap. This guy is sexy as hell and doesn't need to hook up in a steam room, but you can tell it turns him on and that makes it hotter.

by Anonymousreply 38304/09/2013

New sign on the door of my gym's dry sauna, located in the men's locker room- "In the interest of health & hygiene, and common courtesy, please wear shorts in the sauna."

Common courtesy? What the hell? I understand the need for, and use, a towel, but shorts in the sauna so others don't have to see my junk? Not sure if it's in reaction to activity (I admit I've played once or twice), but ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 38404/10/2013

What gym was that r384.?

by Anonymousreply 38504/10/2013

You caused that R384. Cause and effect

by Anonymousreply 38604/10/2013

Will my victoria's secret edible laffy taffy crotchless shorts be OK?

by Anonymousreply 38704/10/2013

No, I didn't. I don't go often enough to have caused any issues.

by Anonymousreply 38804/10/2013

"The NYSC on Madison and 36th has officially turned into a sex club"

Oh please R371 - Madison and 36th street? - that gym is in the middle of nowhere, so of course it has to be a sex club to survive.

by Anonymousreply 38904/10/2013

Madison and 36th is dying because Equinox and a few other gyms have opened in the area during the past few years so now they're desperate for business. Same with 23rd and 8th. They lost all of the hot $$$ gays to David Barton down the street. Most of the guys who workout there now look homeless. Slutty members are better than no members at all.

by Anonymousreply 39004/10/2013

How can these new members who look homeless afford to live in Manhattan? It's not likely they live elsewhere if they got to a gym in midtown, right?

by Anonymousreply 39104/10/2013

The NYSC on 23rd and 8th is near the projects. I'm sure there's some sort of discount. No, really. They do look homeless and more than a little scary.

by Anonymousreply 39204/10/2013

Where do the HK whores work out?

by Anonymousreply 39304/11/2013

[R9] Funny about Club One Fillmore since I've heard people online say that was the new SF cruising spot as well, but after going there for a year and using the saunas quite a bit, I've never seen any shenanigans. The place is so busy that I don't know how anyone could get away with it.

There is some longing energy sometimes, but it seems to come from guys I would think might be closeted (younger and from ethnicities that don't accept gay guys as openly).

I'm really bad at sensing cruising though and could be an unwitting cockblock in the room when I'm in there. I have an average slim body, but get told I have a handsome face, so not sure if my lack of abs kills it. Open to the possibility that my looks are ho hum and a buzzkill for guys looking for better. I'm not there to cruise, so maybe I seem like a guy that doesn't want anyone to start anything.

I do wish the guys in general were more chatty though. The steam room seems like a great place to socialize, but the energy gets kinda awkward. Could also be because I'm a nerd.

by Anonymousreply 39404/11/2013

Good lord r394! You're awful in every way.

by Anonymousreply 39504/11/2013

r394, the last thing I want to hear in a steam room is chatter. I go in there for a little peace and quiet and a few minutes of restful silence after a workout. (And sometimes to release some testosterone.)

Unfortunately, men from the former Russian republics have taken over the steam rooms in Brooklyn, Queens and Staten Island are your type of men...never shut their big mouths with their mean-sounding chatter.

by Anonymousreply 39604/12/2013

They have cracked down at 80th and Broadway NYSC but the trolls are still there. It is the regular sex hounds who have moved on.

by Anonymousreply 39704/12/2013

NYC is another world. Why so many sleazy gyms up there? It's like another bizarro world up there.

by Anonymousreply 39804/12/2013

Every gym is a little bit sleazy, it's the nature of the beast.

by Anonymousreply 39904/12/2013

I heard Curves has lesbians licking labias.

by Anonymousreply 40004/12/2013

Do women hook up in gyms too, or is it just a guy thing?

by Anonymousreply 40104/12/2013

Mostly a guy thing.

by Anonymousreply 40204/14/2013

not every gym. not even most.

by Anonymousreply 40304/14/2013

Something weird is in the air at my gym. Suddenly, more dudes are walking about jay bird naked in the lockerroom, at the sink and urinals like they are at home. Some friends of mine mentioned how weird is it and how it just seemed to happen overnight.

by Anonymousreply 40404/15/2013

What gym R404, what city?

by Anonymousreply 40504/15/2013

Come back R404

by Anonymousreply 40604/16/2013


by Anonymousreply 40704/16/2013

My gym is a veritable boathouse. Just a very erotic vibe. Even the average to below average guys like me get some play.

by Anonymousreply 40804/16/2013

Tell us more R408.

by Anonymousreply 40904/18/2013

Aware of it?.....They married me for it!!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 41004/18/2013

Lol, veritable boathouse...

by Anonymousreply 41104/18/2013

Crunch has more stand around and pose than actual sex. They are all on grindr and run back and forth to their lockers, to check who else is on so they can see your profile and pics.

An actual naked man in front of them had less appeal than a pic.

by Anonymousreply 41204/19/2013

Things got rather crazy today in the steam room. This was early afternoon after spin class and I went to relax in the steam room. It's always weird when it's relatively quite in the gym and you walk in the steam room and it's packed.

I took a seat and could tell by the energy that me opening the door had interrupted something. Everybody soon got back to stroking. Then walks in this muscle dad guy, about 45-51, nice body. He sits down and a long semi hard dick flops out - his way of saying I am cool with whatever's going on. Soon after this younger guy walks in, 24 years old at most, lean/skinny build, smooth chest and takes a seat in the crowded steam room right at the older guys feet.

Instantly he leans back and starts milking and sucking on the older guy's cock right in front of me. He does this for a a while before the older guys leans forward, basically cradling, and starts fingering his ass while the kid jacks off. Between moaning and sucking on the older guys nips, (as if he were a baby nursing), and a lot of dirty talk about "daddy dick", the older guy fingerbangs a load out of the kid.

I guess the kid got what he was looking for. He was in and out in 10 minutes. I left shortly after that figuring it wasn't going to get any better than that today.

by Anonymousreply 41304/22/2013

I also think boathouses are erotic.

by Anonymousreply 41404/22/2013

New York Sex Club on 36th and Madison has started shutting their steamroom down for the day if they suspect inappropriate behavior. Bad move since that's why most members go there. Gym is always empty (good for me) but Steam is always full (good for them).

by Anonymousreply 41504/23/2013

NYC is so weird.

by Anonymousreply 41604/23/2013

It's a catch 22, if you let the steamer get out of control, it is disgusting, if you are militant and abolish it, you lose clientele. It's a fine line.

by Anonymousreply 41704/23/2013

the trolls who can't take a hint are the ones ruining it for all

by Anonymousreply 41804/23/2013

Crunch on Sunset?

I did a temp membership there and couldn't believe they have showers where you can totally see the shadow of naked men from the main entrance.

Recently, Craig's List missed connections has had ads talking about an Italian muscled guy who sucks everyone's dick in the mornings and another guy who posted saying he had some std like gonor. or something and said sorry to everyone he possibly gave it to.

by Anonymousreply 41904/23/2013

R418 knows the score.

by Anonymousreply 42004/23/2013

Please continue with further updates later this week R413.

by Anonymousreply 42104/23/2013

I have sex right out on the gym floor. What do think all those mats are for? I do wipe up all of my sex juices after I'm through. I am considerate of other members.

by Anonymousreply 42204/23/2013

Juices? Don't you mean sex dust R422?

by Anonymousreply 42304/23/2013


by Anonymousreply 42404/24/2013

One of the sales reps at an NYSC in Manhattan would regularly go to the steam room and join the action. I haven't been to that location in almost a year but I'd be surprised if he hasn't been fired yet. Management was well aware of what was going on in the steam room and I'd see him in there at least once a week.

by Anonymousreply 42505/05/2013

r425 Is he hot?

by Anonymousreply 42605/05/2013

Which location r425? At least give a neighborhood.

by Anonymousreply 42705/05/2013

Take me back to Manhattan, that dear old dirty town!

by Anonymousreply 42805/05/2013

[quote]One of the sales reps at an NYSC in Manhattan would regularly go to the steam room and join the action.

That's hilarious.

by Anonymousreply 42905/05/2013

Do people have morals in NYC?

by Anonymousreply 43005/06/2013

[quote]Do people have morals in NYC?

Yes, a lot of them do. There was a sale on morals at Bloomies last week and they sold out.

by Anonymousreply 43105/06/2013

'One of the sales reps at an NYSC in Manhattan would regularly go to the steam room and join the action.'


by Anonymousreply 43205/06/2013

[quote]'One of the sales reps at an NYSC in Manhattan would regularly go to the steam room and join the action

86th and Lex? Dave or Rob?

by Anonymousreply 43305/06/2013

Going to gym now

by Anonymousreply 43405/10/2013


by Anonymousreply 43505/11/2013


I wish. There's a hot East Indian guy who works there.

by Anonymousreply 43605/11/2013

[quote]Crunch has more stand around and pose than actual sex.

They're the S&M crowd.

by Anonymousreply 43705/14/2013

A writer for the New Yorker recently shared a story about his joining a gym on 14th Street, going there with his teenage son, and walking in on two guys having sex in the steam room.

He thought his son didn't see what was going on, but he did.

He complained to the manager, who told him steam room sex is the biggest problem facing NYC gyms.

So yes, OP, they know.

by Anonymousreply 43805/16/2013



by Anonymousreply 43905/16/2013

Why is NYC such a hotbed of such aberrant public behavior?

by Anonymousreply 44005/16/2013

Steam rooms were invented for mansex, get over it people.

by Anonymousreply 44105/16/2013

My NYSC has put up signs limited towels to one per person. I wonder if it's because of an actual towel shortage or because they're trying to cut down on sexual activity (the ones fooling around are constantly grabbing new's almost ritualistic).

by Anonymousreply 44205/16/2013

R442 doesn't limiting towels to stop sexual activity seem counterintuitive? If there aren't towels to grab then everyone's just gonna be naked and you know what happens in a room full of naked men!

by Anonymousreply 44305/16/2013

No one wants to walk around in a cummy towel.

by Anonymousreply 44405/16/2013

How many guys cum and stick around?

by Anonymousreply 44505/16/2013

r438 here, he told it to a theater full of people at the Moth on Tuesday night.

No link to a live performance, sorry. They may post it on their site or their podcast. They did record the event.

by Anonymousreply 44605/16/2013

[quote]Why is NYC such a hotbed of such aberrant public behavior?

Because NYC has more gyms than your village. NYC also has more people jogging in Central Park than other cities because that's where Central Park is located.

by Anonymousreply 44705/18/2013

r447, but that does not explain the proportion of people engaging sexual antics in NYC gyms versus everywhere else.

by Anonymousreply 44805/18/2013

R448, you are wrong. There is sex in steam rooms all across America. This is not a problem that is 'bigger' in NYC.

by Anonymousreply 44905/18/2013

Boys will be boys. Thank God.

by Anonymousreply 45005/18/2013

[quote]but that does not explain the proportion of people engaging sexual antics in NYC gyms versus everywhere else.

What are the percentages that compare sexual antics in NYC gyms vs everywhere else? I've never seen a publication of those figures.

by Anonymousreply 45105/18/2013

[quote]There is sex in steam rooms all across America. This is not a problem that is 'bigger' in NYC.

Lord knows except in Los Angeles. But that's only because good luck finding a non-coed steam or sauna there, or really anywhere in CA.

That's probably why there's so much activity in NY.. because they still have the non-coed facilities.

by Anonymousreply 45205/18/2013


by Anonymousreply 45305/18/2013

I go the 36th and Madison NYSC. I had no idea there was so much steam action there. It doesn't strike me as a particularly gay gym either. I'd say 90 percent of the guys who go there are straight.

by Anonymousreply 45405/18/2013

[quote]What are the percentages that compare sexual antics in NYC gyms vs everywhere else? I've never seen a publication of those figures.

No, but common sense would dictate that it is more acceptable/less risky to attempt sex in a NYC steam room then a steam room in some small midwestern town. If you are caught in NYC, you might get bounced from the gym. If you are caught in a small midwestern town the consequences could be much greater.

by Anonymousreply 45505/18/2013

If John Travolta walks into a gym, management knows there will be attempts at sex for certain.

by Anonymousreply 45605/18/2013

R440 because there are a lot more horny hot guys living on top of each other in NYC than anywhere else. And a proportion of those horny guys like to have public sex. And the easiest, risk-free place to have sex in public is in a steam room.

NYC is perfect if you are into hooking up a lot. If you go on scruff, grinder, manhunt. whatever the first 50 guys in your list will be within a quarter of a mile from where you live. God there are a least four guys in the building across from me who I've fucked. It's just too easy if that's your thing.

by Anonymousreply 45705/18/2013

I agree that most of the guys who go to 36th and Madison are straight. They also like to fool around in the steamroom. They really should just burn that branch down. I walked in last night and the guy who was covering reception was standing to the side of the desk and, through hand gestures (because he either didn't feel like talking or didn't know how) had me scan myself in. A few weeks ago I showed up early one Saturday morning to find the door open, no one at reception and no one else in the gym. wtf.

Oh, and the NYSC on Mercer St got rid of the steamroom during renovations and installed a sauna. With a big glass window so everyone can see in. Smart move.

by Anonymousreply 45805/18/2013

that's the way to do the varsity Rag!

by Anonymousreply 45905/18/2013

What about the French Mistake?

by Anonymousreply 46005/19/2013

NYC is a weird place.

by Anonymousreply 46105/20/2013

NYC is the best place

by Anonymousreply 46205/20/2013

MY gym put up a "we prosecute to the fullest extent" sign.

by Anonymousreply 46305/25/2013

I went to the NYSC on Varick St. for the first time yesterday. What a disappointment!!!! All of the shower stalls have these opaque glass doors...impossible to see anything through them. Whose brilliant idea was THAT!

by Anonymousreply 46405/25/2013

Why, r464, are there other NYC gyms with open shower stalls?

by Anonymousreply 46505/25/2013

[quote]With a big glass window so everyone can see in. Smart move.

A few of the NYSC's have done that. The fact that many have not, however, makes me think that they don't care what goes on or they actually want to encourage it (with a wink) for membership.

by Anonymousreply 46605/25/2013


by Anonymousreply 46705/26/2013

the Golds in SOMA in SF has to be the raunchiest gym ever. The guys have no discretion whatsoever. They will sit in the sauna in full view of the shower room, jerking off, sucking, whatever. None are attractive. There is one troll, a hispanic guy in his 50s with particularly unattractive simian features, that I've never seen working out. He goes back and forth between sauna and steamroom, jerking furiously, with a full hard-on as he switches from room to room. But the whole gym feels like being on an episode of MSNBC's "Locked-up" prison documentaries. All the guys look like they have served 20 years of HARD time. It's the worst...

by Anonymousreply 46805/27/2013

Where's the action like this in LA?

by Anonymousreply 46905/27/2013

R468, what's the address of the Gold's gym in SF?

by Anonymousreply 47005/27/2013

10th and Brannon. Good luck! R470!

by Anonymousreply 47105/27/2013

David Barton's steam room has the smoothest, most comely, accommodating holes.

by Anonymousreply 47205/28/2013

Who is the nasty prick working the front desk at NYSC 36th and Madison in the evenings. He snickers, he sneers, he glares and he never EVER says 'enjoy your workout.' WTF. The other night I caught him checking out the sights in the men's locker room. I know they don't pay these guys much but there's really no reason to be a dickhead.

by Anonymousreply 47305/30/2013

New York is a rude place

by Anonymousreply 47406/03/2013

Which NY gym has the best gang showers?

by Anonymousreply 47506/03/2013

The NYSC in Staten Island used to have "gang showers" but now they put up individual stalls. What is odd though is that it all still drains into one big drain in the middle of the shower room. Kind of gross. Saw some hot guys in there a few times though. There is one hot black locker room attendant that enjoys a long hot shower after his shift. He always leaves his curtain open as he pretends to be oblivious to everyone watching him scrub his big dick and hot body.

by Anonymousreply 47606/03/2013

Gang showers?

by Anonymousreply 47706/04/2013

Ok, group showers...did it really need an explanation?

by Anonymousreply 47806/10/2013

The Russian Bath on 10 st is a real bath the steam and heat there is amazing

by Anonymousreply 47906/20/2013

Some men are so disgusting. HYGIENE and respect should be the rule. Work out and get your eye candy fix. Catch some glances in the locker room, even. Or even maybe MEET someone there to hook up with OUTSIDE of the gym. A fitness place is not a damned bath house. I did not pay for a membership to step over bodily fluids in the steamroom or shower, for chrissake. Gross!

by Anonymousreply 48006/20/2013

This is thread is alternately nauseating and hilarious.

by Anonymousreply 48106/20/2013



by Anonymousreply 48206/20/2013

It is perverted and disrespectful to have sex in a gym. I support attempts to arrest and bar such people. People should know better.

by Anonymousreply 48306/20/2013

[quote]I support attempts to arrest and bar such people.

Think of the shame for their wives and kids. The sexual activity in gyms is promoted by married men whose wives have gone frigid.

by Anonymousreply 48406/23/2013

r476 I like the whirlpool there. Havent been in awhile

by Anonymousreply 48506/23/2013

If you get caught sucking cock at the gym, can't you just argue that you were also giving your mouth a work out?

by Anonymousreply 48606/23/2013


I've actually wondered how someone can lose their membership, etc. for jerking off in a the steam room, or what have you.

If another member reports it, how they prove it? An argument could be made that the person was mistaken, or disgruntled because they tried to start something and you weren't interested, etc. If they just simply have to take the accuser's word for it, then couldn't the person being accused just say, that person was doing it to, therefore their membership also has to be revoked?

by Anonymousreply 48706/23/2013

Out of curiosity, which NYSCs are the cruisiest and when does the action happen?

Was at the NYSC on 23rd and 8th today. Had to check out the sauna/steam room situation. Definitely a lot of guys in there. None were attractive, though, and only a few were probably looking for anything.

One of note was an older troll who kept moaning and touching his junk. Literally kept walking back and forth between the sauna and the steam room. Really gross.

Not sure how any action happens there with these guys around.

by Anonymousreply 48806/23/2013

R488 The NYSC at 23rd and 8th used to be hot... until David Barton and NYHRC opened up a block away. All the hot gays and straights ditched NYSC after that.

All that's left at 23rd and 8th now are young, skinny twinks and old people from the projects.

As previously posted, 36th and Madison is probably the cruisiest and, since the management doesn't give a fuck, you can usually get a bj or a handjob there. But, warning: there are tons of trolls. And I mean TROLLS.

Do I partake? No. I saw two guys get bounced once for having sex in the shower. They used to have a maintenance guy who was obsessed with sniffing out any kind of sexual activity and he caught them. Humiliating. Not for me, thanks.

by Anonymousreply 48906/24/2013

Oh, and 36th and Madison ran out of towels yesterday. Why? Because the steamroom queens use about 10 each during their 'cruise.'

by Anonymousreply 49006/24/2013

NYC sounds like a weird world. Unreal.

by Anonymousreply 49106/24/2013

r487, I would assume that anyone that desperate or disturbed to do that in a public space will do it again, and the repeated accusations would provide the credibility needed to take action.

by Anonymousreply 49206/24/2013

"As previously posted, 36th and Madison is probably the cruisiest and, since the management doesn't give a fuck, you can usually get a bj or a handjob there. But, warning: there are tons of trolls. And I mean TROLLS."

Are there any hot guys in addition to the trolls, r489?

by Anonymousreply 49306/24/2013

Who you callin' a troll, WIllis? I go to the 36th and Madison. I never even thought of it as a cruisey gym until i started reading this thread. Most of the guys who go there are straight.

by Anonymousreply 49406/24/2013

36th and Madison is only cruisy in the steam/sauna/shower area. The gym floor is loaded with hot guys but most of them live in the area and have to good sense not to shower there. Once in a while a hot one wanders into the steamroom if he's looking for a quick release - straight guys and gay guys. Lots of wedding rings strokin' those cocks.

by Anonymousreply 49506/24/2013

Are there any hot guys who fool around at David Barton?

by Anonymousreply 49606/24/2013

David Barton members are too classy for that. They flirt on the gym floor then take the tricks back to their tastefully decorated pads in Chelsea Mews.

by Anonymousreply 49706/26/2013

Fitness SF (formerly Gold's Gym) closes the steam rooms in both of its SF locations due to 'many complaints' over cruisy behavior...

Many comments in this article point to the idea that most SF citizens reading this believed closing the steam rooms to be a good thing.

SF is slowly turning into straight yuppie land, and bastion of prudery...

by Anonymousreply 49806/27/2013

NYSC in Astoria has some major hunks working out there. Sauna is a bit dull however.

by Anonymousreply 49906/29/2013

I've complained to NYSC via their website several times and have never gotten a response. I was offended until I realized the managers who work there probably have a second grade reading level.

by Anonymousreply 50007/01/2013

They'll lose a lot of married male customers if they shut down the steam rooms. For many of those guys married to frigid fraus, it's their only sexual outlet.

by Anonymousreply 50107/01/2013

David Barton is moving from it's current YMCA location in January. They signed a lease on a undisclosed place in the area. It will be interesting to see if they include a steam room considering the Astor Place one doesn't have one. I doubt they will, but that will be a HUGE mistake for them. Really the steam room at David Barton is part of the allure. Since he sold his name, it's just like any other gym now just with a higher percentage of gays. Gone are the days where interesting cool people were given free memberships to workout there.

Nothing like being on a treadmill between amanda lapore and ethan hawke.

by Anonymousreply 50207/01/2013

David Barton should just move into the Anvil and kill two birds with one whore.

by Anonymousreply 50307/02/2013

[quote]Gone are the days where interesting cool people were given free memberships to workout there.

I wasn't aware of that, do you mean celebrities or hot/muscle guys or what?

by Anonymousreply 50407/02/2013

Just interesting downtown celebutants or actual celebrities who lived in the area, r54. David's ex-wife, Susanne Bartsch, is a huge party promoter. During the height of the club scene and for a period after, those people who worked or attended her parties worked out at the gym - Amanda Lepore, Sophia Lamar, Richie Rich, Joey Arias along with local celebrities who would show up from time to time. I think they all got free memberships to work out there.

by Anonymousreply 50507/03/2013

I had Anderson Cooper in the steam room at David Barton. This is DL and no one will believe me... which is exactly why I feel it's safe to post to her.

by Anonymousreply 50607/03/2013


by Anonymousreply 50707/03/2013

R506 I can understand why no one would believe you. Cuz I don't either.

by Anonymousreply 50807/05/2013

I believe him, depending on when it happened. A few years ago, AC was VERY easy to have.

by Anonymousreply 50907/05/2013

AC doesn't do the the steam room at David Barton. He does do the showers. That is how I have seen his bare ass before. But not recently. I am guessing his new place has a gym and that TJ is training him there. I haven't seen him as much as I used to there. Him or his BF.

by Anonymousreply 51007/05/2013

Co worker said she saw AC working out at Equinox in WV a few months ago. Maybe he switched gyms.

Maybe I should get a life and not care about this shit.

by Anonymousreply 51107/06/2013

[quote]They'll lose a lot of married male customers if they shut down the steam rooms. For many of those guys married to frigid fraus, it's their only sexual outlet.

And, yet gay people still fight for gay marriage - which barely passes...or doesn't.

by Anonymousreply 51207/06/2013

I went to NYSC on 23rd & 8th last Friday, walked into the steam room and a cute white twink was blowing a very hot black guy. They didn't even stop when I walked in and continued to suck, make out and almost fucked for a good twenty minutes.. Very hot but very bizarre - no shame!

by Anonymousreply 51307/06/2013

[quote]And, yet gay people still fight for gay marriage

It's laughable that people like R512 can't even begin to comprehend that the goal for equal rights is far beyond gay marriage. Maybe he's related to Miss Teen South Carolina 2007. There are a lot of stupid people in high schools these days.

by Anonymousreply 51407/06/2013

Went to the NYSC on 36th and Madison. Mostly straight guys there. Also there was an attendant checking pretty much every 5 minutes.

What's the definitive list of cruisiest NYSCs, and what time do you need to go to see some action?

by Anonymousreply 51507/07/2013

R515 I don't know when you went to the 36th and Madison NYSC but the attendant and management definitely turn a blind eye to what's going on. I workout there at least 5x a week at different times of day and no one has ever done a spot check in the shower area. If you really want some action go on Saturday and Sunday. They should rename the club RAMROD on weekends.

by Anonymousreply 51607/07/2013

23rd and 8th NYSC attracts a very low class clientele. All the hot guys moved over to David Barton, NYHRC and Equinox.

by Anonymousreply 51707/07/2013

The first time I ever saw anything going on at my gym, it WAS the locker room attendant doing it.

Actually I was in the steam room by myself and the locker room attendant came by and started stroking my cock. So I know it's "All Systems Go" when he's working.

by Anonymousreply 51807/07/2013

Really, r518? That's pretty shocking.

by Anonymousreply 51907/07/2013

R480, you shouldn't go barefoot anywhere in a gym anyway unless you want to get athlete's foot.

by Anonymousreply 52007/07/2013


Which gym is this?

by Anonymousreply 52107/07/2013

R520, when you see a guy with athletes foot on their mouth, you can bet he's a foot fetishist

by Anonymousreply 52207/07/2013

If this was a few years ago, R506 is totally believable. Cooper was a total steam/shower whore at DB.

by Anonymousreply 52307/08/2013

From what I read, that was more than just a few years ago.

by Anonymousreply 52407/08/2013


I went to David Barton for years and saw AC all the time. I never saw him in the steam room (he did shower there) and never being randy. Why lie about someone for no reason?

by Anonymousreply 52507/08/2013

Anderson was actually at DB today. And I agree with poster above, he only showers there. I've never seen him go in the steam room. And this goes back to the days when he was dating that kid from the Real World briefly.

R521, it's David Barton.

by Anonymousreply 52607/08/2013

Who did Anderson date from the Real World?

by Anonymousreply 52707/08/2013

[quote]Who did Anderson date from the Real World?

Wasn't it a guy who worked at an oceanarium in Miami?

by Anonymousreply 52807/09/2013

Just because you never saw him doesn't mean it's not true, R25.

by Anonymousreply 52907/13/2013

Does AC's carpet match the drapes? What's the thread count down there?

by Anonymousreply 53007/16/2013

Something happened at the gym last night that reminded me of this thread. I was in a circle jerk with five other guys in the sauna. The guy on the far left, with a nice view of oncoming traffic, was supposed to keep guard as went at it. He got caught up in the jerking off and neglected his duties LOL. In comes a manager showing around a potential new member. We quickly stopped what we were doing, but the manager and his client obviously knew what we were doing. The manager was stone-faced, while the potential member giggled with a friendly "hey guys." Of course we all scrambled out of there before management had the chance to take any action. Haha, if the manager had come in a half hour earlier, he would've seen a guy blowing another guy. I'm a little scared to go back tonight. It was dark in there, so not sure the manager got a good look at any faces, but you never know. Oh well, another night at the gym.

by Anonymousreply 53107/18/2013

I've been at a new gym for a week and a half and haven't seen anything. Then again, there's no sauna or steamroom and showers are individual so what am i thinking and why did I join?

by Anonymousreply 53207/18/2013

I belong to two one. One is a cheap, serves-its-purpose type joint that I use exclusively for working out. Hardly any eye candy there. The other gym I belong to is an upscale gym with lots of hot gay, bi, married/closeted, curious, etc, where I go for the sauna/steam action.

by Anonymousreply 53307/18/2013

R531 Sweetie, stick to the Steam for circle jerks. Every whore knows that.

by Anonymousreply 53407/18/2013

Which one gets the most visits from you R533?

by Anonymousreply 53507/19/2013

oy vey

by Anonymousreply 53607/22/2013

I know something management is not aware of at my gym and it's absolutely revolting. I saw today with my own eyes a guy mushing a big dump down the shower drain with his toes. How does a shit just fall out of your ass? Is your hole that loose? The shower area smelled like a barnyard. And this was at David Barton in Chelsea today. The poor locker room attendant had to hose out the stall.

by Anonymousreply 53707/22/2013

Gross, that's more disgusting than any innocuous blow job happening, r537!

by Anonymousreply 53807/22/2013


by Anonymousreply 53908/07/2013

Don't bother with Crunch gym, absolutely nothing happening in the locker rooms.

by Anonymousreply 54008/07/2013

Similar to [R515], what's the definitive list of cruise-y NYSC locations?

by Anonymousreply 54108/08/2013

NYSC Irving is great. The guys aren't always the best, but there are some definite hotties there. Young and hung. The thing about it is that the guys who are there in the sauna/steam are SERIOUS about getting off, and they don't sit around all "Duh, I don't know..." afraid to make a move. And they don't wait until there's the absolute perfect set of guys there (as if that's EVER going to happen... well, okay, it HAS happened, but it's so rare).

NYSC at 14th & 6th has some hot guys but way too many ghetto losers, and it is the epitome of "I'm too afraid to jerk my cock" or "I'm not gonna jerk my cock until these 3 ugly guys leave." You could be sitting there until you die of heat stroke before you get a good circle jerk/suck going.

23rd & 8th has been pretty thugged out lately. Which is a bummer, because about a month ago I was in the sauna and there was a great mix of incredibly hung and beautiful white, black, and Hispanic guys there. Everybody shot a load.

36th & Madison? I'll check it out this weekend but I do not recall there ever being any reason to hang around after a workout.

SoHo is extremely cruisy, too. There's only ever been one guy there who had a horrible attitude. He's there every Saturday mid-afternoon. Too bad, because he has a nice, thick dick and solid legs and forearms. One of the front desk/locker room attendants there is a tall, wiry Hispanic guy with a HUGE dick who likes to cruise the wet areas before closing on a Saturday evening. He's very selective though, which is odd, because he's nothing to write home about, except for that dick. Whatever.

by Anonymousreply 54208/08/2013

Thanks for the very thorough report, r542!

What if you're not even interested in any action at the gym but just like the voyeuristic thrill of seeing hot young straight guys full frontal, as a throwback to locker room time after high school gym class? Which gyms are the best for pure voyeurism (with a high hotness quotient and low towel-dance quotient)?

by Anonymousreply 54308/08/2013

I'm into hung black guys, so I headed to 125th St. Harlem location, but they're all into each other. One guy told me point blank that I'm not gonna get any dick there because I'm white. It's a shame, because I've seen some amazing meat there.

by Anonymousreply 54408/08/2013

R543, the rule about voyeurism, if you just sit there staring at people, the action will stop.

You need to tug yourself a bit to give the signal that you're cool with circle jerk. If you don't, everyone will be waiting for you to leave.

by Anonymousreply 54508/08/2013

Yes, R545, and that's very important. LET US KNOW THAT YOU'RE COOL. Ugh. The cluelessness of some of these weirdos. Yesterday at Irving Pl, there was this muscle-bound, elderly Asian guy who was obviously there to jerk off, kept looking at my crotch (I'm a reasonably good looking, fit, mid30s white guy), but because I wasn't interested in him, I didn't make any moves apart from entering the sauna with an obviously engorged cock under my towel. So then he just sits there toweling the sweat off him -- very deliberately, arms, neck, shoulders, chest, back, like it's all a Very Important Sauna Ritual, and meanwhile I'm sitting there thinking, "You're obviously just here to jerk off, quit acting like you're the Sauna Expert, and you're going to be RINSING that sweat off you in the shower any minute now." And sure enough, he showered a minute later. I cannot stand these guys who act out their idea of what a regular, straight guy does in the steam or sauna, just because they're not sure what to do, because they don't know the "codes" (and there's really only one: tug on your cock gently from outside the towel wrapped around it, and we'll know that you're "cool").

Another one is the guys who exhale loudly, haltingly, and repeatedly after the steam shuts off in the very hot steam room. If it's too hot in there for you to breathe and you're trying to conserve oxygen or not pass out, that's NOT the way to do it, dumb asses.

I've been observing the very odd behavior of the cruising guys in the sauna/steam for a few years now. So bizarre, so annoying.

Best gym for eye candy: Astoria (no action in the sauna, though) and the few on the Upper West Side. Pretty straight gyms, but damn there are some oblivious studs there with big dicks and hair in all the right places.

I'm going to 36th & Madison right now to check it out.

by Anonymousreply 54608/08/2013

Is the hot eye candy at the Astoria one mostly white or Latino, r546?

by Anonymousreply 54708/08/2013

R547, they're mostly white and Latino.

I was at 36 & Madison tonight. Too late for action. But the layout of the locker room is incredible, like a labyrinth. Definitely remember being there almost 3 years ago and yes, the guys are serious about getting off. They have a cunty sign up now outside the steam room that says you will have your membership revoked and the authorities will be called if you're reported by staff OR other members. Then it says, "No questions asked. You can explain yourself to the police." So basically, anyone can accuse anyone of anything and get that person arrested at that gym. WTF?

by Anonymousreply 54808/08/2013

[quote]You can explain yourself to the police

Oh officer, this is what happened: a steam room cobra bit him right on his cock and I was just trying to suck out the poison to save his life!

by Anonymousreply 54908/08/2013

R546 is spot on re Astoria NYSC, No sauna action, but damn hot eye candy, especially if you like Middle Eastern types.

by Anonymousreply 55008/08/2013

R458 Ignore that dumbass sign. Lord knows the management does. Mornings are best. Get there around 7:30am to watch the hot daddy with an amazing bod shave in the wet area. He's either nude with a huge piece of meat hanging between his legs or wearing tight spandex CK briefs. He pulls them up a bit too high but whatever. Then he changes into a suit and heads off to work. Yes, I'm slightly obsessed.

by Anonymousreply 55108/08/2013

23rd and 8th is a huge disappointment. Seniors and skinny young thugs. All the hot gays are at David Barton down the street and the straights are at NYHRC on 6th ave over Best Buy.

10 yrs ago it was a very different story.

by Anonymousreply 55208/08/2013

What's the deal with the W94th St. location lately? Haven't been there in a while, but plan on going there tomorrow night since I have business in the area. Hot action could always be found there, and I really want to hook up. Is that homophobic maintenance guy with the ponytail still poilicing the shower area? He was a total killjoy.

by Anonymousreply 55308/08/2013

There were the regulars at my gym today, but it was hot. There is this skinny guy who seems to love the steam room. He steams before AND after his workout. He looks about 26-31, lean build, big dick. I have seen him get sucked or suck on several occasions. Today there was a convergence of "The Catalysts" as I like to call them - guys you know who are for sure there to get off and will most likely get something going with a new person.

The other catalyst was this guy who actually go go dances at the Cock here in Manhattan. I jacked off with him years ago at the gym and have had my finger up his ass a couple of times at the Cock. Gorgeous ass, fat dick, and tight, TIGHT, body. He works at a gallery in Chelsea. It's weird when you know so much about these people yet you never even talk to them.

Anyway, Cock gogo boy got sucked off by Skinny big dick today and it was a hot tug fest. Lean Skinny likes to swallow so no mess.

This was David Barton by the way.

And on another note, there is another skinny blond Catalyst there. Skinny body, dorky looking, but LOVES to show off his big cock. I think he actually lives for it. Anyway, I noticed he was putting on a slow dress routine for Marc Jacobs who was taking notice yesterday morning. I was watching Marc who was watching him. It was interesting.

by Anonymousreply 55408/08/2013

That makes me wish I worked out at David Barton, R554, but I get the impression that the attitudes on the gym floor would drive me nuts.

I think I'll go back to 36th & Madison at some point today to see what goes on during busier hours.

I forgot about 94th & Broadway in my list at R542. That's a fun one. Had some incredibly big dicks in my mouth there--young hot studs, older hung "dads". Most of the guys in either the sauna or steam really are cruising.

by Anonymousreply 55508/08/2013

Thanks for the information, guys.

[R542], I didn't know Irving Place was so happening. Have seen a lot of hot guys when I go there to lift. The sauna is pretty public though. What's the best time to go to get in on that?

by Anonymousreply 55608/09/2013

The more cocks sucked, the stronger the workouts.

by Anonymousreply 55708/09/2013

I hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate the Varick St. location. HATE. I went there last month desperately hoping to down some NYU or blue collar construction cock, but zilch. I stayed in the sauna for 45 mins and only one oldish troll walked in. And this was prime time. The rotten cherry on this very stale, moldy cake was that the shower doors are totally opaque, so you can't see in or out to size up the foot traffic. Whose stupid fucking idea was THAT? Needless to say, it was my one and only visit to THAT location.

by Anonymousreply 55808/09/2013

Agreed about Varick, R558.

by Anonymousreply 55908/09/2013

Gym management is probably getting horned up reading this

by Anonymousreply 56008/09/2013

I know y'all live in Manhattan but still want to know if there are any NYSC locations in north jersey where this happens.

I checked out a few and here is my report Hoboken PATH - Very little action in Sauna. Good eye candy. Lot of cruising in the locker room and if you are a 9+ in attractiveness you can have fun. Showers face each other and can even watch guys changing in the locker room.

Springfield - Same 3-4 guys all the time. at some point it becomes awkward

Clifton - DEAD

Jersey City - no sauna or steam room.

Bayonne - They charge for towels. did not go.

West Caldwell - DEAD, even the main gym.

Montclair - No parking, city area. Did not go.

Anyone else has anything to report ?

by Anonymousreply 56108/10/2013

I'm in Southern California where action like this seems really hard to find. You're hard pressed to find any gyms with non-coed saunas and steam rooms. I have recently though come across one and it's basically a bath house. Pretty much every guy in the wet areas are looking for sex. In fact, if you're not looking for sex, you're definitely in the minority.

I have never been there when there weren't at least 5 guys in a group jerk off. I'm not even exaggerating.

A few days ago there was this married guy with a huge dick, who had four guys lined up taking turns sucking his dick while 6 more sat watching and jerking off. That same morning there was this college kid getting fucked by some older guy and they didn't even care who walked in.

Yesterday, there was a hot college kid who I watched give head to five different guys. He wanted to give me head too, but I rarely participate in that stuff aside from jerking off. As tempted as I get, I have to remember that I'm watching these people mess around with guy after guy so there's no way they don't have some STD.

Anyway, love going to this gym. So much action you almost want to skip your workout so you don't miss out on catching the show in the locker room.

by Anonymousreply 56208/10/2013

R540 lies...the new location on 54th is a hotbed.

by Anonymousreply 56308/10/2013

sick behavior

by Anonymousreply 56408/10/2013

r561, I go to Springfield on occasion and also noticed it's the same few guys mostly. I did get something going with a hot masculine daddy bear a few months ago, but I never saw him again. I wonder what I did to scare him off :) The eye candy on the Hoboken gym floor is super-distracting, and is frustrating because most of the guys don't shower, which is a shame. There is the rare exception, though. Last week, I saw this hot ex-frat jock looking guy on the gym floor. Surprises of surprises, he decided to shower in the stall across from me. Fortunately, he did dried himself outside of the stall, giving me a perfect view from my shower stall to have my own personal little JO session. I should've thanked him, as he has given me JO materials for yearz to come.

by Anonymousreply 56508/10/2013

"Hoboken PATH - Very little action in Sauna. Good eye candy. Lot of cruising in the locker room and if you are a 9+ in attractiveness you can have fun. Showers face each other and can even watch guys changing in the locker room."

By "showers face each other", do you mean there are no doors on them and you can see the person across from you showering?

by Anonymousreply 56608/10/2013

There are 2 rows of stall showers that face each other. The shower curtains are semi-see through, enabling you to look out but no one can really see in. This enables to you judge the traffic and have your own private JO session if a hot straight guy decidesn he wants to give you a little show. In setting up the showers, you can tell that management sure knows who forms the majority of their member base.

by Anonymousreply 56708/10/2013

The management loves the scene

by Anonymousreply 56808/10/2013

[quote]R540 lies...the new location on 54th is a hotbed.

You may be right, I should have noted that I was talking about the one on 58th st.

by Anonymousreply 56908/10/2013

[quote]The rotten cherry on this very stale, moldy cake was that the shower doors are totally opaque, so you can't see in or out to size up the foot traffic.

I assume you meant the sauna/steam room doors, which SHOULD be opaque, for privacy if you want action. The gyms that have put up huge glass doors are the ones that have no action because it's too open.

By the way, your first line ("rotten cherry"... "stale cake") is hilarious!

by Anonymousreply 57008/10/2013

Cock and bull drama

by Anonymousreply 57108/10/2013

Had an experience earlier this morning. I'm sitting in the sauna and this guy comes in, about 26, wearing a t-shirt, underwear, socks and shoes. He stands off in a corner and starts grabbing at his dick. I wasn't interested, so I left and went into the steam room.

I'm in the steam room and there's one other guy in there. He was about 24, very fit, good looking. Immediately he starts tugging and we get something going. A minute later, the guy from the Sauna comes in and sits across the room. The 24 year old gets up and leaves a few moments later. When he does, the guy from the sauna comes over and stands right in front of me and starts rubbing his crotch again. I look away and ignore him. I'm thinking this is a pretty clear sign that I'm not interested, but then he moves closer and stands right in front of me with his crotch a few inches from my face. I tell him I'm not looking to play.

He then starts asking me all these questions about the gym and when a good time for play is, etc. I tell him I don't know. I start to feel sorry for him though so I tell him that if he wants action, he should probably not come in dressed like that. He tells me, "but I'm not ready to take my shirt off!"

It was so bizarre.

by Anonymousreply 57208/10/2013

I'm ready to sake my t shirt off and put my caftan ON

by Anonymousreply 57308/10/2013

What gym was that, R572?

by Anonymousreply 57408/10/2013

Someone please start a part-II of this thread before it gets maxed out at 600.

R572- what i found interesting is that you could distinguish between 24 year old and 26. Are you 25 ?

My experience is that in gym saunas you can get action from guys above your grade. They are there only for the quick rub and/or service. They have significant others so they are not checking you out for dating material. And TINA Factor - There Is No Alternative

Last week at a midtown location a very very hot guy GQ type was sitting in the sauna. I walked in and with a shamelessness that comes with age did the "i am interested routine". He ignored me. So i just sat waiting. In walks another hot guy. I get up and leave since i don't like being called a troll and a deal-breaker. I give them like 15 minutes while i shower and walk back. they are in exactly the same position like before lol.. in walks a guy who is lower in the pecking order than us all. hot guy 2 leaves. sometime later guy 4 leaves leaving me and hot guy 1 alone again. This is awkward now. but guess what? hot guy 1 starts making the moves. not too late.. shameless me gets some action. Another day in paradise.


by Anonymousreply 57508/11/2013

Is there is a gym in northern nj where I can go on a sunday where there are eager hot masculine straight dads looking to get off while his wifey & brats stroll the mall?

by Anonymousreply 57608/11/2013

R576 All of them.

by Anonymousreply 57708/11/2013

R542 and R546... please tell more stories.. may be a running blog.What is the protocol of rejection ? Have you been rejected ? Is there sympathy jerk if someone is not in your league ? did anyone get caught ? What about shower action ? Does anyone meet outside at all or talk at all ? Wow this thread is sooo interesting.

by Anonymousreply 57808/11/2013

I met a NYSC manager online a few months ago who wanted to play at his club. Not in the sauna but in his office. Big bodybuilder type, married and on the down low. We arranged for me to show up as a prospective client and for him to first show me around the gym, so as not to arouse any suspicion. We went into his little office, he shut the blinds, and got down to business. He fucked me on his desk. Since we'd arranged this beforehand, I was able to show up pre-lubed.

by Anonymousreply 57908/11/2013

[R579] which nysc?

by Anonymousreply 58008/11/2013

Hmm, here's some questions: 1. On NYSC, for each location, what's the best time to go to get in on/see some action? 2. For DB, what location is best to see action and when? 3. Anyone hear of any action happening after SoulCycle classes?

by Anonymousreply 58108/11/2013

[quote] I was able to show up pre-lubed.

Are you Anita Morris in Ruthless People?

by Anonymousreply 58208/11/2013

Adding to r581's thoughts, what are the best times to get some action going at the 24/7 Fitness clubs? There's one in the Bronx I'm especially excited about "sampling." I was told a lot of cabbies/livery limo drivers work out there at all hours. If I were sneak over there at, say, 1am, what can I expect? I can be fucked at a moment's notice, so it seriously wouldn't be a problem arriving there early in the morning. I love this thread. THIS is why I love us!

by Anonymousreply 58308/11/2013

I've been to 36th & Madison twice this weekend, and so has another sex fiend friend of mine, and we are sorry to say that reports of its bathhouseness have been great exaggerated. What a total shit show. Great gym floor and locker room, though!

by Anonymousreply 58408/11/2013

I've had similar experiences [R584]

Where and when would you recommend?

by Anonymousreply 58508/11/2013

Had another experience this morning. Was in the steam room jacking off with one of the trainers there. A few minutes in guess who walks in? The t-shirt, underwear, socks, and shoes guy from yesterday. It's obvious that he's interrupted something, but he sits down. The trainer immediately gets up and leaves.

Knowing I'm not interested in doing anything with him, t-shirt guy walks out.

Few minutes later, two guys come in. A little bit older, mid-30's or so. One sits next to me and starts rubbing my thigh. The other guy starts to blow him. Stuff starts getting hot, and in walks t-shirt guy. The guy next to me immediately leaves.

The guy remaining waits a few minutes and finally gets desperate enough and starts rubbing his cock. T-shirt guy looks but doesn't do anything. The mid 30s guy gets up and walks out.

T-shirt guy sits there a moment and then comments to me that the steam is too hot. I say to him, it probably wouldnt be that hot if you didn't come in fully dressed.

He starts talking about how he wants some action. I again tell him that he's not going to get any coming in dressed like that. I also point out that he's killing any action going on. He repeats again, "I'm not ready to take my shirt off! My body's not ready."

Someone else comes in, sees t-shirt guy, and walks back out. It gets too hot for t-shirt guy and he leaves. The guy that was just in, comes back in. He's followed by the mid-30's guy that was sitting next to me earlier.

Immediately the mid-30s guy starts it up and we all start stroking. We're all close and then once again, t-shirt guy walks in and stands against the wall looking at everyone. We all get up and leave.

I shower and go back in. T-shirt guy is sitting there and so are two other guys, both in their mid 20's One gives himself a tug, then the next, I tug, and t-shirt guy just sits there staring at everyone. It goes on for a few minutes but t-shirt guy never does anything but stare. I'm completely baffled since this is a guy who's told me twice he's looking for action and literally tried to shove his crotch in my face yesterday. The other two guys leave. I get ready to leave and t-shirt guy says to me:

"I don't know why no one plays while I'm here."

I repeat, "you're fully dressed, you kill the action, and even when there's action, you just sit there, so no one knows what your deal is."

He responds:

"It's a steam room. I can sit here as long as I want. I want action."

by Anonymousreply 58608/11/2013

He should wear a T-shirt with "please fuck me" printed on it

by Anonymousreply 58708/11/2013

Again, request some paying dude on this site to start another thread before this one reaches 600 and link it up here. And please make sure that the thread shows up when you search for "NYSC Sauna action" on google. This is an invaluable info thread and should not be buried by other asinine stuff that gets discussed here. And please no wisecracks about why i don't pay 18 bucks and do this myself. If i had money i would go to a bathhouse instead of trolling your gyms.

by Anonymousreply 58808/11/2013

R586, isn't it funny that you just found this new gym with all the sexual eye-candy that you could want and now you have a personal cockblocker who is constantly showing up whenever you go? Fate has a sense of humor.

by Anonymousreply 58908/11/2013

It's a wonder that t-shirt guy doesn't wear his glasses into the steam room either.

by Anonymousreply 59008/11/2013

Are we sure he isn't an undercover cop trying to get you to do something?

by Anonymousreply 59108/11/2013

[quote]It's a wonder that t-shirt guy doesn't wear his glasses into the steam room either.

I've seen guys do this. They, along with idiots who go into a sauna or steam room with their clothes on, especially their shoes, should be shot.

That's an offense way worse than any sexual activity going on in there.

I'll never understand why people do it and why they don't realize it's gross.

by Anonymousreply 59208/11/2013

I can't imagine walking into the steam room and seeing two or more women having sex.

by Anonymousreply 59308/11/2013

R584 = Manager at 36th and Madison. I go there every day. There's always something going on. Trust me. I gingerly step over globs of cum as if they're landmines.

by Anonymousreply 59408/11/2013

I've always wondered if this ever happens in the Women's steam/sauna. Guess not.

Would someone please start Part 2?

by Anonymousreply 59508/11/2013

Women are submissive prudes.

by Anonymousreply 59608/11/2013

for R578:

The protocol for rejection can vary from an eye roll to a refusal to make eye contact. Sometimes it's necessary to swat someone's hand away. The hand-swatting has happened to me twice in the three years I've been working out at NYSC (and that's 3-4 times a week, with time spent in the steam/sauna after virtually every workout). The most surprising hand-swatting I received happened at SoHo, on a Saturday. The guy has major attitude, which I didn't know when I first encountered him. He was taking part in a 4-dude circle jerk in the steam. I had been in there for almost a half-hour with a few dudes, all of us waiting for somebody to make the first move, before he showed up. I was in the shower when he entered the steam. When I rejoined, everybody-- including the "new" guy--was jerking and sucking, and he was a hot white guy with a fat cock, so I decided to give him a hand. He looked at me for a second and then swatted my hand away. Keep in mind, I'm a fit, good looking 34-year-old white dude with an 8" dong. Whatever. He then asked a far less fit, slightly pear-shaped, darkly tanned Italian-American dude to cum on him. Whatever.

I have never been the recipient of a sympathy jerk, but I have been very generous with my own time when alone with guys who were sort of sub-par. I'm too nice.

There's a fat, hideous Puerto Rican at one of the gyms who has a huge, fat cock -- one of the thickest bases ever -- who has no interest in me. I'm like chopped liver to him. If he's alone in the sauna with me, he leaves. No "sympathy" from him!

Yes, people get caught. I've been caught, had my membership suspended for a month. I've seen people get caught in the same shower together. I've joined dudes in their showers. I actually used to do that a lot more often; the shower curtains aren't as long as they used to be at most locations, so it's hard.

Yes, people meet outside and talk, although talking is best kept to a minimum in these situations. You can ruin the mystique. Some guys, you don't EVER want to hear what they sound like, or even see how they dress after they towel off. I'm talking too much cologne, white belt (SoHo asshole wears one), platform boots, etc. Barf.

by Anonymousreply 59708/11/2013

R594, I am NOT an employee at any gym. I just went to 36th & Madison twice this weekend, in the later hours, and it was a shitshow both times. And like I said, a friend also went and experienced the same disappointment. I'll check it out again after work later in the week, but I'm telling you, there is way more action at so many other locations--no need to hyperbolize about this one.

Agreed about the guys who wear their clothes/shoes in the saunas. They're a dead giveaway that it's time to migrate to the other hot room, or just give up and go home. They stay forever with their basketball "shorts" and basketball sneakers and their earbuds.

The t-shirt-wearing cockblocker needs to be told by more than one person that he's going about it all wrong. What a doofus. When was this, and was it at 36th St/Madison both times?

by Anonymousreply 59808/11/2013

R593, I've actually had a naive straight female friend ask me if lesbians have sex in the bushes in Central Park the way gay men do. As if it's a homosexual thing, this public sex business, and not an animalistic, horny man thing. Duh. Men are dogs, they're always ready. Women are not. If women were like men, then men and women would be having illicit sex together in the bushes all the time, too.

But that's a pretty hilarious mental image. Lesbians eatin' box in the sauna.

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