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Have you ever been gangbanged?

Not an orgy, but a gangbang. I'm trying find out how it happened and under what circumstances. Thanks in advance for your help.

by Anonymousreply 17210/10/2012

I participated as a top... Fire Island...this guy was turning 30 and he cruised the beach looking for 30 guys to fuck him. I said only if I got to be the first...no loose sloppy hole for me. I broke him in and later he sucked me off while number 28 was fucking him.

by Anonymousreply 101/08/2011

Boyfriend's 30th bday (8 long years ago). He wanted me to put out for a group as his "present", and I was more than happy to oblige. He arranged it with a couple of his buddies and a few other guys he found at clubs/bathhouses. Took on six guys, most of them real studs. Best part was when the BF and one on his softball buddies tagged my ass while the other guys took turns using my throat. He turns 40 soon, I should remind him that I'm here to make him happy.

by Anonymousreply 201/08/2011

Whats the difference between a gangbang and a orgy?

by Anonymousreply 301/08/2011

"I said only if I got to be the first...no loose sloppy hole for me."%0D %0D I know exactly how you feel, R1.

by Anonymousreply 401/08/2011

So the 30th birthday is synonymous with gangbang?

by Anonymousreply 801/08/2011

I totally agree with R6. %0D %0D Absolutely disgusting to have a dozen or more big ol hard, pulsating manmeat lined up to savage a tight pink hole.%0D %0D I mean if it was 8 or 9 or even 10 in your group, well OK. But anymore would just be base, vile and yes, pure filth.%0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 1001/08/2011

they have these things call "condoms', r11

by Anonymousreply 1301/08/2011

You people are pure filth. Absolutely disgusting. How can I participate in these things? Strictly for research purpose you understand.

by Anonymousreply 1401/08/2011

So don't have sex and die already.

by Anonymousreply 1601/08/2011

Yes. And 9 months later THIS happened. I have no idea who the fathers are and am thinking about calling Maury to see if he can help sort it all out. I should warn you it is not pretty and definitely NSFW

by Anonymousreply 1701/08/2011

I thought I was on the list for a gang bang, but it turns out it was transplant list and I've been notified that I will soon be too old for a transplant let alone a gang bang.

by Anonymousreply 1801/08/2011

LOL R17

by Anonymousreply 2001/08/2011

"Have you ever been gangbanged?"

More times than I can count.

by Anonymousreply 2101/08/2011

OP = Dawson trolling for ideas for his next film.

by Anonymousreply 2201/08/2011

Was one of about a dozen tops in this bareback gangbang about 6 or 7 years ago. Funniest part was recognizing a couple of the other tops and recalling their anti-barebacking rant in their gay.com profiles... yet given the opportunity, they lined up with me and bred this bottom slut deep, and one of them donated a couple of their loads. Fucking hypocrites.

by Anonymousreply 2301/08/2011

What is the difference between a gang bang and an orgy??

by Anonymousreply 2401/08/2011

Orgy = Everyone fucking everyone.

Gangbang = Everyone fucking one person.

by Anonymousreply 2501/08/2011

DL is a magic place where everyone barebacks and no-one ever gets an STD.

by Anonymousreply 2601/08/2011

But how did you end up at the GB r23? Did the bottom send up a smoke signal?

by Anonymousreply 2701/08/2011

How did I end up at the gangbang, R27? The bottom contacted me on gay.com chat and invited me over. Like the other guys.

I'm not calling the bottom a hypocrite, nor all of the guys who participated -- but I am calling out the guys who are fervently anti-bareback in public who then proceeded to drop multiple loads in the bottom's sloppy raw hole.

And I did eventually end up with an STD, R26. I'm not saying that people should bareback -- I'm just answering the question that was posed.

by Anonymousreply 2801/08/2011

[quote]Condoms ARE NOT effective against transmissions of herpes AT ALL

uh...You might want to have a chat with a doctor because they are. They aren't 100 % effective but they do reduce the risk.

by Anonymousreply 2901/08/2011

I have to admit, a part of me would LOVE to be a gangbang bottom.

If done safely, is it possible to be at the centre to a modest gangbang, done with people I trust and not just some random guys found online, without catching anything unpleasant?

by Anonymousreply 3001/08/2011

"Modest gangbang" is my favorite phrase of the week, R30

by Anonymousreply 3101/08/2011

Well, honey, if you're 80, go for it.%0D %0D You aren't going to live forever.

by Anonymousreply 3301/08/2011

No I haven't and if I have any say I never will.

by Anonymousreply 3401/08/2011

lol R27

by Anonymousreply 3501/08/2011

Okay, we get it. You think that even writing about gangbangs will give you an STD.

by Anonymousreply 3601/08/2011

[quote] Condoms DO NOT protect against herpes

They do offer a degree of protection, but not complete prevention.

Is your world completely black and white since the stroke?

by Anonymousreply 3801/08/2011

You're right. They hate us because we have sex.

So let them hate us, because I'm not going to give up sex.

by Anonymousreply 3901/08/2011

I am turning 30 in a couple of months. Thanks OP for the idea!

by Anonymousreply 4001/08/2011

So that's why all the 30th Birthday cards have a line of naked men on them!

by Anonymousreply 4101/08/2011

Happy thirtieth birthday! You are now one big bottom!

by Anonymousreply 4201/08/2011

Don't click on r17's link...

by Anonymousreply 4301/08/2011

All these birthday gangbangs? My 52nd is coming up. Who wants to like up to tap by ass? (which by the way is still firm and tight--my only feature that seems ageless)

by Anonymousreply 4401/08/2011

OK, r43. I won't.

by Anonymousreply 4501/08/2011

AIDS for all of you whores!

by Anonymousreply 4601/08/2011

Times sure have changed. I used to get my bottom slapped for every year when I was a kid. Now kids are bottoming one guy for every year.

How do you celebrate if you're a top?

by Anonymousreply 4701/08/2011

r47 it's the one time of year you have to bottom, just like it's the one time of year you used to get your birthday number of swats even if you didn't consider yourself a swattee.

by Anonymousreply 4901/08/2011

Why would anyone want to be number 30? 29? 28?....How is that fun?

by Anonymousreply 5001/08/2011

R48, don't you have some dusting to do?

by Anonymousreply 5101/08/2011

R50... Some people get into it when it feels like they're fucking a glass of water...

by Anonymousreply 5301/08/2011

After the first six dicks up your ass how can you feel anything? Let alone when you are at number 30.

by Anonymousreply 5401/08/2011

"Just reading this thread makes me feel all filthy"%0D %0D And you love it, you whore.

by Anonymousreply 5501/08/2011

It's not exactly a gangbang but the crowd I used to hang with all ejaculated on my surprise party birthday cake. I was so hurt I severed all ties.

by Anonymousreply 5701/08/2011

Lol... jealous much, R56?

by Anonymousreply 5801/08/2011

r23, are you HIV+? what STD did you pick up? were you guys all wasted on alcohol/drugs? I am trying to make sense of your statements and wondering what you were thinking.

I can't understand why anyone would do a bareback gangbang with a bunch of strangers. I'm oldschool at 46 and remember the days when we didn't know what caused AIDS or who had it. Now we know a lot more but gay guys are still doing this and I just don't get it.

by Anonymousreply 5901/08/2011

Was it a pineapple upside down cake, R57?

by Anonymousreply 6001/08/2011

R59, I'm HIV negative as of my last (recent) test. I picked up genital warts, for the record. We were all sober as far as I know.

Would I do it again? Doubtful, but please cone down off your superiority buzz: you know exactly why we did it. Horny logic and temptation of sex that does feel better at the time. No one can deny that without being a damn liar.

by Anonymousreply 6101/08/2011

thanks for your candor r61. I'm not on a high horse at all. i'm just trying to understand it.

by Anonymousreply 6201/08/2011

Modest Bareback is the name of my new band! Which I will be starting next week.

by Anonymousreply 6301/08/2011

Is this a rite of passage at 30 because older men are supposed to switch to topping after 30. Is it a last hoorah?

by Anonymousreply 6401/08/2011

My hole grew over at age 30 years and 1 day, R64, so I'm thinking yes.

by Anonymousreply 6501/08/2011

bottoming

by Anonymousreply 6601/08/2011

People like [R32] always undercut their safe-sex arguments by jumping to extremes -- they read "gang bang" and somehow assume it must be meth induced, no condom, STD-fueled rape.

No one can ever have a fantasy acted out?

It's not my thing, but if you've had enough sex, you know that many tops often cum faster, and some people might get sexual satisfaction out of someone topping them for a long long time.

Can it be done relatively safely? Yes.

Are the odds where and when it's often done that it's not safe? Probably.

Does the vicious homophobic sex-phobic hysteria help your case if you're trying to help people have safe sex?

No it does not.

by Anonymousreply 6701/08/2011

You're all whores, darlin'

by Anonymousreply 6801/08/2011

When I came home to my apartment one day, I found the Weinstein Brothers, Scott Rudin, Jerry Bruckheimer, Ari Emanuel, three Saudi Arabian investors, and the Mexican janitor from Miramax, all sporting nothing but cocaine-induced hard-ons.

At the time, I was up for a little picture called Shakespeare in Love, so I gave the guys a little wink and said, "Just let me put down a little newspaper first."

Namaste.

by Anonymousreply 6901/08/2011

I'm 30 and I've never been gangbanged :(

by Anonymousreply 7001/08/2011

"STD-fueled"%0D %0D They say that syphilis and gonorrhea will replace oil any day now!

by Anonymousreply 7101/08/2011

I turned 30 last year. My boyfriend gave me 6 rent boys who took turns fucking me. Amazing evening and one I will never forget. My favorite part of the evening was when I got eat birthday cake out of one of the rentboy's asses. Heaven!!

by Anonymousreply 7201/08/2011

R2, I like your attitude

by Anonymousreply 7301/08/2011

R71, can you read?

That's the rhetoric the hysterics used. I was parroting them -- and denouncing them.

by Anonymousreply 7401/08/2011

I was gangbanged one dewy spring morn.

by Anonymousreply 7501/09/2011

I was once gangbanged by 17 gentleman callers! 17 gentleman callers in one evening!

by Anonymousreply 7601/09/2011

We wonder why theres HIV/AID rampant in the gay community.

by Anonymousreply 7701/09/2011

r76= Blanche

by Anonymousreply 7801/09/2011

More like Amanda Wingfield, R78.

by Anonymousreply 7901/09/2011

The sky was [italic]so [/italic] blue that day......

by Anonymousreply 8001/09/2011

You're just as ridiculous in your vehement and poorly rendered opposition, R74. I stand by my mockery.

by Anonymousreply 8101/09/2011

r71 & r74 need to be gangbanged

by Anonymousreply 8201/09/2011

When I was doing time in a Texas prison [for writing bad checks] about twelve years ago I was gang RAPED. It was a horrifying experience!

I wouldn't wish it on anybody.

by Anonymousreply 8301/09/2011

"You people are pure filth. Absolutely disgusting. How can you participate in these things? I just don't get it."

Because sex is extremely pleasurable and exciting.

next!

by Anonymousreply 8501/09/2011

You left out lethal, r85.

by Anonymousreply 8601/09/2011

tell us more r83

by Anonymousreply 8701/09/2011

I would like to be gang banged by 4 hung guys who take turns with me and I would suck off the other 10 guys.

by Anonymousreply 8801/09/2011

No r89, this thread could have been about a gay quilting bee and they would still hate us. They just hate us. Period.

by Anonymousreply 9001/09/2011

[quote]I just don't get it

Trying to eliminate self loathing feelings brought on by homophobes in childhood.

by Anonymousreply 9101/09/2011

It's not just gays who have gang bangs. Ever hear of the Houston 500?

by Anonymousreply 9201/09/2011

[quuote]Seriously this really is why they, AND I, hate us. The right would have a field day with this thread, and you know something, I'm not sure they'd be so far off the mark?%0D %0D This isn't so much about being gay as it is about being male.%0D %0D Just sayin'

by Anonymousreply 9301/09/2011

My BFF did a 21/21, and I was one of them. (That's 21 for his 21st - he requested it. I looked it up in my Ms. Manners, but she doesn't say a lot about gangbangs.) We're still friends (at the ripe old age of 28 or so) and I can say that neither of us has an STD. (He had crabs once, but that's not an STD.) I live in fear of 40, which he considers a "blowout" (as in prolapse) year. That is what a "blowout" year mean,s right? If not, I'm going to hide under the bed.

by Anonymousreply 9401/10/2011

The RIght is populated by knuckle draggers who wont acknowledge the other side of anything.

Straight men love gang bangs as much as gay men.

Do you have any idea how popular that theme is in straight porn?

However, I will say that the threat of STDs just doesnt make it seem like a worthwhile endeavor.

Is one gangbang worth herpes for the rest of your life? Probably only if you get an Oscar out of it, like Gwynnie upthread.

by Anonymousreply 9501/10/2011

[quote] I'm trying find out how it happened and under what circumstances.

Why, Ms. Jessica Fletcher! Murder cases not keeping you busy enough?

by Anonymousreply 9601/10/2011

[quote]Fire Island...this guy was turning 30 and he cruised the beach looking for 30 guys to fuck him.%0D %0D %0D Did the bottom have a house in the Pines all for himself, R1? Where could he have taken all those tops to fuck him in privacy? Was it at night? Bareback? No judgement here. Just curious, thanks!

by Anonymousreply 9707/07/2011

Be nice to R89, he's never had sex with another person.

by Anonymousreply 9807/07/2011

Not yet. And I was looking forward to it!!

by Anonymousreply 9907/07/2011

[quote]Seriously this really is why they, AND I, hate us

Sweety, they hate you for getting fucked by one man (even if it's the same man for 20yrs and through a hole in the blanket to maintain purity).

by Anonymousreply 10007/07/2011

r99%0D %0D ouch... funny but ouch

by Anonymousreply 10107/07/2011

R1, please answer my question at R97 if you see this! Thanks.

by Anonymousreply 10207/07/2011

Have any of you been gangbanged AND bukkaked at the same time? That would pretty much take the cake of the sexiest, raunchiest gay sex. No joke.

by Anonymousreply 10307/07/2011

bump

by Anonymousreply 10407/08/2011

You all are gonna get pregnant (lol)

by Anonymousreply 10507/08/2011

Have you ever tried to find the comfort from inside you?

by Anonymousreply 10607/08/2011

I am going to shame slut all of you (lol)

by Anonymousreply 10807/08/2011

Nothing wrong with being a slut.

by Anonymousreply 10907/08/2011

bump!

by Anonymousreply 11007/08/2011

I was once, randomly, slapped on the ass by a Sophomore, when I was a Freshman, at my High School in Biology class in front of everyone. I was embarrassed, but he was a hot guy who would be called a Hunk so I didn't get him in trouble. He desperately tried to get me to come over his house to have sex with him. He was desperate for me. Everyday in biology class he would get up, come over to my lab table, and tell me that he wants me to suck his dick. He did this everyday for a month. So, when it was time for us to choose lab partners I decided to be his partner. I would try to do the lab work and he would just talk about sex with me. I tried to get him on topic but he asked me if I would come over his house to have an orgy on the following weekend. I turned him down. So, by Monday, he announced that he has Herpes. I was relieved for myself, yet sorry for him. He then threw up a waterfall of Herpes filled saliva on the floor. When he was finished he looked up and asked me if I would see him again. I nodded my head 'yes'. I didn't want to say 'no' because it would have peeked the awkward scene hardcore. But, he was a hot bisexual Hunk alright. Damn!, he was hot alright. To bad he has herpes now. Good thing I don't ( the saliva did not touch me and I got tested so I'm good). Anyway that is my story of someone who did sex with multiple high school students. It was an orgy, not a gangbang, but he... could not wait for me, I guess. Lol. He was hot as hell though. Gotta give him credit for that. He was hot as in he looked similar to the gay pornstar Shane Frost. But the man in my story was hotter. He was literally to good to be true, especially for his age. God Damn!

by Anonymousreply 11207/28/2012

[quote]I said only if I got to be the first...no loose sloppy hole for me.

I imagine that this was not at all a concern for your immediate successor.

by Anonymousreply 11307/28/2012

[quote]How can you get fucked by 30 guys and not get an STD?

You spray each guy with Lysol before he enters. Try the Spring Garden scent.

by Anonymousreply 11407/28/2012

Only once

by Anonymousreply 11507/29/2012

[quote]He wanted me to put out for a group as his "present", and I was more than happy to oblige.

And they say romance is dead!

by Anonymousreply 11607/29/2012

Many, many times.

by Anonymousreply 11707/29/2012

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by Anonymousreply 11807/29/2012

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by Anonymousreply 11907/29/2012

Hmm, I guess I'll just look for the guy with the pushed in, flattened ass and I'll know it's you. I'm not sure about the gang bang either but, hey, whatever does it for you--alot of guys here do make a point about disease though, I mean, it's not the 70s anymore, unfortunately (in some ways--it's good the clothing from that decade got left behind). I am basically a top but tend to like to become intimately involved with a guy; I like to have my man nurture me while I nurse on his nipples and grip his buttcheeks. Then he gets his butt punished, spanked and demolished--it's nice to have them wear cowboy stuff too with the shirt open to the navel (wide open shirt= wide open guy). What I mean by all this is that while quantity might be good, I think quality with one is always better. Then, after sex, and his butt has been fixed good, he spoils me--where can you get this with alot of guys clamoring to get into your asshole (not that there's anything wrong with that mind you)?

by Anonymousreply 12007/30/2012

I am 25 White Guy I have brown hair blue eyes. I have been told on more than one time that I look very very young. I have pretty nice bubble butt and I enjoy being a bottom. I have only been with a couple older guys but I am dying to find a group of guys who would like to show me how to take cock in my bubble butt like a champ. I want to be gangbanged SO BAD! I would like to at least try a group of 3-5 guys who are pretty well hung. Please be open to teaching me how to take all that cock at once. If everything goes well I wouldnt mind doing it again. I live in SOCAL LA area rj55dj@yahoo.com Please email me soon. I am craving to take all that cock inside me. I want to learn how to please

by Anonymousreply 12108/03/2012

The topic and comments here are nothing but utter unadulterated and disgusting FILTH!

Tell me more.

by Anonymousreply 12208/03/2012

Who are these fucking idiots like R121 who think this is a dating site?

Go away, shithead, this is not the site you're looking for!

by Anonymousreply 12308/03/2012

Have you ever been mellow?

by Anonymousreply 12408/03/2012

R111, among other many other things, "did sex"?

by Anonymousreply 12608/03/2012

I couldn't read what you wrote r119. I got as far as "Mrs. Clinton" and didn't want to know about that type of gangbang.

by Anonymousreply 12708/04/2012

Because everyone who says they're D/D free really is...

by Anonymousreply 12808/04/2012

It's the logistics of the gang bang that I can't get past. Even the best pig bottom can only accommodate four or five guys at a time, so that leaves 25 people milling around the house at any given time. I can't imagine having that many people to the house without serving some sort of refreshments. Even if you're not doing an elaborate spread, that's still a lot of booze and snacks to put out. It can't be fun for the bottom if he has to hop out of the sling every 20 minutes to fill up the ice buckets.

Plus people going in and out of the house to smoke, and sitting bare-assed on your furniture, and hearing someone yell, "Hey, why won't the TV turn on?"... who could relax enough to enjoy the gang fucking?

I guess you have to be in a relationship to have a successful mass penetration. And even then you might still want your hag over just long enough to take the coats.

by Anonymousreply 12908/04/2012

r129 a gangbang not a gangbanquette

by Anonymousreply 13008/04/2012

[quote]Even if you're not doing an elaborate spread,

If you're being gangbanged through your own volition, you're absolutely doing "an elaborate spread"!

by Anonymousreply 13108/04/2012

I was a bottom for 10 guys. I knew 3 of the guys. It was more or less a pump 'n dump. They just took turns fucking me. I didn't have to suck them or anything. They just wanted to plow me. They would come in the room one after the other, so I'm not sure if it was a gangbang proper or a train. The last guy did lick my hole.

by Anonymousreply 13208/04/2012

Just found while I'm checking the kids computers?

by Anonymousreply 13308/04/2012

Wasn't the OP's title a big hit for Olivia Newton-John back in the early 70s?

by Anonymousreply 13408/04/2012

"There was a time when I was in a hurry, as you are. I was like you."

The truth is in the lyrics. Gangbangs save time.

by Anonymousreply 13508/05/2012

That was one of my favorite Pretenders's songs.

Now I'm running a train....

Yes I've been gangbanged.

by Anonymousreply 13608/06/2012

[quote]It's the logistics of the gang bang that I can't get past. Even the best pig bottom can only accommodate four or five guys at a time, so that leaves 25 people milling around the house at any given time.

I'm confused. First off, who said that we needed thirty people? Who said that the bottom would also be the (heavenly) host? And what pig bottom can accommodate only four or five guys at a time? One in each of the obvious orifices (two would be tacky), one in each hand, waiting his turn, one to answer the phone...

by Anonymousreply 13708/06/2012

I'm so pissed. I was having a fuck party this weekend and now my fave fuckbuddy (amazing butt, handsome and great to watch in action too) can't come :-(

Ironically I've had an invite to a gangbang on the *same* day at the *same* time and now I can't decide what to as my group meet was only half arranged (but would have more guys who were versatile, and more of a range of ages)

Help me datalounge, what shall I do?!?!

by Anonymousreply 13808/06/2012

I see that I waited too long to post my Olivia Newton-John joke. Curses!

by Anonymousreply 13908/06/2012

As a gay man, I find this type behavior disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 14008/06/2012

So no suggestions? Help me I'm indecisive and I rarely get any free time so I don't want to regret my choice! Some background info:

The last group I organised had a great atmosphere, and the best mix of guys yet (12 guys, ages 18 to 51) But the organising was a major stress, and at the last minute I had to do some rearranging and holding up the start in order get a twink here after his lift pissed us about.

Then after a couple of hours of fun a fuckbuddy who had initially said he wasn't interested, showed up, and phoned me to ask if he could join in. I caved because he's physically very much my type (very Dieux du Stade) but he turned out to be overwhelmed and bailed after 20 minutes. I've never let anyone join after the start time before, so the disappointment/weirdness it caused was my own doing.

Bear in mind though that another plus, if you organise your own party, is that all the guys can be your type! This was all safe fucking in my gym room, with a lot of versatility and exhibitionism. A number of the same guys would like to come again this weekend but at this stage there's a lot of chasing up to do.

by Anonymousreply 14108/06/2012

London DL'er here continuing if you're interested -

Now, the alternative is a gangbang which someone else is organising. I don't know him intimately only socially, but he is pleasant and he'll be the bottom. But there's where the red flags pop up - how organised can he be if he's also the bottom (amd consequently, occupied), and furthermore, he expressly told me no-one else is to get fucked, it's all tops. He says he gets annoyed if guys try to have fun in anyway that means he's not the centre of attention. Will that make it a weird atmosphere?

It's a different age group, all 40 to 55 years old. I know a couple of the guys already so I find that encouraging, also it'll be a smaller group of 8 guys total.I know it could seem like a no-brainer but I'd like to see how someone else runs their party AND I was thinking it would be fun to see if any of the other guys might be interested in topping at one of my groups sometime, see?

by Anonymousreply 14208/06/2012

R138, are you the same guy that's worried about filling the ice bucket and making sure everyone has adequate snacks at your soiree?

by Anonymousreply 14308/06/2012

[quote]Ironically I've had an invite to a gangbang on the *same* day at the *same* time and now I can't decide....

Don't you just hate it when that happens? Reminds me of the time Marcia had to decide between two guys who asked her to the prom....

by Anonymousreply 14408/06/2012

Been a top in a GB several times. Lots of fun especially if the bottom is really into it.

by Anonymousreply 14508/06/2012

No, R143. I'm serious.

You don't have stuff like that at a sex party other than telling the guys they can help themselves to any drinks in the fridge.

The first (and worst) group thing thing I ever went to was like that, with Wotsits (English Cheetos) in bowls, and cubes of cheese with pickled onions on cocktail sticks.

There's just fucking at my party baby ;-)

by Anonymousreply 14608/06/2012

Dam gay men are whores.

I can hear all your prolapsed anus whistling while you type.

by Anonymousreply 14708/08/2012

And you wonder why straight people dont want to sit next to you on the train.

by Anonymousreply 14808/08/2012

And you're on this thread why R147?

My anus is neither prolapsed nor incapable of spelling. Damned, sure, but prolapsed, no.

by Anonymousreply 14908/08/2012

[quote]My anus is neither prolapsed nor incapable of spelling.

Now THAT'S an eye-catcher for the old resume!

by Anonymousreply 15108/11/2012

Joey, Honey, go back to school

by Anonymousreply 15208/11/2012

Gsy men have contempt for the men they are fucking.

Don't kid yourself.

They're just like straight men: a lot of them feel profoundly that anybody who'd allow himself or herself to get penetrated is basically a contemptible whore.

Men think it's degrading to be penetrated.

Don't kid yourself that they have any respect for you in the moment they're pumping away in your asshole.

by Anonymousreply 15308/11/2012

Yeah, R150? That never happened.

by Anonymousreply 15408/11/2012

I organized one for my brother for his 30th birthday but it turned into a clusterfuck. No one wanted to follow rules and wait their turn to fuck the birthday boy. You put 30 naked boys in a room and it just becomes a free-for-all. SMH.

by Anonymousreply 15508/11/2012

Are these orgies held in mansions?

by Anonymousreply 15608/14/2012

Not mine. Why, R156?

I just have mine in the downstairs spare room of my house, which I keep my gym equipment in. When guys are going at it in threes and fours you'd be surprised, it's not actually that crowded. But it does get kind of hot.

by Anonymousreply 15708/14/2012

I get claustrophobic. No orgy in a studio. It better be a mansion!

by Anonymousreply 15808/14/2012

Nothing better on a real hot southern night with fried chicken and watermelon added with black gangbangers fucking me

by Anonymousreply 15908/15/2012

What the fuck? You bastards are all gay. Now I'm gonna be sick. Don't expect me to be reading this shit anymore. I don't know how I even got here. Maybe I was hyjacked or something.

by Anonymousreply 16008/15/2012

Delightful fun!

by Anonymousreply 16108/15/2012

Is r150 (Joey) twenty-one, or twenty-five?

by Anonymousreply 16208/17/2012

No I'm not a ho

by Anonymousreply 16308/21/2012

Yes, When i was 24 (a long time ago) I was at a party and it was thining outas people went home. I was grabbed by some guys as i came out the bathroom. I struggled and screamed but they stripped me and pinned me down on a bed while they touched me anyway they wanted and they all took turns performing oral sex on me and fingering me. Eventually one of them made me orgasm and then they took turns having sex with me, there were five of them and two of them took two turns.

by Anonymousreply 16409/25/2012

R154, sounds like a bad porn scenario

by Anonymousreply 16509/25/2012

A lot of you are spinning fantasies. There is no way you could accomodate a dozen guys in one evening without serious consequences. The possibility of permanent serious damage to your ass is so high I can't see how you can tell these lies with a straight face...no pun intended. Unloess you were fucked by a 3 inch dick.

by Anonymousreply 16609/25/2012

Did all the "30th birthday" party favors posters watch the same porno or is this fan fiction night on DL?

by Anonymousreply 16809/25/2012

My best buddy turned 30 and wanted to get the shit fucked out of his hole raw and take as many loads as we could find.he's hot,in-shape and a total insatiable bottom pussy. Thus,we set up this gang-bang for him on Fire Island (where else ?) and advertised it for weeks before we got there.We hooked up with some black "thug" types with huge dicks,because RON loves BIG,black cock.At the orgy,he got fucked bare-back 18 times.With his hole loaded woth loads,we went to the Meat-Rack after all the dudes did him (it was after midnite now,on a Saturday night in early August.)Needless to say,he propped himself up on a tree and got fucked another 12 times,rough and hard to make 30 raw ass-fucks up his load-dump,pussy-ass! Happy Birthday RON-you deserved it !

by Anonymousreply 16910/08/2012

I'm getting a whole new view of 30th birthday parties.

by Anonymousreply 17010/10/2012

I bet the turds of the guy that's being gangbanged really wish they could call 911 and shout "we're being attacked...send help!!

by Anonymousreply 17110/10/2012

R169, you found black guys on Fire Island?

by Anonymousreply 17210/10/2012
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