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Why do people from stable backgrounds go into porn?

I don't understand why someone would choose to do porn if there are other options available to them. I get if the person came from an unstable background or was desperate for money or even if they just like sex, but some of them are college educated and seem to have a brain. This one guy, Zeb from CF, is model gorgeous, seems to be from a close middle class family, college educated and even plays the violin. He seems very together and has his own business now and a wife and kids. So why the hell would someone like this decide to go into gay porn?

--Anonymous
replies 40Dec 7, 2017 12:46 PM +00:00

Because they are studs.

--Anonymous
replies 1Dec 7, 2017 12:47 PM +00:00

Some folks ard exhibitionists who get a specific thrill by the idea of doing this kind of stuff.

--Anonymous
replies 2Dec 7, 2017 12:49 PM +00:00

Some people who you think have "a good brain" actually don't know how to use it to hold a job that pays anything and they hate school.

--adhd
replies 3Dec 7, 2017 12:51 PM +00:00

A superficially good background doesn't mean he wasn't sexually abused as a child.

--Anonymous
replies 4Dec 7, 2017 12:55 PM +00:00
some of them are college educated and seem to have a brain. This one guy, Zeb from CF, is model gorgeous, seems to be from a close middle class family, college educated and even plays the violin.

I think it's darling that you actually believe that his name is Zeb, he went to college, and plays violin - because they'd certainly never make up the backgrounds for these guys.

While I suppose ANYTHING is possible, what is more probable - that someone with that background does porn or that the background is made up fantasy?

Of course, there's always the random exception, people from relatively normal background become serial killers, but I think that is probably the explanation for the vast majority of people about whom you're wondering.

--Anonymous
replies 5Dec 7, 2017 12:57 PM +00:00

Just so they can have a bit of pin money.

--Anonymous
replies 6Dec 7, 2017 12:58 PM +00:00

R3 is right. I know a gogo boy who also escorts who's from an upper middle class family and who goes to a good college in the Los Angeles area. It's just about the quick cash.

--Anonymous
replies 7Dec 7, 2017 12:59 PM +00:00

Those sterling silver phone dialers aren't going to buy themselves.

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--Anonymous
replies 8Dec 7, 2017 1:00 PM +00:00

Just because you are attending/attended college does not mean you have money. Is it 1980 where a college degree still meant a stable middle class life?

Sex addiction and exhibitionism is HUGE in the porn industry. They get off on people watching them have sex.

--Anonymous
replies 9Dec 7, 2017 1:07 PM +00:00

R5- of course I know his name isn't Zeb! The info is on Instagram under his real name. I won't post it here, but it's not hard to find.

He seems very dedicated to his business and not lazy at all. Would never in a million years think he ever did porn. I guess it is about the quick cash, but fuck, porn is something that will haunt you forever. Wonder what his family thinks and his wife.

--Anonymous
replies 10Dec 7, 2017 1:14 PM +00:00

They don't. If they say their background was normal, they're lying.

--Anonymous
replies 11Dec 7, 2017 1:16 PM +00:00

Great sex - and great drugs!

Fuck the stable background.

--Anonymous
replies 12Dec 7, 2017 1:17 PM +00:00

Straight porn actor Johnny Sins always had it in his bio that he graduated with a business degree. It was hilarious to read that he gave up the business world for a career in porn. As if one day, he was trading Microsoft stock and the next day he was performing cunnilingus on some blonde with big tits.

--Anonymous
replies 13Dec 7, 2017 1:19 PM +00:00

Who cares!

--As long as they present hole
replies 14Dec 7, 2017 1:21 PM +00:00

OP there is no way for you to know how "stable" anyone's background really was. And financial stability does not necessarily = emotional stability.

--Anonymous
replies 15Dec 7, 2017 1:41 PM +00:00

it's all about the ¢a$hola.

--Anonymous
replies 16Dec 7, 2017 1:48 PM +00:00

R13 There's a similar story in this clip.

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--Anonymous
replies 17Dec 7, 2017 1:51 PM +00:00

Did you people learn nothing about pathological lying from Prince Truvada?

I know a few normalish college educated guys who turned tricks when young but none who ever did porn. Few people ever have to know someone screwed for money. But porn is uncontrollable. Very dumb move for someone on track for a middle class life.

--Anonymous
replies 18Dec 7, 2017 1:57 PM +00:00

Here's a straight actor who also graduated from college and decided to do porn instead.

Sean lawless discusses how he got inside the adult film industry.
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--Anonymous
replies 19Dec 7, 2017 2:13 PM +00:00

Because being middle class doesn't mean anything in terms of "stability", "morality" or a lot of other things most people value. OP is simply a snob and clearly naive about the ways of the world.

--Anonymous
replies 20Dec 7, 2017 2:23 PM +00:00

What about US? What does it say about us that we don't care that the people we get off on are being exploited? That we only expect people with a bad background to entertain us? Give up the vice.

--Anonymous
replies 21Dec 7, 2017 2:34 PM +00:00

Porn performers get pissed off at your judging their choices and casting them as are victims who are ruining their lives r4. Many of them like doing porn y'know.

IG: @_carterdane Twitter: @_CARTERDANE The BF's????? IG: @alex_mecum Twitter: @alex_mecum
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--Anonymous
replies 22Dec 7, 2017 2:42 PM +00:00

Obviously that was aimed at R21*

--R22
replies 23Dec 7, 2017 2:42 PM +00:00

I'm watching this soap opera playing out on pornhub and twitter. They've been together since they were 15. Married at 18 as they started college. She's the girl next door and he's her cute but skinny boy husband. They throw some clumsy videos up and then decide to produce "romantic" videos. Then there are a few public place videos. How naughty.

Now she's 20 and they have dumped college to devote time to their "careers". She catches him secretly checking out their bank accounts. Then he leaves. She tries for a few weeks on her own with a new partner who wants his face blocked. She's getting nervous cause she's losing income because their public videos had to be taken down due to law suit threats. A week later her husband comes back and she stiffs the new co-worker. Takes those videos down because she doesn't want to pay him. Husband demands videos put up in his name and his account. This Christmas she's going to tell her parents about her "career"..

Can't take my eyes off of this real time, real life train wreck.

Oh and I think her husband might be gay.

--Anonymous
replies 24Dec 7, 2017 2:43 PM +00:00

Carter Dane is very hot and seems sweet. Listening to him, you think he was working as a United Nations Nurse or something, everyone is so wonderful. Hmmm.

He has one of those delicious holes that sits high in the ass surface, not deep in the ass cheeks. Wonderful for eating out and fucking, I have seen.

--Anonymous
replies 25Dec 7, 2017 2:52 PM +00:00

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--Anonymous
replies 26Dec 7, 2017 3:19 PM +00:00

Melania used to pose naked kissing another woman in bed with her shaved vagina and is now the First Lady of the most powerful country in the world.

Kim Kardashian made a sex tape which propelled her family into creating a billion dollar empire for the past ten years.

The world has changed.

--Anonymous
replies 27Dec 12, 2017 12:10 AM +00:00

"Why do people from stable backgrounds go into porn? "

They were groomed for it?

--Anonymous
replies 28Dec 12, 2017 12:15 AM +00:00

They don't have the hangups OP does about porn and probably don't have a big problem with it. Not everyone sees it as exploitative or life nullifying.

--Anonymous
replies 29Dec 12, 2017 12:21 AM +00:00

R7 So do you get a 'family and friends' discount or pay full price?

--Anonymous
replies 30Dec 12, 2017 12:26 AM +00:00
What about US? What does it say about us that we don't care that the people we get off on are being exploited? That we only expect people with a bad background to entertain us? Give up the vice.

We don’t care BECAUSE we know this isn’t really “Exploitation” is it? The days of Traci Lords are over. The porn industry has been regulated so much since then I find it hard to believe that exploitation is even an issue. I’m not saying that it doesn’t happen in some form or another but all of these adults know what the fuck they're doing. I had a shitty childhood--like most people--and if I had the opportunity to monetize it, why shouldn't I?

Also, morality and porn don’t really mix well, so…..

--Anonymous
replies 31Dec 12, 2017 12:37 AM +00:00

R20 But you need "unstable and immoral" middle class folks to pay for your Obamacare and your free phone.

--Anonymous
replies 32Dec 12, 2017 12:43 AM +00:00

Mental issues. The guy from OP, with all he's got going for him, may also be mentally ill. It might not show yet (apart from the porn), but it will.

--try joining a philarmonic now
replies 33Dec 12, 2017 12:55 AM +00:00

R21 Are porn stars the new victims? The victim train is so long, I just can't keep up anymore. I often feel "exploited' after watching porn - where do I get my train ticket?

--Anonymous
replies 34Dec 12, 2017 12:57 AM +00:00

Why do bears shit in the woods? Because they can.

--Anonymous
replies 35Dec 12, 2017 1:02 AM +00:00

Wait a minute.... that guy at R26 is supposed to be straight? With a voice like that?

--Anonymous
replies 36Dec 12, 2017 1:06 AM +00:00

This person named Zebediah claims to plays the violin while having the word F. O. R. Z. A. printed in a permanent skin-stain on his flesh.

--Foolish boy
replies 37Dec 12, 2017 1:28 AM +00:00

R27, You are obsessed with Melania. Are you male or female?

--Anonymous
replies 38Dec 12, 2017 1:42 AM +00:00

$$$$

--Anonymous
replies 39Dec 12, 2017 1:42 AM +00:00

Why do Zebediah and Caleb and Joshua and Jacob all have such Biblical names?

--Whats wrong with Shaneequa?
replies 40Dec 12, 2017 11:24 AM +00:00