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What is a "non-binary femme"?

I am not trolling and genuinely want to know.

Are "femmes" usually biological women? Does that mean they identify with their biological gender? If so, why are they "non-binary"? Isn't that a contradiction? Or do biological males also identity as "femme"?

Most people I have met with the "femme" label are biological women, by the way. And usually they've been "femmes of color." I don't now how many males identify as "femme."

Many questions.

replies 19Dec 7, 2017 1:34 AM +00:00

Isn't a "femme" a feminine lesbian? As opposed to "butch".

replies 1Dec 7, 2017 1:38 AM +00:00

To ask this question is literal violence on my body.

replies 2Dec 7, 2017 1:39 AM +00:00

R1 But no lesbian I know really identifies as "butch." Ie, "I am a non-binary butch of color"

replies 3Dec 7, 2017 1:41 AM +00:00

It's what you feel it to be.

replies 4Dec 7, 2017 1:42 AM +00:00

I am still confused by this ...

replies 5Dec 7, 2017 2:49 PM +00:00

non-binary femme = a busty woman who wears lipstick and high heels who doesn't identify as female or male

replies 6Dec 7, 2017 3:22 PM +00:00

That big as a house fibromyalgia victim in the wheelchair(she has a whole thread devoted to her) describes herself as "Binary as fuck."

She has boobs bigger than Texas, and she's very pretty even with the fat. I cannot see what is non=binary about her.

She's also a sex worker.

--and she has about 10 Go Fund Me accounts for whitey to pay her reparations
replies 7Dec 7, 2017 6:17 PM +00:00

Non-binary anything translates to "attention whore" in most languages.

replies 8Dec 7, 2017 7:08 PM +00:00

Did someone summon my presence?
replies 9Dec 7, 2017 7:27 PM +00:00

As far as I'm concerned, "femme" is a word from lesbian culture but males like Travis Alabanza, Alok and similar middle-class spoilt braTs have decided they'll take that as well. So now the word is also used to mean: Man who wears a stupid blue shade of lipstick, and dresses like a toddler. Because T is all about cultural kleptomania.

replies 10Dec 7, 2017 8:27 PM +00:00

A kleppermaniac!

--Edith Bunker
replies 11Dec 7, 2017 9:23 PM +00:00

Yeah, R10, I only heard that term in the context of lesbians, but then I started seeing queeny gay guys like Alok identifying as that. Now it's used by talentless women who are bereft of a personality and think that it makes them stand out from the crowd.

Alok tried saying "women and femmes" in a video and was thoroughly roasted by the godsend Magdalen Berns.

replies 12Dec 7, 2017 9:37 PM +00:00

When I see a dating profile with ANY of the new words the kids are using, I move on. I don't have time to sit and look up terms. You're either a lesbian, gay, trans or bi. Anything else is stupid.

replies 13Dec 7, 2017 9:39 PM +00:00

Let me explain something to you. There is no non-binary. You either suck dick, or you do not suck dick.

--Andrew Dice Clay
replies 14Dec 7, 2017 9:57 PM +00:00

Pink News video: The first time I realised I was non-binary

Or 'The first time I realised I'm in my 20s'

"It felt like pieces of a puzzle."
--Masc4Masc Gay UK
replies 15Jul 13, 2018 2:54 AM +00:00

Those individuals using the term "non-binary" either never attended a class in biology or were in the loo wanking during class.

--The world is inundated with attention whores
replies 16Jul 13, 2018 3:07 AM +00:00

The only thing good I can think of about the idiots who use these made up terms is that what they post on the internet is forever so I five or ten years when they inevitably reveal they are full of shit and hypocritical there will be proof. Also, think of all the ammo their kids will have to use against them 😚

replies 17Jul 16, 2018 10:49 AM +00:00

If you decline to learn what any of these manufactured things mean, you can’t be assigned.

--Play dumb.
replies 18Jul 16, 2018 10:57 AM +00:00

It’s funny when they start talking about “micro-aggressions” because one of them was self-aware enough to realize they were just paranoid r15.

“It really helped when I was diagnosed as autistic.” What?

Jesus.... what is my generation going to do if we ever have to go to war?

When they finally grow up and realize they’re just gay this will continue to be hilarious.

replies 19Jul 16, 2018 11:07 AM +00:00