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Is there no sex in findom?

There is a beautiful guy on an app who says he's into findom and cashmaster. I don't get it, I'm supposed to give him money and not get fucked?

replies 8Dec 6, 2017 11:39 AM +00:00

Yes that's about it.

replies 1Dec 6, 2017 11:40 AM +00:00

OP is showing off that he's up with current slang.

replies 2Dec 6, 2017 11:54 AM +00:00

Please define OP for those of us not up with the current slang.

replies 3Dec 6, 2017 11:56 AM +00:00

“Findom” = “financial domination,” and no, OP, there’s no sex. I think it’s mostly a heterosexual thing, probably for that reason.

replies 4Dec 6, 2017 12:15 PM +00:00

Findom is a sexual fetish in which you give a dominant person money and then they make fun of you for having given it to them, and they spend it. You get nothing. That’s the whole point.

If you get sexual arousal out of being used in that way, findom is for you. If you don’t, it’s not.

replies 5Dec 6, 2017 12:52 PM +00:00

Thanks all. There's a really hot hung guy in my building who is on Grindr posting about findom. I'd throw him some bucks if I got some wang, but it seems unlikely.

replies 6Dec 13, 2017 10:54 AM +00:00

geez there are a lot of fucked up people out there

replies 7Dec 13, 2017 11:10 AM +00:00

There's a Vice documentary on this called "Cash Slaves"

replies 8Dec 13, 2017 11:11 AM +00:00