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Would you ever give Permission for your partner to sleep with someone else?

If you want to end up with your partner forever, don't you want to explore other people beforehand? Because forever is a fucking long time to never touch another dick!

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replies 20Dec 6, 2017 2:01 AM +00:00

Forever = 5 years in gay time.

replies 1Dec 6, 2017 2:04 AM +00:00

Yeh, I don't care. My partner is my default person, my travel partner, the only one I'd want to live with, but what do I care if he (or me) plays with some other dicks. Dicks are fun. Go for it.

replies 2Dec 6, 2017 2:24 AM +00:00

Yes I would, OP. It’s not that big of a deal. I’m a frau, btw.

I am not sure that I’d want to participate in it or see it, because I’m not in to women sexually at all, but if my partner wanted something like that, I wouldn’t be too freaked out.

And no. I wouldn’t be upset if he wanted to have sex with another man, either. As long as condoms are used, NBD.

replies 3Dec 6, 2017 2:28 AM +00:00

R3 progressive frau, good for you!

replies 4Dec 6, 2017 2:33 AM +00:00

Its not a long time when you have found THE dick youve been looking for all your life.

replies 5Dec 6, 2017 2:33 AM +00:00

Only if I could watch.

replies 6Dec 6, 2017 2:37 AM +00:00

I'm not overly concerned about monogamy.

However, I've noticed there seems to be a high correlation between people who want to sleep with other people and other personality traits that I don't find desirable, and more pointedly, which usually lead to the eventual end of relationships.

While obviously not a blanket statement and not applicable to every person, these people tend to be "grass is greener" types always looking for the next better, unwilling to make tradeoffs and compromises in a relationship (relationships are hard and require both parties to work and make tradeoffs and sacrifices), some difficulty with impulse control, or some combination of these.

Of course, one ought not be unhappy in a relationship, but the idea that anyone is deliriously happy all the time is silly. Often there is something self-centered is people who either view not sleeping with other people as a deprivation. Sex is important, but relationships require other things to work to be successful.

replies 7Dec 6, 2017 4:12 AM +00:00

No, I'm not wired that way. If he felt the need to be with someone else, then just put the cards on the table and deal with the consequences. I wouldn't cheat on him.

replies 8Dec 6, 2017 5:58 AM +00:00

My past relationships so far have been monogamous as far as I know. I think I would be ok with it but I have no idea of the reality of an open relationship.

replies 9Dec 6, 2017 6:05 AM +00:00

Yes, but it only works if you establish rules and abide by them.

replies 10Dec 6, 2017 6:10 AM +00:00

I have been single for some time. I think any outside arrangements would only develop after a suitable period (if at all).

I guess YMMV applies here.

replies 11Dec 6, 2017 6:14 AM +00:00

I think I would, but I really can't imagine him wanting that.

replies 12Dec 6, 2017 6:17 AM +00:00

I have no problem with it as long as it makes him happy. Lying about it, on the other hand, is the deal breaker. I can't stand duplicity because there really isn't room for it in an adult relationship.

replies 13Dec 6, 2017 6:37 AM +00:00

I would never presume to give my partner "permission" to do anything. He is free to do what he wants. But, as R8 says, there would be consequences. I had a bf broach this subject with me after we'd been dating about four years. I thanked him for being honest and soon ended the relationship. If you're not sexually satisfied with me, I want you to go ahead and seek your pleasures however and with whomever you want. I just won't be part of the equation.

replies 14Dec 6, 2017 6:41 AM +00:00

You broke up with someone for simply bringing up the subject, R14?

replies 15Dec 6, 2017 6:49 AM +00:00

Yes, R15, because I asked him if he was going to do it behind my back if I didn't "agree" to it -- and to his credit, he admitted that he probably would at some point.

replies 16Dec 6, 2017 6:52 AM +00:00

Ah, that makes more sense then.

replies 17Dec 6, 2017 7:01 AM +00:00

I'm glad R14 has entered his twilight years with his morals intact, if not with a man.

replies 18Dec 6, 2017 7:19 AM +00:00

LOL, r18!

replies 19Dec 6, 2017 9:28 AM +00:00

If you're a gay, your "partner" has already slept with someone else. It's ridiculous to think he needs permission to do something he already has done and will continue to do anyway.

replies 20Dec 6, 2017 11:43 AM +00:00