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Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock.

Weird, right? What's up with them?

--Anonymous
replies 323Aug 29, 2015 2:57 AM +00:00

Don't come to, or in, my house.

--Anonymous
replies 1Aug 29, 2015 3:19 AM +00:00

Tops?

--Anonymous
replies 2Aug 29, 2015 3:26 AM +00:00

Every top who ever got inside me went down on me first, and liked it.

--Anonymous
replies 3Aug 29, 2015 3:34 AM +00:00

Fucking is more fun.

--Anonymous
replies 4Aug 29, 2015 3:35 AM +00:00

Im a top and not really into sucking dick or getting mine sucked. Let's get to the main event please, when I tear that ass up on high speed!

--Anonymous
replies 5Aug 29, 2015 3:36 AM +00:00

I like you, r5!

--Anonymous
replies 6Aug 29, 2015 3:37 AM +00:00

gay men who won't rim

--Anonymous
replies 7Aug 29, 2015 3:49 AM +00:00

I used to hate sucking cock but meth changed all that

--Anonymous
replies 8Aug 29, 2015 3:50 AM +00:00

I would never rim. Fuck it...oh wait I already did.

--Anonymous
replies 9Aug 29, 2015 4:07 AM +00:00

Last time I sucked was when Poppers were popular.

--Anonymous
replies 10Aug 29, 2015 4:13 AM +00:00

gay men who won't let guys cum in their mouths

--Anonymous
replies 11Aug 29, 2015 4:19 AM +00:00

If they're middle-aged, they might not have recovered from bathing hype.

In the early 90s, a lot of us pre and post bathed thinking it would help prevent AIDS.

That left you sucking on soap dick or condom dick. Neither was as bad as the Le Male dick that would follow.

--Anonymous
replies 12Aug 29, 2015 4:30 AM +00:00

"Top" and "bottom" refer to fucking. I've been with dozens of tops who happily and enthusiastically sucked cock.

A gay man who doesn't like dick is like a straight man who doesn't like breasts: EXTREMELY ODD, TO THE POINT OF DYSFUNCTION. I mean, really, can you imagine a straight guy who was like "I love women and pussy, but keep your gross tits away from me, ew." That would be seen as strange, right? Someone with some sort of "issues," correct?

--Anonymous
replies 13Aug 29, 2015 4:32 AM +00:00

R12 - in the early 90's??? the early 90's you were taking baths against the AIDS?

Hello, we had safe sex techniques info in the mid 80's!!!

--Anonymous
replies 14Aug 29, 2015 4:34 AM +00:00

They don't like to? Who cares?

--Anonymous
replies 15Aug 29, 2015 4:38 AM +00:00

What does "pre and post bathed" mean?

--Anonymous
replies 16Aug 29, 2015 4:41 AM +00:00

R14, perhaps you're much older than middle-aged.

Overly safer sex involved lots of bathing and ruined the taste of dick.

--Anonymous
replies 17Aug 29, 2015 4:42 AM +00:00

I totally get gay guys who don't do anal...I'm not that big of a fan myself. But how can you be gay and like dick but not want to taste any?

Boggles the mind.

I can't stand that macho "top" nonsense where they're all about using the bottom either. If you don't want to pleasure me back, fuck off.

--Anonymous
replies 18Aug 29, 2015 5:08 AM +00:00

Let Male dick. Hahahaha. Totes

--Anonymous
replies 19Aug 29, 2015 5:16 AM +00:00

For many years, I was one of those guys who didn't like to suck nor be sucked. It just didn't do anything for me. And I have to day, I never had a guy get upset that I wouldn't suck him. But I had PLENTY of guys get upset when I told them I didn't want to be sucked.

--Anonymous
replies 20Aug 29, 2015 5:21 AM +00:00

What changed, R20? Did you see the light?

--Anonymous
replies 21Aug 29, 2015 5:39 AM +00:00

My boyfriend really isn't into sucking dick. I was kind of surprised at first since I have not really encountered this before. He still does it, probably because I like it, but not at length and never till I cum. He really fetishizes ass over all else, I guess at the expense of dick on some level. Everybody's got their thing. I don't think it's internalized homophobia or disgust. (Aren't there lots of straight guys who are not into eating pussy?) It's preference, and who knows where the fuck all that comes from.

--Anonymous
replies 22Aug 29, 2015 6:12 AM +00:00

I'm not fan of oral sex. I doesn't turn me on to suck a guy's cock. In my sexual fantasies sucking cock doesn't cross my mind. In my case, it probably stems from the fact that I feel inferior having to stand on my knees and I don't like to feel like I am not an equal in sex. I don't like to feel used either and many times guys who want to receive oral, in a way, they use their partner as a tool.

I love the cock, but oral sex is my thing.

We are all different, some are turned on by sucking cock and others aren't. That's diversity.

--Anonymous
replies 23Aug 29, 2015 6:27 AM +00:00

Sometimes dick is just not hot enough that I'd want to put it in my mouth. Mostly it's because I don't have connection with the guy it's attached to, or I just don't fancy him. But I've still sucked dicks like that. It's only when you get to suck the dick of someone you really have hots for you realize how awesome a dick can be.

I really wish I could suck my own. I've even dreamt of it.

--Anonymous
replies 24Aug 29, 2015 6:39 AM +00:00

Maybe it's just the dicks that this guy has come up against, so to speak. Let me illustrate with a tale of two fuckbuddies. One, his dick was rock hard from the moment he took off his undies (well, after a bit of foreplay while clothed...) and his dick has a slight upward curve. Awesome, awesome for fucking as that fat head scraped right up against my prostate and made me leak precum the whole time he fucked me, but impossible to really suck.

Guy two is a slow riser. Always starts out with barely semi-hard, which is good because he's huge. The first time we hooked up, I thought something might be wrong or he wasn't into me, and didn't seem to be into getting his dick sucked all that much, but I asked him if I could anyway. He said he was so big that most guys couldn't do much orally for him. So I went down on him, and while he was still in that state of semi-softness, I swallowed his dick and it immediately got rock hard. He was so turned on when he felt me swallow that he nearly shot right then, and in fact, when I'm in the mood for a quickie (and I do mean like I have 5 minutes and have to go), I'll just blow him and tell him to go for it. He tells me I'm the best cocksucker he's ever had, and before me, he didn't really even enjoy oral. Now, he wouldn't miss it. And has he learned a thing or two from me along the way! His oral skills are 100 times what they were when we met. We've been fuckbuddies now for about 15 years.

--Anonymous
replies 25Aug 29, 2015 6:51 AM +00:00
Aren't there lots of straight guys who are not into eating pussy?

Yes, and most progressive women would consider them sexual chauvinists and poor lovers.

--Anonymous
replies 26Aug 29, 2015 7:10 AM +00:00

I just like ass way more. I get off on pleasing guys that need to have their holes beat in so they can feel sexually satisfied. And its a plus if they are pretty and have a big soft hairy ass. I guess its all about making another man feel submissive right?

--Anonymous
replies 27Aug 29, 2015 7:30 AM +00:00

I'm not a huge fan of getting sucked, I'd rather you jack me off and finger bang my hole.

--Anonymous
replies 28Aug 29, 2015 7:54 AM +00:00

Lots of "trade tops" in porn don't suck (although eventually longtime holdout Paddy O'Brien did.) What's odd is that there are few guys who'll bottom but have never sucked.

--Anonymous
replies 29Aug 29, 2015 9:22 AM +00:00

Not worth knowing. Not worth blowing.

--Anonymous
replies 30Aug 29, 2015 9:42 AM +00:00

r29, think of it this way. As a homo, would you rather eat pussy or fuck it?

--Anonymous
replies 31Aug 29, 2015 10:02 AM +00:00

i dont understand that analogy

--Anonymous
replies 32Aug 29, 2015 10:03 AM +00:00

I'd rather have a deep meaningful connection with my partner, and rape his ass.

--Anonymous
replies 33Aug 29, 2015 10:44 AM +00:00

I don't do it either

--Anonymous
replies 34Jun 7, 2016 1:03 AM +00:00

Bisexual.

--Anonymous
replies 35Jun 7, 2016 1:16 AM +00:00

Sucking cock is overrated (for me anyway) ...

--Anonymous
replies 36Jun 7, 2016 1:33 AM +00:00

Sucking cock is what I live for.

I can't even imagine being with a hot guy and not wanting his penis in my mouth.

--Anonymous
replies 37Jun 7, 2016 2:02 AM +00:00

Sucking cock feels uncomfortable to me unless I'm really into the guy. My mouth gets dry and my jaw starts to ache,. I'm trying to get more into it...as I become more of a bottom

--Anonymous
replies 38Jun 7, 2016 2:26 AM +00:00

There was a big thread on rimming and tons of people said they weren't into that. Sucking Dick is different though. I was born a cocksucking slut so I can't imagine not liking it. I have encountered a dozen guys who won't reciprocate. It's weird but whatever. I usually get off more on sucking. And I am so good at it cuz I love it. Guys constantly say I give the best head. I think my last relationship was largely based on my bj skills. It lasted over a year too... But he had such a big thick perfect cock, how could I not suck it like a pro?? Mm. Makes me hard just thinking about it.

All that being said, I usually don't swallow. The taste and texture of cum just grosses me out. There's a lot of food I don't eat...so there's that.

--Anonymous
replies 39Jun 7, 2016 2:41 AM +00:00

I had a hookup who won't even toich my cock!

--Anonymous
replies 40Jun 7, 2016 2:43 AM +00:00

Only onereason why a queen wouldn'n smoke pole: it's not big enough!

--reality
replies 41Jun 7, 2016 2:44 AM +00:00

Not even one toich?

--Anonymous
replies 42Jun 7, 2016 2:50 AM +00:00

Problem is that most tops love getting their cock sucked, but some of us bottoms don't fantasise about sucking cock. I have done it, but it is not something that turns me on.

--Anonymous
replies 43Jun 7, 2016 3:37 AM +00:00

I once had a fuck buddy who was into only frottage. He was hot, but the lack of oral or anal sex activity frustrate me. Still, it was definitely low-risk sex.

--Anonymous
replies 44Jun 7, 2016 3:46 AM +00:00

R44:

How is that a 'fuck buddy'?

--Anonymous
replies 45Jun 7, 2016 9:32 AM +00:00

R5 is a winner.

--Anonymous
replies 46Jun 7, 2016 9:41 AM +00:00

It's gross to me. The passive role

--Anonymous
replies 47Jun 7, 2016 10:13 AM +00:00

I've never cared for it, OP. I'm a top, the guys I sleep with don't seem to mind, really.

--Anonymous
replies 48Jun 7, 2016 12:04 PM +00:00

Yep, there are so many total bottoms looking for Alpha total tops

--Anonymous
replies 49Jun 7, 2016 3:56 PM +00:00

But why do tops like oral sex so much? Is it simply because it feels good to have a mouth around your dick or is it that you like to see your partner in such submissive position?

--Anonymous
replies 50Jun 7, 2016 4:35 PM +00:00

Paddy O'Brien

--Anonymous
replies 51Jun 7, 2016 4:40 PM +00:00

Sucking cock is one of the great pleasures in life, swallowing is the second. :-P

--Anonymous
replies 52Jun 7, 2016 4:45 PM +00:00

It makes me gag and want to vomit.

--Anonymous
replies 53Jun 7, 2016 4:52 PM +00:00

hmmmm

--Anonymous
replies 54Nov 28, 2016 5:06 PM +00:00
But why do tops like oral sex so much? Is it simply because it feels good to have a mouth around your dick

Are you female? Have you never had a blowjob? Most guys love them. Yes, it "simply" feels good, and the same exact concept sums up 99% of male sexuality. I don't care what position someone is in or who feels more submissive or controlling or whatthefuckever, I like getting head because it feels good.

--Anonymous
replies 55Nov 28, 2016 5:13 PM +00:00

Hee Hee!

--Anonymous
replies 56Nov 29, 2016 4:19 PM +00:00

80% of the guys on the DL hate sex of any kind.

--Anonymous
replies 57Nov 29, 2016 4:24 PM +00:00

I WANT to talk about Susan Powter!

--Anonymous
replies 58Nov 29, 2016 4:37 PM +00:00

I know.

--Anonymous
replies 59Nov 29, 2016 8:28 PM +00:00

I like to fuck but I'll be and do anything you want including suck but your cock should be pretty and intact preferably.

--Anonymous
replies 60Nov 29, 2016 10:02 PM +00:00

Uh mmmm

--Anonymous
replies 61Nov 30, 2016 12:34 AM +00:00

Never sucked, never will. Penis aint my thing bro

--Anonymous
replies 62Dec 20, 2016 6:45 PM +00:00

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock won't/don't deserve to live.

--Anonymous
replies 63Dec 20, 2016 8:24 PM +00:00

usually british

--Anonymous
replies 64Dec 20, 2016 8:26 PM +00:00

They love pussy.

--Anonymous
replies 65Dec 20, 2016 9:04 PM +00:00

Okay by me. Love sucking but don't wanna get sucked.

--Anonymous
replies 66Dec 20, 2016 9:30 PM +00:00

There are tons of dudes like r66 seeking guys who dont suck

--Anonymous
replies 67Dec 21, 2016 9:27 AM +00:00

I'm impressed by their willpower.

--Anonymous
replies 68Dec 21, 2016 10:03 AM +00:00

I won't suck dick if it's small. If it's normal+ then I'm good to go.

--Anonymous
replies 69Dec 21, 2016 10:16 AM +00:00

Uh huh

--Anonymous
replies 70Dec 21, 2016 12:54 PM +00:00

Women are reviled and ridiculed when they won't suck cock.

--Anonymous
replies 71Dec 24, 2016 7:31 AM +00:00

Good for them

--Anonymous
replies 72Jan 27, 2017 1:20 PM +00:00

Hnmmmm

--Anonymous
replies 73Jun 1, 2017 6:22 AM +00:00

What does it barter? Clearly a lot of guys are into dudes who don't reciprocate

--Anonymous
replies 74Jun 20, 2017 1:22 PM +00:00

R74 I'm one of them.

--Anonymous
replies 75Jun 20, 2017 1:49 PM +00:00

deserve to die

--Anonymous
replies 76Jun 20, 2017 2:43 PM +00:00

This is not new nor rare. Ads are filled with "no reciprocation " desires

--Anonymous
replies 77Jun 20, 2017 3:31 PM +00:00

Love sucking cock but one of my first outings as a gay teen turned me against it. Met this handsome executive, mid-30s, driving a top of the range BMW at a cruising ground near my college. Went for a drive, were making out, when he whips out his cock, and asks me to suck. As I went in a strong smell of unwashed uncut dick hit my nostrils, and I pulled back. He pushed my head into his lap, but I couldn't hold back and promptly puked into his lap. I legged it from the car as fast as I could. Several years before I would go down on a guy again.

--Anonymous
replies 78Jun 20, 2017 3:39 PM +00:00

That's smegma, R78, not cock.

--Anonymous
replies 79Jun 20, 2017 4:27 PM +00:00

cheapskates

--Anonymous
replies 80Jun 20, 2017 4:27 PM +00:00

I am not uncharitable in bed, but I've never enjoyed sucking cock. I don't have any sort of fever for it. Oh, well.

--Anonymous
replies 81Jun 20, 2017 6:54 PM +00:00

I don't approve of guys who won't suck but the apps are filled with men who don't want reciprocation. And versatile, but feel like bottoming today. And every day.

--Anonymous
replies 82Jun 20, 2017 7:19 PM +00:00

Yep it turns many on to have a guy who is all-top, oral and analyst

--Anonymous
replies 83Jun 20, 2017 7:25 PM +00:00

Anal

--Anonymous
replies 84Jun 20, 2017 7:25 PM +00:00

R79 Same thing as ketchup on fries-either you like it or not.

--Anonymous
replies 85Jun 20, 2017 11:56 PM +00:00

R8 LOL

--Anonymous
replies 86Jun 21, 2017 12:07 AM +00:00

Good

--Anonymous
replies 87Jun 21, 2017 4:38 AM +00:00

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock should be sentenced to having sex with women only.

--Anonymous
replies 88Jun 21, 2017 4:39 AM +00:00

Anal is so much more exciting. Time is valuable, let's cut to the main event, your asshole.

--Anonymous
replies 89Jun 21, 2017 12:39 PM +00:00

Shut up

--Anonymous
replies 90Jun 21, 2017 2:02 PM +00:00

Oral bores me giving or receiving. I don't particularly like the sensation of getting sucked to tell the truth.

--Anonymous
replies 91Jun 21, 2017 3:35 PM +00:00

I feel sorry for the many men here who have never got lost in the bliss of 69 with a guy you care about and are in tune with.

I love sucking it and I'm good at it. A guy who is not interested in sucking my dick is straight up useless to me sexually. He should want to shove it down his throat. If he doesn't want to challenge himself with it I will get bored and impatient with him.

I don't understand the stuff about submission, makes no sense to me. To me it's like saying you submitted to the button you pushed to cross the street, doesn't make sense. Seems to me like you are missing out on a lot of good fun for the sake of playing a theatrical role. Well, whatever tickles your pickle, and it's great that there are compatible guys out there for you.

--Anonymous
replies 92Jun 21, 2017 4:24 PM +00:00

Straight Homeboy Said: I Ain’t Gay But Head Is Head Iramcito!
I Said: Imma Swallow The Cum Out That Dick Dude! No Hands!!
He Said: Yeah We’ll See That ,, That’s Not Possible & This Better Stay Between Us!
& 15 Mins Later He’s At My House Instagram: iamiramcito Snapchat: iramcito20

--Anonymous
replies 93Aug 5, 2017 7:24 AM +00:00

I was like that. Then I discovered uncut cock while traveling in Europe. Now I love sucking. Still prefer fucking though.

--Top
replies 94Aug 5, 2017 8:01 AM +00:00

Hmmm

--Anonymous
replies 95Aug 5, 2017 8:26 AM +00:00

Cool

--Anonymous
replies 96Aug 5, 2017 3:37 PM +00:00

Hmmm

--Anonymous
replies 97Aug 6, 2017 6:03 AM +00:00

I have the world's worst gag reflex so it's a non-starter for me. Just can't do it.

--Anonymous
replies 98Aug 6, 2017 6:49 AM +00:00

R47 Then you're not doing it right. They're only submissive in my mouth. Spent to the point of resembling melted butter, no matter how hard they fought liking it.

--Anonymous
replies 99Aug 6, 2017 7:06 AM +00:00

Not for nothing, apparently, I already had r47 on ignore. Bet he's one of my 12 bromosexuals.

--Anonymous
replies 100Aug 6, 2017 7:12 AM +00:00

R47 has no reason to live, no reason to be let into anyone's home who has an ounce of decency, let alone anyone's bed. Die, R47, so your poison will not affect anyone with whom you might come in contact in the future.

--Anonymous
replies 101Aug 6, 2017 7:29 AM +00:00

I am glad the myth that all gay dudes are into penis is being dispelled. Obviously, throughout history, many gay men were strictly ACTIVE/ACTIVO and did not handle penis during sexual encounters. Strictly dominant dudes are real.

--Anonymous
replies 102Aug 9, 2017 3:14 AM +00:00
Strictly dominant dudes are real pieces of shit who don't deserve to draw their next breath.

Fixed.

--Anonymous
replies 103Aug 9, 2017 5:58 AM +00:00
throughout history, many gay men were strictly ACTIVE

You would have to go back in history to find a time when gay men were strictly ACTIVE.

--Anonymous
replies 104Aug 9, 2017 5:59 AM +00:00

I don't like sucking or being sucked. Just never done anything for me. I can get off rimming someone but like to plough most of all.

--Anonymous
replies 105Aug 9, 2017 6:17 AM +00:00
Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock...

... are completely irrelevant.

--Anonymous
replies 106Aug 9, 2017 6:19 AM +00:00

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock belong in a concentration camp, where they can just stare at each other until they die. Leave the rest of us alone to enjoy each other to the fullest.

--Anonymous
replies 107Aug 9, 2017 6:24 AM +00:00

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock deserve equally unrequited sex. And no love at all.

--Anonymous
replies 108Aug 9, 2017 10:07 AM +00:00

Men who don't reciprocate are very popular on m4m dating sites. They are viewed as more masculine, manly, Alpha, overall hotter. So, those who object to them are not hurting these Alpha bros.

--Anonymous
replies 109Aug 10, 2017 3:51 AM +00:00

Good for them. I have never sucked a penis, and never will. Now, I will let a guy or chick suck me all night...

--Anonymous
replies 110Aug 10, 2017 3:37 PM +00:00

Yepp

--Anonymous
replies 111Aug 10, 2017 6:56 PM +00:00
Love sucking cock but one of my first outings as a gay teen turned me against it. Met this handsome executive, mid-30s, driving a top of the range BMW at a cruising ground near my college. Went for a drive, were making out, when he whips out his cock, and asks me to suck. As I went in a strong smell of unwashed uncut dick hit my nostrils, and I pulled back. He pushed my head into his lap, but I couldn't hold back and promptly puked into his lap. I legged it from the car as fast as I could. Several years before I would go down on a guy again.

Sounds like my dream man. I can't fid any one to feed cheese :(

--Anonymous
replies 112Aug 10, 2017 7:39 PM +00:00

Lots of het men don't like big boobs and go for teeny weeny Asian girls with flat chests. And no, they don't really wish they were with men. The girls they go weigh about 90 pounds and are very delicate and dainty looking.

--Anonymous
replies 113Aug 10, 2017 7:42 PM +00:00

Remember when Robert Repulveda didn't wash for three months to build up dick cheese for a client?

--Anonymous
replies 114Aug 10, 2017 7:43 PM +00:00

The only time I ever puked on someone, it was because he'd snapped a popper open under my nose. I was young, and had no idea what they were, or what was happening to me. I was riding him, and threw up all over his face and chest.

--Anonymous
replies 115Aug 11, 2017 5:55 AM +00:00

I wasn't into the idea of being sucked....until I met the right partner that showed me what a mouth is capable of doing fellatio wise. It was amazing!!!! You just have to relax and really get into the sensory sensations of getting sucked. Once that happens, you start precuming, and that's when the guys usually really start to suck!!!

--Anonymous
replies 116Aug 11, 2017 6:21 AM +00:00

Certainly makes gay guys want you more

--Anonymous
replies 117Aug 11, 2017 3:37 PM +00:00

Different strokes

--Anonymous
replies 118Aug 12, 2017 8:50 AM +00:00

I don't suck cock because I need more cock in my ass

--Anonymous
replies 119Aug 12, 2017 9:18 AM +00:00

I like being sucked. I don't like to suck really. And anal doesn't do much for me. I'm all about kissing and sensuality. Ultimately there can be cumming but it's the build-up to that I really like. I guess I'm a freak who deserves to die, according to this thread.

--Anonymous
replies 120Aug 12, 2017 10:13 AM +00:00

Hmmmm

--Anonymous
replies 121Sep 1, 2017 6:37 AM +00:00

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock might as well be straight.

--Anonymous
replies 122Sep 1, 2017 6:44 AM +00:00

Whatever r122. Grow up dude

--Anonymous
replies 123Sep 1, 2017 6:48 AM +00:00

fuck off

--Anonymous
replies 124Sep 1, 2017 7:21 AM +00:00

ITS just not something I even desire to do, man.

--Anonymous
replies 125Nov 13, 2017 4:18 AM +00:00

R122 speaks the truth. If one doesn't suck cock, one cannot be gay. You have to be straight. Go fuck women.

--Anonymous
replies 126Nov 13, 2017 4:27 AM +00:00

Like R91, oral bores me to tears, both giving and receiving. I can only stand it while 69ing, especially when that turns into mutual ass eating. Could swallow a load anytime, though.

--Anonymous
replies 127Nov 13, 2017 5:02 AM +00:00

Uh okay

--Anonymous
replies 128Nov 13, 2017 6:39 AM +00:00

To answer OP's question:

90% of them are full of shit. They just don't want to suck YOUR cock. I'll admit to pulling this with guys I don't find all that attractive. Sometimes you're just horny and if the guy is into "no recip" head, you just say "I don't suck" and you get an awesome blowjob while you fantasize about some new Instaho or Zac Efron who whatever gets you off. Or just watch porn.

The other 10% are head cases who think that somehow only being on the receiving end makes them not-gay. Which is the case is a lot of cultures where it is considered somehow okay for straight guys to get head from or fuck another guy.

--Anonymous
replies 129Nov 13, 2017 6:55 AM +00:00

I lot Of dudes just wanna he serviced. And many find this a turnon

--Anonymous
replies 130Nov 13, 2017 8:15 AM +00:00

I won't put my mouth near dirty, ragged, smelly dicks with rags of flesh on it.

There are wondrous rich full dicks which are like alabaster rods. I will put my lips around them.

But I don't let them explode in my mouth

--I have not caught A.I.D.S or Gonorea or any other mysterious dideases
replies 131Nov 13, 2017 9:04 AM +00:00
I lot Of dudes just wanna he serviced. And many find this a turnon

See that's a classic bottom error.

These guys look at you and make the call that you're not hot enough for them to actually have sex with, but they are horny, and since you're okay with just being a service bottom, everyone wins.

But if those guys are with a guy they really like and find attractive, they will gladly kiss him and suck his dick. So don't deceive yourself into thinking they only like to get serviced. They only want to get serviced by guys who look like you.

--Anonymous
replies 132Nov 13, 2017 9:12 AM +00:00

Good for them

--Anonymous
replies 133Nov 30, 2017 3:47 AM +00:00
Several years before I would go down on a guy again.

The nastiest cock I ever sucked was a cut guy who was a flight attendant. Looked perfectly presentable but his cock and balls smelled rancid. I thought I was going to vomit so i stopped sucking and just jerked him off. Couldn't wait to get out of there and back to my hotel and take a shower to get his smell off me.

But, unlike you, I went out and picked up another guy that same night. I had to remind myself of the joys of cocksucking and get that horrible experience out of my mind. Luckily I was in my 20s and picking up willing men was easy. These days not so much

--Eldergay, former slut
replies 134Nov 30, 2017 5:34 AM +00:00

R134, don’t advocate slutiness or whoredom, dude.

--Anonymous
replies 135Nov 30, 2017 6:26 AM +00:00

I don't but will if you ask. And you'll get the best blow of your life

--The best, I've been told.
replies 136Nov 30, 2017 7:01 AM +00:00

I'm homosexual and bottom and I don't really fantasise about sucking penis. Sucking cock doesn't appeal to me. The only descripto for homosexuality is attraction to the same sex; not everybody is into the same sexual stuff.

--Anonymous
replies 137Nov 30, 2017 7:11 AM +00:00

Having a big cock in my mouth is one of the great joys in life. I love it. But it has to be thick. I've had some dicks that weren't thick, and they aren't satisfying at all. At the same time, I've had some five or six inchers, but they were thick, and it was lovely. But seven or eight or nine thick inches - that's bliss time

--Anonymous
replies 138Nov 30, 2017 7:34 AM +00:00

To each his own. But for me a cock needs to be pretty, and clean. In other words, desiresble. I have no time or inclination for a smelly, nasty dick. It's called HYGIENE people! (i.e. straight guys)

--Anonymous
replies 139Nov 30, 2017 7:53 AM +00:00

VEINS! What is it about a thick, hard dick with the veins protruding? Mmmm Mmmm GOOD!

--Anonymous
replies 140Nov 30, 2017 7:55 AM +00:00

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock have nothing to offer.

--Anonymous
replies 141Nov 30, 2017 7:58 AM +00:00

Well if they aren't into it, they aren't into it. Why ask why? It's sex.

Having said that, is this really a thing?

I've had sex with a lot of men. I have never been in bed with a man, gay or bi, who wasn't in to sucking my cock. Maybe it's just that I'm a good looking man with an extraordinarily large penis. But I still doubt that there are that many men who want to sleep with a man (no matter how attractive or attractively endowed that man is) and are opposed to going downtown.

--Anonymous
replies 142Nov 30, 2017 8:23 AM +00:00
Well if they aren't into it, they aren't into it. Why ask why? It's sex.

No, actually it's the absence of sex. Wherein lies the problem.

--Anonymous
replies 143Nov 30, 2017 8:57 AM +00:00

It's all that and more!

24.media.tumblr.com
--Anonymous
replies 144Nov 30, 2017 9:07 AM +00:00

Yeah I hate the ignorant presumption being a gay or bi male means you like or suck dick. It’s just erroneous and much more complex than that archaic sweeping generalization.

--Anonymous
replies 145Nov 30, 2017 9:21 AM +00:00

The only posters I put on ignore are those of the "bro" class. Not surprisingly, ignore-dar reveals most of them to be cock haters.

I really wish they'd go to DataBro.

--Anonymous
replies 146Nov 30, 2017 9:25 AM +00:00

These men have some kind of issue and should see a shrink.

Instant break up or kick out of bed. Waste of time.

I heard that a lot of Muslim guys are like this.

--Unheard of.
replies 147Nov 30, 2017 9:29 AM +00:00

hear*

--Anonymous
replies 148Nov 30, 2017 9:29 AM +00:00

It's not weird it's their preference.

I have a friend that's a gay man and he told me how he does not like to suck cock at all and he only does it to a partner/husband and only does it before getting anal sex as that's what he likes as a total bottom.

I am more into oral sex and like to give it, or 69. But I am very picky who I give it to as I don't have the best dental health like my gums will sometimes bleed when I brush or floss them, and I've heard about people getting infected with HIV this way so I am just picky who I give oral sex to.

--Anonymous
replies 149Nov 30, 2017 9:30 AM +00:00

You don't want to suck cock for a while after brushing or flossing, R149, no matter how into it, or your partner, you happen to be.

--Anonymous
replies 150Nov 30, 2017 9:32 AM +00:00

R147 Some guys don't like anal. Some don't like oral.

I might add that many bottoms I met don't like to get sucked. I'm happy not sucking so they are my match.

--Anonymous
replies 151Nov 30, 2017 11:34 AM +00:00

Oral sex spreads oral cancer

--Anonymous
replies 152Nov 30, 2017 11:35 AM +00:00

It's a preference.

Me? I'm vers. I love to suck cock and swallow. A little thicker is nice. A vertical cock, and holding the back of my head to control pace/depth, are major turn ons.

The sensation of being sucked is stimulating enough to keep me hard and throbby, but usually not enough to make me cum without a hand assist. If I do cum from just being sucked, I'll probably be deep in my partner's throat and will cum a lot.

--Anonymous
replies 153Nov 30, 2017 12:15 PM +00:00

Blowjobs are what it's all about. From my head down to my toes. And yours, too.

--Anonymous
replies 154Nov 30, 2017 12:38 PM +00:00

If I suck I prefer uncut. Silky smooth and soft cockhead. Not rough and dry cut cock.

--Anonymous
replies 155Nov 30, 2017 12:44 PM +00:00

So many judgmental bitches on here.

If someone doesn't like to suck, or doesn't like to get fucked, or {FILL IN THE BLANK}..... and you DO, don't sleep with them! No one should be judging other people's sexual preferences, least of all gay men.

--Anonymous
replies 156Nov 30, 2017 12:48 PM +00:00

What other men are going to judge the sexual performance of other men, R156, if not gay men?

--Anonymous
replies 157Nov 30, 2017 12:53 PM +00:00

You would think gay men would appreciate people not judging one;s sexual preferences, since most of the world judges theirs.

--Anonymous
replies 158Nov 30, 2017 12:58 PM +00:00

If I bring you home and you don't want to suck my dick, I am going to wish I had not brought you home. For some reason, these things didn't happen in the '70s and '80s, at least not to me.

--Anonymous
replies 159Nov 30, 2017 1:00 PM +00:00

R159, we’ve evolved

--Anonymous
replies 160Nov 30, 2017 3:39 PM +00:00

There are lesbian and apparently some bisexual women who don't eat pussy, so why wouldn't there be bisexual and gay men who don't or won't suck cock?

--Anonymous
replies 161Nov 30, 2017 7:39 PM +00:00

TRue

--Anonymous
replies 162Nov 30, 2017 7:40 PM +00:00

I don't mind a sexless marriage filled with love.

--Anonymous
replies 163Dec 1, 2017 12:42 AM +00:00

Okay man

--Anonymous
replies 164Dec 1, 2017 12:45 AM +00:00
Oral sex spreads oral cancer

HPV erasure!!!

--Adjusting his vagina hat.
replies 165Dec 1, 2017 12:48 AM +00:00

R144, do you know what brand of mascara he uses?

--Very becoming
replies 166Dec 1, 2017 1:44 AM +00:00
why wouldn't there be bisexual and gay men who don't or won't suck cock?

Because it makes no sense.

--Anonymous
replies 167Dec 1, 2017 2:32 AM +00:00

Not everyone does or likes the same things sexually R167.

--Anonymous
replies 168Dec 2, 2017 9:39 AM +00:00

R167, your illogic makes no sense dude

--Anonymous
replies 169Dec 2, 2017 10:30 AM +00:00

Wouldn't want to know you, R168.

--Anonymous
replies 170Dec 2, 2017 10:36 AM +00:00

Gay guys who won't kiss are even weirder.

--Anonymous
replies 171Dec 2, 2017 12:35 PM +00:00

R155. I'm with you. Same for jacking off; much prefer an uncut cock.

--Anonymous
replies 172Dec 2, 2017 12:37 PM +00:00

Uh okay dude

--Anonymous
replies 173Dec 3, 2017 4:46 AM +00:00
These guys look at you and make the call that you're not hot enough for them to actually have sex with, but they are horny, and since you're okay with just being a service bottom, everyone wins.
But if those guys are with a guy they really like and find attractive, they will gladly kiss him and suck his dick. So don't deceive yourself into thinking they only like to get serviced. They only want to get serviced by guys who look like you.

This.

R132 nails it and how do the rest of you not know this?

I know DL is mostly older femme bottoms, but still ... you've never figured out that all those guys telling you they don't kiss or suck cock just don't want to kiss you or suck you?

I'm reading all this "it's a preference" shit in disbelief.

--Anonymous
replies 174Dec 3, 2017 6:44 AM +00:00

Hmmm

--Anonymous
replies 175Dec 3, 2017 9:11 AM +00:00

R132 is correct.

--Anonymous
replies 176Dec 4, 2017 12:08 PM +00:00

As far as I know, the mouth is not a sex organ so sucking cock doesn't stimulate you sexually.

I don't suck cock and sucking isn't part of my sex fantasies.

--Anonymous
replies 177Dec 4, 2017 12:14 PM +00:00

So, r177, you don't enjoy kissing or doing anything else with your mouth? And for something to be sexually stimulating it nec. has to directly involve a reproductive organ? You have no other erogenous zones?

I don't judge you. But I wish you knew what it was like to experience pleasure from other parts of your body.

--Anonymous
replies 178Dec 7, 2017 11:49 AM +00:00

Not everybody feels sexually aroused from sucking cock. That's how it is. Why can't you understand that? R178

--Anonymous
replies 179Dec 7, 2017 5:30 PM +00:00

Exactly

--Anonymous
replies 180Dec 7, 2017 5:54 PM +00:00

Sucking dick is my favorite activity, bar none. I estimate that I have sucked off over 1500 men in my lifetime. Fucking, OTOH, is not something I enjoy unless the emotional connection is deep. I top more than I bottom.

I could tell stories about nasty crotches that would make your toenails curl, but I prefer to remember the hundreds of beautiful men whose cocks I have worshiped and ecstatically swallowed.

--Mamador
replies 181Dec 7, 2017 6:20 PM +00:00

R174, you're so right. Tom,Chase always tops, but in California Kings, he lets Mike Branson fuck him.

--Anonymous
replies 182Dec 7, 2017 6:54 PM +00:00

They should have their slingbacks confiscated.

--Anonymous
replies 183Dec 7, 2017 11:11 PM +00:00

TOm Chase was very effeminate and stereotypically gay. Mike Brandon was very masculine and had no observable gay mannerisms or attributess. He was an Alpha, Chase is not.

--Anonymous
replies 184Dec 7, 2017 11:14 PM +00:00

The continuous precummers can be a bit much. Swallowing lots of precum or cum in one sitting makes me nauseous sometime. Does this happen to anyone else?

--Anonymous
replies 185Dec 7, 2017 11:59 PM +00:00

Branson

--Anonymous
replies 186Dec 8, 2017 12:19 AM +00:00

R185, pre lube with Pepto Bismol.

--Always does the "trick." as you do the trick.
replies 187Dec 8, 2017 12:50 AM +00:00

Oh wow

--Anonymous
replies 188Dec 8, 2017 9:22 PM +00:00

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock consider themselves "bros." They are the only posters I block, and two or three of them in my "Ignored Poster" list are responsible for at least 60% of the posts in this thread.

--Anonymous
replies 189Dec 9, 2017 4:26 AM +00:00

Fnice

--Anonymous
replies 190Dec 26, 2017 1:34 PM +00:00

Gay Men who won't/don't suck cock are better than Donald Trump.

--But not by much.
replies 191Dec 26, 2017 3:05 PM +00:00

I applaud them for not fitting into an erroneous archaic stereotype

--Anonymous
replies 192Dec 26, 2017 3:14 PM +00:00

Their loss.

--Anonymous
replies 193Dec 26, 2017 3:14 PM +00:00

Cocksucking is my favorite sexual activity, but I still wonder why I and many other gay men prefer a sexual activity that does not result in an orgasm (for us). It's weird.

--Anonymous
replies 194Dec 26, 2017 3:37 PM +00:00

You hear that? Sucking cock enforces an "erroneous archaic stereotype". Think about that the next time you get a hot piece in your mouth.

media0.giphy.com
--Anonymous
replies 195Dec 26, 2017 3:43 PM +00:00
Sucking cock enforces an "erroneous archaic stereotype".

What an idiot. These people should go to No Cock Lounge. Or a concentration camp.

--Anonymous
replies 196Dec 26, 2017 3:47 PM +00:00

Why would you care what others like?

--Anonymous
replies 197Dec 26, 2017 4:15 PM +00:00

Says the guy who is paranoid about what is too gay/prissy/effeminate/queeny/u - nmanly/unmasculine.

I think I got them all, please feel free to fill in any other adjectives I might have missed.

--BTW, this topic is about what others DON'T like
replies 198Dec 26, 2017 4:20 PM +00:00

R194, don't you jerk off when you're sucking?

--Anonymous
replies 199Dec 26, 2017 7:57 PM +00:00

r194 It's nice to get a guy off, to be responsible for it. It's a mental thing for me. It's why I also like to give backrubs. That and you get to appreciate a hot guy's body.

YouTube
--Anonymous
replies 200Dec 26, 2017 8:04 PM +00:00

YOu see lots of ads from guys who want guys who do not reciprocate

--Anonymous
replies 201Dec 26, 2017 8:08 PM +00:00

So insecure some of you.

Some of us are not turned on by the idea of sucking cock. Deal with it.

--Anonymous
replies 202Dec 26, 2017 9:15 PM +00:00

Exactly

--Anonymous
replies 203Dec 27, 2017 1:12 AM +00:00

Diversity of tastes is a great thing.

--Anonymous
replies 204Dec 27, 2017 7:13 AM +00:00

Then stop calling yourself "gay," r202. Or are you "queer"? Or "bi" (even better)?

--Anonymous
replies 205Dec 27, 2017 7:15 AM +00:00

You get to decide who is gay R205?

You’re hilarious. Please go on embarrassing yourself.

--Anonymous
replies 206Dec 27, 2017 7:19 AM +00:00

If you are gay, you suck cock.

--Anonymous
replies 207Dec 27, 2017 7:22 AM +00:00

Homosexuality is attraction to the same sex, but it doesn't dictate what forms of sexual interaction one has to like mandatorily R205

The mouth is not a sex organ so while you may feel sexually gratified by having your cock stimulated the mouth doesn't function like sex organs do.

--Anonymous
replies 208Dec 27, 2017 8:00 AM +00:00

FELLATING a Man is not a part of the definition of being gay, or bisexual. It’s defined by attraction to the same sex. The attraction can be to different attributes of maleness, from physique to booty to faces to masculine personality. It can be expressed in different ways, from crushes to falling in Love to oral sex to anal sex to frontage to kissing. Throughout human history, many or most men who had sex with men did so in rigid roles wherein they were either strictly passive or strictly active for life. Even today, in most of the world, a man who has sex with men likely does so as a strict active or passive. Versality is not the historic or global norm in male homosexuality.

--Anonymous
replies 209Dec 27, 2017 8:32 AM +00:00

If a guy tells you he's not into sucking it probably means you smell. Learn to clean yourself properly.

--Anonymous
replies 210Dec 27, 2017 9:00 AM +00:00

Uh no. Many ads specify a guy is a total top of total bottom or seeking one or the Either.

--Anonymous
replies 211Dec 27, 2017 9:02 AM +00:00

The other

--Anonymous
replies 212Dec 27, 2017 9:02 AM +00:00

I enjoy being sucked, but not sucking. Topping is okay, but I hate bottoming. Eating ass? Gross. The sexual Stuff generally doesn't thrill me. I like kissing, touching, sensuality, romance.

--Probably why I am single
replies 213Dec 27, 2017 11:33 AM +00:00

ME too! And muscle adoration

--Anonymous
replies 214Dec 27, 2017 12:20 PM +00:00
The mouth is not a sex organ so while you may feel sexually gratified by having your cock stimulated the mouth doesn't function like sex organs do.

So which sex organ do you use when presented with a cock?

--Anonymous
replies 215Dec 27, 2017 2:34 PM +00:00

I don’t touch it. They touch mine

--Anonymous
replies 216Dec 27, 2017 2:41 PM +00:00

I don’t

--Anonymous
replies 217Jan 27, 2018 6:19 AM +00:00
FELLATING a Man is not a part of the definition of being gay

The fuck it isn't.

--Anonymous
replies 218Jan 27, 2018 6:26 AM +00:00

I usually don't suck. But if asked I do. I'm pretty damn good I'm told. It's just that I'm so in rimming and fucking ass, I have to be reminded to suck. But to tell the truth, many bottoms don't want to be sucked, in my experience.

--Anonymous
replies 219Jan 27, 2018 7:02 AM +00:00
many bottoms don't want to be sucked

retards

--Anonymous
replies 220Jan 27, 2018 7:05 AM +00:00

Smegmaphobia?

--Anonymous
replies 221Jan 27, 2018 7:30 AM +00:00

Not if there's no smegma, dumbass.

--Anonymous
replies 222Jan 27, 2018 7:34 AM +00:00

I’m a bottom and I haven’t been with many guys but only one didn’t go down on me before we had sex.

I guess he was bi....

--Anonymous
replies 223Jan 27, 2018 7:41 AM +00:00

To be gay and not suck dick is to not get the full, fine experience of being gay. I don't feel it's correct to call those people gay, and I do not want them within a mile of my bed.

--Anonymous
replies 224Jan 27, 2018 7:50 AM +00:00

Nonsense R224, someone can be gay/homosexual and just not into sucking cock. Not everyone is into the same things sexually.

I know gay men who are bottoms who really do not like to suck cock but they only do before getting fucked or for a partner who wants it done.

--Anonymous
replies 225Jan 27, 2018 10:46 AM +00:00

R225 retards

--Anonymous
replies 226Jan 27, 2018 10:48 AM +00:00

There should be a separate name for them other than gay. Like "gay minus" or "ungay."

--Anonymous
replies 227Jan 27, 2018 10:52 AM +00:00

I only became interested in sucking cock after decades of MM relationships and hookups. Part of it was my lack of interest, and part of it was my not being very good at it. Making up for lost time in the interest and skill departments now, though.

--Sexuality, it's complicated
replies 228Jan 27, 2018 11:00 AM +00:00

Sexual orientation doesn't define the sex acts that you will like.

How about gay men who don't like to bottom and only like topping? They are homosexual; it is simply that they enjoy giving pleasure by taking the active role.

--Anonymous
replies 229Jan 27, 2018 12:06 PM +00:00
There should be a separate name for them other than gay. Like "gay minus" or "ungay."

Gay adjacent.

--Anonymous
replies 230Jan 28, 2018 12:01 AM +00:00

It does not mean someone's not gay, or not bisexual or that they are bisexual if they do not like to suck cock.

I have a friend that's a queen, and a total bottom and loves being fucked to the point where he only will suck when he knows he will get fucked and will suck off a partner even though he really does not like doing this, since he would rather just get fucked.

--Anonymous
replies 231Jan 30, 2018 10:54 AM +00:00

I love it that younger gay and bi dudes are shattering old overbroad stereotypes. There have always been guys who didn’t fellate, but now gay men are educating the public of their existence

--Anonymous
replies 232Jan 31, 2018 4:03 AM +00:00

Boom

--Anonymous
replies 233Jan 31, 2018 12:28 PM +00:00

What makes you homosexulis your attraction to the same sex; not sex acts. Different people enjoy different sexual acts.

This is like when some equate effeminacy with homosexuality. "True gays" are effeminate.

--Anonymous
replies 234Feb 8, 2018 4:53 PM +00:00

Yeah

--Anonymous
replies 235Mar 2, 2018 8:42 AM +00:00

I’m not into dick. I like ass.

--Anonymous
replies 236Mar 6, 2018 7:08 PM +00:00
I’m not into dick. I like ass.

Ass is where it's at!

www.tumblr.com
--Anonymous
replies 237Mar 6, 2018 8:00 PM +00:00

Yepp

--Anonymous
replies 238Mar 7, 2018 3:24 AM +00:00

If you don’t suck dick you’re missing 60% of the fun.

--Anonymous
replies 239Mar 7, 2018 3:27 AM +00:00

R236 do you love to eat ass?

--Concerned Rim Team Mom
replies 240Mar 9, 2018 12:54 PM +00:00

Never encountered one in my life!

--Anonymous
replies 241Mar 9, 2018 1:04 PM +00:00
Never encountered one in my life!

I've only met one out of hundreds of guys. I otherwise never heard of it until the internet.

--Anonymous
replies 242Mar 9, 2018 1:14 PM +00:00

R242, I know Many, although they tend not to identify as “gay” despite messing w dudes

--Anonymous
replies 243Mar 9, 2018 2:43 PM +00:00

Why dotops like getting their dick sucked? Doesit feel better than penetrating the butthole?

--Anonymous
replies 244Mar 16, 2018 6:18 PM +00:00

I’ve never sucked penis (why do white gays say “Cock”?). Trust me, there are a lot of passive men out there who find this a huge Turnon. Total tops are the most desired guys on social media and dating apps.

--Anonymous
replies 245Mar 17, 2018 5:55 AM +00:00
Total tops are the most desired guys on social media and dating apps.

By those who desire them. Those of us who don't find them of no value whatsoever.

--Anonymous
replies 246Mar 17, 2018 6:00 AM +00:00

Fortunately, I've never met one.

--Anonymous
replies 247Mar 17, 2018 6:14 AM +00:00

I don't consider them gay, and don't want anything to do with them.

--Anonymous
replies 248Mar 17, 2018 6:15 AM +00:00

Let them eat vagina.

www.konbini.com
--Anonymous
replies 249Mar 17, 2018 6:17 AM +00:00

R246, but you’re not relevant to total tops or total Alphas.

--Anonymous
replies 250Mar 17, 2018 6:35 AM +00:00

r250 And I would therefore not make claims about my having near-universal desirability, unlike the fatuous r245.

--Anonymous
replies 251Mar 17, 2018 6:38 AM +00:00

May the cockless ungays live long lifetimes of licking Lidia's labia.

thenypost.files.wordpress.com
--Anonymous
replies 252Mar 17, 2018 9:00 AM +00:00

If you say "total top" then you're obviously gay based on your mannerisms and lingo.

Tops suck dick. Sucking dick is the equivalent of eating a chick out. Are straight men that don't do that bottoms?

--Anonymous
replies 253Mar 17, 2018 9:07 AM +00:00

Gay men who won't suck cock = muslims.

--Anonymous
replies 254Mar 17, 2018 9:08 AM +00:00

Thank god I've never encountered a bottom who won't suck cock. That would be pointless.

--Anonymous
replies 255Mar 17, 2018 9:09 AM +00:00

Alpha Tops only penetrate. Never penetrated in any way

--Anonymous
replies 256Mar 17, 2018 9:15 AM +00:00

They also never use the word "alpha" and don't care how people see them.

--Anonymous
replies 257Mar 17, 2018 9:18 AM +00:00

Never met even a so-called top who didn't suck dick.

--Anonymous
replies 258Mar 17, 2018 10:21 AM +00:00

Lots of tops don't suck dick. And lots of bottom desire them. Some of y'all are very sheltered

--Anonymous
replies 259Mar 17, 2018 10:47 AM +00:00

And we could not be happier about our "sheltered" status, r259, you fucking ninny, "y'all."

--Anonymous
replies 260Mar 17, 2018 11:47 AM +00:00

R244, as a man that is bisexual and a top, yes, but I am personally way more into oral sex than anal sex, and I always use condoms even for vaginal sex. I am not cut so maybe that's why I prefer oral sex? I like vaginal sex but with women prefer to give them oral sex or 69, and with men I like to get oral sex, and if they are a partner/boyfriend I will give it or 69.

--Anonymous
replies 261Mar 17, 2018 12:08 PM +00:00
And we could not be happier about our "sheltered" status, [R259], you fucking ninny, "y'all."

How limited

--Anonymous
replies 262Mar 17, 2018 12:59 PM +00:00

HOW could you never encounter bi/gay guys who don’t suck dick? Do you only hang in gay ghettoes or with gold star precessional gay guys? Do you hang with or encounter urban men, down low guys, bisexual, strictly dominant gays, or Arab/Latin men? If not, you are only encountering a slice of the overall number of men who are into men.

--Anonymous
replies 263Mar 17, 2018 1:09 PM +00:00

Total absolute Tops are so popular on dating apps and Craigslist because there are so many total bottoms pulsating for that fantasy Alpha male to ravage them

--Anonymous
replies 264Mar 17, 2018 1:11 PM +00:00

Do you all live in a fantasy world?

Alpha tops treating the men they have sex with like pets.

Ritualistic bathing before and after sex.

Men wanting to have their cock sucks but willing forgoing the pleasure.

Kind of a sad world you live in

--Anonymous
replies 265Mar 17, 2018 3:34 PM +00:00

R265 it's a lot more common than you want to admit. I have met many bisexual and gay men who when we were talking about sex and what we like to do said how they live to suck cock and were/are into being on their knees at glory holes, and love to suck and swallow cum more than they get sucked.

--Anonymous
replies 266Mar 17, 2018 4:19 PM +00:00

Ewww

--Anonymous
replies 267Mar 17, 2018 4:56 PM +00:00

What do you care what other people do or dont' want to do?

--Anonymous
replies 268Mar 17, 2018 5:05 PM +00:00

I'm a top who has never been fucked or sucked a dick. I suspect I get more than my share of action. This week alone, I got at least 5 phone numbers from guys begging to get fucked.

R253, to a top, sucking dick is not the equivalent of eating pussy. Eating ass is. Turn in your gay card.

--Anonymous
replies 269Mar 18, 2018 12:16 AM +00:00

Why discuss anything, r268?

--Anonymous
replies 270Mar 18, 2018 12:16 AM +00:00

Why is that your reaction R267?

--Anonymous
replies 271Mar 18, 2018 12:32 AM +00:00

Oh wow

--Anonymous
replies 272Mar 18, 2018 2:20 AM +00:00

R272 ???

--Anonymous
replies 273Mar 18, 2018 3:13 PM +00:00

I will never perform fellatio on a guy. It's not my thing, it would go against my nature or desire. But I will let a dude suck me, as long as I am sure he doesn't have any STDs and is discreet. I'm glad there are plenty of guys that seek guys like me.

--Anonymous
replies 274Mar 18, 2018 4:53 PM +00:00

Child please. All you dick suckers are getting left for the ass eaters. If you want to make a man your slave, you gotta eat ass. Watch this fat hoe take command of this big dicked top, who turns into a complete bitch once he gets his hole worked on

www.xtube.com
--yasssssssss
replies 275Mar 18, 2018 5:24 PM +00:00

R274 not even if he was your partner/boyfriend, or husband, and wanted it?

I know guys who are total bottoms and only mainly into being fucked and being rimmed/rimming like R275 said, and they really do not like to suck cock, but they will suck off their boyfriend/partner/husband if he wants it, and will suck off a guy when it means they will get fucked up the ass.

--Anonymous
replies 276Mar 18, 2018 5:51 PM +00:00
[R253], to a top, sucking dick is not the equivalent of eating pussy. Eating ass is. Turn in your gay card.

A dick is made out of a clit. Turn in your education and intelligence card you fucking construction site drop out.

--Anonymous
replies 277Mar 18, 2018 5:55 PM +00:00
A dick is made out of a clit.

In a T dick factory?

--Anonymous
replies 278Mar 18, 2018 5:57 PM +00:00

R277, yeah but dudes don’t think of it that way. Not at all

--Anonymous
replies 279Mar 18, 2018 6:02 PM +00:00

Neither, r279, do men who don't call themselves "dudes."

--Anonymous
replies 280Mar 18, 2018 6:05 PM +00:00

Uh okay

--Anonymous
replies 281Mar 18, 2018 6:48 PM +00:00

When watching porn, I skip though all the dick sucking scenes. Its rare to see a bitch suck dick with enough skill to actually turn me on.

--Anonymous
replies 282Mar 18, 2018 8:23 PM +00:00

I can't stand the noise made when sucking dick. It gets on my nerves >.<

--Anonymous
replies 283Mar 18, 2018 8:35 PM +00:00

Put them on a boat bound for nowhere. Let it sail into the sunset. They can comfort each other by not sucking each other's dicks as they fall off the horizon, never to be seen or heard from again.

--Anonymous
replies 284Mar 19, 2018 1:22 AM +00:00

Yo, R284 is triggered

--Anonymous
replies 285Mar 19, 2018 1:24 AM +00:00

recalcitrant fuckers

--Anonymous
replies 286Mar 19, 2018 1:29 AM +00:00

R275 I am not sure why the guy being rimmed/sucked would have sex with someone morbidly obese like that?

--Anonymous
replies 287Mar 19, 2018 1:32 AM +00:00

ME neither

--Anonymous
replies 288Mar 19, 2018 3:48 AM +00:00

I don't like to suck cock, but it isn't because of the implied reasons in this thread. I don't consider myself a 'bro' or have internalized homophobia. I don't think sucking cock is degrading or makes you less of a man. I just simply don't like doing it.

That doesn't mean that I have never sucked cock or that I won't ever do it in the future. In longterm relationships, if that is something the person I love really, really wants, then yeah, I'll man up and do it. That doesn't mean I'll enjoy it! And that doesn't mean I want to do it. We all do things in the bedroom that we don't exactly love doing because we love the person we are doing it with.

In my 30 years on this earth, I have simply never had a desire to suck cock or get fucked. I guess I am what most people would call a "total top" but I'm not some super macho action hero. I'm not an alpha, though I like to play one in the bedroom sometimes. I'm just a guy, a gay guy, who has things he likes doing in the bedroom and things he doesn't like doing in the bedroom.

I don't think it is fair that people say I HAVE to like particular sex acts to be gay. I am gay because I love men. I'm into asses and I love the way a man's ass looks. It looks strikingly different than a woman's, you have to admit. A man's ass is gorgeous, a man's penis is ... well... there. It's definitely there! You can say that about it!

I like the facial structure of men, the relationships I have with men, and I really, really like fucking men. Fucking men is awesome. Men can take it so much harder and with so much more passion than women. Heck, I'll gladly rim a guy I find hot as long as he's clean, smooth and all that. I'm not against giving back. But, I just don't like sucking cock.

Claiming that tops who don't want to bottom or suck cock aren't gay because we don't embrace the full experience makes no sense. Would you claim that bottoms who never want to top can't be gay because they don't embrace the full experience? Of course not.

Different people like different things. In the bedroom, I tend to be the dominant one and my partners tend to be submissive. I don't expect everyone to like what I like, but I wish that people on DL would be a little more open-minded toward pure tops. We aren't homophobes, we aren't bros, we don't think we're better than you, and we don't think sucking cock/getting fucked is shameful. We're just gay guys, like everyone else here, trying to enjoy our time in the bedroom.

--Anonymous
replies 289Mar 20, 2018 12:18 AM +00:00

R282 - are you posting form 1960? Here is a book, I know it's about women, but it might give you some insight into how to treat other people, especially sex partners.

en.wikipedia.org
--Anonymous
replies 290Mar 20, 2018 9:38 AM +00:00

WHy do people get offended about other peoples’ Preferences?

--Anonymous
replies 291Mar 20, 2018 9:59 AM +00:00

I'm strictly into mutual oral. Never had a guy turn me down because of it. I've mastered the art of being able to cum totally in sync with my partner, so a hot, wet, intense 69 works out perfectly.

--Anonymous
replies 292Mar 20, 2018 3:35 PM +00:00

Umm 😐okay Dude

--Anonymous
replies 293Mar 28, 2018 10:43 PM +00:00

I can't even imagine. I've been told lot's of straight women on't suck cock or if they do hey act all bitchy about it.

--Anonymous
replies 294Mar 28, 2018 10:46 PM +00:00

a thread that should not need to exist.

--Anonymous
replies 295Mar 29, 2018 2:47 AM +00:00

Yeah

--Anonymous
replies 296Mar 29, 2018 4:20 AM +00:00

It’s nothing new nor rare. In fact, in the past, a huge number of men who had sex NEVER did anything passive (oral or anal) with a man. They were strictly serviced. It’s like that in most of the world still today. Strict roles are not some relic from the past, nor are they some new hipster trend.

--Anonymous
replies 297Mar 30, 2018 2:02 PM +00:00

Bye, r297.

--Anonymous
replies 298Mar 30, 2018 2:06 PM +00:00
It’s nothing new nor rare.

No, but it's worthless. Gay men who refuse to pleasure their partners are not deserving of having sex.

--Anonymous
replies 299Mar 30, 2018 2:12 PM +00:00

r299 for President of the Gays

--Anonymous
replies 300Mar 30, 2018 2:13 PM +00:00

I just sucked an Indian cock. Thick uncut brown delicious. There's nothing like an uncut cock, the way it's soft yet hard, it's mobility when hard. It's enough to marvel at the way it has been designed. Those who never suck cock are missing out major.

--Anonymous
replies 301Mar 30, 2018 2:22 PM +00:00

I feel sorry for anybody who doesn't love sucking cock. They're cheating themselves out of one of life's greatest gifts. I love swallowing a load too or having is shot all over my face.

--Anonymous
replies 302Mar 30, 2018 2:41 PM +00:00

Why feel sorry for people who naturally don’t desire what you desire? Appreciate that people are very different

--Anonymous
replies 303Mar 30, 2018 6:33 PM +00:00
When watching porn, I skip though all the dick sucking scenes. Its rare to see a bitch suck dick with enough skill to actually turn me on.

Hot only when thebottom is cute with sexy lips.

--Anonymous
replies 304Mar 31, 2018 12:36 AM +00:00

It's understandable. What is in it for me? I'll only suck cock if I'm in love. Otherwise nope, I want to be pleasured, not servicing another person's pleasure.

--Anonymous
replies 305Mar 31, 2018 12:41 AM +00:00

R302 It gets boring ,your mouth gets tired and you feel nothing from it, it is totally over rated and I find that Most cum tastes disgusting. I find guys who are obsessed with sucking cock and nothing else weird, I figure they are too lazy to douche to get fucked.

--Anonymous
replies 306Mar 31, 2018 12:53 AM +00:00

R306 But those are two completely different things. When you fuck or get fucked, you are being stimulated directly.

--Anonymous
replies 307Mar 31, 2018 12:57 AM +00:00

Oral sex can be direct stimulation, too.

--Anonymous
replies 308Mar 31, 2018 1:53 AM +00:00

I guess, but not the kind that motivates me

--Anonymous
replies 309Mar 31, 2018 3:09 AM +00:00

What a joy it would have been to bring r305 home from a bar, back in the "bring someone home from a bar" day.

--Grindr is good.
replies 310Mar 31, 2018 3:35 AM +00:00

Grindr is a cesspool of people with STDs and sketchy lives

--Anonymous
replies 311Mar 31, 2018 3:38 AM +00:00

r310. Probably. But it weeds out defectives like r305, whom I would not want in my home.

--Anonymous
replies 312Mar 31, 2018 3:43 AM +00:00

Bump

--Anonymous
replies 313May 30, 2018 3:09 AM +00:00

Fascinating

--Anonymous
replies 314May 30, 2018 9:43 AM +00:00

I agree with r5 all the way (and r18 sounds like he might be a bossy bottom), a cock is not an ass and men's asses are where it's at. I have sucked cock a few times but get nothing out of it and have never swallowed cum. Similarly I definitely don't care to have my dick sucked. I have had a number of guys at the baths first sort of give me a hand job first then start sucking on my dick and my main thought is "how do I politely get out of this situation". Usually the guys have realized I'm not into it and stop and we part amicably but often not before I get a nice feel of his ass. I recall seeing in the sauna a very tall, good looking guy on his knees getting violently skull fucked--I couldn't help but wonder how he could be enjoying it. I later saw the tall guy in the TV room and told him he was gorgeous as I played with his ass all I wanted. He seemed a little diffident about that. All this said, I do love to suck a guy's nipples while playing with his ass. So there is no accounting for taste, no pun intended....

--Anonymous
replies 315May 30, 2018 10:09 AM +00:00

I like threesomes where I can team up with a cocksucker who sucks a goodlooking guy's dick while I suck his nipples and play with/finger his ass. I have noticed the cocksucker/assman "divide" in the gay world and it's a situation where the "twain" does not meet very often.

--Anonymous
replies 316May 30, 2018 10:16 AM +00:00

Bi guys too

--Anonymous
replies 317May 30, 2018 10:49 AM +00:00

That's hot R301.

--Anonymous
replies 318Jun 1, 2018 1:21 PM +00:00

As evidenced by many of these comments, there's a lot of lousy lays out there.

--Boo hoo
replies 319Jun 1, 2018 2:23 PM +00:00

r315 = a good reason for tattoos

--Anonymous
replies 320Jun 1, 2018 2:34 PM +00:00

Hehe 😜

--Anonymous
replies 321Jun 1, 2018 7:26 PM +00:00

How about bi dudes?

--Anonymous
replies 322Jun 6, 2018 2:23 AM +00:00

R274 "I will let a dude suck..."

That's really big of you.

--Swell guy
replies 323Jun 6, 2018 10:14 AM +00:00