My name is Jaks.

I'd take him more seriously if he wasn't playing cowboy dress up.

Unless the video is mocking the concept of gay men who label themselves as "masc"despite being anything but. I didn't care enough to get more than 1 minute in.

Being gay means going for brunch and getting mimosas.

Yuck.

Good thing I wear a cowboy hat to show that I'm butch.

I’m sensing something nice and perky under them chaps. Makes me want to engage in some not-so-straight activities.

Isn’t it ironic? He is…

Zzzzzzzzzzz

Apparently you present as "Masculine" if you keep a log in your living room . . .

He's as masculine as a beaded clutch on Tony night.

He looks like he's auditioning to be the Flying Nun for the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence...

Brilliant! Realizing there's all kinds of gay! Just Brilliant!

Thank goodness for being able to quickly look through the whole video without actually watching it. Doesn't look like he ever takes off any of his clothes, so he can go fuck himself. How's THAT for gay culture, Mr. Cowboy?

Umm, no. Dream on cowgirl.

My god, the smell of those cookies is driving me crazy -right through the screen and across the internet!

MASCULINE??????????????

[quote] if you keep a log in your living room . . .

I like a big log in the living room!

Lol R6 wins!

He found a suitable boyfriend in France.

“Is he gay?” “No, he’s French.” “Same thing!”

He's got gay voice and gay mannerisms.

Don't we make just about every topic "controversial?"

He's adorable.

Other than that, yawn.

I'd do him.

Where does he stand on Puberty Blockers?

Puberty is what makes guys become more masculine, so puberty blockers must be a Bad Thing...

Jaks

He can say he's masculine all he wants, but that face is 100% lilac gingham table cloth.

He looks like Jacob Elordi sans pointy chin

Pretty much the first thing he does is admit he has a lot of feminine characteristics.

I'm not sure how offended I'm supposed to be.

He's a sweetheart Wouldn't throw him out of bed.

R6 Perhaps she'll land a streamer on STARZ?

Who's the gay man in the white cowboy hat?

How old is he? And is he losing his hair and that's why he wears it pushed forward?

[quote]is he losing his hair and that's why he wears it pushed forward?

Short answer: yes.

IQ 95-100? ✓

Navel gazer? ✓

Garrulous? ✓

No irony ✓

Fuckable?✓

I detect a slight Canadian accent.

Gurrrrrrllll

R12- There are a lot of deluded queens out there.

I was on a gay cruise years ago and was seated at a table with several other gay men. There was a couple from Florida- PREtentious qweens. One of them was a teacher or principal at a high school and said with a LISP- all of the girls are attracted to me because I'm MASCULINE. He sounded as masculine as Richard Simmons.

Pretty sure his cowboy hat is ON BACKWARDS

And folks, just because you don't ping everybody's gaydar don't mean you're masculine presenting. Plenty and I mean PLENTY of straight guys aren't masculine presenting but they still pass for straight.

Most gay guys can pass for straight. They probably did so for many years and in many situations. Why young gay folks don't consider this is sad about the loss of understanding our history.

That’s why I don’t go on cruises, the fear of being seated at a table with these frights!

I think he's very nice. Does he deliver?

Jaksattacks

R37- Is that really his boner or a fake?

I’m not a jealous bitch and I don’t hate- your oxymoronic statement indicates that you might hate, but mostly your post displays the provocative impulse of a moron (or troll).

And the vid is Internet nonsense from another moron in a white hat.

I guess I'll have to watch the video to be converted, but superficially...

He's cute,

He has great hair,

He's got a really nice, natural body with great thighs, and

He's got a great dick.

I'd give it a go, masculine or feminine.

Maybe just to see HOW masculine he is in bed.

R35

“Most gay guys can pass for straight”

How many times has someone come out as gay and a cadre of people that have known the individual for years will say after——“I am shocked, he can’t be gay, He is not fem in anyway, I would have sworn he was as straight as anyone could be?”

Some instead of most would be more accurate.

Oh please.

[quote]Some instead of most would be more accurate.

Nope, R42. I'm gonna assume your example is being facetious and you're arguing the opposite so I'll go from there

Your example is about people who've "known the person for years." People who know well and spend a lot of time with them. That's not what we're talking about here.

"Passing for straight" in the context of this thread means most general interactions with someone ain't gonna out them. I"m talking about random people you interact with minorly. not your brother or best friend.

Most, yes MOST, gay men can interact with people without being clocked as gay. Like I said, you're surrounded by them.

He got a pass all those years because he's cute not because he's straight acting...

I love watching the masculine litmus test. It’s so full of homophobia and insecurity. Gay men have all that trauma of trying to fit in during formative years with straight boys and they bring it forward to gay culture. No matter how masculine a gay guy is, nasty queens are always trying to tear him down to their super femme level. They search like truffle pigs for femininity and then they strike, “look at what a girly Kween fag he is!” Like so many things in gay culture it’s how these nasty queens get revenge on the jocks who relentlessly teased them, by pathetically taking it out on other gay men. Also, let’s not forget the sexism involved as you’re using femininity as an insult and as something lower than and a degradation. Most masculine men are not insulting other gay guys because they’re feminine, the femme kweens are the ones who care.

Jaks is an intelligent handsome sincere young gay man in the modern world. No doubt why we despise him.

Oh please, girl! Your Dollar Tree Psychoanalysis is as shoddy as your Dollar Store Sociology. 🤡

R48 as opposed to you, who has a trove of emojis to add to every conversation.

I've known gay men who were genuinely very masculine (including guys who played college football and one who was an Army colonel). They didn't go around talking about how "masc" they are and didn't put down guys who were more feminine

R50 on the flip side, I’ve never met a super femme gay who wasn’t always trying to emasculate every other gay man, especially masculine ones, in a highly derogatory manner.

^ An then she bitches and whines that she can never find a top

R51- They talk about TOXIC masculinity.

That's just propaganda. The toxicity amongst gay men is strictly from the effeminate gays.

It should be called TOXIC effeminacy - not all but so many effeminate gay males are BITCHY/NASTY.

[quote]Apparently you present as "Masculine" if you keep a log in your living room . . .

Still doesn't explain why we had one backstage at "Attitudes."

R53, most of the violence in the world is not committed by women or effeminate gays. So calling femininity "toxic" is a bit weird

I prefer "toxic masculinity" to pissy effeminacy in my men.

People who say stuff like "I love toxic masculinity" are usually conservatives who are against gay rights because they believe that you're "not a real man" if you're gay

There's a reason why women are more likely to support LGBT rights than men

"Also, let’s not forget the sexism involved as you’re using femininity as an insult and as something lower than and a degradation. "

Is that really the case though? Or is that just because when speaking of what gay men are attracted to, femininity is not going to be considered the most desirable?

R55 toxic feminity has caused more violence and murder than you would like to think. Women may be less hands on as men when it comes to violence but they are more than capable of pulling the strings behind it when they want to.

Women tend to have more empathy than men. It's why women are less prone to violence and why they are less likely to vote GOP and more likely to support gay people like us. Most "toxically masculine" men are intolerant and scared of LGBT people. Ask some of the gay men who were murdered by straight men in "gay panic" murders

Yet those masculine (toxic or not) dudes are the ones gays want to fuck R61. Both straight women and gay men (generalizing here but you get my drift) would drop the women/gay male alliance should hot rough trade come their way.

First, get rid of that name.

With THOSE overworked eyebrows? Please. What was she thinking?

R60 spot on. Most wars and crimes are traceable to some woman demanding the world from some man in order for him to get her illustrious pussy.

Hmm, those s's don't sound all that massssssculine. Cute though.

R65, nope. Most murders in the US are connected to things like drugs and gangs. But of course misogynist will blame women for the shit that men do

Nobody masculine is named Jaks.

He seems like a crushing bore, but I'd top him if given the chance.

[quote]I prefer "toxic masculinity" to pissy effeminacy in my men.

Oh, R56

Straight guys who fall into the the "toxic" masculinity category would beat the shit out of you and drag you behind their pickup truck if you happened to smile at them.

The word "toxic" is there for a reason, moron. Their insecurity will kill YOU.

Well adjusted straight guys aren't so insecure in their masculinity.

So you can FUCK RIGHT OFF.

Straight guys just avoided me in school in a “live and let live” kind of way and some were nice, the toxic femininity girls made my life a living hell with constant, not so remarks and straight up outings. If any straight guy was a dick to me it was usually because some homophobic girl was pulling his strings. The only guys that were cunts were the closeted homos projecting themselves onto me.

Haha!

The girl/woman hating comments are here are so funny.

I doubt they're coming from actual guy guys* but it's fun to see how misogynists minds work. Keep up the nuttery my dudes, it's fascinating.

*Could be a slew of right-wing gays are glomming on this thread, I dunno, but "normal" gay guys don't hate-and-blame women so so much. What a window into some people's psyche.

Weird, because at pretty much every other high school on planet earth, the straight guys are the bullies. But, apparently at your school, the straight boys were secular saints and all the bad people were females and "closeted homos"

Weird how straight men commit 90% of violent crime but the ones you went to school with were angels. 🤔

And probably like 99% of gaybashing is committed by straight men

He's done a ton of tik-tok type videos ... you guys never saw him before? Hell, I've seen him on Facebook "Reels" as well. TOTALLY gay. Fancies himself a comedian.

R73 it was a private school in a liberal, wealthy New England town so probably much different than the inner-city or backwoods hellhole you attended. The experience was definitely different from most.

Even in wealthy, liberal towns straight men are more antigay than women and more likely to commit gaybashings. There isn't any place on planet earth where women are more violent than men.

R76 who said anything about violence? Mental abuse is abuse too, and we all know women are who excel in that area.

Oh christ it’s the all homophobes are secretly gay trolls.

[quote] The only guys that were cunts were the closeted homos projecting themselves onto me.

Whatever you have to tell yourself hon R71…

I was watching an interview with Josh Szeps recently (Australian media personality if you don't know) and at one point he said something about being grateful he wasn't obviously gay. I don't think he meant to denigrate being femme, more that people don't make instant judgements about him in the way they would if he was camp.

But I thought he seemed quite gay from his voice and movements. Quite a few people in the comments said similar.

I inwardly cringe when fairly obvious gay guys airily declare that they love being 'masc'.

[quote]it was a private school in a liberal, wealthy New England town so probably much different than the inner-city or backwoods hellhole you attended.

Do you have two new kittens?

To say women can't be toxicly feminine is not misogyny. Frankly , it's sexist. Women tend to be much more emotionally manipulative and passive aggresive than men, plus more self serving and selfish.

R46- These same nasty queens 👸- as much as they denigrate the masculine guys ( they’re extremely jealous of them - because they can’t pass for straight) are very attracted to that same ability to pass for straight and their masculinity.

R50 Yes that was similar to what I was trying to say. Any genuinely masculine gay men I've known or dated never even once mentioned being "masc". The ones I was poking fun at were gay men who aren't very masculine but confidently state they are, as though it's some achievement.

I wouldn't be surprised if more gay men were masculine than not. It's just that those who aren't masculine stand out more. After all, masculine gay men can blend in with the mass of straight men.

Men will just shoot ya dead, a woman will drive you to suicide over decades or slowly poison you. Not sure which is worse.

1980 Playgirl centerfold totally

HOMOSEXUAL but he's trying valiantly to sound/seen straight.

R86 You're confusing young with gay Grampa.