Have you ever taken part in an orgy?

Just out of the closet, are we OP?

All you youngsters are so boring... I used to belong to an orgy club that met every month. Anywhere from 12 to 20 guys , watching porn and waiting for the appointed time to strip down and have some fun. The rules were simple: condoms and permission were required -you had to take no for an answer if someone wasn't interested. It was a lot of fun. I remember one time when six or seven of us ganged up on this one guy. One man was fucking his ass while another was filling his mouth with cock. A third was sucking him off. Four and five were playing with his nipples and caressing his body while he jacked six and seven... When he finally came, he shot all the way up to the ceiling! I was in my early twenties back then, and usually good for three or four times a night. I was really bummed when the guy who hosted got transferred by his office. The group was never able to find a place to continue.

Once upon a time it was a regular part of my life.

Never have. Gay porn makes them look so, so boring with a bunch of barely hard guys all going, “Oooo, oooo…. Yeah, so hot. Oh man, so hot!”

What is the threshold for an orgy? The most I've been involved in was four of, which is more a group, I'd say, than an orgy.

It’s the Black Friday of sexual experiences.

R5 More than 8?

Gurl key points to follow

1. Don't answer a double list, sniffies, or Grindr invitation for an orgy. These are the least screened and you were set up for the highest level of disappointment.

2. Weekday meetings are best. Additionally you should seek out as many married men as possible. They are the perfect participants horny and eager, ready to participate and leave after satisfaction is achieved.

3. Personally I would avoid groups that charge a donation to host. If there's a financial incentive behind having as many participants as possible you can bet screening will be very lacking.

4. If you arrive and the participants are not of your liking leave. Don't hang around in the hopes that the crowd will get better it won't.

5. Don't harass the host regarding providing pictures of the other participants, specifics about what happens, etc.

And finally very important that you have a clean and well-supplied area for the play to occur. Some clean white hand towels laundered and folded neatly, some dude wipes, hand sanitizer, maybe some bottled water. Make sure all pets are sequestered in a room by themselves, if the event is happening in your living room area you may want to invest in some inexpensive comforters to cover your sofa, sectional or other furnishings you have to help protect them. Make sure to have porn playing of a genre matched to the participants and the activities they prefer.

Sexually exiting, bishes!

Yes, if only 4 or 5 others count. The host passed around two fishbowls - one with quaaludes and one with joints. I'd take a quaalude, we'd all move to the bedroom where a houseboy would collect our clothes and we'd pile onto the bed. I'd fall asleep from the lude and wake up after it was over. Nothing hurt and I wasn't sticky so I guess they all just worked around me.

You say orgy, I say gangbang.

Dude wipes?

[quote]You say orgy, I say gangbang. —Dawson

No, Dawson, you say," Thursday night."

[quote] You say orgy, I say gangbang

Let’s call the whole thing off!

Does a back-door daisy chain at Ritch Street Bathhouse (SF) in the early 80s qualify?

If so, then a big fat YES! from me.

Orgies aren't my thing, but a FB threw himself one for a milestone birthday (this was about 20 years ago) and invited 12 guys. All of them showed up and we all brought party favors of which the only I partook (and was my contribution) was some pot. It was, in a word, hot. Good variety of men ranging from average to a couple that were smokin' but there was absolutely no attitude and everyone had a great time. Everyone commented that it was one of the best orgies they'd attended, which we attributed to it being FB's birthday and everyone wanted him to have a memorable celebration... and it was, indeed.

Oh many times, many many times.

^^^ Thank you, Lady Counterblast.

In college someone told me that an orgy was, by definition, five or more people. I've never questioned that.

R16, that was what made the orgies I attended so much fun -the lack of attitude. Most men have something sexy about them, and in a large group setting where libidos are running wild, it's easy to embrace that. Because you're not limited to one person for the entire... event, you're free to enjoy a quick kiss here, a nipple twist there, or just lend a hand to others who are engaging in fun. It's living porn of the best kind, because you get to participate. Maybe you don't get to fuck that super hot guy, but you will probably get to caress his chest or squeeze his buns while someone else gets the benefit of the actual fuck. And while the man of your dreams is using his mouth to send you to heaven, do you really care who it is behind you, holding you and rubbing your chest and tweaking your nips? You just let go and give yourself over to taking -and giving- pleasure.

Not after seeing the snorgy.

Excellent tips r8. I used to participate regularly in NYC in my 20s. I went to one on a work trip in Germany which was hot but a little scary. And one at a summer house in the Hamptons that started off as what I thought was a regular party but morphed into a full on gay straight orgy for anyone who was into it. I went with my friend who had a share in the house and is also gay but claimed he didn’t know that was going to happen. We did not hook up (but eventually did on Fire Island). I was supposed to spend the weekend but left first thing the next morning. I didn’t want to see anyone. The key to a successful orgy is that there needs to be a defined end time unless you’re all friends and comfortable hanging out without sex.

Yeah, I'd say 5 or more is an orgy.

4 is more like 2 couples swapping partners and watching.

I got in a 15-way the first time I went to a bathhouse. It was less than satisfying.

Yeah when I was on Epstein Island with Bill Clinton and Prince Andrew.

Who hasn't?

I had a Corgi. Is that similar?

I'm sure there are people on DL who think getting a tattoo is a sign of mental illness, but having sex with a group of strangers is fine.

They are both fine r27

Does anyone have a link to a good orgy video? Most of the ones I've found are like what r4 describes and not very hot to watch.

Yes, one, when I first came out. I’m still shocked I went.

Guys were all pretty sexy for the most part. I sucked the biggest black cock I’ve ever seen to this day. It was attached to a hot guy with a perfectly muscled body. I didn’t fuck, though, just got and gave head.

I always assumed he was gay looking at his pictures. But then he had this unfortunate mid 90s haircut. Which many gay boys I knew had.

It sounds like a lot of logistics.

Orgies, just once. My being there was an accident and it just seemed stupid.

I much prefer gang bangs primarily focused on designated muscle twinks. Not too rough, although the bottoms have appeared only, once in any case.

We called them sex parties. I went to a memorable one way back before the internet. The host wanted to break the ice by playing a game of spin the bottle. If it pointed to you, the guys sitting in the circle (about 7 or 8 of us) would “decorate” you with with whipped cream, candy sprinkles, and cherries while you lay in the middle of the circle. Everyone would then eat and lick the confectionery off of your body. It was a lot of fun, and the group was very enthusiastic and engaged.

Then someone spun the bottle and it landed on me. I could hear an audible sigh as though the spirits were leaving the bodies of some of the people in that room. I lay down in the middle of the circle, the host started decorating me, someone else tossed some sprinkles on. And then I just lay in silence for what seemed like an eternity. The host finally said, “eat up, guys!” Everyone stayed quiet and I noticed they had all turned a quarter away from the circle to avoid eye contact. It was getting hot and I started to feel the whipped cream running down into my armpits and down my thighs. I finally broke the awkward silence and asked the host if I could use the shower. He said yes. The guys had to separate to let me pass. As I slowly my way to the shower, I left a trail of wet sticky clumps of cherries, runny whipped cream with sprinkles.

The 1970s: the baths with group sex in steam rooms and hallways and dark rooms and showers. Tea rooms that frequently had more than four or five college aged guys at one time. Outdoor cruising in parks that turned into group events. Porn movie houses with nearly everyone in the audience going at it.

Those were the days, R35...

That's a painful memory, R34. What a bunch of assholes! :(

[quote] Have you ever taken part in an orgy?

Not that I know of.

The orgies I’ve been in have broken out in a sauna or a porn movie theater or bathhouse or at a party.

It's how I met Harry!

As a grad student, I once agreed to speak (along with a group of four other guys) to an undergrad sociology class on human sexuality. The orgy question came up, and only two of us admitted we had done them (at least one other guy on the panel clearly had, but didn't want to say so in front of the group). There was a bit of tittering around the room, and the women all tried to look shocked, but "scientifically interested." The men were either staring at their feet in embarrassment (likely the ones who enrolled in the class hoping to meet loose women), or furiously taking detailed notes to hide their erections. I took the far-left stance in the discussion, saying that the experience was liberating, sensual, and empowering. No shame or regrets. The other guy said he tried it, but it "wasn't for him" and he sort of regretted doing it. (Liar)

The professor in charge gave me a very favorable rating to the professor who had asked me to do it (she was my thesis advisor), so I scored some brownie points -but no dick or ass. Two of the guys on the panel came up to me as we were all leaving and said they admired my courage -they were too embarrassed to be honest about their experiences. Never saw any of the people involved again -except possibly a time at the student center when I was having a snack before class and two women nearby started pointing and whispering. I think they were students in the class, and trying to recall if I was the one that had visited and spoken. I toyed with the idea of just walking by and saying, "Yes, it was me," but they ended up leaving before I did. It could all have been my imagination...

Slut of all time ^^^^^^

Oh, honey, how I wish that were true!

Sadly, I'm just a wannabe slut.

The Pines, Fire Island 😈

Dataloungers get together for an orgy.

Wow R34. That story had real pathos. And was probably all too true. Did you just leave then? After the shower?

R34 is Kev Sessums?

I was a part of a group piss scene in LA.

I was visiting (business trip) was horny as fuck and needed a release.

One of the hottest guys I’ve ever seen was in a white bathtub, stroking away and asking for it, so I obliged.

Several others did too.

Tell us youngsters more about your exciting life fifty years ago, r2.

R45 They say that tragedy + time = comedy. It was humiliating and embarrassing at the time, but I laugh about it now. After the shower, it was the hardest thing walk back into the living room and face everyone instead of running out the door. But I just held my head up and did it. I stayed.

R48, and I mean this in the sweetest possible way, FUCK YOU. Of course, no one does -which is why you are so bitter...

The closest for me was a straight couple's backyard barbecue in the Hollywood Hills during the 90s where there was "adult games." One of them required all the men to pull their dicks out and display them through holes in a makeshift glory hole, which was basically a large panel with several holes cut out. The women played who's who and were allowed to fondle and give hand jobs, and in some cases blowjobs. I remember being turned on seeing all the husbands and "dads" dicks getting hard while being serviced by a bunch of horny women.

Did you get down on your knees and give instructional demonstrations, R51?

Oh wow, it was so odd. It was people I worked with when we got together on a weekend at someone's apartment. Two guys and three girls. It takes a lot for me to lose my inhibitions and I'm gay so this wasn't the perfect ratio for me. I was so loaded I just remember being in the shower and then in the bedroom and the girl I sat next to at work was blowing me, and behind me on the bed was this goodlooking guy who was the boyfriend of one of the other two girls who were 69ing each other. The girl with me, who was absolutely a knockout, couldn't get me hard and gave up when she realized I was trying to stick a finger up the guy's asshole. I tried to make it up to her by going down on her but, like me, she wasn't turned on either. So she hopped onto the hot guys dick and I continued trying to force my finger in. This guy had amazing muscle control. I didn't get in more than a quarter inch. The next Monday at work nobody could look at each other.