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Michael B. Jordan Says He Struggles with 'Loneliness'

Michael B. Jordan is getting candid about romance.

During an appearance on Monday's episode of the On Purpose with Jay Shetty podcast, the actor and filmmaker admitted he goes "back and forth between wanting partnership and then not knowing what's the best partner for me."

"Bringing them into my world, what I got going on, isn't easy," Jordan, 37, added of his busy lifestyle. "And it's not just, 'I love you, you love me, that should be enough,' right? It's not quite that simple."

For the actor, "Finding the right person to understand all of me, but then all that comes with me, as well" would be paramount for him to consider another romantic relationship. (Jordan was most recently linked to Lori Harvey, whom he split from circa June 2022 after dating for a year and a half.)

"And understanding that balance between wanting to be available and there for that person, while I'm juggling everything else. And feeling okay to put the other part of my businesses down," Jordan said of his perspective on a potential future partner.

The conversation came about when host Jay Shetty asked what Jordan considers the best and worst parts of himself.

After raving about being "Uncle Mike," the actor said, "I love multitasking; I love juggling, the balancing act that I do. The worst part is the loneliness that comes with that."

"There's a loneliness that I have. The responsibility that you have is isolating, and the weight is isolating," he continued. "So I think the worst part of that is the feeling like nobody really understands, and sometimes falling into the spaces of just being alone, feeling alone."

Asked how he, as the former PEOPLE Sexiest Man Alive, finds love, Jordan joked to Shetty, 36, "I revert back to the last question. It's very lonely!"

In all seriousness, "The sacrifice, the compromise that comes with a partnership and a relationship, and understanding how to make that all work, sometimes it gives me anxiety and pause," he said.

The Black Panther star also acknowledged that "there's a part of" him "that really has not really lived life yet." For example, he hasn't "really traveled as much for fun," with the exception of his trip to Japan last spring.

"I'm looking forward to that part of my life ... I gotta start living. I've sacrificed and I've zoned in for so long. I owe it to myself a little bit to do that," he said.

And while he's "not looking" for a romantic partner, he would welcome the right one into his life.

"But it would take a very special person to understand and grow with me," Jordan said, noting in addition, "I want a family [eventually]."

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by Anonymousreply 68March 28, 2024 6:40 PM

🎵 My body's longing to hold you/ So bad it hurts inside 🎵

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by Anonymousreply 1March 15, 2024 10:18 AM

So I have to ask the inevitable question.

Could he be gay?

A handsome guy like that, late 30's, and still single.

by Anonymousreply 2March 15, 2024 10:22 AM
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by Anonymousreply 3March 15, 2024 10:25 AM

[quote] the actor and filmmaker admitted he goes "back and forth between wanting partnership and then not knowing what's the best partner for me."

[quote] Finding the right person to understand all of me, but then all that comes with me, as well

[quote] And understanding that balance between wanting to be available and there for that person

[quote] "So I think the worst part of that is the feeling like nobody really understands, and sometimes falling into the spaces of just being alone, feeling alone."

[quote] "The sacrifice, the compromise that comes with a partnership and a relationship

[quote] "But it would take a very special person to understand and grow with me,"

[quote] "I want a family eventually."

Lots of "gay coded" language in his statements, and he's purposely ambiguous about stating a gender.

by Anonymousreply 4March 15, 2024 10:27 AM

"Person."

Yeah, Mike. We get it.

by Anonymousreply 5March 15, 2024 10:34 AM

Well, we movie stars get the glory, I guess we have to take the little heartaches that go with it.

People think we lead lives of glamour and romance, but we're really lonely.

Terribly lonely.

by Anonymousreply 6March 15, 2024 10:52 AM

I wouldn't mind alleviating his loneliness, even if just for a night. He's a very handsome man.

by Anonymousreply 7March 15, 2024 11:10 AM

If he is gay it’s a shame he feels like he must remain in the closet

by Anonymousreply 8March 15, 2024 11:19 AM

Part of me rolls my eyes as this as I’m jealous of all the money he has and the privilege that comes with it.

And then the other part of me understands there are people who only want to be his friend and romantically link with him because who he is and who his father is. How do you know if someone is with you because they authentically love you or if they’re just after fame and money?

by Anonymousreply 9March 15, 2024 11:22 AM

Men who like being in charge want a break sometimes and are looking for someone who can take the wheel. Male or female

by Anonymousreply 10March 15, 2024 11:54 AM

I don't buy that, R9.

There are lots of nepo babies who find meaningful relationships that aren't based on money.

I think that MBJ is just whining, and I'm not sure why.

Either he's just a whiner, or he's a closeted gay man who is coding his language to describe his struggles with being gay in Hollywood.

In any case, he needs to just stop complaining.

He has money, and a good career, and good looks.

He has nothing to fucking complain about.

by Anonymousreply 11March 15, 2024 11:55 AM

Werk that BLACK ROSE, hunty!

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by Anonymousreply 12March 15, 2024 11:57 AM

He seems like a genuinely nice guy on talk shows and is fine as fuck. I'm reticent to trash him.

by Anonymousreply 13March 15, 2024 12:22 PM

I’d eat his ass.

by Anonymousreply 14March 15, 2024 12:29 PM

R9 Who's his father?

by Anonymousreply 15March 15, 2024 1:47 PM

He’s not gay. And not I’m not a Frau. He just a sensitive introvert. So many of these straight guys have always existed, especially in the acting/theater world.

by Anonymousreply 16March 15, 2024 1:51 PM

R2 yes, late 30s, tall, rich, crowned SMA, no random oopsie kids and a pr relationship for his sexiest man alive cover story.... Screams gay to me and there's nothing wrong with it! Now he pretends to overthink everything so that people don't question why he is single and unmarried at his age. According to this reddit comment, he was outed by his ex assistant as "not straight".

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by Anonymousreply 17March 15, 2024 2:04 PM

So he is literally in the closet?????

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by Anonymousreply 18March 15, 2024 2:09 PM

He could cover this song as another PR move.

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by Anonymousreply 19March 15, 2024 2:14 PM

Normally I would laugh at a celebrity for whining, but he sounds honest and, well, a little lonely.

by Anonymousreply 20March 15, 2024 2:18 PM

Millennials are the generation with the least marriage across the board. 28-43 age group. They’re mostly single. I wonder why.

by Anonymousreply 21March 15, 2024 2:25 PM

Oh shit. I thought this entire time he was Michael Jordan’s son.

by Anonymousreply 22March 15, 2024 2:25 PM

Known Heterosexual

by Anonymousreply 23March 15, 2024 2:35 PM

I'm going to need a smaller violin.

by Anonymousreply 24March 15, 2024 2:40 PM

R21 I prefer video games over marriage

by Anonymousreply 25March 15, 2024 2:42 PM

That f@g at r18?!

As if!

There's no way he wouldn't have dropped to his knees and gone to work.

by Anonymousreply 26March 15, 2024 3:02 PM

R26 Sad mentally ill person who is lying.

by Anonymousreply 27March 15, 2024 3:05 PM

I'm surprised he hasn't had a chin implant yet. Until then, this pelican-jawed man will be doomed to a life of solitude.

by Anonymousreply 28March 15, 2024 3:14 PM

He's probably into trans girls but knows it would affect his career if he dated them openly.

by Anonymousreply 29March 15, 2024 3:15 PM

[quote] Sad mentally ill person who is lying.

Lying about the encounter. I think Jordan could be gay too. There is ZERO upside to being openly gay in Hollywood, especially for a handsome Black actor beloved by women.

by Anonymousreply 30March 15, 2024 3:22 PM

R29, he would be hailed as a hero in the mainstream press.

by Anonymousreply 31March 15, 2024 4:12 PM

He and Steelo Brim were roommates. He misses him.

by Anonymousreply 32March 15, 2024 4:45 PM

[quote] Sad mentally ill person who is lying.—Teacake

It's almost as if you were describing yourself, Teacunt.

by Anonymousreply 33March 15, 2024 4:50 PM

This dude is not gay. I have excellent gaydar and has always dated women.

by Anonymousreply 34March 15, 2024 8:26 PM

R29 Gay makes more sense.

by Anonymousreply 35March 15, 2024 9:19 PM

Same, gurl. Same.

by Anonymousreply 36March 15, 2024 9:28 PM

Lori Harvey always seemed like a terrible match.

by Anonymousreply 37March 15, 2024 9:31 PM

R2 This isn’t the 60’s.

There’s plenty of straight 30-something men.

A lot of millennials don’t get want to get married.

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by Anonymousreply 38March 15, 2024 9:36 PM

Now I know what I sounded like with Lance Bass...

by Anonymousreply 39March 15, 2024 9:40 PM

I thought the rumor was that Lori Harvey is on the down-low.

by Anonymousreply 40March 15, 2024 10:35 PM

Yes, she looks manly here. Lesbian? I love it!

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by Anonymousreply 41March 15, 2024 10:47 PM

Him and me both.

by Anonymousreply 42March 15, 2024 10:51 PM

Michael B. Jordan, call me!

You can "murder" my back pussy.

You won't be lonely any more, baby.

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by Anonymousreply 43March 15, 2024 11:07 PM

I'm sure he could find a suitable mate. I met the love of my life and we were married for 29 years! Sadly, until death do we part.

by Anonymousreply 44March 15, 2024 11:40 PM

R22 Michael Jordan's son Marcus is dating Scottie Pippen's ex-wife, Larsa Pippen (of RHOM fame). He sends his love.

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by Anonymousreply 45March 16, 2024 12:11 AM

[quote] This dude is not gay. I have excellent gaydar —Teacake

Bitch, please. You don't even know you're white.

by Anonymousreply 46March 16, 2024 12:52 AM

Is he in Tyler Perry movies?

by Anonymousreply 47March 16, 2024 1:02 AM

No.

by Anonymousreply 48March 16, 2024 2:32 AM

Everyone feels lonely sometimes, it's the human condition.

by Anonymousreply 49March 16, 2024 3:07 AM

r18 "literally"

Oh, dear

by Anonymousreply 50March 16, 2024 3:11 AM

Honestly doesn't seem gay at all, unfortunately

by Anonymousreply 51March 16, 2024 3:13 AM

R50, it was literal.

by Anonymousreply 52March 16, 2024 3:14 AM

The relationship with Lori Harvey seemed like a PR set-up.

At this point, I do wonder if he's gay.

by Anonymousreply 53March 16, 2024 3:19 AM

Where’s the Darfur Orphan to offer condolences?

by Anonymousreply 54March 16, 2024 4:49 AM

In 2018 he bought a house in Sherman Oaks and he was living there with his mother and father...well after he was established in the business. I wonder if he's still there with his family.

by Anonymousreply 55March 16, 2024 5:08 AM

He’s sexy asf. I’m sure he’s willingly played with guys,

by Anonymousreply 56March 17, 2024 5:58 AM

He was a child actor, so he's right that he hasn't had a chance to live chunks of his life that most people would. Most child actors don't have the experience of being as big as he is as an adult star, either.

by Anonymousreply 57March 17, 2024 6:33 AM

r55 he bought a nice place in Encino in mid-2022, but sold it after less than a year. Maybe too big for him @ 12k+ square feet.

by Anonymousreply 58March 17, 2024 6:40 AM

Meet 'Loneliness"

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by Anonymousreply 59March 17, 2024 7:47 AM

Is this like Fantastic Sam’s for whores? Everyone gets a name like “Loneliness” and “Cookie”?

by Anonymousreply 60March 17, 2024 7:49 AM

[quote] Millennials are the generation with the least marriage across the board. 28-43 age group. They’re mostly single. I wonder why.

Even when we reduce our pap walks by 40% for 6 whole years we still don’t receive marriage proposals.

by Anonymousreply 61March 17, 2024 9:10 AM

Teacake got red tagged! I knew it!

by Anonymousreply 62March 17, 2024 10:14 PM

He should just come out publicly and all the "loneliness" will be gone forever.

by Anonymousreply 63March 17, 2024 10:15 PM

[quote] Teacake got red tagged! I knew it!

More like he got blown up. The brick name also got red-tagged, and he came back with ANOTHER new name and that's already red tagged. Man, this place works fast. I don't even know how that whole process works, but damn!

by Anonymousreply 64March 17, 2024 10:22 PM

Me me me me me. Oh, and I’m lonely.

by Anonymousreply 65March 17, 2024 10:24 PM
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by Anonymousreply 66March 28, 2024 4:39 PM

he could be bi

by Anonymousreply 67March 28, 2024 6:36 PM

He's hot

by Anonymousreply 68March 28, 2024 6:40 PM
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