When you were a kid, were you ever spanked?

What did you do to get spanking? Who spanked you and how? How was it delivered; by hand, by switch, by belt or by the bottom of a slipper?%0D\ %0D\ Did you cry? Did you ever do it again?

Do you have a child abuse fetish?
Yes, I was spanked. My parents had a thick "rod" that had Biblical sayings on it about spanking kids. They got it from their church. My mom and dad both spanked us. Of course I cried. That shit hurt. My dad once hit my brother so hard with it that it broke. He hit him for interrupting an argument that my folks were having.\ \ Did I ever do what again?
A friend was beaten with a strap by his foreign-born parents and now likes to be spanked with paddle.
I got it with that wooden paddle toy thing that used to have a small red ball attached by a rubber band. After 15 min of playing with it, the rubber band usually snapped off making it the perfect ''punisher.''
Yeah, I was spanked as a kid. It was always Mom and she used her hand. I did cry, but I think it was more out of anger / frustration / humiliation than actual pain. I always deserved it though. Mom was very clear on the rules and I knew that if you do something you aren''t supposed to that you''d get spanked. \ \ I remember even thinking about stuff before doing it...knowing that if I got caught it meant a spanking...so was it worth it? Sometimes it was!\ \ I think I was about 6 when I was spanked for the last time. I remember forcing myself to not laugh cause it didn''t hurt, but I knew that would make Mom REALLY mad, so best to act like it was a punishment.
Yes, and I liked it.
''pank me HAWDER!
Dad used a belt all the time, from when I was small until I was nearly a teenager. He''d say "grab your ankles" and I''d get hit usually three times.\ \ Mom had a temper that would flare up a lot. I think she had chronic PMS before it was ever considered a condition. She used to slap me. Once when I was probably four I was taking a bath and she told me to scoop water on my head so she could put shampoo on. She didn''t tell me when she put it there and I apparently rinsed it off with one of the scoops. She smacked me really hard on my shoulder. I started crying and she knew she''d overreacted because she apologized. Another time she lost her temper because I was arguing with my brother and she backed me into a corner and started hitting me with a clunky shoe she happened to be holding (this was in the 70s). We never knew how to act around her because her temper would flare up for nearly anything.
My Dad did the spanking (early 70s).... either by hand or belt.%0D\ %0D\ Always for something semi serious.
I don''t remember being spanked, but I do remember my dad''s bad temper. He would erupt in anger if me or my brother misbehaved. His angry outburst were sudden and really scary. To this day I have a problem with people who suddenly turn vicious or nasty - I become silent and instead of defending myself I start thinking that I must have done something to provoke their behavior.
Parenting is difficult and most people are not very good at it.
My mom never hit us with it, but she was always threatening us with a bullwhip from Mexico. She really got off on swinging it around and telling us what would happen if we misbehaved until one day I got tired of that (I must have been eight or nine) and waited until she wasn''t looking, folded it in a newspaper, and threw it in the dumpster.\ \ A year or so later, her brother brought her another bullwhip, and she celebrated by swinging it around with a relish that made me sit quietly until she got bored and went into another room, and then I repeated my act and tossed it.\ \ Those whips were nasty things -- braided leather with a weighted handle...
R10 your mom''s a psycho.
I did. And I continue to get spanked to this very day.
Daddy Lover
r7 the Astin Boys
I get spanked after a bad concert.
Daddy! Owwww! ----David A
Of course. Deep South, early 70s, everyone spanked children. My Dad used his hand; Mom used the flyswatter (that think would sting!), or she would slap our faces ("I''ll knock your block off!"). \ \ If you misbehaved at school, you were sent to stand out in the hallway. The principal came by and gave you three "licks" on the buttocks. But now that I remember, most teachers had their own paddles as well; you would be given "licks" in front of the entire class on occasion. This was absolutely non-controversial.
My dad stopped spanking me once I started raising my ass higher while he was doing it.
Yes, but on few enough occasions that I can recall each one. The humiliation and shame alone was enough to make me behave and largely avoid it. My mother used her hand, but my father used a belt. He died when I was 2, so I can''t remember really.%0D\ %0D\ As much as I hated it, I was always fascinated by it as a kid and sought it out in stories etc. That has not changed.
Dad spanked me then. Now I spank my boy.
Wooden spoon.%0D\ %0D\ Crazy bitch of a mother. Probably in just a bad mood.
My father would take off his belt and smack me good. Worse was he''d advance on me with the belt raised, cursing, and threatening for long minutes. The fear and panic he engendered was always worse than the physical pain. This was an almost daily experience. My mother was more of the slapping and hair pulling school of discipline.\ \ When I was seventeen I got a kitten. Once when the little thing annoyed me I lashed out and smacked its hindquarters hard. The guilt and shame was too much. I never did it again. And I certainly never hit my own child later on. I finally learned my lesson. You DON''T terrorize children and weaker beings.
Please daddy don''t!
I have a feeling r16 is being serious.
Am I the only one picturing OP frantically pulling on his miniscule, greasy cock and breathing noisily and heavily through his mouth while he reads this thread?
[quote]When I was seventeen I got a kitten. Once when the little thing annoyed me I lashed out and smacked its hindquarters hard. The guilt and shame was too much. I never did it again. And I certainly never hit my own child later on. I finally learned my lesson. You DON''T terrorize children and weaker beings.\ \ I''m glad you learned from that. My brother didn''t. He was as abused as I was and he turned out to be exactly like our dad when he had kids. I never wanted kids, ever, mostly because I was afraid I''d turn out like my dad.
R7
in Jr High (7-9th grade) the gym and shop teachers (and a few others) had paddles. Most infractions got you one "swat". serious infractions got you three. Smoking or fighting got you sent to the vice principal who doled out up to five swats. Only the guys got paddled (SEXISM!!). I only saw one guy cry. he and another guy were throwing tennis shoes at guys on the trampoline when the teacher walked in. He gave the one guy three very hard ones and the other guy who was kind of a bully melted into a quivering bowl of jelly on the floor. The teacher who was about 6''8" and huge lifted up his feet and gave him the hardest swats I ever saw. He cried. We all got to see his beet red ass in the showers after class. He tried to laugh it off, but he lost his ability to bully anyne. He became a joke.
Welts on the back of my legs from more than one switching.%0D
why is r7 like the Astin boys?
I don''t remember ever being spanked, but my parents certainly threatened it often enough. My father threatened to tan our hides either with his belt, which he would make into a loop and snap -- thus engendering great fear -- or a leather razor strop from a barber shop. My mother threatened with a wooden spoon.\ \ When I was about 11 or so, I talked back to my mother -- once. For my efforts she slapped me across the face. I never did that again.
You know what?\ \ I NEVER was and now I LURVE spanking, giving and receiving. I''m obssessed with it!
My father beat us usually with the belt, but having us lay on the floor and stand on us (he''s 6''2 about 220 lb-we were 5-6 yo girls ) or he''d have us get against the wall like we were going to be frisked and start swinging, were his other methods.\ \ Worst beating I ever got was when I was against the wall and couldn''t stop laughing. More I laughed, the more he hit. My poor sister looked so scared. \ The beatings were for stuff like waking him up or eating his favorite peanuts.\ \ I asked him once when I got older why he punished us like that and he said his dad beat him. That was discipline.\ \ I''m happy to say THAT family trait ended with him.\ \ \ thankfully my parents divorced when I was 7.
Mom of 2
I was beat senseless as a child and wished that my parents actually did civilized spankings. %0D\ %0D\ I really wished that. %0D\ %0D\ Sad but true. %0D\ %0D\ Any day of the week I would have rather had my father place my over his knee and give me a civlized spanking instead of walking in the door from owrk and beating everyone in the family senseless and taking everything out of the fridge and throwing all over the place and all of that. %0D\ %0D\ But now. If I have kids, I would just plainly never lay a hand on them. I would have them stand in the corner or something like that. %0D\ %0D\ Fuck you OP for making me think of all this.
[quote]Fuck you OP for making me think of all this.\ \ I get where you''re coming from R30. But that''s all in the past and since you said you''d never do that I think you''re a far better person than your dad ever could be.
We got spanked by dad with his hand.\ \ We were always warned ahead of time and we always deserved it.\ \ There were no surprises.\ \ The #1 problem today is parents not spanking their spoiled brats.
I wanna meet R 16
I was spanked frequently, by both parents. Any infraction of the rules, any unsubstantiated perception that I might have broken the rules, voicing an opinion when they didn''t want to hear from me, etc.%0D\ %0D\ I behaved, but the main effect it had was to make me realize that my parents were assholes who didn''t care about fairness, that neither really cared for anything but getting their own way. I have to give myself credit for being a very perceptive child, most kids don''t figure out that their parents are thoughtless assholes until they''re teenagers, but I knew the score before I started kindergarten.
My mom spanked me with her hand or with her belt. When I got older, she slapped me instead. \ \ My dad only spanked me once.
I was never spanked, but I can think of many times when I should have been, or at least put in jail overnight.
My brother and I were both whipped (not spanked) as children with belts, yard sticks, whatever. But, not the hand, why hurt that delicate easily damaged appendage?\ \ Fuck ''em. One''s dead, one to go, and I pretty much hate all people in general.
Touch Me, I''ll Kill You
Can think of only two occasions that occurred when I was about four years old. I was deservedly slapped in the face for really pissing off my Mom. Once she was on the phone (the kind attached to the wall with a short cord) and I was doing all kinds of crazy shit to get her attention, like taking apart the kitchen, putting the cat in the fish tank, etc.. The other time happened when she left me in the car parked in front of Safeway. Again, I got bored and thought she was taking too long, yet I knew intuitively that I was "misbehaving" - one of her favorite words. I could see that she was standing in a long line at the checkout counter with her overstuffed cart, which meant nothing to me at the time. But it was hilarious to watch all of the customers (including my horrified mother) and the checkers all looking out at me as I leaned on the horn and waved to them. For like 15 minutes. Thinking about it still makes me giggle. The slapping incidents represented extreme embarrassment and shame. This was an upper middle-class WASP family. Social manners meant everything and you learned this very early on. I remember recounting to my parents terrifying stories of seeing other kids get spanked. I saw some creepy stuff go down on my playmates involving belts, sticks, firepokers, oh, and bars of soap! My parents did not register much sympathy. It was simply understood that WE were non-physical Episcopalians, and that imperfect behavior would be met with psychological terror, instead. Poor lady had to keep me occupied at all times for the next 14 years. I was constantly 'experimenting', exploring, and asking too many questions, and on the verge of creating chaos. But by age 5, all it took was Mom's raised eyebrow, smirk, or sarcasm to control me. I suppose I'm lucky that she's too dead now to see all of the bitchy things I post on the DL.
Yes, I was spanked. My father would spank me with his belt, and to this day, a shiver goes up when I hear a leather belt ripped quickly out of belt loops. A distinctive sound, that. Always with my pants on and no marks left, save for one time I was wearing shorts and my thigh was severely bruised.%0D\ %0D\ My mother would "spank" me, but with her, it was always more about her losing her cool and slapping me, swiping at me, or even kicking me if I was seated.%0D\ %0D\ As an adult, I realize that my Dad''s spankings were truly his version of discipline, if ill-advised and inappropriate. But I also realize that my mother''s "spankings" were really her inability to deal with her own frustrations and taking it out on her child in a wholly inappropriate manner which would teach a child nothing about behavior and consequences.
My dad NEVER spanked any of us. He was the permissive parent. Mom was the one who would say, "Don''t make me get out the wooden spoon!" and that was enough to make us behave. Sometimes she only had to yank open the kitchen drawer where the spoon was kept. %0D\ %0D\ I think she only used it on me ONCE - I was playing with matches, and she made me hold out my hand and gave me a stinging smack. As someone else said, the experience was so humilating and embarrassing to me that I became a well-behaved kid (when the adults were around).%0D\ %0D\ Actually, what that really taught me was to cover my tracks, not tell my younger sister ANYTHING, and make up inventive lies about who broke the window and what happened to my weekly Mass offering.
Tell Carol Ann you''re gonna give her a SPANKIN''!
Tangina
Jesus Christ r30: Misplaced anger much? You sound like a crazy person.\ \ You''re really angry at your parents for abusing you, not at the OP.
R16 made me spit out my wine. LOL.
[quote]to this day, a shiver goes up when I hear a leather belt ripped quickly out of belt loops. A distinctive sound, that.%0D\ %0D\ I love that sound!
pervert
[quote]I love that sound!%0D\ %0D\ Shwoop.
Spanked is such a hilarious word. It makes me think of sex games. I would say smacked.\ \ To answer the question, no. My dad was a teacher though and he always told us jokingly that he would have done if it couldn''t have got him the sack.
Anonymous
I was slapped once for trying to climb into the dishwasher while my mother was loading it. If she'd ever paid more than 2 minutes attention to me when I was sick or in trouble, I likely would not have been climbing into the dishwasher, had at least one sick day a week for my entire schooling nor become a total delinquent. She locked me in the basement, tortured my pets, locked me in the house for 3 months straight, etc. To this day she says some of the cruelest, nastiest things to me, things I've never heard anyone say to anyone under any circumstance, and then she wants to pretend things are great. Several years ago I was assaulted and nearly killed and no option other than staying at her house. She put me on her sofa which is not really a sofa in the living room which is used by neither herself not my stepfather except for a once a year party and left me there bed ridden refusing to spend any time with me, locking the door when she would eat in the adjoining room and screaming things at me like, "You're unlovable." I was stuck there for months, bedridden, in excruciating pain, with no tv, too pilled up to read, no computer, with zero company. I tried to hang myself from the ceiling fan with a telephone cord but was in too bad of shape to manage it. Did I mention she tried to put me up for adoption when I was 15? My father has a hideous temper but never hit me, either. He just screamed a lot and broke plates and glasses and furniture and left me alone in front of the tv on our every other weekends together so he could get shitfaced and fuck skanks and, seriously, trade baseball cards. When he was home, he was drinking whiskey in his study, terrifying me about the possibility of spilling juice and dating horrible women who would alternate between punching his teeth out, making fun of me and accusing him of being a pedophile. He now calls me nearly daily. I don't answer more than once every two months although I'm the only person on the planet who still takes his calls. Within ten minutes of every phone call, I'm accused of orchestrating a grand conspiracy against him, screamed at, insulted and hung up on. And then he calls back...Frankly, I'd prefer to have parents who hit.
Spare the rod and spoil the child.
For those old enough to remember Dr. Benjamin Spock, the result of his methods lead to the phrase "When They Should Have Been Spanked, They Were Spocked." %0D\ %0D
I was spanked. My parents used a switch off the willow tree, the track from a Hot Wheels race track, a wooden kitchen spoon, and my dad''s Marine Corps leather belt. It was cut in half, one side had a hand grip and slits cut in to it, the other half of the belt was just the belt. %0D\ %0D\ %0D\ It seemes extreme now, but at the time I''m sure I deserved the spankings. I don''t remember what I did most of the time to get the spankings, but I do remember my brother and I had gotten caught ridding our bikes along the highway when we were maybe 5 & 7. People have told me that my parents abused me becauseof the spankings, but they are judging behavior in the 60''s by the laws of today. My parents weren''t mean, they never hit us when they were angry,(tho sometimes I had wished they would, waitng for them to not be angry, knowing the spanking was coming was horrible)and I''m 100% sure i deserved the spankings I got
Everyone deserves consequences.\ \ No one deserves to be hit.
All those fuckers we sent to Washington to represent us need a good whipiing, starting at the top.
Yes, by my dad. Wooden paddle on the bare ass. Over the knee initially; later bent over the back of a chair.\ \ Hell yes I cried. I begged for mercy before he started but to no avail. He went by color, not tears: I could count on my butt ending up anywhere from glowing pink to deep red. That translates to from about 20 swats (minor offense) up to too many to count.\ \ Still, after all that, I think people have gone too far in the other direction. No kids, though, so I don''t have to make that decision.
My father was abusive even for the times. He seemed to take pleasure in beating us with his belt. He even fondly reminisced about it when I was in my 20s, saying "I remember how I tried to get you to cry, but you never did." He was also really good at verbal abuse.\ \ Growing up, I thought everyone''s father was that way. It took me years to understand how what a warped family dynamic we had.
What shocks me is how many of you that were spanked say you deserved it. Nobody deserves the kind of treatment so many of you report, no matter how bad you were. And "bad" is a relative term. So many adults think that growing children are adults themselves and understand the consequences of their actions. That''s a load of crap.%0D\ %0D\ R47, what you report is not discipline; it''s torture, pure and simple.%0D\ %0D\ R5 = Christina Crawford.
R10 made me LOL. \ \ Yes, I was spanked and I hated it and it was often over the slightest thing. Also, we lived across the hall from a couple where the husband had a thick wooden paddle with something written on it about bums or spankings. It hung on the wall right next to the door where everyone could see it and he would often point it out. I think that these parents were over the top in their zeal for discipline but some of the brats today, including teenagers, I would LOVE to see get a few good cracks on the ass from those wooden paddles. Gawd knows so many of them need it and deserve it.
yes. a lot of things that I deserved it for, some I didn''t. mother. yes. yes. yes. no. yes. sometimes.%0D
Yes, by my mom, and I hated her for it. But it was my dad that was really scary. He never spanked us, but he used one of his football defense moves where he would take his forearm into our chest and send us flying across the room. I thought I was going to die because I couldn''t breathe. %0D\ %0D\ He would say: "C''mere son.%0D\ %0D\ And boom...we would go flying.%0D
Oh, and my grandfather used to cook my dad''s pets and serve them up for dinner and not tell them until after they ate their beloved pet.%0D\ %0D\ That''s why I don''t hate my dad. He was a good-hearted soul for the most part, but my mom...fuckin'' evil witch.
Yes, but my father was never able to wipe the smirk off of my face.
lesbian
My mother really pounded me a few times, completely out of frustration.\ \ She also used to tell those in charge in front of me that she gave them permission to use the wooden spoon on me if I misbehaved. The tragic thing was, I was never in trouble, and EXTREMELY quiet and shy. Painfully so. The woman who was my caregiver from the age of one until the age of four, abused me mercilessly. She would pull a lot of psychological mind games on me, even beating me in front of another child she was later also caring for. He was the problem, but she took it out on me.\ \ I don''t have to tell you how much guilt my mother feels, as she should.\ \ I would never EVER lay a hand on my child. I was the most well-behaved child in history, and it didn''t take fear for me to be so. The psychological scars being abused have taken years to heal.
Parents who spank a child''s private region are closeted child molesters, pure and simple. A child is taught to say no to showing his ass, but then that same parent who tells their child how private that area is, beats the crap out of it.
God, r40. Your post is almost my exact experience. My Mom spanked me once with a wooden spoon. After that, all she had to do was wave it at me and I stopped doing whatever it was I doing.\ \ My dad actually spanked me once. Not hard, and then he sent me to my room. He came in crying about 15 minutes later, apologizing. \ \ I thought, man, I can use this in the future. Which I did.
This leads to another question. Do you think that you were a better child because you were spanked? Did it help you respect your parents or fear them. I ask, because I don''t anyone who spanks their children anymore. Does a time out have the same effect as a spanking?
I was four the last time I was spanked. Instead of crying I began trying to slap his legs (I was over his knee). When this had no effect I managed to bite in to his thigh, through his pants, drawing blood. I wouldn''t let go. My Dad began screaming in pain and punching me.My 13 year old brother ran in from the kitchen with a knife and held it to my Dad and said ''you don''t hit him EVER again''.\ \ He never did.\ \ Why was I spanked? I don''t know. I was spanked a few times and I have no idea why. \ \ My Dad was actually a wonderful father but he was raised to spank and it was the way things were done back then.\ \ I think spanking is lazy parenting and only teaches children to lie and be deceptive.
I grew to hate my mother as a child. It neither made me respect her, nor fear her. Just hate her.\ \ The majority of the time, what she did was take away privileges. That worked every single time. I would scream, pound on the floor, etc. It worked.\ \ If you have a young out of control child, lock them in a room. I''m serious. Don''t lay a hand on a kid. You''ll live to regret it.
Absolutely not, R64. I have a spanking fetish because of it. Spanking children is wrong. Yeah, not every child develops a spanking fetish, but many do...just google it on the internet and you will see. And don''t tell me you''re born with a spanking fetish...that''s bullshit. 99% of the American population, anyway, has been spanked. End of story.%0D\ %0D\ What kind of loving parent would take a chance on creating a pervert?
OP biggest spanking fetish ever!
I was spanked by my father. I''d get what he would refer to as "six of the best." He used his hand on my bare ass. If I struggled or cried he would add on more smacks. My mother very rarely even tried to spank me, she would lock me in my room until my father got home from work. Then I''d hear him coming up the stairs, taking about four stairs in a step, and he''d turn the key and enter my room and the beating would begin. I deserved it, I was a very rude child who would curse at my parents. I was spanked until I was probably about 13 years old. %0D\ At school we were "given the cane" for the most minor of offences. Sometimes these canings would be given in front of the class, sometimes in the principal''s office, where they would be longer and harsher. %0D\ Given all that, I completely agree with r32.
Late 70s, early 80s
You know what, R28? Yes you were. Your fetish is proof that a dirty uncle, neighbor, teacher, or whoever, spanked your bare ass and turned you on...so much so, that you can''t recall for the shame. Probably turned you gay too.%0D\ %0D\ That''s how I turned gay. I''m sure of it. Daddy spanked me one too many times.%0D
Spanked by both parents. Dad was consistent, using his hand or belt. Mom was more a spanker of opportunity. Sure, she's used her hand or a belt like Dad, when she had time to think it through, but she also would grab anything near her if she thought it get the job done. Some of her weapons included wire hangers, wiffle-ball bat, metal curtain rod, large kitchen whisk, extension cords, wooden ruler, etc. Hated getting punished in summer while wearing shorts, as both parents aim was off and bare upper thighs could take the hit. Depending on the offense, sometimes pants and underwear were ordered pulled down for spanking. Mom also was a big fan of making us take a huge bite of soap when we lied. That heavy duty Lava soap - do they still make that? Seriously, my parents did not seem that different when it came to punishment than the parents of other kids I knew. And punishment was usually for breaking rules and earned. My Mom would hit us out of anger sometimes, whereas my Dad always hit us for a specific reason. I know people think it is child abuse - but back then it was the norm. I harbor no horrible feelings toward them, as this was what they knew to be the right way to discipline a child. I do think kids today are not disciplined, particularly the 5-10 years olds, who know better, and you see continually holding their parents hostage with bad behavior, tantrums and out-in-out disobedience. Many would benefit from big swap on the ass.
Could we please have Joan''s Grandson in this thread, please?
R55=idiot. Many people need an attitude adjustment. Republican voters, for instance. Right to the jaw. It''s nature''s way of clearing people''s ear drums.%0D\ %0D\ I was spanked exactly twice and both times for the same offence: writing on the wall. Didn''t bother me in the slightest.%0D\ %0D\ I really didn''t like it when my dad used to stick things up my butt, though, as he made me stand with my legs so far apart I could barely stand for minutes at a time! And I could only take three fingers comfortably.%0D
THIS thread makes me horny
Spanking fetish = daddy issues?
I got both spankings and spontaneous slaps. The spankings were brutal and too much for a 4 or 5 year old. I would piss myself while it was happening, like I was being murdered. I was left bruised many, many times.\ \ Then the time my skull was fractured, that was a slap. I was sitting on a tall stool and in a basement work room and was told not to touch the pile of screws on the table. I touched them. I got slapped. I went flying off the stool and hit my head on the concrete floor. All I remember after that is blood, blood, and more blood.\ \ Then there was the time I had a real Joan Crawford night raid. Earlier in the day I must have gotten nail polish on the bathroom faucet. The next thing I know it is the middle of the night and I''m yanked out of bed and forced to go into the bathroom and wash the faucet..with the tip of my nose.
Whatever the OP''s intentions, this was a serious thread for a time so please don''t detrail it with sick jokes.
Now you''ve done it, R77
Me misbehaving%0D\ %0D\ Parent "Do you want a slap?"%0D\ Me "No"%0D\ Parent "Behave yourself then''%0D\ %0D\ and I did or I got a slap.%0D\ %0D\ Parents don''t discipline today hence the endless supply of ill behaved children%0D\ %0D\ %0D
Yes, but I probably needed them.\ \ Always with hand, from my mom and dad.\ \ Grandmother Joan would just give you withering stare and scold you if you acted up. Very glam!
Joan''s Grandkid
I have mixed feelings on spanking kids. All my dad had to do was look at me and I would fall in line. I don''t know if that was fear or respect, but either way I didn''t make a fool of myself in public like I see a lot of kids doing now. Kids are yelling and screaming and demanding and the parents are trying to be rational. How does that even work?
Yes, ...remember those orange Hot Wheels tracks? they hurt like hell.
Neither of my parents had much tolerance for disobedience or what came to be called "acting out", and both smacked me, but very rarely -- in the way that hysterical adults are smacked/startled back to their senses in TV and films. %0D\ %0D\ It was either after a warning (or two) to stop doing something disruptive, or to when I had put myself in real danger (traffic, electricity, fire, or a fall.) %0D\ %0D\ There were never any delayed punishments of the "wait until your father/mother comes home" sort, banishments to my room, etc.
Mom was a real "wait ''til your father gets home" type, although she did smack us herself as well. I don''t think my dad ever smacked us on his own...it was always at Mom''s request.%0D
Oh, and how come Joan Crawford never spanked her twins? I just watched the new show on celebrity wills, and her darling twins got everything, but the wire-hanger.
I was rarely spanked, but once my father repeatedly slapped me hard across the face on both sides.%0D\ %0D\ The next day, my 3rd grade teacher saw how red my face was, and asked what happened and if she could help. I know now that she was way ahead of most everyone else on child abuse (this was in the early 1950s).%0D\ %0D\ I was too embarassed to rat on my dad. I understand now that the punishment was not so unusual back then. But, I lost all respect for my father forever over those two days.%0D\ %0D\ I also knew that I was the stronger person because I would never do that to anyone. We had some good times in the years later, but he lost me for good. %0D\ %0D\ I voluntered for five years answering call on a child abuse hotline, and have had much counseling. But, the hero remains my 3rd grade teacher.%0D\ %0D\ And I am a person who can usually forgive almost anything.
I still love being slapped
On the ass r87?
Geez R86, I got A LOT worse than that and I hold no grudges against either parent. I feel sorry for your poor dad...parents make mistakes. It''s not like he beat the shit out of you everyday. %0D\ %0D\ And that was the 1950s when corporal punishment was 100% approved.%0D\ %0D
My father was 20 when I born and in his mid 20s looked like a young Nick Nolte with jeans white T shirt that showed off his great biceps. Several times he beat with me with his his brown leather belt. \ \ The pain of the beating and the sense of shame and degradation were overpowering and confusing as somehow it all felt strangely pleasurable.\ \ My father was often drunk and died of a stroke at 60. We had not spoken in 15 years. My mother once mentioned that he said I wasn''t the son he wanted. As a child I wasn''t interested in sports and was obviously gay. \ \ These events no doubt contributed to my being a promiscuous bottom who''s always sought domination.
My mom didn''t spank me, at least not more than a quick smack on the butt that didn''t really hurt but my dad did spanking that hurt when I was really young. He used a belt. I only have one memory of it happening once and am not sure if it even happened more than once. But for a few years after that he would get me to behave by just snapping a belt or asking if he needed to get his belt.%0D\ %0D\ I can''t even remember what got me a spanking. Probably fighting with my brother or crying about something stupid.%0D
I was slapped hard and often\ \ I didn''t forget it
I was whipped constantly with a belt by my mom.
Friend of mine grew up in a very religious household. When she turned 18 she had a very serious boyfriend that she slept with. Her parents somehow found out and her dad actually spanked her for it. And yes, she has a spanking fetish.
We would all get spanked after a long road trip.\ \ There were 5 of us under the age of eight and drove my Dad nuts...very small car,a wife who never said a word to him,and traveling for something like 8 hours made him a mad man.\ \ Any other time he was the sweetest .
Sweet daddies deserve to spank
being spanked as a child made me more disciplined. \ \ \ \ \ \ it also made me a submissive bottom
I posted this in the worst presents ever thread. I must say it was pretty typical of the attitude of the time:\ \ "When I was about 8, a relative gave me an elaborately wrapped tie box, with the cryptic comment that my dad would get more use from it but I''d get the benefits.\ It turned out to be a novelty paddle with a picture of a bear and a deer on it, printed with ''For the little deer with the bear behind.''\ \ Of course, my dad wasted no time in drumming up an excuse to try out his new toy that very day, following the directions on the device, and applying it vigorously to my bare bottom."\ \ Hadn''t thought of this in years, until recently reading this thread. As you can imagine, the paddling was far more excessive than the mostly imaginary crime warranted--all for my dad to show his cousin what a strict diciplinarian he was.
that honestly sounds hot - or made-up
Thank you sir, can I have another?
Kevin Bacon
Too much is Never enough
K. Baconette
[quote]What shocks me is how many of you that were spanked say you deserved it. Nobody deserves the kind of treatment so many of you report, no matter how bad you were. And "bad" is a relative term. So many adults think that growing children are adults themselves and understand the consequences of their actions. That''s a load of crap.\ \ Kids are always trying to push their parents to see what they can get away with. We ALWAYS deserved it.\ \ We were always warned. If we did it anyway, we''d get spanked.\ \ Actions have consequences and we always had a choice to make.\ \ We were never spanked after grade school, but we were well behaved by then.\ \ Crying about bullshit would also result in a spanking if we didn''t cut it out when told to.\ \ We were a drama-free household.
Love my parents to death
OK, sorry some of you were abused. I wasn''t ever by parents, so i can see it as kinky fun between consenting adults.\ \ This is gonna sound so pervy, but it really happened (in the 1970s, Midwest small town):\ \ My high school wrestling coach was also the wood shop instructor; a totally hot slim daddy.\ \ Last day of school, senior year, I''d finally accepted being gay and had an on-again/off -again romance with a fellow wrestler and wood shop classmate dork.\ \ Someone had snuck in water pistols at school, and a sort of water gun war broke out in the halls. My sorta-BF/ex squirted me and coach/teach lined him up for the always-threatened, rarely used paddle (carved by a student and hung up as a trophy in the classroom).\ \ Before he "paddled" him, I asked coach/teach how many swats his squirting me was worth. "One," he said.\ \ "How many for this?" I asked, and squirted him in the face, twice.\ \ I got three sound whacks on my ass in front of the whole cheering class of guys, and got a boner in my jeans.\ \ Thanks, Coach!
good for you - you proved yourself a man among men.
My dad spanked us, my mom beat us. Guess which one I''m closer to?\ \ Which reminds me, I''ve already bought presents for my dad and stepmom...maybe I should work on my mom''s gift...
I was just spanked a few hours ago
R99 I can assure you it wasn''t hot to me. It was embarrassing, though since the entire "demonstration" took place in the living room, in front of the relative.