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Do you play with your own nipples during sex?

Be honest!

by Anonymousreply 131January 17, 2020 5:07 AM

For some reason, my nipples have no sensation whatsoever.

by Anonymousreply 1December 7, 2010 3:32 AM

Gay male here. My nipples feel nothing. I let the other guy kiss and suck them, but honestly, I feel nothing whatsoever.

by Anonymousreply 2December 7, 2010 3:37 AM

Nipple play gets me OFF. I'm a woman.

by Anonymousreply 3December 7, 2010 3:40 AM

Sucking my nipples is like sucking the back of my hand. No sensation at all.

by Anonymousreply 4December 7, 2010 5:47 AM

[quote]Sucking my nipples is like sucking the back of my hand.

I love not just having my nipple (only my left one) licked, but my thumb (either one) sucked.

by Anonymousreply 5December 7, 2010 5:51 AM

Are u serious r5? I thought I was the only person on the planet who liked their hands sucked on lol

by Anonymousreply 6December 7, 2010 6:01 AM

Mine have n sensation. If someone plays with them during sex it usually hurts.

by Anonymousreply 7December 7, 2010 6:05 AM

I just fucked a guy this past Friday night who was obsessed with his own nipples. He wanted me to bite them, which I did, because that's about the only thing that truly gets him off (to his credit, he did inform me of this before we ever got to his bedroom).

by Anonymousreply 8December 7, 2010 6:16 AM

That's weird, r7, I'm a left-nipple person, too. Sucking my left nipple is like sucking my cock.

by Anonymousreply 9December 7, 2010 6:17 AM

My nips are as erogenous as my cock, and more reliable.

by Anonymousreply 10December 7, 2010 7:39 AM

I was on a date with a guy once, sitting in a bar watching a drag show. I had my arm around him and of course my hand was laying on his chest. I started simply rubbing his chest in a tender, sweet way, not sexual at all, playing my fingers across his left nipple gently, almost absent-mindedly. And he came in his pants....I was kind of shocked, I wasn't even trying to be sexual. I guess he was embarrassed, because he left pretty soon after and never returned my phone calls. Meanwhile, you could suck on my nipples all night and NOTHING. I guess everyone is wired differently.

by Anonymousreply 11December 7, 2010 8:08 AM

R11. How did you know he came in his pants? Did his body start convulsing, or did you see a wet spot on his crotch?

by Anonymousreply 12December 7, 2010 9:51 AM

Both actually R12....all of a sudden he tensed up, a stain appeared on his pants (khakis), he looked at me and said "happy now?" and went to the restroom. When he came back he said "I should go" and I never heard from him again.

by Anonymousreply 13December 7, 2010 10:21 AM

R11. In the course of you gently rubbing his nipples, did he try and get you to stop so that he wouldn't cum?%0D %0D I mean, he must have felt an orgasm potentially coming on even if you were unaware that gently rubbing his nipples was going to cause him to squirt.

by Anonymousreply 14December 7, 2010 10:46 AM

Gently rubbing my left nipple - YESSS!

by Anonymousreply 15December 7, 2010 11:12 AM

dead nips here but love guys that like theirs played with.

by Anonymousreply 16December 7, 2010 11:30 AM

I've cum from working my nipples. Nipple play is extremely erotic and intense and has become an absolutely essential part of sex for me.

by Anonymousreply 17December 7, 2010 11:46 AM

Gay man here with very sensitive nipples. I can cum just from nipple stimulation. I am also into playing with other nips too.

by Anonymousreply 18December 7, 2010 12:33 PM

That is so hot, R11. I thought only women's nipples were that sensitive.

by Anonymousreply 19December 7, 2010 1:03 PM

Even when alone you can get nipple-sucking sensations while jacking by using the suction cups from a snake-bite kit. Don't do it too often or your nipples will get bigger.

by Anonymousreply 20December 7, 2010 1:58 PM

I do it even when I'm not having sex!

by Anonymousreply 21December 7, 2010 2:23 PM

snake bite kit? wtf?

by Anonymousreply 22December 7, 2010 2:30 PM

Mine are hard wired right to my crotch. A breeze lows and I'm up. Mine are also independent. I can have one nipple hard and the other not and vice versa. Never asked anyone if that is normal or not.

by Anonymousreply 23December 7, 2010 2:58 PM

Wow - r23!

I always say my nipples are "hard-wired to my crotch." Nipple play makes be raging hard and puts my pre-cum production into overdrive. Love when a guy pays attention to my nipples. Most are fascinated and turned on by my response. Only time I play with them is if the guy I'm with is kind of boring in bed and I need to enhance arousal. Interestingly, I never play with my nipples when I jerk off.

by Anonymousreply 24December 7, 2010 4:39 PM

My ex would go crazy if I went near his nipples. He would beg me to stop or he would cum on the spot!

by Anonymousreply 25December 7, 2010 5:22 PM

Like r23 and r24, my nipples are directly wired to my crotch. They are the surest way to get me raging hard and horny. And I love it.

by Anonymousreply 26December 7, 2010 5:26 PM

Stupid OP. That's what personal assistants are for. %0D %0D I said HARDER, bitch!

by Anonymousreply 27December 7, 2010 5:27 PM

Those of you with sensitive nips, are they big or do you have large areolas?

by Anonymousreply 28December 7, 2010 5:35 PM

Mine are completely average in size if marvelous in function, R28.

by Anonymousreply 29December 7, 2010 5:39 PM

R28, mine are biggish...the areolas aren't large, but the nipple itself is kind of long and thick.

by Anonymousreply 30December 8, 2010 12:05 AM

OP you are so creepy. UGH

by Anonymousreply 31December 8, 2010 12:08 AM

I make sure the guy knows what to do by moving his hands to my nipples while he sucks my dick.

by Anonymousreply 32December 22, 2010 3:56 PM

I once almost came from having a guy suck my nipples. I say almost came because I was so embarrassed I made him stop before I made it all the way.

by Anonymousreply 33December 22, 2010 4:03 PM

I enjoy playing with other guys' nips, but I feel nothing at all. In fact, if a guy tries to pinch my nips at a bar, I'll slap his hand away.

by Anonymousreply 34December 22, 2010 4:04 PM

I think I already posted in this thread about my extremely sensitive nipples. I really want my partners to have at least some sensitivity in their nipples as well, though... I want to be with someone who understands what I'm feeling when I get touched there. It can actually be a deal-breaker if I'm sucking on or rubbing some guy's tits, and he either rolls his eyes or looks completely nonplussed.

by Anonymousreply 35December 22, 2010 6:26 PM

It so weird that some men feel nothing and others are practically orgasmic from nipple stimulation. I wonder why. Don't we all have the same nerves in that area?

by Anonymousreply 36December 22, 2010 6:31 PM

It's the same for women, R36. I'm a lesbian and I've had some partners who could come just from nipple play, some for whom it did nothing.

by Anonymousreply 37December 22, 2010 6:36 PM

Some men actually develop a little bit of tissue there during puberty, R36 - the same kind of tissue that women develop, albeit completely. That tissue is [italic]highly[/italic] innervated, and those men who didn't develop the tissue have comparatively 'dead' nipples. I liken it to the cut vs. uncut difference.

by Anonymousreply 38December 22, 2010 6:38 PM

I wonder how common it is for women to not get off on nipple play, R37? I get the feeling that it's actually pretty common for women to enjoy having their nipples played with. My own experiences suggest that it's more of a 60-20-20 split with men... 60% don't get anything from it, another 20% find it pleasurable, and the remaining 20% goes wild over it.

by Anonymousreply 39December 22, 2010 6:52 PM

No, but I do suck my own cock while I'm being fucked.

by Anonymousreply 40December 22, 2010 7:04 PM

Straight girl here...most men are so clumsy with nipple play that it is uncomfortable, especially during sex. I do like my breasts being massaged and rubbed.

by Anonymousreply 41December 23, 2010 7:04 AM

OP, if you play with your nipples you are a woman.

by Anonymousreply 42December 23, 2010 4:21 PM

R40, can I date you?

by Anonymousreply 43December 23, 2010 4:24 PM

Someone's got to.

by Anonymousreply 44December 23, 2010 4:33 PM

[quote]It so weird that some men feel nothing and others are practically orgasmic from nipple stimulation. I wonder why. %0D %0D It can be developed. Start by gently working your own nipples when jacking-off. After awhile, they'll start to get wired to your cock.

by Anonymousreply 45December 23, 2010 4:34 PM

In classic DL fashion: "This threasd is making me HORNY AS HELL!"%0D %0D The old-timers will get my drift.

by Anonymousreply 46December 25, 2010 4:14 AM

I'm a guy with relatively small nipples, but they too are 'hard-wired' to my cock. I love having them played with and sucked on.

by Anonymousreply 47December 25, 2010 7:01 AM

It seems lots of us are into nipples so why are generally ignored in porn? One lick and they are off to the dick.

by Anonymousreply 48December 29, 2010 8:27 PM

My partner usually does but, yeah, if I'm masturbating. Sure.

by Anonymousreply 49December 29, 2010 8:39 PM

Hard wired here too. Can't get enough.

by Anonymousreply 50December 29, 2010 8:56 PM

So strangle, I feel nothing at all in my nipple area. Its like touching my elbow. I have nice pecs too!

by Anonymousreply 51December 29, 2010 11:46 PM

[quote]I have nice pecs too!

We will need pics to verify this.

by Anonymousreply 52December 29, 2010 11:54 PM

[quote]I have nice pecs too!%0D %0D Are you in the "Big pecs that jut out" thread?

by Anonymousreply 53December 30, 2010 12:00 AM

I was talking about this with my bf a couple days ago. He's always had very sensitive nips and tweaking them during sex is a must. I've never objected to having my nipples played with but have never found it particularly stimulating. I took a nipple ring out a couple months ago (had it for 16 years) and now all of a sudden my nips, particularly my left one, are more sensitive than they've ever been. I wonder if it's something that can develop as you age - I seem to notice a higher proportion of nipple-tweakers among older guys (in porn anyway).

by Anonymousreply 54December 30, 2010 12:52 AM

[quote]I took a nipple ring out a couple months ago (had it for 16 years

gross

by Anonymousreply 55December 30, 2010 1:41 AM

[quote]I took a nipple ring out %0D %0D Took it out of your nipple or took it out of a drawer and insereted it in your nipple?

by Anonymousreply 56March 22, 2011 5:43 PM

Anyone use clothespins?

by Anonymousreply 57March 31, 2011 8:21 PM

I had NO sensation in mine until I was about 25, when I played around with a fantastic top-daddy type who would NOT leave my nipples alone -- they were painful and tender for a couple of days afterwards.

But ever since that night, my nips have been hard-wired. It's an erogenous zone that I think more guys have than they may realize.

Just whale on them a bit to wake them up!

by Anonymousreply 58March 31, 2011 8:28 PM

I agree r58

by Anonymousreply 59May 24, 2011 4:31 PM

Mine are completely hardwired and always have been. They aren't big but they are thick and get hard instantly. If mine aren't worked, it's like ignoring my dick during sex.%0D %0D When we are all embryos - basically sexless - we have the same wiring as women. There is a chemical released when nipples are stimulated - and it IS connected to the pelvic area. Sometimes women's nipples are stimulated to induce labor.%0D %0D So, I assume, some men's nipples get more developed and retain some of the original functions for why we have nipples in the first place.%0D %0D I've cum many times from just nipple play. I can't get enough and if my partner isn't interested in them, I lose interest in sex.

by Anonymousreply 60May 24, 2011 4:44 PM

"When we are all embryos - basically sexless "

No, actually basically female.

And biologically.

by Anonymousreply 61May 24, 2011 9:26 PM

r61 - I stand corrected.

by Anonymousreply 62May 24, 2011 9:45 PM

"This threasd is making me HORNY AS HELL!"%0D %0D %0D It happens every time it pops back to page 1.

by Anonymousreply 63June 1, 2011 6:10 PM

There was something very bizarre on Tosh.0 about nipples last night.

by Anonymousreply 64June 1, 2011 6:15 PM

Oxytocin is released when you stimulate your nips which is a drug-like effect on your body. Also creates the sense of bonding with whomever you are with.%0D %0D I can't keep my hands off my own nips.

by Anonymousreply 65June 1, 2011 6:16 PM

"Frequently" is winning.

by Anonymousreply 66November 25, 2011 4:49 PM

Frequently is still ahead.

by Anonymousreply 67March 10, 2012 4:06 AM

I feel sorry for men with dead nipples.

by Anonymousreply 68March 10, 2012 9:54 AM

My nipples only get hard when I go to the bathroom.

by Anonymousreply 69March 10, 2012 9:55 AM

All that I have ever gotten out of someone playing with my nipples is the inference that he'd like his played with. Oh, and sometimes sore nipples.

by Anonymousreply 70March 10, 2012 11:05 AM

[quote]If mine aren't worked, it's like ignoring my dick during sex.

That's the way I am too. Such a letdown when you get with a nipple-ignorant guy; you guide his hand to your nipple, he flicks it once or twice and then never goes back. It's like uggggghhh, this is not going to be great.

On the other hand, it's so fun getting with a guy who likes it as much as you do -- seeing him light up when you start working his nipples like you know what you're doing and intend to keep going. It kicks the hotness & bond between you way up.

FWIW, my nipples are average in size but look perkily erect all the time. They don't stick way out like eraser tips but you can usually see the points through a polo shirt or t-shirt.

by Anonymousreply 71March 10, 2012 11:41 AM

Of course. Why would I stop playing with them just because I was having sex?

by Anonymousreply 72March 17, 2012 3:13 AM

No, I hate my nipples played with, but I'm sure that will change when I get older. Whenever I hook up with a 20-something year old, they don't like their nipples played with. Only times anyone has ever brought nipples into sex in when I've been with an older daddy type.

I had one that kept playing with mine and I hated it. I'm guessing they'll be more sensitive when I'm older...

by Anonymousreply 73March 17, 2012 3:22 AM

Are you the freaks I see putting clamps on their nipples trying to stretch them out? That always freaks me out. Why would a man want big ol' Amazonian National Geographic tits?

by Anonymousreply 74March 17, 2012 3:26 AM

I voted sometimes, but my real answer would be once or twice.

by Anonymousreply 75March 17, 2012 3:58 AM

Charlie knows a celeb who plays with his own nipples. Ask him to drop the name.

by Anonymousreply 76March 18, 2012 1:56 AM

Frequently is the clear winner.

by Anonymousreply 77March 18, 2012 5:36 PM

Every day for a week he would try to feel my nipples, feel my nipples

after class

Every day for a week he would try to rub against me, rub against me

grab my ass

But I felt nothing. I'm feeling nothing.

And he said nothing could get a girl transferred....

by Anonymousreply 78March 18, 2012 5:46 PM

I am guI am a guy and love to play with my nipples. They have a lot of sensation in them. I also love them sucked on and I as well love to suck on nipples, my fav thing to do. I thing women are very lucky to be able to do that to themselves if they would want to

by Anonymousreply 79March 23, 2012 12:20 PM

i love having my nipples played with and sometime orgasm for that alone. Also i wear suction cups to encourage nipple growth and sensitivity.

by Anonymousreply 80April 20, 2012 4:50 PM

I love having my nipples sucked on. I can come that way.

by Anonymousreply 81April 24, 2012 6:24 AM

Chung Ho like the chest to play with.

by Anonymousreply 82April 24, 2012 9:01 AM

yes i love it even when i look at them i am aroused do you believe it

by Anonymousreply 83July 18, 2012 7:38 AM

Chick here, with huge boobs which developed VERY early (age 8).

I get NOTHING out of nipple stimulation.

It's mostly just boring, but if the guy continues (you all know how str8 guys are usually obsessed with tits), it gets annoying.

Like, hello, there's a lot more of me to pay attention to! Lick elsewhere!

by Anonymousreply 84July 18, 2012 7:54 AM

I love it. I wish I could find someone who likes it. Black guys like it more than white ones

by Anonymousreply 85July 18, 2012 7:57 AM

My fuck buddy was a black muscle boy hunk with unreal pecs he loved his nipples sucked and pulled. He even got bolts put in both of em. Just do not touch mine.

by Anonymousreply 86July 18, 2012 8:02 AM

Often, after my Wednesday morning bridge game along with after my tennis at the club

by Anonymousreply 87July 21, 2012 4:45 AM

Looking in the adult toy section at Amazon, they have a lot of nipple suckers so a lot of people must be into nipple play.

by Anonymousreply 88July 21, 2012 1:48 PM

Love it getting them sucked hard while wanking is almost an orgasim in itself!

by Anonymousreply 89August 27, 2012 9:24 AM

The minute you suck on em I cum and cum and cum

by Anonymousreply 90August 27, 2012 10:42 AM

dead nips here, no feeling at all

by Anonymousreply 91August 27, 2012 10:48 AM

A lot of Asian girls have sensitive nips and seems they love getting licked, and played them. Maybe only girls that I encountered...

by Anonymousreply 92November 16, 2012 1:55 PM

Asian lads as well.

And nipples do seem to get a lot more attention in Asian porn . . particularly Japanese.

by Anonymousreply 93March 28, 2013 11:25 PM

It doesn't feel anywhere near as hot as if someone else is doing it.

My BF does this amazing thing where he is twisting and pulling both my nipples and my balls to while he sucks me. Once he gets doing that I cum in seconds.

by Anonymousreply 94March 29, 2013 12:00 AM

My nipples are barely sensitive, but the slight sensations drive me crazy.

by Anonymousreply 95March 29, 2013 12:09 AM

I kind of get creeped out if a guy starts playing with his nips. I do t like it at all, and my nips have no sensation at all. No nip play for me. Turnoff.

by Anonymousreply 96March 29, 2013 12:11 AM

Absolutely, Gets me to precum, lots

by Anonymousreply 97March 29, 2013 12:13 AM

To those of you with pierced nips: Are they hard all the time? Is it arousing?

by Anonymousreply 98March 29, 2013 12:14 AM

I had dead nipples, very flat. I had them pierced for around ten years, but haven't worn anything in them for over five years, but finally, they are so sensitive, I get a milder version of when my BF is playing with my cock.

If he is working my cock and then starts on my nipples too, I come faster, further, thicker and harder too.

by Anonymousreply 99March 29, 2013 12:34 AM

Both my nipples are pierced and they are like horny buttons for me. I am bi sexual and but I like when my wife plays with them most especially in the morning. But I play with them all the time and if I am with a guy usually playing with my nips is the fastest way to get me in my knees!

by Anonymousreply 100July 8, 2013 2:25 PM

I don't have enough hands

by Anonymousreply 101July 8, 2013 2:31 PM

Never, they are unresponsive. I like to play with yours but would rather you left mine alone

by Anonymousreply 102July 8, 2013 2:46 PM

I like in porn when the bottom is in missionary and he plays with the tops nipples as they fuck, so hot!

by Anonymousreply 103July 8, 2013 2:53 PM

I wish Dave Franco would take this up another step.

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by Anonymousreply 104July 8, 2013 3:47 PM

no

by Anonymousreply 105July 8, 2013 3:50 PM

Dave is a little nipple freak.

by Anonymousreply 106July 8, 2013 3:53 PM

Dave is hot!

by Anonymousreply 107July 10, 2013 10:44 PM

Male here. I have super sensitive nips. I hate it. A buddy can jokingly pinch my nipple over my shirt (as guys do when they're horsing around) and my dick will instantly start to swell up in my pants. They don't know this, and I'll have to sit down or pretend to tie my shoe till the feeling passes and the boner deflates! It's been rather inconvenient.

additionally, they're so sensitive that they hurt if my shirt rubs against them. They start burning. i've had to put band aids over them at times.

by Anonymousreply 108July 10, 2013 11:01 PM

And I wish Jensen Ackles would take THIS up another notch.

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by Anonymousreply 109July 10, 2013 11:01 PM

r11, did you ever think it was the drag queen that got your date off rather than your nipple caresses?

by Anonymousreply 110July 10, 2013 11:15 PM

Yes. Especially when it's just me, myself, and I. My nips are hardwired to my cock. The left one brings me pleasure, the right one, pain. Each gets me much harder than I would get otherwise, and the right one gets me a little bit precummier.

by Anonymousreply 111July 10, 2013 11:18 PM

Um No

by Anonymousreply 112July 10, 2013 11:21 PM

If I only had two more hands...

by Anonymousreply 113July 10, 2013 11:55 PM

Mine are wired strangely, I think. They're very sensitive - and I don't like them being "tweaked" unless it is directly in relation to sex.

My partner tries to tweak them all the time - and I'm always swatting him away - because I just don't like it. He, of course, takes it very personally.

But once we're actually having sex -then YES, they are 'hardwired to my cock' as everyone here is saying - and it definitely contributes to the arousal and orgasm.

by Anonymousreply 114July 11, 2013 3:29 AM

Pinching and pulling my nipples when I jack off makes my orgasm much more powerful. Any reason for this?

by Anonymousreply 115July 11, 2013 3:33 AM

I lick them

by Anonymousreply 116July 11, 2013 3:37 AM

A shorter and very hung guy I've been dating likes to fuck me while licking and suckling my nips. Don't even need to touch my cock to cum.

by Anonymousreply 117July 11, 2013 4:02 AM

My leftnip is my fave toy....

by Anonymousreply 118July 11, 2013 4:06 AM

"Frequently" is way ahead of the others.

by Anonymousreply 119July 12, 2013 11:13 PM

[quote]My partner tries to tweak them all the time - and I'm always swatting him away - because I just don't like it. He, of course, takes it very personally.

Swatting out his dental implant would be a reason for him to take it personally.

by Anonymousreply 120July 13, 2013 3:17 PM

Less than 20% for the "never" option.

by Anonymousreply 121July 15, 2013 4:08 PM

If it matters, I can cum just by either my wife or myself playing with either of my nipples. It takes a bit longer that a BJ or straight sex, but not much longer, and can be just as intense or even more so.

by Anonymousreply 122January 16, 2014 12:45 AM

Tell us more, R122.

by Anonymousreply 123January 16, 2014 3:55 AM

Oh God, Yes ! My nipples are hardwired straight to my cunt.

by Anonymousreply 124January 16, 2014 5:57 AM

Numb nips here. I'm jealous, it sounds like a lot of fun, but it just does nothing for me.

Can come from having my neck sucked/bitten, however.

by Anonymousreply 125January 18, 2014 10:16 AM

when I was in hig school my buddy and I were watching television. He was sitting behind me massaging my sholuder that I'd hurt earlier in the day playing basketball. After a while his hands move to my chest where he began playing with my nipples. I have always had prominet nipples. To make a long story short after about 10 mins I shot a load in my underwear. I have enjoyed nipple paly every since.

by Anonymousreply 126January 21, 2014 8:58 PM

I don’t.

by Anonymousreply 127January 17, 2020 3:46 AM

It wasn’t until I was 27 that my nipples became sensitive. Now I ALWAYS play with them during sex! Even better when it’s cold and they’re hard.

by Anonymousreply 128January 17, 2020 3:50 AM

I use nipple clamps or clothes pins and generally get a hard-on. If I want to cum, I turn up the pressure until it becomes somewhat painful, and there you go! I also read that the nipple nerves connect in the brain in the same spot where genital nerves connect and that's where the signal is sent from to ejaculate. Teamwork!

by Anonymousreply 129January 17, 2020 4:10 AM

It wouldn't be worth it if I didn't. There's no reason to continue living if your nips aren't hardwired.

by Anonymousreply 130January 17, 2020 4:34 AM

My pansexual bf "tortures" my nipples for $, but I have to remind him all the time to do what he's getting paid for. He basically has lazy, indifferent fingers.

by Anonymousreply 131January 17, 2020 5:07 AM
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