Why Do People Sum Up A Guy''s "Size" When He Isn''t Erect?

I notice that a lot of people do this. They see a flaccid penis, and they instantly categorize it as small, or in DL terminology: "tinymeat". You don''t know how big a guy is until he''s fully hard. Are women just clueless to this phenomenon? Grower, not a shower, people?\ \ Has anyone been with a guy who was small when soft, but grew ginormous when erect?

• Because most penises don''t grow all that much when erect. They grow some--but not hugely.

• Nonsense, R1

• Paint it blue and tell people it''s a Tardis, OP.

• meet a true grower sometime - and WOW

• [quote] Has anyone been with a guy who was small when soft, but grew ginormous when erect?\ \ No, because as r1 said, it doesn''t happen. Tiny ones never even get normal sized erect.

• R2...R1 is right.

• Yes they do grow - a lot.

• My dick is about the same size as my BF when flaccid. Hell, mine might even be a little bigger.\ \ Erect, mine is about 6", while he is 2" longer and so thick I can''t touch my forefinger to my thumb without squeezing really hard.\ \ (damn, I can''t wait for him to return home Monday from his trip with his dad- just typing this made me horny as hell)

• Medium dicks can grow a lot. Tiny and giant dicks rarely grow much.

• OP = bitter tinymeat who''s been the butt of one too many jokes.

• I am 6 inches soft, 8 inches erect....I suspect people think it''s going to be a lot larger when erect. Don''t get me wrong, I am big enough, but sometimes I wish it grew a little more

• Mine pretty much looks like an acorn when soft, but gets to about 6.5" when erect.

• Oh poor you, R11

• Sure it does, R12. I bet it looks like 2 acorns when erect.

• r9 is correct.

• Mine looks like an osage orange.

• I used to hook up with this guy who was very tiny when soft I could swallow it whole and almost massage it with my throat. It grew to almost 8 inches before he came. The funny thing is he never acted like someone with a small cock. He never jerked himself like he wanted it to be bigger before he allowed me to see it. I really liked his attitude.

• Fuck off R14: Your lack of personal experience is showing. I''m the same as R12; it looks like an acorn when soft, but it grows to 6" when hard

• i think this is common for womenfolk. they just don''t get it.

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• probably because the size of a penis when flaccid, and not just when it is erect, is also important to some size queens, OP. sex often begins with the cock in a soft or semi-soft state and at that state one wants to be turned on, and if one is a size queen one is going to be more turned on if one''s partner''s cock is sizable. \ \ my question is why such an obvious notion was so difficult for you to figure out. I''m not a size queen but I certainly think a large flaccid penis can be quite enticing.

• In the real world, OP, men aren''t walking around with their cocks out sporting massive erections. Ergo, they are judged on their flaccid cocks because that is the state their cocks are generally in.\ \ It''s not some vast conspiracy to make you look bad. Get over yourself and your tiny flaccid cock.

• cockbump

• [quote]You don''t know how big a guy is until he''s fully hard.%0D\ %0D\ True, but a "ginormous" soft cock holds out more promise than a tiny soft cock. The former is the better bet for even if it expands hardly at all, the end result is at least passable. The latter, however, requires an act of Christian faith, a belief in angels and miracles and transubstantiation (or maybe a winning smile, a winning personaility, or a winning bank account.) The latter prospect offers the most room for disappointment.

• This is why most American actors don''t do nude scenes. Even though a flaccid penis is in no way any indication of someone''s erect penis size, people, are still hung up on it.

• My dick is unimpressive flaccid, maybe three inches. Erect it''s 8 inches thick. It''s given plenty of men happiness.

• That is not true R9. Masters and Johnson found that smaller to medium penises great proportionately more than medium to large penises. There is such a thing as a "grower;" however, not all small ones are growers. Also there are some big ones that are growers. But, as a rule, smaller ones tend to grow more than bigger ones (sometimes about 3X the original length).

  Behavioral sex researcher

• Big flaccid dicks sometimes don''t grow too much larger when erect, which can be a little disappointing.

• [quote]Big flaccid dicks sometimes don''t grow too much larger when erect, which can be a little disappointing.%0D\ %0D\ But not half as disappointing as a nubbin that swells mightily to become a Vienna sausage.%0D

• I''m a niblet flaccid, but massive when erect.%0D\ %0D\ If you want a comparison, you could say I go from Jonny Quest to Race Bannon.

• R29 is full of shit and OP needs to quit whining. I''m not huge, but there''s no way that someone goes from 2 inches to 10 inches---as some of you would have us believe.

• There was a British TV series earlier this year designed to teach high school kids about sex education, and they showed photos of the same penises both soft and hard, to show the differences between the two states and the differences between different dicks. It was pretty surprising. One of the smaller ones grew a lot, and the bigger one not much at all.

• I''m sensing a lot of disgruntled princess tinymeats in this thread.

• I can be as little as three inches flaccid and as hard as a touch over seven when really turned on so, yes, growers can really grow.

  Anonymous

• Some people here (like r1) obviously haven't dealt with many penises.

• This thread is useless without pics.

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• The average American erect penis is 5.1 inches. Yeah, I know you say that you're 7, but you're not.

• The flaccid size can vary a lot just based on the health of your cardiovascular system.

• I'd much rather have a big flaccid penis than a big erect penis. By the time it's erect, the deal's been sealed. But i'd prance all over that locker room with my big one swinging, were it were true.

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