I think a lot of gay men have the false notion that fucking another dude is some sort of a masculine thing. It isn''t.
Wasn''t Paul Lynde a top
Liberace was supposedly a raging top. "Queen in the streets, top in the sheets" we used to say.
yes, get over the stereotypical internalized heteromania.\
there are nelly tops; there are even nelly straight guys.\
just like there are butch bottoms, and butch gay guys.\
when are we going to get beyond the 1955 sexual presumptions, people!
I get so tired of the treatment of bottoms in our community. The bullying and the disrespect really has to stop. A person isn''t a slut or a whore because he likes to get fucked. He also doesn''t want to be a woman or is always effeminate. %0D\
On the reverse side, people really need to stop putting top on a pedestal. They aren''t always perfect.
Why would they ever be tops? The whole Nelly Queen routine, is one big ongoing commercial to attract tops.
A friend of mine always said if you want to get a good fucking, get a nelly hairdresser.\
Now he is with a nelly hairdresser.
[quote]I get so tired of the treatment of bottoms in our community. The bullying and the disrespect really has to stop.%0D\
LOL! And just how are the bottoms weeded from the gay masses for treatment? Anyone stupid enough to define themselves by the position they assume under the sheets fully deserves total disrespect. Seriously,
"The whole Nelly Queen routine, is one big ongoing commercial to attract tops."%0D\
Wrong. There are definitely nelly tops. Liberace was one of them.%0D
I generally find that the gay men who have the most exaggerated masculine look are the biggest bottoms -- they look like they do because they are obsessed with masculinity. This is most obvious in the leather and bodybuilding scenes but is true elsewhere as well. So I suppose in a strange way it might make sense that very nelly men are tops.
I know a VERY effeminate dude who is a total top. he weighs like 130 soaking wet and is extremely fussy and fem.
Nelly = top. Butch = bottom.
r15 is a big ole M.A.R.Y.
Chris Colfer is a top.
Richard Simmons is a brutal top from what I heard.
I''m a big old girl, but when a hot piece of ass sees my 12 inch hard dick and wants it buried up his mussy, pounding away at him til he comes a river, who am I to refuse him the ride of his life!
It is cognitive dissonance
I think the Nelly Top is an urban myth, like the "most crossdressers are straight".
Trust me, Liberace was not a strict top. Not even close. A dear friend of mine hooked up with Lib back in the early '70s. I know this for a fact because I was in the next room while their liaison was occurring. Liberace was a voracious power bottom. I don't know who started that 'top' story, but I know for a fact that it's not true.
Chris Crocker [the "leave Britney alone!" queen] always insisted he was/is a strict top.
I agree with R27, it's cognitive dissonance at its finest.
R34 I saw one of his porno vids that would beg to differ with his "strict top" declaration. He seemed more than willing to take that old man's wee-wee up his poo-poo.
Why would a bottom let an effem dude top him?
Because he like when the man go up into the man.
That drag queen is fabulous. He looks butch and imposing regardless of the act so I'm not surprised.
dude, that is just gross.
Man that drag queen at R39 and R40 has a BEAUTIFUL ripped and muscled body, and a huge dick!!!
Who would want a fem on top of them?
r44, Im guessing a lot of people would want r40/r39 on top of them, he fucks better than most of the "masculine" dudes out there!
I often find that the butchest looking men are total bottoms.
[quote]I often find that the butchest looking men are total bottoms.
Lets cut to the chase, what you are really asking is whole likes nelly sex partners.
Top or bottom we all love masculine men. I think we all gravitate to what we see is equal or better to the level of masculinity we see our self as.
I know, shallow, but its true.
There is not exactly a plethora nelly tops in the porn industry is there? Only in the oddity section of the click list.
Why there is more people into scat then that.
Of course, r48. I think "masculine" is the most used word in male-male profiles and ads, according to studies.
It just depends on the person. I find it impossible to act in a stereotypical masculine way, I look masculine but act stereotypically homosexual, I just can't help it. Trying to act masculine makes me feel ridiculous.
The Hall Monitor in the Game of Thrones threads exemplifies what happens when nelly queens try to top.
Dressed as a Lannister, no less.
omg I would let r40 dick me down after each of his drag shows, damn!
Why would a guy let a fem top him?
There is this guy who works at my local supermarket who is a hard core nelly. His eyebrows are waxed and shaped like some 1930s starlet and one time I saw him smoking outside the store holding the cigarette high between two fingers. He has a profile on A4A and under the name MizzMike or something like that. Surprisingly though, his profile says he is a top. Its true what they say: you cant judge a book by its cover.
I love the term blouse, that said my dick can't get hard for one nor will my ass open up for one.
Miss Matinga could open you up. Are you ok with Crisco?
[quote]Why would a guy let a fem top him?
It depends on
a. how fem
b. how good looking
Most of the people mentioned in this thread are monsters no one would even consider in the first place, it really is TMI.. I don't want to know that shit. But if it's absolute Richard Simmons flamerville, never.
[quote]Why would a guy let a fem top him?
Cute, sweet, big dick. Why not? Some of us aren't so twisted with internalized homophobia that we get caught up in shit like this. We like people for people and sex because it's FUN.
Let a thousand flowers bloom, I always say.
I love being topped, I frankly don't care who does it
What about masculine dudes who are bottoms?
So true! The ones who look like something from Tom of Finland or try to look hyper masculine are the biggest bottoms.
I like to be topped by a large transvestite myself. Something like a Chi Chi La Rue type. OOh, I don't care that its dick is little nor that it sports man boobs. All I care about is that I'm properly enthralled. Long after he/she/it has tried to entertain me with its wit, I'll always have that yummy memory of a big fleshy fruitcake pounding away at me !
aren't most tops still gay nelly queens underneath it all?
[quote]Jesus Christ...why is it that I have to be nelly just to enjoy getting fucked? That is one stigma I abhor! Mary!
The OP wasn't doubting if there are butch bottoms.
I especially love the big muscular toads who swish and sashay. They make me laugh because they look so ridiculous walking like queens with their big muscles
The word "nelly" is archaic and lost on most people today.
The queeniest guy I ever met and a trans guy with boobs I knew were both tops.