It has to be different from a man''s. For one thing, women can orgasm over and over and over again. Men can only manage it once -- usually. Also, men get to shoot semen, signifying their orgasm. Women don''t. So when they orgasm, what does the release feel like? Do you just contract and that''s it?\
Inquiring fag wants to know!
Oh god! Oh god! Oh god!
The angels sing. The earth moves. You reach an entirely new plane of consciousness which is frequently accompanied by surreal visions and speaking in tongues. When the crashing waves of unbearable pleasure finally wind down, your body feels like a dishrag, and you are incapable of anything more than merely falling into a deep and delicious slumber.%0D\
Alternatively, you look at the ceiling, say "Ohgodohgodohgod" for a while, pant heavily, and wonder if the sale at Bergdorf''s is still going on.
OP, there''s no reason it has to feel different than a man''s. Physiologically it has many similarities. The ass contracts, the nipples harden, the body often shakes, etc.\
And, as you''ve mentioned, there are men, myself included, who are multiorgasmic. \
In any event, as there''s no one alive who can compare the two from a personal perspective - I don''t think transgender folks could prove your point as the science of transitioning is not sufficiently advanced - what answer do you hope to get from anyone.?\
Of course you can get descriptions of orgasmic experiences from women . But I doubt they''d tell you anything that would contrast with our experience as men.
The only thing I would offer is that the orgasms I experience with penetration are different than those experienced without. Of course women, like men, are capable of having orgasms with and without penetration too.
It''s like someone hitting your insides with a frying pan repeatedly at 2 in the morning and screaming ''I HAVE STATED MY BOUNDARIES!!!''
typical DL - men pretending to know about a woman''s unique experience.
How should we know?
Why do women scream so much and make such animal sounds leading up to their orgasm then all hell breaks loose?%0D\
Really, if it were physiologically similar, men would be screaming leading up to their orgasms too.
Another thead started to bash women. What a surprise.
r7 has been watching too much porn.
R7- My own experience when being fucked by a man is that I''m hot(sometimes), want to be pounded, and am not in control as a bottom- so I moan and scream for more.\
As a ''top'' with a woman, I am in control of my orgasm. I''m grinding, and fucking, and don''t need to make noise to get someone else to push me over the edge- I can do it- although she can make me come quicker by playing with my nipples.
I can''t even believe I posted this
R7, as a lesbian, it really turns me on when a woman makes some noise. Plus, it helps you know whether you''re doing a good job or not. \
I have wondered just how different a man''s orgasm is from a woman''s. I imagine it''s more intense. It''s got to be, because men are so driven to stick their dicks in something. I mean, isn''t it a near-constant thought for a lot of guys? \
I don''t know about all women but I''ve known some who are multi-orgasmic. I can be. One orgasm often seems to build more muscular tension than it relieves. And an orgasm, to me, never feels like the end. I could go on and on most times. \
Can some guys describe what an orgasm feels like to them? TIA!
"...although she can make me come quicker by playing with my nipples."%0D\
That''s an extra $20
It''s a near-constant thought for some women, too, especially those of us who are lucky enough to be easily orgasmic. I love sex, can''t get enough of it. I can''t imagine an average guy being any hornier than I am.
Proud Multi-Orgasmic Slut
R13, are you straight? You sound straight.
Really? No, I''m not straight, although I have had sex with men.
can only straight women be sluts?
I''d love to find out, too :/
She makes the same sounds when she receives a really expensive Christmas gift.
I asked a woman friend in college, back in 1976...(Hi Loren!) She and I played pinball every day at the University Centre. \
Anyway,Loren said that for her it was like playing a good game of pinball, being one with the machine and lighting all the specials. That was the first orgasm. Subsequent ones were when the specials were lit and you kept hitting the hi points bumpers and collecting specials on just one ball.
Woody Allen said something like he didn''t understand how women complain about not having the right kind of orgasms, or their orgasms weren''t so fulfilling. He said for him, every single orgasm has been right on the money.
How do women even have an orgasm when getting penetrated in the vagina? The clitoris is located at the top end of the vagina and doesn''t even come close to the penis as it pumps back and forth.%0D\
Are vaginal orgasms possible? And does the clitoris need to be manually or orally stimulated in order to have a clitoral orgasm?
I don''t know; I''m a gay man.
r7, you must be circumcised. Uncircumcised men sound and act just like women during orgasm because it''s more intense.
Like Woody Allen is any kind of authority on anything female. All female orgasms are not the same. Some are "duds". The only way I can explain it is that the good ones leave you feeling satisfied, while the dud ones do not.
R23, can''t you read? No one suggested Woody Allen was an expert on females. Your statement that some female orgasms are "duds" agrees exactly with what he was saying. That male orgasms always hit the mark was the point he (and I) was making. Idiot.
Tarquin are you male or female?
The quote attributed to Woody Allen is actually a line from his movie "Manhattan", spoken by his character Isaac Davis.
I''m male. And no expert about female sexual response. What''s your point?
Looks like Tarquin''s on the rag again!
Male orgasms might not vary as much as females but they do vary, Tarquin.
Yes, I get that impression.
[quote]That male orgasms always hit the mark was the point he (and I) was making.\
Yes, but it''s not a valid one. Men are capable of having lousy orgasms - they don''t always "hit the point."
Tarquin, you totally garbled the quote, so it didn''t particularly make sense. You don''t have ro be so nasty and what are you doing on a thread about female orgasms, anyway?%0D\
You are one of the reason people hate the "authenticateds". Most of them are bloviating know it alls that think everyone has to know that their gems of wisdom came from them, even though we really have no fucking idea who you are any way.
I imagine for women, an orgasm is emotions and poetry. For men, it''s more like electroshock therapy.
Women do not have orgasms. They ooze and bleed from an open wound that smells like dead fish. They are incapable of feeling the wonderful release of the orgasm. \
Men have orgasms.\
Women get yeast infections.
From what I know, the female orgasm is way more intense than the male.%0D\
When I climax, I normally have multiples. 7 on average. I make noise, sometimes dribble (gross i know)On about the third one i start to feel fluid come out and a release of sorts. By this point I am exhausted and fall asleep, but wake up feeling lighter as though my tubes have just been cleaned. I love orgasms!!
r21, we've also got something called a g-spot, which could be described as kind of the female version of a prostate. So just like some guys can come from penetration, women can as well.
For some women it can only be achieved with one or the other, and then others can come from both or either.
For me, an orgasm feels like all my senses just spinning and surging up to a point and then bursting through my whole body. When I really get going, I basically can't stop making noise and my girlfriend and I used to have a running joke about having to keep something to muffle the sound when we lived in an apartment. It's basically involuntary, but in a good way.
My girlfriend is more multi-orgasmic than I am, and really I only stop when she can't feel her legs anymore or her toes curl to the point of being painful (I've actually had to massage her feet to get them uncurled several times). I can even have a minor orgasm just from getting her off really well, which is to say a really nice burst of sensation like a big orgasm, only on a smaller scale but usually still satisfying.
Under the right circumstances, I can come from just about any real sexual stimulation, though. If I'm really into it enough, it's all just about a buildup of sensation that floods through your body.
R32, I wasn''t even making a comment about female orgasms. I was just making the point (and giving credit where it was due) that they must not be the same as male orgasms, because male orgasms aren''t all over the map. They''re always pretty much the same thing and pretty, pretty good.
R12- I love you!
[quote]You are one of the reason people hate the "authenticateds". Most of them are bloviating know it alls that think everyone has to know that their gems of wisdom came from them, even though we really have no fucking idea who you are any way.%0D\
I feel exactly the same way about the authenticateds.
If someone was going to pay your way through life, buy you diamonds and furs- wouldn''t you learn how to fake it?
oooh yeah! uh-huh!
Don''t women usually just yelp like a dog and ooze some viscous nasty slime from their cooze just to feign sexual excitement and release? So their men will get off of them? Since they all secretly hate dick and the men attached to them?
[quote]So their men will get off of them?\
Yep. That disgusting junk that comes out of their pee pee reeks!\
[quote]Since they all secretly hate dick and the men attached to them?\
Exactly! What''s to like??
Shooting mucous into another person is the heighth of rudeness.
oh for the love of God. Fish dont have orgasms... the whole fish orgasm thing was nothing but a manufactured issue by 70s feminists who like we all know CANT STAND FOR ME TO HAVE ANYTHING THEY DONT HAVE... and who insist THEY CAN DO ANYTHING MEN CAN DO...\
so they dumped all this needless anxiety on generations of women when they saw this opportunity to make up one more thing to lay claim to that men cant really technically prove is just more estorgen-driven control drama.\
female orgasms are no different than lepricans and unicorns... and the people who even listen to fish talk about them are just as stupid as the creationists.\
THERE I SAID IT
45 fag who wishes he had a pussy
The only orgasm I can have while being penetrated is when I''m on top riding. That is a completely different orgasm than someone licking my clit. A clitorial orgasm for me only lasts for a few seconds while a g-spot orgasm seems to come in waves. Both are wonderful but the latter has a much more satisifying and longer lasting affect.
So, MHB, you couldn''t get her to cum huh? Is that why you''re gay now?
I agree with MHB on this one. I honestly don''t believe that women have orgasms. It doesn''t exist ANYWHERE ELSE in the animal kingdom.\
It''s more penis envy crap. Why can''t they just be happy with their oozing stinking axe wounds and then get back in the kitchen and make me some pie?
It feels really, really good! And if you''re hale and hearty you can go for fucking hours!\
I imagine it feels pretty much the same as a guy, especially one who has been edging his orgasm for like 20 or so years.
I can have a clitoral and g-spot orgasm at the same time
[quote]The clitoris is located at the top end of the vagina and doesn''t even come close to the penis\
Not really, the clit part that we see is just the head part, like the glans of the penis. The actual clitoris surrounds the entire vaginal area and is shaped like some kind of Klingon warship.\
It''s truly an irony that MHB hates women so much, but spends all its time thinking and talking about women. He''s a gay man, but there is no indication that he thinks about dick at all, only pussy. It''s also clear that its "PHD" is obviously not in biology.
I''m not sure how to describe it OP. Why don''t you describe it for a man and we can tell you if it''s different.\
It''s probably pretty similar. I''ve never had the urge to scream like the porn actresses. I think that''s usually an act, it''s what they''re getting paid for after all. For me it''s just a really satisfying release. You can definitely tell it''s an orgasm, because someone licking/sucking your clit feels good, then great for several minutes, then there''s a definite OMG moment lasting a few seconds. It usually puts me to sleep almost immediately for some reason.
It should be clear that MHB represents that small percentage of gay men who really *do* want to be women.
This doesn''t answer the OP''s question but in a related note contrasting sex between genders, %0D\
Think about a Qtip cleaning your ear. Which feels better, the Qtip or your ear?
[quote]Which feels better, the Qtip or your ear?\
Actually it makes my eyes feel better for some reason
[quote]It should be clear that MHB represents that small percentage of gay men who really *do* want to be women.\
I felt actual guilt when the troll-dar feature came into being. I don''t know many gay men in real life, and based on DL, I was starting to picture them all as creepy woman-haters. Then troll-dar made me realize 80% of the posts were from MHB.\
Gotta admire his dedication to trolling however, and marvel that we still respond.
"The most basic physical disparities between the male and the female orgasm are the most conspicuous. Typical male orgasm lasts no more than a couple of seconds, while in women, climaxes of up to a minute are known. But the difference in time taken to reach orgasm is even more significant. "For perhaps three-quarters of all males, orgasm is reached within two minutes after the initiation of the sexual relation," observed Kinsey in his 1948 sexological debut, Sexual Behaviour in the Human Male. %0D
Men, moreover, are virtually assured orgasmic climaxes, but more often than not, the male mechanism is far too swift and efficient to give a female partner even a slender chance of a "classic", penetration-induced orgasm. As a result of the clitoris being sited in the wrong place to be adequately stimulated by straight reproductive intercourse, orgasm for women is nearly always produced by a masturbatory mechanism. But as if to compensate for this rather unfair-seeming physical mismatch,nature has intriguingly made the female orgasm produced by masturbation far and away the more intense. %0D
It is in the arena of the emotions that the gap between male and female orgasmic expectations and feelings widens still further. Whether this was the case for our preliterate ancestors is a matter for conjecture, but the evidence from surviving primitive tribes suggests that there has always been such a gulf. Generally, human males tend to have a high interest in orgasm, placing less importance on relationships, coupling, security and monogamy, while females tend to prioritise relationships, coupling, security and monogamy over mechanical orgasmic satisfaction per se." %0D
I tend to cum quicker from tribbing
Why does everybody always bring up that tired Kinsey study?%0D\
Men can train themselves to hold out for more than a couple of minutes. Also, you can engage in oral and manual stimulation before intercourse which can make a woman ready to come shortly after penetration.%0D\
I can never understand why some of the gay men here are so happy to take pleasure in the thought that women, even lesbians, don''t derive any satisfaction from sex. I would think it would be a moot point for them. Seems very mean spirited.
I wish I could tell you.
It feels like this is happening just inside your taint, rippling out to your limbs and up to your head.
Somebody asks a perfectly interesting question and the woman-haters have to ruin the thread. Get some therapy, seriously.%0D\
Male orgasms are not always the same. sometimes they''re very intense, sometimes less so. There''s a range, just like for women. %0D\
Having had sex with women (I''m a gay man but, you know), I wonder why men assume that women don''t ever ejaculate. I had a girlfriend, when I was younger, who''d cum so much, she had to cover the mattress with plastic. Female ejaculate is sweet...it tastes sugary. I always assumed that this is where songs like "sugar walls" came from. She didn''t always ejaculate, but she said if her orgasm was super intense she''d ejaculate. I love cock, but I wish male cum tasted like female cum.
It feels good.
Gross nasty putrid female axe wounds dripping viscous nastiness all over everything.\
They are so vile.\
Vulvas. Puke. Gross.\
They all wish they had penises and wish they could cum. They can''t.\
Women: just shut up. You know you''re not capable of cumming. You just lie because you''ve got a deep-seated jealousy of men and their virility.\
Get back in the kitchen and make me some pie.\
Shut this thread down. It''s fucking gross. Who wants to hear about gross fish thrashing around on their axe wounds and pretending to have pleasurable feelings when what they really want is to devour and kill men.\
Then spurt their nasty coozy juice all over everything, leaving a rotten tuna scent everywhere they go.\
You''re oh so clever, r72.
get some sleep hon
It feels like farting out of your front side.
R72 has been posting his messages periodically since around 6PM. I picture him stirring occasionally from a drunken stupor to take to his keyboard.%0D\
What''s the matter R72? Got a mean lady boss? Mad at your mommy?%0D\
I can''t help wondering if it''s MHB posting from a different computer.
R75. I know you fucked your mom. It was nasty, wasn''t it?\
Coozing cunting axe wounds are the most vile thing in creation.
Nancy Kwan was so lovely in that movie.
[quote]I picture him stirring occasionally from a drunken stupor to take to his keyboard.\
I don''t think it would be a stretch to suggest that he is also wearing an unclean bathrobe.
Yawn, R76. Why don''t you add a pill chaser to whatever is in that bottle you are almost to the bottom of?
LOL @ conspiracy theorist at R75.. yes, honey, you are correct. The entire universe is in sync with you totally and completely and anytime anyone isnt.. well, the only possible solution is it is me with my elaborate computer bank, setting up untold phoney accounts and aliases all just to manufacture some narrative image that could not possibly be more than my singular voice... (but it is, blance, it is....)
To R49 (no orgasm in the animal kingdom): how do you know? And what about fish? Actual fish, I mean? The female squirts out eggs in response to stimulation from the male, so she must have an ejaculatory orgasm. Could the mechanism for orgasm have persisted in females ever since?
Why try to argue with people who are pig-ignorant about human physiology in general and female physiology in particular?
This is the reason that some women like anal sex. It is possible to have a really strong combined clitoral-vaginal orgasm when penetrated anally. That has been the best for me. I can orgasm vaginally when penetrated, but it feels like I''m being held back in some way.\
I also have just clitoral orgasms at times as well. Those are primarily from masturbation. That diagram R52 shared explains why I can have orgasms in other areas around the vagina. I never understood that one before.
A woman''s orgasm has been described to me as gentle contractions that come in soft waves at first, and then intensify in duration and interval until a peak, then decrease again in intensity, with shorter duration and longer intervals..... sounds exhausting.\
I know for me (a man) they can vary in "quality" - depending on how longs it''s been since I last came, if I''m alone then it also depends on how "good" the fantasy is, and with a partner, it depends on who, what, why and when I guess. Recently I had no play for over a week (a record for me) and when I finally had sex I could not believe the intensity - I was actually sore and tired and could still feel like a "drained tube" to quote someone here the next day - I''ve decided orgasms are a very good thing
I''m a woman and I can only speak from experience. My orgasms can vary in intensity (depending on me "rushing" things or not), the longer I delay an orgasm, the better. It becomes explosive!%0D\
Orgasming is a whole body experience with contractions in my ass, my feet and my jaws. It''s like waves increasing and decreasing. When I have multiple orgasms (self-induced, rarely with a partner) I find that the second orgasm is the most intense, the third being already weaker. Multiple orgasms happen within about 20 seconds of each other. If I wait longer, I have to start the whole process again, lol!%0D\
Never had more than four orgasms in a row.
Doesn''t a woman feel like she has to pee when she''s about to have a vaginal orgasm? I hate feeling like I have to pee when Im about to blow so I can imagine that would be very annoying for a woman.\
I doubt this lady cares, as she just squirts all over the place.\
(not for the faint of heart, or MHB)
I''m a woman and I can identify most with R85. The longer I go w/o an orgasm the stronger and more intense they are. If I had one earlier in the day, sometimes I can''t quite "get there" later on. I don''t understand women who are multi. I''ve never had that experience. I''m more like a guy in that once I get off, I''m done and want to sleep. %0D\
Edging also makes orgasms stronger but I''m not very good at it. I don''t have a lot of control in stopping an orgasm once I get past a certain point and it''s on it''s way.
R87 it seemes that contrary to men, a woman''full bladder enhances the pleasure of an orgasm.%0D\
And no, she doesn''t pee when orgasming. Unless she''s an old incontinent lady, I suppose.
Got any porn of lesbian orgasms?
Silly OP, women don''t have orgasms.
Male here. Can be multi-orgasmic if I want to if in the right mood when masturbating: ejaculating only on the first one, but surfing to the second about half a minute later, and then a third. Never gone beyond that although I could have, but it''s too exhausting. It feels like being on the top of a wave, and then you just surf to the next, allowing your body to take you along. \
I was surprised when I discovered I could do it. But it''s like drugs for me. An interesting experience, but not one I wish to repeat. The exhaustion factor for me outweighs the pleasure.
r90, the best female orgasm on video, IMHO, is the one of a czech porn star named nella or nelly after a fisting outside by the pool. The girl doing the fisting was some blonde Eastern European woman with those stupid little white lady corn rows in clips.
That bitch had an orgasm by riding his balls.
R10=gay man. Try again, hun.
crone pussy is dryer than regular pussy... just sayin
Orgasms are great of course, but I just like one big GOOD one and have never been all that concerned about having multi orgasms, but good for those folks who can manage them.
wtf is wrong with MHB?
Am I the only woman who thinks that female orgasms are a myth? I wish they were true, but I get the impression that it''s more of a plecebo effect like thing, and woman aren''t really capable of, but more pretend to. I hope that I''m wrong.
"Bev", have you lost your mind?
"Bev" you are either a man or the stupidest poster ever, and that''s saying alot.
[quote]That bitch had an orgasm by riding his balls.\
Yes, that was quite odd.
You''re saying the wave of intense pleasure and contractions in the uterus/pelvic area is just a "placebo effect like thing" Bev? Women who have one are just pretending?%0D\
Well...I''m speechless. It sure feels like an orgasm to me.
There have been scientific studies done on women''s orgasms, so if you don''t want to believe some posters on a message board "Bev" maybe you could look into them.
"Bev" once posted here claiming that she accidentally shit herself once and then went into a movie theater and sat through the whole thing with her friends without ever considering going to the bathroom. As fake threads go, it was pretty dumb.
It feels like you have died and gone to heaven.
[italic]"Bev" once posted here claiming that she accidentally shit herself once and then went into a movie theater and sat through the whole thing with her friends without ever considering going to the bathroom. As fake threads go, it was pretty dumb.[/italic]\
Was Bev being serious? Maybe she was born without a clit...or no one ever touched it?
No one ever touched it? Was she born without hands too?
"Why do women scream so much and make such animal sounds leading up to their orgasm then all hell breaks loose?"\
They don''t. Porn is not based on reality when it comes to females, silly.
No need to be rude. I just have never had one and neither has my mother or my two sisters, the only woman I''ve known who''ve had them are co-workers and I suspected they were lying just to make me feel stupid.
Well, you are stupid, dearie.
Jeez, that''s pretty sad that none of the females in your family has been able to have orgasms. \
Sometimes my orgasms are so intense, I feel like I''m going to have an aneurysm. Multi (I call them "rolling") are great, but at some point it''s too exhausting.
"Bev" is somebody''s character. Talk to it long enough and you''ll see. (It won''t really be worth it, though.)
Yeah, we know R116. I''m just wondering what old queen thought to use the name Bev, a name that hasn''t been popular since Eisenhower era.
Probably an old Aussie queen...
"Bev" you are an idiot! Start caressing your clit (if you have one!) and you''ll soon know what an orgasm is!
THAT''s what it FEELS LIKE!!!
To me an orgasm is like a drug. My heart pounds fast, i get this huge deep chill like feeling that runs throughout my body. Afterwards im soo relaxed, i dont want to move, most of the time i cant even open my eyes. Im a screamer and a moaner. Couple of times i had to be quite and the orgasm wasnt as intense
R18 - omg that's exactly what it was like!! Lots of light, like mini fireworks. Just the first one though... After that not so much. I compare mine to a sneeze, minus the good feelings. The buildup, anticipation and release. Yep.
Im a male: its not all about reaching an orgasm but rather enjoying it by approaching it slowly. This is achieved by communicating with your partner when u ar almost getting to the point of no return and then u slow it down or even briefly stop. If you do this four or five times I bet you...
(R107) Your name is not Bev, it's Frigid Bridget, sister. Now, go buy yourself a little electric friend and have a party for two. Then... when you come down off the ceiling, we'll talk.
For a Guy! I'm a guy and orgasms are Life WTF where is it it's like a tiny little twinge and then BANG SPLAT feels lie say running your finger up and slightly tickling sensitive side of your foot for about half a second If anything WAY WAY weaker then anything a woman gets at least 10 to 50 times weaker Our sex drive is ridiculously high though also If I eat fish I become what is known by females as ANORGASMIC meaning I feel a Click then I blow my load the click feeling in my dick feels like put two fingernails and make them catch and do that slight clicking sound and being I guy that had a circumcision (male gental Multilation) doesn't help it Kills a guys dick Imagine getting you clitoral Hood cut Off completely without anaesthetic or anything and clothing for a guy feels like imagine having Course sandpaper dragged across you your Labia and Clitoris Fun anyone!. So when you see a man who has been Circumcised and he has that strange texture on his glans you'll understand hid DICK head is being shredded daily by his clothing even felt and cotton garments do it too. Men get the SHITTIEST END OF THE STICK!
Irish Lassie, that is the funniest ive heard besides lingling's comment about an extra 20 bucks for titty rubs hahahah
Female orgasm is the shiznat.