Can Someone Explain Fisting? (NSFW)

I mean really, does this actually feel good?

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• Obviously, it must. I once fisted a guy and the look and sighs of pleasure coming from him were intense.

• At The Mine Shaft I saw someone taking it from a guy with his arm up to his shoulder . Didn''t know until the fister pulled out that he was an amputee below the elbow.

• Ew.

• had he been fisted before r1?

• Whether it feels good or not, it just can''t be safe. It just can''t be.

• Fistees didn''t get enough hugs in childhood.

• I cannot even imagine the pain.

• I can''t imagine controlling your bowel movements day to day.

• It feels delish!

  Lindsay Graham

• Fisting got it''s start from Depends employees who came up with the idea on Usenet. They were looking for a way to increase sales, and it''s apparently worked quite well for them.

• When I was 18, I had NO idea what fisting was until I saw "Crusing". Even then, I had no idea what the dude was doing in the fisting scene. Now, I just don''t get the pleasure in it, and don''t want to know.%0D\ %0D\ I read that if you practice fisting too much, you lose your ability to hold a bowl movement, and end up shiting in your pants.%0D\ %0D\ Ah, no thanks!

• I''m guessing that it''s a pain thing.

• I hope that is trick photography because for a few minutes of some sort of sick pleasure, it looks like it is very dangerous and life-threatening.

• Yikes. I can''t even take a dick up my ass.

• Will you still respect me in the morning ?\ \ Hell I don''t respect you now.

  I''ll be here all week

• It is known as the Dugger Ideation Complex Syndrome in the DVDSNM4, OP.\ \ Typical devotees experienced negative reinforcement during toilet training and diets heavy in bran. Statistically, 68.99% of fisting enthusiasts report an early, justified fear of the Toilet Monster.

  Science Doctor

• If it doesn''t appeal, don''t do it. Very simple. Why are you obsessed with others sexual practices?

• This is why they hate us.

• Shuuz, and I find a 5" slender dick a bit too much..

• Oh, yes, r4. Definitely. He was an experienced fistee.

  r1

• You''d have to be mentally ill to do it.

• To each his own.

• R21. And you have to be mentally ill to be prepared to damage your colon and your ability to eliminate waste.%0D\ %0D\ Advice: Have wild sex, but don''t put yourself in danger or intentionally damage your health and well-being.

• I hate coming out with a handful of corn, whatever the bottom''s ecstasy, I can tell you that.

• [quote]It is known as the Dugger Ideation Complex Syndrome %0D\ %0D\ %0D\ Obviously the Duggar mom and dad are not afflicted with this syndrome. What a shame.

• "Corn? When did I eat corn?

  Tatum Channing

• We need to hear from a fistee about why he likes it, and what he does about the complications.\ \ I''ve heard that if the fister isn''t wearing a glove, it''s very dangerous - that his fingernails can puncture the colon.

• There are simply some things that gay men do that nauseate even me, a long term homosexualist. Fisting, analingus, water sports and scat are the main acts that cause me wretch when even thinking about them.

• R28, straight people do those things, too.

• I fisted a guy once. He was this gorgeous German bottom I was hooking up with. He LOVED to get fucked, and liked dildoes too. One day, I had been fucking him for almost an hour and was getting tired. He asked me to fist him, and he was so hot and had me so turned on, I said yeah. He put a condom on my hand and I started slowly fisting him. I had no idea what I was doing but he was directing me and was getting off. It actually ended up turning me on, and my dick was had started going limp, got hard again. By the end, he came three times, and went I pulled out, it was clean. Can''t say I''d do it again but I did enjoy it with that gorgeous German.

• [quote]Didn''t know until the fister pulled out that he was an amputee below the elbow.%0D\ %0D\ Since there was no actual fist involved, what would that act be called? Nubbing?

• I think guys who like to be fisted must be masochists. I can''t believe that having a fist shoved up your ass would feel "good." I think they must get off on the pain.%0D\ %0D\ And there are guys who will take a whole arm up to the elbow up the ass. It happens. It''s insane, but it happens.

• I blame Sesame Street, it makes little kids want to be muppets when they grow up.

• R33 LOL!

• I''ve been coming here for ten years, and I have yet to hear an actual fistee describe what they like about it, and if it causes bowel problems. I''m not judging, I just want to know!

• This is what fisting will cause. Now doesn''t this want to make you go out right now and get someone to ram his arm up your patootie?\ \ Oh what fun there is to be had!

  http://abyssaldepths.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/rectal-prolapse-by-trichuris-trichuria.jpg

• r36 you say that like it''s a bad thing?

• I guess none of you are old enough to have been to The Anvil on 14th St. It was common for ff bottoms to get fisted right on the bar, with the whole crowd watching. A lot of them took one arm after another all night. Two members of the group The Village People (the Indian, for sure, and I think it was the construction worker) got fisted there regularly. The Indian could take an arm to the elbow without wincing. \ \ Public fisting wasn''t unusual back then. As R2 mentioned, it was common to see fisting at The Mine Shaft; it was often seen in the orgy rooms at The Continental, Everard and Beacon baths also. At St. Mark''s Baths, a muscular, thick armed masseur was popular with ff bottoms. He''d do them right in the pool area.

• Ouch that had got to hurt bad.

• r36 is an idiot. The prolapsed ass picture he''s linked to clearly states that the prolapse was caused by trichuris trichuria, the common whipworm. Anyone might fall victim to that fate, fister and non-fister alike.

• I don''t get it, it''s looks excrutiating for the fistee, and just plain Ugh, for the fister. I really think the guy taking an arm up his ass is a masochist, and gets off on that pain. If someone is willing to gamble losing the ability to control of their bowel movements, more power to them, I would never try that shit. (Pun intended)

• To be honest, R41, I never understood the point for the fister either; but all the fistees I''ve seen seem to love it. If they''re experiencing pain, they sure cover it well, but I know a lot of them alternate inhaling poppers and ethyl chloride. I imagine that combination reduces the potential pain substantially. \ \ Everything I''ve read and heard from fistees indicates that permanent stretching and loss of bowel control are myths. And I guess most fistees are expert douchers; I''ve rarely seen any sign of shit on them or the fisters'' arms afterward.

• I think it feels good in the same way any anal stimulation can or can''t feel good.\ \ But I also find it quite surprising, given how difficult - and, on the other hand, how exciting - getting penetrated by just a finger, a cock, a dildo can be, how it depends on all sorts of things - level of arousal, lubrication, hornyness, etc. - that anyone can subject their ass to being invaded by so much mass.\ \ But I understand the thrill conceptually in spite of all that.

• Fisting can be a great way for a father and son to feel close.\ \ My dad was an excellent fisterman and often took me and my brothers fisting when we were growing up. Out on a boat, in a stream in the woods, at the local park: we didn''t care where we went as long as it involved fisting.\ \ To this day, I smile when I see the opening of The Andy Griffith Show, with Andy taking little Ron Howard down by the creek for an afternoon of fisting.

• "He put a condom on my hand"\ \ r30, You must have tiny hands.

• Although gloves, which allow for more digital stimulation, are usually preferred by fistees, Magnum XL will stretch over a fairly large fist, R45.

• Alright then R40, here''s one for you. More to your liking?

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• It just stands to reason that persistent fisting would cause serious damage; infection, tearing, bleeding. Does anyone think that having a fist or a whole arm shoved up your ass would NOT have awful consequences?

• [quote]Alright then [R40], here''s one for you. More to your liking?\ \ At least a dilated ass pic is more realistic than the prolapsed ass pic you initially posted. Dilated asses eventually shrink back to their normal size with no medical intervention.

• [quote]I read that if you practice fisting too much, you lose your ability to hold a bowl movement, and end up shiting in your pants.\ \ Get ready for someone to object that nothing can ever go wrong with your ass or rectum or bowels no matter how extreme or how frequent the ass play.

• bump

• I can understand watersports, but fisting is gross.

• How is it possible to fit almost the whole arm up to the shoulder in there?

• More possible than you think, R53.\ \ Decidedly NSFW

  http://vid.xlive.com/watch.php?u_id=81066&v=6JgiKPhB&title=fisting to the shoulder&from=&preview_scene_id=

• Guys used to meet through the FFA. No, not the Future Farmers of America, the Fist Fuckers of America, they had a New York chapter.

• I owe my success to fisting. While I was young it was the focus of my sex adventures. Now that I''m old I work for Conagra and they pay for my services rather than hire a bi-plane. \ \ Loose lips will spread your hips but a fist is your friend in the end.

  Armed and dangerous

• Explain fisting, OP? Sure. The man go up in the man - with his FIST!

• All I can say is, if it hurts you''re doing it wrong. Never do anything with your body that hurts. I know gay sky divers especially like the idea of having an extra chute you can''t forget and still enjoy packing.

• I''ve fisted this one guy a few times and it''s clear he loves it. I can tell based on his expression, and how hard he cums. (Oh, and he tells me he loves it so why wouldn''t I believe him?) And let me tell you there is nothing like feeling a guys orgasm from the INSIDE!\ \ I also know a couple of guys who are seriously into being fisting bottoms and they have no issues what so ever with their bowel movements, etc.\ \ Not to say it doesn''t have it''s dangers, but as far as I can tell if you are safe and sane about it you won''t hurt yourself.

• Until I got into fisting I never owned a pair of opera gloves. That''s how sheltered my life had been.

• [quote]"He put a condom on my hand"\ \ And that''s bad? Doo-dee-doo doo doo...

  Judice

• i can''t believe that video! up to the shoulder.\ \ I just spit out my breakfast croissant!

• Isn''t taking the full length arm of a grown man up your ass the equivolant of being pounded by a horse? Whoever does shit like that is going to feel it at some point or the other. There is no way anyone can convince me there is no risk in doing an act like that. Somebody''s lower intestine is going to be extracted one of these days.

• A physical manifestation of self-loathing?

• Cannot believe we are still to get a fistee view of things on DL of all places.

• I''ve just watched the video that r54 links to and I have to say, that guy does not look like he''s having fun at all. He says "no" repeatedly and he actually cries for christ''s sake. It''s the guys watching who are getting off, not the poor bastard being used as a glove puppet.

• I say this as a gay man who has seen it all who has no judgment about anyone. But fisting is the depth of human depravity. End of story.

• I enjoyed "depravity" for many years. I didn''t see fisting as depravity, just the ultimate in excitement and pleasure sensations. I experienced no harm or deformity to my body. It was a sensational head trip more so than the physical trip most seem to believe must be the case. What looked bizarre to some onlookers. Fisting was the greatest and most intense pleasure of my young life. \ \ I gave up sex completely when my friends passed away from HIV in the early 80''s. I was fortunate and didn''t have complications from HIV even though I was diagnosed HIV+. There is little for me to share that anyone who has never experienced being fisted could possibly understand. As with all forms of sex, fisting can be anything desired for those engaged. \ \ If you find it offensive, don''t do it. If it hurts, one should stop. Fisting is not about pain in my experience, it was a sharing of the greatest sexual pleasures I ever shared with another man.

• [quote]the main acts that cause me wretch when even thinking about them.\ \ Oh, [italic]dear.[/italic]

• lovely to behold!

  Fisting is a blessing

• [quote]There is little for me to share that anyone who has never experienced being fisted could possibly understand.\ \ ~ * M * A * R * Y * ! * ~

• [quote]There is little for me to share that anyone who has never experienced being fisted could possibly understand\ \ That''s exactly what people who used to belong to EST/Forum used to say. EXACTLY.

• Might you say it is ecstasy without the need for ecstasy?

• The hell with fisting, it''s "footsing" that I don''t understand.

  just saw it on the cover of a porn film

• We haven''t heard from the ladies.\ \ Aren''t some dykes into fisting?

• I knew someone who put their head in a guys asshole, and then he died.

• What on earth if "footsing" r74?

• I love trolldar

• r77\ \ I made the term "footsing" up, but I recently saw it in a pron flick: a guy stuck his foot up the ass of some guy in a sling.\ \ Talk about "this little piggie went to the market..."

• "Footsing" is in the OPs video....

• It''s one of those practices, along with genital piecing, where I question the mental health of those who engage in it.

• Fistee here-not very often, maybe 4 or 5 times a year. I had a partner who was into it. He spent almost almost 6 months stretching my ass from time to time. It still hurt like hell the first time and yes, even the second. A lot of it involves just relaxing your ass muscles totally, which takes some practice. After I learned to do that, it would still hurt to some degree at the fist''s widest part, but after it was all in there, it was incredible-just a great feeling. I''ve been doing it off and on for 15 years now, am 52 and I have never been injured nor is my ass stretched out. Injuries are caused by those who are fisted by people who don''t know what they are doing or are so fucked up on drugs they can''t feel that things aren''t right.

• I have a friend that is 58yrs old professional, well educated and is the fisting king in his hometown. Guy want to hook up with him just for his fisting poweress. I dont understand it at all. I thought at that age he would be over his partying and drug fulled weekends, but it seems to be getting worst with each year. Is it normal for a guy his age to be doing drugs and hookup online for mega two day sex sessions. He says Im just jealous but frankly it doesnt interest me at all.

• I remember my horror when, one night over drinks at his place, the late Vito Russo explained what "skullfucking" was. I choked on my gin and tonic.

• R83 posts bad grammar. It hurts more than first fisting.

• Don't knock it til you try it!

  Lambchop

• I assume anyone who obsesses about other people's sex life or sexual proclivities is a bad lay and sexually repressed.

  Hercule%20Prono

• I don't get fisting but I wouldn't mind getting fisted by a midget. Their hands and arms are much smaller and reasonable. But a full grown man? No way.

• [quote]I guess none of you are old enough to have been to The Anvil on 14th St. It was common for ff bottoms to get fisted right on the bar, with the whole crowd watching. A lot of them took one arm after another all night. I see why gay men of that generation mourn the Seventies so much.

• r82, why is this preferable to just having regular sex if your ass isn't stretched out by it? Can you have pleasure by being fucked by a normal sized dick still? That's my question with the practice. I would think that if you can't still have pleasure from a normal sized dick, it means you've messed up your pleasure receptors so that only the fist or sufficiently massive dicks can satisfy you. but if a normal sized dick gives you pleasure still, I can't see why you would need to do something so radical and messy and invasive as stick an entire fist through your rectum.

• Surely this is way beyond physical stimulation of the prostate and more about power?

• Of all the Zombie Threads to be resurrected...

• [quote]If it doesn't appeal, don't do it. Very simple. Why are you obsessed with others sexual practices? I just love wiggles like that. Look, buddy, just because somebody's free to as they please it doesn't automatically prohibit anybody else from remarking on how stupid it is. If you weren't defensive about fisting those comments would presumably roll right off you back, between your cheeks and straight up your ass.

• Until R83 it was laid to rest. I didn't see that unfortunately. Fisting just seems like codependent sex abuse. Anyone can claim previously unknown pleasure and/or sense of actualisation. Yeah, I'm sure Dahmer and Nielsen felt the same in their way.

• [quote]If it doesn't appeal, don't do it. Very simple. Why are you obsessed with others sexual practices? Why can't we ask about it? And just asking about something doesn't mean you're "obsessed" about it. Stop being so threatened and controlling.

• I've been a fisting top for a few years and it's pretty mind blowing. One guy I was with was in a little bit of pain, but he wasn't getting off on the pain. All of the other guys weren't in pain at all. Sometimes a slight discomfort if I went to quickly or too deeply, but pain has not been part of the plan for any of them. Physically, they all have been plenty tight enough to give me pleasure when I fuck them regularly, and they certainly seemed to get pleasure from a normal fuck to. But the sensations seem heightened with the fisting. One guy in particular has multiple anal orgasms...they are AMAZING to see. It also gets me off knowing I brought him to that point. I think it must be as much a mental act as a physical act because even if I don't ultimately come, I feel very satisfied by the whole process. None of them have issues with keeping their shit in, etc. Anytime fisting comes up, someone always says that, but in my experience everything goes back to normal pretty quickly after you play.

• I find it absolutely nauseating. And, this is coming from someone who enjoys seeing as-big-as-possible cocks being shoved into assholes. Plus, I have no problem watching someone get fingered, so it's not simply a cock vs. hand thing. Not sure why, but it seems so gross to me.

• nothing like a nice fist on a cold chilly day!

• Years ago in New Orleans French Quarter, there used to be this midget dwarf guy who dressed up in leather and used fist men in the back room of that now defunct leather bar on Decatur Street, Jules I think the bar was called. His widdle arm would go all the way up to the guy's shoulder, while the rest of us stood around smoke cigs and drank draft beer.

  anonymous

• I hooked up with a super hot (and surprisingly nice and normal) guy once who was obsessed with getting my entire fist up his butt. He said he liked being stretched. It was one of the hottest experiences of my life, and I still to this day jerk off to the memory. His enthusiasm for it was intensely hot. PS. Why do they always wear latex gloves when they fist in pornos? Who is it meant to protect, and against what exactly?

• There was a bald Falcon porn star named Addison Scott who was incredibly hot--very ripped and muscular, deep voice, very handsome. he was really into fisting in his films and supposedly in real life (he was quoted as saying, "I know it's been a good night if I have to disinfect my watch the next day!"). Anyway, it turned out he accidentally killed some guy by tying him up during sex play and then abandoning him for a few hours (during which time the guy died), and he had to go to jail. What happened to him?

• He went to jail.

• anus horribilis

• anus mirabilis!

  Elizabeth%20II

• Nothin' says lovin' like havin' your intestine slide out of your asshole around someone's forearm.

• The secret is to relax completely.

  %22Pancakes%22%20Barbara%20Bush

• Yummy! In my tummy!

• I don't think men are very good about expressing why even conventional sex acts feel good, let alone this.

• it is when the hand goes up inside the man

  M

• r85 me not from you america i am in the europe i try best to speak good english

  r83

• R101, that's my nightmare. I was in talks to set up a scene -- nothing NEAR that -- but you always wonder. Is this safe? Will I end up in a newspaper article? The talks have stalled. I'm thinking it's not such a bad thing.

• IT FEELS INCREDIBLE !!!

  Tom%20Cruise

• This past weekend I was double fisted Its feels incredibile, like nothng else Im working up to taking something larger to celebrate my upcoming 60th birthday Im thinking of hiring a troup of black mandingos to make me thier wite hoe, i no it sounds slutty but its my bisness and my money

• Jack Morin, author of Anal Pleasure and Health, claims that it is perfectly safe, but this seems counter-intuitive to me. How can stretching your ass out that much repeatedly NOT eventually loosen it? I mean, a dick is roughly the same width as a large turd, but a fucking hand or arm?

• [quote]Im working up to taking something larger to celebrate my upcoming 60th birthday Im thinking of hiring a troup of black mandingos to make me thier wite hoe, i no it sounds slutty but its my bisness and my money Maybe you'd be better off investing that money in a dictionary.

• Nobody on this thread has been able to explain how it feels to get fisted. "Mind blowing" is the best you can do, but plenty of things are mind blowing, and they don't involve shoving some dude's arm up your shit hole.

• [quote]What on earth if "footsing" He ain't heavy, he's my brother.

  Hopsing%20of%20the%20Ponderosa

• I've seen a couple of clips and the guy is either acting like it's the greatest experience he's ever had or he's just lying there like a jaded old whore so who know's.

• [quote]so who know's. Oh, dear.

• Fisting is just another perfectly normal practice that is perfectly healthy. Akin to rimming a clean anus, it's all very mainstream for the sexually liberated. However, if you leave the toilet lid up when you flush, you're a filthy disgusting animal with no soul and I will unfriend you on facebook and never come over to your house again!

• Do some guys do it just for the money and not enjoy it?

• I've never been fisted but lets just say if there's a drumstick left over after Christmas dinner... finger lickin' good!