As usual, I have developed a "crush" on one of my students
I teach graduate studs, so they are grown men. Mid to late 20s. There is always one every year whose cum I want to swallow. \
I''ve never done it, and one two years ago, still makes me hard when I look at his stuff on facebook. \
I''ve never acted on the urges, but I''m always wondering if it would be worth one discreet experience. \
Any college professors, especially graduate professors, ever actually have the kind of affair we all fantasize about?
No, it wouldn''t. However, a professor (outside my area, thank God) and I pointedly ignored each other for a semester and fucked like minks after the course ended.%0D\
Waiting made it all the better.
Don''t be a fuck-up.
One of my professors had a relationship with a confused student, who has never gotten over it.%0D\
I certainly would not have any kind of relationship with someone in my class.
I thought professor''s fucking their students was a cliche in academia? I never had any hot professors, but I always assumed it was true.
I had a similar experience to r1''s, but I was the professor (we were less than five years apart in age).
I did. It did not end well. Every professor I''ve been friendly with has revealed that they have as well - and to a man and woman, they all said it did not end well. Do with that what you will.
It''s ridiculously hot and thoroughly disastrous
OP, get a life.\
Like some hot stud would fuck some old professor who has nothing going for himself (other than the fact that he got his PhD and he gets to spend the rest of his career chasing tenure). The only way you''re getting into a student''s pants is if you threaten his grade in your class...and that will land you in jail/out of a job.
You''re an idiot, R6. Good luck with...well, fucking everything, I guess, being that god damned pig-stupid.
R6''s ignorant chirpings are very hot. Nothing is hotter than a dumbass that thinks it knows it all. \
I''d ride r6 hard and then give it a D. D+ if it let me cum in it''s mouth.
I always fantasized about my profs OP, but never acted on it. Funny.
I sucked the cock of a professor at my uni once... he never taught me but I added him on facebook and apparently he had seen and noticed me around campus...
[quote]I''ve never acted on the urges, but I''m always wondering if it would be worth one discreet experience. \
Of course not. It would be unprofessional and dangerous. Why don''t you try hitting on one of the ex-students?
I hooked up with one of my grad school professors back in the day. I was 25 and freshly out. He was 30 and had just ended an 8 year relationship with his partner.\
After I stopped seeing him, he didn''t fail me, but made damn sure I didn''t get a job I applied for at that college.\
He''s miserable and lives in Las Vegas now. Fuck him.
OP, are you the same college professor who had a panic attack on the first day of classes and later on fell asleep during your lecture?
Oh sleep with him. It is such a smart thing to do in this ecnomy, putting your job at risk because you can''t close your legs.
The OP is not an actual professor, but rather is projecting some kind of fantasy scenario.\
Real professors [italic]do[/italic] get crushes on their students, but I don''t imagine any real professor ever expressing it by saying \
[quote]I teach graduate studs, so they are grown men. Mid to late 20s. There is always one every year whose cum I want to swallow.\
That''s just stupid.
an actual college professor
r15 = an actual college professor who''s not hot
I had a very cute English professor my last two years of undergrad who I fantasized about constantly. He was in his early 30s. Cut to about a year after I graduated and we randomly ran into each other at a bar. I went home with him and it was some of the hottest sex I''ve ever had. We hooked up several times after that until he moved away to teach at another university. Good times.
You want to go to jail OP?
What makes you think OP would go to jail? He might lose his job. That''s about it.
I''m a professor and you''re an idiot OP. Get control of yourself.
OP, your %C2%A0"I''m a professor" shtick became tiresome to us months ago. Isn''t it the least bit tiring to you by now?
If were in your class OP, I''d probably think you wer kind of creepy leching on your students
[quote]You want to go to jail OP?\
Says some frau who''s deeply afraid of sex.
Bloody hell, how many professors are there on this site?
Professors on the DL are like half a rung up on the Ladder of Terror and Despair from professors on 4chan
Well OP. This is useless w/o said student''s FB pages.
Since OP is fired, he can now fuck his students.
everyone is going into teaching now that I have established it as the chic field to be in.
It would be very sad if OP were a law professor and crushing on law students! It would be more understandable if OP were a physical therapist and crushing on physical education students.%0D
I dated one of my English teachers in college. He didn''t have his Ph.D. yet. He was a big, tall Black Irishman. So hot.
I hope you didn''t tell him to go fuck himself.
R5 = Tigernan
This is why they hate us.
Tell us more, r5. Did you get fired?
Ah, good sleuthing R32!
I blanch every time I see another professor thread.
No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no.\
Do. Not. Do. It.
Did you fuck him, Dolores?
It''s no trick picking off the hot young horny ones. The hard part is getting them to shut up after.
I had an openly bi professor come on to me after I graduated. I told him to go back to his wife. Too skeezy.
No, but I was tempted to sleep with a prof once. Dr K was short but well built and handsome, and always wore tight jeans. He was a fantasy, but married with kids.\
The "tutoring" sessions in his office were always professional, but I always left with a hardon.\
Cut to a few years later, in the parking lot of Target, when Dr K walks by. We stood and talked for a while, and it was revealed that he was divorced. We exchanged numbers to catch up at dinner, but I was dating someone and knew that "dinner" would end with sex if I called.\
Damn, should have just dumped the idiot I was dating!
Most people who call themselves "professor" on DL do not hold the actual title, "Professor." \
They are ABDs and PhDs who are employed as "visiting instructors" or "visiting lecturers." It''s not easy to come by a tenure track position these days; there just aren''t that many slots, especially in the humanities.
Just be careful about reading too much into the generalization, R43. I''m a full professor now, and I''ve been here at DL since I was an assistant professor, and while I went through tenure and promotion to the associate professor level.
Not to mention all those with the title of professor who teach at community colleges.
Furious denial by Tigernan in the other thread. Perhaps he posts on Ambien.
Community colleges pay well--better than private schools. You also have more of a chance of getting a job at one. It''s not like there is a demand for someone in Renaissance literature.%0D\
I sucked and fucked my TA when I was a sophmore. Gorgeous guy, tight ass, and we did it a few times in his office. Ah, the 70''s!
I had affairs with two of my grad students. In both cases, it was they who put the move on me. In both cases it completely disrupted our professional relationship, but one of them is a friend years later.\
It''s not a practice I recommend. I was young and foolish (not much older than they were) and gave in too easily. I left that university after five years, and those affairs were a big part of my wanting to move on.
I think Tigernan must have meant something else in his post at R5, an admonishment against borrowing or lending perhaps.
[quote]Most people who call themselves "professor" on DL do not hold the actual title, "Professor." \
I am a tenured full professor at a four-year liberal arts college. I was tenured in 2005, and I was promoted from associate professor to full professor this last May.
Why is "crush" in quotation marks?
i like my proffesor .. shes strict im pretty sure gay and double my age, i am a 28 year old student. its nothing to do with the grade i could care less if i get a 51 % in the class, I asked her if she could have lunch with a student, she said no, i asked if i wasnt a student? and she replied, probably not but thanks for asking ?, i dont want to and i know me, i wont give up that easy .. but is she saying this to "do the right thing" other than her thinking i am an idiot to try and talk to her.."getting extra help" her birthday is over the break and i want to be thoughtful and bring in something small and non valueble for her ? is this wrong ? she is strict and a by the books but can i sway her ? lol could i get into trouble or kicked out of school ? if she doesnt talk to me in class i wont but we usually talk and get along i think ..
You shouldn't tell anyone else about these innocent fantasies.
Lucky you R50! Do you teach at a bible college?
I've had major crushes on a few of my professors, but I can't imagine hooking up with a professor whose class I was actively taking at that moment - I wouldn't want it to possibly mess with my grades or my ability to stay at that school. A hot load ain't worth all that.
But I did hook up with an adjunct professor from a department I'll never need to take classes in about a year ago. Lean, lanky and hung like a horse. A horse I got to ride several times that semester!!!
R52 = Alex Forrest
These ESTs are baiting and creating bad reputation intentionally.
I have never had a crush on a student. If "pimply, ignorant, and reeking of last night's beer" is your idea of a stud, I'm really sorry for you.
Really, R52? Two years?!
I boned my college history professor. He was in his mid-40s, a total geek, and I don't think he'd had sex in a very long time. We fucked in his dusty old office and his eyes rolled back in his head so far that I thought he was having a stroke.
r52 is at a special needs 'college.'
I don't think anyone else in the history of the world has ever referred to graduate students (a miserably weedy lot--and many of which are female) as "graduate studs." Congratulations, OP.
there is nothing more pathetic than a professor having sex with a student
This anecdote always gets me hot! Anyone have similar experiences with their professors?
r52, chill out. Do nothing. She said thanks for the invite but she's just not that into you.
When you graduate contact her and ask her to coffee. If she says no, there you go.
If you continue now she wll get a restraining order
Is your name Michael V. Doyle of Michigan State University by chance? Oh wait, you said mid to late 20's, he goes for younger than that.
I had crush on my professor , but never tell him and I didn't like myself for it. I was so stressed of the situation. In the end, I'm all great. My integrity matters than anything else and our professional boundaries. Not into chasing my mentors.
I was a 22-year-old virgin in grad school, and an instructor not much older put a move on me. No doubt, hand on my crotch. He was African. I bolted. Got a 5-hour "C" in Swahili. Could have had an "A" and might be an emeritus professor today.
I guess you don't those Pakistani and Indian grad students who can barely speak English and who corner you in the hall to ask: Professor! What mean metaphysical?!
I get asked that alot. You try answering it in two minutes or less to person who has the English vocabulary of 7th grade special needs student.
At least the checks clear.
Sorry for the typos, it is late.
r40 Father, did you ever teach high school in Philly?
I taught grad students for only six years and had extended affairs with two (though the second one started before he became my student). They were both not so great in the end, but I was young and so were they. No real harm done. The first one had been sleeping with another professor before he seduced me.
I was determined NOT to be one of those professors because I had had an affair with a professor of my own as an undergrad. But there you are.
When I was in undergrad I was fuckbuddies with this hunky muscle daddy professor in the art department. He wasn't my teacher, I just met him online and he happened to be affiliated with the university. He was really hot.
Never forget when I was teaching summer classes at the local community college ...lots of transfer students and older students....a guy in the back of the class who was constantly nodding off - and as a result bombing his tests - came up to my desk at the end of class and told me he was a night police dispatcher and would do ANYTHING to pass the class....his semi-hard package was resting on my desk as evidence of how willing he intended to be. I told him to load up on coffee....still was like a scene from some bad porno....I gave him a D+
I teacher wrote me a love letter when I was 13. The only thing I remember was the first sentence: " Dear X, You don't mind me calling you dear, do you?"
He was in the 50s and FUG, so it didn't actually thrill me, but I just screwed it up & ignored it. Water off a ducks back but I avoided him out of class. I was out cruising for man cock by then, as well as getting regularly fucked by an 17 yr old prefect with a huge cock that made me scream, so I certainly had enough to contend with!
Don't do it. Not ethical or cool.
when i was 22, still a virgin, i put up a CL ad and finally went to go meet someone. he turned out to be one of my business professors from a few semesters back. he was in his 50s and was so kind to me. i remember trying to "take it fast", but he kept telling me to slow down and enjoy it. and he wouldn't fuck me because he said i needed to try and finger myself first just to feel the sensation. he was a great professor in and out of class - genuinely nice guy.
I am a professor of boobology.
So there is this 46 year old almost divorced Arts prof at UBC who was screwing one of his 23 year old undergraduates in secret during term (she isn't particularly hot nor terribly bright so it must be about "issues"). She is still a current student and once his sabbatical was approved he let her go public with the affair by posting pix all over Facebook. Now even his department colleagues know...and it's even more creepy because they look like they could be father and daughter. Just say no to Daddy Issues!
Why is it always the middle aged English or Philosophy Profs on the rebound who want to screw the youngest undergrads? Control and freaking out about getting old??
It is not illegal to have sex with a student over 18. However, it's not 1960 anymore.
These days, most colleges are very corporate and make all their teachers, professors and instructors go through a ton of sexual harassment BS. It will defiantly get you fired if they find out.
In fact these days, they don't even want you to give a ride, go to lunch or have a private conversation with a student without other instructors or cameras around.
Don't do it. Male students are not as stupid as you think. Even the straight ones will sort of send signals if you ping just to get a better grade. Its a trick, they are working you.
Your fault if you fall for it. Don't come crying here. You would know all this if you were really a professor.
I had one professor in his 60s, overweight, balding, married, who was VERY hands-y with all of the young guys (including me). He was not attractive at all, but very obvious. The class was pass/fail, and it was essentially impossible to fail, so there was no worry about grades. We all kind of shrugged it off.
I always wondered if anyone ever took him up on it.
This is why I never, ever wanted to teach. And I never have.
I've been teaching for almost ten years and luckily, I've never been into younger guys. However, in grad school I was going out with another grad student in a neighboring discipline. He was very publicly going to coffee with his most attractive freshman male students as well as inviting them to parties with alcohol and drugs, which he made readily available to them. I got the hell out of the situation when he posted Facebook pics of himself CAMPING with this kid who was enrolled in his class at the time. I had no desire to be connected to that shit in any way, shape, or form.
Flash-forward a few years and he got nailed for buying beer and coming over to the apartment of an early-admit 17-year-old student of his. He might have gotten away with it but the kid identified as straight and so this fellow proposed a three way with the kid and his girlfriend, also 17. He got caught but it was swept under the rug.
He'll get caught again. What a creep. I'm only in my mid-30s but even 20-something students just tend to bring out my parental side these days. Give me an older man any day.
OP, you don't really *know* this kid. You just think you do. You're in love with an image.
You choose to fall for students to avoid real intimacy. What are you afraid of?
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