Celebrities who''ve hit on or cruised you

For me it was...Roy Cohn. Wish it had been someone hot (and not evil)

• Edward Albee

• Everybody gay and/or male in New York City from 1962 to 1992 was hit on by Edward Albee.

• Allen Ginsberg. He came to speak at my college in the 80s and afterwards a group of us went to the college (amateur) radio station to get high and listen to music. I was tempted, just to say I did. Then I realized, I''d have to admit to having sex with Allen Ginsberg, so I passed.

• I''ll just say from the onset that we''ve had numerous threads on this topic on DL over the years, and the DLer definition of "hit on" and "cruised" is oftentimes as little as "stared at me for a couple of seconds" or "didn''t instantly shoo me away when I engaged him in conversation, thus obviously indicating he wanted to suck my cock immediately." Lots of people WANT to think they were cruised by a hot celebrity, but wishful thinking doesn''t make it so.

• R4 That''s probably true, but in my case it was very unambiguous. He caressed my hand when I passed him the joint. Then later, he pulled me aside to ask if I would come back to his hotel with him. I only wish it *had* been a hot celebrity.

• "Lots of people WANT to think they were cruised by a hot celebrity, but wishful thinking doesn''t make it so."%0D\ %0D\ %0D\ %0D\ %0D\ Frau alert.%0D

• Molly Ivins hit on my at the Stark Club in Dallas in about 1986 I guess it was. \ \ I had just published my first major story in Texas Monthly that year and she new of me professionally. \ \ She offered me a joint and asked me if I wanted to see her truck in the parking lot.\ \ I told her I thought she was lesbian but she swore she wasn''t. Needless to say, nothing happened.

  MissHelenBedd

• Die in a grease fire MHB no one wants to hear anything you have to say

• "she new of me professionally."\ \ Oh, dear.

• Bruce Villanch.

• Rupert Everett in Ibiza

• Did you do it, R11??

• Johnny Depp. Early 90''s in a bar in Pomona Ca, a Monday night. We were playing pool, the place was nearly empty and I was shy. He was beautiful. What I remember most was that hair and his face. We flirted, but at the stage of my whorin'' career I didn''t know how to close the deal. That is one I regret, but still smile when I think about. He was charming as I recall.

• More please.

• r13 are you a guy?

• A friend of mine, when he was 15, slept with Leonard Bernstein. He apparently had a penchant for young black guys.

• Sorry to reply to my own post, but I''ve also heard that Alan Titus, who sang the lead in Bernstein''s "Mass," was his lover/protege, and he was neither black nor all that young at the time.\ \ Maybe Lenny liked variety.

• Jeremy Piven, WAY before his Entourage days.I was at a cast party for a theatre company here in Chicago (early 90''s) and he was quite annoying with his backwards cap and bad pick-up line.\ \ I''m sure he hasn''t changed his style in the years since.

  Mia

• [quote]Maybe Lenny liked variety.\ \ Apparently, but he was in baritone mode for a while....Alan Titus and Kurt Ohlmann come to mind immediately, and I''m sure there were more.

• Jake Gyllenhaal cruised me in Beverly Hills around the time of "Brokeback Mountain." I could feel someone''s eyes on my ass before I turned around and recognized him. He gave me a smile and winked.%0D\ %0D\ I was with my hot Latino personal trainer BF at the time so I didn''t do anything. %0D\ %0D\ Oh, memories of what might have been.

• {quote]I could feel someone''s eyes on my ass before I turned around \ \ Nine out of ten times that happens, it''s a movie star.

• [quote] "Molly Ivins hit on my at the Stark Club"\ \ Oh, dear. I wonder how that thesis is going...

• George Strait

• Barry Diller at a nearly deserted (and, therefore, short-lived) gay bar in Santa Monica. \ \ He must''ve been desperate that night, because I was an OK-looking kid but hardly the flawless Hollywood twink type.\ \ And I wrote before about Ed O''Neill cruising me in an Irish bar in West L.A. I don''t have great cruise-dar, but that was the most blatant, obvious cruise ever.

• Christopher Hogwood

• Miss Helen Bedd is performance art... right??\ \ It can''t be serious.\ \ I new I new.

• More details about George Strait, please!

• "major story in Texas Monthly"\ \ That''s the oxymoron of the year.

• Tom Cruise, Bradley Cooper, Jake Gyllenhall, Hugh Jackman, George Clooney, Leonardo Dicaprio, Will Smith, and Matthew McConaughey.

  That should about cover it, no?

• Mine were all age-inappropriate, weirdly enough--either guys too old for me hitting on me when I was young, or a young guy hitting on me now I'm middle aged. They were: Sylvester (during his final years). The pick-up attempt wasn't very memorable in and of itself (just rather sad, since he was sick and too old for me); much more memorable was his line to a friend of mine: "Kiss my hand, honey... you'll be glad you did!" (My friend did, and was.) Not famous outside of academic circles, but: John Boswell, the pioneering Yale historian of gay medieval culture. I was at a young scholar at a gay studies conference and Boswell came up and danced with me at the mixer and started hitting on me: I remember thinking first, "Wow, John Boswell is actually hitting on me, and he's so cute!" and then thinking, "Ew, but he snaps his fingers while he dances." I did not go home with him. Beau Breedlove, the guy who was in the sex scandal with the mayor of Portland, OR last year. He's very handsome, but short, and much too young for me: he must have a thing for older guys (I'm about the same age as the mayor of Portland). None of them are superfamous, but I knew who all of them were, at least, before I met them.

• [quote]Miss Helen Bedd is performance art... right??\ \ Yes, much like Karen Finley.\ \ Except instead of smearing her shit over her body in public, mhb smears her shit over a gay electronic forum.

• [quote]Lots of people WANT to think they were cruised by a hot celebrity, but wishful thinking doesn''t make it so.\ \ Thanks, Cheryl. Perhaps you''d accept a printed invitation to have sex as proof? We only want to satisfy your exactingly high standards... that''s the only reason we''re here.

• Yes, R15, I am a guy. Sorry I left out that lil bit of info!

  R13

• Sam Champion cruised near Lincoln Center once.

• Sorry, off topic:\ \ Did John West just stop posting after his original thread hit 600?

• Dennis Miller%0D\ Bennadette Peters%0D\ %0D\ cruised by both in NYC

• chad allen. about 10 years ago when he was still tweaking....it wasn''t very attractive.

• Taylor Lautner

  R Patz

• "He must''ve been desperate that night, because I was an OK-looking kid but hardly the flawless Hollywood twink type."\ \ self esteem issues?\ \ and since when does being hot for someone other than a flawless Hollywood twink equate with desperation?

• I think Barry Diller is somewhat notorious for having a specific type, R39. \ \ Recognizing that he is not are not this type, making a realistic assessment of his physical attributes, and noting that it would seem uncharacteristic of Diller to make a play for someone who didn''t fit his narrowly defined ideal type (especially as men of Diller''s means usually have no problem securing physically "ideal" partners), hardly makes R24 self-hating.\ \ You, however, sound like you have some sort of chip on your shoulder. Nowhere in his post did R24 make the claim that Diller''s tastes were (or should be) universal ones.

• [quote]Did John West just stop posting after his original thread hit 600?\ \ That thread was deleted. Figures. Real gossip gets deleted while racist and misogynistic shit just hangs around forever at the DL.

• The John West thread hasn''t been deleted, R41. It just hit 600 replies. I wish John West would start another one.\ \ Here is the link to the JW thread

  http://www.datalounge.com/cgi-bin/iowa/ajax.html?t=7463724#page:showThread,9410756

• "Jake Gyllenhaal cruised me in Beverly Hills around the time of "Brokeback Mountain." I could feel someone''s eyes on my ass before I turned around and recognized him. He gave me a smile and winked."\ \ Wouldn''t that be a bit risky for him to do something like that?

• What wink and SMILE at some guy, r43?%0D\ %0D\ I mean, we all know he is policed by the agents of fear and 10% every day but do you think he plays by the rules day in day out?

• I don''t know, R44. I''m not an expert on the way Hollywood works. I just assumed that it would be risky for a closeted actor who the studios want to market as straight to be out flirting with guys.

• I understand what you''re saying but just because their handlers are paranoid doesn''t mean these stars don''t get soefree time when they''re out of range to do what tey want with whom. Has this guy gone to papers? Nope, has he told it nationally on TV? Nope. %0D\ %0D\ Told on an anon forum, what''s the threat to Jake, it''s just his word against some other anon guy''s. I bet Jake gets away with far worse when nobody rags him out either. %0D\ %0D\ I also think those living around stars are less likely to be gossipy than random hookups from someplace else. If you all live in the same community you all just accpet each other more I think.

• Sorry for the atrocious spelling.

• Dennis Miller R36? Really? Can you give more info? I think his sort of handsome. He is a libertarian that means they are pro gays in the military BTW. I just saw a picture when Edward Albee was really young. Gosh, that guy was really handsome. Then he aged pretty badly. Michael Musto who is a columnist for Village Voice. He kept following me, and he was very persistent, sorry but yuck. He had this potbelly he was wearing those thick, black glasses. I wasn't in the least interested in him. He finally left me alone to my relief. Rumors are all over the Internet that Sean Hannity is bi. Sean Hannity said that many people hate him, and they put anything and everything out there that are false. I wouldn't doubt that happens by many people want to spread untruthful stuff about a person if someone hates him or her. Has anyone heard anything about this info abut him being Bi? He is a very, very handsome man. I apologize if I diverted the thread by asking this question. Baby? Political parties doesn%C3%A2%C2%80%C2%99t make a person ugly handsome in my book. You either handsome or not regardless or party affiliation.

• Hey OP, do think Roy Cohn was a top or bottom? I remember I had some relatives who said that back in the 50''s many girls thought he was really cute.

• Didn''t "Angels in America" imply that Cohn was a bottom?

• ell that''s weird, r42, because I have it bookmarked and when I try to get to it I get "thread does not exist."\ \ This place sucks. If it''s not the heavy handed deletions it''s the useless search function, wonky coding, or prime fucking time.

• Same here R51. I was wondering what is that all about when that happened to me with his thread. They apparently took off the other gossip thread as well, the Suislee thread. I put her name in the search bar, and it states there is nothing by that name? What are they doing around here anyway? They are taking all of this fun stuff off of DL for some reason?

• Tony Ward. Jerry Penacoli. Rupert Everett.

• "Rupert Everett."\ \ details please

• John Cameron Mitchell came on to me really hard at Don Hills. I had no idea who he was but he kept talking about "Hedwig" this and that. I had heard of the play and at some point a light went off and I asked "Are you Hedwig?" \ \ Unfortunately he was not playing the role any more but gave me and my friends tickets to one of the last performances (Hediwg was played by another actor at this point). The show was great and after he took us all out for dinner..... I knew he was after me but I liked someone else. Another friend flirted shamelessly but no dice. \ \ We e-mailed for a while and he asked me to audition for Shortbus but I got bored with the idea. \ \ To be honest, I was more impressed that he originated Toby in the "Secret Garden" musical I had seen as a kid. I listened to that soundtrack a thousand times.

• I want to know if the person cruised by Dennis Miller and Bernadette Peters is male or female?!

  anonymous

• Scott Holmes (Tom Hughes from "As The World Turns")

• "I told her I thought she was lesbian but she swore she wasn''t. Needless to say, nothing happened"%0D\ %0D\ %0D\ Well if you LOOK like a fish, and you SMELL like a fish, MHB, you must BE a...

  MHB is a like carp on its 4th day out of water...Vile and useless

• Interesting, R57. I''ve always thought he has gayvoice.

• Rupert had dated a guy I dated back in the early 90s (nyc). The guy I was dating introduced us. Two years later, I moved to LA and started going to Gold''s in Hollywood (this was around 1996) and would see Rupert there all the time. We talked every so often and he made it clear he was interested. I couldn''t take him up on the offer for a couple of reasons. One of which was I just wasn''t that attracted to him. On film he looks great. In person he always looked thin and sickly. I was also in a relationship at the time.\ \ Tony Ward OTOH. Yowza. I woulda hopped in the sack with him in a hot second if I were single. \ \ I fucked Jerry Penacoli.

• So none of the people posting on this thread who were cruised by a celebrity went for it?

• Alas...David Leavitt. The Castro in the 80s. He was giving a reading at Different Light.

• "Hey OP, do think Roy Cohn was a top or bottom?"\ \ What is one when one uses a pitchfork as a sexual implement?

• Could people please add details rather than just posting a name? Thanks.

• Tom Selleck, George Stephanopoulos, Victor Garber.\ \ Nothing happened. No interest on my part.

• Only in my mind

• Denis O''Hare \ \ \ (I remember being shocked because I read he had a boyfriend.....I was young and naive I guess)

• years later, when Molly and I were colleagues whose articles appeared regularly in national left-wing magazines, were appeared on a panel together of journalists at the LBJ School of Public Affairs.\ \ She oddly mentioned the Stark Club in an offhanded way during her ad hoc remarks, which I took to mean she had figured out who I was and acknolwedged we had indeed become good friends from an auspicous introducation.\ \ She was smart that way.

  mhb

• Sylvester who????\ \ The cat from Looney Tunes?

  Joe Mama

• In the early 1970's at a party at a professor's house in Austin, Texas, Allen Ginsberg carressed the ends of my hair and propositioned me... I was flattered, but not interested.

  me

• My sister was at a gay bar with me a few years back, in Toronto, and Pink hit on her

• Sapphire (who wrote Push/Precious)

  Female

• Chuck Woolery cruised the hell out of me in Aspen.

• Isaac Mizrahi at L.U.R.E. To be honest, he was hitting on everyone. He was totally strung out on God knows what, making a fool of himself.

• Jonathan Frid, many years ago

• Ashamed to admit, I did Dom Deluise at the Waldorf in 77. He loved poppers

• urf

• I would SOOOOO do his son, David. That is one hot Daddy Bear. Or is he more of a Daddy Cub?

• Tim Curry Michael Feinstein Jerry Penacoli Randall Kleiser None of them interested me at the time cause I was a snotty little twink. Now, I'm thinking I could have at least had some good stories.

• Marc Stevens "10-1/2" (porn) Dick Fisk (porn) Barry Manilow Jimmie Spheeris

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• What depressed me about this thread is that except in a few situations all the chances guys had to sleep with someone hot or famous they didn't take because the poster was too hot and it was beneath them to sleep with someone like that .....then they end up on a gossip site relating how once they were so hot they could turn down said famous person. It is all so tediously familiar. It is never a story about how they tried to crack onto said celebrity and were rejected or better still took up the offer. No just list after list of once when I was gorgeous I was so hot I was able to ignore said celebrity...Good on you.

• R81 I slept with two on my list, one on a regular basis. But the question asked was who *hit on or cruised* me, not who fucked me (or whom I fucked, as the case may have been). So there.

  R80

• Tom Hulce in the Village 1980's - I didn't go for it. Peter Allen, Atlantic City 1987 - I went for it. We fooled around a few more times and remaained friends (even worked together). Calvin Klein, Fire Island 1995 or 1997 - he was wasted. I didn't go for it. Tommy Tune Fire Island 1992 - no way. Does Victor Hugo, of Halston fame, count as a celebrity?

• My late partner had sex with both Allen Ginsberg and Stephen Spender when he was a student at the University of Chicago--this was in the 1960s. When his mother died, the rabbi read a poem by Spender at the service--we had a hard time not cracking up.

• I once worked out with this guy who was Mr USA in 1980. It was a gym in Riverdale GA and he was eyeballing me good, and being super-nice to me, and I was too closeted to do anything even though he was the sexiest thing I'd ever seen. What a fucking shame.

  http://www.classicbodybuilders.com/classicbodybuilderdaverogers.html

• Eartha Kitt. YECHH!

• [quote]Ashamed to admit, I did Dom Deluise at the Waldorf in 77. He loved poppers I must be more twisted than I think, because that's the coolest post in this thread as far as I'm concerned.

• That Jerry Penacoli sure is a slut.

• "Does Victor Hugo, of Halston fame, count as a celebrity?" Who?

  AnnE

• tg

• *Possibly* Gregory Harrison. But who knows? I ran into him in a bookstore on the ground floor of a hotel he was staying in near a theatre he was performing in back in the '80s. We exchanged a series of what I took to be longing glances over a set of shelves, but didn't end up going home together. The same shyness others mention upthread hit me when it came time to seal the deal and (hopefully) head upstairs. Or maybe what happened is that he's just a friendly guy who loves the attention he gets with his looks, doesn't care from whom the attention comes, and he had no intention of having sex with me (though I have to say, I was at my most gymtastic, and all I had on were shorts and a tank top). He had already been in that movie about a male stripper, so maybe he was just used to being cruised by gay guys. All I actually *know* is that I sure used to bone up thinking about him on Sunday nights, after watching him as Gonzo on Trapper John MD. Oh, and that we was definitely giving me what from anyone else I'd've thought was the "come fuck me" look.

• Will Forte in a store on lower Fifth Ave, NYC

• When I was young and rather naive, having recently moved into Manhattan, I went cruising on Central Park. It was the early 80's pre-GRID, and gay men were doing stuff everywhere in the park, including against the wall that bordered CPW. I decided to sit on said wall and who happened to be going up and down CPW looking in my direction but Dustin Hoffman. He did this several times, so 21-year old me, having been actively cruising since I was 16 and thinking I knew all the signals, kept thinking "I can't believe Dustin Hoffman is digging me!" Just as soon as I decided to become aggressive about it, out of the park, from behind me, comes this fabulous thin'n'tall (about half a foot taller than him) model-type woman. They kiss, hug, hail a cab, and leave together. Turns out he must have been expecting her to pop out from behind my location, which pretty much explained everything. That put me in my place quick! Comes to show, what some of us may have interpreted as interest could have easily been something else, especially with celebrities whom we tend to stare down a lot more and who sometimes feel obligated to smile or say hello back (see posts about Christine Baranski).

  Embarassed Embryo

• Love that post r 93 so cute:)

• Does John West still post here?

• You ain't kidding with Many Years Ago, r75

• Hey r81, read my embarassing story at r93 and see if you still feel the same. I was younger and firmer, and still made a fool of myself.

  Happy now?

• Dom DeLuise

  Yees%2C%20a%20dude

• [quote]I would SOOOOO do his son, David. That is one hot Daddy Bear. Or is he more of a Daddy Cub? Peter was (and still is) the hottest DeLuise offspring...

  http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_FoQfzKTuYJk/Rcu4173IRBI/AAAAAAAAABU/bXfqUfjmC5o/s320/PeterDeluise.jpg

• When his mother died, the rabbi read a poem by Spender at the service--we had a hard time not cracking up." Pure class.

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• r65, did any of them, esp. the first, actually SAY something, or was it just a look?

• Elias Koteas at a club in Toronto in 2003. Not exclusively gay but gay-friendly. He didn't hit on me, but he was standing at the bar with a few straight-acting friends. He was wearing tight jeans and his bulge was on display, he noticed me glancing at it a few times and he made eye contact a few times before leaving with friends. Clearly enjoyed the gay attention though. And no, I am not the Elias Koteas troll.

• Robert Reed..Mr Brady

• bump

• Patti Lupone's pianist backed up on my cock in a backroom.

• [quote]Then I realized, I'd have to admit to having sex with Allen Ginsberg, so I passed. If only it was Kerouac. Now that would have been fun.

• James Defranco and Mario Lopez at separate times. I was so surprised each time that I didn't pursue them.

• Didn't happen to me (my best friend), and not a true Hollywood celebrity (reality TV), but my friend gave Top Chef Fabio a BJ.

• Obscure, but Jerry Weintraub, very big, powerful, nice-guy producer. Early 70s. Showed me the mirror on his bedroom ceiling. He and his wife. KC from the Sunshine Band hit on my sister-in-law at Niagara Falls. Unfortunately, he had his current used car salesman look instead of his 80s hotness. Brad Pitt in the Beverly Center men's room. OK that didn't happen but the rest of this isn't that great so I thought I'd just throw it in to distract you.

• I cruised Mario Lopez outside a restaurant one night while waiting on my car. He had just arrived and chatting with his friend and I got nowhere. Nada.

• Details on Victor Hugo, R83!!

  Anonymous

• Larry Kert, Frank Gifford, Donald Trump, Christopher Reeve.

• Donald Trump?!

• Albie Manzo

• Details, R114.

• Dom Deluise and Robert Reed are interesting to me because these are names I remember from the 70s. So, were Deluise and Burt Reynolds fcuk buddies rather than just friends then?

  Age%2052

• I finally gave in and let Anastasia Beaverhausen have her way with me.

• R69 This is Sylvester. Though I am sure R69 is long gone from this thread.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DoG2ixYJ79iE

• I had wondered, R114, about both Manzos.

• I think most of these are mistaken/fantasy that a celeb who looks at someone for more than a second means they want to have sex with you. They have people staring at them all the time and they are expecting people to say something, ask for a pic/autograph, trying to gage if you are a fan they've met before, if you're a stalker, etc. Having said that...about 1-2 years ago I was at a coffee shop in LA and I looked up from my table and one of Dom's sons looked at me for 1.5 seconds. There was no reason for him to be looking right in my eyes other than I've been complimented on my looks a lot.

  Male

• Patrick Bergin cruised me... years ago. House of Blues.

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• Rick Springfield.

• r91, as I recall, he was getting into the gym/hardbody scene with the stripper movie, so perhaps he was admiring/checking out your body like guys do with other guys when they getting obsessed with body sculpture. However, I wouldn't be surprised if Harrison doesn't have some bisexual activity on his chart. He's always had that vibe for me. He looks like he needs to be admired/worshipped by anyone.

• bump

• Levar Burton at Don Pasquel's in Santa Fe.

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• Alex Karras John Savage Garrison Keillor. (ewwwwww --- publicly homophobic)

• [quote]KC from the Sunshine Band hit on my sister-in-law at Niagara Falls. Unfortunately, he had his current used car salesman look instead of his 80s hotness. You sure? He is pretty much established as out and proud.

• What's the definition of cruising?

• r126, are you female? Alex Karras, wowee, now that was one hot daddy! So, Garrison Keillor is straight and homophobic, or is this a case of the louder they squawk, the more they are closeted?

• bump

• I don't think there's any doubt that KC of Sunshine Band fame is gay, but he's certainly not "out and proud" - he's never acknowledged it at all, has he?

• KC in the day when he was 18 to 20 was a really cute hot guy. But damn did he loose his looks fast!

• Thomas Gibson of Criminal Minds...handsome guy in person. Chance Caldwell...didn't know who he was at the time.

• R133, did you take Tom up on it?

• Barry Diller at a private party in Santa Fe. I didn't realize he was a big time movie producer, but my eyes was on a 6' 4" blonde guy that night. Yeah, I might have screwed up big time.

• Ty Pennington

• R135, you didn't screw up at all.

• Chad Allen...I was shocked on how short he was, but his body and handsome looks make up for that.

• [quote][R133], did you take Tom up on it? No, I was too shy to go for it. Talk about majorly screwing up at an opportunity.

• Tony Perkins. LUCKY ME! Cruised me outside the theatre of a play he was performing in. He scared me.

• I cruised Kevin Spacey on a flight once but he wasn't into me, he really wanted the other flight attendant working f/c with me. He ended up sending a limo to pick up the other fa and they had a good time. Smoking during the intermission of Falsetto's on Broadway I struck up a conversation with William Finn (the author/composer) and I got kind of star struck and couldn't put two words together to take it to the next level. The lights flashed and it was time for act 2 and I missed my chance.

• r141.. What exactly did you do to cruise Spacey? Walk by give him the LOOK? Or drop something and bend and snap?

• Nick Scotti (kiss me Guido) cruised me in a bar men's room in NYC over 10 years ago. He was so hot and showed me his dick at a urinal. I was too young and inexperienced to close the deal.

• R143, come on. You know what we want to know. Also, Nick Scotti is probably better known for playing Tony on Y&R.

• Jessica Lange

  Anonymous

• Star Jones. Yes, I still need therapy to recover from that.

• Eartha (burp!) Kitt.

• Do we know why Star married a man who was obviously gay? Did she just want to play Bridezilla?

• r145, you have to tell us your gender, and a few more details....

• Matthew Morrison. Although I'm not sure if it counts as cruising if the guy is actively trying to get a role from you.

• "Tony Perkins. LUCKY ME! Cruised me outside the theatre of a play he was performing in. He scared me." When was this? I would have done Tony Perkins when he was young and cute.

• The guy with the feathers and moccasins in the Village People. At a bar in the early 1980s (after their heyday). I was in a relationship at the time, so I just sat and talked with him for a while. Nice guy.

• R145 and r146 - are you male or female?

• [quote]Ashamed to admit, I did Dom DeLuise at the Waldorf in 77. He loved poppers I think chub bear DeLuise looks like he could have been hot fun. But of course, I think that now. In 1977 I was 16 and probably would not have been attracted to him. But now I am (to his image I guess). What was his dick like? What did he like doing? Was he into anything raunchy when he did the poppers? [quote]James Defranco and Mario Lopez I prefer brother Dave DeFranco and sister Ani DiFranco. Wonder if he ever hooked up with Dom or Peter Luise. [quote]Details on Victor Hugo It was the late 80's early 90's (Halston was already dead). I used to go to J's Hangout On Hudson St. in Manhattan all the time. He used to go there as well. We hooked up several times. He had a huge, thick, uncut plantain-like Venezuelan dick, liked group scenes, liked fellow Latinos (I'm Puerto Rican) was too lazy to be anything but a top who just lay there to be worked on, and always had the best coke, because of which it took him forever to get fully hard. Still, his body and dick were so beautiful and his mind so twisted (good talker and listener) that sex with him was always fun. He died of AIDS a few years later. I have fond memories, and a clean bill of health, since my sex with him was never that intimate, but more verbal (I'm a versatile top). He did have some breath issues, probably coke breath?

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• [quote]The guy with the feathers and moccasins in the Village People Felipe Rose, Puerto Rican/Native American. Still loos decent. I'd do him. His work, however...

  http://www.feliperose.com/

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• (145) female

  anonymous

• Woody Allen. On Park Ave. I am female.

  anonymous

• Boy George in Midtown Manhattan in the mid 80s, perhaps 1986. I saw him in the street on Lexington Ave, I recognized him and said hello. He was a lot taller than I expected. He chatted me up and didn't want me to leave. I didn't give him my hone number like he asked, told him I was in a big hurry and left him standing there. Joey Stefano at the video stalls of a peep show store on 8th Avenue. He was cruising me and tried to pick me up. Still he seemed somewhat shy and unsure of himself. Turns out he was appearing at the nearby Show Palace at the time. I was buying a certain video at the time, and wasn't there to hook up, so I didn't pay him that much attention. Afterwards I realized I was an idiot to ignore him. Michael Lucas at a video store on Christopher pn West End Avenue. He kept checking me out, and following me around. I knew he was a porn star but didn't know his name until later. Not really my type. Matt Sanchez aka Rod Majors at a pharmacy (Duane Reade?) in Hell Kitchen crusing me. I recognized him right away. Exotically handsome, very attractive physically, but I got vibes from him that creeped me out. JFK Jr, late 1980s. A long story which I won't go into here, there was mutual attraction, sadly I lost his phone number and we never got together. That's right, the opportunity was there for each, but no actualy follow through.

  Alexei

• James Marsden

• r158... How are you not going to go into detail about JFK JR? Spill it. r159... more details please... my god!

• [quote]Christopher pn West End Avenue. No such place.

• I'm sure he meant Christopher and West St, r161. But, alas, his is YET another list of gorgeous men all being turned down by the author. Please.

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• MTE, R162. That list was ridiculous. And how do you lose JFK Jr's phone number? You would take it home and have it framed for God's sake. What a tool!

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• Ron Palillo (Horshack from Welcome Back, Kotter) back in the early '80s. He seemed nice, but I was so NOT attracted to him. I can do homely, if the guy is nice, but Good Lord, he was beyond FUG! I did have drinks with him though.

• R114, are you male or female?

• R165 Male.

• So did you go home with Albie, R166?

• Josh Brolin hit on me. Oh wait, no, he just hit me.

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• Seth Macfarlane James Franco Cheyenne Jackson Brian Boitano Paul Wylie

• r 169 come one story please. How did it go down?

• Victor Garber

• r158 is a troll.

• Can we please with a capital P not just write names. Tell how it happened!

• [quote]Can we please with a capital P not just write names. Tell how it happened! What's to tell...when it didn't happen?

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• Seriously R169, Paul Wylie? Details?

• Yes 113. The Donald was with Marla. Was after the lighting of the x-mas tree at the Plaza Hotel. He looked and looked...and I looked right back. Same with Gifford. Was near Lincoln Center and he was with a blond woman. He looked and looked and I looked right back. Both men are very tall- I go for short and beefy men.

  A New Yorker

• Marion Cotillard. We made eye contact then I turned away. I felt a sharp pain and realized she'd hurled her prosthetic foot. I'll cut the bitch if she does it again.

• David Hyde Pierce at a deli/cafe in LA. The owner was also a photographer I worked with and I went to see here there one day and he was sitting with someone. He stared me up good when I walked in, and as I was leaving he said hello...I should have

• I think I have posted this before in another thread, but Neil Patrick Harris cruised me hard while we were smoking outside a show during intermission. This was before he came out. If I hadn't been with my bf at the time, I would have chatted him up. We just nodded and smiled. Saw him again at the end of the show...more cruising. The friends I was with that night still laugh about how hard he was cruising me and if I hadn't been with my now EX boyfriend I could be NPH's husband and be having Oprah over to our house! I am sometimes clueless when I am being cruised/flirted with, but I do think Seann William Scott was flirting with me. Nice guy though, and way less "frat boy" in real life. Matthew Broderick cruised my friend and I BIG TIME. He was with a couple of twink types. It was just some bar in NYC. Not super famous, but a couple of members of the gay punk band Pansy Division felt me up after their show. One tried to kiss me. I had only been out a couple of months and was too scared to do anything!

• Scott Thompson from Boys in the Hall and Toller Cranston, the Canadian figure skater. I didn't take either up on his offer.

• Kim Delaney Amy Irving Ellen Barkin Robin Weigert --Completely fucking insane, all of them.

• So you attract the crazies, R181? Are you a female? Can we have some details on Kim Delaney, please? Even though she's a mess I find her gorgeous as hell.

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• Apparently, r182. Not anything I'm proud of. Yes, a female. The mess part really kills what would otherwise be very sexy.

• Dennis Quaid

• give a bit more details OR IT NEVER HAPPENED!

• The terribly thing, OP, is that Roy Cohn tended to be attracted to men whom he imagined looked an awful lot like him. His attentions were no compliment. As an example, without mentioning any names, there was the guy into whose name Roy put his house, as a means of keeping it away from the IRS. When they broke up, the guy refused to give it back, until Cohn's enforcer, Lou Katz (owner of Uncle Charlie's, and reputed killer of two of his own boyfriends), entered a room with the guy and locked the door behind him. Ain't love grand?

• Will Smith Eminem Kanye

• Oooh, I DID mention names. But at least I didn't name the object of Roy Cohn's affectations.

  R187

• Helen Lawson. 2010. Sanibel Island. I am still in therapy.

• Tom Colicchio

• I met Tony Danza when I was 14 or 15 and thankfully he did not hit on me or cruise me.

• A name doesn't really cut it. What are you so afraid of?

• Willem Dafoe while I was walking along Wooster St and Matt Dillon while I was buying sundries at a bodega near the Monkey Bar. Their predatory sexual energy scared me ... I did not accept from either. This was in the 90s.

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• Story and since women have flooded the boards, your sex as well, included with name or it DIDN'T HAPPEN!

• Dave Matthews Ryan Seacrest Billy Joe Armstrong

• r196 re read r195 and try again! Liar!

• Will Arnett

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  Anonymous

• male, mario van peebles out side the Roxbury in the mid 90's. I didn't

• r200 thanks boo. Why not?

• Ralph Fiennes cruised me uncomfortably hard on a flight from Dublin to London in 1997. My brother was with me and he was also surprised at the ongoing eye contact. It went from tittalating to weird and he even waited at the end of the walkway for me in the terminal and I just breezed past him. Anthony Perkins cruised me outside of the theater he was doing a play in with Mia Farrow in about 1980 or so.

• So, did you like "Romantic Comedy" r202?

• Male or female R202?

• R198, are you male or female? Cause I have serious doubts about Will Arnett.

• r201 - I was 21, he was on "something" and I was with a date lol..who was a nobody, hung like a mule and we ended up dating for 6 months..best sex i ever had.

• Mario Van Peebles ended up being a nobody too, so looks like you made the right choice R206

• Kevin Spacey, when I was in the third grade. He said he was tired of hooking up with young men, and wanted a more mature guy.

• Mario Van Peebles also made a move for me (I'm a man)in Fire Island Pines, 1982. It was my first time and first day there and neither of us had a place and I did not yet know about the meat rack yet (6 hours later that all changed). So we were left frustrated. He was very forward and charming, almost came across as a hustler/car salesman. He was also very forthcoming with his name, and looked mighty fine back in 1982. I was 21 years old myself, but still couldn't shake off the feeling that someone so attractive must have been wanting something other than sex. I was literally off the boat when I met him, so other than being a new face in the village, I showed no signs of wealth or power.

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• Yes, Mario was (probably still is) very attractive and I always thought he was gay. You didn't hook up with him, r209?

• I met Mikhail Baryshnikov in 1987 at the Brooklyn Academy of Music. He wasn't cruising me, but it felt like he was flirting.

• WOW 211! Classy.

• No, r209. We were at the ferry dock and it was my very first time there as I said, so I was clueless. I do remember that "So Many Men So Little Time" played that night at the Pavillion.

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• He's a dancer r211, and a star. He behaved that way with everyone.

• Matthew Broderick, on Greenwich Avenue. He was still limping from his vehicular manslaughter...

• Oops r213 was meant as a response to r210

• The white bear from Repo Games at a bar in nyc. Dunno his name, but he's fucking hot. Both those Repo Games bears are. If my bf wasn't there I may have been more responsive, lol

• Rick Steves Jon Cochran Larry the Cable Guy Kyle Bornheimer

• Garrison Keillor in a DC gay bar. He even explained to me who he was and was appalled I wasnt in awe.

• Are you a black, middle-aged man, R219? The people I've known whom he has hit on are all black, middle-aged men. (Only three, but I'd have said "both" if there were only two.) Each is also fairly well educated and well-spoken, if that's another common thread. Lest anyone not understand just what a catch Garrison is, I'm attaching a link.

  http://www.wideawakeinwonderland.com/tag/garrison-keillor-looks-like-a-pervert/

• Johnny Mathis

• Andy Cohen

• [quote]Scott Thompson from Boys in the Hall Kids in the Hall

• r221, who HASN'T He hit on?

• Are you male or female, R218? I think Kyle Bornheimer is incredibly hot. What was the scenario this happened in?

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• OKAY YET AGAIN... IF YOU DON'T PROVIDE SEX OR HOW IT WENT DOWN IT NEVER HAPPENED!!!!!!

• R228 Just shut up already. Don't you realize you sound like a psycho and people are going to continue not giving you the details just to piss you off? No one owes you anything so shut the hell up.

• Kenny Chesney

• R202', I'm a guy

• Bart Connor Tim Daggett Blaine Wilson

• Edward Albee Freddie Mercury Banged them both

• 181 What about Amy Irving? Kim, Amy and Ellen have always pinged big time to me. I have heard from someone who was in her class at the New School that Ellen is out of her mind.

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• r229 and r228 have the same anger issues. Now back SEX AND HOW IT WENT DOWN OR IT NEVER HAPPENED!

• Miss Piggy and Kermit. Who knows what they are into, and didn't want to find out! Cruised by Big Bird. I tossed him some expensive parakeet treat just to get rid of him. Gawd, I coulda used him to dust my apartment. The cookie monster, but he probably just wanted the Girl Scout cookies I had just gotten.I tossed him the cookies just to get rid of him, too. Can't trust those cookie monsters, you just can't.

• [quote]The terribly thing, OP, is that Roy Cohn tended to be attracted to men whom he imagined looked an awful lot like him. His attentions were no compliment. As an example, without mentioning any names, there was the guy into whose name Roy put his house, as a means of keeping it away from the IRS. When they broke up, the guy refused to give it back, until Cohn's enforcer, Lou Katz (owner of Uncle Charlie's, and reputed killer of two of his own boyfriends), entered a room with the guy and locked the door behind him. I used to work for one of Cohn's ex-boyfriends who was just as creepy as Cohn himself. The guy went by the name Richard DuPont and tried to drive Cohn crazy after he broke up with him.

• 50 cent

• r238 - EWWW!

• R220 My skin tried to crawl off of my body when I looked at that.

• Got cruised by actor Christopher Evan Welch at the Louisville Theater Fest, mid-90s. I'm a guy. Didn't take him up on it, regretted it since.

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• Barney the Dinosaur at a leather bar. Filthy pig bottom.

• During the 'Spokane' tour Kyle Bornheimer pulled his flaccid penis out of his pants and made elephant ears against his head with his hands at me during a party. The elephant impersonation was intended for me, but the four or five other people around me who also witnessed it thought it was hilarious. I was the only one who was shocked and wasn't laughing. He winked, laughed and walked away.

• Spiderman. I was afraid he'd be into bondage, you know with the web-making ability and all. Yosemite Sam. Top. So, too, is Taz, the Tasmanian Devil, esp. if you are into men with fur.

• The puppet and cartoon references are failing miserably. Give it up.

• RFK Jr at a NY bar event a few years ago. I thought I could have been reading too much into his behavior but a friend of mine pulled me aside saying the same thing. Curious that both my friend and myself have been described as "preppy looking". Definitely had roving eyes and was quite blatant about it.

• I've met all of the r181 list and am in complete agreement that each/every/all are nutjobs. And though we're agreed on THAT, I'd never say Robin Weigert falls under the "celebrity" category -- insane, yes, celebrity, no. As a dyke, absolutely infamous, but not famous as a performer. Ellen Barkin hit on me at the bar at Little Door once (yes, I'm female) 14, maybe 15 years ago. I was 21, hyper femme, and she aggressively moved into my personal space when a gay boy friend of mine introduced me to her (as his lesbian gal-pal), and instead of saying hello, she looked me up and down, smirked, leaned in to my ear and purred, "oooh, YUMMMMY." I excused myself and bolted for the restroom. When I came back, my friend said she'd asked for my number...

• I had no idea Ellen Barkin was "family"

• r247, I would have bolted too. She scares me even on film.

• I was hit and cursed by Jan Michael Vincent.

• Are you male or female, R243? Did he have a big dick?

• R246 This does not surprise me at all. I would lay good money that you were correct in your assessment.

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• The person who flirted w/ 50CENT- male or female? black or white?

  anon

• More on Robin Weigert.. more on Kim Delaney!!

• OMG I can totally hear ELLEN B saying that in my head and the way her face would look as saying it all scrunched up.. haha. Omg. Funny. r247

• John Stossel once looked me over from head to toe as I was passing him on the street. He was either checking my out or thinking you are a disgusting homo. I fear it was the latter.

• "RFK Jr at a NY bar event a few years ago. I thought I could have been reading too much into his behavior but a friend of mine pulled me aside saying the same thing." Didn't someone here claim to have hooked up with him in a steam room once? Or am I confusing him with some other Kennedy?

• Another Garrison Keillor cruise. He hit on me while at a gay bar in my hometown, his show was recording at a local theatre. I knew who he was right away, but the idea of unchaperoned private time with him skeeved me out. I was 30-ish, blond and cute.

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• is RFK Jr. the one who is with Cheryl Hines?

• Have heard long standing gossip that he's bisexual.

• Robin Weigert is a brilliant sociopath. You'll never meet a more arrogant slut. Fucks around all the time. She needs to be medicated at least. Knew her -- ran the other way. Kim Delaney I hear is just deeply messed up by insurmountable alcoholism and ridiculously dysfunctional family history. But I don't know her directly. Know a woman she slept with, though, but she mostly sleeps with older men.

• Didn't your friend tell you how Delaney is in bed, R261? Pillow princess? Aggressive? It's sad that her drinking has messed up her life. She had it under control at one time. She seems like a nice person that has too many demons.

• r258 John is a self hating homosexual...deep in the closet.

• Not much of a celebrity but Stacey Dash. Back when there was a Virgin store at Sunset and Crescent Hts Blvd. I was looking at music and turned to see her checking me up and down. I was dressed in workout clothes, bike shorts, hoody, sneakers. She could have been just interested in where I got my sneakers or hoody but. . . I don't think so.

• R263, who's John? The post to which you're referring mentions Garrison Keillor

• R217 Tom Detone. Woof

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• John Stossel maybe?

• Did the person who got cruised on by Tom Selleck take him up on it? Or was he just flirting? I know he's a major closet queen that's been outed before but I see him being more into male prostitutes than straight up picking someone up.

• John Barrowman

• r268, I don't imagine Tom Selleck being into picking up prostitutes, not at all. Like he'd need to! HA! I imagine if that were the case, we would have heard about it, and rather quickly, too. Something like that just wouldn't be kept quiet.

• When I used to work in events planning my company was doing the Calvin Klein after-party in 2006 and Francisco Costa started chatting me up. I was so nervous that I spilled some of my drink on his suit. Fortunately he was a very gracious person and laughed it off. He told me that he and some of his friends were about to depart and if I wanted to join. Costa wasn't necessarily my physical type but I thought to myself "When the hell am I ever going to do something like this again?" I went off with him to another club in the Meatpacking district and it was a lot of fun. He was high on blow and kept offering me bumps so I kept taking them. LOL Finally we went back to his place in Murray Hill near the Morgan Library. I hate that neighborhood but his apartment was amazing. His partner was away but there were pictures of him everywhere which creeped me out...like he was watching me or something. Anyway, Costa was a POWER TOP surprisingly and fucked me like an animal. He had a short but fat dick that wouldn't quit.

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• R271 Is this the place? see link

  http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/francisco-costas-t-style-magaz-62161

• bump

• Anyone have anymore info on Robin Weigert? I have read posts about her and didn't know she was so crazy.