I''m a 49-ish lesbian dating a much older closet lesbian in the Entertainment Indutry. I know it''s part of her job to be photographed with everyone else and happy at all times. I often see her pictured with other actors . . . I think exploiting the fact that she''s closeted and probably thinking they''re the stud that''s gonna change her. Anyway, I''m in a ton of pain seeing all of these men kissing and groping her. Does anyone have any insight that might help me?
First, of course, you have to tell us who it is.
And, second, you have to give up the notion that a ''stud'' feels like ''changing'' a woman over the age of 49.
You''re 49 and the celebrity you''re supposedly dating is "much older"? Well, that certainly narrows it down.
[quote]Anyway, I''m in a ton of pain seeing all of these men kissing and groping her.\
Just look at it from the point of view that she''s doing a job, an acting job.
I hope Holland Taylor is worth it, OP.
This. Never. Happened.
She''s fucking Barbara Bush!
Studs are groping a woman who is much older than 49? If that is the case, I would think most of the audience thinks it is for show.
OP is obviously dating Catherine Zeta Jones.
taxi for Joan Collins\
taxi for Joan Collins
Debbie Reynolds is the only other name besides Holand Taylor I can come up with.
what in the hell is OP?
Jessica Tandy is not dead. She wunk at me at the corner of 10th Street and Broadway.
What exactly did you think this post was going to get you, OP? \
This is the fucking DL perfect storm of nasty responses.\
Lesbians, unidentified closet gay, and adive for pathetic personal problems.\
[quote]I''m a 49-ish lesbian dating a much older closet lesbian\
Oh, jesus. Sorry, op. Mother go back to being dead.
Please let it be Catherine Deneuve. Please let it be Catherine Deneuve. Please let it be Catherine Deneuve.
it''s nancy reagan
Actually, [R5] gave me some practical advice - Thank you for that. All the others were funny, and [R15] has a ton of unresolved issues himself.
This type of conversation leads me to wonder:\
Would I date Jake Gyllenhall (or whoever) if I knew it had to be on the sly?\
Probably, but I think it would get old fast and the first time I saw macking on some girl at a party or something.......well, that''d be the end.
A friend confided in me yesterday that she has been dating a politician. My friend just got out of a six year relationship and wasn''t looking for anyone. Well, this woman, who has never dated a woman before or even slept with one, perused her, and told my friend that if need be she would "come out" and be honest about the relationship. Well, yesterday my friend said the woman told her she was having second thoughts about the coming out part and if they could keep it under wraps longer. My friend agreed. I asked her why and she said "well, we are both 43, so it wasn''t like I went in with blinders on, but oddly enough, I am still somewhat hurt." My friend said she would not go to any public events and pretend to be a "friend" or not know her. We''ll see. My friend is an out lesbian.
I''m wishing someone would just kill me.
A few years ago I was a Popular Local Celebrity (TV)and under orders not to be seen with my BF out in public. It sucked. He was a real champ about it and did his best to conform. \
He dumped me.
Thank you [24} for you candor . . . Much appreciated.
So who is the celebrity you''re dating, OP?
I always peruse before I pursue.
Another vote for Debbie R.\
Everyone knows she does the lez lez, right?
Please tell us you''re dating Betty White.
She''s the only "much older" than 49 celeb I can think of that could be construed as both gropable and dykesque.
Gertrude Stein''s cane
Jesus, how much older than 49 can one get?
[quote]Jessica Tandy is not dead. She wunk at me at the corner of 10th Street and Broadway.\
I''d just like to say how laughable it is that once again Josh Kilmer-Purcell starts a thread hawking his book, he gets vilified, then obviously defends himself under various guises, then - yet again- the webmaster closes the thread immediately after he/she/it/josh gets a huffy defensive last word.\
Obviously someone at Mediopolis knew Josh when he was a whore.\
I know, wrong thread, but the cunt that runs this site closed that thread.
Okay...the most likely suspects as OP''s girlfriend: Debbie Reynolds, Holland Taylor, Lauren Hutton,...who else?
Any other H''wood Dykes who are "much older" than 49?
Michelle Pfeiffer is 49.
[quote] A friend confided in me yesterday that she has been dating a politician... \
That''s a very tough position to be in. I hope the politician comes out soon. It sounds like they really like each other. Her gf wouldn''t happen to be a House Democrat from northern Illinois?
OP, what is 49ish. Is that like 55 but you still can''t just say it. \
If you aren''t going to say who it is just tell us how old she is.\
Give us that, and let us speculate.
Do you love her OP? Do you feel she truly loves you? Do you feel this relationship is worth fighting for?
Does the much older celebrity lesbian do the crab-walk across the room?
OP, you''re 49 and your gf is MUCH older. Is it Betty White? j/k :)
We all know this thread was started by a man.
Is Lauren Hutton gay?
I read (here?) that she slept with Jodie Foster, r44. So she might be.
Who is Kim Dickens'' girlfriend?
So she is a 60 SINGLE female celeb, who FREQUENTLY gets photographed in intimate poses with males and the general public thinks she is heterosexual.
This thread is now closed.
OP is a gay man. No lesbian I know would describe herself as "49-ish," and if she did, she must be a jackass.
I''m 51, thank you very much.
if you want advice go to afterellen.com, there are a lot of thoughtful responders there\
if you want cattiness, stay here
Punch & delete, baby.
LOL @ r28. I didn''t even notice that typo. \
r38, I can''t say, but she is a democrat though and is very attractive, I googled her after she told me. From the little bit I read, I could see the woman coming out, slowly, saying she is Bi. She seems to have integrity. \
They are very much in love, I''ve never seen my friend happier. I am worried about her though, the previous relationship wasn''t far removed and she was tore up. I guess it''s true what they say...The best way to get over one is to get under another one.
I can''t for the life of me recall any photos of an old broad being kissed and groped by men.
I KNEW Joe Gillis was a Merkin. The BITCH!!!!
If men are groping a woman much older than your 49ish ass, OP, it''s because they''re looking for her purse or she''s choking on a piece of Swiss steak.
OP, how can we help you if we don''t know who you''re dating?
How much older than "49ish" is your alleged GF?
I''ll concede that fondle is a more accurate description than grope.\
For what it''s worth, Meredith Baxter is over 60, but it isn''t her. I am sorry I cannot say at this point who it is.\
Also, for whomever is bothered by 49-ish, it''s the same thing to me as 49.
Has anyone guessed the woman, OP?
Aren''t you going to give us a few hints, OP?
It''s Maya Angelou!!!
Susan B. Anthony!
She''s over 60 but not yet 70. That''s it for the hints.
From your first post, OP, I take it she''s not closeted in her personal life.
Dame Judi Dench''s Cocaine Nightmare
[quote]Who is Kim Dickens'' girlfriend?\
Didn''t Jill Sobule deny being gay after her big I''m A Lesbian song became popular?
What older woman would let men fondle her and have photographs taken?
LEAVE GLORIA STUART ALOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE!
Phyllis Schlafly, r81
Studs groping and kissing a 60-70 year old woman in a sexual way? YECH.\
BTW, the OP said "Entertainment Industry" and not actress...this could be a singer, model, director or agent...so put on your thinking caps my friends.
Maybe Dolly Parton?\
She''s long been rumored to be lesbian, and she is certainly fondlable.
I thought Dolly and Judy were solid, but that sounds like a good guess to me otherwise. OP is Bonnie Mace!
I''m dating a conehead.
I''m thinking...lena Horne?
I''m still going with Deneuve. No matter what OP says.
don''t destroy my fantasy
[quote]Is Lauren Hutton gay?[/quote]\
Yes, but he doesn''t kiss men.
Uh, r88, those studs would be fondling and groping a corpse.
[quote] I''m thinking...lena Horne?\
You do know that she is dead, don''t you?
You''re dating Betty White?
[quote]I often see her pictured with other actors...\
Um, read a little closer R84.
Can you give us a hint of what she known for op?
OP, here''s the thing: when you met her she was closeted and in the entertainment industry and now that you''re dating her she''s still closeted and in the entertainment industry.\
She hasn''t changed, you have. Ask her if she''s willing to come out. If she''s not, decide if you can stand being with a closeted person.\
Once you''ve made your decision, stop whining.
Chin up, stop slouching, stop looking at the fucking photos
OK. My choices are:\
remote possibility, Diane Sawyer.\
If we''re thinkin'' truly randy, add Hele Mirren to the list. That is all. Then again, there''s Jackie Collins, as well as Joan. Should we look at live theatre? \
OP, you need to dump this chick or get her to agree to some dealine. It is wrong to be this old with your life on hold. That is bullshit.
Is she married?
Susan Sarandon - old Sue is dating a young guy\
Candice Bergen - Candice, not Candace, is married to an older guy, has been for years.\
Jane Seymour - I can tell you it''s not Jane. \
Sharon Stone - she''s 52, OP''s gf is over 60.
...or Linda Hunt
OP, did anyone name your girlfriend yet?
It is possible to be famous and closeted even to the gay community. \
This has been interesting and fun but these posts are so far from my original question, I''d might as well go for now. Thanks anyway.
If it''s Jackie Bisset then you are a lucky lady!
What do you want to hear Op? You walked into this situation knowingly.
OP, are you the same old broad who had a problem with a contractor recently? If so, stop posting if you don''t like what people have to say in response.
Candice Bergen''s husband--the "at least" bisexual Louis Malle--has been dead for awhile, r101.
Ms Bergen has had her share of lez rumors, too
Candice Bergen has had her share of gay rumors but she has also gotten remarried, R109. She has been married the past ten years to Marshall Rose. Not that that means anything, though.
OP left after the Dolly guess.\
Coat of many colors indeed.
 Your advice is the most intelligent yet. Thank you.
r97 is right. She''s just not of the out generation, and it would be a huge media circus if she were to come out. That that would be highly stressful for... Jane Curtin?
she''s married, I know...
[quote]Didn''t Jill Sobule deny being gay after her big I''m A Lesbian song became popular?\
Yes, but what''s your point?
Suzanne Hesseloff, longtime ex-partner of Jorja Fox, and close pal to Jill & Kim
It has to be Sylvia Myles.
Holland Taylor-67...No matter how many people on DL know she is gay, she is not "out" (hiding in plain sight, perhaps, but the straights just think of her as the shrewish mother on "Two and a Half Men").
Saying she''s lez would confuse the het fans of her network "comedy"
r117 is probably right.
re: r115, well, why would she do that and then enter into a public lesbian relationship which is only not well known because its two participants are only moderately famous?
[quote] BTW, the OP said "Entertainment Industry" and not actress...this could be a singer, model, director or agent...so put on your thinking caps my friends.\
The OP ALSO said:\
[quote] I often see her pictured with other actors\
so I would say she''s an actress.
Stick to my question, and you may get to know more. This is not a guessing game, It is about someone who does not wish to come out and other hollywood males and my delimma. Sorry.
If she is not going to come out than your only choice is to stay with her and accept the closet or break up with her and move on. I hope you don''t hope that she will come out FOR you. That WILL break you up.
If she''s out in her personal life OP and isn''t hiding you from her family and friends, then be with her if you love her. \
How important is it for you to be known as the partner of a famous person? Do you want to be in paparazzi photos? Do you want to be known? If you don''t care for those things, then view this as her acting...part of the job.
You know, forget what I said. What do I know what it''s like to date a closeted celebrity...
OP at R121: She is never going to come out until you learn to spell.
I think from OPs message that her girlfriend is in the glass closet. She states that the studs think they are going to change her - everyone in the industry knows she''s gay.\
I don''t see why you would even care. Do you have to have your face on People Magazine as her latest. \
And you should know if you are on here that Datalounge is about many about gossip not helping someone with their psychological issues.\
If you mention celebrity we want to know who the fuck it is not help you deal.
Point taken [R126]. Perhaps I am barking up the wrong tree with DL, and for that I am truly sorry. \
Thank you to those people who gave me honest feedback. It was very much appreciated.
OP, can you tell us how did you meet?
OP, as long as you know she loves you, everything will be OK. She has to keep up the pretense. She''s an actress, her behavior is an act.
Actually, OP, you have the advantage. I really cannot imagine, if what you say is true, that she would want you to go. She is at an age where having a meaningful relationship is very important. I bet the idea of you leaving her is completely beyond her.YOu need to be the strong resolute person here and tell her how you feel, with an "I don''t know how much longer I can live like this" caveat.
[quote]re: [R115], well, why would she do that and then enter into a public lesbian relationship which is only not well known because its two participants are only moderately famous?\
I have no idea, R119. You''d have to ask her about that.
Jorja''s ex, Suzanne Mara Hesseloff
Dolly or Cher, both 64\
Maybe Cher has somewhat flown under the radar all these years......
again, I ask what old lady is often pictured being FONDLED by male actors?
I never said old lady, that is your prejudice. And it isn''t often, it is at choice moments. How I wish I could provide you with the pictures to prove my point, but to do that is to betray her and I will not.
You knew the deal going into the relationship, so if you can''t handle it, move it along, toots.
To [R130] and  . . . Thank you for your wonderfully kind words and support.
THIS NEVER HAPPENED!!
someone had to say it
What never happened?
OP does she reassure you of her love? Don''t be afraid to ask for reassurance, it doesn''t make you seem needy. Let her know how you feel about the situation, don''t make any demands, but let her know how hard it is for you. You are in a tough fix. \
No woman wants to see her lover pawed over, or the subject of rude and crude remarks or gossip.\
You are responding in a perfectly understandable way to a situation that is beyond comprehension for most of us.\
Don''t bottle your feelings, because they WILL emerge in subtly destructive ways. But realize that her career is extremely important to her on a deeply emotional level. Entertainers have a need for validation from strangers, they have tremendous egos, and deep insecurities.\
YOU know the real woman, the world doesn''t. They are responding to an image and have agendas of their own, as know.
[quote]And, second, you have to give up the notion that a ''stud'' feels like ''changing'' a woman over the age of 49.\
If Raquel Welch were lesbian, lots of studs would try to change her. She''s 60 years old.
Is Tina Turner 70 yet?
Only a lesbian would post a thread with the subject in all CAPS!
Johnny that skater flamer
Is Jessica Lange sixty yet?
[R143] I cannot thank you enough for your kind words and deep insight. You''re perhaps the only person on the whole thread that understands my situation. Thank you.
This thread is useless without pictures!
Hasn''t anyone said it yet?
WW for r10! \
This thread is lulz.
If I were this closeted celebrity, I would break it off because OP spends WAY too much time on anonymous message boards!
Jamie Lee Curtis
HMMM....Donna Mills....Mary Kay Place...Morgan Fairchild...?
Give as a little more, OP! C''mon...Movies, television, or Broadway?
I''m curious: how did you meet? And what is it *really* like to be w/a celebrity? Fun...or a pain in the ass most of the time?
I like my anonymity, thanks
I used to date a female celeb. Five years later, heartbroken. She says she still loves me and sometimes wears our ring. But I will never be seen with her and now she is actively bearding. I don''t regret but looking back, I could have been with happier with someone else whom I can have a future with. I left her immediately after she got married.\
Happiness comes from self esteem and shared circle and security. Almost impossible with a closet case in the long run.
The only woman guessed on this thread that I can understand man wanting to grope is Donna Mills but she''s not really closeted, is she?
R158, does her husband know the deal? Did she want you to continue to see her after she got married?
Celebs always put their career/fame/fear whatever ahead of lovers. Invariably so. If they find they can get away with the hiding (having the cake and eating it too), they will never come out. You will be locked into the dark closet for life.
R158 do we sometimes discuss her? What''s it like to read about your former girlfriend? Or to read all the "happy couple" article in the papers?
We''re still talking about this?
Still? r163, this is the kind of stuff DL was made for!
[quote]Does the much older celebrity lesbian do the crab-walk across the room?\
r158, Mariska Hargitay, right?
I think the original post contained a typo. I think OP meant to say 40ish, not 49ish.\
I think we''re looking for someone in her mid-50s.\
Which widens the field considerably.
R167, OP said somewhere in the thread that the celebrity is over 60.
uh-oh. looks like someone''s closet case is trolling...
It''s a pity, I would have liked to hear more from R158.
..um, how old is Danielle Egnew...?
R158, if it''s of any consolation to you it''s hard to imagine that she''s happy living a lie. Though, some of these people are so calculative and hungry for success and fame I wonder if they do get satisfaction from superficial things. I have never seen a photo of an unhappy Hargitay, for example.
OP, come back and let us know how it''s going.
OP are you in the Industry as well?
OP must be dating Cicely Tyson
OP is dating Mike Tyson, the over 60 and lady thing were just red herrings.
OP, are you an agent?
Donna Mills is a lesbian only on DL.
So the closeted lesbian celebrity OP is dating is single and is 60 to 70 years old. What are the best guesses?
I doubt OP will return to give us more hints.
oh get over it. it's part of the job. would you be mad if you dated a plumber and he occasionally smelled like shit? no. you'd over it and used to it.
OP has made it perfectly clear that she doesn't want to identify the woman.
How to difficult can it be to guess who it is? How many over 60, single actresses are photographed with younger actors?
Joan Collins, Muff Diver.
Who cares about the celebrity OP is dating. It's obviously someone incredibly dull and uninteresting.
The best guesses so far in this thread are Joanna Cassidy, Donna Mills and Jackie Bisset.
Any other guesses?
It's Betty White
Oh for fucks sake you idiots. This was posted almost 2 years ago. Whoever OP was dating then doesn't matter because it's OLD news.
it's Susan Sarandon.
But we never did find out who the closeted lesbian is, R191. So even if it's old news it's still fun to guess.
I haven't read through the thread but did the OP mention if her gf had any gay rumors in the past?
must be Liza
We've already done this only it was guy/guy. Goes over much better IMHO.
My money is on Linda Hunt.
That Oscar winning muff diver can eat pussy standing up.
R189 is right. The other guesses don't fit. We are forgetting that the celebrity is single and is sometimes photographed with younger actors.
A female friend (well, more acquaintance) claimed to have had a lesbian affair with Sarandon.
Holland Taylor is photographed with young actors groping her?
r189 is right
[quote]Does anyone have any insight that might help me?
It's called "ACTING".
And red carpet publicity is nothing compared to naked love scenes on film.
Comes with the territory. Deal with it or move on.
I agree, R203. Now if only the OP would come back and give us more clues.
It's Jaqueline Bisset
First guess: Patricia Clarkson (even though she is only ~52)
Second guess: Catherine Deneuve
Third guess: Isabella Rossellini
Fourth guess: Isabelle Adjani
Patricia Clarkson and Isabelle Adjani aren't yet 60 years old, R207. Op said she is from 60 to 70 years old. And although Catherine Deneuve and Isabella Rossellini are good guesses I don't think they have ever been photographed with younger actors groping them.
Joanna Cassidy, Donna Mills and Jacqueline Bisset are the best guesses so far. And from those three I think Bisset is the only one that has been photographed with younger actors. She has always been involved with younger men.
A couple of you have mentioned Linda Hunt.
She is openly lesbian and has been married to her wife for several years.
Well, they have Holland getting into bed with Ashton Kucher on "Two and a Half Men", r202!
I think the OP was talking about young actors with her gf on the red carpet and other events, R210.
Why has nobody suggested Bernadette Peters? She's in the entertainment industry and gets pictured with actors. And her bod's still pretty smoking for a 60 something.
OP, if you trust your gf you should have nothing to worry about. A guy--no matter how young and handsome he may be--is not going to 'change' your lesbian girlfriend. Is she bisexual? Regardless, if you cannot cope with her choice to remain closeted perhaps you should decide if you want to stay in the relationship, languishing in the shadows.
Abigail van Buren
R212 might be right. But isn't Bernadette Peters in a glass closet. Would it be much of a surprise if it was her?
I think Peters is still pretty closeted as far as the general public is concerned, R214. I don't know if she fits OP's description of cozying up to guys for photo-ops, though.
I guess you're right about Peters, R215.
As far as the cozying up to guys for photo-ops, I think the only one that really fits is Jacqueline Bisset, although I never got a gay vibe from her at all.
My first guess was Dana Delany but I don't think she is over 60 yet.
I'm going to agree with R189, too.
An older queen know who puts a little money into Broadway shows and rubs elbows with that crowd of theatery New Yorkers said BP is straight and Julie Andrews is gay. I am willing to believe his accuracy on BP, as disappointing as it is, if only to have confirmation on Julie Andrews.
My guess is Anna Deavere Smith (who is 60) because she pings like the dickens and has literally never spoken of her personal life. She also has never married and she is from that last generation of folks who were ones for marriage.
Have I seen her photographed with fellows while doing PR? No. I have actually never looked that up or anything.
Anna Deavere Smith has never been linked to a soul.
Sorry, R218, but your friend is wrong, at least about Peters.
For Holland Taylor, see the She-Wired interview. It's as close to saying 'Yes, I am' as she's ever likely to come.
There's also a thread on DL.
Has anyone guessed Diane Keaton? She fits in with the age but I can't really see her being photographed and groped by young actors.
The way OP worded it it sounds like her gf is an older, sexy woman that even young men would want.
SUSAN SARANDON!Dating a younger man and check out R200
Someone in the Jacqueline Bisset thread posted that she knows that Bisset had a lesbian affair.
I believe that a lot of guesses on this thread had lesbian affairs but OP's gf is someone that is still sexy as an older woman. I'm going to guess Jacqueline Bisset.
[quote]SUSAN SARANDON!Dating a younger man and check out [R200]
How long has she been dating the younger man? This thread was created 1.5 years ago.
I thought Peters was pretty widely known to be a lesbian, at least within Broadway circles. Wide Broadway circles. And yes, Anna Deveare Smith is a lesbian, but she's hardly known for posing with men groping her.
OP this isn't the best place to be asking this question. The majority of the people here are on Klonopin and never leave their mom's basement.
Yeah, stop dating her if it bothers you.
Isabella Rosselini was having an affair with a woman trainer I knew a few years back.
Um, this thread is 1.5 years old, honies, get a grip.
r220, I needed something to make me smile tonight.
Thank you :)
I will believe you over my friend because I want you to be right.
Kaye Ballard is still worrying about being outed????????
I think this is Diane Sawyer she is older but still attractive. OP never said actress.
I doubt it, R234. The OP said she is photographed with "other" actors, meaning she is probably an actress. But even if she isn't an actress, Diane Sawyer is never photographed with young actors looking all sexy.
You don't think Mike Nichols looks sexy?
you're right about the implication of "other actors" r235. And I didn't realize she was married. But, I think she could do better than Mike. She'd definitely be the type I could see getting hit on by much younger men.
And the lesbian celebrity is....
For any celeb, or anyone really desirable, you have to just block out everyone else and deal with them as an individual.
Too many people want a piece of them; you need to leave it up to them to eliminate your competition. To the extent they won't, you have to learn to live with it and be positive, i.e., not attack your rivals, or the fact you need to be private.
Been there, done that
[quote]Been there, done that
With who, R239?
And since we are on the topic, who the hell are we talking about in this thread? The only guesses that seem to fit are Donna Mills, Joanna Cassidy and Jacqueline Bisset.
OP take what 239 said.
Also from the experience.
Ok, I know I'm late to the party but somewhere in this thread the OP said that her gf is over 60 and not yet 70. So that would leave out Donna Mills because she was 70 in 2010 when this thread was started.
So Joanna Cassidy and Jacqueline Bisset seem to be the best guesses left.
r239 takes it.
Been there too and it is not worth it
I've always thought Joanna Cassidy was gay. Don't know exactly why.
So who is the much closeted older actress? Please say it's Catherine Deneuve!
[quote]So she is a 60 SINGLE female celeb, who FREQUENTLY gets photographed in intimate poses with males and the general public thinks she is heterosexual.
That's hysterical- Patty S.
They seem to both be very nice people, at least BP is, on the couple occasions I met them.
She looks tired in that photo, R247, and bored. He's got a great ass,though.
If that's the case R247, OP is a lucky lady!
can we bump this
Wait, Debbie Reynolds and Megan Mullally are back together?!? I guess we know why Carrie was getting shock treatments recently.
My guess: Jane Fonda. She's been pretty open about her preference for women since the 70s amongst lovers/husbands but only recently did she hint at it publicly.
[quote]My guess: Jane Fonda. She's been pretty open about her preference for women since the 70s amongst lovers/husbands but only recently did she hint at it publicly.
Uh, no. She said she had threesomes because Vadim wanted her to. And since she was more or less acting like a sheep in her relationships with men, she did it to please him.
Fonda was sleeping with women for years and years, with and without men involved. What she says publicly is one thing. That's why it's called the closet.
Recently she inched out and admitted she preferred her "female friends" to any man she'd been married to. A lot of people think she's preferred girls since she had lesbian affairs with some of Old Hollywood: Stanwyck and others.
That is BS about Jane Fonda. Know lots of insiders and never heard anything like that. Did hear she was a cunt, though.
Maybe my insiders should meet yours. The woman is notorious for being a sexual dynamo, and seducer of women. There's actually plenty of material on this on the web.
What the hell happened to the OP?
Jane is better off with women anyway, her father and husband were rabid woman-haters. She deserves some peace (and great fucks). That can't be achieved with men.
Jane had 3 husbands - were they all women haters? I thought they were just narcissists like her father.
I never thought Jane was gay or bi. I know she has an affair with Jimmy Smits during the Old Gringo time. Don't know of any women.
My guess, Susan Sullivan.
From a bio on Jane Fonda:
One friend recalls that Jane often confided that she’d enjoyed sleeping with girls since she was at boarding school. Even when sex wasn’t involved, she always forged intense female friendships.
At primary school, her best friend was a tomboy called Sue Sally Jones, who played professional polo — then not open to women — for 20 years, disguised as a man. Jane has carried a photo of Sue Sally with her throughout her life.
Another intimate friend was the petite and intense Canadian actress Madeleine Sherwood. When the two women starred in a Broadway play — with Madeleine playing Jane’s mother — they were often seen holding hands backstage.
Once, during a performance, Madeleine kissed her full on the mouth.
The director objected, saying: ‘A mother doesn’t kiss a daughter on the mouth.’
Madeleine recalls: ‘It was a gentle, loving kiss. We didn’t slobber.’
Rumours about Jane’s sexuality surfaced again in 1970, during an anti-war road trip across the States with her French friend, Elisabeth Vailland. They shared a curious bond: like Jane, Elisabeth had also procured women for her late husband and indulged in threesomes.
When Elisabeth asked if she enjoyed being with other women, Jane said she thought she did — ‘because I liked having an up-close view of the varied ways women express passion’.
She's 49 and they still grope her? She must be very attractive.
Is there something like a support group for spouses who date celebrities or those who are their 'dirty little secret' (like mistresses and gay lovers)?
It can't be Jane Fonda. OP said early on in the thread that her gf is over 60 but not yet 70. Jane Fonda is 75.
The best guesses in this thread are Jackie Bisset and Catherine Deneuve. They are the only over 60 actresses I can see being photographed with guys wanting to grope them.
More like Fonda is a man hater, r261. She attempted to make her own sexual excesses out to be "love" for her husband, basically blaming him for all the group sex. Pitiful example of someone who wants us to believe her overactive interest in her own sex was some sort of burden.
Recently, however, she admitted that she'd rather take getaways with women, and that her deepest relationships had been with women rather than any men she'd been involved with.
There were rumors *everywhere* about her sexuality in the 70s and 80s, and many near or outright confessions about her love of pussy back then. She used to routinely make lists of powerful Hollywood Bisexuals, and the details are readily available on the web.
Loving women doesn't = hating men, hater at r268. Sit your ass down.
3 years later...
The op is 49 and dating a much older closet case? She said the closet case is being groped by men...even though she is much older then 49? I must have read that wrong.
You think Jane Fonda's husbands would marry a woman who did not like to have sex with them? I find this a little hard to believe. I guess you feel like if you spread the lesbian rumors, people would think less of her? You're at the wrong board.