What does this term really mean? \
I think it means "I really like to bottom, but I will top if I absolutely have to."
It means "I''m a straight-acting ''dude'' and no femme, but the minute we''re in the bedroom I''ll have my heels to the ceiling."
It means they will bottom either face up or face down.
What is a versatile top mean or oral top?
It means a self-loathing bottom, who thinks nobody will be attracted to him unless he claims on paper to be masculine and not like a cock up his ass when in reality he is a total bottom and will be very vicious if you show up and decide you want to bottom and expect him to top.\
THERE. I SAID IT.
I agree with you, OP.
A versatile bottom has nothing to do with masculinity. It means you prefer to be a bottom, but under the right circumstances, you will top.
"I really like to bottom, but I will top if I absolutely have to."\
versatile bottom, if I like him a lot I''ll fuck him
People who use the terms "top" and "bottom" in that way are always effeminate.
Means they can sing or cook while they bottom
It means you don''t want the stigma of being labeled a pure bottom on your adam4adam profile, but you want the tops out there to know the score so no one gets confused.
Once a bottom always a bottom
By that definition alone, approximately 90% of the gay community at large are vers bottoms and likely 99.9% of DLers as well.
well, as an exclusive top, I wouldnt know about everyone else here. But I do know how bottoms can be manipulative.\
Hence, "bossy bottom."
I''m versatile, but depending on the guy, I tend to be more one or the other, bottom or top, and I can say overtime that I enjoy topping so much that this is why I say I''m vers/top, and I can imagine the reverse.\
I think it means different things for different people.\
Though I do I get the sense that mhb really needs to be bent over and plowed. This last disclosure explains a LOT.
In the same way exclusive tops can be self righteous.
Why should there be any stigma attached to being an exclusive bottom?
Nothing worse than an exclusive top. Usually self loathing and fussy with smaller than average dicks.\
Give me a versatile bottom any day. Especially one who''s well hung and all of a sudden flips you and fucks the hell out of you.
Truck Drivers, Construction Workers and Auto Mechanics are 100% tops (or Lesbian).\
Interior Decorators, Hairdressers and Figure Skaters are 100% Bottoms.
what about lawyers, o wise r18?
I second R16
Versatile tops are unmarketable. Once you are signify that you are open to bottoming, bottoms devalue you as not a real, authentic strict top. Strict tops are views as apex penetrators, they don''t bottom, never will. They get the best bottoms.
[quote]trict tops are views as apex penetrators, they don''t bottom, never will. They get the best bottoms.\
that was just made up.
It''s meaning is self explanatory.\
It means someone who bottoms (often times someone who primarily bottoms)who will top under certain circumstances.\
Why he tops, how often he tops, or how enthusiastically he tops, is irrelevant.
you made that up
I''m a total power bottom. I turn tops into my bitches. Haven''t found one yet who could tame my hole.
I am a versatile top. That means I roll over once a month and let my versatile bottom bf get his jollies so he will shut the fuck up.
I think it''s more of a "I prefer to bottom most of the time, but I like to mix it up occasionally" sort of deal.\
And I would know, versatile bottoms are my favorite type of guy. Total tops and total bottoms are usually jackasses who are more concerned with what they want instead of being a good sexual partner.
What are you Ciarian???
Bossy bottoms tend to end up getting the AIDS.
Maybe some of us total tops just don''t like things up our assholes. But we are glad some guys do.
MHB just because you''re on top of the cock you are not a top, sister.
I miss the days of the "man go up inside the other man" replies.
Um, seeing as you answered your own question, OP, I''m not sure what the point of this thread is. As for mhb, i thought queens who hate women as much as it does were always bottoms. Who''d have guessed? Perhaps it''d have less of an aversion to the ''fish'' if it got a cock in it now and then.
I never thought there was much question about this. A versatile bottom prefers that mode (understandable,) but will top with the best of them when necessary (and often it is.)
Funny the game playing that comes with self-marketing. I''m versatile (love fucking my partner, love getting fucked by my partner) but used to say "versatile top" because some guys thought "versatile" was code for "really just a bottom but ashamed of saying so".
I''m with R32. I have tried to bottom. I''ve tried it with big guys, tried it with small guys, tried it with older guys, tried it with younger guys. But no matter what, it does nothing for me. On the other hand, I LOVE to fuck and from the feedback I have gotten, it seems I''m damn good at it. If I fuck all day long I would. And I have.
"well, as an exclusive top" by: mhb.%0D\
Now that''s the funniest thing I''ve seen on DL since, well, the last time this screaming, mincing queen posted she''s a total top.
In my relationship I am the bottom. My BF is a total top. When we play with others I sometimes like to top. My BF never likes to bottom.
versatile bottom with a big dick
It means there is a CRITICAL SHORTAGE of real tops in this world.
[quote}Truck Drivers, Construction Workers and Auto Mechanics are 100% tops (or Lesbian).\
Which one of these is mhb?
R42 So true. And as far as I''m concerned, that''s AWESOME!
I''m sort of cuddly and passive, a real ''pleaser''. But something turns me on about a top giving up his butt to me. And most will these days.
I say I am a Versatile Top, but get topped very, very rarely. I have been topped 5 times in the past 30 years, and the last time was 8 years ago.\
I am very happy topping, and most men oblige. It takes a very special type to get my ankles up (the last one was a Greek sailor)
Right on, R29.\
For me versatile means flexible in my role especially if it means a greater connection. Besides, a guy who won''t let me fuck him is kind of a turn off, especially the totally-anything types.\
If you want to fuck someone in the butt, you better be able to take a cock up there yourself.
[quote]Now that''s the funniest thing I''ve seen on DL since, well, the last time this screaming, mincing queen posted she''s a total top.\
I''ve met a few such creatures, and yeah, it''s odd. One of them I knew could quote almost any Golden Girls episode verbatim (and in precise character) -- and, sexually, he liked nothing more than fucking ass like a jackhammer.
I shall part the rye to say yes, there are versatile bottoms. I prefer a bottom, but if the right guy came along, I''d go for it. Chances are if my dream person comes along, he''d be a bottom :-)
[quote]I''m a total power bottom. I turn tops into my bitches. Haven''t found one yet who could tame my hole.\
Does it have teeth?
[quote] I have tried to bottom. I''ve tried it with big guys, tried it with small guys, tried it with older guys, tried it with younger guys.\
Have you tried it in a box?\
..or with a fox??
I do not like it fifty one\
I do not like dicks in my bum
Do you have the AIDS?
"Versatile" = desperate for sex bottom.
Brunettes are generally tops. %0D\
Blonds are generally bottoms.%0D\
Hot bald guys get to top anyone they please. %0D\
Now, are we done here?
I like to switch. It works for me. Getting nailed and flipping him over to finish the job. Hot.
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