Do you think that straight guys are okay with getting blown by a guy but freaked about the possibility of getting fucked?

I have two straight friends who''ve confessed to getting oral sex from men but say they were freaked out about the idea of reciprocating or, worse, taking it up the ass.\ \ On the other hand, I have another "straight" friend who only wants to get fucked - absolutely nothing else - when he hooks up with a guy. He just loves to have his ass opened up and his girlfriend isn''t into it using toys, etc..\ \ Anyone else know similar guys?

• No. Straight guys find getting sucked off by another man repulsive.\ \ How open are you to the idea of being blown by a woman?

• J''ADORE my straight buds who like getting rimmed....\ \ HEAVEN!!

• You can''t be straight if you enjoy any sexual contact with someone of the same sex.\ \ I''m not getting into the bi or gay debate, but OP''s scenario means the men concerned were not straight.\ \ Plus there''s barely a woman out there who doesn''t blow so it''s not like the guys had to turn to men to satisfy the urge.

• It''s been many years since I was blown by a woman, R3, but all I remember about it was them giving me the goldfish eyes trying to make a meaningful soulful connection while she used my dick like a chew toy.\ \ Some guys who primarily identify as straight will indeed turn to other men for GOOD blowjobs.

• What we are really talking about here, are not truly straight guys, but guys who call themselves straight. It is one big, self delusional, self hate driven head game, as are the gay guys who play along.

• "You can''t be straight if you enjoy any sexual contact with someone of the same sex."\ \ Here we go with the sex nazi. It''s called having an open mind.

• Could we just rephrase the question to "straight identified guys"? Is their self-delusion really that relevant to the question?

• The medical establishment acknowledges that some straight men are capable of engaging in the homo sex. What defines the orientation is the attraction to a specific gender, yet some men can fuck without being attracted. So yes, straight men can engage in the homo sex.

  Dr. Joyce''s Brother

• This never happened.

• Straight men do not enjoy getting fucked by other men.\ \ End of thread.

• It''s that whole "submission" thing.

• I''m gay. If a situation arose where a girl just went down on me, a situation I cannot imagine and would avoid, my dick would get hard and I''d have an orgasm. Doesn''t make me heterosexual.

• The OP is trolling. R1 summed it up.

  charlie

• ". . . loves to have his ass opened up. . .": Jesus! The way you fags talk about sex is just plain icky. Pornography has colonized your subconscious, and the basic function of man-man porno is to make clear to everyone involved that gay sex is when a straight guy humiliates a faggot. That's what porn says gay sex is, and you fags seem to have bought that notion. You have also bought the notion that sex is one thing, and love another, and that a gay man is someone who never mixes fucking with affection. You are a bunch of hump happy slaves to commerce and self-loathing. As for whether or not a guy who gets his dick sucked by another guy is "straight" or "gay," well: There is no such thing as a straight man, and there is no such thing as a gay man. To cling to these distinctions is perhaps sometimes politically necessary, but emotional damaging and just plain wrong. People have sex however and with whomever or whatever they please. Sexual activity is not the same as sexual orientation or gender identity. If a married "straight" guy gets blown by a single "gay," they are two men having sex. Whatever, maybe they want to play out their little tedious role-playing fantasies about the mean straight guy and the simpering queer, but that doesn't make anybody "gay" or "straight" except in a temporary, provisional way. People have sex with each other, and with themselves. Call it what you will, it's just sex.

• [quote]I''m gay. If a situation arose where a girl just went down on me, a situation I cannot imagine and would avoid, my dick would get hard and I''d have an orgasm. Doesn''t make me heterosexual\ \ \ Exactly right. Men masturbate with all kinds of aids, toys, etc. They''ll stick their dicks in anything including watermellons. Does that mean they have a sexual attraction to fruit? No, they are imagining someone they are attracted to when they use the object.\ \ Same is true when straight guys masturbate into another man''s mouth. Sorry, but guys who only receive bjs and do nothing else are using you like a human fleshlight while they fantasize about a hot chick. BTW, don''t feel bad, they do the same thing with fat chicks. They won''t touch them, but they''ll let them suck them off while they think of someone else.\ \ Now they guy who takes it in the ass? That''s another story.

• The "straight" guys I''ve been with all want to blow me and most hint at wanting to be fucked. I guess I should say the "married" guys.

• R14, I do not have sex with women and I do not want to have sex with women. I don''t mind at all being identified as gay. I neither have sex with both sexes, nor with women exclusively. \ \ So call me gay- or not if you find it offensive. I am also caucasian. Is that offensive? And of course I am male, not female as well.

  charlie

• Oddly, it just seems top be the sex neg flyover [childish epithet posted by a bigoted tool]s who can''t seem to grasp this concept.\ \ THERE''S the real story. I think it''s a symptom of experiential deprivation.

• Over the years I have met MANY straight guys who just wanted to get sucked off. They didn''t care who did it.\ \ I have also met three or four straight guys who just wanted to get fucked. One of them I met when I was in the Army (yes, many years ago). He was quite direct with what he would and would not do: no kissing, no cocksucking, only fucking him up the ass while he masturbated. As soon as he came, it was over. Yeah, it wasn''t a lot of fun.

• How many goddamn threads like this are on Datalounge, anyway? Dozens, it seems.\ \ They all concern "straight" men who engage in sex with other men, and usually the OP talks about a "straight" guy (sometimes married, sometimes with a girlfriend) he knows who just loves to have sex with him, loves to rim him, loves to suck his cock, loves to plow his hole.\ \ Does it need to be said yet again? I suppose it does; so many retards come to Datalounge.\ \ "Straight" guys do NOT HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN. BI men have sex with other men. GAY men have sex with other men. But STRAIGHT men do not have sex with other men, you fucking idiots!

• r 17, it''s just exhausting to listen to you silly-billys go on and on and ON and on and on about "Is he straight if you suck his dick?", blah, blah, blah. Guys who say they are straight are straight, as far as I''m concerned. If they''re that desperate not to be gay, to hell with them. Let them be straight. And I mean how tragic is it when guys say they''re bisexual? Who wants to deal with that? A guy says he''s bisexual, what he means is, "Run away from me as fast as possible." I say, whatever: The straight guy is committed to his heterosexuality, he''s never gonna let go of it, he wants all the rewards that heterosexuality bestows, he feels like he''s straight, etc., etc., so his dick''s in your mouth, so what?\ \ The problem is, you queers have so narrowly defined what constitutes being "gay" that most men don''t want anything to do with "being homosexual." Homosexuality to them looks like nothing but limitations, and they don''t want to be limited. And they don''t like Cher. Do you blame them?

• Straight guys will allow another man to suck their cock for [italic]release.[italic] No one gives a blow job better to a man than another man.\ \ The End.

• The gloryhole is proof that some men don''t care who sucks them off as long as somebody sucks them off.

• OP, str8 guys, and I mean all str8 guys want and need your quivering and engorged lips wrapped around their meaty, ample, purple headed love organ.

• Now''s not the time to over-think; try it once, he''ll buy you a drink!

  Elle Woods

• A straight guy will not except another guy going down on him. He has to be bisexual or gay to except that.

• Here, let me close that. [/italic]\ \ Phew!

• [quote]A straight guy will not except another guy going down on him. He has to be bisexual or gay to except that.\ \ MARY!! Copy police to R26, STAT!

• R26, what state do you live in?

  Just curious.

• [quote]The gloryhole is proof that some men don''t care who sucks them off as long as somebody sucks them off.\ \ [/italic]You''ve got that right but the sex neg creeps think that all sex should involve love and marriage. Most are products of Christian upbringing and can''t comprehend reality.

• [quote]BTW, don''t feel bad\ \ Feel bad? Hell, knowing you''re being used as nothing but a hole for momentary pleasure is half the fun.

• [quote]Hell, knowing you''re being used as nothing but a hole for momentary pleasure is half the fun.\ \ \ You sure have a warped sense of two people having a good time. I guess you''re a virgin and don''t know that when two people are having sex, it can be fun for both. You must really be a frigid Brigid who thinks wifely sex is a "duty" and the only reason to have sex is to breed.

• [quote]You must really be a frigid Brigid who thinks wifely sex is a "duty" and the only reason to have sex is to breed.\ \ No, I''m not, but thanks. By the way, what crawled up your ass and died?

• I know a straight guy who would go totally soft if anyone touched his ass while giving him a blow job.

• "Straight" men who are open to the bi (married, living with women, self-declared heteros) in my experience almost always dream about getting fucked - it''s their biggest scare and biggest taboo turn-on.\ \ Men always are about the fuck. The blow is for the lazies and the ones who still are on the fence.

• Interesting outlook r35.

• Closeted married guys who seek out male on male sex are bottoms.

• Is this the same guy who starts these threads over and over- you know the one who has a fetish about having sex with straight men?

  charlie

• I hook up with a straight married fuck bud twice a week and wouldn''t trade it for the world.

• Some men like golf. Some like baseball. Some like to get blow jobs from an expert.

• "Oddly, it just seems to be the sex neg flyover [childish epithet posted by a bigoted tool]s who can''t seem to grasp this concept."\ \ r18, get your head out of your ass. What''s with the flyover shit? Oh, EVERYONE in New York is completely sex-positive! Riiiiight....

• Over the years I''ve talked with a few presumably straight (and married) guys about their feelings about gay sex. Every single one of them said they could "possibly" see getting involved with oral sex, even possibly reciprocating, but they wanted NOTHING to do with anal sex. Just the idea of it really grossed them out, whereas the idea of oral sex did not.

• Most, if not all, straight men have no desire to engage in homosexual activity. They are repulsed by the very idea of being intimate with another man. There are numerous instances in Scripture where men suffered psychosomatic afflictions after fornicating with another man. Their inner disgust at having engaged in homosexual activity resulted in these ailments. Makes you think, doesn''t it?

• "There are numerous instances in Scripture where men suffered psychosomatic afflictions after fornicating with another man."\ \ Well here is one of the more astounding posts to make it to DL in a while. \ \ "Makes you think, doesn''t it?"\ \ Yes R43, but not the way you think.

  charlie

• I know a number of straight guys who are enthusiastic recipients of anal sex - but only from chicks.

• [quote]Makes you think, doesn''t it?\ \ Hell, yes, it makes me think. It makes me think what a delight it would be to have lightning strike every hate-mongering, bible-thumping, fundie frau who wanders into DL.

• R43, are you for real? Quoting "Scripture" as any kind of psychological benchmark for ANYTHING? Wow. Too stupid to live. And a little dangerous.\ \ And r14 is as crazy as a shithouse rat, too.

• I now firmly believe that over the past decade or so, with porn so much more readily available in the internet (and much of it free!), that more and more straight guys have been exposed to male/male sex via porn and many of them are much more intrigued by it than before. A straight guy I work with has watched gay male (and female) porn with his wife. He has also seen some of the Swallow videos from Treasure Island.\ \ In some ways, I think young straight guys are more willing to do things now than they were before.\ \ As a for instance: I honestly think many of the guys on "ChaosMen" really are straight--or primarily straight. Not to be stereotypical or anything, but in many of the interviews, many of these guys just simply do not come across as anything but straight. They don''t overdo the macho thing, but they just seem very, very straight.

• I''ve shown my straight brother a few of the ChaosMen clips. I just wanted to see what he''d say. He said, "Shit, I''ve seen that kind of stuff before lots of times." I was pretty shocked, but he laughed it off.

• {quote]I now firmly believe that over the past decade or so, with porn so much more readily available in the internet (and much of it free!), that more and more straight guys have been exposed to male/male sex via porn and many of them are much more intrigued by it than before\ \ You mean you hope so. All these endless ''straight guy'' threads are just written by guys who fancy straight men and they all stink of sad desperation.\ \ Here comes the truth:-A real straight man would rather eat shit than go anywhere near another man sexually. Maybe you should print that out and stick it on your fridge.\ \ The good news is...there are attractive bi guys and gay guys to have sex with who are just like straight guys. Seek ''em out.

• OP, there is nothing wrong with oral sex, but the body was not designed for anal sex - that is the difference.

• My mussy is moist from the fecal matter I''m not able to wipe

  R51/Momma/Noodles

• Str8 guys who want their wives and gfs to strap one on and fuck them in the ass... what do we make of them? Closet gay? Are only gay men allowed to derive pleasure from their anus?

• [quote]Here comes the truth:-A real straight man would rather eat shit than go anywhere near another man sexually.\ \ Come out of the cellar and see the real world for a change. The view of gays has changed dramatically but you''re so wrapped up in keeping a big chasm between gays and straights that you haven''t got a clue. Just because straight people are repulsed by you doesn''t mean that they feel the same about other gays. Your silly "truth" is a 20th century fable.

• And you keep living in your little dream world, R54, where straight guys dig the homosex. Real straight guys would pay $2.00 to a crack whore for a BJ before they''d let another man near their dicks.

  Not R50

• R54 dear just because men are more gay friendly doesn''t mean they want to fuck you, delusional queen.

• R51, I always find it peculiar that if the body (or at least the male body) truly was not designed for anal sex, then why are men created with the pleasure-deriving prostate gland that is accessible through penetration of the rectum? If nature never intended for men to have anal sex, it wouldn''t have created the male G-spot.

• I agree R57. The prostate is so pleasurable, it couldn''t be mere happenstance. There must be a evolutionary reason.

• you get the aids through anal sex. thats a fact.

• Then why is there shit in the way, R57 & R58?

• Ignore R60, hit the trolldar and you will figure out pretty quick that she''s a frau.

• This thread is hitting all the right notes w/ me.

• R60, if your sterile pussy were made for fucking, why would there be chunky monthly blood and/or rotten-tuna-scented piss in the way? \ \ And don''t say for procreation, since breeders also fuck purely for pleasure. \ \ Go back to iVillage, you ridiculous slit.

• I''m not going to bother debating biology with you anymore. The things you are saying are ridiculous.\ \ The anus was not designed for sex. The vagina was. Menstruation is an appropriate function of the vagina. That''s the difference.\ \ Btw, the urethra and the vagina are not the same hole, idiot at R63.

• R64 go back to the figure skating threads you were fingering yourself over. Odd that you have such and aversion to the anus since you love to eat old people''s excrement.

• R60/R64, you must be one frigid bitch. Naturally, you are also against oral sex, because by your faulty logic, the mouth is also "not designed for sex."\ \ Then again, it''s easy to see why you''re confused as to which orifices provide sexual pleasure: your mouth stinks of piss and pussyjuice, your vagina probably has teeth, and you speak out your ass.

• [quote]Just because straight people are repulsed by you doesn''t mean that they feel the same about other gays. Your silly "truth" is a 20th century fable\ \ Yeh, right. The minute 1999 became 2000, all the straight guys turned bi or bi-curious. You do not live in the real world, dear. But, hey, enjoy your fantasy.

• Ah, now THIS is more like it. I guess DL isn''t going away anytime soon. All the old nasty trolls are back in force. I''m strangely comforted by this.

• While R60 is posting here, her b/f is probably getting a blow job from a guy who knows how to do it right.

• R60, Please stop. You''re giving us women a very bad name here. As I said before, you have to wonder why men were created with prostates accessible only through anal penetration. Following your logic, women shouldn''t have clitorises either, because they serve no purpose in biological reproduction. The prostate and the clitoris are not reproductive devices, but can still be utilized sexually. Face it, sex and procreation are NOT the same thing.\ \ And yes, people have been having sex, both heterosexual and homosexual, for pleasure since the dawn of time.

• Calling women "fraus" and the c-word in the abusive and belittling way in which DLers use these words is a form of abuse that is just as bad as the abuse heaped on homosexuals by the people at godhatesf*gs.com.\ \ Stop the violence against women.

• [quote]What we are really talking about here, are not truly straight guys, but guys who call themselves straight. It is one big, self delusional, self hate driven head game, as are the gay guys who play along.%0D\ %0D\ MARY!!!%0D\ %0D\ What''s it like to be 10 years old?

• Over the years (I''m nearing 60), I''ve met several "straight" men who like to get fucked in the ass. They generally set clear boundaries (no kissing, etc). They just liked having their prostates stimulated while they jacked off. Overall, very boring sex.

• [quote]By the way, what crawled up your ass and died?\ \ A straight guy.

• Oh come on, ANYONE can fuck a woman or a man, a melon or a sextoy, anyone!%0D\ %0D\ But loving or being attracted to another person is different. If you are gay you are attracted to the same person because your sexual developement is infantile. Straights are more mature sexually and are attracted to the other sex as nature intended. No judgement of values in it.%0D\ %0D\ I know lots of gays can''t come to terms with this but there''s nothing we can change. Live and let live, gay , straight or whatever.

• R75, you in danger, girl.

• Are gays who would consider getting blown by a woman still gay?

• a mouth is like any other mouth. iIt''s when they place their hand on your legs you know it it''s a female hand or a male hand. You just know, but a warm sloppy mouth to cum in is still a mouth.

  littlepig

• [quote]the basic function of man-man porno is to make clear to everyone involved that gay sex is when a straight guy humiliates a faggot\ \ Where do I find this porn? Link, please (preferably Rapidshare).

• hi im a bisexual male and depending on my partner im willing to fuck, get fucked, blow or be blown to be specific i accept to be fucked on a solid rule that the one who gets to make me his bitch is to be bigger in size to me in every way; body and cockwise and i like to act like a chick so i suck and get fucked i even change my body language and the tone of my voice, but if my partner is the one who gets to be the at the end of my cock then he had to act like chick he had to have a soft phisuqe, zero body hair and slightly smaller than me in size and play it like a bitch all girly, i can't fuck him if hi isn't. sorry i know this almost has no relation what so ever with the point of discussion

  invisible%20mischife

• Another DL thread that reads like a Maury Povich call-in poll.

• Before I let a another man blow me I had always identified myself as a straight man. Now I consider myself a bi guy. I take issue with the person who thinks most women suck dick. HAH! Who were you raised by, Hookers? Its up to about 50/50 now I'd say on women going down on you. The thing I found best about men is they wanted to please me any way possible. Women mite have sex with you if they felt like it. Guys were ready, willing and able any second of the day. That is the real reason guys get sucked into going to men. No arguments, no not tonight, no negotiating. You get what you want whenever you want it. I cannot bring myself to kiss someone who has been licking my ass though. I think guys are made to get off with stimulation. Being a guy or a heavy book would be enough on some men. So if you fuck a pillow what kind of sexual are you? What if its a blow up doll? What if it was a slab of meat or the vacumn hose? What kind of sexuals are those. I'd say 100% of men who are alive could get hard with a pair of expert lips on their cock. However, if you had a choice and you choose a guy given all things equal then I suspect at a minimum your bi. Just getting a free bj when you need it hardly makes someone gay. Your taking advantage of a situation. Maybe you have had bad bjs from women and a guy is what works for you. Still doesn't make you gay in your head. The person who said it is all upstairs is what classifies your sexuality is so right on. If your fucking a thousand women, but fantasizing about men during the act doesn't make you Str8. Fathering a dozen children means no more than being married does. Thier just a cover. Masuline men are only one definition of male, but being masculine doesn't make you str8 either. Plenty of wimpy str8 guys and plenty of butch muscle hairy guys are gay. It is what you think in your mind and feel about yourself. If more people felt free to express thier true feelings you would see about a 90% bisexual society I gurantee it. A few may never cross, but all of us pretty much are bi to one degree or another, whether it is being able to get fucked or maybe just hug and kiss or maybe only jack or be the one to suck but not rim or whatever your into. Plenty of married guys like to be fucked. That why they sell kits for women to wear a fake cock and shove the dildo up their husbands ass. The guy may be horrified to let a man do it, but turned on with his wifes fingers in his ass or whatever cause he identifies with women during sex. Everyone, you know what you are inside. Whether you want to reveal it or not you are just fine the way you are. Call yourself whatever you like or are comfy with, but just don't put others dwn who identify in another way than you. Let them be what they think they are right or wrong. It is how they deal with knowing who and what they desire. Ok. It really doesn't matter. Just be who you are.

• There are as many answers to that question as there are men in the world. I am a straight man. I don't think of myself as straight-identified, just straight, because for me it's not a matter of various possibilities. I don't identify as straight, that is consider myself as straight compared to possible alternatives, anymore than I consider myself, or identify myself, as being 5'8" tall. I just am straight and that is my height. I have never had any inclination to have any sexual connection with a man. The idea of homosexual acts, oral, anal, active, passive, or whatever, doesn't repulse me. It's just of no interest. Homophobia, now that repulses me, but that feeling comes from a more conscious place, a decision I made that everyone has an obligation to treat everyone with decency and respect, especially people who have a harder path in life. Somehow I missed the aversion some men feel towards homosexuality. I missed the racism thing also. Good parents had a lot to do with it. People get hung up on labels. A lot of this is situational. Would things have worked out differently for me if I had been in an all-male situation at 18, say prison, when my hormones were raging? Perhaps. I don't think homosexual activity in that context would have changed my sexuality once I was around women again. Women do it for me and men don't.

• That's why you're here at Datalounge of course. In answer to OP's question, the morbid fear of anal sex was a 70s thing before men realized millions of people were doing it so it wasn't as gross or as painful and difficult as they thought. I don't think you'll find the same attitude among people under 40 that privileges oral sex at the expense of anal sex anymore.

• I love the gay dude pretending to be straight at R83.

• No "straight guy" would even even consider another guy's mouth getting close to his cock. And no "straight guy" would love having another guy's cock up his ass. Enough of this bullshit about "staight guys" who love to fuck other guys! It's STUPID.

• "Over the years I have met MANY straight guys who just wanted to get sucked off. They didn't care who did it. I have also met three or four straight guys who just wanted to get fucked. One of them I met when I was in the Army (yes, many years ago). He was quite direct with what he would and would not do: no kissing, no cocksucking, only fucking him up the ass while he masturbated. As soon as he came, it was over. Yeah, it wasn't a lot of fun." You didn't meet "MANY straight guys", dear. You met MANY homos or bis. Do you really think any "straight guy" would want to have your dingle up his ass? Don't kid yourself, hon. Don't go around thinking "damn I must be smokin' hot...STRAIGHT guys want me to suck and fuck 'em!" You sex buddies are gay or bi.

• LOL. I know someone else is bound to have already said it... but NONE of the guys in your scenario are straight OP. : )

• Wait, this just gets better.... so R4... you're saying otherwise straight dudes will go to men to get a GOOD blowjob - so as to avoid the shit ones that women universally give? Riiiiiiiight! LMAO. Inexplicably, there are still men who fuck only women... but right on for being one of the few who have figured it out. Way to recenter heterosexuality.

• A lot of gay men need the "straight" scenario to even be attracted to these closet-cases. Both are homophobes. They deserve each other. But, one can hope for an STD.

  Herpes :)

• R85 You're right. My wife of 25 years is also my beard, but she doesn't realize it because I hide my gayness so well. We have only the child, conceived the old-fashioned way, and that was also part of my plan to hide my gayness. If we had had several children, then I would have revealed my actual gayness because I would have been over-compensating. Same thing if I had cheated many times on my wife. But I didn't because I wanted to be in the closet. The best way for me to remain in the closet is to have a good sex life with one woman for many years and have just one child. Then I can come here and claim to be straight and no one will notice that I am actually gay. But I couldn't get it past you, no siree.

• What's with the universal "no woman has ever given a great bj" BS?

• It's a mix, in my experience. Some straight guys have a repulsion toward homosex, and would refuss no matter what. Others are neutral/flex (though in their brains they are only strongly turned on by women) - these kind of straight guys could be more willing to let their innate horniness get co-opted by a gay fellatio enthusiast; they recognize what is called a "win/win" scenario in Business 101 classes.

• R91,

  you're gay

• R93, the straight guys with the repulsion towards "homosex" are "straight" guys. They probably have more "homosex" than you. Straight men who are "neutral/flex" who have "homosex" are gay or bisexual.

  rocket scientist

• [quote]Some straight guys have a repulsion toward homosex, and would refuss no matter what. Others are neutral/flex If they are flexible towards being sexual with men you can call them many things-heteroflexible, kinsey 2, bisexual. But they are not straight. Why is this a source of confusion? 100% straight guys have no desire to be sexual with another male. Doesn't make them "homophobic" anymore than some gay guys who have absolutely no desire to ever be sexual with a woman. I don't see how this is a source of controversy other than a lot of people who are actually flexible in their sexuality don't identify themselves as such.

• Never a mention of love here. Never. Always about casual sex, or cheating sex, or drunken sex. I know that love exists but you won't read about it here.

• Agreed, R97. Agreed.

• My stars, R97, what a wounded little pincushion you are. Language/semantics: There's variance in how we are defining "straight." And in how we are willing, or not willing, to let other men label themselves how they want.

• R96: Thank you. A true voice of reason. R93: It certainly is a mix, although this is not a subject that lends it to informal surveys. Straight men don't spend a lot of time kicking the subject around, at least not in my experience. We don't sit around watching football with other straights saying, "Would you do thus and so with another guy? No? Well how about this?" That would convey an incorrect impression, so it is a bit hard to tell. My hunch is a little different than yours. I think, and there is some recent research in the area, that men who are homophobic are more apt to be the ones who would give it a go if they could. Men who are more neutral/indifferent concerning male homosexuality are indifferent because they like women, and they are comfortable with that. That perspective doesn't work well with the ugly passion that seems to lie behind homophobia.

  R83%20and%2091

• I don't get your point R97 anyone can fall "in love" with someone of their preferred or non-preferred gender but it will be a platonic love, not a desire for a sexual relationship. I have some very close and long-standing straight friends who will say "i love you" but that doesn't mean they want to sleep with me. You love them like you would a family member, in a nonsexual way. It has nothing to do with this discussion.

• R101 has never been [italic] in love [/italic] .

• R101, no hard feelings here, but I'm a woman who thinks it best to have sex after you love someone. It's probably a very old-fashioned attitude that many younger women do not share, and I know I would get laughed at by many other women. I also realize that it just plain hard to find people who are sexually attractive to you. But when you love them, then they become attractive, and that pot belly, double chin, and less than pretty face becomes exciting. Pornography has put emphasis on sexual attraction and not on character. But the body breaks down in time and personality becomes enhanced with age. I have been approached by very good-looking people whom I had no attraction to because of their personalities. I just didn't see what the big deal was. Besides, with so many diseases out there is casual sex worth the risk?

  aids, hep c, std's

• "personality becomes enhanced with age" HA HA HA HA HA HA Get off my lawn!

• Some gay men are prostitutes when it comes to "straight" men, so why would they want love? They drop to their knees in seconds if asked. They lack all kinds of self-respect.

• I am straight but I would fuck a man up the ass in a heartbeat

• a true gay man is the straightest man there is

  secret%20truth

• In general, straight guys do not want to be blown by a man. They would then be gay or bisexual. I have a few very good straight male friends of some duration. We are very open and frank with eachother, they are not homophobic and they do not desire a blow job from a guy, not close to it.

  charlie

• in situations where an all male population has no access to women, most turn to homosexuality. These men don't stop being attracted to women, they expand their psychological hangups because their sexuality is too strong to be denied altogether. Sexual attraction can be projected onto any person or object under the right circumstances. Ever heard of people who get aroused by certain smells or the touch of household objects. Situational or fetish same sex attraction is very common and doesn't concern anyone whom it doesn't harm

  FreudAdlerYoungandRank

• R108 Yes, Charlie. Once again you step in with a common sense opinion. That's pretty much the way straight guys look at it: "Sex with a man? That's not what I am interested in."

  R83%2C%2091%2C%20100

• I am straight. I can use my hand or get a soft warm mouth to release my sexual tension. Which is more pleasurable?? Obviously a warm mouth! If it's a female mouth or a male mouth - it's a mouth. Stop labelling people geez!!!! Are most male prisoners who do this gay?? No, it's just the situation you find yourself in!! OBTW I do have a very high sex drive, body build etc so I have no problems getting blow jobs. It is really ego boosting being an alpha male having another dude get down on his knees to service your cock :-)

  Jason Peters

• I'd say yes in general, OP. They might not go around looking for a guy to do it, but they'd probably be more open to it than the idea of reciprocating or doing anything anal. I've known a few straight guys like that.

• R82 - You rock buddy! Agree with pretty much everything you say :) Gay here - top when it comes to fucking - but a complete oral pig - and told I'm really, really good at it - so have had plenty of married/bi/closeted fuck buddies - lots of them long-term. Known gay and bi/straight guys who wanna get fucked but not otherwise touched - and certainly not kissed! - and gay & bi/straight who just wanna get blown without any other touching or affection - and yet there are other gay & bi/straight guys who are comfortable with it all & happily reciprocate affection. Especially the ones who come back for more and get used to it & get more experienced and less freaked out. So yeah - takes all kinds! Lots of variation out there on this big old world of ours :) Gotta wonder too if - especailly with the stigma of being gay slightly less... hold on: is it? maybe that's not the word I'm looking for - cos there are still plenty of places where there's a LOT of stigma and problems with gay people! - maybe what i mean is, being gay is not unusal or hidden the way it once was. There are plenty of gay people in popular shows on tv and in movies - lots of attractive, positive gay imagery - and a deluge of hot-bodied, super-hero like athletic men engaging in gay that anyone can easily see for free on the net - maybe all this has to have demystified everything to a large extent? ANd not just demystified - but made it more attractive as well - ? People who might have once been curious or up for a bit of fun but with no outlet, can now not only see images with just a few keystrokes, but also find discreet partners via hookup sites or grindr. And there are anti-discrimination laws and so forth, and most white collar workplaces - and a lot of blue ones to - are more tolerant. And the trend (hoefully!) is for this to become more so as time goes by. And maybe some of the aggresively 'straight' men over the years were just freaked out about their forbidden urges and were kind of driven into the closet, and they became the "real" straight guys - the pillars of masculinity who protested that they would vomit at the mere thought of touching another cock...etc - butthe younger versions of them today don't have to behave like that anymore? Dunno - just a thought...

• If that was true, then there would be plenty of gay guys who would be happy to get blown by a woman. Heterosexual sex is completely demystified for me, and when I've had it, on very rare occasions it's been OK, but it isn't a sexual activity that has any interest for me.

• Sexuality is set, but sex is not. Men are far more capable of disconnecting the cumshot from who induced it. But it does not mean sexual attraction or love. It means orgasm, period. Dump a load, it was good, it was fun, but I don't love you. Why is this so difficult to understand?

• R115, because most gay men are almost pathologically repulsed by a woman and wouldn't get off on it.

• R115's comment does 'speak to' the occasional misogyny we see here. The psychological component. Gay men SHOULD be able to get blow jobs from women, but if they knew it was a (reasonably hot) woman on the other side of a glory hole, I wonder how many gay men would go all the way with it? Not that women are parked anywhere near glory holes, as many are whores and the rest have castration fantasies. jk

  Anonymous

• "Every single one of them said they could "possibly" see getting involved with oral sex, even possibly reciprocating, but they wanted NOTHING to do with anal sex. Just the idea of it really grossed them out, whereas the idea of oral sex did not" Bull. Tons of straight guys love anal sex...but with women, not men. "Not to be stereotypical or anything, but in many of the interviews, many of these guys just simply do not come across as anything but straight." Just because a guy doesn't talk with a lisp or have "gayvoice" doesn't mean he is straight. ":-A real straight man would rather eat shit than go anywhere near another man sexually" Um, go to any prison and you will find plenty of straight men engaging in gay sex.

• Yes and no. Many gay men have no interest in glory holes. Gay men also often state that women give a guy oral differently to a man. I've met quite a few gay women who have said the same about the difference between getting oral off a man or a woman.

• "If you are gay you are attracted to the same person because your sexual developement is infantile" Look, it's a psychology textbook from 100 years ago!

• No. No.

• R119 - good point (115 here). Is there a female equivalent for this at all? A big diesel mama and a chrome dildo fucking a straight woman? One experience a hetero woman would shy from, while treasuring the memory of the oral? Dunno. There is much variety out there - some men would do it (if not religious) but only if it was a secret . Media uses sexual repression to control us - therefore, we'll never really know. People have to lie. But most actual (not bi) straight dudes would laugh at the idea. And it's those same guys who suck in bed, so who cares?

  Anonymous

• R42: When you talk to straight guys about gay sex, you as a friend being the one asking the questions will affect the answers you get. It is a real problem in all polling, but especially in personal issues. If the two of your friends, which sounds reasonable given that you know he is straight, he knows you are gay and you are chatting, that friendship comes into play in how both of you talk about things. A straight man who has zero interest in gay sex, oral, anal or whatever, may want to avoid sounding judgmental about his friend's deeply personal issues, so instead of saying "No way, Jose, never," which is how he feels, he might, "Eh, who knows, with the right guy, maybe a blow-job!" Also, straight men are sometimes into anal sex and sometimes not, but straight men who like anal sex like it with women, not with men. Some straight men don't like it at all, some like to be a top, some like to bottom, and some are versatile. Perhaps there are more tops than bottoms among straight men who like anal sex, but there is one common dominator -- all straight men who like anal sex, top, bottom or whatever, want anal sex with women not men. R119: Some researches in sexuality differentiate between homosexuality as a pervasive trait that affects many attributes throughout a person's personality and homosexual acts which is sexual activity between two people of the same sex. The crux is this: "Is the primary source of sexual desire focused on people of the opposite sex or on people of the same sex." If you look at it that way, then straight men in prison, who will always focus in on women as partners, will engage in homosexual acts without changing their orientation. As soon as they are around women again, they go back to women.

• I think a lot of heterosexual men are freaked out about getting it up the ass. This has to do with the power thing. In the animal kingdom, and we are animals, some species will use anal sex or other means to keep the other males in order. We don't usually do this, but we do it in other ways. The anus is a very vulnerable and sensitive area, and men can feel very violated. Personally this doesn't bother me. We are apart from the animals because of our extra large brains. All sex is in the brain, and since all sex is in the brain, it must have something to do with preference, traits, upbringing, and on. If you study animals, you will see there are gay and bi animals, and we are animals. The following is just my humble opinion: I think we are all bisexual in regards to the act of sex,but we are not all straight, gay, or bisexual in the thinking part of our consciousnesses. Men can separate sex from emotion or love more than women can. I don't think I am being sexist on this part. I don't think sex has anything to do with love or emotions. It is a function. It is just getting off. Most women, but not all, can't make the separation that men can. If a man and a woman have a one night stand, the woman will usually want more (unless the guy is a complete jerk), even if they say they don't. The man will just get on with his day. It's inherent in the woman's nature. There are men that would never touch another man,because it's gay, but there are men that will kiss another man on the lips to show affection in other countries, and it isn't about sex. We are so hung up about sex in America, stemming from Puritan values. I am gay, and I have had lots of female partners. I loved these women, but I wanted a man. I know that I could have sex with a woman if the right conditions arose, but it isn't how I am oriented in my brain, and I am not Bi. Fucking a pussy feels great, but I couldn't kiss a woman, except if it were a kiss to a friend. I don't like soft skin. I like hard muscle type skin. For me, it always comes back to cock, and when I watch a straight porn film, I get off watching what the man is doing to the woman. I have sucked many straight men, married men that just wanted what their wives wouldn't give them. It was a function I could provide, and then they left. I enjoyed them, and they got off. There was no love, emotion, feelings; just the thrill of orgasm. They never asked me to fuck them, and I was always careful to only touch them where they felt comfortable. You can quickly tell by a mans bodily reaction, where you should stay away from. I have also had men that wanted to be fucked, but I don't do that. I am a bottom, and I want to be dominated. I wasn't molested as a child, and I had a loving father and mother. I take issue with the people that post about excrement and tuna juice. A man is not going to fuck a man that is not clean or has not defecated. What man would have a man fuck him unless he was clean inside and out? That's just hateful. The same goes for a smelly pussy or cock. Everyone of our orifices have multiple uses. I wouldn't suck cock with my mouthful of Fettuccine Alfredo, and I wouldn't like a smelly pussy. Smell means unclean or could mean localized disease. If a guy showered that morning, but seated all day, is not the same as not showering for a week, or a woman not douching or not cleaning herself for a week. Uninformed people always use these gross terms to try to get people to think that a guy fucking another guys ass is not the proper place to fuck. My straight girlfriend I have known all my life loves to get fucked up the ass. She is a wonderful and successful person. Is she wrong for doing this? If you;re worried about disease, which every hateful anti-gay person brings up, then use a condom, and practice safe sex. We have known for decades how to protect ourselves. My last thought is, if it feels good, do it. In regards to sex. I have watched straight men being fucked by a woman strapped with a dildo, and I wonder why he just doesn't ask a man to do it? It works/feels better.

  LoVeSex

• Eh..I don't think sexuality has as much to do with sex as it does who you fall in love with. And there are lots of people who get off on the prohibited/shameful. So, I'm sure there are more than a few straight men who would get off having a guy suck them off; however, most probably don't go there. OTOH, if a man wants to get fucked...sorry, he's gay, or at the very least, very bisexual.

• [quote]I think a lot of heterosexual men are freaked out about getting it up the ass. If they're not freaked out by it, I would say there is a pretty good chance they're gay, gay, gay. Hell, I even know gay men who are freaked out by it.

• I'm gay and I've blown straight guys. Just because you get a bj from another guy, it doesn't make you gay. I've received a couple bj's from women. It doesn't make me straight or bi. It just means I took care of sex, which is a normal biological function. People put too much emphasis on labels.

• I love how everyone that has an opinion that isn't in vogue with what the media and an incredibly small minority of sexually abused man-boys gets labelled "bigot". I'm sure it makes the scores of you that casually throw it around feel better about the inner struggle we all know you face about your sexuality. It's a sad joke but so true when people say "We will not tolerate intolerance!" Yet you molestees talk about the need for tolerance. Listen, the simple fact is that American society puts so much emphasis on sex as an end unto itself that you morons think its your obligation, both intellectually and biologically to be as gay, bi-sexual or "straight-identifying with an urge for the gay" as possible. I'm sorry you were molested as a child or the strong father figure in your life was anally strong and not strong of character. I think we all are sorry for this because since 1995 we've been inundated with your sexually simpleton ways. Frankly we're all a little tired of the "there's no straight" argument. Get over yourselves and try a butterfly effect where you undo the night Uncle Ernie played jack-of-all-trades with your stick shift by reading a journal you kept of the event. I invite all of you to now mock my over use of hyphens by making an obscure and snarky reference to Doris Day.

  Casey%20Blaylock

• "If a man and a woman have a one night stand, the woman will usually want more (unless the guy is a complete jerk), even if they say they don't. The man will just get on with his day. It's inherent in the woman's nature." You're pretty clueless, aren't you? I guess that's why so many straight men stalk women who aren't interested in them.

• I kind of agree with r124 on that. Women are wired to nest and men are wired to spread the seed. Not in all cases, or course, but generally.

• Why do you ask a gay web site, OP? Go ask a straight web site and get laughed off of the site. You'll get honesty there, however. That's about it.

• I just wanted to say that none of you understand straight men. I am straight. I love women and could never find myself physically attracted to a man. That said, I find the idea of being plowed in the ass by another man very exciting. I thouroughly enjoy the stimulation I recieve from placing objects in my anus. I just love anal sex, and after years of sex with women and viewing porn, I want to see what it is like to be on the recieving end. I am not attracted to men, just the penetration of a cock. I guess you might criticize me saying that I would just use a man a living dildo, but I just want to feel, at least once, what it is like to be fucked by an actual man.

• I know gay men or bi men like that, but no straight men. At all. They can get any number of sluts in their late teens or early twenties to do anything for a gift card to Macy's.

• R132 Sure you're straight kiddo, sure you're straight.

• R132, fantasy is so much different from reality.

• R132 = gaybait at its best!

• LOL "He loves to have his ass opened." Okay maybe if you are sexting but do people really talk like that on internet forums? American men are comical to me. You should tell his girlfriend she should date a Russian man before she gets HIV.

  Katia

• Why do black guy refuse to suck dick or kiss, but they'll eat your ass for hours?

• Very interesting thread. It's hard for me to imagine any guy who is truly straight allowing another man to fuck him.

• [quote]It's hard for me to imagine any guy who is truly straight allowing another man to fuck him. It's just another contact sport that makes a guy feel good.

• It's a fantasy thread, R139.

• [quote]If you look at it that way, then straight men in prison, who will always focus in on women as partners, will engage in homosexual acts without changing their orientation. As soon as they are around women again, they go back to women. If you think this, you are truly naive. I can guarantee the number of downlow men who have gone to prison outweighs the number who have not.

• [quote]It's just another contact sport that makes a guy feel good. By women only. Not men.

• It does bend the definition of straight, to say the least. I mean, if I say "I'm vegetarian but sometimes I just like a big thick beefsteak on the grill, ya know?" then I am not vegetarian. I am omnivorous.

• To the self-loathing, R144, bisexual isn't as hot as "straight", though. And, it's certainly hotter than gay. They need "straight" in order to be attracted to the man to begin with. If the same guy told them he was gay, they would probably lose interest.

• Getting blown (even by a guy) feels and looks like worship. It can be considered an ego boost. Getting fucked by a guy feels like being that guy's bitch. Only questionable straight guys like to be somone else's bitch (even when the bitch is a real woman with a strap on). There's a difference though between being pussy whipped (where you comply to everything your female spouse asks you to do in order to get laid) and being someone's bitch in bed.

• R1 nails it.

• you make good points R146, but as a gay guy I still don't want to get blown by a woman.

• [quote]If you look at it that way, then straight men in prison, who will always focus in on women as partners, will engage in homosexual acts without changing their orientation. Prison sex and rape is about domination and hierarchy. Like the movie stereotype where new inmates asks around who is the toughest guy at the joint in order to beat him up and show the show the others that he not someone they should mess (= rape) with.

• [quote]By women only. Not men. The woman has to be willing. Some give up blowjobs as soon as the wedding recessional is played. Some wives give up sex after childbirth. Some wives give up sex at menopause. That's when men are willing to play with men.

• [quote]The woman has to be willing. A man can find plenty of women who will do the job. [quote]That's when men are willing to play with men. Straight men are never willing to "play" (which sounds creepy) with other men.

• I believe a man can be "straight" relationship-wise while being bi-sexual. Though if they enjoy getting sucked off from men more than women (sorry, I am a woman and it's a fact that I excel at bjs, so the excuse "men do it better" is just a cover for embarrassed homos). If you show a preference at all, probably are gay. I do understand though that men have a g-spot in the anus and getting it from a real dick is probably better than a toy- I'd rather my husband do me than have to use a toy. Though I imagine having a threesome with women for fun (and understanding each other emotionally- maybe for men a fantasy of being able to be more detached during...), I don't actually go for it. If I did I would consider myself bi-sexual, I was during an experimental phase but now I prefer men and only want men in real life. Sooooo I'm straight. Gay = a preference as does straight (to the point of solely one or the other for an extended amount of time or certainty), bi is not taking a side or experimenting more than once...if not just once even. How I see it. I've taken human sexual psychology classes so some of my opinion is effected by science and statistics.

• My answer: the guy in question is bi-sexual or gay once he takes action, until then don't know for sure. A fantasy is just a fantasy until you do it. But this guy is definitely not straight once he does it/lets it happen. All in all he can say he is whatever he wants, I just think he's lying to himself if he thinks he's straight but gets bjs from men! lol

• "If I say 'I'm vegetarian but sometimes I just like a big thick beefsteak on the grill, ya know?' then I am not vegetarian. I am omnivorous." FACT!!!!!

• A great blow job, by a guy or a girl is awesome. Close your eyes & enjoy. I definitely love it when a guy gives me one because I can return the favor. That being said, I've been sucked off by a few women, and I enjoyed it. Love those nails tickling my balls. That's something a guy can't do. Just sayin....

• OP do you go by the name "ThunderKat" on another site? TIA!

• [quote]That being said, I've been sucked off by a few women, and I enjoyed it. Love those nails tickling my balls. That's something a guy can't do.

  http://distilleryimage9.instagram.com/d2a4fbf07ae311e1be6a12313820455d_6.jpg

• If u enjoy getting fucked by a man, u gay

• Whoever started this thread is a sick fuck who probably got so turned on by being a pig that he jerked off right after he hit the enter key. Thanks for airing your fetishistic fantasy on the unwitting, you pervert.

• [r20] You obviously don't know 'bout rough trade. You have to take into consideration how the person himself self-identifies. I have fucked a lot of guys who consider themselves straight. They like the "sensation" ~ but do not try to kiss them or get affectionate, because they will tell you immediately that makes them gay. Back in the day there was this cute hustler in Philly who would suck my dick for a very reasonable price. He was excellent. He abhorred being kissed. So, to answer OP's original question some "straight identified" guys like getting plowed but would freak out if you kissed them while doing it.

• The reason the bigots try to dismiss Kinsey's research even to this day is another interesting fact. Let alone Kinsey 5's and 6's range about 5% to 10% the population. Bisexuality ranges 30% to 40%.

  LuciferTheLightBringer

• [quote]That being said, I've been sucked off by a few women, and I enjoyed it. Obviously, you're straight.

  Denny Dimwit

• Sheesh , methinks in the history of the world there is at least one 1000% straight guy who got blown by a fag and thoroughly enjoyed it lol

• A friend used to pick up Marines near Camp Pendleton. They could get blowjobs from their girlfriends but they could not get fucked by their girlfriends. And as my friend said, "gay men like to get fucked, but straight men love to get fucked." And in my experience, the married men who frequented Paris saunas for their "5-to-7s" almost all wanted to get fucked

• I have a straight trick who started as a top but gradually progressed to giving oral and develops a hard on doing so and then finally enjoys sitting on my dick while he jerks himself till he cums. He's got a satisfied wife and a kid at home and still think 100% straight when I asked him.

• where are these straight/gay men and why can't I find one? I'd either like a twink I could fuck or a hunk who would do me? why is it so hard to find either? I just want my fair share. I just want what's coming to me.

  Sally%20Brown

• compleatly circumstantial. depends entirely on alot of facters was the guy seduced into it? YES that is possible! get a guy horny enough long enough cock blocked enough and possibly drunk enough and it is not that hard, also some guys are str8 with anal fixations and find they cant get or are scared to ask for a women to do this for them as well they might like the way the dick feels as oppossed to a dildo, this does not make them gay, in order to be gay you must be sexually attracted to the same sex, not the activity taking place, also there are places like jail for instance where heterosexual bariers are broke down. rape is another example of fixating on power and not orientation, also some men might beleive men give better head which sorry to say is compleatly true , biologicly we have larger mouths deeper throughts and are therefore more suited to the procceedure. as well we actually know what it feels like. this is probly the reason there are more str8 guys who cave to gays and not so many gays who cave to girls, and yes some of these guys really do like guys or are curiouse or actually bi and either dont realize it or cant except it, the over all point is that we as human beings are to varried sexually within ourselves as well as compleatly different from eachother, and then you must facter in scenario and whats going on to get the guy to do those acts, you cant just define one answer for all... after all sex whether its with a man OR a women is in fact... personal, and thus so to is the conclusion of our individual sexual spectrums.... but ladies dont even think about it, this spectrum is set to stud. lol

• It's pretty clear that the intentions of straight men are complex and unfathomable. Or feel good make come out. One or the other anyway.

• R167 On a COMPLETELY unrelated note, how do you say "delusional queen" in Canadian?

• OP do you post by the name of "ThunderKat" on another site? TIA!

• [quote]the intentions of straight men are complex and unfathomable. Not always.

• "I hook up with a straight married fuck bud twice a week and wouldn't trade it for the world.' Your "fuck bud" is a closet queen, you poor dumb thing.

• R138 Yeah that's weird.

• R165, straight trick? You just outed yourself as one, a liar, and two, born in 1910.

• "Sheesh , methinks in the history of the world there is at least one 1000% straight guy who got blown by a fag and thoroughly enjoyed it lol" No "1000% straight guy" would ever put his penis in a "fag's" mouth. I'm sure there are men who have sex with other men that delude themselves into thinking: "I'm straight! I just like to get sucked off by a guy sometimes!" But they're kidding themselves. They're bi, at least. But most likely they're closeted homos. The posts where a queen claims his "straight" sex partner just looooooves homosex are hilarious. I think most of them are sheer fantasy. But on the offchance that one of them might be true...I get the feeling that these queens like to think they're so hot that even a straight guy desires them. Of course, the "straight" guy is a queen just like they are, they're just too delusional to realize it.

• [quote]No "1000% straight guy" would ever put his penis in a "fag's" mouth. No doubt written by some self-hating, fugly, elderly queen who hasn't had sex in 30 years.

• Well I've just found out via a photograph that my 65yrs old husband of 13yrs. has been seeing various men purely for receiving oral sex ....nothing else he swears! He says he had no desire to do anything to them at all and the idea of anal sex totally freaked him out. As he has told loads of lies I'm still not sure what to believe but I think he is possibly telling me the truth finally. I have also found his profile and it clearly states he has no wish to return the favour.

• [quote]get a guy horny enough long enough cock blocked enough and possibly drunk enough and it is not that hard Such an amateur.

  Rohypnol

• Back in my slutty days there was an adult bookstore with gloryholes next door to a straight strip club. So I'm pretty sure I got the chance to suck a number of straight cocks.

  LuciferTheLightBringer

• Most str8 guys i suck cum back for more. They usually havent been rimmed before and they love it. They enjoy sitting back and being serviced with no strings attached Its just sex.

  jlrinwesternillinois

• R180 - they go to you, they go to another guy, and another guy. They don't go to women. Why? Because they're gay.

• For r177, giving oral sex to her husband was probably a chore. Now it's one less thing off her to-do list.

• Straight men would never conceive of going to another man for sex. Ever. There are women who will blow, rim, have anal, etc. You can find these type of women on the Internet very easily.

  craigslist.com%20

• [quote]Most str8 guys i suck cum back for more. They usually havent been rimmed before and they love it. They enjoy sitting back and being serviced with no strings attached. Its just sex I think if I was a closeted gay guy, I would have a lot of fun pretending to be 100% straight so I could be lazy and just sit back and get serviced with NSA. I wonder if you all would be as tolerant of an openly gay man who was this selfish.

  Straight%20gal

• The guys she services realize that Straight Gal is only doing it to get something in return, but some people actually enjoy the act of blowing guys.

• Gay men are extremely competitive with women.

• R4, you said "identifies" as straight. If a woman does not know how to give head, a guy can show her what he wants. It's not rocket science. If he is turning to guys for blowjobs, it's because he likes how a man feels on his dick.

• [quote]If he is turning to guys for blowjobs, it's because he likes how a man feels on his dick. Exactly. We all know that a woman's mouth is nothing like a man's mouth. They have those fangs and forked tongues that make it very uncomfortable. That's why a man's mouth feels better on a dick. You're very perceptive r187. Your brilliance is astounding.

• "No doubt written by some self-hating, fugly, elderly queen who hasn't had sex in 30 years." Oh piss off, you idiot. No doubt you're one of those asshole queens who has a "straight" fuck buddy that just loves to have your inchworm plow his hole. Or maybe that's just a persistent fantasy of yours. You're such a dickweed, I tend to think the latter describles your sad situation.

• NO ONE can a man a better blow job then another male. the greeks and Romans BOTH knew this. It's historical fact.

• NOBODY understands straight men except straight men, and they ain't telling. To each other or anyone else.

• I know they are okay with that because I used to let lots of other guys suck my dick. Then I began to wonder what it was like and one night I found myself sucking another guy off. As time went by I began to woner what it would be like to let another guy fuck me and then it happened and it was great. Once I got over that barrier I felt free, I could surrender to another man.

  Charlie Harris

• You do realize that 'Straight gal" is a gay guy pretending to be a "gal" right, R185?

• [quote]NO ONE can a man a better blow job then another male. the greeks and Romans BOTH knew this. It's historical fact. 100% bullshit.

• R194 failed World History 101.

• R195, straight men don't want you. They would rather fuck the pussy some 60 year old fat, slob who reaks of urine in a sewing room than stick his cock in your mouth. Get over your delusional fantasies.

• Get this. A hole is a hole and straight men do not really care where it's coming from. What I can't imagine is most straight love getting rimmed and some are anally fixated that they like getting fucked by big dicks.

• A hole is not a hole.

• And a house is not a home

  Dionne

• >>A house is not a home, by Dionne Ahem...

  Hal David

• AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

• In reality same sex contact is a form of bonding straight gay bi are fake. Fear is what controls choice and certain beliefs.

  Jesus

• Let's face it, some guys are bad lovers and after awhile a woman says, you don't please me and I'm not going to blow you. So if they want to get their dick in someones mouth, they either pay or get a willing guy to do it. Soes it make them gay? I really don't know.

• "A hole is a hole and straight men do not really care where it's coming from." Oh yes they do. For some promiscuous straight guys a hole is a hole as long as it's a WOMAN'S hole. Straight guys aren't interested in other men's holes. My definition of someone who is "straight": someone who has sex exclusively with the opposite sex. Anyone who does NOT have sex exclusively with the opposite sex, someone who has occasional or regular gay sex, cannot be classified as "straight." Why is that so hard for you morons to understand? Or maybe these idiots who insist that there are straight men who love to get their cocks sucked by queens are just trolls trying to stir shit. Anyway, this a a very tedious topic. Straight men do not have sex with gay men and that is a fact.

• Morons like r204, who think they're the ultimate authority on straight vs. gay, probably haven't had sex with any man for the past 20 years and their future will be the same.

• I think the key here is that some men are "straight-identified" yet have sex with men. I have to smile that dozens of threads here that begin with "I had sex with a straight guy..." alwsys devolve into the same exact arguments.

• R205, he's a realistic "moron" telling the truth. Straight men don't want your hairy, old butthole. I don't think "straight-identitifed" is the correct term. It's more like, "straight-but-bullshitting".

• "Let's face it, some guys are bad lovers and after awhile a woman says, you don't please me and I'm not going to blow you. So if they want to get their dick in someones mouth, they either pay or get a willing guy to do it" No, they pay or get a willing WOMAN to do it. Straight guys who want to do things their wives or girlfriends won't do get slutty girls or prostitutes to blow them. They don't seek out pathetic, willing queens or male hustlers unless of course they're closeted or bi-s who are willing to stick it in the mouths of anything, male or female.

• Not everyone is in a rigid construction. Generations of straight guys got blown by their friends, by neighborhood fags or through glory holes easily available at mens rooms throughout the world.

• It's truly amazing how the brilliant anthropologist at r208 is aware of the inclination and thought process of every male on earth who has ever gotten a blowjob. We are fortunate that he is willing to share his knowledge with us.

• This is why straight guys fear gays

• "Generations of straight guys got blown by their friends, by neighborhood fags or through glory holes easily available at mens rooms throughout the world." Yeah, "straight guys" use glory holes! And get blown by "friends" and "neighborhood fags!" Straight guys who crave having their dicks sucked by men...do you know how retarded that sounds?

• [quote]Straight guys who crave having their dicks sucked by men...do you know how retarded that sounds? He didn't say they "crave" blowjobs by men, r212. Do you know how retarded you sound with your ignorant fairytale? Why enter the discussion if you're going to post lies? Are you a fundie frau?

• r186, that and the ones who go after straight men are getting even with women!

• Queens like R210 and R213 like to fancy themselves as possessing some special talent/ability that makes straight guys want to have sex with them. Poor saps.

• Depends on the guy and how he feels, I think. I prefer blowjobs from black politicians.

• Do straight guys exist?

• "He didn't say they "crave" blowjobs by men, [R212]. Do you know how retarded you sound with your ignorant fairytale? Why enter the discussion if you're going to post lies? Are you a fundie frau?" What "fairytale?" What "lies?" It's pretty preposterous to think that any "staight" man would stick his dick through a gloryhole or get sexual release though male "friends" and "neighborhood fags." You sound like a nutty queen who thinks there are straight men who love homosexual sex.

• Straight men seek out women for blow jobs and anal. Not men.

• I know straight-identifying guys who like getting fucked and like getting oral, some who like fucking up the ass but can't find a girl to do it, so they just fuck a guy, and then of course you have the bi-curious straight-identifying guys who want to try it all. There are straight identifying guys who know men give superior head, and they can basically use a guy as a cum slot, NSA blow job, and they go back to their every day lives. Some straight identifying guys don't mind body contact or kissing, a lot of others hate doing it. There is a difference between identifying as straight and actually being straight. A person can identify as something when it's clear that's not what they are. 100% straight men will not have sex with another guy, but most people are not 100% straight or gay. With that being said, the way I see sexuality is, who could you spend your life with, which gender, and why? And if it's only women you can see yourself spending your life with forever as a man, if it's only women you have such a connection with, then you are straight. Being sexually open to having sex with a man doesn't change that.

  Francis

• These are gay men who call themselves straight, R220. Can we drop the "straight-identitifying" bullshit please? Because that's what it is. Bullshit. You can tell this phrase was created by gay men anyways. No straight man claims he's "straight-identitfying".

• Weren't there Jews who resembled Germans in WWII and claimed to be "German" to avoid death? Would they be considered "German-Identitifying"?

• r215, there was no claim of any sex with straight men, just discussing the fact that men will allow a bj from a male when it's not available from a female. That's NOT saying they are seeking a bj from a man. That's NOT saying they prefer a bj from a man over a woman. You sound like an angry frau r215. You would be a perfect partner for r218 who tries to twist a discussion with false claims that we are are saying straight men prefer sex with men. You're both liars.

• Gay guys have one advantage other minorities. They can hide who they are. If people could hide their skin colour, few would come out as coloured too.

• [quote]No straight man claims he's "straight-identitfying". Nobody in this thread said that any man has ever said, "I'm straight identifyling." What kind of moron would try to twist what has been said about straight identifying men into a claim that they actually proclaim it? Probably, a fugly and damaged bullshit artist who can't attract anyone for any kind of sex would make that claim.

• No matter how many people claim it exists there is no 'one and only' solution or explanation for the behavior of the entire human race or parts of it. We are all individuals and we are all individually driven by different motivations, agendas, desires, wishes, dreams, etc. One's personal experience is another one's urban myth (especially when there's no factual link backing it up).

• R224, there are many Jewish people who hide too. Many. I know a few. It's really, really pathetic. They even go far as to change their last names to avoid persecution. Gay men who claim to be "straight" are the same. R225, you're somewhat creepy.

• R226, it's easy to define: self-loathing. That's it.

• [R221] A person can be sexually bisexual and emotionally/romantically straight/gay. Sexuality is not black and white at all, unlike what most people seem to believe. Straight identifying means they IDENTIFY as straight but their ACTIONS tell a different story, and that's it. And I agree, that these men are not truly "straight" in terms of what is considered having a true straight orientation. But does that make them gay? Not necessarily.

  Francis

• [quote]you're somewhat creepy. That's a bizarre claim from the angry frau who posted bullshit at r131, r141, r142, r143, r145, r151, r174, r181, r183, r193, r194, r196, r198, r207, r219, r221, r222, r227, and r228

• R230, I have this thread saved and post to it from time-to-time. I m sure you can find many who do the same. But, I like your idea of seeing my previous posts. Datalounge should start that.

• I'm just sayig that a really straight guy would rather stick his dick in a goat than let another man touch it.

  Live, from Kabul!

• I've only made it with about 3 guys who thought they were straight. All three wanted to get fucked, claiming they wanted to know what their wives were enjoying. The guys were most reticent about cock sucking because if they sucked cock and liked it, they would be gay. Most straight guys are much like gay guys about sex. Straight guys can't get it up for another man, just as most gay men couldn't get it up for woman.

• R232 you made me lol in real life. and i agree. the question is not if a guy would be physically able to get a boner - the human body works in specific ways and i think that someone who has been around he block could theoretically give another person (f/m) an orgasm. the question is why a "straight" person would seek a same sex situation. right, he doesn't.

• [quote]the question is why a "straight" person would seek a same sex situation. That's really not the question. It's about them settling for a same sex situation when opposite sex situation is not available. Craigs List doesn't work for a straight guy in smalltown Podunk who doesn't want to drive a hundred miles each way for an opposite sex hookup.

• Oh please, R235, would a gay guy go for some snatch when no dick is available? The "I bagged a straight guy" thing is awful. What you really did was you got a closet-case, or possibly a bisexual, to let you suck his dick. He might claim he's straight, but then Elton John used to do the same thing.

• "there was no claim of any sex with straight men, just discussing the fact that men will allow a bj from a male when it's not available from a female. That's NOT saying they are seeking a bj from a man. That's NOT saying they prefer a bj from a man over a woman." No "straight" man would ever "allow" a blowjob from a male when it's not available from a female. Only a bi guy (or closet queen who call himself "straight") would do that. Now shut the fuck up why don't you? You're just embarrassing yourself.

• then i misread ops question. i thought he wanted to know if straight guys enjoy gay bjs.

• [uote]Now shut the fuck up why don't you? You're just embarrassing yourself. The scorned frau mentality is permeating this thread. Maybe if they weren't so frigid, hubby wouldn't be going to the ABS to get his rocks off in an unknown mouth at a gloryhole.

• "The scorned frau mentality is permeating this thread. Maybe if they weren't so frigid, hubby wouldn't be going to the ABS to get his rocks off in an unknown mouth at a gloryhole." I imagine you're quite an expert on gloryholes, you pathetic, retarded dickweed. And just what the hell do "fraus" have to do with a discussion about the absurdity of so-called "straight" men who will let another guy suck them off if no woman is available, "straight" men who accept a friendly blowjob from another guy if it's offered? Yeah, "straight" guys do that all the time.

• For intellectual lightweights like R223 and R239, anybody who doesn't agree with their lame ass explanations is a "scorned frau." Never run for public office. You'd snap under the slightest pressure and resort to mud slinging and childish name calling.

• I've read that 95% of all men have a blow job from another man at least once in their life time. "Straight" guys who look for and want a blow job from another man are not straight. I agree with that. And any man who lets another man do him in the ass is a homosexual. Period! If the stat is true, if 95% of all men have had their dick sucked by a homosexual I can only imagine 90% of those happened when the person was a young boy. Even as young as 12. We all know they like em' young. That's my guess anyway because I don't get it.

• Hey what's up I'm a straight guy I'm 24 yrs old I have Girlfriend of 4 years she doesn't like the. Toy thing But once and a while I like to get my ass stretched By another man it feels awesome . I wanted to see if I can maybe fool around with my Other straight friend I know for 5 yrs but I'm not sure I Don't want to scare him off he acts very friendly he grabs my ass some times I always catch him staring at me or my ass he sends Me text messages refering to Sexual stuff such as getting Oral facials etc and he hasn't had a girlfriend for years Should I make the first move ANY ADVICE

• I've read this thread with great fascination. I always am amused when a group of gay men discuss straight men. Here are my thoughts. In the absence of women, would a straight guy let another guy blow him? The only answer could be, it depends on the guy and it depends on the circumstances. Are they on an island where they will never see another woman for years? Are they in prison? Is there money involved? Human sexuality is complicated. Gay, straight, bi are just labels to help humans in their never-ending quest to categorize everything. I believe that most straight guys aren't going to let another guy blow them, as long as there are women around or they could jack off and no one is getting paid.

• I'm intrigued by r243. Next time he makes a suggestive remark, say "Go for it" for "Let's go for it" It's best if you're both a little high or drunk first.

• Hey annymous, I've blown so many straight guys!! They all wish their wives/ girlfriends could do it that good. Doesnt mean they're gay; they just have this fantasy about how they would like it to be with their wives/girlfiriend. Not too big to get your "head" around. Relax, you're still straight bud!

• [quote]They all wish their wives/ girlfriends could do it that good That's the key to this thread.

• I think about getting taken anally...alot!

• R243 = gay guy pretending to be straight. R246 - you were blowing closeted gay / bisexual men. You're not the guy who blows them. They have probably been with hundreds of guys.

• Be aware r246, that r249 has been following you to interview the men you have been blowing. That's why he knows for certain that they are gay or bisexual.

• R250, yes, in my special ed class; we learned that men who get hard to other men are gay or bisexual. Not straight. Then we learned 2+2.

• NO thats wat girls r for

• So does that mean that gay guys are okay with being blown or dildoed by women.....you know, when they cant find a willing guy? This straight guy fantasy you guys have is fascinating. I hope if anyone here attempts to live it out, he is smart about it. This kind of thing has gotten many-a-gay beaten up.

• if a guy likes a women and the way she looks,smile, talk or any thing bout her turns him on just how she walk thn he likes women bout if he like all this thng or just one of these thing bout a man then he gay if u like having any sexually relations with the same sex then u gay man or women!!!

• Black guys don't get fucked, they just eat the ass

• People like r254 and her ilk can't comprehend that a blowjob doesn't have to involve love or even "like." It's the blowjob that counts, not the gender of the person with the mouth. It takes a modicum of intelligence to understand this fact; not the love and marriage garbage pushed at us by organized religion. Prudes like r254 probably haven't had sex with another person in years.

• fukin queer bastards should be beheaded

• If you can get a straight guy drunk, blow him and eat his ass, he'll be yours forever.

  Works%20Every%20Time

• Straight guys enjoy getting a blow job from another guy. In fact, only a guy knows how to give great blow jobs. I have a long list of guys who contact me regularly for a blow job. They enjoy it, really enjoy it, especially because I swallow what they shoot down my throat. Without exception all my male contacts are young, between ages 19 and 24, and all eager to be satisfied. One of my young contacts left his girlfriend sitting in his car while he came over to my place for a blow job. He told me that she didn't know the first thing about giving blow jobs and asked me, if you can imagine, if I would show her how to do deep throat.

• Well I cant really get into the gay or straight debate but I am straight and married to a women. I dont want to be blown by a guy and i dont want to fuck a guy but I have talked with my wife and I definately want to get fucked by a guy and want to deepthroat his dick until it hurts. I dont want a relationship with a guy and dont desire to kiss. So will spmeone please tell me where this leaves my sexuality? I wanna think of it as Im open to different things!!!!

  Anonymous

• Straight guys are more than okay getting blow jobs from another guy. I know a lot of straight young guys who stop to give me a ride at night while I'm waiting for a bus and enjoy pulling over for a blow job as a reward for a lift. The conversation usually begins with asking me if I'm looking for excitement. I ask what they have in mind and they usually say something like: you know what I'm getting at to which I say: yes, when was the last time? Responses usually vary but more often than not, they say that they haven't had it in a few days. I find this very exciting and enjoyable. The fact that they always come back for more tells me that they're okay with getting blow jobs from a guy.

• Straight, gay, bi, etc.? I don't know!!! Call me what you want. I'm 62-years-old, have been married three times, have had children and lived what most people would describe as a heterosexual male life. I never had a thought towards other men until two years ago. But now, even though I'm not especially attracted to other men, I'm getting blowjobs, sucking off other guys, wearing panties, bras and lingerie. I want to find out what it's like to kiss another man, and I definitely DO want to be fucked in the ass. I hope these things, plus a lot more fantasies I've had lately will turn out to be new and exciting aspects of my life that seems to have no boundaries when it comes to my sexual satisfaction. I can see nothing wrong or perverted in things I enjoy with others -- male or female. I don't define myself or my behavior by any labels whatsoever, but am not afraid of them either. But since I'll probably never want to be with a woman again (for a variety of personal reasons) you certainly can't call me Bi. So guys and gals, what would YOU call me, if anything?

  Karl

• A lot of gay guys are okay with getting blown by a guy but freak out about the possibility of getting fucked. You hear them express this on DL often. So if gay men can feel this way, why not straight men. But you knew that.

• r262, i'd call you a long closeted, repressed homo. Because you claim you never want to be with a woman again, 'for a variety of reasons'. I find it hard to believe that you never thought about being with a man until 2 years ago. You just seem to want hetero cred for your marriages. People don't just change their stripes that late in life. Some do come out of the closet though. I know a woman who came out in her 60s. So i'd say you're a gay guy who's long repressed it, and are still convincing yourself you're not gay because you were married. Not that i'm judging, but that seems to be your situation.

• Well OP..BI guys don't. Straight guys do!

• [quote]So guys and gals, what would YOU call me, if anything? I'd call you "out of luck" at 62 years old trying to get any m/m action, R262.

• Tweek em

• "Straight guys are more than okay getting blow jobs from another guy. I know a lot of straight young guys who stop to give me a ride at night while I'm waiting for a bus and enjoy pulling over for a blow job as a reward for a lift. The conversation usually begins with asking me if I'm looking for excitement" You expect anybody to believe that you routinely get picked up by "straight guys" who want you to suck their cocks? And they ask you if you're "looking for excitement?" Get it a rest, dear. Your tale is not even remotely believeable. Only closeted (or not closeted) homos go trolling in cars in search of some idiot willing to suck a stranger's dick.

• Yeah.. It's because they don't like you.. They just wanna use you.. As others have said "They just like their cock to get sucked.." I'm gay and I have blown off some straight guys.. It was only because "I" was desperate and I begged them to let me suck them.. But now, I don't do that anymore.. My advice for us, gays is that we should find partners of our type.. Just don't go after those motha fukin gay bashing inhumane straight dudes who use you as a toy.. They don't know how you feel, they actually can't know because they're straight.. Only a gay knows how a gay feels.. We also have a personality and we also have a right to be not to be discriminated.. But Straight people think we're a some kind of psychos.. A straight guy will NEVER accept you as a best friend of his.. He'll keep his distance..Actually he'll be scared.. Because then the world will think he's gay too.. Mostly straights repel gays because of society..

  Loveable%20gay%20kid

• When a straight guy is horny they will do anything and anyone. Straight guys can have sex with someone without being attracted to them. You will often hear a straight guys say something I banged an ugly girl last night, I didn't what she looked like I just had to have sex. It's the same with getting blown by a gay guy. It may be far easier to find a gay guy to blow you rather than a girl.

  Anon

• [quote]You will often hear a straight guys say something I banged an ugly girl last night So, R270, straight guys "often" talk to you about their conquests, huh?

  You%20don%27t%20have%20any%20straight%20male%20friends

• Being a trucker I give 3-4 blow jobs a night at the truck stops, I call that my meal ticket

• Look, being sexually attracted to someone, and engaging in sexual contact with them, are two different thing. Getting sucked off feels good no matter who is doing it. And, sometimes a situation can be erotic. Some straight guys might enjoy being found attractive by a gay guy cause it's one-sided and boosts their ego. Or, they could enjoy that its forbidden and different, without ever being physiologically attracted to any man. But many straight guys I know like getting into ass play cause it feels good but their girlfriends won't do it. They have no desire to touch a man's ass, but love the feeling so they're willing to receive it.

• @ R273 I would have thought if anything other than a blow job they would prefer to top rather than bottom

  Annon

• I have both heard and read that many straight men ask their girlfriends/wives to strap on a tool and fuck them in the ass and many women oblige them, I think it's called pegging.

  anonymous

• I can top R275: I have several female friends who've dated guys into ass play. I even took one of them dildo-shopping for the first time because she had no idea what to look for (and it hadn't even occurred to her that she also needed to buy lube, since she "just assumed" a guy's ass somehow lubed itself like a female pussy does). No, I don't think it's indicative of them being closet cases; I think it's indicative of them being open-minded and knowing exactly what kind of mind-blowing orgasms they can have if their prostates are stimulated during sex.

• Sex is sex get over it lol

• I love taking a dildo in my ass and let my girlfrienf put a strapon on to satisfy my ass. Sometimes I fantasize bout dp my girl and also leting warm meat Fuck my ass does this make me a queer

• Yes, I do. When my wife and I got a divorce I discovered an adult book store and I was watching a XXX movie and masturbating. I hadn't noticed the hole in the wall until three fingers came through and motioned to me. I thought WTF but stuck my dick through anyway. The guy on the other side of the wall took my dick in his mouth and gave me the best blowjob I'd ever had. Since that time I've let a number of dudes suck my cock and all of them have been better than females. About three weeks later I was curious and I sucked another guy's dick. I've never stopped but I don't do anal with other men, yet.

  Charlie Harris (Dallas)

• Straight guys want nothing to do with nasty homos. Ewwwwwww!

• yes for sure

• Straight men would rather commit crime than allow another man near his genitals sexually.

• I love the gay guy, "Charlie Harris" from Dallas. I love when the gay guys on this site pretend to be "str8 chick" too.

  Straight Gal

• If a guy can't get a bj from his wife, he'll head to the nearest ABS for a NSA bj.

• I love getting my ass opened, my favourite game is seeing how big a fruit i can get up my srry lil' a$$!! Let me have your cock, i am straight btw! I came on here to find out how to stop the bleeding and prolapses when i pull out that son of a bitch from my anus! Love Dom bear xxxxx

  Dominic%20Gale

• ive ran into a lot of str8 guys after work out at gym that love a blow job in steam room of shower

• Two of my fbs are straight, married guys. They look to me to provide them with what their wives won't--assplay. It could be a dick, a dildo or a cucumber for that matter. As long as their ass is eing penetrated. They were embarrassed to ask their wives to accommodate this need, and shy about trying to find women online willing to strap one on. So they get dick or a facsimile in their ass, and they feel less guilt because they don't consider making it with another guy cheating.

• To those of you who say that any man who gets a BJ from another guy must be gay or bi-- that's horse crap. You're just coming from your own space --where you're so skived by the idea that you would never do it. That's not true for about 2/3 of men. Straight guys have varying responses to sex with another guy. Research shows that about 1/3 of straight guys would never have sex with another guy no matter the circumstance. In fact, prison studies bear this out: 1/3 of men have a very visceral skivved reaction to the thought of homosexual sex. The other 2/3 of men have varying degrees of willingness --depending on the circumstances--of having sex with another man. Prison studies show that about 2/3 of men will engage in some sort of sexual release with another man. Look, men can achieve a needed orgasm in many different ways: using one's hand to jo; rubbing against a surface to orgasm; using a fleshlight; ... there are many ways to get off... letting a guy suck your dick is one of them... it is just a way of getting off, like jerking off or other methods. For about 2/3 of straight men, letting another guy suck your dick is not a "sexual turn on"... it is just a method of getting your rocks off. And for some straight guys, other more involved sexual activity with another guy is maybe closer to bi-sexuality... or maybe just another way of getting off. For those guys who insist that ANY sexual contact with another man is GAY, you're wrong. You guys just have such a strong skivv reaction to the notion of getting off using another guy, that you just cannot imagine overcoming your strong skivv factor to get your rocks off. That strong a skiv factor is only in found in a minority of guys.

  Dan Cobb

• The need to label a guy "straight" who has gay sex by some gay men shows their aversion to homosexual men, themselves, and homosexuality in general.

• The people who are unable to deal with the idea of straight men seeking a b.j. are probably elder-queens who haven't been touched by anyone in a decade.

• lol i'm gay and i had a girl blow me, but that doesn't make me straight. idk why straight guys always freak out about doing stuff with the same sex all the time.

• [quote]idk why straight guys always freak out about doing stuff with the same sex all the time. They don't "always freak out." Married to a woman who loses her interest in sex will send a straight guy to any place he can get a b.j.

• OP, if you ever read DL sex threads you will realize that a lot of gay men are freaked out by sex, not the least of which the act of getting fucked. So by simply doing the math and using common sense it should be easy to extrapolate that straight men are at least as freaked out by getting fucked as many gay men are.

• look at it this way male animals have sex with each other and we are the same guys like to unload and and you would find 95% of men would let anothyer guy suck them off in private.some guys love to suck I do and do at every optunity Iam married and my wife knows and is turned onb by it. So let yourself go with your feelings and enjoy the experience animals do it they dont carry on its done and they move on.we humans complate our lives idiots.

• R294 - it's about dominance among two male animals. Not about love, or anything close to human emotion. Straight males do not seek out other males for sex - ever. If they want anal, they seek out female anus. If they want oral, they seek out a female mouth. If they seek out men, they are homsoexual or bisexual. Sorry to ruin your party.

• Is greyvin real???:)

• [quote]Straight males do not seek out other males for sex - ever All the Fundie Fraus will agree with you because they want to believe this.

• Straight men seek out men for sex about as often as out gay men seek out women for sex.

• omg like wtf

• Filth!

• R297, but all the basement dwelling, creepy 40-year-old gay men who jerkoff to seancody.com all day and who lurch around locker rooms for hours and hours pretending to talk "business" on their cell phones while quickly taking peeks at guys getting undressed would agree with you. I would take the "fundie fraus". They seem brighter.

  What a disturbing thread

• Well if they are straight, what is the one thing you can give them, that their wives or girlfriends can't? A dick in their ass !! That's what they're looking for. Most so called straight guys are bottoms, especially the married ones.

• R302, do you ever stop to think that maybe these are bisexual or gay men married to women? Or, would that make you go limp...

• Been with my partner for 10 years in a closed relationship. So going limp isn't an issue for me R303

• Every man whether straight or gay likes a BJ no matter from who!!!

  Lana%20Kane

• Got a straight male friend who gets fucked by his wife with a dildo...and he loves it!!!

  Lana%20Kane

• No R303, Sorry doesn't apply to me, I'm with my partner 10 years & we don't play. So going limp by thinking these men are bi or straight, simply doesn't apply here, for me.

• RE 22 - You're right about this. A straight guy will accept a blowjob from another guy so long as his identity is kept secret. I have given blowjobs to many guys who thoroughly enjoyed the experience but didn't want anyone to know that they had had that experience with another guy. I have straight guys return for additional service who repeatedly tell me how happy they've been finding someone like me who enjoys what I do and don't mind giving them this service over and over again.

• "No. Straight guys find getting sucked off by another man repulsive." This is funny but so not true. Sure, 1% of straight guys might be like that but not the other 99% and I know this for a fact. I'm gay and I know two things; males don't have a gag reflex like women which means men can give a better BJ while knowing exactly what it feels like to do it best and straight guys catch on pretty fast to this fact not always understanding the reason. I do not go for ugly looking guys but attractive 21-28 year old men are perfect if straight and on weekend night. If you find a straight guy in a regular bookstore glancing over at the playboy or actually looking at pics, he is ready to go so if hot and you are too, you can have his manhood in your mouth and he will love it. My rule of thumb is NEVER expect anything in return sexually ever. Most straight guys like oral only when horned out and will not even tell a best friend they get it or a wife of course. I have one hot stud 24 in College and married to a wonderful woman but he knows where the good sex is and it is oral so we hook up twice a week for a few hours where he just relaxes with his pants off and legs spread out while I get him off two or three times. He even brought me flowers once and has plan to take me on business trip to Aspen with him in December to stay at hotel with him for free and ski too. He will get whatever he wants sexually, no STD and no harm to wife so we are both happy. I am in love with him so warning to gays, you could fall in love with the man but if he is straight, he needs to be in relationship with female only so be strong and just take what effection you can. I love straight guys so much and for a good one, willing to do anything to please but would feel like bad boy if I did for another guy when servicing this one guy. Twice a week is enough for me and little vacation with him here and there makes me happy just to be with him more than sex. A lot more than sex.

  Mark

• I agree with person who said will accept so long as identity kept quiet. That is the main thing, never even give out first name to a best friend. Never get mixed up in his personal life unless he wants you in something. If he is married, respect that and think of his wife. He wants sex from her too but she cannot satisfy him all the way so stay clean and do not pass along a STD because not just him but wife too or GF. Keep his name private and if for some reason, he just ups and leaves without calling, do not bother him or try to contact him. That is his way of saying it is over so let it go. To me, straight guys are like Gods in a way but I tend to stick with just one like I have now. He gets anything he wants but he really wants just BJ and he likes to feel my butt with his hands. I have a bubble butt and am very boyish in looks and a good body. He wants me to take pants off when doing him so I do and he holds my butt just buns of course and sqeezes them a lot. I think he wants to do the other thing and I never did that before but if he wants to do that to me then he can. He has a pretty big penis so I know it will hurt at first but he can do what he wants with me and I think he knows that. I thought it so sweet when he brought flowers to me and I know for Christmas he will buy something nice. He has a lot of money but I have to figure out something can get him that wife doesn't question. I have seen her before and she's very nice. She has no idea he gets BJ from me and never will. He is not getting it from other guys or women. Just me knowing I'd never get mixed up in his marriage at all. He has it made with me.

  Mark

• BTW bi-guys are different than straight guys. I know the difference but in human sexuality, there is no 100% heterosexual or homosexual in truth with men or other male animals. Straight is a 9 out of 10, gay is 2 out of 10 and bi is a 5 out of 10. The 1% of guys who would not let cute guy do BJ on them are often overweight and or not very good looking. Looks play a big factor in this.

  Mark

• "He is not getting it from other guys or women." Oh, dear, you are so naive. He's lying to his wife, OF COURSE, he's lying to you.

• Straight men, in the right circumstances, will be eager to get a blowjob from a gay man and will be okay about getting fucked so long as the interaction is kept secret. I have had lots of experience with straight guys who love to get a blowjob from a gay guy and who enjoy getting a cock shoved into their butts. Lots of fun....

  Jim

• Jesus for the 100th time if a guy has sexual relations with a man he's not 100% straight! He's gay or indenial or most likely bisexual, human sexuality is more complex than we think, but he's not 100% straight. The delusions on the DL. And secondly he could get a really good BJ from a decent looking female hooker for only 20 bucks, so why would a straight guy do anything with a dude, especially with the HUGE social stigma of male to male sexual relations. Not to mention the somewhat false stereotype that gay men are all diseased, it just ain't happening. Hell a straight guy would let a 400lb woman give them a BJ before letting a gay Guy come anywhere near them. It's stories like this that make me embarrassed to be a proud gay man, and ask yourselves this gays if you were horney enough which you let a chic give you a BJ? Of course not, you would probably pay a good looking MALE prostitute before letting a woman anywhere near your junk.

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• r309 will be bashed very soon

• gay men HATE gay men!!! so gay men pretend to be straight

• R317 sad but true

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• RE 309/310 - Mark, I agree with you about straight guys. Given the right circumstances, they will enjoy getting a blowjob from another guy. I have a similar situation happening with 2 straight guys, ages 23 and 26, who go out regularly with girls but come to me for blowjobs. They're attractive guys and enjoy what I do for them. I sometimes see them 3 or 4 times a week because they can't get enough of what I do for them. They usually stay for at least 3 or 4 hours then leave and I won't see them for another few days. I have no expectations of them but am happy doing for them what they want. They're great guys and love getting blowjobs. I have known them for 2 years. So, you're right, straight guys enjoy getting blowjobs so long as there are no strings attached and their identity is kept secret.

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• I am a straight man and have received a blow job from a gay man. I was shocked that I let it happen. I was standing and he was on his knees in front of me and I came so hard that my legs were shaking. I admit that I really enjoyed it because he sucked much longer than any girl I have been with and he also fondled my balls at the same time that he was sucking. However, I did not, touch him in anyway and nor did I want to. I did not look down at him whilst it was happening and in my mind I visualised that a hot, sexy woman was down there and put it completely out of my head that there was a man down there.

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• that's hot, r319. what made you do it?

• I am a straight male and I am repulsed by both those possibilities. I would genuinely find it traumatic and the mental image fills me with terror.

• then there's something wrong with you. I am gay but I have been with women sexually twice and was certainly not repulsed by them. If you are unable to appreciate beauty and sexuality of someone who is both beautiful and sexual, no matter their gender, then you have mental problems.

• R322 Your sexuality and mine are different. Simply because your experiences and subsequent opinions have gone a different way, does not give you authority to claim that I have mental problems. Remember 50 years ago, when the DSM was claiming homosexuality was a mental disorder? Are you now suggesting that not being homosexual to some degree is a mental disorder?

• Yes, and he is right. It's just sex, dumbass.

• 3 or 4 hours at a time? You are a true endurance champion, Lance.

• R324 Go have sex with a small child, or a barn-yard animal, or a lamp-post, and tell what's 'just sex'. Just because you consider differently-gendered human orifices equal, does not mean another person does, or even should.

• R321 Thank you! And most straight men I know feel the same way. I'm an attractive, masculine, proud gay man(we do exist). A lot of gay men like masculine men, well why not find that in an ACTUAL gay or bi man or better yet BECOME that dream man yourself instead of creeping straight guys out and then crying homophobia like little girls when you're rebuked. Most men like pussy, hell they would kill for it. GET OVER IT.

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• r327, get the fuck over yourself. guys like you creep me out with your inflated egos. you think everyone wants to BE you? what. the. fuck. and yes, r326, by all means conflate normal human sexuality with pedophilia and bestiality you fucking freak. I don't even know what point your trying to make with that ridiculous post.

• R322 Most straight guys can't even give you an answer on whether a guy is good looking or not. Our whole culture is based around objectifying FEMALE beauty so it's looked at as normal for both men and women to appreciate it. You must of nevet had a lot of straight guys friends, their whole existence revolves around them getting as much pussy as they possibly can, hell if they were hard up enough they would let a fat and ugly chick blow them, it's still pussy, before they would EVEN think about doing something with a hairy, smelly dude.

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• R322 than at least 90% of the male population must have mental problems.

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• R329 is absolutely right

• I once asked a plain-looking girl I knew how she got so many hot guys. She just held up her index finger and waggled it around with a half-smile on her face.

• agree with posters who say straight guys don't let guys blow them or fuck them in the ass...unless... they're in p

• R321, you are in the minority; not the majority. Most boys "experiment" with each other at some point, with no feelings of disgust or shame. It is only society's message of "two males + sex = bad" that forces guys to feign disgust and repulsion at the idea. Poor straight guys who've never experimented. They'll never know what a REAL blowjob is supposed to feel like.

• R327/29/30 = straight loser baiting as a "gay man." I know plenty of masculine gay men, and none of them would ever grovel for straight male acceptance the way he/she does. A true masculine gay man = superior to any straight man and does not hang around losers with their weird pussy issues.

• R334 most boys do not. I liberal estimate on the number of gay/bi men is roughly 10% of the population. Granted there are probably a lot of guys who've gay relations but don't identify as gay/bi because of the stigma you were talking about(which is very real) but even with that added to the equation it's probably 33% (1 out of every 3) at the most and that's a VERY liberal estimation. I have to questions why do gay guys go after and falsely idolize straight men? If you like masculinity find it in other gay/bi guys. Or you become the man that you always wanted, create for yourself. And why do you think there is still such a stigma against male/male releations? Because flamboyant gay guys ruin it for the rest of us nobody is going to take a man who does everything he can to act like a woman seriously, let alone show them respect.

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• R335 sorry me and my boyfriend are both proud and masculine gay men. We have a diverse set of friends, but our 2 best friends are straight guys. You hit the nail on the head when you said gay men are superior to straights, I agree with that 100%. But if you really believe that then why do a lot of gay men purposely go after straight men that they know they'll never have, it's like mental illness or something. And there is nothing proud about going after straight guys, basically you're saying that something is wrong with real gay guys which in turn means you think something is wrong with yourself and you worship straight men and want their approval. Just like these idiot gays who run around saying their "straight acting" the whole term implies heterosexual superiority and makes no sense, how straight acting are you with a dick in your mouth? It also implies that all straight men are masculine which is hardly the case, I'm gay (and out and proud and so is my boyfriend l) and we're WAY more masculine than most straight guts we know.

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• [quote]If you are unable to appreciate beauty and sexuality of someone who is both beautiful and sexual, no matter their gender, then you have mental problems. You've got that backwards, Mary. You sound utterly insane.

• Whether straight men are superior to gay men or vice versa has to be the most idiotic part of this entire thread.

• Straight men begin to stray to gays when their wife loses interest in sex.

• You all are such aggressive self-loathing homophobes it's not even funny.

• R321 = mysangist fish troll.

• [quote]Straight men begin to stray to gays when their wife loses interest in sex. I hope you can ungrip your dick long enough to allow some blood to return to your brain, because that is just nonsensical. When straight men stray from their wives, it's to OTHER WOMEN. Except in your jerk-off fantasies they come to you, of course.

• R340 are you delusional? Straight guys love pussy and will do anything for it, the thought of doing something with another guy is so weird and foreign to them. Somebody has been watching too much gay porn.

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• The worship of straight men is vomitous. Originally I found it somewhat amusing, but at this point it's just nauseating.

• I don't like things up my behind. You boys are just too much.

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• Yes, OP. I know some guys like that.

• Anybody remember the thread by the guy with the married fuckbuddy who was a farmer (or some redneck-type thing) and who was really sweet and not homophobic despite his social circle? I want to know what happened to them.

• I'd like to hear that again r348

• I found the thread r349!! He is r8 in the link. I mis-remembered, the DLer hadn't fucked him yet, but I still want to know WEHT them a year and a half later.

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• well womens suck the dick pretty ban i'm straight but i had the better blow job from a gay...

• You all need a pro (male escort) to school you on the mind of men. They know the truth about men as they have experienced all types of men in an intimate setting. They know way more than reseachers or Internet addicts that watch too much porn do. But they also know how to keep a seceret. Any escorts here want to chime in?

• any man that will stick his own cock in his hand and fuck it, called j/o who is turned on by his own hand is not well. It's just a means to an end, to unload especially when a man is younger and gets an erection for no reason at all. Can anyone tell me, if a guy sticks his cock in a hole(xxx video arcade booth hole) and a cocksucker sucks him dry that man is turned on by the hole or the fleshlight behind the hole? Heck no, its a means to an end. A man that is turned on by women is not turned on by a man, his dick though likes the fleshlight and no man is turned on by a fleshlight, he fantasizes his gal on his cock. His dick likes the mouth behind the hole and when he unloads, zips up it'll be the same as fucking a fleshlight except he don't have to clean it this time. just zip up and be glad you didn't have to use your hands this time. all the other crap is bs. if a woman was behind the hole with her mouth open that would turn him on more. It's a lie, there is a wall separating you both and just enough room in the hole to push your big cock through if the woman left and a guy squatted in her place, any man would still shoot the cum in that mouth without remorse.period. Or he can walk around with a hard on, half the time a woman won't or can't suck cock unless a man has a little wee pecker and then its not absolutely sure if she will. And most woman, use that pussy as leverage, so its either the hand and by gosh you wouldn't want a woman thinking youre turned on by a hand as much as youd be using it or the fleshlight. Who gives a shit if its a faggots mouth or unloading in a flashlight with some lining. Its just another way of jacking off until the pussy becomes available. I never had a straight guy be apprehensive when he was about to unload down my throat. But right after , they always zip up and run like scalded dogs. Yeah until their nuts start hurting again, then they want the fleshlight, me to take their cock anyway they want to use it and swallow every drop without complain and certainly no mess like a paper towel or a cum rag!

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• Don't think most men don't want another woman to suck their cocks. They do, especially if they are straight. But we all know what happens next, ever watch Jerry Springer, it's not too long before a man is getting phone calls to his home. How, she starts investigating him and most of the time he starts of lying anyhow. He loses everything, wife, family, and maybe property ,too. for what, because his cock got hard and his wife don't like sucking, or she just don't give him enough sex to satisfy his sex drive. Or she's pregnant and for a few weeks can't have any sex. Whatever, it's a nightmare. If he is not on a tight budget he could pay a prostitute for sex. But it has to be planned, can't always be hit and run and the wife or gal better not find out. Better no one spill the beans. So it's to the hand, that disgusting hand a pervert uses to get off, or the fleshlight, he better hide. Wouldn't want the wife to think her pussy wasn't enough and start that. or its the no strings hole at the video arcade, a replacement for his hand, unzip put on a video of some gal sucking, stick it in and by george, lips wrap around it and suck it USUALLY bone dry before your videos gone off. Pull it off, wipe it dry. zip up and run out of there like a bat out of hell. But a bat without two nuts full of cum that have been hurting like hell.

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• Any available hole with suffice for straight guys. I remember reading a study that showed that straight guys aged 21-35 are the primary early morning customers at adult video stores. It was theorized that straight guys who don't get any pussy when the bar or club closes head over to the video booths where they're at least assured of a hot blow job by a warm mouth. The study showed that it didn't matter if the mouth was a man's or a woman's, though most often it was a man's.

• For younger guys there's a shift away from getting "freaked about the possibility of getting fucked." Anal play is something they are open too, though many would prefer their girlfriend to use a strap-on rather than have a male do the deed.

• This is what being homosexual was mostly about for hundreds of years before the "gay" liberation and the AIDS epidemic turned most people against us. Most women (except streetwalkers and other professional whores) were not cocksuckers, and when a man wanted a bj, he very discreetly got one from a whore or a queer. Most housewives of the past quit having sex with their husbands after they had all the children they wanted. Finding a queer to suck you off was not as big of deal has having an "affair" with another woman, who would be trying to bust up the family and become the new wife. In those days, two men could trust each other to keep the secret, but nowadays the "gays" will "out" anybody who let's them have a good piece of dick. They have ruined it for everybody.

• For the 100th time STRAIGHT GUYS DO NOT ENGAGE IN GAY SEX ACTS! My best friend is hot and straight as an arrow, he also cheats on his girlfriend every chance he gets. Basically his girl supports him while he is in automotive school. A conversation came up one time, in which he told me he had a 3 way with 2 girls before, I asked him if he would ever have a 3 way with another guy and a girl and he said hell no. I'm his best friend, so obviously he has no problem with gay men, I met him at the gym on the basketball court and he had no idea I was gay until I told him. He loves pussy much that he could never find a guy attractive or get hard with a man. I'm also good looking (so I'm told), young and masculine like he is. In fact our personalities are so much alike that it's scary. We both have the same sense of humor and goof around on each other, especially by farting on each other and other immature things. He treats me as his male equal and never judges me for being gay. Would I ever hook up with him if given the chance? Hell yeah! Would it ever happen? Hell no!

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• A lot of gay guys got blown by women at some point in their lives. Some still do. Its called closeted (some even go as far as getting married). If sexuality was as simple as who you have sex with, then a lot of gay guys would be called straight. They like the sex just not the gender they are having sex with. Pleasure is pleasure no matter who gives it, so if we gay guys can have sex with woman then straight guys can have sex with men. It doesn't make you gay it just mean you are into gay sex. You don't mind having gay sex but you can never fall in love with a guy. Likewise just because a gay guy is married and have children doesn't mean he is straight...he is still gay and he still likes (and check out) guys.

• Why ask this question on a gay board? Go to a fantasy football forum and ask... you're not getting truthful answers here. You'll get them there. You're getting fantasy here.

• Straight men just want a quick blow job so they can zip up, go home, and sit in front of the TV with the wife who gave up sex after the last kid popped out. They don't feel it's cheating since they're not involved with a female. It's all NSA and an easy way to get off while knowing that someone still finds them attractive.

• Self-loathing is sad.

• R361, so how often do you fuck women?

• All the time, R363. I post ads on Craigslist when my boyfriend is out of town. Bi-curious gay guy looking for pussy. I have a thing too for meaty clits, meat-curtains if you will. I'm so curious, I prefer chicks on their periods. Don't you read about bi-curious gay men looking for bloody pussy to fuck? I'm still gay though. Faaaar from straight.

• The myth that straight women don't want sex has been proven wrong by anyone curious enough to simply look. Women want sex just like men, they just don't present this desire in exactly the same way. Just because a woman doesn't want to have sex with YOU anymore doesn't mean she doesn't want it at all. Women cheat on men just as much as men but they are better at hiding it.

• [quote]Women want sex just like men, It's not that simple. Women who want sex, want it paired with one of two things - romance or money. A straight man can get a blowjob from a gay man in just a few minutes with no money to exchange and no need for romance. There's no need for foreplay or afterglow. No need for tender words, just a grunt when the cum shoots out. It's like a quick sporting event.

• R366, I think you need psychological help.

• Straight men are straight because they sleep with women. They don't sleep with men. If you're having sex with a married and or otherwise straight identified man, we're talking about a man who is bisexual. Why DL'ers continue to insist straight men want to have sex with other men is beyond me.

• We're not talking about men SLEEPING with men. We're not talking about men who WANT to have sex with men. We're talking about a straight guy who sticks his cock through a glory hole so that a mouth sucks his cock until he cums. It does not mean the straight guy has a desire for the unseen person on the other side of the glory hole. It does not mean the straight guy has any feelings for the unseen person on the other side of the glory hole. These are men who could never make love to another man. Fraus and men raised to believe "love and marriage go together" are unable to comprehend that straight men can get a blow job with no feelings involved.

• OP, the answer to your question would be: Straight guys do not want blow jobs from men.

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• Why the hell was this tired old thread bumped up? By the way, I don't think there's a straight man alive who would ever stick his dick in a glory hole so a guy unseen on the other side can suck it. A straight guy that desperate would probably just hire a cheap prostitute.

• Any gay man here stick his cock in a glory hole so some 40-something peri-menopausal woman can suck his cock for sport?

• R371, not unless it's surprise oral. I was friends with a really hot straight guy in college (I was a freshman, he was a junior). We had a party in his suite with a group of friends, and then he and I somehow wound up in his bedroom doing 1-on-1 shots of tequila. Needless to say, we passed out (on his bed). In the morning, his crotch was about two inches away from my face. I started to blow him (he was still asleep). Eventually, he woke up, but he didn't push me away. Finally, he said, "I'm gonna cum!" and tried to pull my mouth away. I just grabbed his ass and rammed his cock down my throat. He nearly passed out from the orgasm. Even though he had a girlfriend, he admitted that it was the best BJ he had ever had. True story.

• [quote]True story. You can really tell who the porn addicts are on this web site.

• Fuck you, R374. Don't believe it if you choose. But this really happened. And I'm sure mine isn't the only example. And the reply was intended for R370, not R371.

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• Sure it really happened. It's the plot of every other gay porno.

• No wonder straight guys can get away with so much...with a world full of people like r368. R369 has it right. I have no idea why this is a 'no fly zone' for some people's brains. It seems simple and obvious to me. Frauen, I tell ya!

• R376, obviously you have no clue of of half the shit that goes on in college, do you? The things I experienced first-hand, not to mention, the stories my friends told me, are a drop in the bucket of the myriads of sexual escapes that millions of students experience each year. I've definitely had sex with straight guys before. Whether these few guys went on to try gay sex again after having it with me, I couldn't tell you. But I do believe that if they continue to seek it out, they have to be bisexual to some degree.

• R378, who are you trying to convince? Me or you?

• I'm not trying to convince anyone, you retard. I merely posted a personal experience. You've cynically chosen not to believe it, but it doesn't change the facts. So now I move on, and you move on. Period.

• "R369 has it right. I have no idea why this is a 'no fly zone' for some people's brains. It seems simple and obvious to me." R369 thinks straight men stick their dicks in glory holes. If you believe the same, you're as much of a wackadoo as he is.

• A lot of frau mentality in this thread. They want to think their husband would never be willing to get off in another man's mouth or ass.

• Last night I sucked off a straight guy while his ten year old son was asleep in the next room. I just had to tell someone.

• It's weird that you find that hot, R383. The kid probably knows that his dad is gay - kids pick up on a lot - and it can't be easy at that age since he can't tell anyone.

• Gay men have kids too...why is this lost on some gay men?

• I bet the "kid' was a 10 year old pug

• [quote]The kid probably knows that his dad is gay - kids pick up on a lot IOW, you obviously think gay men should not have children. Is that your frau induced input for the day?

• Believe it or not, there's a difference between an openly gay man in a relationship with another man choosing to have and raising a child and a closeted gay man with a wife fucking tricks he invites over every time the wife is gone. One of these scenarios is healthy for the child, the other isn't. My guess is that R385 and R387 are the typical closeted self-loathing gays.

• Why is this lame assed, 3 year old thread still around? It's older (and moldier) than the deranged queens around here who think straight guys really dig the homosex.

• um... yeah... "Does it need to be said yet again? I suppose it does;" yes it is kind of a tired subject, unless you are not getting any sex lately.... but you have to leave the house once in a while, if you want it to happen. and you said - "so many retards come to Datalounge... DUDE.. well.. you are Here !

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• [quote]My guess is that R385 and R387 are the typical closeted self-loathing gays. Typical defense of losers. Go for the "closeted self-loathing gays" accusation. The meme for all losers. Why not add "Hitler" to it for a grand slam-dunk at appearing pathetic.

• R388, why the attack on me? I'm on your side. The guy getting blown is closeted gay or bisexual.

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• I'm lost how R385 and R387 insinuate self-loath.

• All you naysayers should take a stroll along the upper west side on a weekend afternoon. Lots, and I mean LOTS, of good looking married men will hold your stare when you cruise them. Translation: GAY OR BI. They have their cozy little families, but they either crave or are just curious what M2M sex would be like. A lot of these guys are up for a good M2M blow job. A few will try anal sex, mostly as a bottom. The one requirement is that you must be masculine. There's a comfort level, a trust, that comes with masculine guys that makes it easier to succumb to their gay desires.

• I find that a considerable % of straight guys are open to receiving a blow job; a very small % of them are open to getting fucked; and an even smaller % are open to a prolonged makeout session with another guy. The latter is the most in-your-face (literally) intimacy; there's no hiding. It is a main reason why some sex workers don't kiss. Like, for $$ you can have them from the neck down but that's it.

• And totally agree with R394. I'm not quite hot enough to have first hand experience but my best looking friend, the one who gets asked "OMG are you a model?" - he says a very high % of good looking married men will cruise him back hard, or even initiate the eye contact. With a very clear expression of interest.

• Sometimes they stare at me first, and sometimes I initiate the stare. More times than you think, they'll stare back and hold that stare. I'm masculine in appearance with an obvious worked out body, so I suppose that holds some attraction/fascination for them. I've met a few in the Westside Market and Home Goods while their wives are in another aisle. I've gotten several numbers that have led to hookups. Like I said, the majority--especially the newbies--just want to do oral, but some guys will try anal. As as r395 said, they're not really into kissing because that's way too intimate. They don't want to make love to another man. They just want to get off with another guy, which is fine by me.

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• People enjoy checking out attractive people R396. I've caught myself leering at very attractive women. They are plenty of men in relationships with women who are of course closeted gay/bi. Why do we find the need to obsess over those fuckers? Dishonest cowards aren't attractive me at all personally.

• I want to see pics of the gay men who turn the heads of straight men aka closeted gay men. You must look like Marcus Shenkenberg or whatever his name is. You must all be stunningly gorgeous. Post your pics. I'm curious.

• R397 that may be true, but they are not straight. They are at least bi if not full blown gay and in the closet. Real straight men are REPULSED by male/male sex acts, even having another dude blow them freaks them out.

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• There's one drop-dead gorgeous guy in my gym who complained to management a few months ago about guys having sex in the sauna/steam area. I walked in as he was telling the manager, and he used the words "repulsive" and "disgusting." I've seen him with the wife in the market, as they live in my neighborhood, and I constantly see him checking other guys. Like I said he is drop-dead gorgeous and probably gets a lot of stares...but I see him holding them for a while. I bet he's a total self-loathing closet case.

• I never said these guys were straight. They're either gay or bi-curious. A straight guy would only allow a gay guy to blow him through a glory hole because he can't see the face and can imagine it's Linda Evans on the other side of the hole.

• R402 Linda Evans? How old are you?

• It was just a joke. I'm 26. My uncle is gay and he would tell me that closeted guys back in the '80s, in an effort to pass as straight, would say they found Linda Evans hot, not realizing that straight men did not want to fuck Linda Evans.

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• Who's Linda Evans?

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• R401 if he had seen a bunch of females having sex at the gym he wouldn't be calling it perverted or disgusting!

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• I've heard of Linda Evans but I'm not sure who she is? I think she's from Charlie's Angels.

• There is no such thing as Gay Straight or bisexual. A Person is a Person, male or female, People have feelings and emotions. A male can be attracted to a males personality but not "gay" same for a woman. It's just socially acceptable to be "Straight" the world we live in is screwed up. People just need to open their minds a little bit.

• Guys who don't identify as gay, want to get a very quick blowjob because they need to rush back to their wife before she discovers he's not really at Home Depot.

• Most guys just need a really sound spanking, that usually does the trick.

• R401, what city are you in?

• What a binary world we live in! gay/straight, black/white..human beings need certainty, and it screws with our minds when people can have gay sex and still identify as straight. While there is still so much bi-phobia out there, it's much easier to say that you're straight than trying to explain that you like boys and girls or boys who are girls or girls who are boys. Heard someone describe themselves as a 'subgroup of genderqueer' recently and I was like WTF does that even mean? Just say you're straight and we can move on!

• Gay bi whatever - we're all part of the same rainbow!