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Straight guys that love sucking cock

Is such a thing possible? I've met my share of "straight" dudes that get off on the occasional dick.

The guys on the below-linked Reddit thread sure seem to think its normal.

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by Anonymousreply 225October 24, 2018 1:29 PM

"Straight guys [italic]who[/italic] love sucking cock" do not exist. There's no such thing as a straight male who gives blowjobs to other men, unless he's being raped or is in jail, or both.

by Anonymousreply 1September 20, 2014 4:20 PM

Yes just like gay guys that love having sex with women.

Yawn, it isn't that complicated, if you enjoy having sex with both genders that is bisexuality.

by Anonymousreply 2September 20, 2014 4:20 PM

From one of the replies on reddit:

[quote]I remember the first time that I did it I thought to myself "that really isn't for me" and then continued to do it off and on for another 8 years.

by Anonymousreply 3September 20, 2014 4:22 PM

"Yawn, it isn't that complicated, if you enjoy having sex with both genders that is bisexuality."

Did you read the posts? They don't seem to really enjoy dating men or kissing men and don't fantasize about men sexually. Seems straight to me.

by Anonymousreply 4September 20, 2014 4:24 PM

They don't really mention their own endowment. That might lead to some insight.

by Anonymousreply 5September 20, 2014 4:37 PM

Very interesting indeed.

There's more to sexuality than gay or bi...& that's clear reading those posts.

Strange they only want to suck and not be sucked.

Also sad to read because some of them sound so confused and unused to being open with each other...even on the internet.

Felt weird reading those posts because I never read the musings of heteros on the internet...they're usually so boring. I'm so used to DL.

That poor guy whose GF left him when he told her about his feelings...he's better off without her anyway. Then the other guy who had a cool GF.

Anyway...it's all food for thought.

What a LOT of people don't get is that a man can be attracted to other men and still be as into women as any hetero. As though if you like vegetarian food you don't really dig steak that much. As if liking men as well diminishes your attraction to women.

by Anonymousreply 6September 20, 2014 5:12 PM

straight frau here,

I once had a gay friend who loved sucking women's boobs. He always wanted to suck mine. I'm not joking. It turned him on but he wasn't attracted to women or vaginas.

Some people may be attracted to body parts and not the actual person. Sexuality is complex.

by Anonymousreply 7September 20, 2014 5:18 PM

Sexuality is a lot more fluid than anyone cares to admit. One of my fuck buds is a completely muscled-up, roided, competitive weightlifter. Handsome as hell. He loves to suck cock. He won't even let me tough his cock, he just likes sucking. I believe he is straight, and it's really not even the cock he loves: he just likes how it feels to be dominated and used. There's a psychological thing at play, there, not a sexual. So would I call him straight? Yes, even though he sucks cock. Things are much more complicated than we think.

by Anonymousreply 8September 20, 2014 5:19 PM

I wonder how much of the "not interested in kissing or dating other guys" is their own mental block? I think a lot of these guys could swing bisexual if they got over their hang-ups.

by Anonymousreply 9September 20, 2014 8:29 PM

Uh, but if they had the "hang-ups" you think they have they wouldn't be sucking dick or talking about it over the internet.

by Anonymousreply 10September 20, 2014 8:35 PM

I wonder too.

the fact is, ALL men love penises, mainly their own, but sometimes other penises are fun too. I think if women had cocks men around the world wouldn't mind that much.

by Anonymousreply 11September 20, 2014 8:36 PM

A penis is for sport and fun but women can't understand that. They think it's only for making love to a female.

by Anonymousreply 12September 20, 2014 8:42 PM

On the internet everything you read is true and factual. On the internet everybody is who they say they are.

by Anonymousreply 13September 20, 2014 9:12 PM

Did you read the thread, R13? These sound like honest experiences and desires - I have no idea why you'd think they'd be lying.

by Anonymousreply 14September 20, 2014 9:15 PM

Some could be, some could be completely made up. Who knows.

As r13 said, you can't blindly trust everything you read on the internet. People do love to make up stuff.

by Anonymousreply 15September 20, 2014 9:17 PM

Again, I have no clue why you'd think these are made-up. These aren't exactly elaborate scenarios. What exactly is to be gained by the guys saying stuff like:

[quote]I'm not attracted to guys the way I am girls and initially I wasn't attracted to guys at all... just to the idea of sucking cock. I'm still not interested in anything more than giving head, but I do find some guys attractive sometimes. Those guys are few and far between though and generally guys I've already blown.

by Anonymousreply 16September 20, 2014 9:27 PM

If straight is defined as a Kinsey 0 (completely heterosexual), then no, it doesn't exist; if it's defined as a Kinsey 1 or 2 (with bisexuality being 3 alone), sure it could happen.

But let's have a huge unnecessary discussion about semantics. We're so good at that here at DL.

by Anonymousreply 17September 20, 2014 9:41 PM

The words 100% straight/kinsey zero has no meaning if you are including guys who enjoy and seek out having gay sex.

by Anonymousreply 18September 20, 2014 9:44 PM

>>>>>>>. I think if women had cocks men around the world wouldn't mind that much.

VERY thought provoking.

by Anonymousreply 19September 20, 2014 11:21 PM

One person commented that he was just into oral, female and male. I'm a very oral person and if I were ever to be with a woman I'd mostly be interested in eating her out. It's not something I'd seek out but if an opportunity arose I'd probably try it. But I can't imagine it would be as satisfying as sucking a dick.

by Anonymousreply 20September 21, 2014 1:39 AM

I know I read somewhere that when watching (straight porn), most straight guys attention is focused on the guy's big dick rather than the girl (maybe living vicariously through him). So see, even straight guys like to see big, hard dicks.

by Anonymousreply 21September 21, 2014 5:40 AM

Love and sex are separate.

I knew a guy once that was a heterophile but a homosexual. He was utterly miserable. He could only fall in love with women (emotionally) but was only physically attracted to men (sexually).

I think guys who are heterophiles identify as "straight" even if they're bisexual.

Me, I'm a 99% homophile, 110% homosexual. I'm still miserable because I can't find a guy I can both love AND be sexually attracted to (in 40 years of looking), but that's a whole different thing.

I had a friend who was a bi-phile (could fall in love with men or women) but who was 100% heterosexual. When he sorta fell for me, it was weird. Awkward. Annoying. Yet sweet in a way. Thankfully we're still friends (he's married now... he and I dated while he was living with the woman who would become his wife.... yeah, it was weird).

by Anonymousreply 22September 21, 2014 6:37 AM

So now we have guys who decide they are women, but keep their penis and balls, but we're not allowed to say they are transvestites, because they say they are women; and guys who suck cock, but we're not allowed to say they are bi, because they say they are straight, which lets them off the hook about being a tiny bit gay.

This is all bullshit, people. A guy who sucks cock is bi (at least), even if he is fucked up about that and needs to cling to hetero privilege. A man who keeps his cock and balls is not a woman, even if he gets plastic tits and a frock.

by Anonymousreply 23September 21, 2014 7:26 AM

Transsexual is not the same as transvestite.

by Anonymousreply 24September 21, 2014 7:30 AM

Straight.Men.Don't.Suck.Other.Men's.Cocks.

Sigh...

by Anonymousreply 25September 21, 2014 7:32 AM

R24 absolutely: but the new crop of straight men, who keep their cock and balls, wear a frock, and then insist on being allowed to use women's bathrooms, attend MichFest, and even shower naked with women, without any objections being made to their male genitalia.... They're transvestites: hetero men retaining hetero privilege, wanting to fuck women with their dicks, and rely on bullying to fuck women (like always).

by Anonymousreply 26September 21, 2014 7:42 AM

It's revealing how many of those guys mention "self-esteem" issues when trying to come to terms with their desire for cock. The shame and stigma that society imposes on male homosexuality prevents the majority of men from freely exploring their bisexuality. This stigma exists because of the strong association between male homosexuality and effeminacy. Society promotes "lipstick lesbians" but not "alpha male gay guys."

by Anonymousreply 27September 21, 2014 7:44 AM

[quote]Society promotes "lipstick lesbians" but not "alpha male gay guys."

Even with children it's a similar thing.

"My daughter's a total tomboy...refuses to wear a dress...wishes she was a boy"...Oh, how cute & hilarious!

"My son plays with dolls and wishes he was a girl"...OH, MY GOD!

by Anonymousreply 28September 21, 2014 8:51 AM

I would think half of all heterosexual guys and girls wouldn't mind getting it on with a same sex partner.

by Anonymousreply 29September 21, 2014 9:04 AM

If there wasn't a stigma against it, so many straight guys would be sucking cock or getting their cocks sucked. Especially teens and 20somethings. Even with the stigma I did my share back then. Think of ships and prison and how common gay sex is there. There's a whole theory that says part of the ancient stigma on homosexuality is because without the stigma guys would just spend their time sucking each others dicks and forget to make babies.

by Anonymousreply 30September 21, 2014 9:17 AM

R27 We have ourselves to blame for that too. Remember "Queer As Folk" (US version) So many of those guys, Gale Harold's character in particular, were played as alphas, and what did the gay community do? Disown the show as unrealistic and complain that Harold's character didn't seem gay at all, seemed like a straight stud who just happened to like cock.

by Anonymousreply 31September 21, 2014 9:21 AM

R30

Well 3.7 billion people were made by hetero sex, so I don't think it is THAT unpopular.

by Anonymousreply 32September 21, 2014 9:23 AM

Why's this particularly shocking? There are straight guys who like getting fucked by women with dildos (it's called "pegging")- why would it be odd that some straight men are the opposite?

by Anonymousreply 33September 21, 2014 9:25 AM

r31,

I was only able to get through like two or three episodes of QAF, but if anyone, especially gay men, can say the main characters (esp. Michael) were "alphas" or even "alpha-like"- I don't even know what to say...

Oh, wait, I just saw the thread with NPH and his hausmann recreating "Lady and the Tramp"...think I get it now...

by Anonymousreply 34September 21, 2014 9:35 AM

Hilarious:

I have never thought I wanted to call myself gay just because I want to put a dick in my mouth.

Yes, your are somewhat gay. If not completely gay.

by Anonymousreply 35September 21, 2014 9:37 AM

[quote] I have never thought I wanted to call myself gay just because I want to put a dick in my mouth.

Well, that explains gay for pay cocksucking at least.

by Anonymousreply 36September 21, 2014 9:42 AM

[quote] I have never thought I wanted to call myself gay just because I want to put a dick in my mouth.

[quote] Yes, your are somewhat gay. If not completely gay.

r22 called it.

They don't think they're gay because they can't fall in love with men.

by Anonymousreply 37September 21, 2014 9:54 AM

Agree with R37 There's a wide gulf between "I like having sex with men" and "I am romantically attracted to other men."

Which brings me to R34. Good memory for someone who only watched 2 or 3 episodes, but if you'd watched the series, Brian Kinney (GH's character) was definitely an alpha male and much of the plot was about him struggling to accept that he had romantic feelings for another man.

by Anonymousreply 38September 21, 2014 10:00 AM

Sucking cock is good for the country. Wether it be men or women. Cocks need to be sucked. I am a firm believer in this and it should be performed regularly . With abandon. Cock sucking should be the norm for everyone.

by Anonymousreply 39September 21, 2014 10:27 AM

On a side note, what's up with all these "straight" guys on cam sites playing with dildos? They will describe themselves as straight then whip out a 9" dildo and start sucking on it and shoving it up their asses. Do you ever see a self described gay guy whipping out a vagina fleshlight and going to town on that? Or motor-boating a pair of rubber tits?

by Anonymousreply 40September 21, 2014 10:40 AM

[quote] Do you ever see a self described gay guy whipping out a vagina fleshlight and going to town on that? Or motor-boating a pair of rubber tits?

Is there a market for this?

by Anonymousreply 41September 21, 2014 10:55 AM

[quote]There's a whole theory that says part of the ancient stigma on homosexuality is because without the stigma guys would just spend their time sucking each others dicks and forget to make babies.

A 'whole theory'?...it's called 'a GAY perspective'.

by Anonymousreply 42September 21, 2014 11:03 AM

The "Do you ever wish you were gay?" thread ℅ reddit.

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by Anonymousreply 43September 21, 2014 11:18 AM

The people you are discussing (if they exist, doubtful), have not reached any sort of meaningful sexual maturity. They are incomplete humans. There are also many of these sad people posting on this thread. As expected, it's DL. This place is rife with mental illness and arrested development.

by Anonymousreply 44September 21, 2014 11:26 AM

I think it's a kind of sexual fetishism, where a straight guy fixates on the dick when conventionally one wouldn't view it as being sexually arousing. It is a longing for the dick as an object.

by Anonymousreply 45September 21, 2014 11:26 AM

They are the same pathetic closet cases who post ads on CL as or for "str8" men.

Oh and what r23 said.

by Anonymousreply 46September 21, 2014 11:47 AM

Oxymorons

by Anonymousreply 47September 21, 2014 11:55 AM

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by Anonymousreply 48September 21, 2014 11:55 AM

R40 Because they know there are many gay guys who'll pay to see them shove a dildo up their ass and very hew who'd pay to see a gay guy motorboating. Guys on cam sites are exhibitionists and desperate for money.

by Anonymousreply 49September 21, 2014 12:02 PM

[R48] I agree with you. As a gay man I have eaten pussy more than once. Right time, right place.

by Anonymousreply 50September 21, 2014 12:03 PM

r49, they're not just doing it for the money, you see intense pleasure on their faces as they do it and they're hard as a rock. We shouldn't underestimate the repressed bisexuality of straight-identified men.

by Anonymousreply 51September 21, 2014 12:10 PM

R51, they're playing with toys, not living, breathing men.

by Anonymousreply 52September 21, 2014 12:16 PM

The problem we have with sexuality is we're always putting labels on every fucking state of being. Every thought someone has needs to be labeled and that is complete insanity.

Let people like what they like at that particular moment in time without labeling them.

If a guy is sexually and emotionally attracted to women but likes to suck cock once in a while then that's what it is. It's not gay or bi or straight, it is what it is at that particular moment. He might stay that way or not. Who cares?

This is why the gay community has become like it's oppressor - the constant need to put people in little boxes. We are who we are NOW and we might be something else later.

People change their minds about everything all the fucking time!! And it's ok!

by Anonymousreply 53September 21, 2014 12:55 PM

The problem with your mentality is that it perpetuates the shaming of gayness. All these denialists who have sex with other men. But the last thing they are is gay, or even bi, for pity's sake. They may have dick up their ass but they're definitely not one of those faggots. They're real men and the rest of us who are honest with ourselves are queers.

by Anonymousreply 54September 21, 2014 1:03 PM

Almost everyone in the world is obsessed with dick -- except us lesbians. We just stand there with our hands on our hips, rolling our eyes at you and shaking our heads.

by Anonymousreply 55September 21, 2014 1:05 PM

I've sen a bizarre post online in where the poster claimed that "he was straight" but was an enthusiastic cocksucker! One cannot have a dick in their mouth and be considered straight. Bi for sure but not straight.

by Anonymousreply 56September 21, 2014 1:05 PM

[quote] that it perpetuates the shaming of gayness.

So, what's the alternative. That they call themselves a little gay? We have loads of actual gay men who say that already.

by Anonymousreply 57September 21, 2014 1:09 PM

[quote]This is why the gay community has become like it's oppressor - the constant need to put people in little boxes.

Maybe because we've been forced into boxes all our lives?

It's not just with sexuality...clever people can be very stupid, kind people can also be very cruel etc...

But people tend to be labelled with one predominant quality. Keeps things simple. That's how people like it.

by Anonymousreply 58September 21, 2014 1:11 PM

r58 is definitely on to something. I think it is because [out of unfortunate necessity] sexual identity is entwined with the political.

If there weren't so many assholes making political careers on the backs of others by legislating bigotry and ignorance, these natural gradations of sexuality wouldn't be so intimidating or threatening.

by Anonymousreply 59September 21, 2014 1:18 PM

[quote] I've sen a bizarre post online in where the poster claimed that "he was straight" but was an enthusiastic cocksucker! One cannot have a dick in their mouth and be considered straight. Bi for sure but not straight.

It's all semantics. Let's not forget all the people here who refuse to accept that bisexuality even exists.

by Anonymousreply 60September 21, 2014 1:26 PM

R53 - YES. Forcing everyone to fit into the strict gay/straight binary and affixing labels to everyone's sexual lapels is yet another form of foisting someone else's sexual concepts onto the wider world.

R45 - I do think cock-fetishism plays a major role here for straight-identified guys. It probably has to do with deeply rooted fears of and fascination with other men's penises. Penises are ubiquitous (half the world has one and we all know it!) yet regarded as highly taboo. It's not about an attraction to men for a lot of these cocksuckers, but rather, being drawn to this highly sexual, forbidden object. So I will accept the claim from most of the guys on the reddit thread that they do not consider themselves bi.

R5 - I also wonder about the endowment factor for some of these guys. Men across the spectrum are usually quite interested in dick size - take a look at some of the professed orientations of members [insert joke here] on cockcentric websites - and I think an excitable sense of inadequacy plays into the fetishism for several niches - str8 cocksucking, BBC, and cuckoldry chief among them; in fact, I see all three converge occasionally.

I don't think any of this is terribly new. It's more that the interweb has made it visible (porn, webcams) and anonymously discussable (message boards, chat rooms).

by Anonymousreply 61September 21, 2014 1:28 PM

Male genitalia is like female breasts. They both stand out. They're in your face. They're big. They wiggle. You can play with them, squeeze them, suck them and slap them.

That's why society is obsessed with penises and female boobies. Vaginas are less visible as they are internal. Manboobs are just nasty.

Straight guys can be obsessed with cocks just like straight girls often love to grab and play with other girl's boobs.

A dick is like a big, juicy love stick and boobs are two big juicy bouncing balls. Who wouldn't want to play with them or have them in their mouths?

I love both :)

by Anonymousreply 62September 21, 2014 1:42 PM

Women can sleep with other women and then meet a guy, fall in love and everyone's cool - she went through a phase or she's bi. But a guy sucks one cock and he's a homo, definitely damaged goods. And who's shouting that loudest? We are. We want everyone to be gay. Every celebrity, every athlete, every guy who experiments.

by Anonymousreply 63September 21, 2014 2:00 PM

r62, do straight girls ever specifically hook up with other girls just to play with their boobs? No.

Stop denying the repressed bisexuality of these men. Homophobia will not die until we get rid of the stigma that deliberately equates male homosexuality with effeminacy.

by Anonymousreply 64September 21, 2014 2:05 PM

R64 They don't need to. Girls engage in lesbianism everywhere, all the time because it is socially acceptable.

Guys need to hook up with other guys in order to engage in gay behavior. They can't do it in public or in front of their girlfriends.

Go to a straight club. You see girls making out with girls and grabbing each other's boobs all the time.

If straight guys did that in public, they'd be dead.

by Anonymousreply 65September 21, 2014 2:28 PM

This thread is useless without pics.

by Anonymousreply 66September 21, 2014 2:31 PM

Girls wear their bisexuality like a badge of honor, very often.

Aren't I a cool, sexy bitch, I can get in with both sexes.

Of course AIDS set back the "bi is cool" movement for men. If it hadn't been for AIDS it probably would have happened, to some degree.

Bi guys were seen as pariahs...spreading the disease to the straight population.

by Anonymousreply 67September 21, 2014 2:53 PM

Good point R67

by Anonymousreply 68September 21, 2014 3:16 PM

The alternative, r57, is referring to men who enjoy sucking dick as gay or at least bi.

by Anonymousreply 69September 21, 2014 3:39 PM

If you could stop with calling everyone GAY more men would play. They hate gay, but sex, that can work for the.

by Anonymousreply 70September 21, 2014 3:42 PM

Relevant:

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by Anonymousreply 71September 21, 2014 3:54 PM

Maybe straighty just likes to receive positive reinforcement when performing sexual acts. At least the penis lets you know when it likes what you're doing to it. Or maybe he's just a closet case who doesn't want the intimacy of a dude-on-dude kiss and prefers the cold handshake quality of fellatio.

Yeah, that makes sense.

by Anonymousreply 72September 21, 2014 3:55 PM

I love this from the comments:

[quote]One of the worst aspects of giving a guy head is getting bored. At one point you're thinking "ok, I've been at this long enough, just fucking cum already." Your neck gets tired, there isn't really anything arousing in it for you and you're now just going through the motions trying to "finish" the act. There's nothing like the feeling you get when the question of whether you actually like sucking cock crosses your mind while a cock is currently in your mouth.

LOL, he sounds like a DL frau.

by Anonymousreply 73September 21, 2014 4:23 PM

Vaginas let you know when they're happy too r72

by Anonymousreply 74September 21, 2014 4:28 PM

No, sorry, they are deluding themselves. They are like gay men who are only interested in certain sex acts. If they like performing oral sex on men and also various sex acts with women, they are bi-sexual.

by Anonymousreply 75September 21, 2014 4:35 PM

Kinsey Scale...

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by Anonymousreply 76September 21, 2014 4:37 PM

[R61] Despite all your verbal diarrhea, it comes to down to one simple thing. Guys who love to suck cock and call themselves straight are cowards, who want the benefit of hetero privilege while having their cake and eating it too.

They don't have the balls to tell their wives or girlfriends or the world at large that they are bisexuals.

It's not very complicated. Really.

by Anonymousreply 77September 21, 2014 4:38 PM

Huzzah r77

by Anonymousreply 78September 21, 2014 5:05 PM

[quote]If you feel like putting a cock in your mouth is something you want to do, by all means go right ahead and explore there is nothing inherently wrong with it and honestly giving another person pleasure is a downright bro thing to do.

That made me a bit horny. I wish more guys thought this way.

I think it does come from fetishizing big dicks as being more masculine or virile. Notice the focus is on the dick. It's never about I want to suck off a hot guy. It's almost as if you the beta male is sharing / paying homage to the power of an Aloha big cock by sucking it. I am sure it stems from feelings of sexual inadequacy and prowess. It must be primal, wanting to service the pack leader.

I know sometimes I find sexy women hot because I like imagining all of the hot dick they could get if they wanted to. So it's not a reach to imagine a straight guy might be attracted to a big dick imagining all of the pussy it gets.

And anal play is not straight or gay. That comes from your own anatomy not your sexuality. I am gay and get nothing from anal sex. Other guys can be straight and totally get off on something up their ass.

by Anonymousreply 79September 21, 2014 5:18 PM

Oh r79, if only there was more of the Aloha cock you refer to.

by Anonymousreply 80September 21, 2014 6:32 PM

R53 said: [quote]we're always putting labels on every fucking state of being. Every thought someone has needs to be labeled and that is complete insanity. Let people like what they like at that particular moment in time without labeling them.

[quote]If a guy is sexually and emotionally attracted to women but likes to suck cock once in a while then that's what it is. It's not gay or bi or straight, it is what it is at that particular moment. He might stay that way or not. Who cares? This is why the gay community has become like it's oppressor - the constant need to put people in little boxes

And when heterosexual society stops discriminating against gays, bullying gays, denying gays their equal place; when bi guys who crave cock stop passing for straight, denying their bisexuality, and denigrating gays in the process, by clinging to and reinforcing heterosexual privilege; then maybe the need to "label", to say we are not heterosexual, but deserve the same rights and the same respect, to assert our right to be acknowledged, will be less of an issue.

Until then, saying gays want to "label" and put people into boxes, and to mock them for wanting men who have sex with men to stand up and say they are gay or bi..... Well, it just says that your attitude to gays is part of the problem, part of the bullying, part of wanting us to be invisible like we used to be. So you can fuck right off with your shitty attitude.

by Anonymousreply 81September 21, 2014 6:44 PM

I know a guy like this. He's in his 60s, always married or partnered with a woman, is not attracted to men, doesn't get sucked or do anything else sexually with men (no kissing, rimming, fucking, etc.) but LOVES to suck dick.

by Anonymousreply 82September 21, 2014 6:49 PM

R82 He's still gay or bi no matter what he says. If he's partnered with a woman and goes to glory holes to suck cock,he's on the down low.Straight men don't go to glory holes to suck dicks or get their cocks sucked.

by Anonymousreply 83September 21, 2014 6:53 PM

R81 makes more sense than anyone else in this thread. Faint praise, I realize. But not damning.

by Anonymousreply 84September 21, 2014 7:16 PM

well, the Reddit link introduced me to a new term- "heteroflexible".

Is that modern bullshit speak for "bi"?

by Anonymousreply 85September 21, 2014 7:19 PM

I can't picture arguing that a woman who just loved eating pussy was straight. What sort of mental illness is afflicting some of the occupants of this thread?

by Anonymousreply 86September 21, 2014 7:19 PM

I read 4chan sometimes and am surprised by how many self proclaimed straight guys there love sharing photos of "traps" and get off on it.

by Anonymousreply 87September 21, 2014 7:23 PM

[quote]Straight men don't go to glory holes to suck dicks or get their cocks sucked.

Straight men who find themselves saddled with frigid fraus are the first to head to a glory hole to get their cocks sucked. A mouth is a mouth is a mouth. A warm glory hole in a tearoom wall has no gender.

If it weren't for frigid fraus, glory holes would be out of business.

by Anonymousreply 88September 21, 2014 7:58 PM

I think "self proclaimed" straight guys is the critical part of this phrase R87. As much shame as straight guys heap on their gay peers, no wonder these guys are resisting "proclaiming" themselves what they are.

by Anonymousreply 89September 21, 2014 8:01 PM

It's funny how you never hear anyone protesting being called hot or beautiful or intelligent. Certain labels people strive for. Then when it's something you're probably embarrassed about, all of a sudden you don't want to be put in a box.

by Anonymousreply 90September 21, 2014 8:06 PM

I looked up "Straight guys that love sucking cocks" and I saw me!

by Anonymousreply 91September 21, 2014 8:07 PM

internet is full of these "straight" dudes who can only get off on tranny porn and share stories about "goofing around" with their male buddies while drunk. some of them claim to be transgender and get sexually excited by the idea of becoming a "dick girl" themselves - the idea of sex change operation is unthinkable to them. why? because they hate vaginas.

if these "straight" men just liked to suck on some phallic object, maybe as some submissive thing, they would find a woman with a strap on. they would be turned off complteley by the fact that the dick is attached to a dude.

by Anonymousreply 92September 21, 2014 8:11 PM

[quote]Is such a thing possible?

No. Because then they wouldn't be straight.

Glad to have helped you. Thread closed.

by Anonymousreply 93September 21, 2014 8:13 PM

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by Anonymousreply 94September 21, 2014 8:17 PM

R88 Wrong. There are plenty of straight women that would fuck and suck a married man in a second. There's no need to go to a glory hole if you are straight. That's what females escorts/whores and on the side girlfriends are for.

The gender behind a glory hole is the vast majority of the time is a male mouth so it has a gender.A gay man would prefer to be blown by a man any day of the week over a woman.If women actually glory holed than it would be great for straight men but that is a rarity. Straight men have places to go when their wife becomes frigid.That's what prostitutes,interns and extra marital lovers of the female persuasion are for.

by Anonymousreply 95September 21, 2014 8:22 PM

R77 has this right. EVERY single guy I know who was previously married to a woman and later came out was fixated on all that came with being a straight married male with kids.

It had nothing to do with being straight. And they all still tend to have VERY selfish personalities, btw. Not PC to say, but it's true.

by Anonymousreply 96September 21, 2014 8:23 PM

R85 There was a thread here recently asking whether men would ever become as heteroflexible as women. So the term is not unique to reddit.

by Anonymousreply 97September 21, 2014 8:26 PM

[quote]by: Cock loving str8 guy

You put the "moron" in "oxymoron"!

by Anonymousreply 98September 21, 2014 8:27 PM

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by Anonymousreply 99September 21, 2014 8:31 PM

There's no need to go to a glory hole if you are straight. That's what females escorts/whores (MONEY) and on the side girlfriends (STRINGS ATTACHED) are for.

Compare the time needed to deal with an "on the side girlfriend" compared to a 4 minute, no strings attached, blow job at a glory hole.

What will an intelligent straight man go for?

Would he rather spend $100 on a whore? Would he rather spend thousands to maintain an on-the-side girlfriend.

Only someone with a frau mentality couldn't see why a straight married guy would go to a glory hole if his wife isn't putting out.

by Anonymousreply 100September 21, 2014 8:38 PM

R100 Only someone with a twisted mentality couldn't see that a straight guy would only want women. Men have female fuck buddies(which is basically free free) and one night stands( a night at the bar buying drinks)which are hardly expensive endeavors.Not to mention going to strip clubs and getting serviced by a stripper in the champagne room(which is more expensive but it's no strings attached.

I had a boss who was fucking three of the girls I worked with. He didn't spend much if anything on them, they were all holes to him. Two of them used to blow him in his office when they didn't drive to his house to fuck him.So much for a straight guy going to glory holes when he could get pussy for free!

by Anonymousreply 101September 21, 2014 8:53 PM

[quote]Not to mention going to strip clubs and getting serviced by a stripper in the champagne room(which is more expensive but it's no strings attached.

Oh right. There's absolutely no difference between a night in a strip club to get a blow job and five minutes in a free park to get a blow job. Thanks for that brilliant observation.

by Anonymousreply 102September 21, 2014 9:06 PM

R99, even today, the definition of a "straight" guy is that he has sex with women, not men.

A man who sucks cock is bi, or gay. Not straight. If you identify as straight, but repeatedly suck cock, you're simply a coward who can't face up to what he is: and a bit bi-phobic or a long ways homophobic; and a liar. If only to yourself. If you are aguy, and suck cock, you are not straight. Get over it.

by Anonymousreply 103September 21, 2014 9:29 PM

I'm okay with straight cock suckers because that's all they are good for, sucking cock, and you know that right off the bat. Once a "straight" guy is sucking your cock you know to just use him as a worthless whore, and won't risk catching feelings for someone so confused and damaged.

by Anonymousreply 104September 21, 2014 9:32 PM

R102 A female stripper is giving the man a blow job NOT a man. BTW there are girls these days who will blow you in a car parked in a parking lot after meeting them in a bar/club.You really need to interact with more straight people. You act like straight women are what they were like 60 years ago.This is not 1954 you know.

R103. Right. The guy going to a glory hole or sucking cock is bi or gay not straight.Some people can't grasp that concept.

by Anonymousreply 105September 21, 2014 9:40 PM

[quote]BTW there are girls these days who will blow you in a car {MONEY!} parked in a parking lot after meeting them in a bar/club (MONEY!).

MONEY! MONEY! MONEY! MONEY! MONEY!

and time.

Blow job at a glory hole.

FREE! FREE! FREE! FREE!

Five minutes in a morning or afternoon on the way to Lowe's to get screws.

You really need to put away the snacks and turn off the soaps, Frau, and get out in the world to find out how things work in the 21st century.

by Anonymousreply 106September 21, 2014 9:53 PM

R106 No clueless one. There are women who will blow you for free these days! In parking lots,in offices. I've seen a boss of mine have a harem at work.One of the girls had a boyfriend and serviced the boss in his office. So much for your misguided beliefs.You sound like a bitter old queen in a tattered caftan.God you must enjoy living back in the 1960s when no one got laid!

by Anonymousreply 107September 21, 2014 10:09 PM

r107, yea, if a guy is hot or powerful he'll have women lining up to blow him. The average straight guy isn't getting that, not even close.

by Anonymousreply 108September 21, 2014 10:15 PM

R108 The average straight guy is not going to go to glory holes because he's straight!Women are less caught up in looks.The new generation of straight girls will fuck an average straight guy if they need to get laid.With women being so promiscuous these days it's much easier to have casual sex with a woman than it previously was. This is not Leave It To Beaver anymore!

by Anonymousreply 109September 21, 2014 10:26 PM

I heart you, and WW you, R98.

If these idiots had their way, we'd be LGBTS.

by Anonymousreply 110September 21, 2014 10:31 PM

r109 are you male or female? I have a lot of female friends and they're not out giving blowjobs to average dudebros. If a guy is really hot, they'll jump in the sack, but not just for any regular guy. No one gives a fuck about your personality when it comes to casual sex, women included.

by Anonymousreply 111September 21, 2014 10:35 PM

I love the title of this thread. It makes me laugh every time I see it.

It's so clumsy and adorable.

by Anonymousreply 112September 21, 2014 10:50 PM

I'm gay but would totally suck Megan Mullally's boobs. They were awesome on Will & Grace.

by Anonymousreply 113September 22, 2014 12:19 AM

No OP- that would be what is called homosexual sex.

by Anonymousreply 114September 22, 2014 1:05 AM

What is that reddit?

Is it DL for hetero (& bi) people?

by Anonymousreply 115September 22, 2014 1:08 AM

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by Anonymousreply 116September 22, 2014 1:09 AM

[quote] A man who sucks cock is bi, or gay. Not straight. If you identify as straight, but repeatedly suck cock, you're simply a coward who can't face up to what he is

[quote] The alternative, [R57], is referring to men who enjoy sucking dick as gay or at least bi.

You’re right. It would be much more brave if rather than insist that they are straight, they were more honest- that they are gay but hate the company of gay men, that they are gay but aren’t like those other gays. I think we have enough of those, don’t you?

by Anonymousreply 117September 22, 2014 1:59 AM

[quote] then you're not gay. Stop kidding yourself. You're in denial.

Has there ever in the history of the world been a gay man in denial over liking women? I pretty sure that is more accurately known as "hitting the lottery".

by Anonymousreply 118September 22, 2014 2:01 AM

Gay men... who aren't bi... have been having sex with women throughout all of history. There are reasons to have sex that have NOTHING to do with desire.

by Anonymousreply 119September 22, 2014 2:13 AM

r119,

The keyword is "liking" not "fucking", or do you not see a difference?

by Anonymousreply 120September 22, 2014 2:23 AM

I feel the same way, though, watching a tranny get fucked in the ass by a dude is hot as fuck.

All appeal is ruined though if the bottom touches their dick or gets it stimulated in any way. It's so much more unacceptable if the bottom is a tranny. I know exactly why I have this preference and am projecting SO hard but I wouldn't have it any other way.

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by Anonymousreply 121September 22, 2014 2:46 AM

I was fascinated with the difference between my penis (cut) and others that were different, intact, when I was about 7 or 8 years old. I recall being in the bath and pulling my penile skin up and poking the glans inside.

I continued to be fascinated with penises thru my adolescent years, but dated girls and was attracted to them too. I had a serious girlfriend that I wanted to marry and have a family with but when I revealed to her that I liked penises she rejected me.

I decided at that time to live a gay lifestyle and have since had two partnerships, one four years with an intact male, and another of seven years with my prince, the cut man of my dreams.

Since 1995 I have been with about six men, some intact and some cut, strictly oral and mutual. With the advent of the internet I discovered foreskin restoration, and in the past 18 months I have made good progress, and realize that most of my gayness comes from confusion and questions and fascination about penises.

Most of my fantasies revolve around MFM three ways with the other male being intact. A favorite site is linked below

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by Anonymousreply 122September 22, 2014 7:47 AM

Oh, I never much liked sucking cock. Loved getting sucked though and was a dominant oral and anal top. Love rimming, totally, equally as much as eating pussy.

by Anonymousreply 123September 22, 2014 7:51 AM

R122, how can you have two serious LTR's with men and only be attracted to their penis, but not the man attached. You even call one of them your "prince." That sounds very fucked up, like you used those guys as giant dildos to satisfy a fetish. Hopefully your just confused and your gayness is much more than only being attracted to penises.

by Anonymousreply 124September 22, 2014 9:41 AM

[quote]I think if women had cocks men around the world wouldn't mind that much.

If women had cocks, wouldn't that make them men?

by Anonymousreply 125September 22, 2014 9:54 AM

R64 : " Homophobia will not die until we get rid of the stigma that deliberately equates male homosexuality with effeminacy."

And what's wrong with effeminacy? So what if most gays are effeminate? Sure, most gays aren't attracted to effeminate men and society generally dislikes them, but there isn't anything inherently bad about effeminacy.

More self-loathing shit!

by Anonymousreply 126September 22, 2014 12:07 PM

R54 Exactly! There is still a lot of homophobia around. These guys will go out of their way to redefine it, explaining how not gay it is.

by Anonymousreply 127September 22, 2014 12:13 PM

Charles Blow?

by Anonymousreply 128September 22, 2014 1:01 PM

These guys are not straight. They are gay or bisexual but they are too cowardly and homophobic to come to terms with who they are.

Also, why is it the people on this site as well as that site, continually refer to them as "straight" if they don't believe in "labels" or if sexuality is "fluid"? Even the title refers to them as "straight". Is "straight" not a "label"?

by Anonymousreply 129September 22, 2014 1:29 PM

[quote]There are women who will blow you for free these days!

That sounds the beginning of some great infomercial.

Don't waste your money in gourmet dinners, expensive flowers or chocolate candies. (Black and white video of a man angrily throwing his fork down, an x-ed out picture of a dozen roses and chocolate candies being tossed in the garbage) There are women who will blow you for free these days!

by Anonymousreply 130September 22, 2014 2:19 PM

I know many straight males who have female fuck buddies. I'm not sure why this is a revelation. I have a quite a few male friends who "hook-up" with guys. I hear about it. :(

by Anonymousreply 131September 22, 2014 2:23 PM

Here is my insight on this subject matter, because I have a lot of experience dealing with straight guys from the comfort of my own home.

The lable straight, gay, bi is what the person identifies as, not what they really are necessarily. I can identify as "a really nice person" whereas on the spectrum of humanity I could be a "son of a bitch." So someone could identify as straight and lead the life of a straight person while still being a cocksucker. You can call that person a closeted gay. But I hope there is more to being gay than sucking dick.

For shits and giggles, and to get off, I go on the female side of chatlines and dating apps but as a gay guy. I don't try and pretend to be a woman, I let them know straight up I'm a gay looking for dick. I am always amazed by how many guys still think gay and trans are the same thing. And how many straight guys are totally up for playing with my dick as long as I have boobs. I say, you know I'm a guy right, you know I have a dick. They're like yeah, but you have tits right? I'll say no and most disappear after that. The ones who stick around I try to find out what they want to do with a dick on a trans person. Most end up saying they want to suck it.

On the chatline I mostly say I'm looking for big dick straight guys who want to trade cock pics over the phone. Of course everyone is at least 8". You have a fair amount of guys who love their cocks and are excited by showing it to other people. But every once in a while I'll switch it up saying I'm a pussy boy bottom horny for dick and looking to get fucked. After I leave a message like that my message box blows up. It's not that these guys are actually going to meet me but it's a completely anonymous chatline and they get turned on by someone so forward and horny for sex just like they are and they can experiment. (BTW unlike what that unhinged poster said above, there are not lines of women around the block waiting to give out free blowjobs and I am told as much, repeatedly by these guys.). There is something very hot about getting a message from some guy telling you how he's going to fuck the shit out of me, then listen to his outgoing message about looking for a wet pussy to fuck and usually some mention about please no fags.

The chatline is free and I've used the dating app Blendr. I actually did suck off two guys from Blendr who I met the first day I used it. I guess that's why I'm so addicted to it. I do have to use a woman's pic to have a profile, but this is what I say:

Sometimes a Straight Guy's (YOU) best friend is a Gay Guy's (ME) mouth. Looking to milk a horny load out of a straight guys dick. Sorry not the chick in pic. Not TRANS.

Even with that they still ask how big my boobs are. Now I might be the one who sounds unhinged after all of this. I consider myself a highly functioning pervert. But I guess we all have our thing and this is mine. But my experiences are based in fact and not what someone else has told me or what I assume to be true.

by Anonymousreply 132September 22, 2014 2:55 PM

I mean female friends who hook up, not male.

by Anonymousreply 133September 22, 2014 3:00 PM

I used to be militant about the fact that straight guys who suck dick are bi. And I guess they are, technically. But there really does seem to be a subset of men who are living a straight life - married, kids, etc - who crave dick in their mouths and thats it. No other acts. Nothing emotional.

To wit: I had a weird rendezvous connection with another guy at the gym that went on for about 4 months. This man was a married suit, very handsome, Italian from Jersey. 3 kids. CPA for a huge accounting firm.

All he wanted to do was suck my dick. He didn't want me to touch his. He didn't want to do ANYTHING else but blow me.

We would meet up at the same time in the steam room. Sometimes we'd let others watch. Most of the times it was just us.

It was so focused and specific - which weirded me out a little.

The guy was ravenous btw. He would almost go into a fugue state while going down on me.

by Anonymousreply 134September 22, 2014 3:06 PM

[quote]Nothing emotional.

This line is overused and often false.

by Anonymousreply 135September 22, 2014 3:08 PM

R134, I have had a similar situation in one of the NYSC steam rooms. Suit and tie guy, mid 30s, wedding ring, very straight acting, talks normal guy stuff wit his friends if they are there, but if he gets alone with me (sauna or steamroom) he wants my big thick dick in his mouth so bad!

And so. Who am I to deny him pleasure?

by Anonymousreply 136September 22, 2014 3:11 PM

The lust for straight males on this site is disturbing. Even after the Philly incident which makes it that much worse.

by Anonymousreply 137September 22, 2014 3:16 PM

Jesus H Christ, R132! You really are living out your dream!

by Anonymousreply 138September 22, 2014 3:24 PM

R134 & R136 I guess these are the down low guys.

Apparently, there are a lot of men who are "straight" but desire just sex with men, not full relationships, no lovey dovey stuff, just sex like what those guys in that reddit thread are.

Most of them seem to identify as straight, publicly and to themselves. And then there are those who identify as straight publicly but something else to themselves. You also have a minority who identify as bisexual and those who have their own "label" so to speak.

by Anonymousreply 139September 22, 2014 3:26 PM

Since nobody has said that straight cock is the best cock and nobody said that they only want straight cock, it's very disturbing that someone finds a discussion of straight males as a "lust" for straight males. That's really perverted thinking.

by Anonymousreply 140September 22, 2014 3:28 PM

Sex for men is a contact sport that feels good and can lead to an orgasm in 3 minutes.

Sex for the frau mentality involves making love in order to reach an orgasm.

by Anonymousreply 141September 22, 2014 3:32 PM

R140 I don't get it. An idiot here.

by Anonymousreply 142September 22, 2014 3:34 PM

[quote] it's very disturbing that someone finds a discussion of straight males as a "lust" for straight males.

Je ne give a shit pas, truly, but it [italic]is[/italic] a discussion of straight males who suck cock, R141, and not some more general discussion.

by Anonymousreply 143September 22, 2014 3:36 PM

So, let me get this straight. If I "identify" as a black person (even though I'm lily white Irish), then I'm black? If I "identify" as 6'6" tall, does that mean I'm really not 5'9"?

by Anonymousreply 144September 22, 2014 3:36 PM

Straight men who seek men for sex are not straight. They are gay or bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 145September 22, 2014 3:38 PM

You got it, R144.

by Anonymousreply 146September 22, 2014 3:40 PM

R145 They could be bisexual or mostly straight.

by Anonymousreply 147September 22, 2014 3:41 PM

Mostly straight? Good lord. Gay/bisexual shame...will it ever go away?

by Anonymousreply 148September 22, 2014 3:44 PM

Mostly straight? Is that like being 'a little bit pregnant'?

by Anonymousreply 149September 22, 2014 3:47 PM

R148 Darling, such aaaaan...orientation does exist. There are even guys who identify as gay but who are into transmen.

Me? I'm 100% gay(Kinsey 6)

by Anonymousreply 150September 22, 2014 3:48 PM

R149 Mostly as in they fall in love with women, only date women, desire women sexually, are turned on by women's bodies, but with men, they are just into them sexually.

by Anonymousreply 151September 22, 2014 3:50 PM

[quote]Me? I'm 100% gay(Kinsey 6)

Oh, like the new iPhone model.

by Anonymousreply 152September 22, 2014 3:59 PM

[quote]Mostly as in they fall in love with women, only date women, desire women sexually, are turned on by women's bodies, but with men, they are just into them sexually.

The delusions of a gay man jaded by and addicted to homophobic "gay-for-pay" porn.

by Anonymousreply 153September 22, 2014 4:01 PM

My vibrator gives me pleasure, but I don't have any romantic feelings for it. It's just a toy. Some guys see dicks as just a toy but have no feelings for the man attached to it.

by Anonymousreply 154September 22, 2014 4:01 PM

R152 MY FIST!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 155September 22, 2014 4:02 PM

R151,

There's no such thing. Straight men do not suck cock. It doesn't happen. Look, most people go through an experimental phase when they try to figure themselves out. This occurs in late teens and early 20s. If a guy is far past this age, claims to be "straight" while stuffing a fat cock down his throat and swallowing cum, then he is either a gay who is not being honest with himself and has no real attraction to women or he is a bisexual who is in denial. There is no gray area.

by Anonymousreply 156September 22, 2014 4:06 PM

Desperate, R154.

Anyways, this type of thread which occurs every week goes nowhere.

by Anonymousreply 157September 22, 2014 4:06 PM

R153 I base it on what I've read on forums, articles, interviews and on over 1,000 hook-up profiles.

It seems to me that these guys who are mostly straight are more numerous than real gay and bisexual men.

by Anonymousreply 158September 22, 2014 4:06 PM

R156 No grey area? So don't agree with Kinsey's scale? These guys would be Kinsey 2s and 3s.

by Anonymousreply 159September 22, 2014 4:08 PM

R158, I'm straight too.

by Anonymousreply 160September 22, 2014 4:10 PM

[quote]Look, most people go through an experimental phase when they try to figure themselves out.

That's bull. If a guy has sex with another guy during that "phase" then he's gay.

by Anonymousreply 161September 22, 2014 4:11 PM

R154,

Sexuality and love/romance are not the same thing. A man can be homosexual, as in only sexually aroused by men, but only fall in love with women. It's weird. A large percentage of guys into homosex don't like to kiss other guys. There are many gays who are only into oral and/or frotting. They find anal and rimming to be revolting.

Any man who claims he is straight but sucks cock is lying to himself and others. There's no such creature in existence. Such men are either gay and have no real sexual attraction to women or they are bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 162September 22, 2014 4:11 PM

R160 Look! I hate these guys too because they have been complicit in sustaining and developing a homophobic world all along.

by Anonymousreply 163September 22, 2014 4:13 PM

R161, these guys are sexual scientists at this point. They are far and beyond the "experimental phase".

by Anonymousreply 164September 22, 2014 4:15 PM

R162 I notice that on kissing. So many of them don't want to kiss. How boring!

by Anonymousreply 165September 22, 2014 4:16 PM

R164, I was talking about teens and college students. Most of the experiments happen in that time frame. If it continues past that point then it's clear the person is gay or bi.

by Anonymousreply 166September 22, 2014 4:18 PM

How can you not want to kiss? That's the sexiest part of sex.

by Anonymousreply 167September 22, 2014 4:19 PM

R167 I know!!!! It's soooo SEXUAL!!!

Apparently it's because kissing is intimate like romantic. Even straight porn star Jerry Butler said there were female porn partners who told the director, "Don't make me fucking kiss him!"

by Anonymousreply 168September 22, 2014 4:25 PM

"Yeah dicks aren't what makes it gay I'd suck a shemales dick, but I'd never touch another dudes dick cause that's gay."

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by Anonymousreply 169September 22, 2014 4:56 PM

That's just homophobic, R169.

by Anonymousreply 170September 22, 2014 5:07 PM

Not necessarily R170. I read a blog post not to long ago about a gay guy who was in a relationship with a transman. His transman boyfriend has a vagina and the gay guy said that he enjoyed eating his boyfriend's pussy because it's attached to his boyfriend that he loves. He would never eat a woman's pussy because he's not attracted to women.

For straight guys, shemales are like women so they may enjoy sucking that "woman's" dick but would not like sucking a man's dick.

Damn, life is complicated isn't it?

by Anonymousreply 171September 22, 2014 6:05 PM

R171,

Go back to preschool. Even little kids know that boys have a penis and girls have a vagina.

by Anonymousreply 172September 22, 2014 6:09 PM

R171 Most men who are into m-2-f pre-op transsexuals identify as straight. A minority as bisexual.

Most of Buck Angel's fans identify as gay.

by Anonymousreply 173September 22, 2014 6:12 PM

What R167 said.

by Anonymousreply 174September 22, 2014 6:24 PM

R171 presents a case of mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 175September 22, 2014 6:25 PM

R171, not homophobic? I could feel the anger and "disgust" seething off of it. That chan site is known to be homophobic anyways.

by Anonymousreply 176September 22, 2014 6:29 PM

4chan is both homophobic and really gay. Most people there are trolling anyway so it's not to be taken seriously anyway.

by Anonymousreply 177September 22, 2014 6:32 PM

What's the difference between "homophobic" and "really gay", R177?

by Anonymousreply 178September 22, 2014 6:34 PM

It depends mostly on which section of 4chan you are reading. /pol is mostly kill the fags, gas the jews, send the blacks back to africa, women are all sluts, etc. Mostly trolling, although there are genuine crazies. /hm is all naked men and gay sex, lots of gay in /soc and /lgbt obviously.

by Anonymousreply 179September 22, 2014 6:44 PM

4chan is the most confusing website to follow. Too internet-y for me.

For better or worse, a nice, long, hard dick will capture both a straight and gay man's attention.

by Anonymousreply 180September 22, 2014 10:16 PM

[quote]So, let me get this straight. If I "identify" as a black person (even though I'm lily white Irish), then I'm black? If I "identify" as 6'6" tall, does that mean I'm really not 5'9"?

No, you are what you are and in these men's cases they are factually bisexual. That is what they are. But they identify as straight. So in their minds they are straight men who want cock.

by Anonymousreply 181September 22, 2014 11:25 PM

So, therefore they are self-deluded idiots.

by Anonymousreply 182September 23, 2014 12:13 AM

Isn't everyone r182?

by Anonymousreply 183September 23, 2014 12:41 AM

If a guy says that he's straight, then he's straight. He can even say it with a mouthful of cock, if he says he's straight, then he's straight.

by Anonymousreply 184September 23, 2014 12:48 AM

Exactly, R44.

by Anonymousreply 185September 23, 2014 1:54 AM

[quote]No, you are what you are and in these men's cases they are factually bisexual. That is what they are. But they identify as straight. So in their minds they are straight men who want cock.

Let them think that. It's not as if they're chopping off someone's head. There are worse things to worry about than what a dick sucker sees in his mirror.

by Anonymousreply 186September 24, 2014 8:49 PM

I used to have a fuck-buddy who insisted he was straight. Kept up appearances by flirting with girls and dating them. But by weekend, he'd wind up at my place when everyone was gone and we got into all of it: sucking, fucking, rimming.

Of course I never bought him as straight, but I had no problem letting him think he was "straight" as long as I got the hot sex.

by Anonymousreply 187September 25, 2014 9:40 PM

People really get bent out of shape over threads like this.

by Anonymousreply 188September 27, 2014 2:12 AM

[quote] I never bought him as straight, but I had no problem letting him think he was "straight" as long as I got the hot sex.

That's the way to go R187.

by Anonymousreply 189September 27, 2014 6:28 PM

I have the same problem with "straight" girls who insist they're straight but enjoy watching lesbian porn, makeout with other girls and sleep with them. There's even a book called "The straight girl's guide to sleeping with chicks."

Well if you love sleeping with your own gender, you're not straight!!

What's next, the vegan's guide to eating meat?

by Anonymousreply 190September 27, 2014 6:37 PM

This thread is RUDE!

by Anonymousreply 191September 27, 2014 10:52 PM

R13

You really think that someone would do that?? Just go on the internet and tell lies all day?

by Anonymousreply 192September 28, 2014 12:06 AM

r190,

This is why you should wait until the third date to put out.

by Anonymousreply 193September 28, 2014 12:24 AM

well, i was a straight guy but got into tranny porn and now starting to like men but of the feminine side or a bit feminine with that gay boy bitchyness ( i think that is hot) ,but not masculine because I like the opposite of my masculine side.

Also, Women do not give sex for free for the idiot woman who said that, they will only do it if you pay them as a whore or a long term whore (girlfriend).

If it was not for tranny porn, i would of stayed a straight man and good for me that i have opened my mind of more sex and much easier sex with no strings attached. Meet up and fuck, suck and rim and that is the life. Life has to be simple and I am a man and I like sex and i don't want to be restricted.

by Anonymousreply 194September 28, 2014 3:18 AM

[quote] Also, Women do not give sex for free for the idiot woman who said that, they will only do it if you pay them as a whore or a long term whore (girlfriend).

r194,

You should read the response number 76 of the page I linked to. It was by a gay man for other gay men (the OP of the thread), but it explains why women “do not give sex for free ” and are reluctant about NSA. It isn't just about money or being prudish. Here are two quotes from the post:

[quote] Most women can’t conceive of sex without love precisely because of the risks involved- the risks you read about everyday in the papers. Love at least gives the illusion of security. It’s a coping mechanism. That’s why some women act so insufferably prissy, the ones who insist all sex is love while reading erotica.

[quote] Women are made to believe that if they get raped it’s their fault. They do everything they can to avoid the risk. (This is also why some women “guard their reputation” so cloyingly.)

back to your post:

[quote] Life has to be simple and I am a man and I like sex and i don't want to be restricted.

Sex isn't so simple for women.

Frauish behavior is irritating. I think DL is an important place to vent about that despite all the handwringing on this board by some members. But, in the real world, let’s try and have compassion for what women actually have to go through.

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by Anonymousreply 195September 28, 2014 6:19 AM

[quote]Also, Women do not give sex for free for the idiot woman who said that, they will only do it if you pay them as a whore or a long term whore (girlfriend).

You have spent time with wrong women. One night stands aren't that weird for many girls although I admit that of course casual sex kind of a lifestyle is overall much easier for guys. Girls get to have a whore reputation pretty easily. Guys can bag hundreds of women or men and that usually only makes them the man.

R194, I'm glad that you've found what makes you tick. I've had a bad habit of falling in love with few het guys and I usually get along with them better than the gay guys in my life. And I'm talking about the het guys that I share this special bond with, not all the straight dudes. Some of them have told me that they enjoy being with me because they can be so open about things. I think traditional men's roles can be quite suffocating to some.

And no, I've never had a real sex relationship with my het guy friends, but with all the cuddling and casual boners the tension has been there. I basically nowadays believe that most guys have potential to be bisexual but it's still quite a taboo practically everywhere so guys won't even think about it.

by Anonymousreply 196September 28, 2014 6:43 AM

BTW, one of my hets, the one I ended up tragically falling in love with and it all turned into a mess, used to say the he usually only watches lesbian porn. He sometimes got a boner when we cuddled but not usually. In the end when our weird friendship/relationship was almost done he got hard in a second if I touched his cock through his pants.

We never had real sex and he had casual girlfriends during the time we were close. He always said he's straight but the emotional closeness with me made him less inhibited I guess. And the lesbian porn made me think he was probably trying to stay away from seeing all those hot dicks that would arouse him.

In a more open society he'd probably have had male lovers, and who knows maybe he's on the downlow now. When I was with him his friends used to tease him all the time about me, "the gay friend", and he refused to be seen in public with me because he was afraid people would think he's gay. It made me furious.

by Anonymousreply 197September 28, 2014 7:10 AM

Whew! Thank God for tranny porn. Glad the creep at R194 finally took the hint and is no longer stalking us.

by Anonymousreply 198September 28, 2014 9:30 AM

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by Anonymousreply 199December 4, 2014 6:37 AM

I am MtoF TS . Very femme and passable. Most guys that I have dated identify themselves as straight . Some of them have girlfriends , 2 are divorced and 2 married men. ( found out they were married after 1 or 2 dates . When I go to some NYC gaybars , I realized that guys who flirt with me are either straight go go boys or straight bartenders . They are attracted to feminity , smooth soft skin and curves . They don't find hairy masculine dude looking gay man sexy or hot . This is according to them . And I have one male gay friend who offers a blowjob to one guy that I used to date , but was turned down . That's my two cents based on actual experience and observation .

by Anonymousreply 200December 4, 2014 4:52 PM

For some straight guys, sucking cock is a sport. It's like flag football, ping pong, golf or tennis. It's not about love nor attraction to a person.

by Anonymousreply 201December 8, 2014 1:19 PM

It's about sucking cock, lots of hard thick juicy cock

by Anonymousreply 202December 8, 2014 1:23 PM

The best gay sex I have ever had was with "straight" or "married" men and probably the absolute best bj was from a very straight married guy who divorced and married another woman. Go figure.

and another thing, when I was early 20s lived in a small city that seemed very easy to hook up. Late 20s moved to a big city and it seemed harder and harder to hook up with "straights."

by Anonymousreply 203December 8, 2014 1:49 PM

For two years in college, I received bjs from my otherwise straight roommate, on average three to four times a week. He initiated it at the very start of our first semester together, and would practically beg to suck me off every other day, even when I wasn't in the mood. The strange thing was that he was never aroused while doing it, and never wanted reciprocation. He would also swallow. The few times I touched him during the bj, he was completely soft. Meanwhile, he was also banging every available female on the floor. As far as I know he was sexually straight, and he married right after college. Hot guy. Hes the CEO of a fortune 500 company now.

When I bothered to ask him about it, he said he had been sucking his older cousins off since he was a kid and enjoyed the feel of a dick in his mouth. However, once his mother visited and inadvertently let drop that he had insisted on drinking milk from a baby formula bottle till he was seven.

So. . .my own unproven untested theory is that straight guys who like to suck cock are fixated on the oral bottle stage of development.

by Anonymousreply 204December 8, 2014 2:20 PM

I am a bi guy of 37 (70% men, 30% girls), all top when with guys. I have fucked and been sucked off by many guys in the 18 to 30 age range who told me they are straight. I don't get the concept of straight bottoms but I'm not complaining.

by Anonymousreply 205December 8, 2014 2:54 PM

R204s boyfriend sounds like a blast.

by Anonymousreply 206December 29, 2014 5:49 PM

Is there a thread about gays who love to eat and fuck pussy?

by Anonymousreply 207December 29, 2014 9:00 PM

[quote]For some straight guys, sucking cock is a sport. It's like flag football, ping pong, golf or tennis. It's not about love nor attraction to a person.

Mary!

by Anonymousreply 208December 29, 2014 10:11 PM

FANTASY CREATURES ACROSS DIFFERENT CULTURES

Irish = leprechauns

Norwegians = mountain trolls

Tibetans = yetis

Latin Americans = chupacabras

Gay Men = Straight guys that love sucking cock

by Anonymousreply 209December 29, 2014 10:18 PM

Had a very hot time with a self-identified straight guy once. All he wanted to do was suck my cock. He was totally straight acting, said he had a girlfriend and he definitely didn't have the decorating talents of a gay man. He was very much a "bro."

He said he was only with two guys before me, one in high school and one in college. Said he loved the feel of cock in his mouth and loved the taste of cum.

I don't know if any of that is true, but he edged me for an hour before I came. He LOVED sucking my cock.

by Anonymousreply 210December 29, 2014 10:43 PM

I think that the way in which people self-identify and the reality of their actions, are two different things.

Many bisexual men do not want to identify as such because they cannot/don't want to feel romantic attraction to men - they seem to think that, as long as things are purely sexual and there is no kissing/caressing/whatnot, they are still straight.

There are heterosexual men who are forced to engage in same sex acts out of necessity, but that is called prostitution, not bisexuality.

Equally, some men who have been abused by men as children might feel compelled to replicate the abuse as adults, but that is uncommon.

Simply put, there are no straight men having sex with men just because they like it. They are either bisexual, or do so due to their (uncommon) circumstances.

by Anonymousreply 211December 29, 2014 11:57 PM

[quote]However, once his mother visited and inadvertently let drop that he had insisted on drinking milk from a baby formula bottle till he was seven.

That could explain a lot.

by Anonymousreply 212December 30, 2014 10:50 PM

It just takes all kinds of people to make a village.

by Anonymousreply 213January 4, 2015 1:16 AM

They remind me of the gay guys who love licking pussy.

by Anonymousreply 214January 4, 2015 10:13 PM

Some straight guys love sucking cocks but doesn't like manliness features . I started dating TS , TG and passable CD's and I love it alot .

by Anonymousreply 215March 10, 2015 3:27 PM

Interesting, I just had a guy suck my cock who also likes Trans. But I would call that bi.

by Anonymousreply 216March 10, 2015 4:56 PM

WW for R214. All that needs to be said.

by Anonymousreply 217March 10, 2015 5:00 PM

Just sex. No emotional attachment. Just fun

by Anonymousreply 218May 24, 2015 9:14 AM

I'm a little gay myself!

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by Anonymousreply 219October 24, 2018 6:50 AM

Hey R55, apologies for accidentally giving you a F&F.

I actually wanted to give you a W&W (and did) but somehow clicked on both tabs at once. Who knew that was possible?

by Anonymousreply 220October 24, 2018 11:21 AM

Straight men don't do this. Bisexual men do! Same for gays who suck vaginas or women's tits, they are bi.

by Anonymousreply 221October 24, 2018 11:34 AM

I am interested in Zoroastrian Jews for Jesus who celebrate Ramadan and raise Buddhist children. Do they exist?

by Anonymousreply 222October 24, 2018 11:53 AM

Where does one find these guys?

by Anonymousreply 223October 24, 2018 12:36 PM

r223 In your imagination

by Anonymousreply 224October 24, 2018 12:40 PM

Why R223? They all sound fucked up. Who needs that when you can trip over gay men just opening a door? In most places.

by Anonymousreply 225October 24, 2018 1:29 PM
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