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Ever had sex with a priest?

I don't mean as sexual abuse but as a consenting adult .

Just an unfulfilled fantasy of mind

by Anonymousreply 362October 30, 2021 10:34 PM

I have. Young Deacon.

by Anonymousreply 1August 24, 2014 3:12 AM

Yes

by Anonymousreply 2August 24, 2014 3:13 AM

Not a priest, but an Episcopalian minister. And we had sex in his office. In the basement. Of the church.

by Anonymousreply 3August 24, 2014 3:16 AM

OP, oh the story I could tell you . . .

by Anonymousreply 4August 24, 2014 3:19 AM

Come to New Orleans, OP, I'll line them up for you for a fee.

by Anonymousreply 5August 24, 2014 3:21 AM

Once . He was young and very good looking , and cried afterwards.

by Anonymousreply 6August 24, 2014 4:38 AM

Yes and no regrets. He didn't cry, but needed constant reassurance that I wasn't going to say anything. I mean, really. I had a load of his jizz up my ass. I wasn't going to say a word.

by Anonymousreply 7August 24, 2014 4:41 AM

Oh, honey, don't ask!

by Anonymousreply 8August 24, 2014 4:42 AM

when was that r7?

I can't imagine living your life in total fear like that. for what?

by Anonymousreply 9August 24, 2014 4:49 AM

Yes, with two. I used to work out at a gym right next door to a large Church. One of the Priests was young and hot the other older, but masculine and kind of sexy. The younger one told me that "all" the Priests had their eye on me every time I came to the gym. Like R7, both were worried that I would tell, but I never would. It was totally consensual. I might add, I don't think I have ever net a Priest who wasn't gay. I'm sure there are some straight ones, but I have yet to meet one in person that I haven't gotten a gay vibe from.

by Anonymousreply 10August 24, 2014 4:26 PM

probably

by Anonymousreply 11August 24, 2014 4:28 PM

Used to work at a Catholic Hospital.

Nearly all the priests were gay. One even told me he has an apartment on the city that the diocese didn't know about so he could hook up with men.

by Anonymousreply 12August 24, 2014 4:30 PM

A friend was a young and virgin seminarian years ago. He lost it while at the seminary. Said it was a free for all there.

He never took his final vows. Left, came out in the 80's and eventually became a very successful documentary filmmaker. He is one of the very few lucky ones who contracted HIV but had natural immunity which kept virus in check and never progressed to AIDS.

by Anonymousreply 13August 24, 2014 4:43 PM

Becoming a priest in the catholic church is the perfect profession for a self-loathing homosexual.

by Anonymousreply 14August 24, 2014 4:47 PM

Yes. Behind a side chapel alter in a church in Venice. I went back for seconds and thirds that summer. I've never seen that much precum before or since.

by Anonymousreply 15August 24, 2014 4:54 PM

Make that am altar... :-)

by Anonymousreply 16August 24, 2014 4:55 PM

When I was about 25, I had sex with a priest many times. The first time it happened, I met him in a gay bar. I had seen him there before. Good looking guy; I had no idea he was a priest. One Saturday night, we struck up a conversation at the bar. We hit it off, and he asked me to go home with him, which I did. He had an apartment in Boston's Back Bay.

The night on question, I didn't know he was a priest. How would I? He had his own apartment. There were a few religious items around in the apartment, i.e., crucifix, bible; bit still I didn't know. Within minutes, we were in bed sucking on each others' foreskins. I was super turned on by his body, great kissing and complete willingness at great gay sex, not to mention his beautiful uncircumcised cock. I stayed the night, but before we fell asleep, he told me he had to work in the morning--some sort of "counseling" job. I said okay.

That morning, he got up and showered. When he started to get dressed, he shut his bedroom door to get his "clothes" hanging on a hook on the back of the door. (He hadn't shut the door the night before so I didn't know there was anything hanging there until the morning.) His "clothes" turned out to be his priest's collar. I was shocked. I couldn't believe it. Turns out his job wasn't a counselor. Instead, he was going to a hospital to do his Sunday morning chaplain duties. This was huge WTF moment to me.

He went to work. I went home. And for the next couple of months, we continued to have sex. This guys was hot. At the same time, the diocese apparently had its eye on him, and eventually forced him to live in a priests' rectory and give up his apartment. But while it lasted, I had fun. But on that very first night, I had no idea he was a priest.

by Anonymousreply 17August 24, 2014 6:35 PM

Very similar to that movie "Priest", R17

by Anonymousreply 18August 24, 2014 6:41 PM

Yes.

by Anonymousreply 19August 24, 2014 7:52 PM

Yes, sir. He was later transferred to a far away place. Seemed like he was having a bit too much homo-sex.

by Anonymousreply 20August 24, 2014 7:55 PM

I fucked a priest in the ass. He didn't think I knew he was a priest,but I figured it out.

by Anonymousreply 21August 24, 2014 8:02 PM

Townhouse on a Saturday night used to be full of them- fun, educated nice guys. They were there more for social aspect, not cruising- although I did go home with one. Now, not so many, I guess the bad press/scandals drove them deeper into closet. Too bad, I would love to meet a nice silverdaddy priest in nyc.

by Anonymousreply 22August 24, 2014 8:16 PM

From the old "Your whoriest moment" thread:

In the late 80s, I had sex in the upper section (business class) of a 747 flying from JFK to Rome, Italy. When I boarded the plane, I sat alone in that section until a group of Franciscan Brothers from Pittsburgh, PA joined me. After we took off, the flight attendant set up an open bar, so we could help ourselves. We all got plastered. I ended up having sex with at least 5 of them in the bathrooms at the bottom of the stairway and in our seats

I saw one of the priests again while I was in Rome, and he joined me at my hotel. A few months after I returned to the US, I got a drunken phone call from the same priest.

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by Anonymousreply 23August 24, 2014 8:17 PM

R23... wow that sounds amazing.

by Anonymousreply 24August 24, 2014 8:22 PM

Yes I have. It was blockbuster.

by Anonymousreply 25August 24, 2014 8:24 PM

R23! Sounds porntastic!

by Anonymousreply 26August 24, 2014 8:25 PM

There is an Episcopalian Seminary in Cambridge, Mass where many a Harvard undergraduate has lost his virginity to a seminarian.

by Anonymousreply 27August 24, 2014 8:28 PM

People at EDS fuck Harvard undergrads? Cool.

Lots of gay priests in Boston. Ever go to the Cathedral?

by Anonymousreply 28August 24, 2014 8:34 PM

No, but I wanted to.

by Anonymousreply 29August 24, 2014 8:38 PM

When I was in college in the 70s, I dated married men and priests because they always went HOME!

For some reason there are plenty of closeted married dentists.

On the other hand Catholic Priests have usually fallen into these three categories:

Dominicans: happy little bottom piggies.

Franciscans/Benedictines: versatile, great cooks.

Jesuits: Nasty do-me tops.

The best thing about sex with a priest is the conversations afterward. They are brilliant, educated men (and the only reason to put up with sex with a Jesuit.)

by Anonymousreply 30August 24, 2014 8:38 PM

I like the way R30 characterizes sex with priest from various religious orders. What about your run of the mill diocesan priest (aka "secular priests")?

What parishes in Boston have the hottest priests to fuck?

Who would want to fuck a Jesuit? Ugh. So self-important.

by Anonymousreply 31August 24, 2014 8:44 PM

For a couple of years I lived on a Jesuit mission on an Indian Reservation as a volunteer high school teacher. Although I identify as a lesbian, I very much fell in love with one of the priests. (I'm very attracted to men but have always known that I could only commit long-term to a woman.) We never had sex until a few years later when he was studying at Berkeley. At one point he announced at his annual conference (or something to that effect) that he considering leaving the priesthood because he was in love. Because I had already gone back to graduate school and did not have daily contact any longer, it pretty much ended everything. He ended up taking final vows, and I have never told him that I'm gay.

by Anonymousreply 32August 24, 2014 8:49 PM

r31, It was Chicago in the 70s. I enjoyed the company of not a few priests to come to those conclusions. In defense of the Jesuits, yes they were nasty do-me self-important fuckers, but they usually reserved a larger time to spend with me and most of them were 2xers. Entire afternoons of sex and great convo. That and they usually made great coffee.

by Anonymousreply 33August 24, 2014 8:58 PM

Yes. Cute guy whom I picked up at the Adonis. We got to his place and it was a rectory. I had no idea. I was very young and raised catholic. I cried and he looked at me like you're kidding right? I don't give a flying fuck that you think a priest is a holy man of God. Right now my dick is talking not Jesus.

So we fucked.

by Anonymousreply 34August 24, 2014 9:12 PM

No. One tried to sleep with me, but I already knew he was a priest, so I said no. I chose to talk to him about his church's position on gays instead. He didn't manage to convince me that his church's stance on gays was right, but I was impressed with how smart and educated he was.

by Anonymousreply 35August 24, 2014 9:22 PM

Yes and he wanted to take me to a retreat with him so I could meet his fellow priests. That wasn't going to happen.

by Anonymousreply 36August 24, 2014 9:26 PM

Picked one up at The Warehouse in Minneapolis, during a recreational trip (gay volleyball tournament) in the mid nineties. The sex was great and I was offered an option to go hard-core leather (I declined). I only came to find out after we were done and I noticed a picture in his bedroom of him performing a marriage ceremony. The bride ended up being his sister. And yes, the follow-up postcards he sent were full of bright insight.

by Anonymousreply 37August 24, 2014 9:30 PM

Oh yeah. And R22 is right about the Townhouse on Saturday nights. It used to be a running joke among my friends that you could pick a priest because he was wearing a big Hawaiian shirt, with black shoes and black dress pants.

Once in Key West, I stayed at the same guest house as a group who had been in the seminary together. Good times.

by Anonymousreply 38August 24, 2014 9:32 PM

Priest, no. Rabbi, yes. He was such a hairy hunk of man, too.

by Anonymousreply 39August 25, 2014 12:15 AM

r39, Cut? (LOL)

by Anonymousreply 40August 25, 2014 1:27 PM

OP, if priests were finally allowed to have sex, would you still have this fantasy?

by Anonymousreply 41August 25, 2014 3:13 PM

Yes, just like cops

by Anonymousreply 42August 25, 2014 3:15 PM

No, but many guys I know have had sex with men who were on the road to being a priest and turned away. They are the biggest sluts on the planet.... non trust worthy and deceptive. That tells you a lot about men of the cloth.

by Anonymousreply 43August 25, 2014 3:18 PM

No. but I had sex in a church.

by Anonymousreply 44August 25, 2014 3:20 PM

They make a lovely meat pie.

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by Anonymousreply 45August 25, 2014 3:21 PM

Great story, R32. If you don't mind me asking, how was he in bed?

by Anonymousreply 46August 25, 2014 3:23 PM

Yes, yes, yes and it was glorious and tragic!

by Anonymousreply 47August 25, 2014 5:20 PM

In a booth at an ABS, got a great bj from a mouth on the other side of the wall. Departing the booth, the door to the next booth opened at the same time. OMG! It was Fr. John. I'm not sure which one of us was more shocked.

by Anonymousreply 48August 27, 2014 3:25 PM

R48, Fr. John from Boston?

by Anonymousreply 49August 28, 2014 4:33 PM

R32? Don't even think abut calling yourself a lesbian, you ass. No real lesbian falls in love with a man. Thank you.

by Anonymousreply 50August 28, 2014 4:53 PM

Yes, two. It was a fun experience and I was glad to help. The first one seduced me when I volunteered at the church for a school project. And then we he discovered that I was cool, he passed me off to another priest that was a buddy of his. They never did me together, though.

by Anonymousreply 51August 28, 2014 5:01 PM

R51, I am so jealous! I would have loved that. How old were you?

by Anonymousreply 52August 28, 2014 5:05 PM

My hubby went to St. John's Seminary in Boston. He left before becoming a priest, but he has a lot of stories from those days. I didn't know this about him until we'd been together for a while and I stumbled across some old pictures of him wearing a collar.

by Anonymousreply 53August 29, 2014 5:31 PM

Does he still wear the collar in bed every now and then for thrills?

by Anonymousreply 54August 29, 2014 5:40 PM

Maybe it was where I grew up but there were no good looking priests. They were all old and ugly.

Maybe that's why it's never been a fetish of mine.

by Anonymousreply 55August 29, 2014 5:42 PM

I'm not allowed to say! God will send me to hell for being naughty if I ever told, er, that's what, er, someone told me.

by Anonymousreply 56August 29, 2014 5:58 PM

I would prefer a rabbi, if he were young. I like Jewish men.

by Anonymousreply 57August 29, 2014 6:58 PM

Had sex with a Protestant minister. Good looking middle-aged guy, salt-and-pepper hair, in very good shape with a big, thick cock. Into jacking off, oral and frottage.

by Anonymousreply 58August 30, 2014 12:45 AM

A Franciscan brother. Yes.

by Anonymousreply 59August 30, 2014 12:46 AM

Yes But it was unplanned by me My therapist at 400/hr thinks it might take 3 years to resolve

by Anonymousreply 60August 30, 2014 12:55 AM

I have, two.

I'm sure I'll get a lot crap here, but what the hell.

I was 18 and in my first year of college. I had a Religious studies course and had to do a project and I decided I would interview a Catholic Priest. I had a tough time finding one that would do it but I finally came across one who initially told me he didn't have time, but after telling him that I was sort of in a jam (I had waited last minute), he agreed to it.

When I met him, I was surprised because I figured he would be a lot older. He was 34. He was really nice and we had a great conversation that extended beyond talk about Catholicism (I wasn't raised Catholic so I didn't really know that much about it). At the end of the interview, he said to keep in touch and that was that. A few days later, after I finished up my project, I gave him a call and asked if I could take him out to lunch as a thank you. He accepted.

We had a nice lunch, talked about our families, my school life, etc. He asked me if I would be interested in volunteering at a soup kitchen type thing with him. I said sure. We became friends and met up a few times. He always asked me about how things were going, etc. There wasn't anything more to it than just us becoming friends.

Then, one day we made plans to go to a museum to see an exhibit that he was interested in. I met him at the Church and he was running late because he was trying to move some furniture around in one of the Church offices. I helped him out and we both grabbed for the same corner of a desk, so our hands were sort of on top of each other. There was nervous laughter and ours eyes locked and I don't even remember who initiated it, but we started kissing. I remember he was really nervous. All we did was make out that first time, but over the course of weeks it progressed from kissing to touching, to grinding against each other naked, to oral, to full blown sex.

This continued for a few years. I guess you could say it was a "relationship." We really did grow very close and cared a lot about another.

The second Priest I had sex with was a result of the previous. He was older, in his 40's and had caught us in the act. He said he was really upset about it and was going to have to report it... but then he had a change of heart and said he might be "persuaded" not to tell if he could perhaps experience for himself what it was like.

So basically he coerced us into a sexual situation with him so he wouldn't tell anyone what he had seen.

I won't say any more about any of the experiences since like I said, I'm sure Ill get crap and it's probably not that interesting anyway.

by Anonymousreply 61August 30, 2014 6:24 PM

Yup. Had no idea he was a priest though. Hot silver fox. Gorgeous cock. Insatiable. Loved to eat ass. It only happened once but we kept in touch online then he finally confessed (!) he was a priest. Then he asked me if I want to date. I said goodbye and blocked him. Every once in a while he would pop up on another sex site and shoot me a note and I would block him again. I felt deceived.

by Anonymousreply 62August 30, 2014 6:31 PM

r62 Block him?? Why?? Have sex with the man!!

by Anonymousreply 63August 30, 2014 6:41 PM

Or at least give us the site and his profile name, R62!

by Anonymousreply 64August 30, 2014 6:43 PM

Great first story, R61. The second story, sad that that happened. Do you still keep in touch with the first priest?

by Anonymousreply 65August 31, 2014 1:51 AM

I am very jealous of R61!

by Anonymousreply 66August 31, 2014 3:14 PM

I was born Catholic and I never saw any priests who I would consider hot. They were all old and ugly.

by Anonymousreply 67August 31, 2014 3:20 PM

I've had sex with over 1,200 men, so odds are I have had sex with one. Can't say they stood out.

by Anonymousreply 68August 31, 2014 3:24 PM

Priests are very often HOT!

by Anonymousreply 69August 31, 2014 3:24 PM

No Boston priests out here?

by Anonymousreply 70August 31, 2014 6:10 PM

R65

Unfortunately, after the incident with the second Priest, we didn't really keep in touch. It was difficult. The experience with the second Priest was sort of traumatic, more so for the first Priest than it was for me. The second Priest made both of us give him oral and he fucked both of us, but I took the "brunt" of it, I guess you could say.

My Priest felt incredibly guilty over this and blamed himself for putting me in that situation and he felt as though he had ruined my life. I remember the last time we saw each other. He was crying and basically inconsolable. I tried to explain to him that I was okay with what had happened and because I cared about him so much, I would have done anything to help him so the other Priest didn't report it (I know, Mary!)

The guilt was just too much for him though and I quickly figured out that there was no way to convince him that I was okay and that there was nothing to feel guilty about. I could see that every time he'd see me, he'd just beat himself up over and over, so we stopped seeing one another.

I was graduating anyway, so I guess it was easier to have a clean break.

It was tough for awhile. I really missed him. I still miss him.

A few years ago, I got a letter from him. He said that he had seen me and over the years had read about some of the things that I had done. He wanted me to know that he missed me and he was incredibly sorry for all that had happened and that not a day had passed where he didn't think about me. I could tell that he still has guilt over what happened.

by Anonymousreply 71August 31, 2014 6:41 PM

R71, he seems like a good man. I feel sorry for him. You were very kind to him.

by Anonymousreply 72August 31, 2014 6:50 PM

R61 give us more details about the sex you had with the first priest. What happened after the first time you made out?

R72 how was R71 kind to him?

by Anonymousreply 73September 1, 2014 4:14 AM

Are priests often hot?

by Anonymousreply 74September 7, 2014 3:21 PM

r74, right before they cum.

by Anonymousreply 75September 8, 2014 1:15 AM

Almost did. My mother says it's bad luck.

by Anonymousreply 76September 8, 2014 1:23 AM

Yes. 8 years of sex.

by Anonymousreply 77November 15, 2014 1:49 PM

I wanted to - but Friar Fuck's resolve was just too strong.

by Anonymousreply 78November 15, 2014 2:08 PM

Oh you all want to do this, so let's just get it over with:

OP: ...Just an unfilled fantasy of MIND.

MARY!

by Anonymousreply 79November 15, 2014 4:41 PM

They all have holy anuses

by Anonymousreply 80November 15, 2014 7:27 PM

Sounds like he was really in love with you r61. Maybe still is.

I don't get these cowardly closet cases.

by Anonymousreply 81November 15, 2014 7:35 PM

R61/R71 read like fiction. Obviously anything is possible but...

by Anonymousreply 82November 15, 2014 7:48 PM

yes. met him in a gay bar in SF. handsome guy and completely out, so i'm not quite sure how it worked with the church...

by Anonymousreply 83November 15, 2014 7:50 PM

I didn't know he was a priest at the time. He was a very experienced cock-sucker.

by Anonymousreply 84November 17, 2014 9:31 PM

R82:

Yawn.

by Anonymousreply 85November 17, 2014 9:46 PM

I was in a short-term relationship with one but he stopped dating me when I turned 30. Mind you, he was 49. So he started dating an 18 year old meth head, who later outed him when he stopped giving him money to support his habit.

He could have sex once a day, but not twice - he considered it sinful. Really nice body with great thighs though. Extremely guilty and shameful about sex.

by Anonymousreply 86November 17, 2014 10:43 PM

A priest was my very first sex. I volunteered at some youth thing and was seduced. I kept going back and kept giving it to me. But he was all freaked out that I was going to tell.

by Anonymousreply 87November 17, 2014 10:47 PM

Bless me Father, for I have sucked!

by Anonymousreply 88November 19, 2014 1:28 PM

Gawwwd, can't believe this thread!

As in Show Biz, more so even, clergy life attracts gays. Spirituality plus boys.

And no wimmen!

Ever clergyperson I've run into has been gay, gay, gay!

Verily!

by Anonymousreply 89November 19, 2014 2:09 PM

Fr. Shawn was a hottie and could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch.

by Anonymousreply 90November 20, 2014 10:18 PM

Yes, with an Episcopalian priest.

In college, I attended an Episcopal church in town. When the church organist died, I volunteered to play at services.

In the summer between my junior and senior years, I had an on-campus job and stayed on campus for that summer.

One very hot Sunday, the priest, who was a widower, invited me back to the parsonage, where he seduced me. We carried our affair after the weekly choir practice and after Sunday services throughout the next academic year.

Our relationship sort of ended at graduation, when I went off to graduate school. I heard that he was received a posting in another town and eventually got a position in another diocese. Last I heard he was retired

by Anonymousreply 91January 1, 2015 11:20 PM

Yes.. I had sex already with 4 priests. The first one was just he forced me to. One of them was inloved to me.. But i don't love him. Then the other one was like a father to me.. He is so kind and i really want to repay him in everything that he did to me. He is the best father in the world. I had sex with him and i really enjoyed it. I love him very much. He is now 57. I'm planning to take care him when he gets old. That's why i want to be a priest too. But the only difficult thing is just we are in a different country. I'm a regent seminarian. And planning to be a priest to. I just do not know why priests are always tempted on me.

by Anonymousreply 92January 24, 2015 1:46 PM

No but constantly fantasise about have'n holy cocks in my mouth,my virgin ass,in both hands , being held down across a table to have my beer ass chastised with a strap.i want to go back to confession &confess & hope to see him take out his hard cock for me to worship😛46yrs old & still expanding my fantasy.can anyone in N.S.w.australia give me there "blessings"

by Anonymousreply 93March 8, 2015 12:27 AM

years ago, i visisted a nearby church for a mass and there was this stunning gorgeous blonde haired young priest, and i thought then and now" how in the world can this guy be a priest and not have sex with a woman ever?" unless of course he's not hetero.. i bet the old fart priests lusted after him big time whether at their own parish or whenever there was some big all city priest get together function..

by Anonymousreply 94March 8, 2015 2:39 AM

You should have gone back a few more times R94 to get to know him and check him out.

by Anonymousreply 95March 9, 2015 2:20 AM

I didn't know he was on the other side of the glory hole until we were all finished.

by Anonymousreply 96March 11, 2015 3:42 AM

Picture it: Palermo, Sicily, 1922 it was a young Priest sent by Rome, he was gorgeous.....

by Anonymousreply 97March 13, 2015 1:12 AM

Having sex with my Priest wile he takes confession .. wat should I do ?

Am a married happly married woman but I take confession twice to three times a week its not because am a strick Catholic its just I have fallen madly in love with my Priest we meet up and u no am soo stuck I just found out am having a baby whos the farther I just dont no wat to do ???

by Anonymousreply 98March 13, 2015 1:22 AM

yes, randy old goat. in the ocean, nonetheless, at a nude beach in galveston.

years later I saw that he was the priest at a big catholic church in town.

by Anonymousreply 99March 13, 2015 1:28 AM

Yes. Several. A brother at a monastery too.

by Anonymousreply 100March 13, 2015 8:53 PM

My longest relationship (a year and a half) was with a priest.

We parted over religious differences (I was an atheist) and he left me for a former altar boy.

He was 33 and I was five years younger.

He "exuded sex" according to my gay friend who met him. He had dark brown hair, almost black, a short beard, and he was handsome as hell.

His family owned an old-time brewery in my state that was still producing when we were together. He called their product "the nectar of the gods." Truthfully, it was swill.

He lived in the Catholic center building of his city which was once a dormitory for prospective priests but which by then had fallen to the point where it was mostly empty. He taught ten students, or "postulants" I think they were called. Retired nuns also lived there.

I stayed over one night and after torrid sex in his waterbed I just couldn't face the nuns serving breakfast the morning after.

I wasn't Catholic but religion kept coming up during our time together. I found priests have a strange and privileged relationship to fellow believers.

by Anonymousreply 101March 13, 2015 11:07 PM

I've been having sex with a priest off and on for nearly 3 years now. We met online after I watched a video of him discussing his views on gay marriage. I was infuriated and I sent him a heated email and he responded and before I knew it we had struck up an online friendship. Turned out he worked in a community a 40 minute drive from my parents house so when I went to visit them we decide to meet up. I already knew he was going to be good looking based on his videos and Facebook pictures, but when we met up from the first time I was like damn! He was STUNNING. Tall, lean but muscular, amazing blue eyes, perfect teeth, and not to mention a nice backside he was 39 and I was 31. Nothing happened the first time we met but I felt that there was a mutual attraction.

During our second meeting we went out for dinner followed by drinks. When we went to say out goodnight he suddenly he kissed me. Now it was like 20 years of sexual repression had suddenly exploded in my mouth because damn it was one of the most raw passionate kisses I had ever had in my life. Added to that his hands were all over me. Before we could get too far though he let out this moan and his eyes rolled back in his head I looked down I could clearly see that he had jizzed his pants.

After that we he rushed off and I didn't hear from him for a while. Out of the blue I got a text from him saying he was coming to my city for a conference and could we meet up. During this meeting we ended up sleeping together several times and damn the things he can do with his mouth.

Since then we see each other every six weeks or so. He claims that before me he never broke his vows and that before entering the seminary he had sex with a woman that he was in denial about his attractions.

I don't know what's gong to happen. The sex is amazing and added to that he's actually a really awesome guy but I don't see anything happening beyond hookups.

by Anonymousreply 102June 25, 2015 2:06 PM

I love it when hot actors play priests or ministers: Linus Roache (Priest), Liam Neeson (Breakfast on Pluto), Arthur Darvill (Broadchurch) and Aidan Quinn (Book of Daniel) come to mind.

by Anonymousreply 103June 25, 2015 2:15 PM

Yes, with Pat Priest.

by Anonymousreply 104June 25, 2015 2:17 PM

Calendario Romano

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by Anonymousreply 105June 25, 2015 2:36 PM

better linko

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by Anonymousreply 106June 25, 2015 2:38 PM

R102 how did you get to the friendship stage in the emails? Was he agreeing with you that his views were flawed, or did you change the subject? The hypocrisy is what angers me more than anything.

by Anonymousreply 107June 25, 2015 2:45 PM

R71 What a lovely man. He had probably been vulnerable at many points in his life. You were good to him and he deserved it.

by Anonymousreply 108June 25, 2015 2:47 PM

No, but I was raised Protestant. I can watch porn with priests and Mormon missionaries without guilt if that makes sense. I never saw any hot priests growing up. They all looked like Ed Koch. I would imagine priests are almost like telepaths with all the secrets they know about everyone around them. It's funny how nobody doubts the priest sex stories. I would imagine the dynamic is like when a preacher's kid snaps from all the repression. I've read articles about priests hearing confessions from other priests practically going mad because they weren't even masturbating. What are you, a nun? Rub one out!

by Anonymousreply 109June 25, 2015 2:56 PM

R107 His views on homosexuality were at the time far more moderate than many other priests he refused to use the word 'disordered' like many other priests or that being gay was a sin. His major argument was that gay people should lead celibate lives which is where I took issue (he no longer advocates life long celibacy for gays btw). We discussed a whole range of issues in our first emails so I guess there was an eliminate of changing the topic. However as we got to know each other I realized his private views weren't as conservative as his public views. He works with youth and college age kids a lot and one of the more surprising things I learned is he gives out condoms to some of the college guys whom he knows are sexual active. If that was found out he'd be in huge shit.

I've called him out on hypocrisy a few times but you have to remember a lot of priests today are indoctrinated with very hardline conservative views but when they get 'out into the field' there is an element of trying to figure it out on your own and sometimes coming to conclusions that differ from the church's teaching but having to be very select with whom you share these views with. It's a but like working for a large company and disagreeing with some of the practices but keeping them either to yourself or with a few close friends because if you get too public with your views you get canned. I suspect based on things he's said that many younger priests in the church today, particularly those in the west, struggle with being more liberal in private but having to maintain the conservative teachings all the while counting their time when their generation has more power in the church.

The odd thing is we rarely talk about religion now. I think that's part of why he's attracted to me because I don't treat him like a priest to me he's just a guy who is a bit fucked up in some regards but aren't we all. But what I love about him unlike other priests he's willing to listen and since we've been together his views have softened.

by Anonymousreply 110June 25, 2015 3:16 PM

was he a top or a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 111June 25, 2015 3:17 PM

Yes. In an cathedral while I was working in Seattle. Many many times and he was a very hungry bottom. It's a very cruisey church too. If the church goers had any idea of how much of my cum is in the bishops ass, they'd convert to islam. :D

by Anonymousreply 112June 25, 2015 3:26 PM

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by Anonymousreply 113June 25, 2015 3:26 PM

I like Father Jonathan Morris. HOT!

by Anonymousreply 114June 25, 2015 3:40 PM

[R113] Are you playing hangman? Never mind. More stories please.

by Anonymousreply 115June 25, 2015 3:48 PM

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by Anonymousreply 116June 25, 2015 4:39 PM

R116 OP, that was an invitation for you to come join us at the James Norton thread, my son. ^

by Anonymousreply 117June 25, 2015 4:41 PM

Yes. It happened two years ago. Of course at first I didn't know he was a priest. He was visiting my city as a tourist with his family. I saw him online, we started chatting, then he called me on Skype, I saw him and he was so handsome, about 33 years old. He showed me more of course. His dick was huge. Then he wanted to meet me for a glass of wine, he said that tomorrow I should come to his hotel room. I said I don't know, it was weird for me.

The next day he called me and again invited to his room because he will be only for a couple days in town. He was so handsome and seemed kind so I wasn't able to resist. I went to his hotel room. He met me near the elevator, he looked even more attractive. Then we went to his room and I thought we would sit, talk and drink wine but he grabbed me and started kissing. Then he removed my clothes, took his shirt off and you know what happened. We were talking that night a lot and somehow he asked me about church. I said that I'm an atheist and I don't like Catholic church. He said he was a history teacher and didn't tell me that actually he was a priest. As far I can remember, that night we had sex like 3 times, one time in the shower. He was finishing really fast but I was happy about that because his thing was really huge and it was kinda painful for me. I stayed in his home all night and left in the morning before his parents woke up. When he left city, we were keeping in touch, he was calling me and he said that he wanted to tell me the truth. He said he is actually a priest. I was shocked.

by Anonymousreply 118June 26, 2015 12:25 AM

I read through these and it sounds like these men perfection but God told me not to lay down with Angels, so I'm torn.

by Anonymousreply 119June 26, 2015 1:07 AM

R118 here's a tip. In the future, when you sit down to write fiction, make sure you keep the setting the same from one sentence to the next. For instance, in your tale of passion, you start off by saying you met him at his hotel and then later, you say you were in his home. Try to keep it consistent if you want people to actually believe you.

by Anonymousreply 120June 26, 2015 1:25 AM

R112, was the Bishop Raymond Hunthausen? Or perhaps the rather handsome fellow that the Vatican sent to investigate him, Donna, I mean, Donald Wuerl?

by Anonymousreply 121June 26, 2015 3:19 AM

I've never had sex with a catholic priest, but I did date an Anglican priest for about two years. I have to say he's was very talented in the sack but the relationship ultimately ended because due to a our different perspectives on life. My priest had admitted to have sex with a number of catholic priests in the past.

by Anonymousreply 122June 26, 2015 2:08 PM

Hot.

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by Anonymousreply 123June 26, 2015 3:30 PM

Yes, it was divine.

by Anonymousreply 124June 26, 2015 3:31 PM

YAAS

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by Anonymousreply 125June 26, 2015 3:41 PM

Ride that dick

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by Anonymousreply 126June 26, 2015 3:42 PM

I'd be having sex with priests too if they all looked like this!

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by Anonymousreply 127June 26, 2015 3:42 PM

Forgive me Father, for I am about to sin repeatedly ...,

by Anonymousreply 128June 26, 2015 3:43 PM

I went to catholic schools & used to get the cane a lot but I started getting turned on so I'd get into more trouble.id beg the theheadmisstres who was a sultry big titted nun to let me take the cane across my ass, then I'd ask her to hold my arms out as Ft .P chastised me , Id look at her then look back at him.then I'd go to the toilet that no one used & wankn off.then a mouth later I stayed back at school & seen ft.p in the chapelle & asked him to take confession . So every day then I'd be told to stay back & bent over & fingered, licked, with Sr. F. Holding my head up her skirt licks that hairy sweet soaked glory box.Know I'm 47 & want to be cumfilled my virgin ass by a priest or two & be femdomed by sexslut nun.newcastle australia.

by Anonymousreply 129September 23, 2015 3:10 AM

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by Anonymousreply 130April 2, 2016 11:46 AM

I would love a hot priest deep deep inside me

by Anonymousreply 131April 2, 2016 12:00 PM

I had a very odd experience as a dumb18 year old. I ran out of money at a gay bar and had no money for the fare home and this very nice man realised my situation somehow, told me he had a spare bedroom and I could stay the night and assured me he wouldn't take advantage of me.

You know what it's like when you're young: you do crazy things. So I go home with this guy to this mansion. In the living room are other guys like him sittng round a table. There is no interior decoration: just blank walls of yellowy polished plaster and crosses. And he shows me into a room with a single bed with crisp white sheets and bids me goodnight. Very strange. I was too weirded out by the atmosphere to ask but he said next morning they were priests.

by Anonymousreply 132April 2, 2016 2:10 PM

I went to Tampa on business and checked out the bathhouse. Hit it off with a cute guy. We fucked like rabbits.

HE drove me to my hotel and we continued for a few more hours.

Turns out he was a seminary student. That's the closest I've gotten to doing a priest

by Anonymousreply 133April 2, 2016 3:01 PM

Friar Fuck? Is that you?

by Anonymousreply 134April 2, 2016 3:05 PM

One of my unfulfilled fantasies!! Too bad most priests are a zillion years old now

by Anonymousreply 135April 2, 2016 3:05 PM

Some of the best sex I've had was with priests. My first time was with a priest, at age 14. Once their clothes are off, they've been totally unhibited: sucking cock, rimming, fucking (mostly bareback)

by Anonymousreply 136May 9, 2016 5:08 AM

Well, kinda...

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by Anonymousreply 137May 9, 2016 5:13 AM

I love when this thread gets resurrected.

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r30

by Anonymousreply 138May 9, 2016 5:22 AM

R136 What--do they think will save them from becoming HIV+?

by Anonymousreply 139May 9, 2016 5:22 AM

r139, Darling, when your sexual partners are virgin little boys, you don't worry about that. Now go to bed and stop asking silly question.

by Anonymousreply 140May 9, 2016 8:18 AM

Yes, and the guy is on dudesnude: he's easy to recognize: he wears a cross in all the naked pics and videos!

by Anonymousreply 141May 9, 2016 8:28 AM

A good friend of mine had been telling me of his hookups (I think via Growlr) with a cop -- he was very proud of this. The guy was a bit mysterious, and my friend started doing some research, only to find that his "cop" was in fact a priest and police department chaplain. This made the hookup a lot less hot to my friend (we teased him about going to Hell, etc.) and he broke it off. My friend was especially creeped out because during the hookups the cop/priest liked roleplay wherein my friend was an adolescent and the cop/priest was an authority figure.

by Anonymousreply 142May 9, 2016 8:30 AM

Father Jonathan Morris is a little cutie. Wonder if he's had some man on man sex?

by Anonymousreply 143May 9, 2016 12:11 PM

[quote] My friend was especially creeped out because during the hookups the cop/priest liked roleplay wherein my friend was an adolescent and the cop/priest was an authority figure.

Creeped out but went along with it, right?

by Anonymousreply 144May 9, 2016 1:43 PM

R143 I don't know if he's ever had man on man, but his sister is a lesbian and married to a woman which allegedly caused friction in their relationship. Also Morris claimed he was spat on during NYC Pride last year while walking to a friend's house.

by Anonymousreply 145May 9, 2016 2:00 PM

Have met a lot of gay priests in AA. Never had sex with any of them. But they seemed awfully smug about their situation; never heard of any of them feeling the slightest guilt about their closeted lives. Catholic authorities are all either hopelessly myopic, or in the closet themselves. (Either, or both, of which could be true....)

by Anonymousreply 146May 9, 2016 2:18 PM

My ex-boyfriend's brother is a priest and I always felt a bit sorry for him. Being a priest seems like such an isolating and emotionally damaging experience. I suspect that a lot of priests even today still join the church as a way to avoid dealing with their sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 147May 9, 2016 7:13 PM

Became friends with a couple in their 50's. One of them had been a seminarian, but never took the final vows. He entered the seminary at 17, a virgin. He said the seminary and the priesthood are chock full of gays. Within the first year he popped his cherry, and he said there was more action going on there than can be believed. After leaving the seminary he had a few priests as friends, all of them gay. He is a lovely guy, still devout Catholic. He wonders if there are any straight priests.

by Anonymousreply 148May 9, 2016 7:28 PM

I attended a seminary in Canada in the early 2000s and the place was jokingly referred to as the semenary. I lost my virginity during my time at the seminary to another seminarian. There was a major homoerotic environment and a surprisingly party atmosphere that the priests in charge often turned a blind eye to.

by Anonymousreply 149May 9, 2016 8:07 PM

Nope, I'm not a 9 y.o. boy.

Anybody who still goes to Catholic church is a fucking idiot. Please fucking kill yourself, pedo apologists.

by Anonymousreply 150May 9, 2016 8:29 PM

Yes, several times, but didn't know until after the deed was done with each. First time in NYC. Was new to NY -- college student from a small town -- naïve, was in a rice bar, but didn't realize it at the time -- not many Asians there at the time, mostly white guys. (For some reason I get taken for being part Asian.) The hottest guy in the bar, blond, early 30s, was hitting on me. Invited me back to his place. I was kind of freaked out by his obsession with crucifixes -- looked like a warehouse, they covered his walls like wallpaper. I was ready to leave, but he took his clothes off, which convinced me to stay. (The power of persuasion!) Fantastic night. Next morning I ask him about the crucifix fetish. Cops to being a Catholic priest. Tells me he has a thing for Asians, particularly so since they aren't Catholic. (Stays away from Filipinos.) I had to confess to him, pun intended, that I'm not Asian, but was raised a Catholic. Nice talk about religion, really sweet guy. Said he had reconciled his role as a priest to being sexually active; loved a hot hookup. He told his mother he wasn't celibate, and she didn't mind, didn't think it could be possible for men under any circumstance. Never saw him again, would love to have.

Have had many more hit on me, but none were to my liking. A family member had a priest who the parish didn't like. Not because he was presumed to be gay, but he was ultra-conservative/orthodox. Wanted everything to be in Latin. Would love to have had the women sit in the back of the church so he didn't have to see them, or, even better, make them stand outside with a loud speaker for them to hear services. Very sexist/misogynist to women and extremely condescending to everyone. The women who cleaned the church had to do it when he wasn't present. He was hot and had quite the body! Used to see him at the gym, wasn't shy of showing off his body on his way to the showers. Spent more time at the gym working out than working at the church. He was known to be a very mean, aggressive top who showed no mercy to his bottoms. Took weeks for his bottoms to recover from the pounding. He was ambitious, so was moved to a more important parish not long after.

As for looks, it is like any other profession. You find really hot ones, and really ugly ones. My experience is that they are almost always tops who love to suck like crazy. I know of several non-Catholics who had Catholic priests as boyfriends and practically moved into the rectory to live with them, only to find out the other priests living there had boyfriends living with them as well.

Aren't the Catholic priests in Ireland the ones who keep the saunas there in business? The ones here love to go there as well.

by Anonymousreply 151May 9, 2016 8:47 PM

I want to suck some priest penis.

by Anonymousreply 152May 10, 2016 8:54 AM

Many times

by Anonymousreply 153May 10, 2016 10:33 AM

What's some of the hottest priest porn?

by Anonymousreply 154May 10, 2016 7:40 PM

R151 He sounds like a terrible person, right out of "The Magdalene Sisters"--"You're not a man of God!"

My department chair some years ago was a Greek Orthodox priest (no, I teach at a non-religious school--he became a priest in midlife). His gayness was an open secret, there was a story about his inviting a young townie home and more-or-less raping him, sexually harassing male students for grades, and treating gay male faculty members (like me) like shit. Nice guy (not)! Apparently his parish knew all about him--referred to him as Sister Mary Gus. Hope there is a hell and he roasting in it.

by Anonymousreply 155May 11, 2016 4:58 AM

Anyone who has ever been an alter boy.

by Anonymousreply 156May 11, 2016 5:02 AM

I've always maintained that the Village People would have lasted longer if they had included a priest instead of that stupid indian.

by Anonymousreply 157May 11, 2016 5:09 AM

What's up with this thread becoming active again from time to time? Does it get posted somewhere?

Also has anyone ever been to a monastery?

by Anonymousreply 158May 12, 2016 7:58 PM

[R151] Where is this orthodox priest based now? Do you know?

Also I kinda wanna go to a seminary now just to see if all this is true

by Anonymousreply 159May 12, 2016 8:01 PM

R151 More stories, please

by Anonymousreply 160May 12, 2016 8:10 PM

Met a guy in an East Side bar. Went home with him. After we saw each other a few times he admitted to being an Episcopal priest. This was in the summer. The wife and two kids were away "in the country." Told me his wife was aware, and was happy he wasn't having sex with women. I stopped seeing him before she returned at the end August. About five years later I found out through the office of Priest Personnel that he was at a parish on the West Coast.

by Anonymousreply 161May 12, 2016 8:19 PM

I did when I jacked off this morning.

by Anonymousreply 162May 12, 2016 8:20 PM

I used to occasionally work as an escort when it was financially necessary. I had an older priest from Boston as a semi-regular. We became very friendly and would sometimes socialize outside of business. lol Really nice guy, moral and ethical in all other ways, deeply religious even when he thought others weren't looking. But somehow he rationalized and indulged in his love of sucking dick.

by Anonymousreply 163May 12, 2016 8:23 PM

R141 Provide a link

by Anonymousreply 164May 13, 2016 7:04 PM

My aunt worked for several American bishops from the late 1980s until her retirement in 2005. She knew a lot of dirt and she has told me on more than one occasion that not only is the priesthood overwhelmingly gay, most of the bishops in the US were/are gay and that all the important positions within the dioceses are filled with many of the bishops 'favorites.'

She had one story about a priest in her bishop's diocese that got caught having an affair with a male choir director. Rather than getting in trouble for the actual affair, the bishop was more upset the priest had the nerve to fuck around with a lay person rather than a fellow priest. Better to screw within the church where it's easier to keep a lid on things.

by Anonymousreply 165May 13, 2016 7:04 PM

This was just posted today.

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by Anonymousreply 166May 13, 2016 7:10 PM

Anyone ever fucked a monk?

by Anonymousreply 167May 13, 2016 8:21 PM

Okay

by Anonymousreply 168May 13, 2016 10:57 PM

No, but some "lipstick" lesbian tried to fix me up with one. And when I protested, my friends thought I was crazy. The priest was not hot before I get that question, and it wouldn't matter if he was, I wouldn't have gone out with him.

by Anonymousreply 169May 13, 2016 11:01 PM

How does one go about finding a priest to fuck around with?

by Anonymousreply 170May 13, 2016 11:29 PM

Just ask the local rectum, er, rector.

by Anonymousreply 171May 14, 2016 12:26 AM

Did a priest and a rabbi. Both were fugly. I was young and stupid.

by Anonymousreply 172May 14, 2016 2:59 AM

No but I schtupped a rabbi bigtime.

by Anonymousreply 173May 14, 2016 3:13 AM

When I'm in an unfamiliar town, I contact the local RC church and ask for a priest to tell an emergency confession to, and then tell him a hot and heavy litany of same-sex sins and desires, et voila...! I'm in like Flynn.

by Anonymousreply 174May 14, 2016 5:27 AM

R172 R173 The question is... What kind of rabbi? Orthodox (hot)? Or Reform/Conservative (Meh)?

by Anonymousreply 175May 14, 2016 9:20 AM

R171 I am being serious... Lol I want a hot priest to fuck

by Anonymousreply 176May 14, 2016 9:24 AM

Is there any social network to look for priests???

by Anonymousreply 177May 14, 2016 8:18 PM

priestmeat.com

by Anonymousreply 178May 14, 2016 8:19 PM

^ You're so full of BS. I actually tried that.

by Anonymousreply 179May 14, 2016 8:35 PM

[quote]My ex-boyfriend's brother is a priest and I always felt a bit sorry for him. Being a priest seems like such an isolating and emotionally damaging experience. I suspect that a lot of priests even today still join the church as a way to avoid dealing with their sexuality.

Never underestimate the power of faith, or the need to feel you're working in behalf of something good, be it God or the benevolent forces of the universe. I almost became a priest, although in a Hindu yoga organization, and I can tell when you have the calling you have the calling. I just watched Star Wars: The Force Awakens so I might just as well use the Jedi analogy. You seriously feel like you're working for a greater good, or that you're a warrior.

Obviously there are millions of different reasons for people to become priests but I have a feeling the need to do good is probably quite common. Since gay men are overall probably more empathetic than the average man I can say it's not surprising at all to hear there are so many gays working as priests.

by Anonymousreply 180May 14, 2016 8:50 PM

I wonder what if would have been like been a gay man in a monastery in the Middle Ages...

by Anonymousreply 181May 14, 2016 10:19 PM

Does anyone know if you have to be Catholic to work in a seminary?

by Anonymousreply 182May 15, 2016 9:26 PM

My boyfriend is a reverend (not Catholic). A lot of sexual experience and definitely enjoys it, when we have sex now that we are in a relationship, there's definitely a more intimate, passionate feel to it than when we were just fuck buddies (he used to like to play and do stuff you see in porn videos). Sometimes I miss the rough play,role play, wearing leather etc. he doesn't like to do that stuff with me anymore

by Anonymousreply 183June 4, 2016 11:37 PM

R183 What sect is your boyfriend a reverend of?

by Anonymousreply 184June 28, 2016 2:04 AM

Lutheran, the make up of his parish keeps him from being open about it if that makes any sense

by Anonymousreply 185July 1, 2016 10:37 PM

Back in the late 90s when I was in my early 20s I entered the seminary. At the time I was in deep denial about my sexuality and looking back on my motivation to join was largely based on an attempt to try and suppress my attraction to other men – like many other men who enter the priesthood.

I only lasted about one and half semesters and then I quit. One of the things I had issues with was the complete lack of privacy there, it was dorm life dialed up to an extreme. You shared a tiny room with a fellow seminarian and the door had to remain open at all times even when sleeping…you were allowed to partly close the door when changing. The showers were communal and everyone took a shower at 6:00 am. There was a toilet closet that had patricians between them but no doors. The only sexy thing was the abundance of morning wood in the showers every morning.

After I left sometime later I found out that part of the reason for the lack of privacy was a couple years before I entered the seminary there had been a number of sexual incidents between some seminaries and the diocese wanted a stop to it.

by Anonymousreply 186July 19, 2016 8:04 PM

"I'm the one who's fallen for a vicar."

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by Anonymousreply 187July 19, 2016 8:14 PM

I could have said, Yes, but then you added-- as a consenting adult. Rats.

by Anonymousreply 188July 19, 2016 8:19 PM

More than once when I lived in Mexico.

by Anonymousreply 189July 19, 2016 8:26 PM

I've had sex with so many people it would be statistically impossible for me not to have had sex with a priest.

by Anonymousreply 190July 19, 2016 9:52 PM

Not a priest, but a rabbi. Hairiest man I've ever seen and beautiful body!

by Anonymousreply 191July 19, 2016 10:29 PM

R186 There were no doors on the toilet stalls?! What did you do when you had drop off the kids off at the pool? I couldn't poo in the open like that LOL.

by Anonymousreply 192July 20, 2016 12:50 PM

R186 I know it was probably just autocorrect, but I'm still chuckling over the image of patricians between the toilets. No doubt to keep the plebians from having all the fun.

by Anonymousreply 193July 21, 2016 5:15 AM

I've never had a catholic priest but a couple years ago I had a steamy affair with an Anglican priest. He and his wife had moved into the apartment next door to me. The first few times we passed each other in the hall I thought he was giving me 'the scan,' but I had seen him with his wife so at first I thought maybe I'm just seeing what I wanted to see because I did find him very attractive. Finally one day I got up the nerve to introduce myself and my suspicions were confirmed he was totally checking me out. After we met I did what any normal person would do, I Facebook stalked him and discovered that he was an Anglican priest. I'll fast forward to the good stuff now. We started jogging together a couple times a week and one day he came over but said that his leg was bothering him and he was wondering if we could just chill at my place. Next thing I know he was balls deep inside me and damn he knew what he was doing. Our jogs were quickly replaced by intense fucking sessions it added to the intensity that we knew at times his wife was in the apartment next door (we never got caught somehow). I learned that his wife was his high school sweetheart they married when they were 21 (he was 30 when we met). He claimed he was bi but I knew his christian values couldn't accept being gay yet they would allow him to fuck around on his wife (I know I wasn't the only guy he'd screwed around with). I had always been a serial monogamist so this idea of a totally physical relationship was new to me but I loved it while it lasted. It lasted several months but ultimately it fizzled out.

by Anonymousreply 194July 21, 2016 1:55 PM

[quote] Next thing I know he was balls deep inside me and damn he knew what he was doing.

Not so fast there. You need to give us the details of how it went from chilling out to him being balls deep in you!

by Anonymousreply 195July 21, 2016 2:00 PM

Not if I could help it OP.

by Anonymousreply 196July 21, 2016 2:04 PM

Fucking an Anglican priest or any of those liberal sects sounds boring af. Please keep it Catholic and Orthodox.

by Anonymousreply 197July 23, 2016 6:04 PM

After tricking with a guy and having reasonably good sex, he told me in somber tones that he had something serious to tell me. He told me he was a priest. I had to suppress laughing. It seemed so insignificant to me (but it was enormously significant to him). We never saw each other again.

by Anonymousreply 198July 23, 2016 6:19 PM

Are there a lot of people that actually find priests or monks hot?

by Anonymousreply 199August 9, 2016 5:53 PM

Ever had sex with a priest? Who hasn't?

by Anonymousreply 200August 9, 2016 7:53 PM

[200] Me. How can I make it happen?

by Anonymousreply 201August 10, 2016 12:05 AM

Jim from Columbus and Jason from Chicago, not at the same time LOL. Jim seemed bi-polar or something, we just did oral. He was a good kisser but not much of a shooter. Jason had terrible breath so I just couldn't bring myself to kiss him, just sucked each other but I remember he shot a huge load. Also met a rabbi Philly, really nice guy but I wasn't attracted to him so we just jacked. I was surprised that he told me he was a rabbi, he seemed pretty comfortable with it so that was cool.

by Anonymousreply 202August 10, 2016 12:46 AM

Nevah!

by Anonymousreply 203August 10, 2016 2:17 AM

Sound like Rabbis are mostly hairy.

by Anonymousreply 204August 10, 2016 2:21 AM

I'm a Catholic priest and fairly sexually active, especially while travelling.

Many would find me a hypocrite, and I understand that. But at the same time I do not preach hate and anti-LGBT rubbish from the pulpit, and have helped many LGBT folks come to peace with their faith.

"But Father, your vows!" Regular priests don't take vows (they make a promise of celibacy). But yes, about that promise. I simply don't buy the whole flawed theology, biology, philosophy, etc. behind the Church's age old suspicion of sexual pleasure. It comes not from Christ himself but from a later mingling of out of context Hebrew laws with flesh-hating Greek dualism.

So call me a liar or whatever but I don't feel bound to a spurious concept that has nothing whatsoever to do with the message of Christ.

I look at my "escapades" (incl. porn, JO, camming, etc.) as life affirming sexual play, and I believe the urge to play sexually comes ultimately from God. As long as the play is not selfish or uncharitable or exploitative there is no contradiction with the teachings of the Gospel itself.

I am generally reticent to reveal anything about myself, but there have been a few times when guys have been able to tell my profession, so I cop to it. I've never had a negative reaction, only curious questions.

I'm not a member of this site so I'm not sure when/if I'll have the opportunity, I'd be glad to answer questions. :-)

by Anonymousreply 205October 19, 2016 2:05 PM

R205 thanks for sharing. It just goes to show that the Church tries too hard to make priest live without human needs.

by Anonymousreply 206October 19, 2016 3:32 PM

My friend's friend tried to hook me up with a Catholic priest, and she even had the unmitigated gall to give him my phone number. When I trashed her years later (this woman was an awful feminine lesbian, pseudo fag hag and troublemaker) our mutual friend tried to chew me out, but I gave him a laundry list of her faults (the priest was at the top of the list) and never spoke to the him or his friend again.

by Anonymousreply 207October 19, 2016 3:41 PM

Padre @ R205, does the Catholic Church forbid masturbation from its priests? I realize most of you guys probably do it but I assume there are those who truly believe jacking off is against God's will. I mean I've understood that physiologically it's not healthy for men to never cum.

When I was in my early 20s I spent a few months in a yoga sect meditating and doing yoga. I didn't cum even once during that time, nor did I want to, but I have a feeling staying totally celibate for years might end up causing some health issues, at least with your prostate.

by Anonymousreply 208October 19, 2016 3:53 PM

208, yes the Church officially forbids masturbation for anyone, esp. priests! It's a bizarre hang up, obviously, totally in denial about its psychological and physical benefits. But yes, I have zero doubt that the vast majority of priests do it, unless they're asexual or have some kind of unnatural ability.

It's tragic because it tears people up in terms of their conscience. It used to be that way for me until I just said, "This is ridiculous. No more shame and denial about this."

A bit of trivia: Thomas Aquinas (medieval Catholic philosopher/theologian) actually taught that jacking it was so perverse that it would be more acceptable for a guy to hire a prostitute instead. So, yeah, I love my faith but the sexual obsession is bananas.

by Anonymousreply 209October 19, 2016 4:20 PM

BTW modern Catholic moral theology has basically gotten everyone off (ha!) the hook for wanking. Technically it's still grave sin but subjectively (so they say) "addiction" to it significantly lessens one's culpability. I mean, they recognize how ludicrous it is that 99% of men and majority of women (don't know %) are going to hell for it. If so, God is exceedingly cruel for making us hands and tingly bits!

by Anonymousreply 210October 19, 2016 4:28 PM

Let's hope the Catholic Church starts to open up about sexuality more. I can't even imagine how much suffering its negative attitude has caused to people over the years.

by Anonymousreply 211October 19, 2016 4:46 PM

They are disgusting people.

by Anonymousreply 212October 19, 2016 4:51 PM

Disgustingly sexy

by Anonymousreply 213October 19, 2016 4:54 PM

But yes. I've done Catholic and Episcopalian. Haven't done Orthodox. Have also done pastors

by Anonymousreply 214October 19, 2016 4:56 PM

R205 Thank you for posting! It's refreshing to see a Priest who is open (even if it's on this forum) to talk about the reality of the priesthood. I'm curious if an LGBT person came to you to 'confess' what would you say to them. Would you encourage them to undertake a life of celibacy as the church preaches LBGT people should do?

Honest opinion a vast majority of priests are gay right? Would you say a majority or minority of priests are sexually active and if so, is it something of an open secret? There are numerous stories on this thread about people who got involved with priests and it was clear their fellow priests and even bishops knew what was going on but turned their heads.

by Anonymousreply 215October 19, 2016 8:00 PM

Hello 215 (sorry, can't figure out how to do the link!)

Thanks for the kind comment, and the excellent questions.

I do have LGBT people coming to me for confession and spiritual counsel. I tell them what the Church's teaching is, -and I discuss with them how accurate or helpful they think it is to their own real lives and faith journey. Most seem to want to live with the paradox of being a sexually active LGBT Catholic (married/partnered or otherwise); others want to pursue a life of chastity — even those who live with significant others! So I always represent the Church's teaching but encourage them to trust their own experience and common sense.

Hard to say about the percentage of gay priests. If not "vast majority" then a very disproportionate number. It's hard for me to gauge from my own anecdotal experience. I know lots of priests: I know screaming queens and very manly "straight" seeming types, and I've seen enough not to assume anything about anybody (in fact sometimes the macho homophobe priest act is just a coverup for a deep-seated struggle with orientation).

In my experience there really aren't any gay clerical castes, or at least I've never been invited to one. One hears about shadowy cabals of gay cardinals, bishops, priests, seminarians, etc. etc. but I just don't see the evidence at least in my neck of the woods. I've heard wild stories about the 70s and 80s especially in seminaries (even unofficial field trips with faculty members to the baths!) But again my invite to the Secret Worldwide Sodomitic Clerical Congress may have gotten lost in the mail. :-D

I know there must be many other gay priests like me who have opted to live somewhat paradoxically, to try to "square the circle" of being in active ministry but with an openness to sexual expression/play with other men. I just hope that my LGBT siblings will not judge me too harshly for my choices.

by Anonymousreply 216October 19, 2016 8:44 PM

R216 Just put a "R" before the # to get it to link

by Anonymousreply 217October 19, 2016 8:48 PM

R216 Hi Padre! I have a million questions because the priesthood fascinates me.

I'm curious have you had anything more serious than a fling? Did you know or accept the fact you were gay before you entered the priesthood? And were you ever questioned about your sexuality in seminary? Are you a parish priest and if so, do you find it isolating? I'm also curious do you have close friends who aren't priests, family or parishioners that you can just be yourself with, or do you feel like you're on duty 24/7? Do you think there are many priests (like yourself) who are pro-gay but have to walk a fine line and tow the 'company line' Last question do you think priests should be allowed to marry?

Oh and when you were celibate did you clean the sheets in the morning or did the cleaning lady do it for you? LOL

by Anonymousreply 218October 19, 2016 10:40 PM

Not a priest, but don't ask me about Southern Baptist ministers who properly call. hehe

by Anonymousreply 219October 19, 2016 11:12 PM

R105 Kys

by Anonymousreply 220October 20, 2016 12:06 AM

R218, my self-acceptance as a gay man came after seminary. Obviously I have always been attracted to men (even looking at straight porn my eyes were always on dick!) and had had sexual encounters as a young man (with guys my age only, thank God!).

I was never asked about my sexuality in seminary, which was a fairly conservative one. Might be because my mannerisms are very "straight" (not a conscious act though!); not macho but I don't fit the homophobic caricature of the queeny, campy type (though I have occasionally been known to be both!).

I've never had a proper relationship, which is a source of great sadness and emotional suffering. I guess there are priests who have had them, but it's so much more difficult to hide than the occasional hookup. I have strongly considered leaving the priesthood, but a part of me simply can't conceive leaving behind something which is inspiring and meaningful to me.

I am out to some friends and family members. They're not privy to my extracurricular activities, but they know that I have made peace with my identity and do my best to help LGBT people and dispel homophobic nonsense among Catholic conservatives.

Yes, Catholic priests should be allowed to do precisely what Episcopalian clergy do with regard to marriage, straight or gay.

As for the sheets, I don't have a regular housekeeper, so no real issues there! (Plus I never host unless traveling.)

by Anonymousreply 221October 20, 2016 12:12 AM

R105 How old are you? What country are you from? Does the Church know what you do?

by Anonymousreply 222October 20, 2016 12:18 AM

R222, I assume you're addressing me (wrong post no.)

(1) I'm in my mid 30s.

(2) USA, Midwest

(3) No.

by Anonymousreply 223October 20, 2016 12:28 AM

R105 How does go about finding a priest (or monk) to have sex with?

by Anonymousreply 224October 20, 2016 12:28 AM

Oh yes, sorry. I saw another one with 105 and thought it was you! Thanks for answering.

by Anonymousreply 225October 20, 2016 12:30 AM

R224, Well I don't really think one can! Unless you try to befriend one and work very subtly to entice him! Which I don't recommend because it can cause him a lot of anguish.

by Anonymousreply 226October 20, 2016 12:31 AM

Hi, Padre. I'm sure you're aware of the so-called traditionalists like Fr. Z who gleefully predict the "biological solution" of traddies outbreeding liberals and taking the church back to pre-Vatican II days. I'm a bi Catholic woman who loves being a Christian but who has bad experiences with misogynist priests going back to my school days (luckily I love my current priest). What are the chances that the hierarchy figures out in our lifetimes that we're human too? Where do you see the Church going on the woman question in the long term?

by Anonymousreply 227October 20, 2016 12:50 AM

R226 If you don't like the church but still wanna be a priest why don't you change denominations?

by Anonymousreply 228October 20, 2016 12:52 AM

R221 Are monasteries the hotbeds of gay sex we all imagine them to be? Or just a fantasy with no basis in reality?

by Anonymousreply 229October 20, 2016 12:54 AM

R205 Any hot stories?

by Anonymousreply 230October 20, 2016 1:03 AM

Padre is watching the debate.

by Anonymousreply 231October 20, 2016 1:09 AM

Padre seems like a nice thoughtful man. I hope he writes more. I've long wondered how much personal anguish celibacy causes Roman Catholic clergy.

by Anonymousreply 232October 20, 2016 1:16 AM

Padre, thank you very much for posting! You're younger than I expected, I assumed maybe you were middle aged. How old were you when you entered seminary?

Do you hook up with locals or is it something you do when traveling only? Every travel to Toronto *wink*

by Anonymousreply 233October 20, 2016 3:26 AM

Haha, yes I was watching the debate in horror. Dear God help us. I ought not watch these kinds of things.

I'd love to write more, I'm not a member so I don't know how frequently they will allow me to post.

I appreciate how non-judgmental you all are being. I've tried to reach out in online forums only to be told I'm a Jew working for the Nazis, a Judas, etc. It's hurtful because I really do my best to help LGBT people who have been profoundly scarred by homophobia in the Church.

I entered seminary in my mid 20s, very much in denial about being gay (despite my porn interests and my early experiences in jr. high and high school).

My hookups would be almost exclusively when travelling. I have my yearly vacay and also business trips once in a while. I abhor gay bars (or most bars really) and baths, and public parks and restrooms aren't my thing — though I have experimented with baths and public stuff.

I have been very fortunate to encounter really great, caring guys through Grindr and Scruff. I've heard/read horror stories about cat fishing, theft, assaults, etc. but thank God it's not been my experience. What a revolutionary tool for gay men, no need for risky public stuff (thought I don't judge those who do that)!

I'm reticent to give too much detail about my "exploits". I like bears the most, and I consider myself a cub (longish beard, fair amount of body hair, and a bit stalky but with a smaller frame).

Haven't been to Toronto in ages, but who knows? :-)

by Anonymousreply 234October 20, 2016 7:14 AM

R232, thanks, that means a lot. Again it's great to be affirmed as part of the "family" even if my personal situation requires that I live out my sexual life differently than most.

by Anonymousreply 235October 20, 2016 7:16 AM

Padre, you're far from being the only priest in this boat, but you're one of the few willing to be honest about it.

I had an affair with a priest a few years ago. It was hot and heavy and clearly I was not the first guy he had messed around with. While agree with the church in regards to sexual responsiblity, it's teaching that the only purpose for sex is procreation is ridiculous and damaging.

by Anonymousreply 236October 20, 2016 1:47 PM

R235 I think it's a good thing you're being open and honest! You represent hopefully an eventual step forward for the church in terms of dealing with the complexity of sexuality.

I'm curious do priests talk to each other about their struggles with celibacy. I'm not really talking about telling other priests you have sex or masturbate or anything. And how do you deal with attractions to other men? I'm assuming you must have fallen in love or been very drawn to someone at some point, do you pull away from that person? I would suspect that a priest might feel guilty or conflicted about falling for someone?

by Anonymousreply 237October 20, 2016 1:59 PM

R237, thanks for your words!

Priests talk to each other (in my experience) sometimes in generalities about celibacy, porn, masturbation. I'm referring to everyday talk, things may get more in depth in confession and spiritual direction.

I have of course had crushes, infatuations (esp. in seminary for instance). One just has to suck it up and deal with it. If I were to fall in actual love with someone I had been seezing, that would really be the occasion for serious soul searching about how to go on in the ministry. Of course this happens all the time with straight priests; a former classmate, a real model super-priest, recently left the priesthood because he impregnated a beautiful young parishioner! So these things happen sometimes for priests of any orientation.

by Anonymousreply 238October 20, 2016 4:45 PM

You Queens really believe the Priest is a Priest?

by Anonymousreply 239October 20, 2016 6:26 PM

R239, he seems legit enough. At least he's not pretending to work on the set of American Horror Story.

by Anonymousreply 240October 20, 2016 6:30 PM

But this is DL R240. SOMEONE has to start shouting that he's a fake fake fake!

by Anonymousreply 241October 20, 2016 6:32 PM

Padre thank you for your honesty! I'm an ex-catholic myself and no longer practice any religion. Do you understand why so many gay people hate the church, and why it might be frustrating for a gay person growing up hearing how sinful and morally evil homosexuality is only to later learn priests and bishops are screwing around with men and women frequently? I'm not attacking you at all I just want to see if you get why people are leaving the church in droves? There are just so many hypocrisies and double standards the church is not a very pious institution.

Do you think that a lot of the homophobic sentiment put out there by the church comes from self-hatred of many closeted gay priests? Do you find that younger priests actually tend to be more conservative than their older counterparts? And based on your experience, where do you see the church in 50 years?

Thank you Father!

by Anonymousreply 242October 20, 2016 6:32 PM

R234 Have you ever done something with another priest? Or a monk?

by Anonymousreply 243October 20, 2016 6:55 PM

Padre, I am interested in how you are able to help other Catholic gays and lesbians wounded by the Church's position on homosexuality. As a priest, you can't say that the Church's position is incorrect, can you? So glad you're here.

by Anonymousreply 244October 20, 2016 9:21 PM

R243, sorry to disappoint, but no (at least as far as I know!).

R244, thank you very much! Yes, the question of presenting the Church's teaching is tough. What I do is lay it out for them, as accurately and unbiased as possible, and then listen to what they have to say about whether or not it represents to them, in conscience, how they see themselves (do you see yourselves as defective, "intrinsically disordered", incapable of true love, etc.). We also might discuss homosexuality in the Scriptures and question whether or not the "traditional" interpretations are warranted or not. I do definitely present my own informed opinion on these things but in such a way that I'm not trying to coerce them. Conscience is paramount: according to Catholic teaching, I may never go against my conscience. Blessed John Henry Newman once wrote that if he were asked at a dinner party to give a toast, he would toast conscience first, and then the Pope.

by Anonymousreply 245October 21, 2016 3:27 AM

R242, I do of course understand some of the reasons why people are leaving the Church! The hypocrisy of some bishops and priests is appalling!

It's significant that Jesus, in the Gospels, reserved his most extreme, even angry, condemnations for the Jewish clergy of his day, not those who were traditionally considered (according to Old Testament law) to be "the sinners", those on the "outside" as opposed to the "righteous" on the inside! The entire thrust of his ministry was reaching out to those considered to be "outside" of the possibility of God's love. Jesus loathed hypocrisy, especially among the clergy! And yet today's clergy merely take their place and do essentially the exact same thing to LGBT!

All of this is a cause of great sorrow to me because I do believe that people are being deprived of the beauty and happiness of a real encounter with Christ through the sacraments.

And so many people with good moral sense and common sense know that what the hierarchy pushes simply is not rational — and all they can see are hypocrites who tell them that they must believe what is manifestly against reason and experience, and the science of sexuality, and a gross abuse of the scriptural record.

Anyway I could go on and on. Hope that helps!

by Anonymousreply 246October 21, 2016 4:04 AM

R242. I forget to address your other question about homophobia in the clergy.

Yes without a doubt the whole sick dynamic of male homophobia is absolutely present: so many of those who are the most homophobic are also those who are fighting/suppressing homoerotic desires (we're all aware, I'm sure, of the studies which have proven that this is so).

The more the obsession with gay sex, the more it's likely that they secretly want it and even participate in it while still denying their desires. Roy Cohn, the Republican political figure who died of AIDS (and a mentor to Trump!) is portrayed in "Angels in America" as saying something like (I quote from memory):

"I'm not a homosexual just because I have sex with men. They're gay, I'm not. They are pathetic and weak and have no clout. Not like me."

It seems to me that something like this is going on in the heads of homophobic clergy who nevertheless f*ck around (porn or real stuff).

by Anonymousreply 247October 21, 2016 4:24 AM

Padre, did you think the Flying Nun was sacrilegious?

by Anonymousreply 248October 21, 2016 9:15 AM

R248, I assume you're messing with me. But to answer your question the Flying Nun ended a decade before I was born. I have zero opinion on it.

by Anonymousreply 249October 21, 2016 9:28 AM

I remember having many online chats with this Catholic priest who was a military clergy in Canada. He liked tying guys up and sucking their toes (and getting tied up himself). He was very upfront about his fetish. I never did meet him because he didn't live close, but I was sure curious about meeting him. And from his photos, I recall he was quite sexy.

by Anonymousreply 250October 21, 2016 9:29 AM

R250, priests are sexual beings and have needs and fetishes like everyone else! :-)

by Anonymousreply 251October 21, 2016 9:43 AM

I've opened a Twitter account, in case anyone would like to follow and stay connected.

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by Anonymousreply 252October 21, 2016 10:50 AM

Just joshing Father S, I couldn't help myself, I confess. Good work on the Twitter thing.

by Anonymousreply 253October 21, 2016 12:00 PM

Padre, thanks for your replies. I'll like you on twitter!

What do you think of this movement call the Third Way that the American Church seems to be rolling out for young people? First off, I find this video creepy because it seems really 'culty' .... maybe that's just me.

I think it gives out a very damaging message to young gay people. On the one hand, it talks about not discriminating or hating gay people and that there is nothing wrong with being gay, but on the other hand it basically says that if you act on your 'gay tendencies' you're going to be unhappy and living in sin. It talks with LGBT people who claim to have been so unhappy until they embraced the church's teaching yet what they fail to ask is where did those feelings of unhappiness and self-hatred come from? Perhaps it came from these mixed and negative messages from the church? Also the priest in it seems to be a super hyper queen but that's just me hahaha!

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by Anonymousreply 254October 21, 2016 1:06 PM

R254: I am somewhat aware of this Third Way movement, which seems to be just a repackaging of the approach of hierarchy-approved organisations like Courage. I wasn’t able to watch the whole video but yes I agree, it’s a bit creepy (but then again I think a lot of the things the Church produces for young people are a bit weird).

I don’t condemn gay and lesbian Catholics who want to go this route. The only problem is that complete abstinence from sexual activity (masturbation included) is really a gift and frankly not everyone has it (therein lies the difficulty with the celibate priesthood).

I really object to the whole language of SSA, “same sex attraction”. It’s a kind of condescending thing, “Oh my, you poor thing, you have SSA!” How insulting! This is what masquerades for “compassion” among many Catholics (though admittedly it is a step up from the straight-forward hateful abuse one hears from certain conservatives or traditionalists).

The Church used to teach that there were no “orientations” only bad, “Sodomitic” acts. Then in the 1970’s/1980’s, prompted no doubt by the gay rights movement and the ongoing scientific search for the origins of homosexuality, the official Church began to move towards the idea of recognizing the orientation (out of the individual’s power and morally neutral, though still “disordered”) while still condemning any homogenital acts.

This novel “solution” simply does not work, theologically or philosophically speaking. I don’t have space here to spell out why (has to do with the Catholic doctrine that “grace builds on nature”), but anyone with a modicum of unbiased rational sense can see how ridiculous, illogical, and frankly cruel it is to say, “Well, your orientation is totally morally neutral, but it strongly urges you towards abominations which God hates and for which he will send you to hell.” (That’s a huge simplification, but this is certainly the sort of message people get).

There's absolutely no other "condition" like this in Catholic moral theology: an innate natural tendency to mortal sin! Preposterous.

Forgive me, friends, but my “SSA” is not a disease. Whether it’s nature or nurture or both, I have learned to regard it as a gift and even a strength. I refuse to go back to the time before when I lived in utter despair and self-hatred, killing myself to reach up to an imposed standard, the frustration of having to go back to the confessional day after day, etc. etc.

If I may be personal for a moment, the struggle with my sexuality has been so bad that it has been, in large part, a cause of deep clinical depression and anxiety. I have had for years suicidal ideations (though thank God I’ve never acted upon it, with the help of close friends). So yes, it is very damaging as you say to LGBT people, especially young people.

So, anyway, Catholic theology now is caught in this terrible, self-contradictory bind with regard to homosexuality. If there's a silver lining here, it's that as the cause of gay rights continues to gain ground in the Western world, the intolerable tension which exists in the Church's contradictory stance may give way to a kind of resolution in favour of gay Catholics.

We are already seeing in the Church (under the current Pope) an openness to finding new solutions for people who have morally "fallen through the cracks", like divorced and remarried people. I am not convinced (despite the famous "who am I to judge" comment) that Pope Francis is a friend to LGBT, but at least he is a step in the right direction (and I say this as someone who loved and continues to love Pope Benedict!).

by Anonymousreply 255October 21, 2016 4:09 PM

This, by the way, is a fantastic article taking apart the "Third Way" propaganda:

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by Anonymousreply 256October 21, 2016 4:28 PM

R255 Thank you for that response! For a Catholic Priest to say these things is a small step in the right director for the institution you're a part of.

I don't know what Pope Francis' true opinions on LGBT people are, BUT I will give him credit for being the most progressive Pope on the issue unlike Benedict (whom I suspect is gay) who hardened the church's position on homosexuality even further than JPII. I think Francis is playing a more long term game because the Church doesn't move quickly on anything, but he's been seen with a gay couple, he's said who I to judge, he talked to a transgender person on the phone and I believe apologized from some of the pain the church has caused...it's baby steps.

As a priest, are you worried about the church becoming more and more irrelevant in the developed western world? To many the church has become repressive rather progressive like it was viewed by many even a century ago.

by Anonymousreply 257October 21, 2016 5:22 PM

Why don't you change denominations?

by Anonymousreply 258October 21, 2016 7:45 PM

R257, Benedict is really the architect of the compromise between admitting unchosen orientation but maintaining the prohibition of acts. He was actually a moderating influence here because there were many in the Vatican who wanted to take a much, much harder line.

In any case, Benedict, otherwise a fantastic theologian, really put through something at root nonsensical but I think he did it somewhat to put the lid on much more grievous forms of curial homophobia.

It's hard to say whether or not Benedict is gay. It would not surprise me at all and would even delight me! He and I see eye to eye on quite a few things (but definitely not about sexuality).

Yes, of course, the Church is losing credibility year by year. The sex abuse scandals (in which gay priests were offered up as scapegoats) was a grievous blow. The stubbornness about things like contraception as well as LGBT are simply inconceivable not only to the world but to the Catholic faithful themselves. I'm enough of a believer to hope that God will save his Church, but if so it will be in a very humiliated, diminished form — but maybe that's what's needed to bring things back to square one, to the essentials of the Gospel rather than obsession with matters of the pelvis!

by Anonymousreply 259October 21, 2016 7:52 PM

R258: Because I'm a Catholic believer; it's what shapes me! I was born in it and hopefully I will die in it (gay icon Oscar Wilde often told his friends that Catholicism is the only religion to die in — and die in it he did, via deathbed conversion). So theologically I am Catholic which makes other denominations impossible for me.

by Anonymousreply 260October 21, 2016 8:01 PM

Are you a top or a bottom? Also, how many nudes have you received since you opened your Twitter account? Lol!

by Anonymousreply 261October 21, 2016 9:35 PM

R261: Well I'm no prude, but I'm also a bit reticent to say. Do you want to guess? ;-)

I've received supportive DMs but no naughty pics. LOL!

by Anonymousreply 262October 22, 2016 12:43 AM

Padre, what is your position on women in the church. Even though I'm a man, that's something that's a huge stumbling block for me.

by Anonymousreply 263October 22, 2016 12:51 AM

R263: Of course, there's zero problem in my mind in terms of women in key places of administration, teaching, social justice, aspects of ministry, etc. This is right and should be encouraged in every way possible.

The problem in my mind comes in with the question of ordination. I'm not saying I'm absolutely against it (should the Church in the future decide to do it), but at this point in time I'm just not sure. I don't think all of the theological and historical "data" is in yet. Really, I simply find arguments at this point both for *and* against to be severely wanting.

I could be accused of being chauvinist or a hypocrite here, but it's a question mark for me. I'm just being honest. :-/

by Anonymousreply 264October 22, 2016 2:24 AM

I went to a Jesuit school. got bjs from three of them and i fucked two. One of those that I fucked I probably fucked ten plus times.

by Anonymousreply 265October 22, 2016 2:27 AM

Oh yes indeed and a Brother as well. Those boys know exactly what theyre doing and How to do it. Wonder where they learned all of it?

by Anonymousreply 266October 22, 2016 2:52 AM

I'm guessing you're a top?

by Anonymousreply 267October 22, 2016 4:26 AM

R267: Hmmmm could be. Or .... who knows? :-D

by Anonymousreply 268October 22, 2016 4:33 AM

Have you ever done bareback, father? How about sex while using your vestments?

by Anonymousreply 269October 22, 2016 6:09 AM

R269: No to both. The second question is really pretty gross.

by Anonymousreply 270October 22, 2016 6:15 AM

Why is it gross?

by Anonymousreply 271October 22, 2016 6:36 AM

I'd really like to

by Anonymousreply 272October 22, 2016 6:57 AM

R271: If I have to explain it to you, then chances are you wouldn't understand. I am a Catholic. Some things are sacred, period.

by Anonymousreply 273October 22, 2016 7:26 AM

R273 I'm technically Catholic, too, so...

by Anonymousreply 274October 22, 2016 7:29 AM

R274, that's alright, it's just not my deal.

by Anonymousreply 275October 22, 2016 7:45 AM

Do priests go to any special places to find guys to have sex with? I heard Sitges might be one?

by Anonymousreply 276October 22, 2016 8:30 AM

R276: I confess I've never heard of Sitges but yes it looks like quite a gay place! :-)

My own encounters have always been with men I've met online, and always when travelling away from my place of residence.

Also, I've never had sex with another priest, as far as I know (if I had they didn't tell me, nor I them!).

by Anonymousreply 277October 22, 2016 9:00 AM

Padre, you're a champ for answering all these questions (and my questions on your Ask site). Thanks for the honesty and consideration.

What made you go into the priesthood at a later stage in your life?

by Anonymousreply 278October 22, 2016 1:17 PM

R278: Thanks, Fred. It feels good to get a few things off my chest.

I'm 35 and was ordained in 2008, so I'm not too late of a vocation. A bit late but not much. :-)

by Anonymousreply 279October 22, 2016 3:18 PM

R279 is 27 old to be ordained a priest? That seems young to me. I remember growing up most of the newly ordained priests that would work in my Parish were in their early 30s.

So Padre, do any of the guys you sleep with know you're a priest?

by Anonymousreply 280October 22, 2016 4:52 PM

Why are most priests ugly and fat?

by Anonymousreply 281October 22, 2016 7:31 PM

The idea of sleeping with a priest is so hot, to me. I'm not even religious, so I'm not sure what's going on there.

by Anonymousreply 282October 22, 2016 7:42 PM

R280: No, I think it's immaterial. We are all men with desires and needs — as doctors, lawyers, salesmen, laborers, yes and even priests, ministers and rabbis!

by Anonymousreply 283October 22, 2016 11:15 PM

R280: P.S. I looked up the age question. The minimum age is 25, so I wouldn't be too much of an old coot (25 vs. 28).

by Anonymousreply 284October 22, 2016 11:22 PM

What's really in holy water?

by Anonymousreply 285October 22, 2016 11:32 PM

Do you know any Orthodox rabbis having sex with men?

by Anonymousreply 286October 22, 2016 11:33 PM

When was the last time you had sex? What's your favorite kind of porn?

by Anonymousreply 287October 22, 2016 11:34 PM

R285: Water, blessed salt, and the blessing of God.

by Anonymousreply 288October 22, 2016 11:53 PM

Dear friends, I'm going to bid this thread adieu. It's been truly enjoyable for me to be able to speak so freely and frankly about sexuality as a priest. Feel free to contact me with any further questions or comments via one of the social media outlets found in the link below.

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by Anonymousreply 289October 23, 2016 5:32 AM

[quote]When was the last time you had sex? What's your favorite kind of porn?

This is why we can't have nice things. :(

by Anonymousreply 290October 23, 2016 9:26 AM

R290 Padres is just a prudish old queen, though.

by Anonymousreply 291October 24, 2016 1:19 AM

I like how he ignored the one question from a woman. That's why I don't trust priests.

by Anonymousreply 292October 24, 2016 2:37 PM

R292: Padre did answer the self-proclaimed ex-Catholic gay woman R244's question.

by Anonymousreply 293October 25, 2016 2:13 AM

From Kevin Meaney's obituary in the NY Times:

[quote]He came out in 2008 while being interviewed on a satellite radio show. His sexual orientation later figured in some of his stand-up routines.

[quote]In one, Mr. Meaney, who was raised Roman Catholic, described a request from his mother that he go to confession.

[quote]“I told the priest I was gay, and it was very difficult to tell him that,” Mr. Meaney said in a routine captured on video. “And now we’re dating.”

by Anonymousreply 294October 25, 2016 3:34 AM

Do priests have specially big cocks or anything special about them?

by Anonymousreply 295November 29, 2016 11:32 PM

R115

by Anonymousreply 296November 30, 2016 1:07 AM

A few years ago I met this very handsome guy on flight home from New York. The flight got delayed before we could leave the gate so we ended up striking a conversation and by the end of the flight we had exchanged numbers. He lived about two hours away in a neighboring town so we ended up just chatting by text for a few weeks until he had to come to my city for a family thing and he proposed meeting up for coffee. Long story short that coffee turned into a marathon fuck session at my apartment. We started hooking up regularly after that and I knew he was hiding some stuff from me (I actually thought he was in a relationship) but really our relationship was mostly based on sex. This went on for a couple months until randomly by chance I happened to find a video online and there he was wearing the priest collar giving a talk about the importance of prayer. I confronted him and he confessed to being a priest. He was terrified that I would do something but ultimately I felt it was a waste of energy. I told him to get lost and sort himself out. I was disappointed mostly because he was a good fuck.

by Anonymousreply 297February 22, 2017 2:31 PM

men of the cloth are often horn dogs

by Anonymousreply 298February 22, 2017 2:34 PM

Why would you care if it was just sex, R297?

by Anonymousreply 299February 22, 2017 3:08 PM

Aw, I hate that Kevin Meaney died. He was funny as hell.

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by Anonymousreply 300February 22, 2017 3:42 PM

Yes. Good old Father Cumsalot was a tiger under the sheets.

by Anonymousreply 301February 22, 2017 4:31 PM

I was under the altar giving a priest head while he was saying mass.

by Anonymousreply 302February 22, 2017 4:53 PM

I used to have the hots for my parish priest when I was I teenager. Fr. Gary was probably in his late 30s with a rugby build. Funny enough I say him years later at NYC pride.

by Anonymousreply 303February 22, 2017 5:37 PM

Yes but when I unzipped his fly, a bunch of communion wafers fell out like coins out of a slot machine.

by Anonymousreply 304February 22, 2017 5:42 PM

Back in college I had a fuck buddy situation with a guy who is now a Franciscan Friar, does that count? We're still in touch and in fact I last saw him at the Women's March in DC. The Franciscans are shockingly liberal about LGBT rights (probably because the vast majority of friars are gay).

by Anonymousreply 305June 26, 2017 1:49 PM

You call?

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by Anonymousreply 306June 26, 2017 4:54 PM

^ Oops sorry, wrong pic,..

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by Anonymousreply 307June 26, 2017 4:54 PM

R307 in his case, the hair really does make the man.

by Anonymousreply 308June 26, 2017 5:26 PM

No but I've often fantasized about fucking a hot silver haired daddy priest.

by Anonymousreply 309June 27, 2017 12:51 AM

There was a video online of a guy sucking off an older priest, the faces are blurred out but they seem to be speaking Italian, it's a hot scene but when the priest cums he starts making this sound that is downright creepy.

by Anonymousreply 310June 27, 2017 4:24 AM

No but i want to be gangbanged bt a group of hung ptiests.I want multiple loads in my ass and mouth.. I qant these priests to fuck me till i pass out. Then start over.My name is Michael 215 526 3083 lets make it happen

by Anonymousreply 311October 6, 2019 2:47 PM

Not willingly.

by Anonymousreply 312October 6, 2019 2:57 PM

Can anyone please show me where I can go to have sex with multiple Priests?.I want to suck as many Clergy cocks and get religiously fucked bareback by as many Priests as possible. Im 100% serious.My 54th birthday is October 10th.I would love to be gangbanged.I live in Bensalem PA.my number 215 526 3083.Please this is real and on the level. I want to be a cum slut slave to Gay Priests.

by Anonymousreply 313October 7, 2019 9:01 PM

There are an awful lot of people in this thread with absolutely no morals.

by Anonymousreply 314October 7, 2019 9:08 PM

Yes , although I didn't know he was until he took off his clothes

by Anonymousreply 315October 7, 2019 9:11 PM

Any priests care to weigh in and tell their tales?

by Anonymousreply 316October 7, 2019 9:33 PM

hot. Any stories?

by Anonymousreply 317January 8, 2020 10:49 AM

Who knows what that cock sliding through the glory hole does?

by Anonymousreply 318January 8, 2020 10:59 AM

Not everyone is a superstitious idiot, R314. Priests are just men. Some Insanely hot.

by Anonymousreply 319January 8, 2020 11:27 AM

With a priests brother, who was more around my age. The actual priest himself was at least 20 years older than me, his brother was more around my age. We weren't regular parishioners that church. I was like 10 at the time when my parents would occasionally take me there. It was rather funny when I was in my early 20's that I would see his younger brother out at the gay bars. I knew right off the bat they were related. The priest himself is gay as well, his brother mentioned to me. It was funny but creepy at the same time. We only hooked up once, but remained friends while out at the bars.

by Anonymousreply 320January 8, 2020 11:37 AM

He said “Yes Satan” when he came.

by Anonymousreply 321January 8, 2020 12:09 PM

Yes. It was in the late 80s in NYC. I met this really handsome man in his late 20s or early 30s in Central Park sunning himself on the rocks. We met up the same night at my place and he told me 3 weeks into knowing him that he was a priest. I was raised Catholic and this freaked me out and it was a deal breaker. He was a couple of years older and very sensual and fun in bed, but I had to stop it once I found out and he was ok with that. I saw him from time to time at the same gay bar under the 59th Street Bridge on the East Side (can't remember the name). He was quite active in the gay bar scene during that time, so I think many gay men know him.

by Anonymousreply 322January 8, 2020 12:36 PM

I tried so hard to nail one of the priests that would visit my Catholic school when I was 16 or so. I am sure he was tempted but it never went anywhere.

by Anonymousreply 323January 8, 2020 12:41 PM

R322

Bogart's?

by Anonymousreply 324January 8, 2020 12:51 PM

Yes. Bogarts... It was a nice bar with a diverse crowd and friendly. Is it still there? I haven't lived in the area since the 90s.

by Anonymousreply 325January 8, 2020 2:45 PM

R325

Bogart's is long gone. It was a great bar. One of my favorites. Even loved the Catholic School Plaid wallpaper.

by Anonymousreply 326January 8, 2020 4:24 PM

green plaid if I remember correctly and a big wooden bar always decorated nicely at holiday time very nice

by Anonymousreply 327January 9, 2020 12:43 PM

Whatever happened to the gay priest who commented so thoughtfully on this thread. Safly his twitter page is gone.

by Anonymousreply 328January 9, 2020 4:23 PM

I once met a Priest at the Vault, Sunday afternoon sex party, where everyone gets naked. Good times.

by Anonymousreply 329January 11, 2020 1:05 AM

R34 if the Rectory was on 42nd Street, he was later on a list of sex abusers and lost his faculties to be a priest. Last we heard he was a hospital chaplain in Florida or Texas,

by Anonymousreply 330January 11, 2020 1:40 AM

Sort of a tangent, but is it that hard to be a priest? My priest spent the entire homily whining about this one priests has to do mandatory retreat (aka " rectory fraternization gathering"), so he will have to perform 6 masses this weekend. That is 6 hours of work over 2 days. That sounds FANTASTIC! where do I sign up?

by Anonymousreply 331January 11, 2020 2:05 AM

This seems like a good thread to bring up the fact that the Vatican owns the building housing EC Europe Multiclub, i.e. the biggest gay bathhouses in Europe.

by Anonymousreply 332January 11, 2020 2:09 AM

Yes, an actual Catholic priest that I met at a gay resort while traveling.

I have no idea why I agreed. I was just sort of dumbfounded that he didn't seem to care who knew. He spoke about it like he was an accountant or branch manager at a bank and truly seemed to view it as just a job. It's not as if he claimed to have lost faith. He stated he became a priest at the suggestion (or under pressure, I was never clear which) of his family and for fairly cynical financial reasons.

by Anonymousreply 333January 11, 2020 3:12 AM

My first serious boyfriend was a Catholic priest. He left me for an eighteen year old crackhead....the breakup was bitter. I found out that he was being investigated for sexual abuse of boys in his Parrish. He was very handsome with deep dish dimples and he worked out and took care of himself. He was generous to me and I loved talking to him. But he loved rescuing people. And he discovered that I didn’t wanna be rescued. So he moved on to the young man. He could only have sex once per night...no marathon lovemaking sessions. I think that he felt guilty about it.

by Anonymousreply 334January 11, 2020 3:19 AM

Judas Priest!

by Anonymousreply 335January 11, 2020 3:21 AM

One of my best friends used to fuck one. He said the priest was the kinkiest man that he ever had sexy with. Lots piggie stuff like only rimming a dirty hole and only getting off when you pissed in his mouth or ass. He was also a big partier (meth/coke/Molly). The one time I met said priest, I have to say that he was a very sexy man. Tall, handsome and very intriguing personality - he was a good 10 years older than us (buddy was about 25 at the time). My friend finally ended it - too much work to be "filthy" enough to pleasure the guy.

by Anonymousreply 336January 11, 2020 3:28 AM

Never had sex with a priest but there were a lot of them at the Twin Peaks Bar in the Castro and Bench and Bar in Oakland. Drunk Mormons, too.

by Anonymousreply 337January 11, 2020 3:31 AM

I did. I met him in Asbury Park, NJ. He was pretty perfect. We went back to my apartment. We had sex 3 times in one night. He didn't tell me he was a priest until morning. He asked me to come to the Mass he was serving in a few hours in a neighboring town. Total betrayal. But that's the RC Catholic church for you.

by Anonymousreply 338January 11, 2020 3:43 AM

Re R333 - does being a priest actually pay well?

by Anonymousreply 339January 11, 2020 3:56 AM

No, but I have a lot of Italian chat friends for almost a decade and just today reconnected with a guy who had a huge crush on me. We skype'd and he had a huge smile on his face just looking at me and said "your smile is killing me." I asked what he was doing and he said he was a teacher, but is now studying to be a priest and he was at the seminary or whatever. I didn't want to bring up "but you're gay" and cause him more guilt than I'm sure he already has, but I kind of felt bad for him. Then, I read this thread and apparently priests do ok.

by Anonymousreply 340January 11, 2020 5:21 AM

R336, the power of Christ compelled him.

by Anonymousreply 341January 11, 2020 4:44 PM

Priests seem like they'd be really fucked up so even if I had the chance to hook up with one I don't think I'd take it.

by Anonymousreply 342January 11, 2020 5:13 PM

R336 that's what I have heard about Roman Catholic priests, how a lot of them are S&M bottoms and love to be tied up, whipped, verbally abused, etc. during sex.

by Anonymousreply 343May 4, 2020 1:50 AM

R234 are you still a Roman Catholic priest or monk? Are you on the site bate world I know there is a gay priest there from Mexico, and a group for bisexual and gay men who are Roman Catholic priests.

by Anonymousreply 344May 4, 2020 1:56 AM

Are we including rabbis in this thread? Or just Catholic priests?

by Anonymousreply 345May 4, 2020 1:58 AM

Just Roman Catholic priests only R345 but my friend was FBs with a deeply closeted gay rabbi who was married to a woman and he fisted the rabbi's ass, and the Rabbi would talk about his personal life and being closeted and married to a woman and my buddy was like "Seriously, I don't care and do not need to hear any of this we are here just for you to get your ass fisted and fucked. Save it for your shrink or therapist."

by Anonymousreply 346May 11, 2020 7:52 PM

My sister's best friend (female) married a priest. They had a long affair. He finally left the priesthood and they married. Everyone in the parish was aware of their affair and didn't judge.

by Anonymousreply 347May 11, 2020 8:07 PM

We have a priest living in our condo complex. Hot as fuck. He lays out at the pool and everyone cruises him. He has a couple guys who are regulars at his place, in and out. I never had sex with him but would love to do him.

by Anonymousreply 348May 11, 2020 8:13 PM

Yes, but it was before he became a priest. We were friends in college in Texas in the 80's. Then for a while we became a little more than friends. It was awkward, and it never got serious or regular. He was also weirdly Christian at times for an art student. We drifted apart after college. I moved away.

Flash-forward two decades I look him up online he's the pastor of a church with a family (a wife and child). I listened to one of his sermons online. It was surreal.

by Anonymousreply 349May 11, 2020 8:16 PM

R349 what did you do sexually with him? Is he an Eastern Orthodox priest, or an Eastern Catholic priest? Those types can marry but the Roman Catholic ones cannot.

by Anonymousreply 350May 12, 2020 7:46 PM

My former roommate who is bisexual, had sex with a Methodist minister that is bisexual, and his wife, at the same time. He said the minister fucked his butt while he had sex with the guy's wife, and then they all took a shower together and both he and the minister had sex with the wife. Sounds hot to me!

by Anonymousreply 351May 12, 2020 8:00 PM

Not a priest, but can't remember his title. I was 19, he was early 30s. First hands-free orgasm from bottoming. Before him, I avoided bottoming because the half dozen attempts from age 15-19 really hurt. He was very patient and sweet. Intensely pleasurable experience.

by Anonymousreply 352May 12, 2020 8:01 PM

bump. This is hot...

by Anonymousreply 353February 27, 2021 5:04 PM

Define "sex".

by Anonymousreply 354February 27, 2021 5:10 PM

R351, The Falwells?

by Anonymousreply 355February 27, 2021 5:13 PM

I had sex on the church steps of my parochial school when returning home from college.

by Anonymousreply 356February 27, 2021 5:47 PM

Every so often this thread is resurrected and I always re-read the entire thing. There are some lovely and some very hot (!) stories here and I appreciate everyone's contribution.

I have no personal romantic or sexual experience with clergy, but all of the RC priests I know are kind, educated men. Glad to hear they may have some love and pleasure in their lives.

by Anonymousreply 357February 28, 2021 6:22 AM

No never but a bisexual roommate of mine who was raised Roman Catholic-he has been spiritual/agnostic/atheist for decades since he got kicked out of their CCD class for asking too many questions, in the late 1970s or early 1980s he became friends a Presbyterian minister and his wife, and eventually they all had sex together. Lots of mutual versatile oral, kissing, and he fucked the guy's wife while he got fucked. This sounds super hot.

by Anonymousreply 358March 5, 2021 6:24 PM

Anglican priest and part time leather queen. He was very tall and was built like a wrestler. He screamed like a girl, and prayed for forgiveness afterwards.

by Anonymousreply 359March 5, 2021 6:41 PM

I went to a Jesuit High School and if I could go back in time, I would be a lot more brave and taken up some of the opportunities at the time that I didn't understand were opportunities!

If I knew then what I knew now...

by Anonymousreply 360March 5, 2021 6:44 PM

It's an open secret that most Catholic priests are gay and getting it on, both with other priests and hook-ups.

by Anonymousreply 361March 5, 2021 6:45 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 362October 30, 2021 10:34 PM
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