Have a straight guy ever asked you to have sex?

"Has."

Yes. An incredibly hot guy I used to work with asked me if I would fuck him. He said he and his live-in gf -- whom I knew fairly well -- played with toys, and he loved how it felt to have something penetrate him. He wanted to know what it was like to have a real cock in him, and asked if I could do it. He said he trusted me, and knew I wouldn't make a big deal of it. The one stipulation, though, was that I had to ask his gf for permission. She got a little freaked out about it, and they moved away shortly thereafter. He was incredibly hot, and I wish it had worked out. I would have loved to have fucked him.

No, only frisky bi guys

Been there, done that...a few times

Enjoy it while it lasts, they never call

I had a female roommate at one point. She had a boyfriend that was in the same school as we were, so I know him also quite well. Before I came out to them I noticed the boyfriend trying to check me out quite obviously at the urinals once, which sort of made me wonder a bit. After I came out he casually just one night after school said that we should go blow each other in an empty classroom.

He was still dating my roommate so I didn't want to, and even though he was actually quite a hottie (blue-eyed blonde with a nice body) he also had a bit of temper, so I knew that if I got involved in their affair there'd be a shitstorm in so many ways. So I just laughed and treated it as a joke. He never asked again but he was always super nice to me and I thought it was because he saw me as a secret mate. I only ever heard him date women but I'm pretty sure he was bi. BTW, after he and my roommate had broken up I told her about his offer for a blowjob and she just wouldn't believe it.

this guy was always coming to this cafe where I worked and I kind of knew his girlfriend and one evening as we were all closing up he comes in and he is I like your shirt etc etc and um my girlfriend is out of town this whole weekend. I remember saying You must miss her a lot.

I once had some guy,referring to himself, bluntly ask me:

How would you like a married man to fuck you in the ass?

I have to admit,I was a little turned on(ok,a LOT)and very tempted for a second because he was very handsome and masculine. However,my good angel got the better of me as all I could think about was how the poor,ignorant wife at home would feel if she knew her husband was out pounding some gay guy at the Econolodge on E.Burnside.

I'm sure I've messed around with "straight" married cock before but this was the only time I had verificato.

You know the difference between a straight guy and a washing machine?

After I dump my load in a washing machine it doesn't follow me around for two months.

NEWS FLASH. If the guy is asking you to have sex, he's not straight. Get it?

Straight guys don't ask other men to have sex with them. And the sky is blue and the grass is green and the sun is hot and the earth is round.

[quote]And the sky is blue and the grass is green and the sun is hot and the earth is round.

Except on days when we [italic]feel[/italic] the sky is pink and the earth is flat.

NEWSFLASH - If a guy is fucking a woman, he's not gay.

No, but my ex was a macho former truck-driving bear, and he said he got propositioned by "straight-acting males" at diners all the time.

R9 You have black and white perception in a world of blazing color.

But even in a world of blazing color, black is still black and white is still white.

These are the sexual orientations on Datalounge:

Gay

Straight but has sex with men

What R15 said.

"Bi" does not mean half.

Thanks for that info R9. I had no idea. No doubt you really opened a lot of eyes with that valuable information.

And cue the "Then he isn't straight, thilly!" troll in 5, 4, 3, 2, and hold it! He's already appeared upstream.

::sigh::

Why the *need to believe straight men have sex? There seems to be a life and death need behind it and many here get really angry when you challenge them with "straight men don't have gay sex".

Yes, R21, as if gay sex had absolutely nothing to do with being gay. Rather, it's how straight guys have sex. Makes [italic]all[/italic] the sense in the world.

Need?

There is a *need. Yes. Instead of being rational and saying "Of course the guy is bisexual or gay" some here get irate and accuse the naysayers as being "trolls" which has happened for years here. So, why the need? Is "bisexual" or "gay" any less attractive than "straight"? If the guy claims to be "bisexual" does that make him less attractive in your eyes?

This all boils down to the gay fantasy of having sex with a straight man. Straight men by definition aren't fucking dudes. If they are, they aren't straight. The label officially doesn't apply. And R12, I don't know of any straight men who were afraid to come out as straight, so they faked it by fucking guys until they were ready to come out...do you?

If he's married or has a gf but is trolling for sex with other men, then he's bi or closeted gay, even if he wants to perceive himself as being straight.

I don't understand why the concept of banging "straight" guys has so much appeal among DLers anyway, because straight guys aren't typically as hygienic as openly gay men. But, hey, if dingleberries and skidmarks turn you on, go for it.

Why the need to label every man who has sex with another man as bi or gay? Some try it one time just to see what it's like and they don't like it. Thus they go back to opposite sex. Somehow, that one time results in a need for some to label the guy has bi. Why is there that need?

Because straight men don't "experiment". Straight men don't actively seek out men for sex.

Kinsey scale:

0 Exclusively heterosexual 1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual 2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual 3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual 4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual 5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual 6 Exclusively homosexual

"0" is straight. They aren't having sex with other guys.

Kinsey Scale is such dated homophobic garbage.

[quote]Because straight men don't "experiment". Straight men don't actively seek out men for sex.

And no gay man has ever had sex with a female. Isn't that right, R28? Do you use solar power to operate your pc at your log cabin in the wilderness?

Because, r27, a totally straight person doesn't just say "what the hell, I'm not AT ALL attracted to people of my own sex but I figure I'll just try it once to be sure."

That doesn't happen, any more than people say to themselves "well, I'm not attracted to little kids but maybe I'll try it just once to see what it's like, maybe I'm missing out on something." Doesn't happen. Not unless the innate attraction/interest is there and it's strong enough to prompt the person to act on it.

Generally speaking, if someone has at least some degree of sexual attraction to another person of the same sex, and they act on it (even just once), that means they're bisexual to some degree. Even if it's a small degree. A "1" on the Kinsey Scale.

Why do you say that, r30?

And, r31, OF COURSE gay men have sex with women if they're raised in a religious/homophobic environment where they're conditioned to believe that gay=sin. But it doesn't work the other way around. There's no society, culture, country, or tribe that I've ever heard of where the adults raise children to believe homosexuality is the default sexual orientation to which everyone should conform.

R31, gay men who hate themselves are desperate to not be gay absolutely seek out victims I mean women to sleep with or marry.

Because R33, the Kinsey Scale is used to determine the homosexuality of a gay person. That there might be some glimmer of "hope" I could be heterosexual or have heterosexual feelings and lead a "normal" life. The Kinsey Scale is dated and homophobic.

I pull straight cock all the time. I have no issues being a pump and dump, as long as they're hot and wan to gill me up with their cum.

Is today Self-Loathing Day on the DL?

Or is that every Monday?

How do you meet your straight guys and how do you work your "get them to have sex with you" magic, R36?

Every gay man who ever had sex with a female, even one time, is straight because gay men don't have sex with females.

Gay men who sleep with females do so because they do not want to be gay. They are fully aware that they are gay and try to "cure" themselves of these same-sex attraction. The comparison of "straight" men who seek out men for sex is ridiculous and not even the same. But, I'm not surprised by it because it comes from the same people with the logic that straight men have gay sex.

No a straight man has never asked me to have sex, in a rather long life (I am 60). And I have had a lot of sex partners, lovers, two long term relationships etc. That is to say, I was (and still am) handsome and in shape- still being propositioned/approached by men of all ages, although less so than when I was younger of course.

Straight men do not ask other men to have sex. Duh.

Bisexual and gay men do.

Is this more from the sex with straight men troll?

[quote]Is this more from the sex with straight men troll?

Yes, R41. A.K.A. the bra

Where and when do straight men have gay sex? In environments where there aren't any women, or when they don't have any other option. Such as, you know, prison, boarding school, oil rigs, in transoceanic voyages before mechanization and army barracks (in the past - nowadays there are women in the army). Still, many straight men will not have sex with other men in those environments AT ALL.

Also, some straight men who are VERY desperate or want to make easy money will work as prostitutes - still, they are a tiny minority.

If a man actively seeks to have sex with other men, he is either bisexual or latently gay, no matter how long he's been married, if he has children or how many girlfriends he has. Gay men who marry women do so out of SHAME and self-hatred. Bisexual men marry women because well, they can be in heterosexual relationships without problems. These are the only men who are married to women and cheat with other men.

Straight men marry women and, guess what? There isn't a shortage of women who want to have sex with a man, especially if he is married - also, not all women want to be in a relationship. Quite a few don't mind having no string attached fun.

So, stop lying to yourselves. If a "straight" man asks you to have sex with him, he isn't straight.

[quote]I'm sure I've messed around with "straight" married cock before but this was the only time I had verificato.

Verificato???

I believe the word you were searching for was verificatia.

shreeeeeeeeek

LOVE straight guys on the hoof. Do it, OP!

OP did put straight in quotes, hoping to avoid the usual tedious debate, to no avail.

Have a teacher ever hinted you work on your ebonics, OP?

OK, I'll bite.

What makes you say that this guy who wants to have sex with you is "straight"?

Christ, stop being so literal. It's all about sexual fantasy with BOTH parties.

No different than a 40 year old woman dressed as a French maid for her husband.

You people must be really boring to fuck.

Oh. So the question is really "has a straight guy [italic]who's having a fantasy about being gay[/italic] ever asked you to have sex?" You must be really stupid when you try to think, R50. Does it hurt your brain?

Wow

I had a "straight guy" fondle my knee under the table once when we were hanging out with friends.

I had a "straight" co-worker look me up and down as we passed and say, "you're looking really good today."

Another co-worker, different place, whom I'd only talked to in passing, decided to sit next to me one day while I was eating lunch and kept rubbing near his crotch.

All these guys showed an interest in me and wanted to hang out and do stuff. I felt too nervous and flustered around them and decided to ignore it all.

It's happening to me again! I swear it's true.

New job. New co-worker. Same sexual tension. Same look in the eyes. Same friendliness with the "let's hang out" proposals. It feels like I'm being pursued and it exciting but also confusing because he's "straight" and seems committed.

Any advice from the whores of DL?

Yes, twice. Both times I told the guy that if they wanted to experiment, do it with someone else. I am nobody's lab rat.

I have passed up opportunities because either I was timid or I suspected I was being teased.

No advice yet? I don't want to chicken out again. I want to see where this guy wants to go.

Apparently R53 you are like the gay catnip for all straight guys. You just have to deal

If he's looking for sex he's either bi, drunk or he's your cellmate. I do believe that there are a lot of straight guys who look for some type of emotional intimacy with other men (the so-called 'bromance'). A lot of friendships between (straight) men are superficial and conditional. A lot of straight men (even the non-intellectual ones) appreciate it, if they can talk to other men about other subjects than sports, politics or sex.

Wow! You guys are so lucky! i have never had a straight guy as me to have sex.

One grabbed my crotch while drunk and pushed him off. Another asked me to join him and his girlfriend and I said no. There's another I've caught checking me out for the fourth time in a couple of weeks. Each time he's always averted his gaze pretending to look at something stupid like his shoes. And my female friend who likes him has seen him staring at other times when I didn't notice.

R53/R56, go for it. I'm R5 and I have regretted not accepting my roommate's boyfriend's offer for a blowjob a few times. Obviously if the man is in a relationship it's no good but in my case the guy was fucking around anyway with other women behind my roommate's back.

Try it out so you won't regret not doing anything later. BTW what kind of guy are you? Masculine, feminine, openly gay?

R61, I'm masculine. I wasn't openly gay at work before. One reason why I felt flustered with these other guys is because I felt I'd been "discovered". It was in my younger days and I wish I had the nerve to see where it could have gone.

online - there have been 20 or so over the years.

"straight" might be a stretch...but they were married & paranoid & had rings, etc...one invited me to HIS place & the crib was out - so fucking weird.

he was cute though & hairy...nice cock. nice place.

Men who label themselves as "masculine" rarely are.

R64 Exactly what I was thinking.

No guy who is "straight" would ask another guy to have sex with him. Only homos do that.

I never thought about "masculine" before DL. Or "STR8" (which is fucking hilarious).

R64, R65, I knew someone would bring that up because this DL after all!

I was asked a simple question and decided to give a simple answer without going into a dissertation on the subject of which I have my own opinions.

Yes a handsome Italian at work. I mentioned that there were two types of guys I never had sex with, and Arab and an Italian. Like the other posters, he said the wife and kids were out of town that weekend, how about coming over. I made excuses and I am glad I did. He was not there professionally for me when he should have been, and it was no loss to me when he left the company.

[quote]I never thought about "masculine" before DL. Or "STR8" (which is fucking hilarious).

What gay man hasn't given a thought to masculinity or femininity?

The reason I asked about it is because I was trying to understand R53's situation somehow. If he was a femme little twink it would be a bit different if he was a muscled jock. Or not.

I've had many het guys as friends and like someone said earlier at least some straight guys do miss being more open with other men. Straight man role is rigid and grim for some.

[quote]These are the sexual orientations on Datalounge:

[quote]Gay

[quote]Straight but has sex with men

[quote]by: That's it

[quote]What gay man hasn't given a thought to masculinity or femininity?

I never heard of men referring to themselves as "masculine" in public or out loud. Doesn't mean they were or weren't. The subject never came up. I never thought about who was or wasn't. Guys were just Brian. Or Frank. Or Paul. Or Michael (lots of Michaels).

I have had lots of friends over the course of my lifetime, or just known a lot of gay men who knew a lot of other gay men, and I don't recall anyone ever describing anyone else as either "masculine" or "feminine." We would refer to things like hair color, or whether someone was built, or some part of their story we knew. I don't recall ever describing someone as "masculine" or "effeminate" in all the years I've been alive. The closest I can think of is "she opens her mouth and a purse falls out."

This leads me to think this "masculine" business is a millennial obsession.

R72 again.

We used to share info about each other's dick sizes a lot.

that never happened OP !!!

Is it true that straight men don't wipe well?

As much as we do, think about, plan, suffer with, whine about ... what else .. gay sex, we sure seem not to understand it at all sometimes. There is a difference between being a homosexual and committing a homosexual sex act. There is another dimension, an emotional one, to our lives that straight men do not have.

For them, it's all about physical pleasure. For heaven's sake, they fuck sheep too, yknow.

One thing I like about doing a straight guy, even though it may be pretty extreme and sometimes crazy, they almost never experience any regret or guilt at all.

Thrice

Yes, my cousin's husband, and it totally took me off guard. She was out of town and he called me, and said he had a problem he would like to discuss.. I went to his house, and he answered the door in cut off Daisy Duke shorts and no shirt, and I didn't suspect anything (yes, I was that stupid) until he told me his 'problem' was that he was thinking about having sex with a man. He thought he would like me to be his first one. As tempting as it was (he was hot), I said I couldn't help him and left. We never spoke again.

I essentially only have straight men and none of them have ever asked a dude for sex

yes i have a few years back a new neighbor moved in next door , over time we got friendly and last summer we were out back drinking beers and sunning both in just underwear he started to get hard and joked he needed a blow job to go soft and would i be a good freind and help him out i sid no problem as i swallowed his hardening cock. it didn't take long before i heard hiom moaning and next thing i knew he was shooting a huge load

Gay sex is just like being black. Hear me out. If you experiment, enjoy it sometimes, then you are gay. Similar to the one drop rule, all bi-racial people are black; one black parent makes all descendants black. There are no limits to preserve the sacredness of white heteronormativity. Its the greatest invention of all time.

Yes quite often in college and grad school on PC elite campuses. But really, how straight are they. Even if they are just experimenting they are bi or gay or UBER gay for the time they are fucking with a man.

Yeah. I have a married guy who tries to get to my girl friends but I've sucked him off a couple of times in the process

A str8 guy will pork a sister only when stinkfish are unavailable, such as military or prison situatias.

Straight means opposite-gender sexual relations only.

If a dude asks another dude for sex, he's either gay, bi or bi-curious.

Yes, there are some heterosexually oriented men, or woman-oriented men, who dabble with men, becoming bisexual thereafter.

Just try to use accurate and specific terminology. Identify both a person's varied activities and the gender he's primarily oriented to.

You'll just confuse and enrage people if you don't.

I've never had a straight guy 'come out' and ask for sex, but I've blown a number of guys who are married to women. The married man with young kids is an easy market they're usually horny and sexually frustrated with the tired wife who doesn't put out because they're focused on the kids.

Yeah. I have a married guy who tries to get to my girl friends but I've sucked him off a couple of times in the process

HOT!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah he is. He's a real pussy hound and gets a lot of action but settles for a broblow from me when he strikes out. We never talk about it afterwards though he did say I suck better than any of his women.

I only date and hook up with straight guys. They are hot.

A man who is blown by another man or tops another man is at least bi. There is no way he is straight. This is some bizarre OCD so many gay men have with hooking up with a straight man.

I think they're transgender, personally R90.

"I'm thinking about it."

That part made me laugh.

"Straight guy asking to have sex with a man"="Closet case asking to have sex with a man"

I'm 56, 5'11", 280lbs, balding, and I look 24 and twink'ish. Str8 dudes are always wanting me.......

I was waiting at a bus stop once when a bus on another route pulled up. There was lots a traffic so the bus was there a while.

After a few seconds I was surprised to see a big dick pop out one of the bus windows. A guy was standing next to the window and he was almost pressed up against the side of the bus so I guess he decided to have a windy bus ride.

I contemplated the dick for a moment, thrn took a quick snapshot with my phone. I then stepped into the road and right up to the side of the bus. I reached out to touch the dick. I saw through the crack in the window the guys eyes widen as I took the head of his dick in my hand. I gently caressed it for a few moments but then the bus pulled away. I watched as my bus dick drove away in traffic, wagging gently left and right, and shocking the middle aged, pink haired crossing guard.

I mention this because I think the guy may have been straight.

For R95

If only the bus hadn't pulled away. He was super, super excited and just a few more strokes and I think he would have come like a freight train. I think the bus driver was a homophobe.

These threads are pretty funny. Not sure why defining the sexuality of people you don't know is of the utmost importance to so many DLers.

As someone said upthread, there are homosexual acts and homosexuals. Does engaging in a couple of homosexual acts in an otherwise heterosexual life make you a bisexual? Maybe. But who cares.

The thread is about guys who were leading a straight life--what their actual sexuality was is sort of beside the point.

The R98's who post here are pretty funny too.

Yes, two Senators and three Congressmen.

So many straight guys ask me for sex I'm beefing up my moves and my crew with Nate Diaz

Straight guys don't go looking for gay sex. Do you queens post this shit to infuriate the self-aware clear thinkers here and to foist your fantasies and the self-hatred that motivates them on the rest of us? Why?

The only way you're getting gay sex out of a straight guy is if you overpower him and force it upon him. Which means you'll have to be a top, which isn't my impression of gay guys that fantasize about sex with straight guys.

He's not straight, OP.

Not.

Straight.

And bullshit to you R102. In my experience a horney human male will likely get it where ever he can. Especially if he is younger and/or has had somr alcohol in him. Yes there are 100% heteros and homos. But, most of us are somewhere in between.

Why is it so important to you people to claim these guys are not straight?

Maybe they're bi. Maybe they're bi curious. Maybe they're just horny.

Why does DL have so many resident sexologists on here who can positively affix labels on people they've never met.

Seriously, what's in it for you to claim these guys can't be straight? Does it increase the number of gays which gives us more power?

Read "The Dreyfus Affair" by Peter Lefcourt.

R105 cool read and have done so myself a couple of times in the past ;)

I'm only interested in bi or down low dudes

When alcohol was involved. Some don't care who blows them.

Straight guys don't ask other guys to have sex with them. Gay guys do. Bi-sexual guys do. But straight guys don't. Lesson to be learned in the Datalounge.

"Why is it so important to you people to claim these guys are not straight?"

Why is it so important to YOU to claim that there are "straight" guys who have seek out sex with other men? Straight men don't DO that. You remind me of Roy Cohn; he went to his grave denying he was gay. He died of AIDS but said he had liver cancer. I guess he was one of these "straight" guys who like sex with other men.

I never said they were straight R110.

I said I have no idea what their sexuality is. They could be closet cases or they could be curious or anything in between.

My question is why you needed to hijack a thread that was mostly a sexual fantasy and assign orientation to people you don't know.

You Olds are too much sometime. The War is over. We won. Deal.

Guy I work with...I am out he is married. He is 51 but has an amazing body. We were in DC for training and we went to dinner that night at a whiskey bar place. I don't drink so I told him he can drink I am DD. He knocked back a few and I drove back to the hotel. He wanted to go to the hotel bar, he had a couple more. At the hotel bar he asked he got personal about my sex life. I asked right back and he went into the usual about how married life sucked and he was lucky to get it once a month. I told him that was a shame since he was in such good shape. He laughed and asked if I was coming on to him. I laughed, told him no I was sober, but if I had a few in me I might - he laughed and said "then order a drink" I looked at him and said "finish your drink, I am on the 3rd floor, you are on the 8th. If you are serious get off on my floor, if not go to bed." We got to the 3rd floor, he held the door looked at me, and got off. We got to my room and I kissed him hard. When the clothes came off whoof he was ripped and had a big ole dick. He came in 5 minutes a huge fucking load but I was not done with him. I flipped him and ate his ass and he had a come to jesus rebirth of a hard on. I lubed him up and guided him in. He fucked me like a champ....He fell asleep in my bed, I heard him creep out around 5 am. Next day it was like nothing happened and I never mentioned it again.

"You Olds are too much sometime. The War is over. We won. Deal."

You Retards are too much sometimes. There was no "War." "Deal" yourself, poor little retard.

Thanks R112 for posting what the thread is about

Retard is not a PC word R113

We call you mentally challenged or differently abled these days.

Do you still refer to Obama as "that Negro president"

R112 got hard but did not cum ....yet... next...

That's who these guys are R110. That is the truth.

People who use "retard" as an insult or otherwise are repugnant

I am a masculine, "non-stereotypical" gay top (hate my wording if you wish) and I have had sex with many "straight" men that I met through my job or as acquaintances of friends or at work-related functions. They were all super hot (duh, why else??) and always curious. I can't vouch for how 100% straight any of them were - all were at the very least bi. Most wanted oral (his ass eaten, his dick sucked or to suck my cock) and a few wanted to be fucked anally. Pretty much every guy was a super hot fuck. Most don't happen more than once. Despite trying to never spill the beans - often someone else outs their behavior and of course - then you never hear from them again. Just savor that plump, bubble butt while you can and enjoy the moment - I sure have..

[quote]I only date and hook up with straight guys. They are hot.

It's always the old ones that say this.

Yeah, senior year of high school, our football team's QB asked me for mutual oral and I declined. He was gorgeous, think young Robert Redford. Always regretted it.

Well, they *say* they're straight. The worst example I can give is a Muslim Pakistani guy who after cumming twice decided to show me the picture of his young white wife in a hijab smiling and reclining on a bed with her new born child. He was proud...I was horrified.

Fap fap fap

This Again

Straight -identified dudes flirt with me all the time, especially at sports bars, sometimes even while playing sports. However, I am not a hook-up or casual sex type, so flirting is good enough for me. I can be satisfied through flirting alone

I dated a straight guy for almost a year and he cheated on me with another guy.

I only attracted to straight and macho bi dudes

"they moved away shortly thereafter" <-- Frauen get frightened at these things, OP. If frau wasn't there, you would have been in that ass in no time.

"Straight" guys who seek sex with other men are closeted homosexuals. Duh, I say DUH!

I've messed around with a few of my female friends' boyfriends. One was in 2005 when I was 18. One was in 2012. One temporarily ruined a friendship, and the other never found out that I know of. A few of my "straight" street-pharmacists, too. I dunno which end of the earth you guys live on, but all of my gay friends around my age have a gazillion stories like this. However they work those identities out is their business. They have wives and girlfriends and kids and live as straight men...and sometimes they want to stick their dicks in men's mouths and arseholes. It's the 90's...

It's the 90's? huh?

Has anyone ever asked one of these "straight" guys why they want to fuck / be fucked by other men if they're so straight? It's ridiculous. If you're sexually active with another man you're not straight. You're bi or gay but you're not, by ANY definition, straight.

You are a jerk for messing with your friends' boyfriends

r133 I know. I didn't feel good about it then and I don't now....but it happened. That's life. I wouldn't do it again. I really am trying to grow up.

dozens and dozens

r112 here my guy is married, kids..I mean his wife is sort of heavy but he keeps his body in shape. To this day we pretend it never happened and are still friendly. I am hoping he goes on my San Diego conference this year....

I've also been with a couple of the gfs' bfs when everyone was fucking everyone in highschool.... girls don't understand what "big" means. So.... don't get curious if you hear any rumours about their boyfriend's piece, because they're basically lying about it. kind of a disappointment and then you have to deal with the aftermath. Superficial and true.

R132, why in the world would someone challenge his soon-to-be sex partner's sexual identity? Some things are left unspoken when it comes to sex...

Hmmmm

It's not challenging anyone's sexual identity to ask them why they lie r138. If you're a man who fucks other men you aren't straight. That's just how it is. I also said "these", meaning all the gay or bi guys pretending to be straight discussed on this thread not just that one instance. It's just a straight up lie to claim to be heterosexual when you are clearly not. It's like a dwarf claiming to be 6'4".

Who cares dude?

Agree with R130. A lot of gay guys have stories of having sex with straight guys or guys who live a straight life. A lot of the married guys just want their dick sucked without any hassles.

I think if I asked them why they lie, then they may not come back for more.

Anyway, I don't really care why, I've got enough problems of my own...

Yeah, challenging someone's self identity is a sure way to start an argument, if not a fight

Bffh

We have several ponds on our farm and I am an acid fisherman. Often I will have friends, mostly straight men, over to fish and eat what we catch. Over the years this has lead to two or three mutual JO sessions, one oral encounter, and one ending with me topping the guy. I remain friends with them all. Alcohol was involved in all cases. They all identified as straight.

I take people as they present themselves when it comes to these things. The logical compromise is to agree to call these men 'ostensibly straight' though that's hard to say with a dick in your mouth.

I call them socially straight...

Straight guys have cocks. Cocks get horny. Horny cocks are sometimes not too picky and are able and willing to cum without a stinkfish present. After all, straight guys jerk off thousands of times using their MALE hands...

Never

It's really strange that in my fairly wide circle of friends and acquaintances I don't know a single "Gold Star Gay". Every one of us have fucked women. Some have been married. Some have kids. Yet all now identify as 100% gay. These guys are in their 40's and 50's. Anyone who says they perfectly understand human sexuality doesn't.

When I was a cute young thing, I was surprised how many apparently straight (with girlfriends or wives, maybe kids) would try to work some angle to get me alone, mainly for a non-reciprocal blow job. Before I learned a bit more self-respect, I'd go for it. But I had some very passionate sex with some of those otherwise straight guys, too.

Hmmm

NEWS FLASH:

If a straight guy asks another guy (either a straight or gay guy) to have sex, then the straight guy is not straight... HE'S BI.

^ Because if he was really straight he wouldn't be asking a gay guy to have sex.

I recently met up with a "straight" guy that I think might have had a girlfriend. Anyway, we mutually jack each other off then I give him head and finger him a bit. Before long he starts fingering me. I didn't prepare for this so when he pulled out of my ass he had shit on his finger. He didn't see it until I pointed it out so that he wouldn't get any on his dick, which he started jacking again. Once he saw my brownies the mood was killed, and he very kindly hinted that I leave.

So gurls the moral of the story is to clean out your back door before playing with...well anyone.

[quote] When I was a cute young thing, I was surprised how many apparently straight (with girlfriends or wives, maybe kids) would try to work some angle to get me alone

I just noticed this yesterday.

I walked into a Starbucks and there was this VERY cute, young barista/cashier being chatted up by a fairly decent looking "straight" guy.

The straight guy seemed really into the barista, but it was all under the pretense of a "business venture." I just walked in at the tail end of the conversation, but what was weird was that the straight guy ended it by saying, "I can see you're busy, so can I get your email or phone number, and we can talk later?"

The barista seemed kind of put off by the question (he really didn't seem to know what was going on), so he said "I don't really give out my phone number," to which the straight guy replied, "oh that's cool. Here, take my card and we can talk later."

The straight guy walked away and the barista looked at me with a slightly embarassed and slightly annoyed look on his face, which told me that he was uncomfortable with the whole exchange.

I was surprised at how brazen this "straight guy" was with his approach. I guess to him, it seemed like he was being discreet. But to the barista and myself, it was clear that he hitting on him.

I have to admit, though, that barista was seriously hot as fuck, so I don't blame the straight guy.

Interesting

OP, have I got a bridge for you!

"Cocks get horny."

No, people get horny. It starts in the mind.

All the time

back in college, a very drunken rugby player had gotten it into his head that gay guys give better head than women, and kept proposing a 3-way with his completely horrified girlfriend.

at one point he got me alone in the bathroom, and i remember looking in the mirror and thinking: “of all the college rugby players to shove me in a bathroom, lock the door and push me against the wall, pull out his dick and beg for a blowjob... did it have to be this guy?”

i eventually climbed into bed with him because that was the only way his roommate could get him to go the fuck to bed, and listened to him ramble until he passed out, then went home.

i wouldn’t have blown that d-bag even if he didn’t have a girlfriend.

Uh huh.

also in college, a good female friend of mine dated a cop for a few months. when he was sober he was straight as an arrow, but when he got drunk he’d flirt with me, just joking i thought.

a group of us went out on thursday to the local trashy dance club (it’s a college town), and he kept drunkenly grabbing my head, pointing at his cheek and pickering his lips. i was wasted, hugged him and told him a wished i could meet a gay guy like him (true, he was exactly my type), and he grabbed my hand and stared rubbing it on his crotch.

i wouldn’t do anything because i was good friends with his girlfriend, and the next day it was like nothing happened.

don’t be jealous, r162

I used to work in a mailroom at a tax and finance software company and for a while there was a courier who would stop to deliver and pick up items. He and I eventually started talking about sex and I told him I was gay and he told me he lived with his girlfriend, whom he described as having a "nice, soft bottom". Before long he asked me if I was interested in having a threesome, which, even with my liberal approach to sex talk even in the work place, rather amazed me. I told him I would think about it but the answer would probably be no since having a woman in bed with us would make me pretty uncomfortable. I could not figure him out or what he was proposing and was kind of suspicious of the whole thing. Soon after that he was assigned to another route and never saw him again which was kind of a relief in a way, but I guess that would qualify although he was probably bi.

Yeah, I know what you mean, OP. Gay men want to fuck me all the time. I'm a woman. They say they like sex with women so much better than with men because there's less posing and bullshit. They also cum much harder. In fact the last 20 guys I've fucked were all gay gay gay. I believe all your fantasy talk even though others don't.

Many times. Mostly in college. I heard a few times that they wanted to experiment with me only. I was flattered and disappointed.

Yeah, but only in a light manner. Nothing serious

NEWS FLASH If the men aren’t sexually attracted to men, they’re NOT closeted/bi or whatever. The sex would be no different than using a sex toy.

[quote]and the earth is round

It's actually spherical, r11.

it’s more of a pear-shape these days.

Straight men don't have sex with men.

[quoteStraight men don't have sex with men.

Your mother was a woman with no common sense.

When I was in my 20's I liked going to the gay porn theaters and bathhouses in NYC there were lots of straight married men in both places some even wore their wedding rings or forgot to take them off. There was plenty of married somewhat straight men to be had.

All the time.

"Have a straight guy ever asked you to have sex?"

In college, every guy who wanted to "experiment" would eventually hit on any guy who was openly gay. I eventually came up with this phrase: "I'm sorry, but my body is for advanced gays only. Beginners need not apply." Unfortunately, but the time I thought that up, I was already known as having a "bad attitude" towards straight men. Like the price of me being gay was to make them feel good about it, one way or another. No thanks.

Anyway, back then in my experience, most guys would lead up to the question and I already knew how to nip that conversation in the bud.

It still surprises me that any gay man thinks a straight guy is worth having. I definitely grew up in an anti-gay environment, and I suppose there is a feeling that having sex with a straight guy is some kind of validation. But the chance that the sexual encounter would be disappointing is just so high. And don't get me started on a straight guy's ego. That is just noise I don't want to listen to.

R8. Yes! Were you in the military, too?

R170. It’s kind of pear shaped at times, but you know that seasonal weight is really hard to lose. Honestly, you think it’s easy to meet another planet when you’re over a billion? Sure you can pass for 900 million. Good luck on hooking up and making a binary system before your star goes nova. Jiggety. Boom.

They treat you like a piece of meat.

R29 was born in 1918. Who gives a fuck about the kinsey scale, fossil.

LOL! These guys are not straight, but BI!

No straight guy would get hard fucking a guy.

I'm still surprised at how many of those who posted (and on other threads) about bi guys or guys who say they are straight. From my standpoint, it doesn't matter to me. If someone, who I find attractive and is interesting, wants to have sex. We have sex. I'm not living their life, but I do like sex.

I've had sex with "straight" men on occasion who have asked me, in their own awkward sort of way. One kept taking about a guy who propositioned him at a party. He kept talking about him then I asked what he would do if this guy was here in our hotel room (long story about why we were in a hotel room together, but not relevant). He said he wasn't sure, so I took it as a "yes" and started playing with him. He said he never gave head to a guy, but he sure knew what he was doing. We're still friends to this day. (He is now married to a woman and seems very happy.) Another guy and I used to hang around together on Saturdays while his wife studied for her masters. One day, after a bit of drinking, he dropped his pants and asked me if I'd like to fuck him. We did. He, by the way, got divorced from her over the next few months and we sucked and fucked for the next year or so. He is now re-married too but I haven't seen him in years. Most recently a guy wanted me to fuck him, said he was bi, and we hooked up for about a year on and off. I know I'm a bit of a slut, but for me, sex is sex. It has nothing to do with a person's sexual orientation or marriage status (none of my business). Does it bother me that they are married? No it doesn't. That is their concern, not mine.

R182 - yeah, I don’t understand what is so difficult. The vast minority of people are 0s or 6s on the Kinsey scale so the idea that a straight guy could be attracted to another guy but generally is attracted to women should not be hard to grasp. I identify as gay but I find women sexually attractive if they have certain characteristics.

"Nature abhors discrete categories" [Kinsey]

I was obliquely propositioned once by a much older, fat, and ostensibly straight cabdriver in Dublin after we'd chatted for about 40 minutes. I pretended to be oblivious.

Some years later, another late-middle-aged taxi driver, late at night, told me I was his last fare of the day and mumbled something about supposing I would "want to take him home with me now." I ignored what he said, paid him, and quickly exited.

R112 are you for real you ate him out? After dinner, drinking, etc. there is no way that ass was even remotely clean... ewwww. Mary!

What a sad, limited existence R9 leads.

R150 what is your point? I am 52 and a 'gold star'-- your scientific study is ridiculous and you're no less gay than me because you tried to convince yourself that sleeping with a woman would make you straight.

I know a guy, divorced twice, working on a third fiance; he's CONSTANTLY making gay jokes, ha ha; oh, he's so gay friendly!

And then flares of anger shoot out of him over seemingly nothing.

In five years or whenever he comes out, I'm going to say: nobody's surprised.

A straight guy is good to find. I rarely turn them down even if I do all the work in bed.

Surely this will become more common as the stigma against homosexuality lessens. Men are pigs, a hole's a hole. In prison, straight men down an available hole just because it's male.

R191 In prison it’s more about dominance and control rather than love

They liked to get drunk, get rimmed, and get out. They match so quickly on tinder only to unmatch even quicker

R193 Of course they don’t respect you if you are a rimmer.

R192 says the bitch who obviously has never been to prison. Its all about sex,dear. They are horny,they want to fuck,youre available,yall fuck.Its just that simple. Im sure the dominance issue might play in a few cases,but mostly its just testosterone.

Worst six minutes of my life.

R40. Please stand by for our operator. Your’ve won a special award! Your’e the STUPIDEST POSTER IN THE HISTORY OF THE INTERNET!. What the Barbra Streisand was that load of crap? I’ve seen more sexual awareness on a Bazooka Joe comic. Seriously. Shut up. You’re clearly a virgin, a frau or both. I’m betting BOTH.

There have been a few straight identified guys over the years. Some I would classify as Bi, Curious, or just horny. I've talked about a few of them before but I'll go over it again.

1. Josh My age: 18-19 His age: 18-19 My best friends husband at the time, Admittedly, even to her had been with two guys before. He had a porn star dick 10 3/4 x 6 and not afraid to whip out a ruler to prove it. She didn't like trying to give him head and could never deep throat him. She one night made the statement that it was fine with her if I took that over. Looking back I think it was a joke, I wasn't working at the time and he worked an overnight shift at a grocery store and she worked an office job during the day. I lived on their couch for weeks, We'd cycle through his parents, her parents and my parents houses to eat. A couple months after her (probable) joke. he woke me up, not for the first time, with his hard dick hovering over my face. This particular morning I went for it. Before it was all said and done he taught me all about taking dick down the throat and up the ass . I moved for school and we'd still fuck around when I visited home, He left her for some butch redneck bitch. about a month before my mom died and I moved back home. He's probably fucked countless rednecks since then. Classification: Bisexual, Heteromantic.

2 Danny My age: 22 His age: 34 I moved home after my Mom died to be with my father (I was an only child) and Danny was one of the first friends I made at my job. We hung out a lot and I he had me come and meet his ex-wife who was my age. He was still desperately in love with her and was trying to make it work between between them. a few nights later I get a call from her saying that she'd taken my number from his phone (flip phone days) and proceeded to talk for three hours about how he and I should be together, how he's always been attracted to guys etc. etc. It felt like the plot of a cheap independent gay film. I told him about the call and he explains to me that he'd told her most of this when they were married and she'd kept wanting to watch him with a guy, but that he just couldn't do it. Fast forward a month or two later we're at his house and doing some coke, our inhibitions get lowered and we fuck around. Now the sexiest thing about this guy is that he's 6'6" tall. His face resembles a potato and his dick is disappointingly average. but he's fun to fuck around with and I get to explore bondage in both dom and sub roles with someone I trusted. We probably fucked 20 times or so. then things just kind of end and we go back to being friends. No, we never fucked in front of his ex. He claims that I was the first and only guy and that if we hadn't been so close he never would have experimented. Classification - Somewhere between curious and bisexual.

3. Andy My age: 24 His age ~27

I vaguely knew Andy from him being older than me in the same school system. He's maybe 5"5"tall fit-fat and arrogant. He's dating my cousin's best friend. My cousin and said friend are Christmas shopping an hour away and I'm at her house because my father has started dating and I can't stand the woman who will eventually become my step mother and I've been crashing at her house every weekend to avoid the situation at home. He shows up at like one and I don't expect them until around three. I'm already planning on getting fucked that afternoon with a guy I'd met on campus. He decides to stay until they get there. He pulls out an 8-ball and cuts out lines. I decline and keep working on my laptop. He's on the couch and I'm 6 feet away in a recliner. A little while later he says "You're gay, what do you think of this?" I look up and he's pulled a rather thick dick of only about 5" out his fly I look back at the computer and say "It's a shame you're straight, I like thick dicks" to which he replied "It's only gay if I'm the one sucking the dick."

Will Continue

R198 Omg do continue

Well, a guy who "claimed" to be straight at the time contacted me on line to have sex, of course he was gay, I knew he was gay but he claims that he didn't know it at the time. He claimed women intimidated him but since guys didn't intimidated him it was just easier to have sex with guys.

We became friends and he is an out gay man today, we are still good friends.

I was seeing this straight guy weekends when his kids used to visit and sleep over. He was divorced. We slept in separate rooms until the kids fell asleep. Then he would sneak into my room for sex. Nice big cock and randy as hell.

I've had a few straight dudes ask me. Almost all of them wanted a BJ. One guy didn't want interactive sex but told me he wanted to have a guy watch him stroke and blast all over that guy's face, and asked me if I'd watch him. He was an assistant coach for one of the teams (fuck if I know which one) at the university I lived near, and was a sexy, short, wiry guy who was super furry so I mean, yeah, I watched.

Of the others....there might have been 4 or 5 over the years? Two at conferences, because that's just an invitation for straight/married men to hunt for sex. One was a neighbor, one was a coworker, one was a friend of a friend. Most were one time things, but the neighbor was a repeat thing, as was the showoff.

OP, you didn't use enough quotation marks. Here you go:

"""""""straight""""""""

Once this Muslim guy wanted me to blow him. His wife wouldn’t do it or he was afraid to request for religious reasons

What isn't always acknowledged is that men can get excited by gay sex without actually being physically or sexually attracted to men. It's the acts that attract them. Whether these men qualify as straight or "straight" is up for debate.

Ultimately, the only thing that matters is where your strongest emotional loyalties lie, who your longest-lasting relationships have been with.

I was already horny so I jumped at the opportunity, I sucked him for awhile, then he power fucked me, which I didn't realize how badly I needed. Afterwards he got into the shower with me and insisted that I was him so that my cousins friend wouldn't smell my ass on his dick. I knew at that moment that I would never fuck with him again for love nor money. No repeat was ever offered though and Now he both sells insurance and works weekends as a metal fabricator, he's married with four kids. Classification - will stick is dick in anything if he's horny.

4. Jon Both 32 at the time. Former co-worker recently divorced contacted me about working on his laptop. He'd tried to get me to suck his dick when we were working together so I knew he wasn't totally straight. Another short one, abut 5'7" When he came by the house to drop it off he was suggestive and since he wasn't married anymore I was game. (it'd been a dry spell) I told him I'd have it the next day and he told me that he might have something else he needed me to help him out with (something he'd said while rubbing himself when he worked together) The next day he surprised me with his girth, it wasn't a soda can but it's probably the closest I'll ever see Length was maybe around 6" It seemed disproportionate. in height to girth ratio. It'd been a long time since I'd had a thick one and bottoming for an average girth penis does little to nothing for me. I couldn't get it into my throat when he was hard. bottoming took a lot of foreplay at first. He was a redneck type and probably the most fun I'd ever had. We fucked not only in the house but on the toolbox of his truck literally 30 ft from the interstate behind some trees, in a deer stand, a deer blind. he was big on getting road head while driving down bumpy dirt roads. His ass was completely off limits though and he had the kind of ass that was made for pelvises to bounce off of. Anyway I never let him fuck me without a condom. One Thursday we're fucking on my bed doggy style, I reached under me to play with his balls and when I pulled them back I touched the condom on top of the bed, he'd pulled it off. I told him to stop and he responded by sticking both forefingers in my mouth and pounding until he came. I ran him off and was scared I got something from him for months. Anyway I found out the following Saturday that he'd gotten married. He literally got engaged to and was planning a wedding with a woman I didn't know existed during the time we were fucking. After I knew that I did't get anything from him when he decided to stealth me the situation appealed to me enough to use it as masturbation fodder (I do enjoy playing sub after all). but when that marriage fell apart a couple of years later he contacted me I declined. Classification: Asshole bisexual in denial.

Continued again....

5 John My age: 37 His age: 43 An electrical contractor working on a project at my work, where I'm obviously very out. He had a checkered past and has only been out of prison for two years after a five year stint on a drug charge, not educated by any means, but a dad bod that still gets my attention when I see him. I guess I was giving off that vibe because he approached me about messing around. Slightly above average dick, better length than girth. But overall something primal in me just finds his body amazing, he's reasonably fit and shows no signs of ever being over weight, but it's like just more fatty tissue behind his pecs that just makes them succulent for lack of a better word he's also got nice even coat of chest hair that's not took thick or too patchy. I spent hours just exploring his body with my hands and tongue. I finally got him to let me top and I made a slow intensely orgasmic production out of it stimulating his nipples cock and balls while rubbing his prostate with my dick while he came. I have no doubt that it was the most intense orgasm of his life. Which is why I think he freaked out I didn't' speak to me for a few weeks. When he finally messaged me he insisted that he bottoming was a one time thing and kept insinuating that I missed his dick. I fucked around with him one more time but I didn't enjoy it after everything that had transpired, so I deleted him from my snapchat. We still make conversation when we're near each other, but I'll be glad when the new building is finished and I won't see him every day. Classification: Rough trade who never considered that his ass might be the key to great sex.

All of these men identify as straight. and frankly I don't completely disagree with them. None of them seemed to form romantic attachments to men in the same way that they do with women. They're just not afraid of sex with other men.

So if we're going to label someone with one set of words; Gay, Straight and Bisexual. Let's not define that label by who they're capable or have enjoyed having sex with. Lets just label them by who they want to spend the rest of their lives with. In the cases of all of the above, they enjoyed sex with men in some form or other, but they fell romantically in love with women. So by that definition they were "straight"

I personally don't care what anyone calls them. I enjoyed myself with all of them at some point and was never foolish enough to catch feelings that they weren't capable of returning.

[quote]Straight guys don't ask other men to have sex with them. And the sky is blue and the grass is green and the sun is hot and the earth is round.

Thank you for bringing some reason, truth and REALITY to this thread.

R198 Are you femme ? Is that why straight guys are attracted to you ?

I thought they were straight until they said they "wondered what it would feel like to get fucked".

[quote]I moved for school and we'd still fuck around when I visited home

Not straight. The "experiment" and continuing episodes prove that. Straight is just a one time thing and then sworn off of men because it was just an experiment.

Getting fucked is considered more ‘straight’ than sticking your dick in a man

[quote]Getting fucked is considered more ‘straight’ than sticking your dick in a man

In what universe is this true?

R213 For one thing, You don’t even have to get hard

[quote]For one thing, You don’t even have to get hard

That just means his dick isn't thick enough for the plumbing.

R209 I'm actually pretty middle of the road. Some people say that they wouldn't have known if they weren't told and I usually call bullshit. I'm 6'1 and have never been thin. I'm more bearish now, but was always at least 10-20 lbs overweight, though I carry it well. I don't have gay voice, But it's not a particularly low voice either. I think the biggest thing is attitude. I'm pretty GGG (savageism) and understand that sex is just sex. Sometimes funny mishaps happen. sometimes a lover gets overly excited and cums before things get started good. I just roll with the punches. Romance is one thing, but most of the time sex is just people having fun and satisfying primal urges with one another. I"m also very open to talking about sex with most anyone. I'll answer any questions that straight people have to the best of my knowledge and am very frank with telling straight friends how boring and unimaginative their sex lives are. It's not always well received. But I'm always up to giving advice on how to change things up a bit.

I have always tired to have an aire of sex positivity about me. Maybe it's just natural or maybe it's from working in my cousin's adult novelty store near an army base. but I'm usually able to put people at ease on the subject of sex, and I think that has a lot to do with men who've identified as straight being comfortable with me.

Only fraus obsess with absolutes. Men have a lot of sex they don’t tell women about, and fraus love to deny it happens. But, men do have sex with other men - even if it’s just out of curiosity.

Who do you think cruise the men’s room at the Macy’s? It’s not the gay guys. It’s the straight, married guys. Depending on where you live, like Florida where they get a certain titillation out of this, those arrest reports are in the local papers.

The bullshit idea that “if a guy has sex with a guy, he’s gay or bi” is just stupid and straight out the 1950s. I’ve fucked a lot of straight guys when I was in the military who just enjoyed the feeling of getting fucked but had zero emotions for guys. Some had tried pegging with women who just couldn’t figure out the right rhythm, didn’t give a shit how to get the guy off or turned it into “all about me”.

Listen up Vagbags: men have orgasms in their rectums, too. For a lot of men, getting fucked feels awesome, gives them multiple orgasms and they can shoot gigantic loads too. Hey, they don’t have to listen to you whine, buy you jewelry or hear about the latest argument with your mother. When I’m doing it to them, I’m essentially an animitronic dildo banginig them out. That’s all they want.

One guy would intentionally not come while I was fucking him because he’d go straight home and fuck his wife because this seriously turned him on that much. He’d plow her right into the mattress. So, win-win-win.

[quote]adult novelty store near an army base

There's your reason.

[quote]I'm pretty GGG (savageism)

You must be from a small town, like me.

Yep R218 I'm from a county of only about 10,000 people. about about 35 from the base in one direction and 25 from a major state university in the other direction. Though admittedly I'm an hour from a medium sized city and spent a large portion of my childhood there.

Though I wasn't sexually active when I worked at my cousin's store. I was only 17 when she opened it and I would work after school and on the weekends Though, technically I wasn't old enough to be. This was 1998 and the internet was still dial-up in most areas and I'd read about the types of items we stocked online. One time we ended up with two sets of sounds and my cousin and her sister were horrified when I explained what they were for. I did the sale on both of them after explaining sterilization the need for surgical lubricant and rubber gloves and explaining that these weren't things you just had someone else use on you until You'd worked with them yourself. Most of the customers were actually the G.I. Husbands. My cousin thought that a deployment would be lucrative with the lonely wives. Turns out they just fuck the other available men then we'd sell cases of shrink cream when it was time for the guys to come back home. The husbands were more interested in spicing things up than the wives. Josh was the first guy I had sex with, so I knew a lot about sex for a long time before actually engaging in it. It was easier to talk to the guy who worked on the weekends than the two women who were there during the day, and I didn't have a problem with telling them things like "If you want good quality restraints, go to stockroom.com or if you want great gags of different varieties then checkout Mr. S. Leather online, They're expensive but they'll last longer than this pleather crap we sell. (We were the only novelty store in town.) I've always been very fetish friendly.

Military types are always kinky.

Just ask my cousin (military) and her husband (military) about how they turned an old English wooden desk into a spanking table.

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Ladies, straight men don't have gay sex.

Your delusion and self-loathing is sad.

R217 Then, how do you explain the other hetero dudes who don’t have sex with their male buddies? Aren’t they also looking for an “orgasm in their rectum”?

I sucked off my hetero room mate at boarding school in 1998, on his drunken request. He liked it but it was really awkward after because he was a homophobe.

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a straight guy asked me for money for a BJ once. I turned him down

Uh huh

"He liked it but it was really awkward after because he was a homophobe."

He wasn't a homophobe, just a deeply conflicted, self-hating, run-of-the-mill closet case. It's a classic textbook example.

[quote]Your delusion and self-loathing is sad.

Oh, dear.

R224 what happened after?

"Have a straight guy ever asked you to have sex?"

People ask stupid questions all the time.

Take the hint.

Great stories guys. Keep em coming! I’m straight but I have sex with guys two or three times a year.

Back around 1994, I had a friend in my university wind band who played tuba and was smoking hot. Sex on a stick. His name was Heath, and he had a beautiful body and hairy chest. He played basketball all the time, so he frequently wore loose shorts and tank tops. He was flirty and totally comfortable around me though he was a total pussy hound and knew I was gay. He always laughed at my jokes, even the dumb ones. A few times, he said if he were gay, he'd get with me so fast because I always made him laugh.

One night, I stopped in to see him at his job to show him the new car I'd just bought. We went for a short ride, and I drove toward my new apartment. I told him if he wanted a soda or a sandwich, I could stop in. When I turned off the car, he suddenly turned to me and said, "You know... even though I'm not into guys, I think I'd probably enjoy being on... the receiving end of... you know... if it were with you." Though I was so turned on from this that I started pre-cumming against my thigh, I said, "Forget it. I'm not blowing anyone who won't blow me back!" and we had a laugh, and I dropped him back off at his workplace.

A short time later, we were on tour with our university wind band and orchestra and were sharing a hotel room. After we got into the room, I stretched out on one of the two beds to take a nap, and then he started jumping around the room, shucking off his clothes. He said he was going to take a shower. Then, he just walked up to the side of my bed, buck naked, and started swinging his enormous cock back and forth in my face, laughing like a maniac. Jesus, it was a giant. Mouth-watering. Spectacular, and his balls were, too.

I was so conflicted. On one hand, I knew he was baiting me and would have been down for some action (although one-sided); I imagined him holding my head in his big hands while bucking his thick manhood mercilessly down my throat, not letting up until I'd swallowed his hot wad. However, on the other hand, I remembered all the skanky women I knew he was hooking up with and wondered if he might have an STD. Plus, his weird, random behavior reminded me of Kramer from "Seinfeld", so it wasn't exactly erotic but mostly just bizarre. I told him again that I'm not blowing anyone who won't blow me back, and then he turkey-slapped me with his cock and went into the bathroom to take his shower.

Fuck, I was so horny. I immediately jerked off there on the bed and was finishing up just as he was emerging from the shower. He knew I'd done it, and I guess I wanted him to know. I still had some cum on my hand, and with one eyebrow raised, I showed the cum to him before I licked it off and grinned. He said he was going out to try to hook up with the harpist from the orchestra and would be back later if he didn't get lucky.

I was asleep when he got back. The room was pitch-dark, as I'd closed the blackout curtain. When I awoke to pee, he was in my bed and was spooning me. I could smell that he'd been drinking. His cock was hard, and the heat that emanated from it against my ass was too much. He started rocking and gently pushing it against me. I finally decided what the hell, turned over, and went down on him. I sucked, licked, and swallowed him as if his meat were my last meal. It was the first and last time I'd ever had one that huge in my mouth, and when he finally blasted, his semen was so copious that I couldn't take it all. He didn't reciprocate, but he didn't mind when I used some lotion and thrust against his ass crack until I too came really hard. When we fell asleep, I was spooning him nude with my cock still softening between his ass cheeks.

It was only that one time, and we never spoke about it afterward. He soon got a Mormon girl pregnant and was coerced into marrying her by one of our professors. He's now almost unrecognizable to me... fat and ugly, bald, and has six kids. Mormon, Republican... yuck.

R233 We have heard this story before. Plagiarism.

Thanks, R233 Yes, I posted it on another thread a couple of days ago, but I realized I should have posted it on this one instead because the topic applied more closely to it.

Wish I had more stories to tell instead of duplicating the one I had, but I'm not all that experienced.

Almost all straight-living men I've had sex with who weren't script-obsessed closet cases have been open to anything and eager to try.

Once they're really turned on, if they didn't arrive that way, they take and give just like a gay guy does. Only usually with more passion and intensity.

I've only been the first male sex partner for six of them, that I knew of. They all were nervous. One couldn't get hard until I took him out for a walk and "normalized" the experience. (We did it in a park and he loved it. Public settings really get some guys off.) The others all approached me over time (coworkers and teammates) and in one way or another asked for it. Two were drunk at my door. All but one were married or living with a girlfriend.

In other situations the guys are more like cruising or ready-to-engage gay guys. Some are obviously guilty. If they are acting out dirty fantasy, consider gay sex to be a turn-on because it's wrong or nasty, or want role-playing of a kind I don't like, we don't continue. I'm always surprised at how many younger guys want a daddy relationship or situation. I'm happy to give them a sense of security and comfort and to be nurturing. I don't like the "I've been bad and you need to punish me" crap.

But I do admit that I have my own buttons. I know two brothers who were helping me with some landscaping and I got together with one of them. His brother was "gay-curious" and, while they never messed around with each other, the one I was seeing told his brother he should talk to me. And we started getting together, the three of us. They don't touch each other but I can see how they watch each other. It's weird and hot. They're from Argentina with Italian backgrounds. I keep feeling like I'm in a porn film.

The worst are mature men who've been carrying a yen for a long time but have been too scared to act on it. They're the ones with scenarios in their heads - first I need to do this, then they need to do that. A B C. And by D they have lost their erections and hear their phone buzz and they think of their wives. They lie about being married so it's always something. And they keep calling. Ugh. I can help a guy out but the "I'm so horny/I'm so ashamed/You're bad/I'm sorry/I'm so horny loop is too stupid. It's all about them. A sex partner is just a character in their heads.

Sorry to go on and on. I just think a lot more men are in that in-between place where the male love of sex, the power of hormones, the love of being daring and the pleasure of male company/companionship leads them to same-sex experiences even though they are mainly focused on women. Time and place have a lot to do with it.

He wanted me but he have not.

Perhaps a better title would be Has A Straight ACTING guy ever asked you to have sex.

Personally I despise the term “straight acting” r238. I wish we could just make a rule that “straight” always refers to self-identity when used on DL, and it’s always used loosely. It seems silly that we have to revisit this conversation over and over.

If one were to say straight looking and sounding gay guy-is that LESS offensive?

Just because a straight man compliments the way you look, it doesn't mean he's bi or wants to have sex with you. A lot of my coworkers, and strangers, have said I look "handsome, good, sharp, wow, I like that color on you, etc" and it didn't seem sexual. I did look good. lol

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Don't they automatically become bi if they have gay s x?

That is a controversial question

The preferred term now is “mostly straight.”